I know this is posted 3 weeks ago ,but i hope you feel better soon and that you can enjoy life and yourself again ❤. You are doing so good with cleaning up and taking your space back !

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your sweet comment! ♥️

It sounds like you are dealing well with your situation. It’s good to keep busy and organize “your” life

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Diane! Trying to do the best I can 🥰

It’s always nice to have a fresh, organized space! I need to get my life in order 😂 starting with my closet!!

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Yes Lindsey, it’ll feel so much better once it’s done! Just sucks doing it 😂 Have a good weekend friend! ♥️

@colleenmilligen6083

Жыл бұрын

Me too

I love how your little dog seems to follow you & check on you!

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Yes she is my little shadow, whenever I go she goes 🥰

@shannonburgett

Жыл бұрын

@@HappilyEverBecka my little puppy does the same for me so I noticed yours & had to say “HOW SWEET!” Love your home & how you decorate!!💜

Your first “separation “ was my first video and have been watching ever since! You are amazing!! Keep up your strength and optimism, it’s inspiring! Huge fan! Love from CT!

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Hey Jenn! Another CT girl! 🥰 Thank you so much for being here and for the support ♥️

Enjoy every visit. Closets and vanity drawers look great!! As always thank you for sharing your life with us!❤

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for being here friend! ♥️

great video. So happy you are reclaiming yourself, and your space. Keep taking care of yourself.

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you, it feels good 🥰

Great job girl 👏👏 moving on is bittersweet. Be proud of all you've accomplished.

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you ♥️ It sure is but I’m determined it come out of this a better human 🥰

You did a great job in your video. I’m sure getting the closet the way you wanted it when you open the door helps. Have a blessed day ❤

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

It definitely helps, and brings me some peace through all of this 🥰 Thanks for watching friend!

Thanks Becca for the motivation! I love the way your closet turned out.

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you friend! Bringing me some much needed peace 🥰

Everything looks so neat and organized!!! Great job!!!!

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Frances! So satisfying now that it’s done 🥰

You go girl. Love the closet. Way to take it over. So proud of my friend. Great vid. 💜 💜💜💜😘

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thanks you so much friend! I needed that today ♥️

As soon as you started cleaning your cabinet, I paused the video and got up and did a cabinet I had been putting off. It took no time at all it just took the motivation to do it. Thanks. I’m glad to see you clearing the rest of his belongings, he shouldn’t of left you to do it. But, your space, clear space, clear mind, free heart.

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you friend! I agree but I’ll clean it up and clear it out for him. Good job getting that cabinet done! Glad I could help get you motivated ♥️

Loved the declutter and clean out!!! Thanks for sharing. Cindy💗🌻

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for being here Cindy! ♥️

Good job Becka, a lots of work and motivation especially and the closet, you give me good ideas, thank you

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for being here and watching Ruth! ♥️

Love watching your video’s, life gets easier and better as the weeks go on. ❤

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Diane, it’s a rollercoaster right now but I’m healing and that’s really important ♥️

Love your channel Becka, hope you are doing okay. It does get better as time goes on, have a great weekend.😊

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Sharlene. I’m doing alright, some days are good and some are bad. I’m getting there and healing. Hope you have a good weekend friend ♥️

The intrusive thoughts, girl. Yes. Adhd is cruel. ❤❤❤ you're not alone. I won't pretend to know the whole story, but I hope you have found peace. I'm binging your videos immediately. You're doing great and have inspired me to get up and get going. My house is a disaster, and the doom piles have to go lol ❤

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Hey Heather, so glad you enjoyed it and totally get the intrusive thoughts! Ugh they suck! You got this girl! ♥️

@courtneymarie8728

Жыл бұрын

The “doom piles”!!! Oh my goodness I love that term!!! Haha yeah I have to deal with those in our house… the struggle is real! It’s so nice to see other moms honest about the struggle too 😇😇😇

You did a amazing job on the bathroom and on your closest, even down to those fabulous vacuum line's 🤗, they are so beautifully rewarding. I hope thing's will start getting easier for you now you've crossed that hurdle. Have a wonderful weekend 💞

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you friend, you as well! ♥️ Things are up and down, it I’m confident the other side will be so much more healing for me 🥰

I love the vlog this reminds me when I was going Thur the same things almost 6 years ago separation of 15 years we had just outgrown each other at first it was hard cleaning the spaces there stuff was at so use of routines but now I had to learn to do different things by myself and really focus on me so I did the same thing just put all his things in storage containers so he can pick them up you will be ok I been there

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Yes you absolutely hit the nail on the head. That’s why I waited a few months to clear everything out. I needed some time but I am ready now. Not that it isn’t difficult but I can cope with this now and have a future I can look forward to now. Working hard on me to find my way through this in a positive way ♥️ So glad you have found your way through it.

Good work, becka. Your house is tidy up. Continue on your road on getting the silver play button

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊

Hi BECKA 👏 This video today' really was motivational with you decluttering and organizing and cleaning.💯. Happy Friday 😁.

