COMPARISON: Louis Vuitton Speedy 25 vs 30 vs 35 || Autumn Beckman

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COMPARISON: Louis Vuitton Speedy 25 vs 30 vs 35 || Autumn Beckman
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  • @naomiyoshida7464
    @naomiyoshida74646 жыл бұрын

    The writing on the back of the tab on 35 is a sir name of the owner. It says Tamai. Common sir name in Japan. Lots of people wrote their name on their bags before. When you buy vintage bags from Japan, you see this often. By the way, I am Japanese living in US.

  • @JoleeSO

    @JoleeSO

    6 жыл бұрын

    one of my vintage 35's had the name written on the inside under the flap as well🦄

  • @stickman1215

    @stickman1215

    3 жыл бұрын

    That is so charming. I buy a lot from Japan and will have to keep an eye out for that!

  • @TammyOful
    @TammyOful6 жыл бұрын

    Actually the speedy 30 was the first size. Made in the monogram material and it was the first handbag design LV came up with. After seeing it Audrey wanted a bit smaller than the 30 so they came up with the 25 just for her! 😊

  • @mellyMACgirl3

    @mellyMACgirl3

    5 жыл бұрын

    TammyOful makes sense since her frame is small. I got a 25 I am taller and more curvey as they say and it looked to small my sister is petite it looked great on her had to return and go with the 30.

  • @emmat9049

    @emmat9049

    5 жыл бұрын

    Correct! Audrey Hepburn sent that request to LV in 1961, the size “25” (speedy 25) was then created.

  • @razorbackbelle4221
    @razorbackbelle42216 жыл бұрын

    I love my vintage Speedy 30. Bought it pre-loved so I don’t stress about the leather. Bought a small organizer, so it’s still slouchy, but has a little bit of structure. It needed a small repair, so I got a great deal and took it to LV for the fix! Love it!

  • @mylovelybagschannel815
    @mylovelybagschannel8156 жыл бұрын

    I prefer the 30, but that definitely depends on your lifestyle. I don't have to carry a lot of things, but occasionally I need some more room in my bag and therefore I go for the 30. I've had two Speedy 25 bags in my collection and I didn't keep any of them for a long time since I never reached for them.

  • @Dorche76
    @Dorche766 жыл бұрын

    I think the speedy was released in the 1930s in the size 30. I think Audrey Hepburn requested a smaller bag and that was the 25, which was released in the 1960s. Audrey Hepburn did help it become the "it" bag we all now love so much :)

  • @abak3948

    @abak3948

    6 жыл бұрын

    I’ll have to search this up. I read that the 25 was made/designed specifically for Audrey Hepburn and then the 30 came out years later.

  • @EmeraldsHoneyComb

    @EmeraldsHoneyComb

    6 жыл бұрын

    Mama Bak same I heard the 25 was made for her

  • @JoleeSO

    @JoleeSO

    6 жыл бұрын

    if the information back then was like it is now, you'll get several answers. LV information depends on who at LV you are speaking to and what time of day it is...but we all know Audrey is associated with the speedy🦄

  • @jackielovesful

    @jackielovesful

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow I never knew this

  • @melodiechartier5173

    @melodiechartier5173

    Жыл бұрын

    The 30 is much better!

  • @karenknowle861
    @karenknowle8616 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Autumn for this video. I am planning on making the Speedy my first LV. Having not seen them in person and will buy pre-loved, I realize the 25 will be perfect for me.

  • @jgilliam45
    @jgilliam455 жыл бұрын

    Thank you. This video was so helpful. Now I know I want the speedy 35!!

  • @taniac7907
    @taniac79076 жыл бұрын

    I adore the look of vintage speedies. Thanks Autumn xx

  • @val929
    @val9292 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this video with us! You did such a great job comparing them. I really enjoyed how you demonstrated what would fit in each! Excellent video!

  • @Paschita
    @Paschita5 жыл бұрын

    I have the Speedy 25 in Mono and two Speedy 30s, one in DE and one in DA. I’m pretty sure I NEED the 35 now because of this video. Thanks Autumn!!! 😩

  • @marthala1626
    @marthala16265 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for your comparison video......you did a great job! Very helpful!

