Note to self: "God told me..." can be used as an excuse for anything 😐😅

@Star26900

3 жыл бұрын

true. especially to vulnerable people who don't know themselves and don't have a relationship with God.

@wendyann3333

3 жыл бұрын

"GOD told me " is a very manipulative term to persuade the weak, ..we need to 🙏 against that spirit of deception that messes with their mind.....

@owamizuma7565

3 жыл бұрын

lol😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@normakay9244

3 жыл бұрын

Yes bushiri scammed millions of our people with that God told me mantra

@stellamooibedi9027

3 жыл бұрын

Ba buela modimo maaka fela😅

Not this man saying “people wanna translate the word of God in their own human understanding” when he’s exactly doing that chile!😂😭

@Pamandfam

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@zimkhitha.h

3 жыл бұрын

Likeeeee

@nonhpapo8543

3 жыл бұрын

He brainwashed them by the Bible studies mnx

@malizolemalz516

3 жыл бұрын

That's exactly what I thought when I heard him say that 😂😂😂😂

@Tsidyannamohapi2381

3 жыл бұрын

I just thought the same too.😅😅😅

I take my hat off to the host. A true inspiring for me . The way Ausi Lebo carries the conversation and asks questions without any disrespect. Impercable

@lovelight4388

2 жыл бұрын

If he is happy and the wives are happy, what is the problem. You're all being forced to accept and celebrate homosexual marriage.

How he puts both of his failed marriages on his wives lol WILD!

@noluthandomasondo

3 жыл бұрын

So according to him, he didnt play any role it's all on his ex wives.

@jaiyaalexandra144

3 жыл бұрын

That struck me too, no responsibility taken whatsoever...

@vuyosithole3056

3 жыл бұрын

He is so clean, wow!

@katlegomhlauli8423

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I know it just ridiculous how he had no hand in that

@sofialovinglife597

3 жыл бұрын

He sounds like a narcissist

Impressed with the comment section. Encouraging to see that people aren’t deceived by this gentleman twisting scripture.

It bothers me that he met all this women when they are vulnerable and needed to be loved by a man. He must just live God out of it. He is a narcissist

@nursemaggie2321

3 жыл бұрын

He is!

@Angeloflight7

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Can anyone say trauma bonding

@zikhonamene9107

3 жыл бұрын

Itumeleng I'm also stuck at all of them getting into the marriage when "I was questioning my purpose in life..." I am seating here wondering is their purpose to be in a polygamous marriage?! And then what?! Cause they felt like their lives cannot just be set in being born, study work and die, ok so are they saying this was their ultimate purpose in life and they are now content with where their life is headed or is this the destination?!

@Itumelengmatlou

3 жыл бұрын

@@zikhonamene9107 all they say was their purpose is to serve God but how serving God and being in polygamous marriage work i don't know.

@nursemaggie2321

3 жыл бұрын

@@zikhonamene9107 hmmm. I had this same wonder when she said I cannot just be born, go to school, work and support my family then die.... I was waiting eagerly to hear what else would come after that-- NOTHING. The worst kind of slavery is the slavery of the mind!

I still don't understand why God's name is brought into this whole strange story and arrangement.

@mohaumothobi442

3 жыл бұрын

That’s my issue. He just needs to be honest and leave God out of it. He can have three wives. Nobody will kill him. He just needs to leave God out of it.

@ThobileMacaws

3 жыл бұрын

Hahhahahahha

@marthaniitembu1077

3 жыл бұрын

@@mohaumothobi442 exactly

@Nicole-og6df

3 жыл бұрын

I think its obvious that he’s using God’s name to make himself believe that what he’s doing is right🤷‍♀️

@nomxhosapekani7966

3 жыл бұрын

Most of the great men of the Bible - Abraham, Jacob, David, Solomon - had many wives. If David was such a bad man why are Christians quoting his Psalms daily, so God os pro polygamy.

Trust Relebogile to unearth a polygamist - interracial relationship in Africa 😅👏🏾. This show is so underrated.

@mogotsil9037

3 жыл бұрын

Right!!!

@tshegofatsotalane1503

3 жыл бұрын

True👏🏽👏🏽

@LM-he7eb

3 жыл бұрын

Polygamist Christian interracial marriage.

@ntandoyenkosicele5196

3 жыл бұрын

Jonga!!!🤞

These ladies look like sisters. He has a type.

@cebisa93

3 жыл бұрын

I thought they were twins

@ELLIOT8209

3 жыл бұрын

@@cebisa93 me 3

@myriammikobi7936

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

@EvelynSTYN

3 жыл бұрын

Especially wife 1 & 2 they look very much alike

@rejoicekhulani1988

3 жыл бұрын

Right

Can we agree that Ray's wives are naturally beautiful, despite what we may think of their situation. 😁 🤗

@ndzalama1

2 жыл бұрын

🙃😂

@leratoshezi7884

2 жыл бұрын

He’s got a choice hlehle 🤣🤣🤣

@triciakekana

2 жыл бұрын

They are

@hlamalanibaloyi-jele3897

Жыл бұрын

They also look alike, are they siblings?

