Thank you for watching! What's one boundary you can put into place now (whether or not you're in a relationship) that will have the future you saying "thank you!"? 😌

@da-annapaul9490

4 жыл бұрын

Jamie J. Edwards being more consistent in my finances. I’ve been on the journey for a while and remaining consistent will be key for me.

@JamieJEdwards

4 жыл бұрын

So so so good. Finances is one of those things that I think we tend to put on the back burner until it’s really late. Being intentional in that area is definitely going to pay off. Keep going 👏🏾

@NeoNorth

4 жыл бұрын

Really been focusing on getting my finances right

@katinawhite4208

2 жыл бұрын

Not going to each other house period 😆

@dekka213l

Жыл бұрын

On the real! The freaks come out at night in that twilight state of semi consciousness.

1. Make sure the relationship is God-focused rather than you-focused. 2. Have financial boundaries. 3. Set physical boundaries

man y’all spitting facts!! “Make sure your relationship is God focused, not YOU focused. That doesn’t mean your relationship isn’t first priority, but that God is first priority in your relationship.”

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Thank you for taking to the time watch and listen Allie!

I’m here for this!! 😍 A helpful boundary for us currently, especially being long distance, is not talking late at night - it guards our hearts, helps us have energy for work/school the next day, and *boom boom* allows us to wake up early to seek the Lord!!

@JamieJEdwards

4 жыл бұрын

Oooo, I love that! So good and practical. I always wondered what we were some challenges unique to long distance couples 🤔 Thanks for sharing 💜

@bertrhude

4 жыл бұрын

👏🏿👏🏿🙏🏿🙌🏿🙏🏿👏🏿🙏🏿🙌🏿🙏🏿👏🏿🙏🏿🙌🏿🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

@ordinarynellee2209

3 жыл бұрын

I really thought this was a stretch at first but tried it out and it feels amazing

@fiofrapiccini2073

2 жыл бұрын

Hi! when do you talk then? I'm in a long distance relationship too and the only free time in common we have is at night; so we call each other at night but it really affects our sleep schedule. It ain't a problem since it doesn't cause us to stumble but it does ruin our agenda a bit. Any advice? :)

@ordinarynellee2209

2 жыл бұрын

But I’m at the point where I don’t mind talking at night but everything has to be intentional whenever we talk most times

I am young and I gave my life to Christ a year ago,and I’m choosing to wait untill I’m out of college to even date,and wait untill marriage to have any intimacy. I will be applying all these tips to my future relationship because they are all reasonable!! Thank you!!☺️

@ranip7644

Жыл бұрын

Good for you! And welcome to the family of God 🙂

@thembalenkosigambu4236

Жыл бұрын

😌

@blxck3978

Жыл бұрын

Date in college, there’s many people and opportunity to meet a great one

If only the younger version of myself could've listened to this video I could've avoided a lot of compromises made in my walk with God while dating. This is really good and really important content.

@JamieJEdwards

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching, Engineered By God. And that’s a huge reason we wanted to share our experience because there were some things we did right and somethings we didn’t that we wanted to spare others if possible. Thanks again for the support.

I've had bad relationships in the past, but I've begun praying for a future spouse that loves God more than me. And knowing that God places us in relationships to glorify Him has been eye-opening for me!! When the time arrives, I've also made up my mind to only be at their place, if there are other people about, friends/roommates/family, etc., or be alone only while the curtains are open, in sight of a window. You've also made me realise that it's okay to restrain from kissing and hugging for a while. I'm now content with the idea of agreeing to abstain from kissing until marriage if my future partner desires to. Thank you both!!

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

Praying for you Sorcha, that in both singleness and every relationship God draws you deeper. Thank you for watching 😊

"Boundaries are limits. They draw the line and say, we don't go beyond this point."

@elroistudios

3 жыл бұрын

🔥🔥

Marriage to glorify God! Amen!!

Been focusing on getting my finances right, not going to each other's houses, making sure that the relationship is Christ centered and set physical boundaries as well

Praise God for your testimony!!

I have never thought about these other points (point 1and 2) before. Anytime I hear relationship boundaries, I only think physical boundaries. I have never been into a relationship but these would help when I get into one.

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, us too! People normally stress physical boundaries, which I get. But spiritual, emotional and financial boundaries are also important. Thanks for watching and sharing!