  • @karyannfontaine8757
    @karyannfontaine87576 жыл бұрын

    Autumn, at some point, would you please make a video on how you store your your speedy bags and other LV bags to best preserve their beauty.

  • @beckyrobinson1833
    @beckyrobinson1833 Жыл бұрын

    Great comparison video! I found it very helpful. I love your three Speedys! I’d never seen the 35 and I really like your vintage one.

  • @magalymartinez344
    @magalymartinez3444 жыл бұрын

    I didn't need that big of a bag but I am 5'10 so I went with the 30 because I think the 25 would look odd on me. Super happy with my purchase even though I only needed 25 size

  • @cg-fb9ct
    @cg-fb9ct6 жыл бұрын

    Autumn you are so glam today. Love the earrings and top? dress? Thank you for showing the differences in the sizes and looks of the Louis Vuitton Speedy's. Always a pleasure to see you and your handbags.

  • @AutumnBeckman

    @AutumnBeckman

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you. :) It's a new dress. Lace top with an attached empire waist black pencil skirt from JC Penny. Earrings are Kendra Scott. Got them for $30 at the Nordstrom sale!

  • @cg-fb9ct

    @cg-fb9ct

    6 жыл бұрын

    Autumn Beckman Thank you for sharing that info. What a bargain for those earrings as they are more pricier than $30. Glad you didnt pay full amount. Bargains are delightful.

  • @impursehappy2333
    @impursehappy23336 жыл бұрын

    Great video I liked it a lot. I purchased three preloved LV bags, i need to get the authenticated. I appreciate that information. I also have a Speedy 35, yes it is roomy. I bought that one from LV online website. You have gorgeous pieces. 🤗❤️💕

  • @life_and_lvsabine8628
    @life_and_lvsabine86286 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this great comparison. Now i think about getting a 35, before i felt always it seems to be too big for me, but if you have a lot of stuff this is great

  • @celeniperez1982
    @celeniperez19825 жыл бұрын

    Hi Autumn, You’re videos are amazing & so informative! I have a nice collection of Louis Vuitton that have all been purchased in their stores, However, I recently purchased a pre-loved LV handbag (delightful mm & a wallet) from Yoogie’s closet & heard you suggest to independently authenticate items, regardless of the sites reputable name or their in-house authenticators. Can you pls elaborate further. Thx!

  • @Time2Begin
    @Time2Begin6 жыл бұрын

    This video is of great help. I have been collecting luxury handbags for little over a year now and I'm in serious need of an durable every day handbag that will fit more than just a few bits and the Speedy seems great for that purpose. Will have to go in stores soon to check them out on me :)

  • @ClaudiaVogel
    @ClaudiaVogel4 жыл бұрын

    I love this topic and I am never tired to learn more and more about it

  • @karyannfontaine8757
    @karyannfontaine87576 жыл бұрын

    I love the Speedy 25's and have all three of them. Due to my petite size, I cannot carry a larger bag. Small luggage goods are perfect for organization. I like your Speedy 35 as well.

  • @badgerpaws2939
    @badgerpaws29395 жыл бұрын

    So I’m normally a Neverfull girl. I have a speedy 30 and was a little disappointed in its carrying capacity. I may need to get a 35 and see how it works out for me

  • @user-vp5qp5de1n
    @user-vp5qp5de1n6 жыл бұрын

    Autumn, Great video! Well done. I enjoy the 30, and 35. I have thought about getting the speedy b in the 25.

  • @kenishahammond3935
    @kenishahammond39353 жыл бұрын

    Excellent video. I'm definitely going to purchase the Speedy 25 soon! I don't carry much at all so it will be the perfect size for me.

  • @myhubbyislouisvuitton4218
    @myhubbyislouisvuitton42184 жыл бұрын

    I have all three as well lol! I agree the 35 really isn't as big as everyone states. When I first saw it, I thought it was the 30 but it's the perfect size to use as a work bag as it has plenty of room to carry my gym and swimming gear for my after work sessions.

  • @sherrycohen1824
    @sherrycohen18246 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely love your top and earrings! Silly question: What do you use for your keys? I'm sure the cles will fit in with everything in the 25.

  • @smash0005
    @smash00053 жыл бұрын

    Love the earrings! Also I think the lighter color top looks lovely on you ☺️

  • @autismandthebeach
    @autismandthebeach6 жыл бұрын

    I prefer the Speedy 25, because the 30 just feels too big for me.

