Cocktail Dress Code & My Favorite Cocktail Outfits
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I am Jamila Musayeva, an international social etiquette consultant and the author of the books “Etiquette: the least you need to know” and “Afternoon Tea Etiquette.” If you wish to order the books, email info@jamilamusayeva.com or my website: jamilamusayeva.com/order-books
In this video, I will talk about the cocktail dress code - what it is and where you can wear it. I will explain and show possible wardrobe options for women and men to a party that has "cocktail" as its dress code.
At the end of the video, I will show you some of my favorite cocktail attires. Some of these attires you have probably already seen on my Instagram account (@jamila_musayeva).
Hope you enjoy this video.
Looking forward to reading your feedback and video suggestions!
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One thing I really like about Jamila is that she always leaves room for individual taste and personality, and her advice always feels not only gentle and friendly, but also doable. Like she doesn't say "you have to wear this or else" but just gives gentle general advice on overall guidelines and then encourages you to adapt it. I also like that she isn't ashamed to say she'd had something for nine years and worn it a lot. I feel like most women wouldn't dare say that but there's not wrong with it, after all, clothes should last many years. So thank you for another wonderful video Jamila! I love your perspective and warm friendly feeling.
@alexandraeverafter1015
2 жыл бұрын
I agree with everything in your comment. I am not afraid to wear my favorite pieces over and over for many years. In fact, some of my favorite dresses are hand-me-downs from my mom, who can no longer wear them. She is happy that I can proudly wear her dresses, which she bought at exclusive boutiques in NYC before I was born, at any time. I get compliments when I wear her old dresses. They have been holding up for more than fifty years. Unfortunately, I am appalled by the quality of clothes in general these days. The lesson is to take care of your favorite clothes. 👗👠💕
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for noting that ☺️
@holyexperience1976
Жыл бұрын
I do not have fancy clothes, but I got lovely dresses and skirts I have not been wearing for a decade because I gotten to big of a girl, but will wear them once I drop enough weight. I love them enough it will take the place of buying new clothes. I got new dresses last year and this year that I can still wear once I hit my goal of losing 90 to 95 pounds because the largest dress is XL, though a couple dresses I might got to let go because them being XXL. My XL may be a little loose, but that can be solved it need it be. So very glad you got your mother's dresses. I wish I had my mother's sun dresses she had in the, say late '80s or early '90s. I do not remember them that great buy I bet they were lovely. I wish I still have two dresses I had growing up. Dunno if I can would fit into them again as I was 95 in junior high and 100 in HS. My goal weight is 110 or 105. I did finally get an evening gown last week or two. It is pure white. Now trying to get another one. This one being a darker color. I may never make it to a formal party, but I still want something dressy as if I was in the urban instead of rural, I'd be semi to fully dressy most or all days of the week.
@holyexperience1976
Жыл бұрын
I love that she got something she wears from nearly a decade ago. That will be me one day, as for me personally, I cannot find my style hardly in 2020s. I wish I can time travel, and get stuff from the '90s until mid '10s.
FINALLY my long time question is answered : what is a cocktail dress. Thank you, it was something that was making anxious whenever I had to dress to go somewhere with that particular dress code!
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
You are welcome 🤗
You are the epitome of elegance in each and every one of these lovely outfits. Fabulous taste and wonderful, informative content on demystifying dress codes!
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much 💫
The dresses are art pieces and you look gorgeous on them 🌹 Thank you so much for this video ❤️
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
The white dress is giving me major Grace Kelly vibes. You look so so exquisitely beautiful and elegant 💕
@IEVAKambarovaite
2 жыл бұрын
@@sarahm9813 no idea.. But it's so beautiful and elegant
@silviafricova9296
2 жыл бұрын
She mentioned that white dress is from Alexander McQueen
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@princessroxyvincenzo2593
2 жыл бұрын
That's literally my style. I love dresses and high heels.