Second, you can’t read bible passages in isolation. The New Testament in Matthew 5, 19, mark 10, & Luke 16 clearly says anyone who divorces spouse & marry another commits adultery

@londekamhlongo2615

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!! Couldn't have said it better.

@maphutigondo4482

3 жыл бұрын

Again Mthulisi Dube,I salute you,you know the scripture.May God bless you.

@Itumelengmatlou

3 жыл бұрын

I came across that scripture in the bible the other day i was so shocked.

@raesetjemuroa3767

3 жыл бұрын

I agree...O ja sebe ka verse..lol

@nolusizodlalisa5573

3 жыл бұрын

You know how they use scriptures in isolation to benefit them and personal nonsense!!

I am very wary of people who put everything on God. "God told me..." "God spoke to me..." There has to be another reason why but who am i to impose my values and beliefs on others.

@motherofcubs

3 жыл бұрын

Sounds like a cult like relationship 🤔

@sarafinasang8689

3 жыл бұрын

@@motherofcubs i was going to type that too but i promised to keep an open mind

@wendyann3333

3 жыл бұрын

@@sarafinasang8689 yeah its a very manipulative term for those that are weak in the faith and we need to pray for them

@carolinemmabatho5119

3 жыл бұрын

That also makes me laugh🤣🤣 since when does God tell people to get married at specific places. Son I want you to go marry a wife in South Africa🤣🤣wtf. Dont bring God into this. You wanted to come to South Africa for your own reasons.

@LadyT06

3 жыл бұрын

Probably following the mormon way of life.

This is the danger of reading a single verse without context. If you read Isaiah chapters 2,3 and 4, you'll realize that God was listing a number of cursing over Judah and Jerusalem because they had sinned against Him . The last few verses of Isaiah 3 were a warning to the women of Jerusalem because they had pride. So Isaiah 4:1, about 7 wives grabbing onto 1 man, is not a command, but a curse onto Jerusalem for their disobedience to God.

@michaelgriffin6380

3 жыл бұрын

Satanic way of reading scripture Di Dr di stout kudu di guns mxm

@shanteg8770

3 жыл бұрын

Just read it and you’re spot on . I’m struggling to understand how he took that and decided it was telling him to be a polygamist . Very strange.

@simply_khanyi3879

3 жыл бұрын

That has always been my understanding all this time.

@melitasiqebengu6776

3 жыл бұрын

Ke nnete, and if you're in Christ he has taken all the curses on your behalf when he hung on a tree How do you willingly partake in a curse?

@rebirthed1274

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

relationships like this make me so angsty. very weird a foreign, older white man, presumably wealthier, marrying younger black women (3?????). some of these relationships are sex tourism under the guise of missionary, or ( doing the Lord's work).

@Thembi_3

2 жыл бұрын

Kinky nyana this madala

God has nothing to do with this perverted weirdness. How does God get involved in his personal satisfaction which does not help the body of Christ?

@hlogiledwaba9669

3 жыл бұрын

👏

@gontsejalontlatleng7906

3 жыл бұрын

Thank God someone said it👏

@moosampofu622

3 жыл бұрын

Pastors are the most unfaithful in marriage,,this one is using God to galvanize his acts.. he's clearly a womanizer

@reabetswe

3 жыл бұрын

His history of marriage Ey!! Divorced so many times yet the Bible he is preaching from says you can't remarry while your spouses are still alive because marriage is a covernant that bounds one till death

@gladysmkhize4085

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

This is a very dangerous man. I feel sorry for the brainwashed wives.

@palesajele4418

3 жыл бұрын

They are hypnotised

@presley6142

3 жыл бұрын

It will end in tears

@memorymalunga670

2 жыл бұрын

You're right, he is a very dangerous man.

@elizabethwilmer1531

2 жыл бұрын

@@memorymalunga670 very dangerous and manipulative.

How does marrying multiple women glorify God?

Petition to interview all the girls who were or almost were part of this family. We'd like to hear their side of the story.

@Dklady

2 жыл бұрын

I second that it almost reminds me of R Kelly's story

@Supernaturalseamoss

Жыл бұрын

People always gotta look for a negative narrative

😂 the irritation on Lebo’s face as this man is explaining the “7 wives to one man”

@tshepozindela4618

3 жыл бұрын

I appreciate her restraint. So mature

@zingimazongs274

3 жыл бұрын

I know hey. I was like look at that pretty but disguisted face

@nomvulairene4177

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@chipod6254

2 жыл бұрын

😂

@leratoshezi7884

2 жыл бұрын

She’s so good at what she does 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I'm just asking myself why he didn't read 1 Timothy 3:2 "Therefore an overseer (Pastor/leader) must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money." when he was making this decision? God can't contradict himself! The word of God is clear- he can't be a pastor/leader and still choose to have more than 1 wife. So we ask ourselves Pastor did you really hear God or the voice of your flesh when you saw our beautiful South African sisters?

@glorialinda386

3 жыл бұрын

Well said, that was the first thing that came to my mind👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@boipelon1220

3 жыл бұрын

These people quote scriptures that support their nuisance

@shimanediseko2790

3 жыл бұрын

Based on the above scripture does this mean polygamy is acceptable if you are not a leader/pastor in the church/kingdom?