This is beautiful! Thank you!!!!!!💓🤗😍😍🤗

I like the insight that you want to be able to walk away without a soul tie in case it doesn't work. And keeping the emotions in check helps by not hugging, atleast before engagement

Thank you!

Thus was super awesome. Super short. But l loved it. Thank you

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching and for the kind words, Samantha! What topics would you like to hear us cover in the future?

Great pieces of information here!! Great video!

@JamieJEdwards

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching Chris!💜

Thanks guys 😊

I really needed this, it came at the right time ⌚.. Praise be to God 🛐🙏!! Nice Video Guys 👏👏

@JamieJEdwards

5 ай бұрын

Amen!

Wow what an honor to have a man who respects your boundaries and his yours. Especially sexually. This is truly something I dream of having.

Great advice!

@12:22 Wow, that’s a great point! I will keep that in the back of my mind.

@JamieJEdwards

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching!

@alyagdn

3 жыл бұрын

@@JamieJEdwards No problem!

This was great! Glory to God! 🙌🏾🙏🏾

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching @Shiquetta! Amen!

loved that you guys spoke on finances... the importance of speaking on this subject as early as early can be is so good to recognize! thank you both and may God bless your marriage :) love from south florida

@JamieJEdwards

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, talking about finances definitely helped to prepare us to get comfortable talking about things that can get super awkward quick if you’re not on the same page. Thanks for watching, Gaby!

Wow this is so inspirational, God bless you guys💜💜

@JamieJEdwards

11 ай бұрын

Thank you!

Sound advice, God bless and thank you for sharing🙏🏾

@JamieJEdwards

5 ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

Love this 💕

@elroistudios

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

I have been helped! God totally directed me to this direction and am grateful🙌.

@JamieJEdwards

5 ай бұрын

Amen!

I definitely think waiting until it's right and you've really built a solid foundation is smart, but physical chemistry is a big deal and I'd definitely want to know that I'm physically compatible with someone before marrying them - that's me personally. Also, I'm a hugger by nature so you're getting hugs right away - whether you're a platonic friend or potentially husband material.

Woa this really awakened something in me! Or rather, validated something that the world taught me to neglect. I’m thinking about a Christian girl right now and how much id like to do a courtship situation with her and how that’s all I’ve ever wanted. Growing up, I had a lot of experiences of girls wanting more physical intimacy with me than I was willing to give. So much negativity grew from them. I’m glad that this exists! Thank you

@JamieJEdwards

11 ай бұрын

You're welcome! Thanks for watching

All the Tipps

Thank you for this video and wisdom! I plan to incorporate all three especially financial boundary never heard before and I’m glad I came across this. Lord I pray to help me honor you and your son and the relationship you have for us when it comes in Jesus name amen

@elroistudios

Жыл бұрын

So glad this is helpful for you!

Thanks for this! I definitely plan to incorporate all 3 boundaries whenever I get into a relationship but I haven’t even thought of the financial boundary.

@JamieJEdwards

3 жыл бұрын

Amen! So thankful this resonated with you and you plan on using them in your own relationship. Thanks for watching, Alaysha!

I love when you said to basically watch what we are doing so we do not get caught up with someone else's spouse.

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Symphony! It’s true, I kept reminding myself of that while we were courting - we aren’t married until we’re married. Thanks for watching!

love this. very reaffirming that my bf & I are doing well

@JamieJEdwards

5 ай бұрын

Y’all can do it! Hold one another accountable!

That's why God says don't be unequally yoked together. If you both have the dame beliefs then you can keep each other strong

I love what you’re doing guys,❤️just keep it up 👍🏾 I pray that God bless your marriage.🙏🏾

I love it! So encouraging to know that it can be done!

@JamieJEdwards

3 жыл бұрын

We’re so thankful God could use our relationship to encourage someone! Thank you for watching Brooke!

This was so honest and straight forward and really helpful! Thank you! God bless you two

@JamieJEdwards

3 жыл бұрын

So thankful you found this helpful, Lilia! Thank you for the kind words and encouragement.

Thank you

@JamieJEdwards

11 ай бұрын

You're welcome

That man inspires me.

