This life no balance...sex before marriage is not good, no sex before marriage nso problem...God have mercy on us 🙏🙏

@davorvanessa9419

Жыл бұрын

I tell you

@sweetnewsghana3776

Жыл бұрын

Check at the hospital before marrying , you don’t necessarily have to fornicate

@LifeasaDarko

Жыл бұрын

Y3bl3oo

The marriage is null and void. False pretence is a basis to leave at this early stage without any consequences. Just speak to a lawyer and have it struck out ASAP.

Nice show however, the presenter should allow her panelists to air their opinions and the panelists should be carefully selected by experience. They are far too young and inexperienced.

Please tell the first guy that, we as christians, we would follow the Bible, we would not leave some

@uni8380

Жыл бұрын

good fr u

@anthonyokpairepeters1992

Жыл бұрын

Did you just said we should not follow what the Bible says? It's clear you are not a Christian from your utterances.

Fantastic programme...however, the group of panelists are way too young and inexperienced to give sound advices or opinions on matters as weighty as the gentleman came to share.

@pach7282

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree

@kevinvena474

Жыл бұрын

💯

@patrickglory638

Жыл бұрын

African culture and the idea of “young”…

The presenter talks more than she listens and interjects too much. Good show. But the audience selection should be checked too…

We skip communication by assuming and filling in the blanks only to realize later that the other person or partner is not on the same journey with you. Hence, divorce and unhappiness

Miss Nancy, I love the show BUT please the panelists are too judgmental and can worsen the situation.

Awww Miss Nancy on TV3🥰🥰🥰Mehnnnnnnn I’ve been away for too long. I loved you and Giovanni wey back in GH1 on Duvet🥰 I’m glad u r in TV3 now

Please lets be realistic it takes a lot for a man to accept a woman with such a condition. The woman did not have any say in her condition but let it be proved that she made a mistake by keeping the man in the dark. It is hard to rebuild trust in a relationship after it has been damaged. She has sadly betrayed the confidence he had in her, and this might potentially end the relationship, even if the guy is to accept the woman as she is if he genuinely is in love with her. Once more, the host is prejudiced. She is the host and shouldn't appear to be taking a side; rather, she should be doing all she can to assist the people that come in to confess. Everyone has their preferences, thus the host's statement about getting "a taste of someone before marriage" is irrelevant. You cannot compel someone to act in a certain way. Who says a guy may marry a woman just because he engages in or witnesses sexual activity with her? Even though we live in a different day, the bible still holds true and plainly states that it is against the commandment to engage in fornication. The man's strong religious convictions should never be held against him for refusing to engage in sexual activity with the woman. Let's mainstream chastity and stop criticizing those who choose to live celibate lives! I've seen every episode, and while I think this program has a lot of potential, some of the characters including presenter and the counselor from the previous two episodes-can be rather critical and immature in their remarks.

@mawufemorgborglah6769

Жыл бұрын

Great suggestion 👌

@nanakwasinti3301

Жыл бұрын

Your point is well articulated but we as black people have taken to such an extreme point we let it control our every decision and refuse to think critically. Now the Bible says thy shall not divorce so what is he going to do? She didn’t need to even had sex with her. But they didn’t even talk about sex because of religion

@nanakwasinti3301

Жыл бұрын

If they had had a conversation about sex it could have revealed that.

