I’ve suffered with depression and anxiety for most of my life. 2 failed suicide attempts, dozens of doctors, counselors, therapist, and medications later, I finally found a doctor who helped. That was 10 years ago and while I still have bad days/weeks/months, I thank God every single day my suicide attempts failed. I’ll be 63 years old this year and I’m living my best life. Help is out there but it’s a very long, hard journey. Please don’t ever give up on yourself. You ARE worth the effort ❤

@keelandavis9681

21 күн бұрын

Wow. Hello mam/sir! I just wanted to say tha k you for this comment bc you just gave me more hope than I've had in along time. I have very serious issues with anxiety/depression and some degree of ehat I've been told is "agoraphobia." But it all stems from my social anxiety and panic disorder. I went to treatment for opiate and ambien addiction on Jan 2nd of this year. So I haven't used since Jan 2nd. However my anxiety and fear of being in public(I have a neurogenic bladder bc of a spinal cord inijury) which means I' have extreme odds of pissing myself in public due to my lack of control. This issue combinednwith my extreme anxiety and panic disorder makes it extremely difficult to out myself in positions to get help. Another example: I'm in intensive outpatient, but I find myself struggling alot to get to the CPT group therapy sessions whether its in person or theough zoom bc im terrified of how im being judg2d whether its in person or on video. I understand how crazy that sounds, but when it's happening, my stomach is filled with extreme butterflies like I'm going down a very steep roller coaster ride due to my terrified reaction ro potentially being judged. I guess my point is, I've been trying my best to go to therapy whether its 1 on 1 or groups sessions and I always end up having a panic attack or puking just before the meeting or both. I've explained this to my psyche doctor bit she told me that "she waa afraid to prescribe medications that would help me" bc she's done it b4 sith other patients and they ended up becoming addicted. I completely understand the risk, but I know that a low dose of ativan or klonooin for emergency situations would help me TREMENDOUSLY! BUT Since I used ro be addicted to oxycodone, they won't even consider It. This situation has caused me to wanna drink alcohol to lower my anxiety so badly it's hard to describe. I've also had horrible thoughts of suicide bc the anxiety leads to depression, which then leads ro thinking I'd be better off not in this world. This life isn't worth living thidneayz and if I cannot get help I'd rather be dead. I honestly don't know why I'm saying all this, other than hoping someonebwiĺ actually and finally help me for once in my life bc I genuinely don't have the strength to help myself to get better at this point in time!!!! It's now or never!!!

@AshleyHopton-nv8yq

15 күн бұрын

l like 9😅😅😅🎉

@keelandavis9681

11 күн бұрын

Thanks for typing that sir/mam! I'm 35 and in the middle of finding a doctor that will help me. I'm so sick of psyche doctors and antidepressants that do nothing and therapists who hate their job. I just want some relief. I think about ending my life alot but it would ruin my family's life. Thanks for this comment! It gives me hope!

I just found this song. I can feel it with everything in me. I have severe depression and ptsd. My childhood broke me. I'm now 34 and trying to pick up the pieces. Pray for me guys.

@alancaldwell9117

3 жыл бұрын

same and I'm 52 ... hold on

@ddpg3

3 жыл бұрын

Praying.

@shelly2599

3 жыл бұрын

@@alancaldwell9117 I agree with your comment... 📍

@Rissy617

3 жыл бұрын

So often we feel like our traumas and past have made us "bad people" but in reality, they make us resilient. You are not broken, even if it feels like it....You are strong for what you've endured and conquered. You are a survivor. Continue your journey of healing knowing that we are loving you, you are not alone ❤️

@viktor681

3 жыл бұрын

Everyday week I pray for people like you. People in situations I know nothing about but still feel guilty about. I will pray for you too. God bless you.

My wife deals with depression and this song scares me to death. I showed her the video and we both cried uncontrollably. Don't want to lose her.

@user-nx1de4ol1e

10 ай бұрын

Hold onto her, support her and be there just stay. She will make it through. I promise you. My personal struggles with mental illness have always been a part of the reason why no one wanted me and everyone gave up on me. Once I realized I had to not give up on myself that’s when I knew… if you love her then just stay. 😊God bless you and prayers for a long beautiful life ♥️

@crystalwhitaker3296

9 ай бұрын

Prayers for you both 🙏 Only God knows 🙏

@Tootrillll

8 ай бұрын

That sounds like a real connection man♥️

@amandaprice87

8 ай бұрын

God please place your hand on this guys wife. Depression is hard for both her and him so please camo your angels around them both. Give her peace that surpasses all understanding. I lift them both up in your name. Amen

@jordylovell7617

8 ай бұрын

​@@judychandler5271😊😊😊😊😊

I have always loved this song. I just saw this video and it took my breath. I found my husband with a self inflicted GSW. Spent the rest of his time in a hospital room going back and forth between heart break and anger. I let him go on the 6th day. Never.gets any easier. I type this thru tears. Please, PLEASE seek help. Reach out.. I know it may not seem like it but you ARE loved. You ARE important. The devastation of those left behind is immense. He was 23. Way too young to say goodbye. Thanks to Chris for bringing this very important issue to the surface. Its a hard one to deal with on so many different levels. Those of you who need to hear this listen: please stay. Choose life. Today may be the worst day of your life.. Tmrw may be the BEST. Once this decision is made its irrevocable.. Please stay.

@spiritellington4591

8 ай бұрын

💙🙏💙🙏💙

@arawrebirth20

8 ай бұрын

That's heavy. I hope you find the strength to make it through this time.

@tammeyslone3435

8 ай бұрын

God bless you. I suffer from many mental issues and ur post too has helped me

@tandraallen8398

8 ай бұрын

@@tammeyslone3435 That makes me very happy. Hang in there. You can do this!

@thatgirl9000

6 ай бұрын

🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼😭

This song is not about depression... This song is about unconditional love. The video depicts a man loving his wife in the hardest times imaginable. This video adds so much to the song. Absolutely incredible. I am a musician that struggles fiercely with depression and suicidal thoughts. And this video just hit home for me. Love it.

@markhaywood7378

7 жыл бұрын

Stay strong...depression is a hard road to follow...good mental health to you!

@MUZAKMAN46

7 жыл бұрын

Mike Scully; You hit the proverbial Nail on the head brother. This song is about the unconditional love for your spouse regardless. If we could just remember real & true love, is not conditional.

@Mikescullymusic

7 жыл бұрын

+Mark Haywood thank you.

@trytheman23

7 жыл бұрын

and they use real actor and actress ben foster is the guy and i forgot who the lady but she a movie star too

@MissPrany

7 жыл бұрын

The actress is Margarita Levieva.

Others have said this before and I'll say it again. This man is helping to save music.

@amelias.6354

8 жыл бұрын

AMEN!!❤️❤️🔥🔥

@123brucerocks

8 жыл бұрын

Music doesn't need saving.Music is music perfect the way it is

@123brucerocks

8 жыл бұрын

+Todd Tackett lol im scared 😱...what im trying to say is that music is the best way artists express themselves and if someone saids music needs saving they really dont respect the way artists express themselves

@Ssheldon618

8 жыл бұрын

+Baflbruno opinions are okay and you're allowed to express yours. We certainly appreciate it. In this case my opinion is that Chris is saving music. Thanks and have a great day.