  • @delilahgutierrez5810
    @delilahgutierrez58106 жыл бұрын

    great video always looking forward to seeing more ...

  • @kimdeleon8647
    @kimdeleon86475 жыл бұрын

    Speedy 25 is my everyday bag. And i love it so much in monogram and monogram strap ❤️❤️❤️

  • @AutumnBeckman

    @AutumnBeckman

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing. :)

  • @kimdeleon8647

    @kimdeleon8647

    5 жыл бұрын

    For people who are scared of vachetta strap, they could get a monogram strap 😇❤️

  • @EmeraldsHoneyComb
    @EmeraldsHoneyComb6 жыл бұрын

    Still don’t know if I want the 25 or 30 really want a mini bag lol I over fill my never full and want to try to start being a “minimalist” decisions decisions I had this video in my que just got done watching your speedy 35 repair video I’m obsessed with your vintage bag can’t wait until u paint it.

  • @Jesusisfaithful22
    @Jesusisfaithful226 жыл бұрын

    REALLY GREAT INFORMATION AND VERY LOVELY BAGS, THANKS SO MUCH FOR SHARING THIS FANTASTIC VIDEO

  • @palrappy9411
    @palrappy94116 жыл бұрын

    Hi, Autumn! Does wrapping those luxury scarves around each handle prevent discoloration from happening?

  • @chicpea7723
    @chicpea77234 жыл бұрын

    I am a Japanese, and it says 玉井 (Tamai), one of a family name.

  • @lailaguirguis3590
    @lailaguirguis35904 жыл бұрын

    Thanks very much for the explanation about lv bags 😘😘😘

  • @emmie3028
    @emmie30286 жыл бұрын

    I can see that speedy 35 tab says 五 (Five) but the second character is kinda smudged and I can't read it :( My guess is 五月 (May)? It's pronounced as Satsuki and traditional Japanese girl's name :)

  • @michelletate6301
    @michelletate63015 жыл бұрын

    Does the 30 fit a desk agenda? Also I have damier graphite slg and an mm black epi agenda which canvas would you recommend to match?

  • @67vwvan
    @67vwvan5 жыл бұрын

    What is the width of the zipper once opened on the 35. (Wondering if I'd be able to throw my laptop inside)

  • @eudesodoroidefrance9643
    @eudesodoroidefrance96435 жыл бұрын

    It's not difficult to tell an authentic Louis Vuitton handbag by seeing the leather. I buy pre-owned designer items from Japan; people there well take care of their items....

  • @pamelafrutos2341

    @pamelafrutos2341

    4 жыл бұрын

    EUDES / ODO KING De FRANCE Share some links for the stores please🙏🏻

  • @anitahalvorson6586

    @anitahalvorson6586

    3 жыл бұрын

    How do you know that you're not going to be scammed? i'm not trying to be paranoid or whatever but i'm interested in maybe buying from other countries.

  • @ella_encantada
    @ella_encantada4 жыл бұрын

    Would you ever get the 40? I have one that I ended up painting black due to the water stains. It’s huge and from 1983!

  • @lulu9071
    @lulu90712 жыл бұрын

    This is a super helpful video, thank you

  • @monikagitana9846
    @monikagitana98465 жыл бұрын

    Definitely gonna get the 25 will fit a lot and look cute

  • @AfricahHarrigan
    @AfricahHarrigan6 жыл бұрын

    Excellent comparison video! I really enjoyed seeing the difference of space with the items inside your purses. Thank you for sharing!

  • @AutumnBeckman

    @AutumnBeckman

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Africah. I've enjoyed your videos, too. :)

  • @TC-fq7cy
    @TC-fq7cy Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this helpful Vedio! I am only 5,2 but I carry speedy35 and love it! I will try to get one 30 in Damier Ébène for a change.

  • @anaortiz5102
    @anaortiz51025 жыл бұрын

    If I ever can afford a LV bag I would deffinitely get a speedy 30.

  • @MissLadyKrishana
    @MissLadyKrishana3 жыл бұрын

    Super Helpful! Thank you!

  • @chippylover99
    @chippylover993 жыл бұрын

    Do you know of a reliable Japanese seller, I’m looking for a speedy 35 classic or Bandouliere.