Your channel is a pure goldmine. Great series, looking forward to rest of the videos. Most of us aren't exposed to etiquette knowledge in depth and until I watched your videos, I did not realise how important and how much of a difference even little things make. Thankyou Jamila. P.S.Red look is my fav., Gives femme fatale vibes
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
You are welcome and thank you for your kind words ☺️
My normal style is really punk rock and I appreciate this guide! I am attending a cocktail-dress coded award ceremony for my husband and his coworkers and I was nervous considering my unusual hair and wardrobe options but I feel confident to clean up quite nicely for this event now! Thank you!
Excellent! Thank you for this simple but complete analysis of the cocktail dress code. I'm looking forward to the rest of your series.
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
You are welcome 🤗
Another informative and quality video from Jamila! The jumpsuit and the red dress from Self Portrait look really classy on you!
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏻
We are very lucky that we have got amazing KZread channel and great etiquette consultant jamila mam.
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
What a helpful and fun video it was. Thank You Jamila, i loved all your dresses but the red one was making you look strikingly beautiful ❤️❤️
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
I love the red dress the most! I liked the second black one too, I think that company is really good. I love the change in make-up, it really changes the 'mood' of the dress. The dress with the arm sleeve things would really work well with with some nice jewellery!
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks ☺️
1:36 history 2:33 explaination 13:35 her outfits
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for breaking this down.
Such an amazing video, honestly jamila is one of the most underrated people❤
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏻
Absolutely stunning! My favourite are the first and the red one. Next video could be an update on your spring skincare routine. Thanks for sharing this wonderful content 🙏🏻🌷
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you ☺️
I was hoping you would do these videos someday! I love this new series. Thanks for posting!
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
You are welcome ☺️
Amazing content!! Looking forward to more of this series. ❤️
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
More videos on dress codes!😍😍 Maybe also with mentions of cultural differences between the major western etiquette styles (french, english, and american)
Just got invited to a high end cocktail party during upcoming holiday season in December. Re-watching this video now :)
@JamilaMusayeva
Жыл бұрын
happy to hear :)
@Samantha-ry2ke
Жыл бұрын
Me too. I was panicking a bit. But this video made me much more comfortable with my outfit options.
You look lovely in all dresses. 👌 I think this new series is a great idea!
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
Love the fact that her makeup and hair goes with all of her dresses!! 🙌💯
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
I had no idea of what cocktail dress was until I watched this video 😅...thank you soooo much Jamila Musayeva...really loved watching it ❤ 😇😍
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
You are welcome
Amazing video!!! Can't wait for the next ones in the series!! Would love to see your Black Tie and White Tie dresses!!
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Noted ☺️
Would you be open to making a video on the etiquette of garden parties? I have seen too many women ruining the lawn (and their anckles) with their high heels, they didn't know they should have worn wedges or flats.
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Noted ☺️
A wedding etiquette please !! As the bride and as the guest ! The wedding season opining soon ☺️🌸✨
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
It is a very broad topic and varies culturally ☺️
I loved your dresses and jumpsuit!! They all looked gorgeous on you!!
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏻
Very nice choice of outfits, you are modeling them very well
I really like that your outfits are timeless and classic. You even mentioned buying few of them 3 7 years ago and you wear them from time to time. It's very practical and doable, unlike fashionista who buy things on trend and throw them away after one or two time uses.
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Invest in good quality and timeless pieces. Then you can wear them for a long time and for various occasions.
@rosatruong6285
2 жыл бұрын
@@JamilaMusayeva 🥰🥰🥰
Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us @Jamila Musayeva, I love the White dress, Black dress with feathers and the navy blue dress looks very classy and elegant. Hello from old subscriber ♥️♥️♥️
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️
I loved the red dress, black jumpsuit & the white dress 😍
Hi!!! jami waiting for more...!!
Thank you Jamila! A much needed video. Could you please make a video about a wedding guest dress code?
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
What do you mean by wedding guest dress code?