@123brucerocks

8 жыл бұрын

+Ssheldon618 im just saying thats such a big statement to say but ok 👍

I have ptsd, depression, and anxiety.... And I would never wish it upon nobody. But I do wish more people understood it.

@ellenjoan8100

4 ай бұрын

i understand ❤❤ we got this.

@JimTodd-vp7jq

4 ай бұрын

I understand that

@JuanAguilar-bn7tt

3 ай бұрын

Hang in there

@AprilFerguson-qj5tt

Ай бұрын

Aman! Sister I hear you ❤ 3:01

@richartharmijos4779

Ай бұрын

Mucha fuerza hermano

Broken people ( like me) recognize this. Thank you for giving this song to us.

@kauanfernando6565

3 ай бұрын

Everything will be fine! Believe ❤️

@user-qu8dt2ig2v

2 ай бұрын

I feel you I'm bordering broken, or in repair, I can't tell at times. There's always something bringing me back down to were I must belong 😭

@jennabugs

Ай бұрын

Please know that you are loved here and beyond this world. There is more to this life with Jesus. Please, please, please seek him. He loves you beyond words!!!

God damn this video is an emotional one.. but this is country. Real problems.. real people. Not everything is fuckin tan legs swinging from a tailgate in the moon light sipping fireball. Country is the music of soul, life, hardship, the appriciation of the things you already have, and the voice of coping with what you have lost. Life isn't always a fuckin party.

@MichaelTJD60

8 жыл бұрын

+domzdaman373 Amen to this!

@user-nk1ew6by7k

8 жыл бұрын

Comment of the year!!!!!!

@bethanimiddleton7650

8 жыл бұрын

Well said! 😊

@86Knightmare

8 жыл бұрын

Best breakdown of TRUE country I've heard in a while! Very well said!

@lynnburgess5404

8 жыл бұрын

apparently you have never lost anyone to suicide!! God help you when you do!!!

Holy god damn shit! Metal head here, and this is beyond words! Well done Chris.

@haleyslaughter9389

7 жыл бұрын

Mateo H 💔💔h

@krissydalton402

7 жыл бұрын

Also a metal head and this song just speaks to me!

@amberparker9883

7 жыл бұрын

not much he can mess up.. too talented for the mainstream

@rileylynch8368

7 жыл бұрын

Same here. Horns up for heart break.

@yeti4269

7 жыл бұрын

Country music was my next transition from metal music. I don't know how but it's quite enjoyable and really speaks to the heart. Always do love to go back in time and listen to some of the old bands

I dated a woman with depression and at times it dominated her existence. She would constantly thank me for “putting up” with her. I never looked at it that way. I just loved her. Sadly she has since passed on to a better place. For you Baby Girl, for you.

@dannyreed1632

4 ай бұрын

I’m so sorry for your loss. Depression is a monster, I know that from personal experience 😢

@gidgetfox8638

3 ай бұрын

Sorry for your loss, I have major depression & PTSD, this song hits me hard. Cause I feel the meaning of this song. I've suffered from depression from before i was 13 yr old. I wish my BF i have now knew how to deal with my depression, he gets mad and makes it worse. I'm sure you was a blessing to her.

@tashabritt13

3 ай бұрын

😢

@mariesmith6744

2 ай бұрын

I've been with two men in my life that's dealt with depression that sadly 😥 😔 took my ex he was in the war in Afghanistan he was a paratrooper and I knew him from Highschool. But we got together after our marriages didn't work out and I didn't realize then how bad it was. The thoughts of suicide is what I mean. I seen what the war had done and I was just 21 at the time he was 23 went in as soon he was 18. So he came home and it just hurts thinking bk. He had flash backs, insomnia like very severe. And I didn't know what I was getting myself into but I loved him very very much. But we split for other reasons to work on ourselves and whatnot and we kept in touch but I wrote him maybe a wk before it happened checking in on him and my sister wakes me up to tell me he was gone and I thought it was a cruel joke. But it wasn't. I knew him being alone was the worst thing for him mentally. He lived w me but I moved out if my apartment w the lease was up so he moved bk in w his parents until he had bought his own home. And that's where he took his life. I blamed myself idk why but I did. And this song makes me think of hom so much. My ex husband also deals with self harm and depression very badly. I mean to the point of askin me w he used to drink to say I was okay with it and we have a daughter together. It breaks my heart he feels this way. 💔 😢 we have known each other now the majority of our lives and thankfully he's not drinking anymore but it still worries me at times. About the depression or starting to drink again and getting in his head. I just pray, check in on him and hope for the best. I want him to be happy even tho I couldn't make us work. He still has a beautiful daughter we share. Depression is tough I deal with it in a daily since I was around 8. But I don't get suicidal doesn't mean I haven't been. But if you're ever feeling that way, it's not the answer it will literally devastate your loved ones. As much as you think nobody cares people do. It's not the answer I promise you it's not.

@mariesmith6744

2 ай бұрын

Sorry for you're loss, I lost a ex boyfriend to it and it's awful. ❤🙏🪽

Ezra I know things are pretty dire right now and I don’t know how to keep going when everything seems to be falling apart. But I’m not going to stop trying because in this life the thing that I’m sure of is that I have to be here for you. So I’m not going to leave.

@rebeccaapple6580

2 ай бұрын

You will make it!

@cheyenneavery944

2 ай бұрын

Good shit!!! Keep that mindset. Sending you love n prayers

@onlyapilgrim

Ай бұрын

@@cheyenneavery944 thank you i love yall

When he runs out into the field to get her, the way she grasps onto him like she's holding on for dear life...I felt that..I've been there

@cindymaki7412

3 жыл бұрын

Me too...

@XXXfCJgXXX

3 жыл бұрын

Literally had this happen to me with my bestfriend her dad kept beating her and she kept getting bullied she said enough called me and said im done i knew what she meant so i fucking superman my ass over there but it was too late.. 😢😭😭 she Amanda Todd herself..

@ingoditrust8666

3 жыл бұрын

@@XXXfCJgXXX I'm so sorry

@mandinorman1337

3 жыл бұрын

I'm there now.

@ingoditrust8666

3 жыл бұрын

@@mandinorman1337 im so sorry i know u don't know me but if u ever need to talk to someone ill b glad to listen n I would try n help in any way I can.

Reminds me of my friend Bradley, she suffered from depression. She had her highs and lows threw the years, she killed herself 4 years ago. She tried to get treatment, doctors labled her as a drug seeker and send her home with nothing, she self medicated with street drugs and booze. It is sad to think that life is that bad you dont want to live, and it is hard for those left behind. This song and video really touched me.

@jonphillips5703

7 жыл бұрын

I'm really sorry to hear that I hope your life turns out to be nothing but a blessing

@tammyreneemoore8958

7 жыл бұрын

Jon Phillips Thank you for your kind words. I miss my friend, I regret I could not help her. I am in the medical field but there are very limited resources for mentally ill. Depression is an elephant in the room and goes undiagnosed far too many times. I pray for awareness to this terrible disease.

@scotthughes629

7 жыл бұрын

Listened to this song a lot. Just now watched the video. Damn... I'm sorry for your loss.