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Renee! So glad you enjoyed it! Have a great weekend friend! ♥️

Oooh, your closet looks so nice all spread out! Take care of yourself ❤

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Marcia! So happy with how it turned out 🥰

Watched this video while I vacuumed my whole apartment - so satisfying!

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching! ♥️

Great job cleaning and organizing thanks for sharing 💕

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for being here friend ♥️

Love todays video. Have a great weekend!

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Kay! Glad you enjoyed it ♥️

Great video. Sorry about your split, hopefully things will work out for you both and your children.

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Liz ♥️

Hi Becka sweet friend. I’m glad you’re doing great. The first video of you was when you went to your sisters wedding, or went to a wedding with your sister. You are awesome a hard worker. Keep up the good work.

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Hey sweet friend! Yes you’ve been around for a while, so grateful for you being here still! 🥰♥️ Yes I went to my cousins wedding with my sister.

Becky, my ex husband moved out while I was at work and moved right in an apartment with someone else. I was devastated. At least you knew what was going,on. No matter how it happens, it’s really hard to adjust to it. You seem strong, but that you are still hurting. You will be ok. Life DOES go on. I’m sorry that you have to sell the house. It’s a lot of house to take care of. Maybe something smaller would be great . The best of everything for you and you kids!

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Jamie, and yes it’s too much house. I will definitely be down sizing. I look forward to it 🥰 I’m so sorry you went through that. Know anyone who does that to you is not worth your time or investment. You’re worth so much more than him ♥️

Thank you for sharing the reality of divorce and acceptance of what is. Make the space your own. Love and peace to you as you heal and move forward.

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your kind words ♥️

Good Friday afternoon Becka. Excellent video with superb production values - motivating and inspiring. Your energy and enthusiasm is virtually inexhaustibe. You really know how to get it done. That being said, remember how important it is for you to take some time for yourself during this busy day of cleaning and decluttering. 😍👌

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! I’m so glad you enjoyed it! Taking some me time this weekend actually 🥰 Thanks for being here friend ♥️

@MrRKWRIGHT

Жыл бұрын

@@HappilyEverBecka You're quite welcome of course. I most certainly did - and you certainly deserve some time off this weekend. ❤

Good work, feels so good when everything is organised x decluttered 👍

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Yes so satisfying! 🥰

Love your closet. Making the closet MINE helped me lots after my hubby left. It’s the little things! 😂

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

It really is! It is helping me so much! Seems so minor but has some big impacts on me mentally ♥️ Glad it helped you too

Best one to watch ❤❤❤

Hey Girl, my husband moved out about 2 months ago as well but he’s coming back in the middle of June I’m excited. ❤🥰 I’m so glad you are cleaning up your house after your husband left so you can feel like your space is your house now. I do know how you are feeling, I felt that way in the beginning of my and my husband’s separation when I wasn’t sure if we could figure things out. ❤ It was hard but I’m glad we have been taking these couple of months and working on ourselves, it has helped our marriage greatly. Honestly what drew me to your channel was the fact you were going through what I was going through at the time and then when I came I found an amazing woman who puts out amazing content, makes her channel feel like she’s talking to a bunch of friends, and someone real and genuine. I’m so happy with my decision when I found and subscribed to your channel. ❤ me and my husband are polar opposites when it comes to taking medicine too. He doesn’t take medicine unless he’s feeling like he’s dying or the pain is so terrible that he can’t do anything. I used to be like that but now I just take medicine when I feel any type of pain. 😂 I loved this video and I can’t wait for the next one! ❤🥰

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Rachel! Means the world to me that you can relate, that’s why I do what some would call “over sharing”. It’s so nice not to feel alone, especially through struggles. I’m so glad things are working out for the two of you. I do think some space and healing can definitely help some times. I wish that was the case for us, but unfortunately it’s not.

I have a feeling Becka is pleased with the results and having more room again.

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Yes very happy with how it turned out! 🥰

@CrestwoodRocks

Жыл бұрын

@@HappilyEverBecka smiles

Absolutely brilliant video 😊 loved the closet 👌 take care 🙏❤️🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Mary, you as well ♥️

Time to clear out the past and look towards the future! 😀💖 love you!

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Debbie, and so we’ll said 🥰♥️

Love the closet!! It looks more like you ❤

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you friend! 🥰

Hey, Becka. Time heals. ❤

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you friend ♥️

The closet turned out nice! You have a lot of space in there.

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching friend! 🥰♥️

Thank you Becky ❤️

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching Danni! ♥️

Praying for you, have t forgotten you. Also, I dare say eventually do not give him “ galore” organizing my new life ; as a single mother of lovely kids. Keep going!Don’t stop! I know I never did kept myself busy it works!