  • @cjay233
    @cjay2334 жыл бұрын

    Very informative. Honestly, I thought one I was looking at was fake because the name was upside down. TFS

  • @Randib09
    @Randib096 жыл бұрын

    Very helpful!

  • @QueenAusetHeru
    @QueenAusetHeru5 жыл бұрын

    You carry a lot of stuff! Way more than I do. You must be prepared for every situation. This video is very informative! Thanks so much!

  • @chippylover99
    @chippylover994 жыл бұрын

    Hi I know this is an old review but just wanted to ask if you’ve ever tried the speedy 40b? I have been on the hunt for the perfect travel bag and initially I thought totes were the way to go so I bought the LV Iena MM which is like a neverful With zips and pockets. I have used it a few times on flights and I have found it too small and tight for my things. The Iena is 13” at the bottom and 16” at the top, 10.5” height and 6.5 inches depth. I always carry a neck pillow or mini pillow and I’m Wondering whether it would fit in a speedy 35. I’m sure it would fit in a speedy 40. I am 5’6 in height. Would love to hear your ideas.

  • @AutumnBeckman

    @AutumnBeckman

    4 жыл бұрын

    I have not tried the 40 but Carol Summer has one so you might ask her. kzread.info/dron/Ar78ct-wzgo0CNJb0ViT8w.html

  • @shakilasaleem5003
    @shakilasaleem50036 жыл бұрын

    I love your bags, saving money to get my first one hopefully very soon. I've been scammed 2 months ago otherwise would already been owning one of these beauty!!! Gutted...

  • @Kim-xc9kn
    @Kim-xc9kn5 жыл бұрын

    Hi! Do you happen to know how well the zippy organizer wallet fits in the speedy 25? I don’t carry much, but am wondering if it will be too difficult to get my wallet in and out of the 25 once I put the other things in the bag. Thanks!

  • @sandistroud7305
    @sandistroud73056 жыл бұрын

    Great comparison of the 3 different sizes of the Speedy.

  • @missmarcicolettle78
    @missmarcicolettle785 жыл бұрын

    I have the speedy 25 and the speedy 35

  • @stickman1215
    @stickman12153 жыл бұрын

    I’m considering a 35 so this was really helpful. I think the 35 might be really handy for traveling if we ever get to do that again.

  • @makeupnmedicine

    @makeupnmedicine

    2 жыл бұрын

    Just this week I picked up a 35 from eBay just like hers except I wanted a birth year bag so mine is early 80s. She is worn but canvas is tough and I plan to toss her around/travel w her etc. I highly recommend so far!

  • @kymberliethefreespiritedone

    @kymberliethefreespiritedone

    8 ай бұрын

    @@makeupnmedicinemy mother purchased me a speedy 25 from Neimans in Vegas as a gift for me to conclude our trip...also 80s! I still have it and recently got a Monogram 30 as well. Best bag ever!

  • @jasonm2450
    @jasonm24506 жыл бұрын

    i have a 40b :P now i would love a 35B as well hahaha.

  • @linabela2736
    @linabela27365 жыл бұрын

    Hii Autumn :) thxfor the video.. im wondering with 2 babys.. wich one should i get lol the 30 or 35? (Diaper,bibs,etc etc lol)

  • @amyarcher7809

    @amyarcher7809

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sophia Tounti this isn’t the type of bag you would use for babies. Maybe try a Neverfull!!!

  • @LMA-jf5pk
    @LMA-jf5pk5 жыл бұрын

    Autumn, Hi! Loved your video . Very informative. I want to buy a Speedy Bandouliere as travel purse with comfortable shoulder straps for a long “travel”. How comfortable are the shoulder strap in Speedy B in DE? Does it dig into your shoulders when bag is stuffed and heavy? I’m in my 50s, 5’3” in height and being on curvy side; and have weak shoulders. I’m medically adviced against carrying my handbag on my shoulder but its ok if I carry my handbag hand held and crossbody. I’ve seen and read that the leather shoulder straps used in Damier Ebene print canvas are very hard and stiff and don’t “break in” even after use? Is it true? Due to comfort of strap I’m inclined for Mono print but the delicacy of vachetta strap i.e. no water touching it while travel puts me off. Do u think I should buy Speedy B in DE and buy a bandouliere strap seperately? I have foll. essentials - travel documents pouch i.e. tickets, passports, boarding pass etc.; sarah wallet; 2 iphones in plus sizes; mini pochette (medicines); 6key holder; cles (coins); long champ 3coin purses; pouch carying liquid items; long champ fabric pouch as catchall; iPad pro (small); wet wipes and tissues. Will it fit? Which size is better - speedy b 30 or 35? What is your feedback? Please advice. I will really appreciate it. Thanks!