@joker-qr4py

7 жыл бұрын

Tammy Renee Moore that is a very true statement that you made about people giving up on life to medicate themselves and that's the bottom of the bottle it's always empty because we think too hard and not really searching for the answers but when you she had a good friend like yourself just remember she's watching you she just couldn't help herself didn't have no one to really lean on an open heart I thought about suicide years ago and I was one drugs pills and alcohol the guy told me has something better for me and I begin to draw you got very good at it and then I have a clothing line coming out this year the clothing line is call Jelani please look out for me support me has I will support any other artists make our Dream Come True God bless everyone have a great day

@michelleskidmore883

7 жыл бұрын

Tammy Renee Moore I knw what the sad life of depression and emotional problems can do to a person and anyone who lives that person . But your friend not in pain anymore

My husband lost his life to suicide 4 years ago. On our 15-year anniversary, he was in a locked psych unit, and when I went in to see him, he didn't recognize me. He ended his life 4 months later after coming out of this year-long manic episode. This song reaches me to my core.

@psych3d3lic

9 ай бұрын

Im so sorry. Be strong. God is with you 🩵

@bell_rd_baby

9 ай бұрын

I hope you can find new life ❤️

I'm 42. Going back into rehab. Severely depressed I'm not giving up that easy

@Tootrillll

Ай бұрын

Hey man good luck. I hope you can find real joy again

@PinkHitMe

Ай бұрын

Stay strong. Take what you can find yourself and good luck

@monahoward8380

24 күн бұрын

🕊️🙏🕊️ We Do Recover 🌹💗🌹

@RaloMante

12 күн бұрын

❤ There is all the strength we need in His name ❤ I pray for your healing and for you to take back your shine and your place on this ride that which is the greatest gift to us.

My girlfriend, one of the most amazing people on this earth, was badly abused as a child and as a result has dissociative identity disorder ("multiple personalities" although the right term is dissociative identities). She struggles with chronic derealization and depression/suicidal ideation and ocd too. Loving someone so much and so unconditionally, despite how much they struggle, can really fucking hurt. All you want is for them to get better and be okay, but it's never that easy. There are nights when I'm scared I'll wake up the next day to see she's gone. She deserves to live and be okay. She deserves to feel like the world around her is real and not just some dream, like her derealization tells her. She's suffered enough and I want us to have a happy ending, because her beginning sure as hell wasn't. It's unfair as all fuck and sometimes all I can do is cry and curse at the world for putting this on her and on us. If anyone sees this, and if any of you believe in God, I do ask that you send out a prayer for her recovery. Shit can be so hard. I'll be praying for any of you that need it too. update almost a year later: we are no longer together - not because of her mental health though! nothing bad. we are still very good friends, but the actual relationship wasn’t working because our respective long term goals weren’t compatible. she is recovering every day. very, very slowly, but i see the little bits of progress every time we see each other. things still aren’t easy for her at all, but i can see them getting there. stay strong everybody.

@conniewilson7663

4 жыл бұрын

Praying for her & praying even harder for you. It’s hard to bare witness to these things, to not be able to fix all the hurt. You’ve both got this. Lots of love.

@Beemorse

4 жыл бұрын

It's really beautiful how much you clearly love her. I hope you both get your happy ending

@aleshamcdonagh5251

4 жыл бұрын

I will pray for you and your girlfriend

@laurengerrity4502

4 жыл бұрын

This got me sobbing. I hope she gets better.

@marileewoods5215

4 жыл бұрын

Prayers for healing in Jesus name amen. Tell her I tried it wouldn't fire now my children are grown I'm raising my granddaughter. I had lost my little boy 2 years old I was a mess. Jesus came to me in a vision showed me my son on his lap then he run off with the other children in a huge meadow. I still miss him. I know he's in heaven. I cry every birthday holiday ..I pray

This song has touched me like no other It's been almost 7yrs since I lost my fiance to suicide and even now every day is still a struggle. When we met she was the light that saved me from a dark place. She taught me so much about life and myself. She was my forever and I feel as though I failed her by not being able to save her like she did me. I lost a big piece of me that day that I will never get back. I am just grateful for all the memories that I will always have to look back on.

@terryskidmore6739

2 жыл бұрын

On November 25, 2021 I lost my best friend and true soul mate.I couldn't save him. I keep asking myself what more I could have done. I'm pretty broken right now.The thought that brings me comfort is knowing he is at peace. .

@Darsam88

Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry for your loss, about 8 months ago I found out my wife of nearly 10 years tried to commit suicide for the second time that I know of. I was sitting in my Office in tears because she wouldn't let me in and I was feeling like I failed too.

@chrisstapleton5389

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for your comments and love towards me, hope you won’t stop someday?

@russellwestern6997

Жыл бұрын

You didn't fail her........ if a person wants to go then no one can or will stop them. Release yourself my friend, you can't carry that load, it's too much for anyone!!!!!

@judyseefeld2903

Жыл бұрын

@Russell Western that is exactly right. You didn't fail them. The depression overcame them. You can't save someone if they don't want to be saved. People with depression are ill. It's like a broken arm. Could you fix someone with a broken arm? No, you don't have the skill set. Depression is a broken mind. The thoughts you have are not true or normal, because depression is telling them, you don't really mean it, you would be better off without them, or with someone who isn't sick. The thought process in depression is not telling you the truth.

I hesitated to share but it goes... I absolutely love my wife, been married for 10yrs, we are best friends, inseparable and enjoying life together and some don't understand why we are always together, but we crave each other and truly enjoy our friendship, love and energy. We both have our childhood history which damaged us, and I have my PTSD / TBI from the Marines and deal with those demons, yet I put them aside to deal with hers as well, trying to be strong for our relationship when she drinks and damages it. I deal with her toxic behavior every 4- 6 months since the beginning and I will continue to do so until it kills me. My wife is therapy, which I fully support but it works for a few months and then she loses herself when she can't control her alcohol. I know why she loses control, and I want to be there for her and let her know she's stronger than this and don't allow her past to control and destroy her / our future. I've tried everything to help her.... I'm exhausted and wanting to check out myself but I don't....

I've struggled with depression and anxiety since I was 15. I'm now 37, and it's still a battle. It just sucks when sometimes you feel like you just can't win!!

@unepetitebr

4 ай бұрын

I absolutely get it. Hope you can keep strong!

@Nikkilou36

4 ай бұрын

@@unepetitebr Thank you!

@tyfaknee

4 ай бұрын

You are winning simply because you are still here. Don’t ever give up the fight.

@Nikkilou36

4 ай бұрын

@tyfaknee Thank you! Nope, never give up!!! Again, thank you for the nice words!!!