@elroistudios

Жыл бұрын

🙌🏿🙌🏿

This is my first time on your channel I really enjoyed this video when I get into a relationship I’ll remember these tips God bless you both 🙏🏾

@JamieJEdwards

3 жыл бұрын

So thankful you decided to watch and found our video helpful, Veronica! Blessings 😊

Boundaries are key. A healthy relationship must include boundaries and open communication. Just a quick question. How long was your courtship before engagement and then engagement to marriage?

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching, Vicky! We agree. Javier and I courted for 11 months and were engaged for 10 months before we got married.

I was planning on doing everything and especially the physical boundaries

@elroistudios

3 жыл бұрын

Nice!

"Sex inside marriage is a place where it can be SAFELY burned and not consumed" I loved this. We always here no sex before marriage, but no logically reasons as to why! Loved this

@JamieJEdwards

11 ай бұрын

Thank you!

Hey Jamie! Love this video because my dating experiences the past 4 years have been horrible. I realize I've been attracting non-believers. I'll meet a guy and he would tell me he's Christian but when I talk about "waiting till marriage" or inviting him to church, I immediately noticed the changes. I'm glad you mentioned these tips because I am going to keep these in mind to help me when my future husband comes along. Physical boundaries and finances are the areas I will incorporate in my future relationship.

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing, Medline. Your experience sounds so similar to a lot of other christian women I’ve spoken with. It’s so important not to just go off what people say, but observe their lifestyle and character as well. I’m thankful because it sounds like you recognized that. Yea, these boundaries can help a lot. But, ultimately it’s God who will carry you through. Submit and trust Him fully when the time comes. 💕

@righteousmasculine

2 жыл бұрын

I talked to my dad about waiting til marriage I said I want to be obedient to GOD because I know it will be healthy and rewarding I’ve learned so much on why I should wait and I know I can do it because it’s something I want to do. This is how you eliminate whos suppose to be in your life and who’s not if your morals and Christian values run them away consider it a blessing in disguise because sometimes the devil send things in form of what we ask GOD for. We will find our person we just have to keep praying and waiting

Yea the boundaries definitely have to be established early on and stick with them firmly and a I agree with him it’s a reason go reserved that for marriage I’ve had it and children as a result outside of marriage and I choose not to anymore and wait because it does have detrimental effects and it’s easy to feel condemnation but I’m working on that

@JamieJEdwards

Жыл бұрын

Amen for setting boundaries. Remember that God is always faithful to forgive us our sins when we repent. There’s no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus - whenever I struggle with feeling guilty over sin I read scripture like 1 John 2 to help me remember If I’ve truly put my faith in Christ - His finishing work on the cross continues to cleanse and renew me. Praying this encourages you!

@unapologeticallynique2928

Жыл бұрын

@@JamieJEdwards amen definitely will read that tonight ♥️

Really nice video...so informative. This is the first video of yours I've watched. Thank you so much💛

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

So happy to have you as a new viewer, Shekinah! And thank you for the kind words. 😊

This was great!

@JamieJEdwards

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Mystrame!😆💕

I would love to discuss this with my future husband. Loved this!

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

Definitely encourage you to. We have even more topics now that we wish we would’ve discussed lol. Thanks for watching, Sofia!

@faithwalk.

2 жыл бұрын

@@JamieJEdwards thank you

Amen.

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

🙏🏾

nice video, never thought about this things before, I didn't realize before that you could talk about finances boundaries, never been in a relationship before 👍 and i mean, I had never thought about living reality before, i mean, real life, I thought that I had to waste my money taking her to the best restaurants and buying things that exceed my budget

@JamieJEdwards

5 ай бұрын

Nope! The relationship has to be about your lives together, glorifying God - that’s the realest thing of all!

loved this one, especially talking about the finances , I never thought about that!

@JamieJEdwards

3 жыл бұрын

Yea, I knew you’d like the finance segment and it definitely helped us before and during marriage for sure. Thanks for watching, Rachelle!💜

@rachelleantoine4819

3 жыл бұрын

Of course! Love your videos!

Great advice but one way to avoid temptation during courting is to stop having these long worldly engagements.

@JamieJEdwards

Жыл бұрын

Hey, are you referring to the engagement period?

This was excellent! Thank you for being so transparent about being tempted and which boundaries were set at each stage in the relationship

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

So thankful you found our transparency helpful, JM! Thank you for watching!