@perpetualaranvi7845

Жыл бұрын

P0oppppppplllmlpllllllllll

The lady wasn't fair to the gentleman at all. Even bringing bible or religion doesn't bring any solution. Listening to the doctor, he doesn't even sound convincing. The situation can not be corrected to be that normal as its supposed to be. The parents of the girl had really caused her great harm. They should have sought for medical attention long ago. I would have backed out of this marriage cos it's full of deception. If I had an idea of it before, probably I will tune my mind or psych myself into what I will be facing in future and learn how to have intimacy with her in that condition. Well, may they find the right solution to this problem

Miss Nancy you really need to put me on this program for real

The lady should have told the guy the truth as a Christian If indeed he loves you he will accept you for who you are and find solutions Not after getting married before he finds out It's heart breaking She knew the guy will freak out if he gets to know during the dating period Still the truth should have been told If he really loves you he will find solutions if not he can leave

@Koize340

Жыл бұрын

Honestly agreed with you

@samuelesinwoke6975

Жыл бұрын

Yes she would have open up

@traceyyeboah3034

Жыл бұрын

Hmmm This is tough The girl should have told him the truth It’s not her fault but it seems like it’s a set up cos she knows the guy will disappear If they want the right thing they should seek religious counseling- I’m not sure if surgical treatment can help

I love this counsellor

Those saying the guy shd hv asked are annoying me. How on earth can that question cross his mind

I miss you so much miss nancy am happy to see you again

Hmmm this is not easy at all the lady should have told the guy about her situation if he truly loves her he would accept her.But another problem too might be she has told people about it n they rejected her.The best thing for them now is they should separate as the counselor said,seek medical attention if they both want to be together n let go of the past n start afresh.

3yrs of relationship n she couldnt open up to u....der is something wrong right frm de beginning. Let's not bring christianity to this koraa. Cos if de guy truly prayed den he knows where to seek answers frm

@brighterfuture7951

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, he didn't pray about the relationship if true a Christian and prayerful

The counselor is🔥🔥

It is funny how some are saying if he loves her he would stay and work it out, yet they would not find themselves staying if the man was impotent. Funny world we live in,lol

@frankiesings5124

Жыл бұрын

I know right

This is indeed heartbreaking, the lady kept this secret and it's legally debatable. However, religiously too the man must consult his God and seek medical attention too. Eeeii anaa he should swap woman with the last week gay guy. 😊😊on the lighter note though

@casemmytv1433

Жыл бұрын

😂

@krahalbert3046

Жыл бұрын

Hahaha You're funny. I guess your suggestion is right but mind you the guy has a male partner.

The guy said the lady hv been praying for a husband and that’s why she didn’t boarded to tell the guy wtf 🤬 ? She is so fucking selfish only thinking about her prayers and not the other guys feelings or wishes this can never be called marriage bruh forget about it

Ms. Nancy I commend your show but i suggest your audience should be people with experience in marriage because they are too young to judge someone who has married and encountering challenges in marriage. besides, the lady has been deceitful in the marriage and i think the guy can opt out based on that.

Pardon me but most of the people on this panel is are not serious, talking about the power of love smh. My question is why is it that the parents have not helped her get any form of help up until now? then you go as far as marrying someone knowing full well this is your problem. What did she expect him to do on seeing it? You don't do this to someone you claim you love. This is grounds for annulment. I humbly request that a panel of proper professionals, counsellors and psychologists be brought.

I like the counselor..

Nice show

I think the studio audience should be worked out. The advice and comment don't tally with a program of this magnitude. Competent and Experience people who can communicate Wisdom should be invited, not those who will speak to launch attacks. The issue has happened. Solutions should be found not I think this or I think that. Organisers pls look into that. Blaming Christianity for this or the Lady for that isn't the issue. She was born like that? It's a sensitive issue and the way the studio audience went about it wasn't the best except for the gentleman sitting close to the host and the lawyer and doctors who spoke.