@tyfaknee

4 ай бұрын

@@Nikkilou36 ❤️

Am I hearing music with lyrics that actually make sense? Am I feeling emotional? What's happening? ❤😩

@brianthomas9461

8 жыл бұрын

yes ma'am

@heatherarnold7356

7 жыл бұрын

was thinking the same thing

@tylerwitty6361

7 жыл бұрын

ITs called country music. Its amazing stuff, went dormant for about 20 years but is coming back strong. Probably wont find it on many "country stations"

@jeremysonneman1330

7 жыл бұрын

+Tyler Witty I agree

@haleyslaughter9389

7 жыл бұрын

whataboutlastweek is the best thing ever I love it when I basically have a good day to

I've never seen anything so closely resemble my life. The only difference would be that when I lost my daughter I lost my mind and my will to live. It was this.. this insanity..and still he stayed. This was 6 years ago and I finally started to find my way back and my stomach ruptures...and for the first time I watched this beautiful, strong man I'm married to cry and literally beg me to survive..so I am. I will never understand why God gave me this man or why he still loves me like this 22 years and the death of a child later, but God knows how grateful I am. He's the reason I know we truly have soul mates.

@bealightnthedarkness7662

2 жыл бұрын

Hope

@JacindaH

2 жыл бұрын

@@bealightnthedarkness7662 hope and love. I just don't know that I deserve it, but God knows I'm grateful.

@teddybroosevelt6826

2 жыл бұрын

Boo hoo. Stop looking for attention

@JacindaH

2 жыл бұрын

@@teddybroosevelt6826 awww Teddy..what you chose not to see is that I'm still here, still loved by many and still not ever intimidated or even a little hurt by someone like you. I can already tell what a sad, perpetually single and incredibly lonely life you live by this simple comment...the actual need for attention..which is so desperately needed on your part that you'll even take scraps of negative attention versus none at all. You keep eating your feelings, pittying yourself and raging at the world over things you perceive as unfair and I'll keep being me. Loved, happy and confident enough to know how very little you matter. Hugs and prayers.

@ePelle741

2 жыл бұрын

@@teddybroosevelt6826 Quite the opposite. It is you seeking the attention and no doubt, you'll receive it precisely for your soulless comment. Enjoy the fame.

Everyone who reads this, we don't know each other and probably never will but I wish you all the best in life and all the luck in the world 💖

@AliceQQQ

3 ай бұрын

God bless you!

@D0nTanner

3 ай бұрын

1:59

@potatomaster7268

2 ай бұрын

Thank you, need all the luck I can get today 🙏

@user-qu8dt2ig2v

2 ай бұрын

Thank you! Keep your head up my friend and I turn ill try and stay strong as well salute 🫡❤.

@TheDoug1980

2 ай бұрын

We need more people like y’all,not only care,but openly vocal about,my best to everyone!

I listen to this song too often. As a woman who holds a prominent degree and corporate position I feel these words and video. It doesn't matter who you are, what you do, or how much money you make in order to be an individual who suffers from depression. I am one of those who often remind myself, today is not the day to say goodbye to the world. Tomorrow, maybe tomorrow, but not right now.

@melindakeown7500

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry 😢🙏🏼 I’m praying for you. I avoided suicide in 2008 and am living my best life since. I wish others could beat their demons. 🥺

@sandrag8621

Жыл бұрын

The world needs you. I FIGHT the feeling, too. We don't know when or why, but the world needs us.

@jaywilson8201

Жыл бұрын

😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

@corriealexander3017

Жыл бұрын

I needed to read this. God bless and keep you. Hang on❤

@jessa312

Жыл бұрын

I love you for writing this

5 years later, and this song is still hitting hard.

@bubbercakes528

2 жыл бұрын

So sorry.

@lindaetheridge14

2 жыл бұрын

So sad. 😢😢😢

@debbiemason2804

2 жыл бұрын

First time today on the way home from work is when I heard this song. And yep it hits hard.

@uncle_phoenix6553

Жыл бұрын

6 years now and dayum

@blakejameson1114

Жыл бұрын

It will always. The human condition is filled with dependency, need, thirst for fulfillment, value, lack of empathy, disconnection,.........but for some reason the man is discounted. Imbalance is real.

I’m a 19 year vet of Birmingham police department and I lost my wife on March 14 2019 do to mental illness. This video crushed me in 2016 and I didn’t know y. I cried my eyes out with my then girlfriend. Mental illness touches us all right now it’s on me. Anyone who needs too talk please talk to me I need it and so do you! Love to all

@safrinasafrina5361

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry to hear. How are you doing, sir? Thank you for your service. Stay safe and take care of you.💙 God bless!

@slikballa

3 жыл бұрын

God bless you guys on your journey

@orangemonsoon1883

3 жыл бұрын

God bless you officer,from Glasgow ,scotland💙💙💙💙💙

@dw5412

3 жыл бұрын

I'm manic depressive with schizophrenia I'm truly sorry for your loss I do meth can you make it so i dont get pulled over? I'm also retarded

@deborahdanhauer8525

3 жыл бұрын

So very sorry. This happened to me too. I hope you are doing ok. Sending you love and hope❤

No matter how many years pass, this song will stay in our hearts forever!💖

As a female veteran with chronic ptsd,this song hits my soul. I am a two time survivor of domestic violence. I met someone back in 2019 through a mutual acquaintance. Fast forward to now and we are living this song to some degree. I pray that it gets better. He has shown me that not every man is a scumbag. I am madly and wholeheartedly in love with him.

@Carlossantanamusicinc

8 ай бұрын

Hello dear, it’s nice meeting you on here

@sallyrutledge4726

8 ай бұрын

I am so glad !

@Carlossantanamusicinc

8 ай бұрын

@@sallyrutledge4726 it’s my pleasure having you on here, so have you ever been to our concerts?

@lindseyalbertson2235

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for your service!

@reyoureal

3 ай бұрын

I'm happy you found that. ❤

This song is a masterpiece. Anyone agree?? [edit: didn't expect this many likes :)]

@chrisstapleton2054

Жыл бұрын

🌹 Hey 👋 big fan!!!!💞💌I'm using this medium to appreciate you in particular as a fan of mine and I want you to keep supporting me while I bring more entertainment to your way. Love you💞💝 I have seen a lot of your comments and likes on my page thanks for being a fan and I'll like to show more of my gratitude to you 💌🙏🙏💝 How long have you been listening to my music? 🎶🎶💌💌💞💕🌎🌎🎵🎵💞💞

@andreasanders7752

Жыл бұрын

Darn straight. My wife soon to be ex is just like that

@QueVenGuey

Жыл бұрын

Well beyond a masterpiece….. this song touches the very depth of our souls

@Roni-si4yg

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@bambizaragosa9279

Жыл бұрын

Totally AGREE

this song is about depression she cldnt fight the demons and he stood by her side until the end..pay attention to every sign if you can do something...

@johnwitt1370

7 жыл бұрын

U hit it perfect!!

@jadedstar3682

7 жыл бұрын

I didn't see it. My daughter recently committed suicide... I knew she was going through a lot but every time I saw her she seemed to be okay. Wish I could have stopped her

@hollyh6607

7 жыл бұрын

Jaded Star , I'm so sorry. Prayers for you and your family. I lost someone very close to suicide a year ago. My son has bipolar, and he's had several attempts. Mental health services need to change. They are failing too many people.