  • @AutumnBeckman

    @AutumnBeckman

    5 жыл бұрын

    I don't have a Speedy B so I can't help with your questions about the strap. Sorry. It's difficult to say for sure without seeing all the items you mentioned but I think they would fit in the Speedy 30. The Speedy 35 is quite large, FYI. I would advise you to look at the bags in person if you can.

  • @LMA-jf5pk

    @LMA-jf5pk

    5 жыл бұрын

    Autumn Beckman Thank you for your feedback.

  • @crissykrissy9576
    @crissykrissy95766 жыл бұрын

    Another GREAT video! One question! Can any of these bags be worn crossbody? Tia!

  • @palrappy9411

    @palrappy9411

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yes you can 😊

  • @lauraloo4259
    @lauraloo42593 жыл бұрын

    Do you feel like you are missing anything without the long strap that comes on the speedy b? I really want a 25 and I am leaning towards the classic, unsure if it’s worth the extra to get the speedy b xxx

  • @AutumnBeckman

    @AutumnBeckman

    3 жыл бұрын

    No because I don't mind attaching a strap to the metal pieces on the handles. I don't care for the look of the strips of leather on the sides of the bandoulier bags and also don't like the look of the strap with the extender piece on it because the end of the strap sticks out by your shoulder.

  • @lauraloo4259

    @lauraloo4259

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much! I am just going to buy the bullet and get the classic, at some point I’d love to add a chain bag charm to it too! I’m not a fan of the side strips either! I’ve just found your channel and can’t stop watching! 😍 xxx

  • @christineolsson4695
    @christineolsson46954 жыл бұрын

    Love Speedy 35

  • @Dorche76
    @Dorche766 жыл бұрын

    I have a 25, multiple 30s, and multiple 35s. I also have a 40 bandoliere I use for overnight travel. I think the 30 is the perfect. The 35 is great if you just like a big bag.

  • @JoleeSO

    @JoleeSO

    6 жыл бұрын

    you like the speedy like I do, I also have bought and sold many other LV bags because none measure up

  • @anitahalvorson6586
    @anitahalvorson65863 жыл бұрын

    Autumn i have a 25 with a lock hanging from the tab thingy. I can't find the key. do you have any idea how i can get it off because yes it is pulling and making an 0 on the tab. I tried another key set but it doesn't work on my 25 lock. oy

  • @AutumnBeckman

    @AutumnBeckman

    3 жыл бұрын

    Look for the number on the bottom of the lock then search for a key with that number on ebay or etsy. I've done that before.

  • @anitahalvorson6586

    @anitahalvorson6586

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AutumnBeckman awwwww thank you so much.

  • @anitahalvorson6586

    @anitahalvorson6586

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AutumnBeckman omg thank you so much for this info. i had my salad all ready to eat and got on etsy. found the key. glad i bought it before i ate the salad. i checked after the fact,, just a minute or 2, and found out my key number was sold out. all the keys by that number were sold out. wow. i owe you big time. loving your vids.

  • @rebeccaraz6192

    @rebeccaraz6192

    3 жыл бұрын

    I watch a video on KZread and got it open with a metal nail file. Can use a small knife aswell. It was so easy to do and bam open

  • @MandieeJaiiiiii
    @MandieeJaiiiiii5 жыл бұрын

    stumbled upon this video and I love it, it showed me just how different each side is and I must admit I'm struggling between if I should get the 25 I have the 30 but I feel its to big and that I stuff to much into it.... however I feel because im not that tall of a girl im about 5'4 and curvy so im worried if I get the 25 it'll look super funny on a plus size girl :(

  • @AutumnBeckman

    @AutumnBeckman

    5 жыл бұрын

    I understand. I'm 5'3" and curvy and I don't think small bags are the best choice for me either. Since you already have the 30 and feel it's too big then the 25 might be perfect for you. It's not as small as you might think...certainly not like a mini bag. I hope that helps.

