I would have benefited so much from a mom that was understanding and appreciative. Sometimes you need your support system to be strong for you. ❤

@BuildandCreateHome

Жыл бұрын

I think more and more parents are starting to really listen to their teens and not trivialize their problems. ❤️❤️

@dinahkruppa913

Жыл бұрын

I had a mother like this. Miss you everyday Mom.

@paballooratile398

Жыл бұрын

Mothers play a big role in their children's lives. I thank God for a mother like mine. For those with absent and unstable mothers be strong in the Lord. For those who lost theirs, God's will is always for the best.

@chloe_67

Жыл бұрын

Same, same..

@Allthebest1010

Жыл бұрын

Honestly. A mother who cleaned my room? 😂

I went through depression & severe social anxiety throughout my teens and my bedroom often looked like this, sometimes even worse with stuff all over the floor. I really struggled emotionally and I was shamed for the state of my bedroom and forced to greet any visitors who would be shown my room to shame me by my parents. If my parents had recognised my depression and anxiety before it almost ended me, I may have never needed a therapist to pull me out of it. These kids are lucky to have a mother that sees her kids struggle and helps cheer them up ❤

@millies.left.eyelashess

10 ай бұрын

Glad your still with us 🩷❤️🤍🩷🩷🤍

@ashton_white

10 ай бұрын

Same ❤

@reese19747

9 ай бұрын

Almost 3 months. I hope your life is better and that you all have moved on to amazing things. I'm glad you're all still with us❤❤❤❤

@AriBlossPlays

9 ай бұрын

I hope your ok now and you didn’t deserve that I’m glad your still here with us.

@dakotahstacy4013

8 ай бұрын

Same

Everytime i see a mum like you i start crying in the most positive way possible. It's nice to know some mums care and love there kids even when they struggle and not just when it benefit them

@_csinti_

7 ай бұрын

stay safe

As a teenager with undiagnosed clinical depression, having my mom help me clean every once in a while would have been so wonderful. I was often overwhelmed with a mess and didn’t know where to start, nor how to keep it clean as I went.

@molk2

6 ай бұрын

If it’s undiagnosed don’t say you have it. Period. End of story. It’s not something people “wish they could have”, it actually sucks. Don’t say stuff like that

@casuals.3.19

6 ай бұрын

@@molk2Shit does that mean my 4 attempts and nearly 16 aborted ones mean nothing fr 😨 I don’t have depression fr 😨😨😨💀💀💀💀😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🤑🤑🤑🤑crazy ong 💀

@casuals.3.19

6 ай бұрын

@@molk2Don’t tell people that shit bro 💀💀💀😭😭😭😭

@saltyfrenchfries9744

6 ай бұрын

“would have been” are you sure they weren’t talking about when they were a teenager before they knew that they had depression 🤨

@skz.hot.megaverze

5 ай бұрын

@@molk2i think they might have been diagnosed with it as a young adult/adult which is why they say it was undiagnosed :)

i wish my mom did that

@jozlynnovak9927

9 ай бұрын

Fr😭

@NurseryNurseFanZepto

9 ай бұрын

​@@GiadaLoVerdino😢

@Sorrel_Equestrian

9 ай бұрын

@@GiadaLoVerdi no cause it teaches you work and respect… you have to learn to clean up after yourself one way or another. Cause there’s gonna be a day when you won’t have your mom clean up everything for you

@Be3tle

9 ай бұрын

@@GiadaLoVerdiYOURS DOES???

@MelodyxXxx

9 ай бұрын

​@@Be3tlemine does all the time lol I mostly clean mine when I got a few small messes but when my room is an abomination, she helps me move my room around and vacuums and all that stuff 😅 (I clean it a lot tho)

She really likes Nicholas Cage. Lol.

@juancena1259

Жыл бұрын

Looks like she had him turned away so he wouldn't be watching her in her sleep LMAO

@burntherest9118

Жыл бұрын

@@juancena1259 i think the cutout just got pushed aside by the clutter. Lol 😂

@nancygibson4380

Жыл бұрын

I'd think that's mom's favorite. Haha😂

@burntherest9118

Жыл бұрын

@@nancygibson4380 I know. 😂 some of us younger people do have celeb crushes that are a lot older tho. Lol.

@hariniharini-xu5uv

Жыл бұрын

Some Indians :actualy do I have a room for myself..🤷‍♀️

My mom would do this for me many times when I was going through severe mental health issues as a teen. That’s just one of the billion of reasons I take care of her as much as possible today. Good mothers deserve the world.

@Anreii

3 ай бұрын

Same here, she would spend hours of her day just helping me brush my very matted hair when I was in the peak of my depression, even though I caused her so much trouble and stress with not wanting to get up and go to school. I really wanna become independent enough to repay her when she needs it

That’s so sweet. This lets her know her mom has her back!