Sometimes i think we should allow the holy spirit to speak to us before we make a decision....He is All knowing, He will tell us everything about our partners and if possible will offer us solutions to that Our problem is,we find it difficult to hear from God ..may God have mercy on us

Yes it exists.. plenty in Ghana

U are a good. man all will be well ok Love u🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😘

the fact that no sex before marriage doesnt mean we shouldnt explore ur body. couples can romance each other and explore their bodies. the lady only lied to him. No PROBLEM with sex after marriage

@euniceamafosuaaaddae9425

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. It is not an issue of not having sex before marriage, it is an issue of one person deceiving the other. Let's allow people to live their chaste lives and stop talking against those who believe in waiting till marriage to have sex

Now if the guy divorce the wo-man is it a sin. Remember he has stay chastity for a long time which gives him pass mark right? Here comes news that can lead to divorce. I believe in the Bible, I believe in church. But truthfully I stop going to church 5yrs ago and I can confidently say that the reason I stop going to church was I found out that I'm far better than most people in church therefore I didn't wanted to be corrupted with their Chari-fake

Awwwn such a sad story

well if u don't want to get married then don't tell anyone, but if u are to allow someone in ur life tell them when it has not gone far

@josephpitchler196

Жыл бұрын

That's all.. This is wise

Hi Ms Nancy, how do i get to join the panelist?

When does the show start?

The lady deceived the guy. She should tell the parent or the guy. I repeated she deceived the guy, she knew her problem and she hides from the guy period. The host defending the liar lady.

Things are happening oo

What do you mean we shouldn't follow the Bible, what is this man talking about

I don't know why he's here. He's a man of God. If he was faithful to his beliefs & religion & followed the word of God. He knows exactly where to seek advice from, God & the church.

@nanaquophy747

Жыл бұрын

Practically what kind of advise?

@maridiyaibrahim8210

Жыл бұрын

Not the church please

My advice for this guy is to divorce the girl. They have been in this relationship for 3yrs and she hid this, the trust has been broken.

Did hear the pastor saying, "onyame sc wo wh3 aa wontumi paase". What happened to Jobe?

NO Sex before marriage fuo have you heard? Why should u marry someone without intimacy? Stop following blindly religious and societal norms. You can't buy a car without test driving it.

To be honest being an hermaphrodite is not that big of deal, it’s natural and rare. Sometimes both organs are together or separate. But some Ghanaians seems to have some reservations about it and there’s a stigma to it. If he still want her, he should take her to a specialized hospital cause this condition comes with a few symptoms that are detrimental to her health. There they can find other options that can help them, for example they can have surgery and allow her to choose one of the organ and so that solves that problem. Unless she wants to keep both which is fine. The bigger problem is her not telling her husband about her medical condition. Cause now she put this deception into the mix and got married instead of getting it over when dating so they can both have the choice whether to continue the relationship or stop. Good luck to them!

@Whooooaaaa

Жыл бұрын

I agree with you

Hmmmmm.....because eeeeeih

Madam host, please let your panelist have a word

Hmm... I could help her solve the problem and still leave her bcos later she will keep tins vital...

Ah so most of them are talking about love love love, is being open to the man not love too? If she also loved him, why did she have to do him dirty like that. I mean he saved himself to enjoy on the Dday, just to come and have the shock of his life ah!!!

The guy is suit, should be taken from the show, lol he's too funny, his face alone

@deborahomeche9084

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

Christianity hmm In fact I really feel pity for this man

The first guy mess up

The lady should have told the man, it's not as if it's her fault.

Interesting show but I guess the panelists should be a little older and more experienced. Nbs confessions oo .People are going through things charley

Please how will she go to the labor ward.

Your Presenter interjects too much causing whoever is answering her questions or sharing their thoughts sometimes lose his/her train of thoughts.

No one is to be blamed

Do people know the secrets people keep in their marriages?

Both the man and the woman needs counselling for the to be able to live a satisfying life.

Tasted what? If you don’t know what to say keep mute, the lady was very wrong for keeping such key information from the man, this is deception and there’s no marriage there in the first place.

He can opt out if the marriage has not been consumated, I mean if no sex after the marriage.

If they’re as spiritual as he is saying, how come he is bringing this issue to tv What happened to spiritual leaders in the church, their pastor who blessed their marriage

It’s too early to leave the honeymoon and run to a confession stage . The best is to seek medical attention. And the church of Pentecost is well structured such that they are poised to assist you with the needed counseling. But hey at least now you have spoken about it . Time to correct the wrongs.