@vuvum2661

3 жыл бұрын

@@shimanediseko2790 no because either way we understand that God has made each man the "head" in his household- meaning that every husband is a leader in his own home so this scripture still applies to every husband even those who aren't leaders in churches. They are still leaders in their home and should still obey the scripture.

Kanti Lebo o ba tsea kae batho ba, Can I be invited too, I don't know for what...🤷🏾‍♀️

@sontomtolo473

3 жыл бұрын

🤣😂

🚩 🚩MY TWO CENTS 🚩 🚩 First of all i tried to really listen but i was left with numerous questions. Anyway this is what i took away from this conversation : 1. This polygamous marriage feels like a cult. 2. It seems that the husband groomed these young women who were lost and didn't have/know their purpose in life. 3. The husband is never at fault or takes any responsibility for his role in the past divorces. 4. The Bible and religion have been used as a crutch for this marriage ( i didn't hear many if any common interests.) 5. The husband is soft spoken, a good Christian but we've all heard the tales of the soft spoken narcissists.( plus his whole persona just threw me off) 6.The age differences /probably financial ( from what i understood he is a doctor and the wives have settled to being wives) presents a power dynamic that does not sit well with me for a reason. EDIT*** 7.) It feels like the wivesare servants to the husband. They're only there to support him in his quest to marry as many wives as he wants. (They pray for a good wife) i mean to what extent will he go? Will he ever be satisfied? How many more? Will he be able to give love and attention to all of them? Or is all this just a quest to prove a point because of his past failures /failed marriages that he refuses to take any blame? On the last note though, it really seems to me that they're happy in it and are committed to making it work so i wish them the very best.

@ariellekatombela9038

3 жыл бұрын

Well said 👏🏾

@bryanoaitse1547

3 жыл бұрын

Something is wrng here Brain washing tactics

@nomsapxilongo9984

3 жыл бұрын

He's definitely a narcissist, I feel sorry for these women. Narcissists blames everyone except themselves - I'm listening to his explanation on his failed 2 marriages...🚩

@bryanoaitse1547

3 жыл бұрын

I once saw ths kind similar situation and thngs never end wl

@vuyosithole3056

3 жыл бұрын

This is what I gathered as well

"Christian Polygamy" Only trust Relebogile to UNPACK such. I'm an avid fan of talkshows, Yours is the best since Oprah took a bow. Sterling job always. I'm in my 40's and the knowledge I'm gaining about life from this show is amazing. Thank you.

@ingridngarizemo530

3 жыл бұрын

There is a cult in America, where church people or pastors can marry three wives, but to use the name of God, for me is a big NO.

As christians "I think" we need to stop saying, "God told me" because, that kind of talk makes others who obviously don’t hear God speak in an audible voice (if this is the case with you) feel sub-par in their Christian life, even if your motives are pure. As, something like this can acts as a means of elevating your spiritual level over that of a 'normal' Christian and this shouldn’t be the goal in our walk with Christ.

@dineonkwane2276

3 жыл бұрын

People who say "God told me" throw me off immediately, I zone out

@mohaumothobi442

3 жыл бұрын

“God told me” = “It’s not biblical but I want to do it.”

@doremi131

3 жыл бұрын

@@dineonkwane2276 The question is WHO is Ray Moosie's God.

@johnlekayshows

3 жыл бұрын

God can really speak to us... The problem is some people are using "God said" for their twisted desires. Already in the bible we see incidences of God speaking to his people.

@dineonkwane2276

3 жыл бұрын

@@doremi131 good question sis, yoh kaba ka choga

Rele that dress and color 🔥❤. I am only in the intro but this man seems to lack personal accountability concerning his previous marriages. I don't think he is fully self aware. I can't dispute his relationship with God because that's personal. But The first two marriages I need the other women's stories. As for isithembu somlungu in Christianity... angazi yaz It's not my palate but ke people choose for themselves...

@quemtsi6717

3 жыл бұрын

Babes my thoughts exactly. Lack of accountability and he still says hes nt here to please people but God😴😴

So many divorces and he don't seem to take any accountability, the first SA wife is lucky that she left, these young beautiful women need to run for for the hills, just because he can memorize scriptures doesn't make him a man of God. He is just wasting these women youth. I don't know something make me uneasy about this man, How come he didn't do this in America?

@phomolosefala4341

3 жыл бұрын

my thoughts exactly .. why our black sisters or maybe God sent him to South Africa specifically.

@LM-he7eb

3 жыл бұрын

Would you say the same about Mseleku?

@myriammikobi7936

3 жыл бұрын

Isn't he said God sent him or told him to come in SA🤣

@lbghaze

3 жыл бұрын

He couldn't do it in Amerkah because there is red tape.

@myriammikobi7936

3 жыл бұрын

@@lbghaze exactly don't think Americans can tolerate that rubbish being said in his mouth so Africa was a good option for him

Tinyiko sent the Pastor a flirt 😅😅...interesting how the younger wives met him during their heart breaks.