@johndeluna692

7 жыл бұрын

Wrong. Unconditional Love

@johansenyoyanovich4247

7 жыл бұрын

I would suggest that it is not up to Mental Health Services to be God for people. They are not Miracle workers. They are simply doing a very difficult job with many employees being the lowest paid on the medical scale. Do one week in the Mental Health field and you will want to jump off a bridge, yourself...because of the overwhelming mess in society. I have been in this field for over 30 years, and the only thing I have found that truly works with much higher percentages than every other program out there is when you wrap a good family focused church that actually believes in God, and compassion, and is willing to roll up their sleeves and get involved int he tough work or breaking the chain's of addiction and helping people walk out of that dark valley. I have never known it to take less than 6 months.. most of the time it takes about a year for most folks to rebuild their world. More and more recovery programs are asking for the help of local urban churches to provide the structure needed for folks.

My heart goes our to everyone who is suffering from depression and mental illness. I will be praying for you guys that God lifts those chains off of you. Keep fighting you are loved.😢

@SavedbyHisGrace73

7 ай бұрын

Best comment here. Go to God. 🙏

@natashaswazo766

7 ай бұрын

I pray to God everyday 🙏 Have a blessed night

@destineyward72

7 ай бұрын

I really appreciate your kind words. I’m battling a bout of depression right now. It’s very hard to deal with at times.

@natashaswazo766

7 ай бұрын

You have a blessed night and keep praying

@SeanHegarty-yv8yz

6 ай бұрын

Thank you from ireland as a sufferer it is not easy, and to hell with anyone who knocks it, i was brought up in a generation where the word depression was never talked about u were just in a bad mood, like hell i was, scared to say i feel depressed because u would of got laughed at or punched and told to catch yourself on, i was in my mid 40's before i addressed the problem and being an alcoholic didnt help near 5 yrs sober, and being treated properly for depression, iv found myself living in a city somewhere i never thought id ever live as im a country boy, but the count of 13,14,15,16yrs taking there own lives absolutly shocking scares me more needs to be done tell ur wee boys its ok to cry, wont make u any less of a man will make u a better man, rant over nice to hear of someone commenting like u just did we appreciate it thank you 💚💚💚💚💚💚🇮🇪

As someone who suffers from depression along with bpd, This song gives me chills and brings tears to my eyes everytime I hear it cause I can feel his words.. ❤

@Carlossantanamusicinc

8 ай бұрын

Hello dear, it’s nice meeting you on here

@taskinyucekurt

8 ай бұрын

Stay safe and strong 💪

@benvandiver9130

8 ай бұрын

Music is special - I wish I had some magical words for you…but I also appreciate how different we all are. Maybe look for the littlest bits of joy and try to build from there? Strive to smile…it can be contagious if you allow it!

@avriledwards1233

8 ай бұрын

​@@CarlossantanamusicincWhat's up Chris this is Avril Do you know Parker Mccollum 😊

@ErickaKreager

7 ай бұрын

I suffer from the same. BPD, anxiety & depression, PTSD... And this song touches my soul ❤

Sometimes we just can't handle the monsters alone. But finding someone that will stay to fight with us is just as hard.

@mattyjay8883

4 жыл бұрын

This is very true, I know this feeling too well myself. I hope you find someone ready to fight with you. Have a blessed day.

@stephanielynn2713

4 жыл бұрын

Brandie Lou i agree 🖤

@kristieniblett2732

4 жыл бұрын

I have fought the monsters alone for many yrs until 2013 when i met my husband.... he has fought a many monster with me but with at my side those monsters aint hard to fight anymore

@deanbishop4904

4 жыл бұрын

Peace & love brother ! 🇬🇧🇺🇸

@cobywilliams7006

4 жыл бұрын

Lol and fucking impossible

My girlfriend is like this, bipolar disorder, major depression and anxiety. Being on call all the time as a firefighter it gets very scary to leave her alone sometimes. I love her so much, she has good days and bad days, but she's so unpredictable. She is a good person. If only she say her self worth through my eyes.

@sheliamiller5162

5 жыл бұрын

Jackaroo Dundee it's a hard thing to get over

@skiptheboxingkangaroo

5 жыл бұрын

@@sheliamiller5162 I don't think it's something you get over, it's something you deal with and share. It's weird like that.

@willisme532

5 жыл бұрын

Jackaroo Dundee i also have all 3 of those things... Its hard. Make sure there's always something at home with her. Like something to keep her from feeling alone. Don't let the silence get to her. If she tries shit she needs to go to the hospital. Its a dark feeling. And she probably doesn't want to go but usually meds work for bipolar. Its well studied. I have a lot of friends like this and they ended up going to the hospital for a while why they started lithium usually. Its like magic a lot of the time. I'm sorry just this songs got me emotional as hell. And i just wanna do litteraly anything I can do to help. Ik what its like being her. Its hell but it really is possible to escape the darkest part. Its just hard. Best if luck man.

@pamrevious2331

5 жыл бұрын

Just do what you can for her. I wish you the best of luck bud!

@Mmarch29

5 жыл бұрын

You are an amazing human for having the strength and courage to care for someone with a mental illness. As one of those people myself I always worry I will scare away the ones I love, but this goes to show that we can be loved. And people do care, and we appreciate that more than you can imagine.

As a person that suffers from PTSD, anxiety, depression and lives alone this song hits a home run.

@marciaflannery

Жыл бұрын

@@pjsavagejr ty

@marciaflannery

Жыл бұрын

@@pjsavagejr ty

@sandrag8621

Жыл бұрын

You're never alone... God's only a prayer away. I'm sending you a big hug.

@kimnewton8881

Жыл бұрын

​@@sandrag8621 amen yes he's always there to listen just open your heart ❤

@jessa312

Жыл бұрын

Oh sweetie I'm sorry I understand

She does an amazing job of portraying the pain and numbness of deep depressions.

Living with a spouse that has emotional and depression problems is rough. Those of us that has done it do so because of the love we have for our partner. Been with my wife for 10 years, The ups, The downs, Don't mean shit to me as long as I am there b her side to keep her safe and sound. This video hit closer to home then I like. I love this video for what it means. I hate this video for the reality of what it depicts.

@solonittygritty522

7 жыл бұрын

I agree with you brother

@troyferrall416

7 жыл бұрын

mb

@dawnteem2916

7 жыл бұрын

Ken Brannon I've been on both sides ..

@donnarousey-cassell8599

7 жыл бұрын

after years of someone I thought actually cared, I finally opened up and let him see that part of me and my past that I kept hidden. I hid it so well I that I was able to act like it was never there. I told him he could not handle that side. there is a reason. I don't like feeling like that. once I opened up and let him see why there are days I just wanted to be alone, or why I would not let him hug me, etc... the depression, anxiety, nightmares, suicidal thoughts, anger, hate... all that came back. he told me i was too dark, fuck up and he ran. glad to know there are still people out there that mean it when they promise they will always be there. gives me hope.

@timmycurry6907

7 жыл бұрын

Dawn Teem

I can not make it through this song without bawling like a baby my mom has suffered with mental illness and my dad has stood by her side through all the storms!!

@darioferguson3024

5 жыл бұрын

Sorry about that Shannon, how are you ?