Encouraging!! Love itt! 💯🙌🏿

@JamieJEdwards

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the kind words!

This was so informative. Great content guys.👍🏾

@JamieJEdwards

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching Meesha! So thankful you found it helpful. 🤗💜

@thecreativexpro

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

Love this , thank you guys !

@JamieJEdwards

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching and for the kind words, Diane!

Watching all the way from Kenya🇰🇪 thanks so much for this , I pray that God will give me the grace to pass through all the traps by the enemy and to put my relationship under God ,him being the Centre of it .I want my relationship to please the heart of God. And no weapon fashioned against us shall prosper. God bless you 🙏

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching, Esther! Praying for you that you would keep God at the center always 🙏🏾

@estherwanja585

2 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏 thank you too

Opened the eyes of my heart! Thank you. So be it. 💚

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

Amen! Thank you for watching, Lameaysyia!

I like the idea of waiting to kiss the partner before marriage it seems sweet and thoughtful, plus if you wouldn’t kiss the same gender on the lips it implies it is a sexually related act in your mind; not in of itself is kissing on the lips sexual because other cultures same sex kiss in a non sexual way. But if you wouldn’t do it with the same gender it suggest it is a sexual expression for you meaning reserving it for marriage is wise for you.

Hi jamie

@JamieJEdwards

3 жыл бұрын

Hi 😆

My kids are teens and I’m going to show them this video but I’d love to see this type of video geared towards teens like advice for teens because it seems it’s geared towards young adults. Great perspectives and video thanks.

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

I love that idea! You’re right most of our videos are geared towards young adults, but teens need and are hungry for truth too. Maybe we can do a teen series. Thanks for watching!

💯💯

Beautiful godly couple, thank you for sharing your story and advice :)

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the kind words Nicole and thank you for watching!

What’s are some daily things you guys did to make sure you stayed God focused and not you focused

@JamieJEdwards

5 ай бұрын

Personal devotion. Really seeking to obey God, but returning to Him when we stray. You have to know the Holy Spirit and have sense of conviction when you start thinking selfishly. It’s not a fruit of the Spirit

As a 15 yr old definitely Godly wisdom

🙏🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥GREAT content! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 I think all three points you mentioned are vital... 1. God > The relationship 2. Financial Boundaries and 3. Physical Boundaries. Soooooo good!! 🙏🏿🙌🏿👏🏿. May I add a bonus? 4. Emotional Boundaries. While I’m not married, I know emotional intimacy can cause people to feel so close they don’t want to walk away from something toxic or just not right from them. This is especially a big deal in the beginning.

@JamieJEdwards

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you B!!! 😘😘😘 And absolutely! We need all the wisdom, share with the people. I agree, emotional boundaries are essential as well. I find that this could look different for different couples depending on the situation. But like @Darlene mentioned below: - Have self control over how long you’re spending on phone with your bf/gf. Set a limit & make sure you the time you spend together is healthy and God Glorifying. -In every circumstance, I think we have to make sure we’re not emotionally acting beyond our actual/spiritual level of commitment. Don’t treat your bf/gf like you’re married emotionally until you’re actually married.

@thecreativexpro

4 жыл бұрын

Great thoughts B!

@da-annapaul9490

3 жыл бұрын

That’s good B!

I really like the finance one! It’s important to lay it all out on the table - especially how dates will be paid… can’t have too many unspoken expectations. I also have no sex/sexual activities before marriage as a boundry, but never thought about no kissing or hugging. Very interesting!

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing and watching, Jordyn! Hugging and kissing definitely isn’t a law or commandment, but something that helped us keep our focus on God and just flee temptation easier. Hope this helps!🙏🏾

Keep him, he’s great!! Thank you for this 🙌🏾

I love this video!

@JamieJEdwards

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching Da!💜

@thecreativexpro

3 жыл бұрын

🔥

Great video!!

@JamieJEdwards

4 жыл бұрын

Thank youuuu! lol

@thecreativexpro

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks fam

This video is so spot on! God, finance, physical... Makes a whole lotta sense!

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

Great summary! Thanks for watching Jemimah :) Any other topics you’d like to see us cover?