"You've got a calling" no no no waays😭💔. the manipulation... I'm shocked

@ncomekamazi2274

3 жыл бұрын

I'm curious of this "calling "

@johnlekayshows

3 жыл бұрын

Dangerous

@emmanuelmadi

3 жыл бұрын

🚩

@boitumelo9030

3 жыл бұрын

The deception is shocking

1 Timothy 3:2 (NKJ) "A bishop (or pastor) then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, temperate, sober-minded, of good behavior, hospitable, able to teach..."

@deniseshallow7128

2 жыл бұрын

Amen

@tanatswataruvinga

Жыл бұрын

That’s the first verse that came to my mind.

I think is safe to draw a pattern in these ladies, they were all "found" by Ray during a time in their lives when they were CONFUSED and all QUESTIONING LIFE... That's how he found is leighway...

@vuyosithole3056

3 жыл бұрын

Yes they found comfort in being groomed while they were down!

@kgothatsomasethe4555

3 жыл бұрын

thats true, its a pattern. Ray prey on them when they are most vulnerable and feed them a fairytale, he's using his powers as a man of God maliciously.

@ireadwhatilike1967

3 жыл бұрын

He is a master manipulator and picks his victims carefully.

@thutonnena3092

3 жыл бұрын

Csn we also tslk about how much they look alike? Lol

@ELLIOT8209

3 жыл бұрын

Leeway

Wife number 1 and number 2 do look alike.

@selaelomahogany3632

3 жыл бұрын

Literally what I thought!

Can the American wives comment here please🙏🏽we wanna hear your side of the story

This Pastor is living contrary to the Word of God. God NEVER ordain multiple spouses. Marriage was ordain in the garden of Eden where joined Adam to Eve. We are in deep season of LUKEWARMNESS... May God have mercy! I prayer that this group featured will open their eyes, before it's too late.

@kukrikukemoer4956

3 жыл бұрын

"God" ? Whose God? do you know God ? Have or had he/she told you that? What proof do you have to support your statement

"People want to interpret the Bible to fit their own human understanding" I have heard this statement at least twice and it does not sit right with me especially since it is a man speaking. My question is isn't he maybe interpreting the Bible to fit his own selfish needs? I am not bashing i am just questioning the legitimacy of his argument since he is also human but the way he makes it sound is that he has a higher understanding of the Bible than others.

@Star26900

3 жыл бұрын

He is. most people are these days... people aren't interested in God, they are interested in what they can get from God. So we twist everything to fit our own narratives... if you convince yourself hard enough, you'll be sure its "God" or the "holy spirit" telling you these things🤷🏾‍♀️.

@sarafinasang8689

3 жыл бұрын

@@Star26900 it's a shame, really

@wendyann3333

3 жыл бұрын

@@sarafinasang8689I said almost the same , The way the man twist the Word of God to make it say what he wants it to say... He has a spirit of deception and its spreading like wildfire among the people he teaches

@mohaumothobi442

3 жыл бұрын

He should just say he wants three wives and leave God out of it. Simple !!!!

@wendyann3333

3 жыл бұрын

@@mohaumothobi442 yup

What stands out to me is how he says "people" and "they" a lot... as if he is far removed from everyone ...as if his understanding is far beyond even other Christians. To say it once ..i understand.. but In all his responses he seems to use these terminologies and it's concerning... as no man can possibly reach such perfection. If he atleast once said "we, as people can be this way"..maybe

@carolinemmabatho5119

3 жыл бұрын

Lol you're right.And the fact that he hides behind the bible. No matter what the bible says you still have your brain with you. I'm sure there's time you want to use it instead he keeps saying this is what God told me to do. Everything he does God told him to do.😂😂😂😂😂😂 I think he hides a lot of who he really is behind "God to me to do it" so that nobody questions his decisions. He claims the moral high ground for the same reason.

@ncomekamazi2274

3 жыл бұрын

He sounds like a false prophet.....this "God told me" statement is raising some red flags. Another thing is that the third wife says,she met him on dating website 😲. .really? ? A pastor on Dating site??this doesn't sit well in me

This man is twisting scriptures, Isaiah is here prophesying about the fall of Israel to both Assyria & Babylon. In the fall, many males were killed & widowhood became rampant & hence polygamy increased. Read 2 Chronicles 28 vs 6 & Jeremiah 15 vs 8. Isaiah 4 vs 1 was a prophecy & was fulfilled in the fall captivity.

@tshegotlou313

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the scriptures will definitely read

@maphutigondo4482

3 жыл бұрын

Mthulisi Dube I agree with you, he only chose the scripture for his only self gratification.,and to distort the word of God., is not right. I might be wrong.

@johnlekayshows

3 жыл бұрын

The man is deceived, twisting scriptures left and right.

@tshepozindela4618

3 жыл бұрын

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽you sir have studied and shewn yourself approved. Thank you

@awethutshengu9340

3 жыл бұрын

Definitely. Context is everything

This show is addictive i tell you. We thank God for you Lebo❤.