The woman should have told him the problem.

Well the lady could have told the guy the truth,so if he truely loves her they could have solved it with a doctor and also with the man/woman of God

Love covers a multitude of sins. The lady feared being victimised. This is a disability like any other and can be fixed.

I understand she did wrong for not telling you now you are shocked. If you can't handle it, their are men who are looking for such women cus there is great pleasure in such women as well, let those men have her.

At first I thought it was ‘ no sex before maariage ‘ but now it means ‘ know sex before marriage ‘ 😄

@michaelissacturea6919

Жыл бұрын

The host should stop saying the man didn’t ask? Women always support each other. The lady is wrong. She should have opened up to the guy. Period

The world was created with Scripture so we hv to deal every issue with Scripture. So the man should live with it.

@nanaquophy747

Жыл бұрын

Are u for real? You think this religious stupor will take u anywhere? I wish it happened to you

Driving alignment 🤣

blame the mother please

Having both sex organs doesn't occur along the line so what do u mean by even her parents didn't know .secondly how is this even a problem in this day and age .surgery would easily solve the problem .ebeiiii

that’s some man’s dream 😴

All she needs is surgery. She needs surgery, and the only crime is she committed is not telling the husband. I can understand het nit telling the husband because if fear of rejection.

This presenter talks too much

Miss Nancy defending liar lady or wife.

The guy and the lady are not true Christians to add insult to injury the guy claiming to be a man of God is speaking cannally.

@margaretnartey2255

Жыл бұрын

Abedy practice what you preach

@affiebenezer2930

Жыл бұрын

True Christians are so good categorizing people according to their pastor's criteria. Hiah

@kelvintamakloe3758

Жыл бұрын

Abeg marriage is different from Christianity oooo If it was you how will you feel

@governmentnwankwo9906

Жыл бұрын

@@kelvintamakloe3758 read genesis 6,you will understand life

Hmmm

@margaretnartey2255

Жыл бұрын

Hmmm anyemiii

Ghanaians and some African countries are still lacking civilization cos trust me we are in 2022 but Ghanaians are still in the 2000’s or better still in the 90’s How will u date a girl for 3 years without having a sexual intimacy what do you guys call love ?whr is love without happiness? Are u serious ? Still saying if the guys really loves her he should stick with her in every situation what happened to self love?🤔 be true to ur self before expecting someone’s!

@Queen-ds4ti

Жыл бұрын

Nice

@enricbest723

Жыл бұрын

Are you minding them? To think they won't allow their brother to do it..... most of them are just reeks of hypocrite

@nanayaaotoo2188

Жыл бұрын

The Lady should have told the guy about her status. The sex after marriage is good but also a personal decision. Religion is not to be blamed here. I only blame the lady for this. The guy could have even visit a doctor with the lady If he still love her regardless. The Lady is the only one to be blamed for not opening up. I like the points the Pastor is making.

Is okay you guys are pretending I know my mother land Ghana 🇬🇭 people you don’t like the truth oooh yeah I know what am talking about or saying gays. Is okay I don’t want to go deep. Even you you the host you know it.

The host is very annoying

The man as a God fearing man should not put his issues here. Just discuss with the woman and have surgery to take it off.

@orioninalove455

Жыл бұрын

Do you realize that lessons are learnt from issues like this??

@LifeasaDarko

Жыл бұрын

So man of God cannot talk about his problems anymore??

Please you guys should leave the Bible aside and use a critical thinking 💭 or our brains 🧠. My mother land people you like Bible Bible too much

@LifeasaDarko

Жыл бұрын

Eshock me sef

@collinskwaning9004

Жыл бұрын

@@LifeasaDarko Ooh Darko is time to face reality in the there Aaah , Paul amantemfou 😂😂😂😂