@jemimahjane7072

2 жыл бұрын

How about something on moving on after a breakup?.. Needing therapy, how important it is, or not.@@JamieJEdwards

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

I really like this idea! Thank you for sharing - adding it to a list of topics now.

This is good 👍🏽 my mistake was not setting boundaries in the relationship and it almost lead to sex. Like you said the relationship should be to glorify God.

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed - thank you for watching Katina! Setting boundaries and having honest conversations about if what we were doing glorified God changed everything.

I Love This

Thank you! tip no. 3 is really helpful for me bec I've been struggling with physical touch and like hugging 😢 we're not yet official yet we are hugging each other already

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching and sharing. Definitely encourage you to get clear on the status and direction of the relationship.

@drakejane8358

2 жыл бұрын

Yes we've watch this together last night and both agreed to follow these boundaries specially interms of physical while we were on our dating stage up until relationship stage. Hopefully God will guide us along the way. We will keep God the center of our relationship 🙏

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

@@drakejane8358 Praying for you both!

This content was very Good , I would do love to see like male and female perspectives on , what you were looking for in a spouse . New Subbie btw !

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

I love that idea! I’ll be adding it to our list of topics. Thank you for watching and subscribing, Dynamic Daughter!

I have a question, what if we go to different churches? Do I as the woman go to the man's church, or does he come to mine? What's more appropriate for us as Chirstian teenagers?

@JamieJEdwards

Жыл бұрын

Good question and it’s super encouraging that you’re asking questions like this as a teenager. Consider continuing to attend separate churches until you are adults or engaged/married. This a super important time for you to focus on your relationship with God and spending time with one another in community. That might look like going to some of his events and vice versa.

I need some advice,

@elroistudios

Жыл бұрын

What do you need?

Can a person who is a Christian an is in a relationship but not married but they live in the same house but sleep in different bed rooms is that ok or it’s wrong ?????

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

Hey Kalayah and Rosh! First, thank you for watching and asking this question. Sometimes it’s difficult to answer the question around if something is right or wrong especially when that specific situation isn’t in the bible. But we can definitely use God’s word as a guide to help us understand what he wants us to do. I think it’s a good idea to ask instead, does this (fill in the blank) bring God glory? Technically you both can live under the same roof in separate rooms and bring God glory through choosing to wait before having sex with each other until you’re married. Even if you’ve already had sex before - God is honored when Christians repent and genuinely practice what His word teaches. I think overall it’s wiser to live in separate homes simply because it’s one less way to be tempted. (Romans 13:14) Let’s be real the flesh is weak, but the Spirit is willing. (Matthew 26:42) It’s definitely worth it to make a momentary sacrifice of living separately to grow in your faith and see the amazing things God does. At the end of the day, God reigns. So please pray about your decision and no matter what trust and obey God. Even if it’s hard, it’s always worth it in the end. I suggest reading Romans 13: 8 - 14. Praying for you both and hope this helps. 🙏🏾

How long did y’all date before getting married??

@JamieJEdwards

8 ай бұрын

We dated/courted for 11 months and we were engaged for 10 months before we got married. So about 2 years.

I will apply all

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

Amen! 🙏🏾

Thank you for this video! For me, I have a 10pm boundary where I won't be alone (in person or by phone) with a guy that's not a family member. We can be in a group setting, but I avoid alone time. I feel like our guards decrease the later it gets because our bodies begin to go into rest mode. Being in different time zones can make this challenging, but it's not impossible to find a solution to it.

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

@Shelly, I think that’s a very wise boundary! Ultimately, the goal is to please God - anything we can do to put ourselves in a good position to do this is needed.

@henryijeoma2228

2 жыл бұрын

Wow. This is great. I hope to incorporate this into my life.

Awesome video! We want more!!

@JamieJEdwards

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks guys! Love that we can always count on your support 🤗

@thecreativexpro

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Tiff🙏🏿

I wouldn't say being cheap is a Christian value lol... but that's just me lol. Very motivating to hear about #3 thank you so much for sharing

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

Lol I wouldn’t say being cheap is a Christian value either, but being a good steward of what God has given us is. Thanks for watching!

Loved this J! How about spiritual boundaries? When would you recommend a couple starts studying the Bible together and praying together when they start dating...Idk if I’m thinking too much into it but I think they should be a boundary there.