Relebogile that mmmmmmm when you are speechless is killing me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@mpoetsiramolahlehi7131

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂sis I would be speechless too coz wow

@ndiwanganetshiluvhi4158

3 жыл бұрын

😂 😂 😂

@tshidi129

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@sinovuyomasala3564

2 жыл бұрын

So the wives life purpose is to be married to this guy? Woww And how is he surviving his calling bcz he saying he has a calling

There's something shady about this guy.

@jaiyaalexandra144

3 жыл бұрын

Definitely! Seems like a lust problem

@Ms.Gideon

3 жыл бұрын

@@jaiyaalexandra144 I thought I was the only one that picked it up. So true

@WILMA_

3 жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree more!!!

@AfriScents

3 жыл бұрын

His isn't giving me the authenticity...

@lungelolamula7075

3 жыл бұрын

White guy with a fetish for young African girls. The 3rd wife mentioned ukuthi they as the wives also have to kiss. Yini nje lokho? This is cultish.

I watched last night in disbelief and I’m here again just to confirm I heard what I heard

@ntandoyenkosicele5196

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@hlatse98

3 жыл бұрын

Same 😂💔

@grettalwaba

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@teacherlwazi7414

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

When you meet such a person (so-called preacher/pastor), 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♂️RUN FOR YOUR LIFE

🤣🤣🤣 It's the facial expressions by Relebogile for me.....she's not buying all of this nonsense 🙄😆😆😬 #theheadtilts

@nomvulairene4177

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙆

@booairmow

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

Sister wife no.1 and no.2 look alike 😂❤ . His fortunate to have such beautiful wives

@lisebomarykotelo77

3 жыл бұрын

I thought they were twins hahah

@lushkidbae4445

3 жыл бұрын

Aint they twins 🤔

@MrsMax2009

3 жыл бұрын

i thought they are twins or sisters

@lethukuthulangwenya3510

2 жыл бұрын

I thought they were twins kkkk

My eyes can't believe what I'm hearing and my ears can't believe what I'm seeing....wow.

@Nicole-og6df

3 жыл бұрын

😂

@ndiwanganetshiluvhi4158

3 жыл бұрын

😂 😂 It's ridiculous

@Pamandfam

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@nkamogelengnxumalo1558

3 жыл бұрын

🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 My nose can't believe what I'm seeing shem

@nkule2493

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Wow you brought Raymond mose to the show, I remember this guy sent me money to go to Durban to visit him and his wives but the catch was I did not have to inform anyone about going to Durban....I used the money and blocked him because I was 20 at the time and it sounded dodgy to me

@phatsimot827

3 жыл бұрын

😲creepy

@thandolwethu_SibuM

3 жыл бұрын

😬😬😬😬

@Star26900

3 жыл бұрын

very dodgy😭. thank God you're safe.

@emihleluwaca2996

3 жыл бұрын

👀

@AM-id9ql

3 жыл бұрын

“I used the money and blocked him” SMART GIRL 😂😂😂😂😂

This man's explanation issa no from me

I feel sorry for these young girls, God have mercy!

@jenniferkimpiobi8905

3 жыл бұрын

It will one day end in tears

@Polygyny

11 ай бұрын

Crazy how people are so worried about marriages of people who they don't even know - worry about your own life

I'm here to mark a register 😊😊a very controversial topic we unpacking today. Relobogile your show is insightful🤗🤗🥰

"God told me to marry someone from here in South Africa 🙄" really now😴

Relebogile was as disgusted as we are throughout this episode

@ndiboe_m1496

3 жыл бұрын

I don't think disgusted is the right word.

@Tumisho-kgwete

3 жыл бұрын

@@ndiboe_m1496 whatever the word it definitely isn't one of approval based on what her facial expression looks like..

@LucretiaRingane

2 жыл бұрын

She tried her best to keep a straight face but failed dismally 😂😂

when people say "God said" is because they don't want to be asked questions and justify themselves. Dude, if you want polygamy or it was a fetish to marry many African women, just say so. Take God out of it

@palesajele4418

3 жыл бұрын

I think it’s a fetish too

@simplythullyk8171

3 жыл бұрын

Take God out of it!

I struggled to add my comments because all I heard from this man felt so WRONG. Did anyone notice the strange look in his eyes and 'smile'? May God open our eyes to the truth and have mercy.

@twinnei1966

3 жыл бұрын

Not forgetting the long explanations so as to avoid the next question ❌❗

@boipelon1220

3 жыл бұрын

You and I sis🖇️

@tinasibiya5194

2 жыл бұрын

This is a very sick man

I kept on screaming literally throughout the entire video. My jaw is on the floor Yikes! This is so scary & sad at the same time. 😨😨😨

Hannah (Nosihle) and PK are not leaving Ray😂 I used to be part of this cult and I left when they used to tell me that I get headaches and period pains because I am disobedient to God. That time I was diagnosed with Endometriosis and fibroids so it's literally normal for me to have headaches and period pains. I was supposed to be wife number 3😂😂😂 Then because I was not "submitting" to God by marrying him, he went for PK's friend and she became wife number 3 😂 After she joined the family, she was never allowed to leave even for her niece's funeral but she went anyway and never came back😂😂😂 The moment I realized that this was a scam was when I brought my best friend to come and meet the family coz Ray was getting mad that I'm not introducing him to my family. When i brought my friend, Ray said that God told him that she (my friend) was going to be the 4th wife😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I went and never looked back! I could write a whole book about th memories I have from that family. They really are a cult.