@mattnash5865

4 жыл бұрын

That's what's missing from this video is the kids, I went through this with wife for years and the hardest part for me was trying to save her and the kids at the same time. I eventually paid for her to live in a separate house that was near by so she could see the kids during her good days. It's a real helpless feeling you try and do right by both because you love them. The good moments can be so great and the bad moments can suck away your soul. As hard as it was I had to break it off after 15 years it was doing to much damage to everyone. After living separate for 10 years we finally divorced, I got the kids and she got half of everything I had. Turns out she had been having relationships behind my back the whole time. The best years of my life wasted the good news is I got two great kids out of it. Give your dad a hug and let him know he's special and so are you girl hope things get better for all of you. "The people some people fall in love with"

@joeystewert4532

4 жыл бұрын

Shannon Vaughn I love you

@mikedunham7221

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

@Realpeterkennethframpton

Жыл бұрын

Hello, how are you doing today? Thanks for the support and love.

I am almost done my diploma in Addiction and Mental Health and this video made me ball my eyes out. The world is not the same anymore and I pray for all of those suffering. Stay safe, tell your friends and family you love them, get out and try that thing you have been putting off, much love.

For all of us who have been through hell as kids, teens and adults. Now live with severe, depression, anxiety and ptsd. We can appreciate this song. 😢.

I've never liked country but this guy is just awesome! Love his music.

@423gtrman

7 жыл бұрын

This ain't country...this is life. Look up early Steeldrivers and tell me that is Bluegrass......Chris is our Master Songsmith.....He writes what we feel......

@noctiphani7362

7 жыл бұрын

Serius thanks for liking my cousins music!

@brandybrady1015

7 жыл бұрын

Back to good

@TheDarkestOne

7 жыл бұрын

Also hate country music. Like, hate. Modern country that is, I like the oldies. With the exception of some of this of course.

@user-ki3wt7ck8u

6 жыл бұрын

Hes so awesome, One of the greatest country singers ever!

I wonder if Mr. Stapleton realizes how many lives he has saved out of the 19 million views this song has? One right here. God makes no mistakes and puts people (angels) in the right spot at the right time. This I know. Keep on keeping on!!

@howardduck630

7 жыл бұрын

indeed

Impossible not to have teary eyes when this song comes up....who ever being there, knows the struggle that it is!

@new_guys

Жыл бұрын

You are so right! My son suffers from deep mental depression!! He has tried to commit suicide many times but I was always there to save him. The last time he tried and failed he told me he hated me and wished I would leave him alone!!

Chris Stapleton. Idk if you'll ever read this. But know this video has let me put a visual on the suffering I go through when I am hitting that low point. Thank you for this video and just to know I am more. And survive another day..... I fire away... Everyday.....

@kerryfeland9889

8 жыл бұрын

You ARE someone Ashley Noonan and you have no idea how many lives you have touched and changed just by being here and being a part of life. You matter to this world - don't ever let the illness lie to you and tell you that you don't. Big hugs to you :)

@mattrushing5573

7 жыл бұрын

+Kerry Feland I there was a like button for your comment. I don't know either one of you, but that was amazing and uplifting. I can be a true jackass most of the time, but I do actually try to see the good and importance in all people. Thank you.

@kerryfeland9889

7 жыл бұрын

Thank you Matt for your kind words. My daughter is bipolar so I live the life in this song and I know the people who are ill will start to feel and think that they are not worth anything but that is just not true - they are worth everything to all of us. People miss seeing so much beauty, kindness and love in others when they close their minds....I just keep trying to open the doors that others keep trying to shut.

@mikeash8213

7 жыл бұрын

+Kerry Feland well said

@jamesangelo8432

7 жыл бұрын

+Kerry Feland I know what you mean. My girlfriend is bipolar. I love her to death. It scares me when he gets in one of her moods. I am afraid she will hurt herself. She cuts herself and talks about how ugly her scars are. I look her in her eyes an I always tell they are beautiful just like her. I know the Lord is watching over her from heaven. I truly believe they are God's Angels. We are there protectors.

I don’t listen to this song often but when i do, so do my neighbors

@dakota22121

5 жыл бұрын

I lost my 14 yr old son last year and don't know if ill ever be fixable

@spit-fireentertainment184

5 жыл бұрын

Best comment

@no1computerrepairguy

5 жыл бұрын

@@dakota22121 I can't think of anything worse to suffer than that Mike, big internet hugs buddy. Stay strong mate.

@EitaZica

5 жыл бұрын

@@dakota22121 Sorry for you loss man. Stay strong.

@beautifulbutterfly4047

5 жыл бұрын

@@no1computerrepairguy 5

a year ago i lost my older brother to suicide. I remember being so mad at the world for him leaving. But looking back on our messages we would send each other songs to listen to. This song was always sent to me multiple times. I never listened to country that much until after he passed. This song touched me once i played it over and over again. I miss him. but the music lives through him. I love this song and my brother.

Ive suffered from depression and anxiety my entire life. It's a terrible thing to deal with especially in this world we live in today. Prayers of Healing and Comfort for us All❤❤❤

As a person with bipolar depression, I feel this song. My husband has stood by me through the ups and way downs.

@sarahcarista3066

Жыл бұрын

My Best friend and Lover has stood bye me and this time I wouldn't have made it threw if it hadn't been for Scott and my MOM

@lelacintron3540

Жыл бұрын

Literally, same. My husband showed me this song and we both broke down together

@srowell01

Жыл бұрын

It's flipped for me. My husband is the one with bipolar depression. We've been through some stuff.

@mrsjackiep16

Жыл бұрын

I have bipolar depression and am currently fighting one of those debilitating lows of the depression. Literally laying here crying 😢 this is so well done and done with great accuracy of those peaks and valleys for sure.

@redsweaterbluemood

Жыл бұрын

Same. I feel like I could never tell him thank you enough.

This is what I call good music.

@isabel-hq5qu

8 жыл бұрын

+Alain Bruno Chris makes good music!

@miguellet6034

8 жыл бұрын

+Alain Bruno i agree

@ryandcranchdel7046

8 жыл бұрын

+Alain Bruno i like your body

@AlainBruno

8 жыл бұрын

ryandc ranchdel :))

@sammour444

8 жыл бұрын

Can you fuck off and stop commenting on every fucking songs you see! Clearly you don't listen to the songs. You just want people to see you and subscribe to you ! uhh qnd one more thing, Change your fucking ugly picture!

I lost my lil bro to murder,3 months later my wife to mass heart attack, had to raise my 8yr old son and 7 yr old daughter on my own after being happily married for 13 yrs. This song, although it wasn't suicides it still cuts like a knife everytime I listen to it. Great song Chris!!!

@sidthesloth5

Жыл бұрын

I’m sorry for you, wish I could take that pain. Chris is amazing when it comes to vocals and everything

@scottlandrum7083

Жыл бұрын

I respect you so much for fighting that pain and taking on the responsibility of raising the kids...Bless you..

@pamspencer5733

7 ай бұрын

Stay in the light,peace to you🕊️💙🙏

Over the years I have watched this video 100+ times. Every single time it gives me chills, a pit in my stomach, and my heart aches. It hurts my soul for all the people who were unable to bear the burden of their own pain and decided only death would bring them relief. 😭 Every time!

@new_guys

Жыл бұрын

My son is a survivor!! So many times he tried! His cousin wasn't as fortunate he killed himself at 17. My son is 16.