@JamieJEdwards

4 жыл бұрын

Juliet! Thank you for watching!❤️ And yes, great question. This was by no means an exhaustive list, but the 3 that really helped us. I think i’m terms of spiritually, it’d be best to either refer to what I wrote about emotional boundaries below (comment under Dr. Bertrhude Albert) and/or the first point about putting God before yourselves. This kind of involves three because there is a physical component as well. There’s no biblical law or rules for how much time a couple’s who is dating should spend reading the bible together, but scripture does give us wisdom we can use to inform that decision - like Colossians 3:5. If we find ourselves getting tempted to dishonor God, that’s the limit. Stop. But I’d encourage an honest conversation before it even gets to that point about what are each person’s temptations. Hope this helps 😊

@thecreativexpro

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with Jamie and I’ll add: Study marriage first. How does God answer these questions: What is marriage? Why is marriage? When should you marry? Understand that this is what your relationship should be working TOWARDS. Be careful of acting married while only dating. Your boundaries should reflect this truth.

first held his hand a little under 2 years, but the hugging?? lord Jesus its dangerous!!!! we kissed once honestly and once we realized what we did I fell to my knees before him and begged for his forgiveness, I started wailing so hard you'd think someone died, the look on his face was pure dread even though he was trying to comfort me about it. he eventually asked if it would make me feel better if we prayed about it and we did right then and there. now I'm on a week fasting asking God for guidance. staying pure until marriage is the top priority for us both, please keep us in your prayers.

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

Wow, Malli, your heart and desire to please God is so beautiful. Definitely will be praying for you both to flee temptation - what helped us was seeking God, praying and serving those in need as much as we could. Be quick to repent like it sounds like you both did and be honest with the Lord about your struggles - He can handle it and wants you to be your comfort in those moments. ❤️

@AwkwardLey

2 жыл бұрын

@@JamieJEdwards appreciated❤️🙏🏽

Cmon Godly couple!

@JamieJEdwards

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Vava!❤️

@thecreativexpro

3 жыл бұрын

Thank Val 😭

One boundary I'd love to put is "no sleep overs"

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Just a question from something that came across from your comments. Are y'all really only together because you believe in the same god?

@JamieJEdwards

3 жыл бұрын

Good question, it’s not the only reason why we’re together, but it is a central and the main reason. We have similar values, interests, and goals. But our faith in Jesus Christ is 100% what keeps our relationship heathy and keeps us humbled to continue loving each other.

This is God focused. Some so called Christian advisors encourage sleep overs.

I've had sex with my boyfriend,about 3 times. We are good Christians,we love the Lord and we're trying to do right now. I love him and I don't want to hurt him as I'm his first girlfriend ever. I think we need to breakup and seek God individually,you know, just stay as friends. He doesn't want me to break up with him and think we can seek God together and grow. To think that we haven't even been dating for so long. We're both in med school and are not ready to settle down till a few years. I'm so confused. Please I need help and advice.

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

Hey Joyce, you definitely are not the only Christian going through this. It takes a lot to reach out for help, so appreciate you asking for advice. As your sister in Christ, I want to remind you both the ultimate goal is always to honor God first. It sounds like you’re already aware of that from your response. I encourage you to move in the way that will bring Him the most glory. The temporary sacrifice I believe will be worth it if it means you both will be more focused and healthy spiritually. Time apart can make space for clarity. Is this a relationship you should even be in? Allow God to be the main voice directing you (through his word and wise counsel). Move in repentance and run towards grace. I encourage you to read and pray through Luke 14. Here for you, Jamie

How old we’re you guys when y’all met??

@JamieJEdwards

2 жыл бұрын

Hey LENTZY! I was 23 and my hubby was 24 when we met. Wow, I didn’t realize it was that long ago lol

God will judge all fornicators

@topkek7675

2 жыл бұрын

God will judge EVERYONE. Either justified by Christ’s blood or condemned.

I was brought up with this line of thought for 20 years. It's silly y'all.

@JamieJEdwards

3 жыл бұрын

That’s very interesting. We weren’t brought up as Christians, but I’m very thankful that it didn’t stop God from revealing His redeeming Gospel and saving us.

Just need a true partner.

3:50 wtf

Jesus loves us equally,,but if you play with your body you will also bear the consequences