@karabo99

3 жыл бұрын

😳

@amandastein6082

3 жыл бұрын

@@karabo99 this isn't even the half of it. I'm not even exaggerating.

@mariankuna1428

3 жыл бұрын

Chile....you saved yourself by being smart and leaving for good. I'm still shook with a lot of the comments other ladies have about him attempting to make his moves. I'm pleased with your decision because you knew that endometriosis is nit related to being disobedient...kudos to you babe💯🙌🌻

@amandastein6082

3 жыл бұрын

@@mariankuna1428 thank you my sister. I am truly glad I left. For good. It is extremely messed up!

@lyndagichanda7285

3 жыл бұрын

Yoh....you dodged a bullet

Lucifer is working overtime hey🤔my anxiety😟 rate is on steroids listening to him speak. This is by far the kinkiest🥺situation on unpacked.

@mashudumulaudzi8229

2 жыл бұрын

Indeed his work overtime. He exist and his busy

As soon as I heard he is American I was like "makes sense".

@myriammikobi7936

3 жыл бұрын

If he was black and from SA they wouldn't find it normal lol

@lbghaze

3 жыл бұрын

@@myriammikobi7936 ahhm! 🤔🤨 🆗

@reabetswe

3 жыл бұрын

There was a story about a motswana pastor who married two women in Botswana, it's becoming a thing and unfolding right in front of our eyes

@sev7397

3 жыл бұрын

@@reabetswe Polygamy isn't a new thing. Africans have been practicing polygamy. Plus at the rate of divorces in monogamy households. Polygamy might be a normal way of life again

@BB-dk3fd

Жыл бұрын

There is a lot of strange things happening in America 😢 Ray is trying to tag us into there own Kafwafwa 😢

Sounds rather predatory and cultish to me. God and scripture is being used as a smoke screen. God bless them though ❤️.

@WhatGodCannotDoDoesNotExist75

3 жыл бұрын

Well said

I nearly became victim to this set up. What was a big red flag for me was the fact that he said as soon as I join the "family," I would not visit nor interact with my own how ever and whenever I wanted because I will be brainwashed...

@selaelomahogany3632

3 жыл бұрын

Was it this exact man?

@emihleluwaca2996

3 жыл бұрын

Yesu langa lomphefumlo! 😄 akuzima

@liyandanjoko

3 жыл бұрын

@@selaelomahogany3632 ofcourse

@liyandanjoko

3 жыл бұрын

@@emihleluwaca2996 😂😂😂

@selaelomahogany3632

3 жыл бұрын

Yessis!! Tell me more sis cause someone under the comments on their KZread page said the same thing

He definitely has a type, they look like sisters.

@jaiyaalexandra144

3 жыл бұрын

Lol doesn't everyone have a type? I don't approve but they are consenting adults so whatever

@nomsapxilongo9984

3 жыл бұрын

I thought they were sisters.

@Phakama2012

3 жыл бұрын

@@nomsapxilongo9984 me too

@amkgaka9824

3 жыл бұрын

Especially the 1st 2. Talk of marrying the same woman 3X!

@thutonnena3092

3 жыл бұрын

My thoughts exactly!!!

"God"tells this guy a lot of things that he wants to hear 🤔

@pennysa-uk9738

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

LOL Relebogile's posture and facial reaction screams "bored" the whole time this man was talking.

@BB-dk3fd

Жыл бұрын

Lol 😂

Already here📍. I'm addicted to this show😭 and I love it♥️

It's the brain washing explanation for me😳😅😢

You never fail to amaze us with ur topics❤️Lebo (yeah u keep us hooked to ur channel) .... High ✋

Even before going into understanding the context of that Isaiah text, it is for the Jews not for the Christian church era.

Relebogile's face is very telling of how disgusted she is

@doremi131

3 жыл бұрын

Latita brown I saw Relebogle just looking tired 😄

@nkule2493

3 жыл бұрын

She looks defeated by this whole thing

@nonkumonkoe

3 жыл бұрын

She can’t wait for this to be over lol

Relebogile cannot even pretend to understand their situation. I think she's disgusted 🤢 😂 😂

@BB-dk3fd

Жыл бұрын

Oh yes 😂

Things can be misleading when you bonding through the trauma

@Tumisho-kgwete

3 жыл бұрын

So well said 100%!

@Polygyny

11 ай бұрын

If you're Christian, did Jesus mislead you when he bonded with you through the trauma of sin?

Have you guys realized that Ray met all the women when they were in a "vulnerable" situation? I would think he took advantage of them!!! "God told me..."

I really like how I can see pity in the host's eyes. She is seeing through all the fakeness and I see the pity for them in her eyes....

Wait , so they all pray to God to bring the right woman into "the family"? 👀 Heavy!!