This is so sweet. Millie is so lucky to have a mom like you.

I would’ve never survived high school had I not been blessed with a mother like you. ❤️ It means the world to her, I’m sure of it.

@helen7635

Жыл бұрын

Jen, it's because she wanted the best for you Nurture is what should come naturally,for humans and animals, Sadly it doesn't always happen, You are lucky to have a mother like this and she's lucky to have you as a daughter that appreciates her💓 Sometimes all we need is those 3 simple words I LOVE YOU ,from a parent or a child🙏🌈💓

@YARSMARSA

Жыл бұрын

Tell your mom to adopt me pls

This is so sweet, I wish my mom was like this..whenever I’m having bad day she just calls me lazy. Your kids are so lucky ❤️

@bigblue4579

11 ай бұрын

Same.

@HappyFoxAstro

2 ай бұрын

Same

You are one of the most amazing moms out there you should be proud✨️

I love the example you are setting for your kids. Being sensitive to another’s struggles and seeking ways to lighten their load are skills all of us need to successfully human. ❤

I moved back in with my mom after my divorce. I was in my 40s. She used to do this for me until she was no longer able. My mom was not a hugger and rarely told anyone she loved them . This was her way of telling me she loved me. ❤🙏🏼

@rubim4087

Жыл бұрын

U no what my mom was the same way & I hear so much oohhh I’m sure that hurt your mom didn’t hug you much or didn’t tell you she loved you but idk the older I’ve gotten the more I’ve realized she told me in other ways, it always comes down to those “little things” huh ❤😊

@ruthgriffiths7365

Жыл бұрын

I have utterly no doubt in saying that your mom loved you very much indeed. I'm also certain that there was a good reason why she couldn't express her love in the way we all expect, but she found a way she thought you would understand. Luckily, you do ❤ x

@blessedanswer2567

Жыл бұрын

This touched my heart so much because of my mom God rest her soul. She worked long hours and if I needed her help in this way. I would go out and find everything fixed when I came back stress melted. We remember these things as daughters and will do them for our children as well.

@neoanderson4840

Жыл бұрын

❤ the comments here ... all of you'll lucky in more ways than1 😊

@karanfield4229

Жыл бұрын

My mum exactly!❤❤

First of all, your gorgeous, second of all, your such a sweet mom! That’s really kind of you to do, and I really wish there was more mothers and just people like you and just people this world ❤ Keep Slaying

This is the mom that everyone needs.

it’s great you can do this for your child & she trusts you to do so. My mom worked extremely hard working full time, driving us to all of your sports practices, and making dinner for us every night. moms are the real superheros

@donnalawrence9054

Жыл бұрын

Sometimes Dad's are. The mothers are not there at all. I had great parents.

@noonelooksatusers

Жыл бұрын

yes

My mom did this for me when I was a kid and I hope to be just as wonderful as a mom for my newborn daughter. These are acts of kindness kids never forget. ❤

This was so thoughtful of you! Yes, sometimes all we see is the mess and not the stress behind it. I’m sure she appreciated it.

Even if I would have the hardest time right now. I would be soo happy to see that my grandma sees this and wants to help me.

A mom who is gentle, supportive, sweet, helpful, loving. 😢 Imagine that.❤

I hope your daughter knows how awesome her Mom is. That was so kind of you❤

That's so wholesome! I wish all mothers were this understanding

Sometimes we just need a little help to get back on track! You are a good mom.

Nothing wrong with a moms touch sometimes🤗🤗teens get overwhelmed with life also- and a lil help makes them feel and know moms here for them!!👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽🙏🏾🙏🏾

As adults, we get so caught up in our own stress that we forget how hard it can be to be a kid! The fact that you can recognize that she has a full plate is so important. Good job, mama!

This is the mom I want❤ (I still love my own mom)

She is an amazing mom❤ she keeps her kids privacy and also helps them clean their rooms❤

Very nice job Mom. Nick Cage so handsome.

That’s amazing. No matter your age, support and help from parents is always appreciated. They’ll do the same for you when they grow up. Also, this is good parenting. Teach them to be responsible but support them at their worst. ❤

My grandma used to clean my room every Friday when I was at school so I could have an easier weekend resting and studying. An Angel truly. It taught me how great it is to have a clean space so you can rest and focus as well. Your kids have a great support system 💕

That’s a good mother helping her daughter clean

U r a Great Mom, ( I lost my mom at the age of 3, I have Great family that help raise me and my 6 brothers & sisters) Your Children are very Blessed to have you in their life...

@Billyandnebby

4 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry about that I hope your family is doing well!

That’s so sweet. What a great way to show the love. Now this is a great mom.

This is so sweet,when she was having a rough week you gave her the benefit of the doubt. I love moms like this,rock on! ✝️✝️❤️

I just love mom's like this who understand their children! I hope Millie is feeling better now!