This was really insightful thank you. I prefer the jumpsuit because I'm always looking for female trousers looks that appear elegant.
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
Thank yu, I really enjoy your channel. I'm learning slowly how to be an etiquette young woman. It takes time to watch all your videos, but it is worth the time. I adored everything yu had on..
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@candaceelainesweatt
2 жыл бұрын
Yu are welcome:)
The red was very classy and stylish on your figure. You were looking terrific in it.
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
Just the thumbnail of this video makes me want to go somewhere very special 😍
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
You are very kind!
You are so informative 👏 thank you for such a nice video! 😊
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
You are welcome 🤗
You helped me in so much situations around the world. Thank you :)
@JamilaMusayeva
Жыл бұрын
So glad to hear that!
Please do a video on "How to keep your hands" or something like that in an elegant way ! THANK YOU and Love your videos 💌☁️
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
Her videos always help me❤️❤️❤️
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏻☺️
I loved the red dress look, and the black jump suit :)
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
Very elegant! I like the red dress!
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks
I needed this vid. Thank you
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
You are welcome
Your voice is magical and soothing
So glad I found you here on KZread 💞
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
Great info ...I think I need to make some notes during this video
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
very good sharing. love it!
@JamilaMusayeva
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
I am your fans from Hong Kong . I love your voice and manner very much, thank you for your share.
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! ❤️
0:12 This dress and high heels are so beautiful. I'm gonna wear this outfit. Dress code is cool.
Dear Jamila, this was a very informative video. When/If I'm invited to a cocktail dress code event, I will now have the confidence to attend, knowing the best sort of outfit I need to wear. I adored the red dress you wore. Very stylish. Cocktail dress code has now been demystified, maybe you could explain what a casual smart dress code means. Thank you for all the information, I look forward to your next video 🐼🐼
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
I will make a series ☺️
@sophiecutegirl
2 жыл бұрын
@@JamilaMusayeva Thank you. 🐼🐼
Hey! Jamila you’re looking too gorgeous in all cocktail outfits I have no words for you and I really love your videos so so much you are my inspiration and I wish you reach 700K Subscribers very very soon!♥️✨💕😍🥰
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! 🙏🏻
I loved the second black dress!
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks
I would have been an idiot if this channel didn't existed.....warm thanks to jamila ❣🥰😘
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Aww ❤️
Very elegant ! I like the black one 🔳
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
Thank you. Very helpful. Can you please tell What to choose for cocktail attire for office party in winter season.
Thank you for this lesson 😊😊
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
You are welcome
Also I d like to see a video of your know-hows thar were invented as your own "how/to codes". For example mixing things that usually people think one should mix, etc 😁
Your voice is so nice to listen to!
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
So educational
@JamilaMusayeva
6 ай бұрын
Thanks!
Nice sharing.. I love all!
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
my love for white. i love your outfit
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
Since prom season is coming up what are approiate dresses hair styles accessories. Hairstyles on all the functions I have listed.I loves all the classy dresses you have shown in this video for cocktail parties
Loved that Red dress❤
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏻
I love your videos, I always learn lots from them
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
Thanks alot for your kind.
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
You are welcome
Very good video, thank you 😊
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
You are welcome
I love all of ur dress in every video u wear
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
I'm dying to go to some kind of a cocktail party/gala, anything! And I'm not a terrible social person :)
Please make a video on how to dress elegant in winter please!! 😊
Hank you for the information on the dress code for men. So few videos provide that information.
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
You are welcome
Beautiful!!! Is it possible if you can make a video on what to wear for an opera and a ballet event?
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Cocktail dress code is applicable in most cases ☺️
Jamila do a video on what to wear to bridal baby showers tea parties weddings shoes and accessories and to brunches and Breakfasts.