@londekamhlongo2615

3 жыл бұрын

Hectic hey!! Normally you want your man to yourself

@johnlekayshows

3 жыл бұрын

Dangerous. No were in the new testament you will find people praying for such things

@glorialinda386

3 жыл бұрын

Strange hey To bring the woman to come and do what?

@myriammikobi7936

3 жыл бұрын

@@glorialinda386 to kiss each other lol

This man is accepting publicly that he is doing mind control on these women. This is so scary .

The wives are so eloquent, they sound so smart, one said she wanted to pursue her masters degree. I still cannot fathom how educated, professional black people are getting lured into cults, eating grass and being sprayed with doom all in the name of religion. There is definitely elements of hypnosis here.

@liyandanjoko

3 жыл бұрын

Mind you she's in the science/ research field. She's super smart

@MTKLZ

2 жыл бұрын

My people perish because of a lack of knowledge. That is a text I have come across from the Bible. A master's degree in the sciences does not offer spiritual knowledge. The biggest mistake we make is not reading the entire Bible for ourselves. No church and no pastor will give you what your own reading and the teaching of the Holy Spirit will give. Remember that the Holy Spirit, amongst other roles IS the spirit of truth and He teaches beyond the word by using the context of the word and vastness of life according to the will and mind of the Most High.

@deniseshallow7128

2 жыл бұрын

True

@christopherolugu7404

6 ай бұрын

6:21 i’ve only gotten this far, and I haven’t heard anything about Cults but polygyny is not a cult. And it’s really messed up to say that it is. That’s the equivalent of saying baby mamas, and baby daddies are gang members. That’s completely crazy to say

He is twisting the Word of God and has a way of just making it fit what he wants. We fit the Word not the other way round. But wow. Even though he said it, if you're not careful you will drink his coolade. Worse preying on these women during their vulnerable times. Eish. And be weary of people who always say God this God that God told me. Why cant we just say I wanted to that's why .....nobody will ever knock you for doing what you wanted to do.

@leratoshoba2635

3 жыл бұрын

We thank GOD my darling

Quite insightful ,yah in this episode real "unpacking "was done ,a lot is happening in this world and we r not even aware.Thanks a lot for such enlightening programme ,can't wait for the next episode #lets continue unpacking.

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩. “The family”

@bellacosta6658

2 жыл бұрын

“The Family: God told me” season 1 coming soon on Netflix😂😂

There are many God's. Which one is he listening to?

@DikelediM

3 жыл бұрын

I was asking myself the same question🤔. Just because the word god is uttered and Bible scriptures are being quoted , it does not necessarily mean that the person talking is referring to the Almighty God.

@maphutigondo4482

3 жыл бұрын

Very right.Which God is he referring to?

@johnlekayshows

3 жыл бұрын

Its definitely not the Holy Spirit

@stellamooibedi9027

3 жыл бұрын

Modimo wa Diseto🙈🙊Poponyana probably "seen and used as God "

The first wife is well spoken, she knows how to fluently answer the questions. 👌💯

@twinnei1966

3 жыл бұрын

True but Oksalayo ❌🤦‍♀️🤣

@sihleqengqeleka7125

3 жыл бұрын

Nothing she says makes sense! she is just brainwashed! In fact all of them

Heavenly father please help these wonderful ladies to see you as Lord. Open their eyes in your word. Hurry Jesus let them see you clear and run for their lives. This is a. Open mad man. I have seen some of them on TV before and at the end all wives regret ever been with the man. Ladies please manage your body and put more value on yourself. Stop letting this man capture you like this.

@buhlebuyezaprincessmagudul9000

3 жыл бұрын

Amen..... may God really deliver the

@maggiemasai1506

3 жыл бұрын

Well said, he's crazy

Sal 'usubuya Jeso 🙆🏽‍♀, seku right manje before konakala kakhulu.

Something is not adding up here. This guy is spending his whole life alleging talking to God about marrying and divorcing. This beautiful young ladies though 🙆 Thanks gorgeous Lebo .. Where are you getting your guests?

@WILMA_

3 жыл бұрын

Emily, LOL. The hands-on-head emoji just about killed me.

@WILMA_

3 жыл бұрын

They are so young. So beautiful. Why can't they find their own men?

@ThobileMacaws

3 жыл бұрын

Hahahahaahha thanks Emily you just made my evening hahahaha! This guy can’t keep his pants on 🤞🏾 5 wives and god hasn’t said anything yet… hahahahahahah I agree with your emoji ngekhe!!

@WILMA_

3 жыл бұрын

@@ThobileMacaws - - please, tell these NAIVE WOMEN!!!!!

Oh another thing... Ray used to always say that God told him he would have 21 wives😂😂😂😂😂 He used to misquote a scripture in Isaiah. He would literally seclude all the girls who would join the family. The funniest thing was when it's night time and we all lined up according to our numbers to kiss him. Hannah first, PK next, then I would follow as I was gonna be number three until I was overtaken by the third wife who agreed to get married😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Yoooooh nkosi yami, kade kwasa ngibona Jesu😭😂😭😂😭 We used to go shopping every week and buy tons and tons of food because Ray would say God told him that there would be a shortage of food. Like I understand it's good to buy stuff but that was hoarding, literally. The food used to be stacked in his garage and at one time he would say it must be buried underground. It was the weirdest thing. What I know for sure is that girls will come and go but Hannah and PK are there to stay coz they worship the ground Ray walks on. They've been disowned (at the time I was there) by their families but they are still there. I had to pretend I like Hillsong and started growing an afro coz Ray would say that extensions and other accessories are from the devil😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@liyandanjoko

3 жыл бұрын

Listen 😂😂😂, been there done that. I actually started telling my story 2 years ago (so embarrassing), and this happened in 2014.