I can’t tell you how glad I am that you posted this. I held my breath at first, hoping this wasn’t a shaming video. It breaks my heart when parents embarrass their kids on the internet because it stays there forever. I have done this for my kids and will continue to do it.

That’s a very sweet gesture that her daughter will love.

The way my teenage years would have been so much better if someone had cared for me in this way during a hard time..wow

You’re such a nice mom for doing that for your daughter! The room looks amazing. 😊

I read a lot of the comments… What I see is you are teaching your daughter how to be kind.. We all need a helping hand at times and support.. We all need to learn when to let the boundaries down and show kindness and caring…

@ch1ckmom217

Жыл бұрын

I’m a full grown adult, married and with 2 young adults and my mom still helps me clean when she visits, even though I tell her she doesn’t have to. Of course, I do the same whenever I visit her. It’s how we are in this family, we all help each other. It is nice to have someone help you sometimes to show your appreciation or just because.

@carolecoffman4276

Жыл бұрын

@@ch1ckmom217 absolutely…

This is so important and really tells your child she can trust you with her items and her feelings.

I got sick today. I'm having a bad week too because of school and my mother doesn't even CARE. When my dad went outside, she showed her real face. She started yelling at me for everything, even if I cry she won't even notice. You are the best mom someone can imagine....

Thanks for modeling how a mom should love and model love for her children. You are blessed 🤍🦋

Whoever your husband is…He hit the jackpot!!! I hope he knows that every time he takes a breath of fresh air 😂😂

That is a great Mom, who is paying attention to what is going on in her kids’ lives and steps in when needed. Makes all the difference in the worl to protect them from risk behaviors and enables them to recognize any mental health issues that need help.

"But sometimes they need a little reset and help from mom" love this

Stop this made me cry. Mum, you’re amazing 💖

Her room is lovely and so is her Mama. Bless you and your family.💐💐💐

You are so sweet! And a good example of a great mom and homemaker!

That is so sweet… As someone with depression who puts off cleaning for months bcs I physically can’t seeing people like you who understand and care restores a little bit of my faith in humanity. My mom just gets mad at my messy room lol

Man U is the nicest mom! My friends mom is so sweet and gives her chocolate when it’s her time of the month❤ And mine would just be like “CLEAN UR FREAKING ROOM” “AND I DONT CARE IF UR HURTING GO AWAY!”

I never had a supportive mom like this so seeing this makes me so happy for your daughter☺️

Thank you!! That’s how you find the balance between enforcing responsibility and agency (personal empowerment, etc.) while also seeing your kids and recognizing when they need support. It encourages them to participate in self-care and helps improve the relationship dynamic.

This is so sweet 🙏🏾

That so nice of you. Your kids must be so proud of you ❤😊

This was beautiful and so inspiring. We all need help sometimes (grown, baby, and in between). Kuddos Mom

Awe. I felt alone on this. I thought I was the only parent dealing with a child’s messy room. My daughters room goes thru a tornado 🌪️ storm once a week. Cleaning up her room as a surprise does wonders and puts her in such a great mood.

@claireashley427

Жыл бұрын

I promise you are NOT alone! I don't have kids but I was one and let me tell you..mine and my siblings rooms got insanely messy at times(to the point you could barely see the floor because all of the clothes and junk)😂 and it was always such a blessing and nice surprise when our mom would clean our rooms for us!❤ I guarentee most kids/teens are messier than you think and I assure you your kids are 100% normal!

@candyalongi3533

Жыл бұрын

Well she could clean her own room..her room...

@Va13chka

7 ай бұрын

@@claireashley427When my room gets so messy I don’t let my mom clean it because it’s up to me to clean it. I’d feel so fucked up knowing I’m grown to hide behind my moms unpaid labor like that 😂. If I become a mom I’d never let my kids room get this messy in the first place.

I wish my mum could be so understanding like that

I would cry if my mom did that... I always get very emotional when someone doese a favor without me asking for it, because I can't tell in words how much thankful I would be because no one often does something like that to help me. Your daughter is really lucky to have a mom like you who understands her when she needs it the most, and I'm sure she's really thankful ❤

We all need a reset sometimes 💜

All16yesr olds should have a mother like you 😊

best mom award. i wish my mom would understand i feel like i have anxiety but i have to be her perfect kid. she won’t take me to see if i have it. i also get overwhelmed very easily and she gives me so much laundry at a time it makes me cry. but then i get told to stop crying. i know it’s small but i just wish she’d understand

The Nicolas cage cut out is everything!! 😭❤

I love that you recognized that she was having a rough week and decided to help her. My parents would’ve never done that. This is definitely something that I would like to make sure that I do when I have children!