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for that friend! ♥️

Don't call yourself a lazy butt for not emptying the suitcase. You've got a lot going on. Love, "Aunt" Kay

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Kay, you’re so sweet to me 🥰♥️

That's right love yourself and make room for your needs life. Been there done that.

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Pamela ♥️

I so need that storage space in my bathrooms lol. I love all the space you have and it makes me question how the heck I fit everything in my bathrooms. 😆

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Girl I question how I’m going to fit things when I move out of this house! 😅 One of the reasons I love this floor plan is all the abundance of closets! I actually have two closets on this bathroom. It’s more than I even need really.

You go, girl ! ❤

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

♥️

Great video!

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you friend ♥️

Great motivation

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching friend! ♥️

great job with the closets! i wish he didnt make you have to do that but i understand why you'd want to it does look good in both and now you can breathe easier :) hope you have a great weekend!

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you friend, I feel the same way! But we do what we have to ♥️

I'm new to your channel & and I loved your video! ❤

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Alayna! So glad you found my channel ♥️

@alaynaweis94

Жыл бұрын

@Happily Ever Becka your welcome! I'm glad that I was able to find your channel too 🙂

Even though it was no doubt hard you did a good job.

There's a method to your decluttering. It looks messy right before you organize. That's what I've noticed I do also. I love my Dollar Tree for organizing. My granddaughter changed her favorite color, so I have green baskets for her closet. It looks great! Im glad you're feeling up to getting rid of Chris' things. It's hard enough, then you have to look at everything. I hope it's kind of out of sight, out of mind for you, & makes it easier.

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you friend ♥️ Yes I had to wait till I was ready but it’s nice not seeing his stuff around here all the time. Especially in my personal space.

You rock girl!

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thanks friend! So do you! ♥️

Hey friends mini love ❤️

Your walk in wardrobe looks a lot better Becka, though the first thing I would have removed would have been the gun safe.

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

That thing is too heavy for me to move 😂 That has to stay till I move out unfortunately.

Nice!!

What is that vacuum thingy you're using on the tile floors in bathroom? Thanks.

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Do you mean the steam mop? If so here is a link amzn.to/3LV9732 (Affiliate link)

Yes girl 💪 ❤

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

🥰♥️

Hi Becca, can you tell me the floor cleaner you use. Thankyou !

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

On the bathroom floors I just use my steam mop.

Happy FriYay

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Have a great weekend friend! ♥️

Does anyone know which video Becka is referring to at the beginning regarding her split from her husband, I can’t see it in the description.

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

So sorry forgot to link it. Here is a link to it - kzread.info/dash/bejne/pJ9nk7KdppepXbQ.html

@samfoster619

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Becka

new to your channel. Love your dog ❤❤ Looking to see where yo are located.. Hang in there .. Things will get better

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Hey Donna! I’m in South Carolina 😊 So glad you found my channel ♥️

❤️❤️❤️

😊

Becka, honestly just a (( hug))

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you ♥️

Hey, I'm new here and if it's ok to ask, why did he move out?

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Hey Tanja, here is a video I talk more about it and share what I feel comfortable sharing - kzread.info/dash/bejne/pJ9nk7KdppepXbQ.html

💪

Ur inspiring

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you ♥️

Feather duster never clean properly try spray and micro fibre cloth

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Yes that’s what I use most the time. Thank you 😊

Hey!

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Hey Michelle 🥰

You can do it my mom had 10 children and managed. Five boys and five girls.

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Wow your mom is a rockstar!

Hi Becky good to see you again, you should hang all your jeans on hangers, and have all your shoes facing the same way makes it Look much Neater just a suggestion take care God Bless! 😄😄

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Hey Tresa, all my jeans are hung. Just not my short and my I do my shoes like that because one is facing me and one is the back, just like the aesthetic of being able to see both aspect of a pair if that makes sense 😊 Thanks for watching friend! ♥️

Good evening I love your channel could you please pray for my uncle he had a bike wreck recently🧡 hope you have a good day

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry friend! I hope your uncle is doing ok ♥️

🏡🏠

👏🏻👏🏻👌🏻👌🏻👍🏻👍🏻💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💜💛❤️

Hey

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Hey friend ♥️

I watch this like: ppl are vacuming an empty house lol...

🇧🇷❤️🥰❤️👏👏

Wash that man right outta your hair! You'll be okay, and for sure a nice, clean, organized space is a great stride through survival to thrival. Thank you for this, I just found your channel and will be back. :)

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

So glad you found my channel! ♥️ Thank you for the words of encouragement!

Why don’t you just hang everything up in your closet?

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

I do hang most things up. Just not pjs and athletic wear, oh and shorts.

The music you are playing is super depressing.

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Sorry you didn’t like it.

Hey, from single mum in Germany big love an kisses an power. We rock! Women solidarity

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you friend! ♥️

👍👏💪🥰

Great motivating cleaning video. Have a great day and weekend.

@HappilyEverBecka

Жыл бұрын

Thank you friend, you too! 😊