@amandastein6082

3 жыл бұрын

People don't understand how embarrassing this is... I also just recently started opening up about it. I literally could write a whole book about the time I was with them. And it wasn't even that long.

@Star26900

3 жыл бұрын

haibo haibo haibo 🙆🏾‍♀️.

@Star26900

3 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you're out. I'm actually glad he outed himself!!

@mariankuna1428

3 жыл бұрын

Girl...you've seen a lot yoh. In xitsonga they say "uphose kufa"🤣😂, meaning you were in a thin line of falling into danger. I'm glad you fought and your intuition spoke to you and you listened. Kudos babe🙌💯

The basic reading of that scripture can not lend one to conclude that polygamy is the will of God. The text just says “in that day….” It does not say in that God requires a man to Mary seven women. This is a prophecy not the will of God. Scripture says in another place, in that day shall many fall from the truth, does that mean it’s the will of God to fall? This man is crazy

@ncomekamazi2274

3 жыл бұрын

"Lord have mercy"

@moe_ramz

3 жыл бұрын

It’s simply a curse, if you read the entire Isaiah to get context, you’ll see that it was actually a curse.

This is how the land was taken in the first place 😂. Niceness of south Africans.

@carolinemmabatho5119

3 жыл бұрын

We refuse to open our eyes because the truth seem too much to take and very harsh and discomforting than their lies in their soft voices. Their fake smiles.

@nosim7440

3 жыл бұрын

Chinese do not do this kind of nonsense inter breeding and that is why they are a strong nation

@thetalkwithmthakazi2494

3 жыл бұрын

@@nosim7440 Lies Chinese do inter breed but just keep believing your lies.

@ntombamayirhamemke5833

3 жыл бұрын

People are hungry out there

If you all hear the trees shivering, it is my sigh. 😬

@francinahmodise4487

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@mantuza7

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣 and me joining you🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

This man thinks he knows more than everyone in the room..

@shayemoore

2 жыл бұрын

All demons think they know more than everyone in the room. They twist scriptures to justify their sick and twisted lusts and, unfortunately, some fools will fall for it.

"God told me"😭🙃.. I wonder if God told the wives too

Living in the same house😳 Hhaibo! Yifilimu! It's a movie

@myriammikobi7936

3 жыл бұрын

And making love with each other can you imagine

@BB-dk3fd

Жыл бұрын

Oh yes 😢

This is just the guy's way of Fulfillment of his fantasies but I'll wait for those who were saying polygamy is unholy when practiced by Africans to comment on this holy Christian polygamist

@jaiyaalexandra144

3 жыл бұрын

We are still in shock babes! He is smooth.

Bring it on Miss Mabotja love your channel sister.✊👊👏

I'm so addicted to this show thanks very Relebogile for Unpacking this stories

Your ads sana, ziyalwa ntombo! Great content as always 👌🏾👌🏾

He will soon say he's God's representative on earth and make his followers do crazy stuff

I am interested in knowing the race of the ex wives 👀

@jaiyaalexandra144

3 жыл бұрын

White, I presume

@francinahmodise4487

3 жыл бұрын

Le nna waitse

@Nokss87

3 жыл бұрын

Lol white most probably

@doremi131

3 жыл бұрын

Selaelo Mahogany Me I would like to know the DENOMINATION of the ex wives and what their side of the story is.

@Nicole-og6df

3 жыл бұрын

Probably ✨caucasian✨

At the risk of sounding closed minded I have to say hore Ke Manyala this thing man.

@stellamooibedi9027

3 жыл бұрын

Manyala a monnamoholo the reason he went for young vulnerable black ladies is because he knows he can get away with a lot,basadi ba makgoa don't have time for crab...

And Lebo's face is saying "that's a load of bulls%&$" the whole time this man is talking 🤣🤣🤣

@pointa2b388

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂 she cant hide it today

@DzunyB

3 жыл бұрын

@@pointa2b388 she's just like mm mm mm🤣🤣🤣

@chefsphe

3 жыл бұрын

😂

@zondingwenya454

2 жыл бұрын

Oek ousie Lebo if you say so..cos is killing me inside of my heart 🔥. let's hope the children they are safe in Jesus name amen🙏

Been waiting for this one

Levi’s facial expressions just finish me 💀💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣

😂😂😂😂Let me tell you something, Christians. You see this book the Bible, you can make it say anything you want. You can see anything you want to see in there and you can definitely hear anything you want to hear from in there. It will take a lifetime for some to see this book for what it truly is

I saw the titled and never clicked faster 😂😂

@nomsapxilongo9984

3 жыл бұрын

Me too😂😂