@lacies1735

9 ай бұрын

So very true and God Bless everyone with mental illness. Take it day by day, hour by hour, minute by minute. What losing someone does to a person is excruciating. Don't let the demons drag you down. Breathe and tell them not today! Help is out there and you're not alone. If you're reading this please know, you are loved, you are strong, you are important and wake up tomorrow and repeat ❤

@havefaith697

5 ай бұрын

Yes ❤

Long story short.. I moved to Oregon back in October of 1998, I was 21 and I didnt know anyone. I got a shitty factory job right away so I could support myself, and thats where we met. She was 23, and with some dirt on her cheek she introduced herself "Hi...(it was that super long pause you only see in the movies).... I'm Susie", she said. I was already in love by the time she said her name. I instantly fell in love with her, right then. We started dating and at times I needed to pinch myself because I honestly couldnt believe a girl this amazing and beautiful actually WANTED to be with me. Fast forward 3 years. We lived together and made friends together..we were starting a beautiful life together. On a rainy March weekend I went out of town with my friends band (I would help carry gear, do lights, whatever was needed) and returned that Sunday evening, it was March 18th 2001 to learn that my Susanna had committed suicide and her body had been found that morning in a room at a hotel by the freeway.... I can clearly recall the exact moment that my heart was crushed and I became dead inside. It was like getting hit my a silent freight train.. I had no idea. Zero warning signs... nothing. Nothing except her goodbye letter to me. Im 40 years old now, .. I still have not been able to allow myself to love the way I loved her.. Tell the "one" in your life that you love them, before its too late.. R.I.P. Susanna Lynn Hathorn I will always love you.. Great video, by the way.

@The_Lone_Outlaw

6 жыл бұрын

zombie668 Just remember that in her mind she probably was feeling as if her very existence was torture to you. But in reality, it was the exact opposite. God bless her soul, at least she is not suffering anymore. Always remember, you'll see her again. And you'll be together once again for all eternity. In peace. Happy. Together.

@zombie668

6 жыл бұрын

Part of me hopes it is that easy. Most of me knows that isnt a realistic hope to hold on to. And ALL of me knows, she was never "mine" to hold on to in the first place. I have chosen to try to use this as a way to learn something about myself and the world around me. Something that only she could teach me, even if that lesson had to come from her death... funny part is, I still dont know what it was I was supposed to take from this that makes me a more well rounded human being.... I have resolved that I may never know... and thats ok

@alwayjohnrallos7359

6 жыл бұрын

Oh man imma cry

@christopherkaleel6450

6 жыл бұрын

I did not consent to this feels trip.

@moonchildprotectedandguide499

6 жыл бұрын

this song makes me feel everything! all my emotions. see as a young girl right after I had my baby girl my life long strong mother was so hurt and down, aside I never saw before. she walked in to my room at the time she was living with me. she hurt so long so hard so many days with a smile on her face. see she walked in and held me thigh and expressed how much she loved me but could not feel the way she has for 13 years. she stepped back with the most broken lost hurt look any one could see in their mothers eyes. I could of died inside at that but then she slowly pulled a kitchen knife to her wrist as blood poured on to my floor as I cried out to her. see she hurt for 13 years over losing our dad of 6 daughters. she longed for his touch and strong shoulders that held her up when she was low. I hurt for what I experienced that day in my house as a new mom and for my family who had a loss. not everyone can hold it together for so long. I love this song and how I allows me to feel every bit of what's real it's a strong deep love song to so many. thanks for the share. God bless all thanks Casey landis

This song is so beautiful, but this video is like a car crash you don't want to see but you can't turn away from. I've seen it a hundred times, and I still can't turn away. This is Art.

@mandinorman1337

4 жыл бұрын

Well said ❤❤

@claycarr8615

4 жыл бұрын

I don’t like it it hurts

@ingoditrust8666

3 жыл бұрын

Yes and living with somebody like this is like watching a train wreck you want so much to stop it but there is nothing you can do besides cry when it crashes

@Shadow_Wolf73

3 жыл бұрын

❤️

As I person that suffers from depression and thought of suicide alot, I can totally relate to this song! Thanks for putting this out there. I have come a long way. Beat depression. Went on to get my doctorate degree and have learned to love life with no medication. I have 3 healthy boys and a husband. I'm blessed and thank God everyday!

In 2011, I lost my wife of 14 years to suicide, leaving my 4 kids without their mother. It devastated our family. As a result My only daughter killed herself on 12/28/22, 3 weeks short of her 22nd birthday. Suicide sucks. It. Destroys the families left behind. If you are struggling with it, please get help. Otherwise you're transferring your pain to the people who love you, that are left to deal with the consequences of your actions. You ARE loved. Please don't hurt the people who love you by hurting yourself.

@dawsondawson2008

Ай бұрын

Prayers for you. I'm so sorry for your loss. That is so true, it just pushes the pain to someone else !

@oliviasky1007

Ай бұрын

There are truly no words but I am sorry for your loss😢

@joninoon9674

Ай бұрын

I know your pain and I am so sorry for your loss.

@threadinginstructor

Ай бұрын

Just horrible. I'm so sorry for your losses. 🙏

@sabrinapickens3085

Ай бұрын

I know your pain maybe not as much but I'm sorry for your loss

this song reminds me of my relationship ...my man saves me daily i struggle with bipolar n suicidal thoughts DAILY. he is my hero. this song means alot to me

@unlockmyheart

6 жыл бұрын

Mariana Nelson, thank you for fighting that fight everyday and never calling it quits.

@ladyj7653

6 жыл бұрын

Maranda Nelson same here

@gabeboxell5419

6 жыл бұрын

Maranda Nelson I'm sorry

@hunterray4829

6 жыл бұрын

Maranda Nelson that is so sad

@xxblatxx

6 жыл бұрын

best of luckxxxx life wont be as fun if your not around to enjoy it.. hold your man like he holds you and enjoy your lifes together maranda.. its short enought huni..:)

This song is my life. Through my battle with depression I have lashed out at my husband, thrown things at him and locked myself in a room with a knife and a bottle of pills. He never once left and would hold me until I exhausted myself when I went wild. He is the sole reason I am here today and better then I have ever been. He monitors my meds and loves me despite it all. Thank you Chris Stapleton for honoring our loved one that live and suffer with us.

@chrisstapleton5971

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much I sincerely hope you never stop listening to my music 🎶❤️, Happy New Year once again.

@AmandaWilshire031

3 жыл бұрын

I felt that!! My husband is also like this with me and he is also the sole reason I am here. My medications stay in a gun safe, because that's t the only one I can pick the lock on, and he gives them out on a daily basis. I don't know what I would do without him. He loves me so much and I him. Prayers for you and yours!!