All of your clothes are beautiful I loved the jumpsuit very much
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
Thanks Jamila😇🥰
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
You are welcome
I personally liked the dark navy dress ❤️🌹 it looks amazing on you , can u please make a video on eating fruits and desserts etiquette it will be so interesting to watch ❤️
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊
You have such beautiful dresses 😍😍😍😍😍
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
Mam you are the best video maker, i did not see no more yu
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
I would love a video like this about black tie optional!
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Noted ☺️
You look so gorgeous, feminine and elegant! ♥️
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
Loved this. What would you wear to the Four Seasons for an early lunch? Would it be the same as for dinner? Dress code is smart casual. Help
@JamilaMusayeva
Жыл бұрын
Depends on the weather but could be a nice pair of pants with a blouse or a blazer or a knee length dress.
Thanks
Please do provide some tips on lipstick colour etiquette. For instance, which colour should be opted for during daytime events.
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Lighter- day time, brighter- evening. But with fashion these rules have become somewhat more blurry.
Nice video! Could you make a video about white/black tie dress code for men and women please?
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! ☺️ Noted!
Thank you for the video, do you mind to do video about WHITE TIE AND BLACK TIE DRESS CODES?
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
There will be a series on this ☺️
Jamila, I absolutely love you. You give me hope for all the younger people out there, and I have also learned a lot from you as well… You are the definition of class and Grace. One question, is it not OK in your country’s culture to talk about your husband? I know I have this on the wrong video, but I would love to hear, and I bet we all would love to hear more about him!
@Lisa-sp5if
2 жыл бұрын
Oops! Saw the end of the q&a video! Got it!!!
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words. To answer your question: this channel is about etiquette and my work. It has nothing to do with my husband or kids. It saddens me to see that this would not be the same for a male KZreadr. No one would constantly want to hear about his wife.
Please do a video on black toe Vs white tie dress code
I love this white dress on you.
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks
Good information! I travel a few times a year for events and parties with both formal and cocktail dress codes. Any chance you could create a video on how best to transport dresses, jewelry and shoes?
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
You mean packing for traveling?
@janejohnson8174
2 жыл бұрын
@@JamilaMusayeva yes
Do you mind doing a black tie & white tie as well. I'm curious. Thanks ❤
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Yes
Does heel height and color still apply to cocktail at night? For example, are low white heels best for daytime?
Hi Jamila, your videos are really fantastic, I have watched most of them numerous times, deeply appreciated 😊 Could you please inform us how to find the best etiquette class across Canada, I just come up with lots of classes for kids or adults under 25 (as a 29 yr, I got disappointed 😞)
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words. I am not sure about Canada. If you are open to take online classes, you can email me info@jamilamusayeva.com
@sepidehahadpoor2011
2 жыл бұрын
@@JamilaMusayeva Thank you Jamila, sure I will 😊
Hi, may I know your navy blue dress brand? Thank you!
My daughter (13) and her friends are wearing nice sneakers to cocktail parties with their party dresses….Golden Goose, Nike Air Force, Vera etc
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
That’s nice. So does my 7 year old daughter ☺️
You still fit into dresses that are 7 years old....That's super power....😎
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
Please could you do firs date dinner wear.Thanks
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
I have shared some recommendations on my dating etiquette video ☺️
Thank you for mentioning how it is different from white tie. Somewhere I heard ( I might be confusing it with something else) that the way to differentiate day time and evening dresses is that the later is made of shiny fabric. Am I thinking of the right thing? Thank you.
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
With changes in fashion, rules have changed a lot.
@selyemperzsa1
2 жыл бұрын
@@JamilaMusayeva Thank you. :-)
Make one for a lunch party also please
Dear Jamila, wonderful video! Also, the word 'accessories' is pronounced 'accessorees'. Much love
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for correcting
Jamila you looks so classy very elegant
@JamilaMusayeva
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏻
As Aryan lifestyle traditions diy wrap dress and suit in natural fabric for illumination.i can adjust my Goddess Wardrobe to the 3 cocktail dresses THANK YOU