I hope I had a mom like this, understanding and appreciative. I have never received something like this ever from family. I have never been appreciated by parents once my mother always had blamed me. I feel happy seeing this that she is having a great mother like you ❤.

@helen7635

Жыл бұрын

Me too😭

That’s the sweetest thing a Mom ever done I’m not sure. Super sure that Millie would never ever ever forget that moment. You’re a great mom.❤

Such a great mom❤❤

What an awesome momma.

Mothers play a big role in their children's lives. I thank God for a mother like mine. For those with absent and unstable mothers be strong in the Lord. For those who lost theirs, God's will is always for the best. ❤

And THIS is an example on how to be a Good mom. Sometimes little things like this can really make someone's day and the same goes for vise versa (kids doing something for their parents that they don't usually do)

You are actually a good mom, helping your kids when they are feeling down and unmotivated unlike some where they don’t give a fuck? Love this

I do this for my 14 year old daughter and it lifts her entire mood.❤

So thoughtful and beautiful for her. You are modelling love, caregiving and respect.❤

Aawww that's so sweet!! I always have a messy room, but it's not always someone's own fault on purpose to have a messy room. Life gets hard and you're so sweet for helping her out during a rough patch !!!❤❤😊😊

What a good mom you are. Awe. Angel mama! May we all be one! May we all have one amen!

Perhaps teen daughter was in a bad place and mom wanted to show support by cleaning her room and of course that’s great. But if not, and mom likes to clean and organize her home she should not clean her teens room. The entire family can work together to organize the home and teens can certainly keep their own rooms clean.

@mercycnwani

Жыл бұрын

When I was a teeanger I'll go to lessons in the mornings and before I comeback and my mum has helped me clean up. Most of the time i did it myself but occasionally even if I wasnt having a hard time she'd help me clean up. And i appreciated it. Yes teenagers can be in charge of thier room but thier parents can also decide to help out if they feel like. If it works for them its good.

Daughter 16! You look 16 yourself!

You are an amazing mom! No need to justify doing a kind gesture for one of your babies🫶🏻🤍

You are such a thoughtful and sweet mom ❤

Yep that’s the way to teach responsibility

@Isabellediaz112

7 ай бұрын

wow she's gonna learn to never clean her room again because of this once in a lifetime thing

My mom would have yelled at me to clean it

I would had loved that so much. When i was going through one of my depression episodes my room was a mess and i was just a wreak and wish i could’ve had something like that to come home to lighten my mood. ❤

This is really sweet! My parents used to reset my room and leave gifts on my bed. Its the best! I now do this for my kiddos.

This is a beautiful thing you did. Thank you for sharing and take care.

Great job Mom!! You look close to 16 years old too!!

This is the kind of mom that we need in this world. Keep girlbossing ❤

Your too sweet your super nice to her.

Mom looks like a beautiful person, as well as being really beautiful ❤

NOPE! NOPE! NOPE! Ask ANY Psychologist and they’ll tell you, a Teens room is their territory and as long as it’s not filled with dead bugs, Leave It Alone! It is their choice to keep it clean or leave it messy. They are practicing “Adulthood” and need to be responsible for their environment, washing clothes, school work, chores, and keeping a schedule. If they need help, they will ask, otherwise they can learn how to mange on their own.

@audraleeferris

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!!!! She absolutely should have asked her daughter if that would bless her before she went in.

@Aurorya

8 ай бұрын

I agree. It's actually really sad to see everybody in the comments being like "I wish my mom did this", "you're so nice" etc. It shows people didn't have nice moms 😢 Mine was very nice, but this (waiting till I wasn't there to rearrange the room without asking me first) wasn't, and she didn't even understand why (and I'm sure in the video it's the same, she clearly doesn't do it to be mean). But uh, privacy ? How would you react if I enter your room while you're aren't there to move things around without your consent ? The only thing that would make this ok is if she ask first and the daughter said yes

i literally snorted when i saw the life size cutout of nicholas cage. jokes aside, im sure your daughter really appreciates the care you have for her !!

So sweet you are a great mom! My room has always been a safe space for me. So cleaning you daughter’s room for her is so kind!

My mom always cleaned up my room even as an adult Love my mommy

Daughter would have been there cleaning too.

I love doing this for my daughter ever since she was a baby, she is now 12 and she is so thankful when I do this for her❤️

I literally cried I wish my mom was as understanding as you 😢

The cut out and pillow tho😂❤

When people see these videos wishing their room looked like this or have a bigger room first one... BE GRATEFUL FOR WHAT U HAVE be grateful u even have a room some people don't. Two why her room looks so fancy and nice is because either her parents or the kid bought the fun stuff u can make ur room look more fun by asking or buying stuff

Tho is amazing! Having your kids need to clean their room themselves but letting them have a reset is so sweet of you!

That's really sweet. I'm sure she appreciates your work.