Hi Fashionable stepmum, you keep cutting short Murugi in the middle of a thought/ sentence all through the episode. Please let the guests finish their thought process and then offer your opinion on their thought. It allows us the audience to hear everyone

@boblock_gaming

17 күн бұрын

I agree with you, it was so annoying. Also she didn’t seem sober

Murugi's wisdom on this topic 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

On point

Was it an interview or a podcast 😂😂, the host was talking most of the time and the guest listening

I watch any content that features Mrs Munyi. She oozes wisdom every other time. Insightful episode

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

Thank you for watching

I love my blended family,10 years in it, its been an exciting journey, may God bless all blended family's 🙏🙏🙏

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

Amen Amen

I met someone when I had no child of my own. We had a child together unfortunately she passed away along the journey and her daughter I found her with became my child.

Mature and healthy co parenting! This is great.

Both of you are doing a great job, I am a single Mom and I am not getting support from my child's dad, I don't know how to go about it but I sure can coparent healthily if the other party is involved

My daughter has completely been ignored in his father's house. I am far away but some step mother's will never see HEAVEN!!😢

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

Sorry about the experience

@kay3262

Ай бұрын

🙄 Let's also not blame step mothers entirely. Where's the responsibility of her father in this matter?

@evalyneogola

16 күн бұрын

​@@kay3262 I agree the Father should stand up for his child

My mom was an excellent stepmom to my step siblings (my dad had several extra marital kids) and she could have easily chosen to bad mouth the moms and mistreat the kids but did otherwise.. I had never heard her speak negatively of those women nor the kids.. instead she took in 4 of them including paying school fees while my dad went MIA.. In as much as it was a completely toxic situation, I earned siblings who ride or die with me.. my mom passed away back in 2013, but her legacy still lives.. If I tell you my mom’s siblings still engage with my step siblings.. attend weddings, graduations, call each other…funny and sad thing these women cried the most at my mum’s funeral.. because they knew the only person who worked hard to protect their kids interest was my mom.. So I understand Cathy when she says she over parents the step kids because it comes from space emphathy, these kids already have enough on their plate that wasnt of their own making

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

I agree with you 💯

@adelaideokutoyi1851

Ай бұрын

I love being a step mum,I am of 6 children from 4baby mama's and I came in with one.Its been 6years of up and down but amazing results .I recently had a wedding and my step children were on the line up.I have to say me and my hubby have the special grace you can tell,the children are from different mums it is credible.Concidentaly ,I was raised with a step mum too who was good..So let's not have this negative vibe that step mum are evil.In some situations it works well.One day I'd love to tell you my story.

Apart from being wise I think your heart is pure

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

Thank for the lovely kind words. Blessed weekcahead

When the other end is narcissistic, its hard to co-parent.

@MyJOSE2013

Ай бұрын

not narcisstic . lack of moving on

Having come from a blended family, i will not find myself in one. Let me stay single forever

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

That’s okay

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

I get you

@faithawino

Ай бұрын

Me and you both..I tried for a few years but just couldn't work around it 🙅‍♀️

I can relate well to this conversation, thank you beautiful ladies, Murugi and fashionable Step mum❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

I have learnt a lot from fashionable Step mum, thank you for this insights, very deep and informative❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

The situation you are discussing is slippery... Walking on eggs shells kind of situation, but you've done well to make it look rosy. If avoidable the better

Am also cooperating and I av learned new things I didn't know.good job

Just met this sweet soul face to face.Endelea kubarikiwa.

How can i share this to my baby daddy without him knowing I'm the one who shared it.... Awesome conversation I hope we get here one day healthy co-parenting....

Very healthy,authentic conversations. I totally enjoyed this episode.

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much

refreshing🌷

Really enjoyed this episode. Thanks Cathy & Murigi - hope get to do this again🌻✨

You are really favoured cate...Please also tag Diana Bahati on your next show. She is also extra ordinary as you

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

Thank you for the kind words

@eunicenjeru215

Ай бұрын

Yeees!

Awww....I hope to see you on TMI podcast too😍

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

I look forward to that

Welcome back 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏿

Educative,,🙏😊

This is a good conversation. However for such a convo FSM should have got a lady in a similar situation like her

Nice conversation ❤❤

Looooooooooveeeeeddd the conversation 🎉🎉

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

Thank you. Glad you enjoyed it

Wonderful guest,Murugi she's a gem,n Kathy looking gorgeous 😍,acha kulost sana KZread

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

I will do my best to come on this platform weekly

This I amazing ❤❤❤❤

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏿

Nice insights

This was refreshing to listen to! Thank you ladies. Excellent choice for a guest. I have always loved Murugi’s wisdom.

I would like to hear Sarah Jakes side of this topic. Great work ladies.

Atleast i have learnt something from you too..thank yu.

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

I am glad. You are most welcome.

True @murugi, thanks for bringing the perspective about the 'romantisizing' the input of the other mum.... & Idealistic way of thinking.

Great conversation murugi's mastery of the subject is great.

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

It is. Thank you for the feedback

Murigi good job. This other lady is in some fantasy world

@nafisaagil6837

28 күн бұрын

😂😂

@essytyra880

24 күн бұрын

😅😅

@nancykathambi6121

22 күн бұрын

Murugi is real

Story of my life, the explanation part, they are your sisters, same father but have their mother's, Blended family Chronicles will kill me😂😂😂😮😮😮😮😂😂😂😂😂

Great conversation❤

Murugi is wise..

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

She definitely is

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

Yes she is

As a co parent, thanks for having this conversation. I really empathise with the parents who can't co parent and pray that it gets better for them. I have done it successfully for the last 7years out of a WhatsApp conversation we had two weeks after the separation . We agreed on terms and 7yrs later,we have both kept our end of the agreement. What I can say is first, you both need to know that your feelings don't matter only those of the child so be a grown up and think of your co parent as a good person who wasn't a great fit for you but might be for someone else. NO MAKASIRIKO. Secondly, be kind, be fair and don't bad mouth your co parent to the child. Thirdly, extend grace to your co parent,say he should pay school fees and he has lost his job,if you can,help out until he's back on his feet. Inability to provide financially doesn't make anyone (especially a man) any less of a parent. All these to say, co parenting is doable.

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing

Mastep mum wabreath please!😂😂😂😂

Volume volume volume

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

si we ndio ulitengeneza hio maskio? Please deal with his ears😂😂😂😂Cathy no!!!!

Volume volume volume

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

😅😅😅

@FashionableStepMum

Ай бұрын

Sawa..😂😂