  • @jessem4842
    @jessem48425 жыл бұрын

    I got my first Louis Vuitton speedy 40cm today it’s from 1994

  • @AutumnBeckman

    @AutumnBeckman

    5 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations! I hope you love it. :)

  • @Pana-anna63
    @Pana-anna636 жыл бұрын

    35!!!!

  • @mahogonyparker7550
    @mahogonyparker75504 жыл бұрын

    Just Absolutely Beautiful 💙💟💙💟

  • @miriam9023
    @miriam90235 жыл бұрын

    I dont know why people like made in the france ones i like the ones made in usa better the handles are more comfortable

  • @THESNEAKERStvshows
    @THESNEAKERStvshows6 жыл бұрын

    🔥🔥🔥

  • @hollym8607
    @hollym86075 жыл бұрын

    Which size 30 or 35 do you prefer?

  • @AutumnBeckman

    @AutumnBeckman

    5 жыл бұрын

    I prefer the size 30 but the 25 and 35 both have their uses for me from time to time.

  • @christineh8996

    @christineh8996

    5 жыл бұрын

    35!!!!

  • @MaeSekou
    @MaeSekou2 жыл бұрын

    I love the damier ebene. I wish they made it in 40

  • @AutumnBeckman

    @AutumnBeckman

    2 жыл бұрын

    They don't make it in 40!?! That's too bad.

  • @Giselle332
    @Giselle332 Жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @asylumnurse88
    @asylumnurse885 жыл бұрын

    Lol where did you get the money to buy these 3 bags?

  • @AutumnBeckman

    @AutumnBeckman

    5 жыл бұрын

    Well, I do work in exchange for money. I think people call it...oh, what's the word?...a job.

  • @asylumnurse88

    @asylumnurse88

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@AutumnBeckman lol Ok. You just don't look like the type of girl to carry designer bags sorry.

  • @AutumnBeckman

    @AutumnBeckman

    5 жыл бұрын

    What does someone who carries designer bags look like? I'm not asking you to actually answer that, just suggesting that you might want to question and analyze your stereotypes.

  • @asylumnurse88

    @asylumnurse88

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@AutumnBeckman hmm I never judge a book by its cover- ever. But at the same time, usually if you do these types of videos I think, presentation wise, you could have stepped it up a notch that's all. Not trying to criticize you honey.

  • @AutumnBeckman

    @AutumnBeckman

    5 жыл бұрын

    Gee, not trying to criticize you honey but do you have ANY self-awareness? All you've done is judge me by appearance and everything you've said to me has been criticism. You came to my channel, watched my video, made assumptions about me based on my appearance, and rather than leave a comment about the content of the video you instead chose to write "Lol where did you get the money to buy these 3 bags?" which you later explained by saying "You just don't look like the type of girl to carry designer bags." From these two statements it is clear that you have an image in your mind of how women (by the way, we're women not girls) who carry designer bags should look and you decided I don't fit this image. You've also connected this image to financial status. That, my friend, is called a stereotype. Here's Google's definition: a widely held but fixed and oversimplified image or idea of a particular type of person or thing. You also backed up your stereotype by saying I "could have stepped it up presentation wise" since I do "these types of videos." What you have been saying to me is that I don't fit the stereotypical appearance (in your mind) of a woman who carries designer bags and that I need to alter my appearance to fit that image. So I have a few questions for you. Again, I'm not asking you to answer them here, just offering some assistance with your self-awareness (by the way, I have a background in social and personality psychology). What is the image you have in your mind of women who carry designer bags? Where did that image originate, what perpetuates it, and why do you hold that image in your mind? Why do you think I need to fit into the box you've designed in your mind that describes women who carry these bags? When you saw that I don't fit in that box, what is it about you that made you feel the need to comment and tell me not only that I don't fit your stereotype but that I need to change things about myself so I do fit it? Consider that question especially in the context of the fact that you decided not to leave any other comment about the actual content of my video. Lastly, what are you going to do to release that image (and others you may hold about other groups of people) and to open your mind to the fact that people don't fit in boxes? Again, I suggest you question and analyze your stereotypes, especially before dropping them on other people.

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