@chrisstapleton5971

3 жыл бұрын

@@AmandaWilshire031 Thank you once again for your love towards my music 🎶 Do you mind if we talk somewhere private? I'm not on here much

@jodyyork3821

2 жыл бұрын

Mine was there for 15 yrs I honestly thought id nwver find someone who would love me with all my battles in my mind and he did right up until god stole him from me with a fatal stroke that I now know was caused by the stress i put him thru so in the end I killed the one person that was always my rock and im now so alone and miss him and want to be where he is

This is my first time hearing this song and seeing the video, and it definitely hits home for me. I lost my wife of 33 years April 22nd 2022. A date that will forever haunt me. Her depression and addiction finally got the best of her and she took her life on that day. In her mind I guess she felt like she was doing the right thing and relieving us of the burden she felt she had become. Nothing could be further from the truth. The real burden was trying to pick up the pieces and trying to make sense of it all as well as knowing I couldn't help her and that she is no longer here. I miss her every damn day. If you suffer from depression, addiction or anything else and feel like no one cares and leaving this world is best for everyone, ITS NOT! Just remember, the people who stick around when you are at your worst are the ones who truly love and care about you.

@Nataliedatha

Жыл бұрын

😢😢😢😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤

@Doloria665

Жыл бұрын

I am sorry for your loss and want to let you know that it might be your text that held me back for today. Watch yourself!

@jc961

Жыл бұрын

@@Doloria665 watch yourself?

@Doloria665

Жыл бұрын

@@jc961 oh maybe that was bad english? I wanted to say sth like take care? Sorry.

@jc961

Жыл бұрын

@@Doloria665 Oh. Thank you.

Someone from 2024?

Every time I hear this song, no matter where I am, I break. I literally bawl. Loudly. For myself, for all the love I have given freely to those so undeserving, and for all the hurt that they caused me over the years.... and for all the people I hurt with my pain. I am so terribly sorry for my anger, my rage, my fears, my constant worry. I don't want to upset my loved ones.... sometimes, you just can't control the feels. And then THIS happens...this video is so spot on!!!!!!!!

@amandagrainger9714

Жыл бұрын

Same

@kellybee1935

Жыл бұрын

@wondering woman I feel you. I too suffer from severe depression, but this is about you. Healing from past hurt is tough however during my last hospitalization one of the doctors told me to not allow those memories to take space in your heart because they don’t deserve it. Sometimes getting mad is a good healing tool, letting go gives you more time spend happy. I pray that this will help you. God bless and live well.

@shannaanderson1864

Жыл бұрын

I so feel you! I also give so much love and then get so much hate... I have made 2 attempts to end my life and then I had 2 heart attacks caussed by all the stress that I was dealing with... at the time, I wished that I wouldn't have made it... but I'm slowly learning to love myself... I have lost so many people... stay strong xxx

@debbiehood2037

Жыл бұрын

Thank you, every day is a fight. Yes, I have a wonderful family, friends, doctors, medication, but sometimes the world is to much. I am so sorry about your wife. Your statement did help. Thank you.

@robbingideon8346

Жыл бұрын

Wondering Woman you don’t owe apologies. It’s not your fault. My daughter and granddaughter both are diagnosed with bipolar depression disorder.they both feel the need to apologize sometimes too but I tell them I love them and they are my would. ❤

That was an amazing way of showing how being married to someone with anxiety or/and depression. Chris captured the highs and lows. I haven’t cried to a music video in a long time but I had to cry for this one.

@teddybear123167

2 жыл бұрын

You are so right, my husband couldn't care less. I guess that's why I left and getting my second divorce. Thanks for sharing that

@sugewhitejacoby8654

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sobbing, this hit me so hard!

@motomom547

2 жыл бұрын

I'm only here for my son

@emilyann4623

2 жыл бұрын

Prob borderline personality disorder, I have it and this is the hell my husband deals with. I thought it was depression but it's actually more complex and the spouse will suffer just as much. Sad video..

@billie9442

Жыл бұрын

Dido

I’ll never forget the day my dad showed me this song. Told me he wanted me to watch a music video and listen to the song. He never knew I was struggling mentally. But this song saved me.

@benrobin28777

Жыл бұрын

Keep pushing. You’re not alone. Despite the hurdles, it gets quite better and worth the shot of keep pushing through life.

@SpynCycle57

Жыл бұрын

Maybe he knew, or suspected, but he just didn't know how to talk to you about it.

@yungemu3236

Жыл бұрын

Im willing to bet your dads hurting too. We all are

@Qwertyuiop1234567993

11 ай бұрын

hes your dad. he knew something was wrong.

@sallyrutledge4726

8 ай бұрын

Such thin and fragile threads connect us to people we have never met, to people that seem like reflections.

Although this music reaches deep into some of the most emotional parts of my soul, I also acknowledge that the title of the song might entertain evil. I understand what it is trying to say, this song honestly makes me cry a lot. At the same time its lyrics could affect the healing process (for those who connect with it at a very personal level) negatively. I pray for healing to everyone and a stronger understanding of each other, in the name of Jesus.

@aa-hy7fs

3 күн бұрын

You are absolutely correct... For me it's like a "love" letter to the chaos and pain... Flirting with death, because 31 years on this planet,... And I never felt like I belong here, and constantly being misunderstood and quickly rejected,.. I don't have too many people that I can relate too or can relate to me... It's been a very long and lonely journey here on this beautiful planet.....

@RaloMante

3 күн бұрын

@@aa-hy7fs I can relate. I recently started a public journal hoping those who find it can comprehend how much I want to connect with others but after tragically losing loved ones it definitely gets hard to even decide to approach and/or take the first step. The initiative is there, there are definitely options to help us navigate through those feelings. This song took my attention one day and I keep coming back to it regardless I agree with its message or not… perhaps deep within I have an undeniable connection with it because it reminds me of where I have been mentally and it reminds me that I do not necessarily need to keep going back to that complicated state of mind. Lots of changes these past few years but it is nice to have a soundtrack for something that existed and no longer is, which is probably how I would define the connection with this song.

@RaloMante

3 күн бұрын

@@aa-hy7fsAlso this guy’s voice is just simply too good 😅

This song is more about the trials that come with loving someone more than the struggle itself. He is saying take it all out on me, show me what you got and I am your rock. It’s some of the most beautiful and honest lyrics of love I’ve ever heard. It speaks to the heart and soul of a man that truly and sincerely loves this woman. On a different note, I’ve heard these same lyrics and thought of a person who is ready for new love and wants her to know he’s ready. Fire away. ❤️🌹🙏👑

@chloesweeting5745

2 жыл бұрын

So true

@karloshskorner2874

2 жыл бұрын

Tell him I'm ready too 😉❤

@Gambit22003

2 жыл бұрын

Nice, but I think you might be just a little off in your analysis, ma'am.

@emilyae

2 жыл бұрын

He said himself it's about depression and suicide.

@zainalak7901

2 жыл бұрын

❤️

Where words fail, music speaks . . . . . . . . . . . .

@blabkabka7173

6 жыл бұрын

more than you know

@crystalrendon9000

6 жыл бұрын

No doubt

@kellyumbarger5450

6 жыл бұрын

like that sang

@mattstrom822

6 жыл бұрын

Most powerful statement bro.

@wendylangfield4385

6 жыл бұрын

I would rather go blind and lose all my limbs than lose my ability to listen to music!! Sooooo grateful that for thhis gift since many cannot or just unable to FEEL this passion i would re live my painful childhood 20 times over than live without this kind of talent

I too suffer from severe depression and ptsd. This song calls to me. I have been through so much hell, but this past year has me hanging by a thread. That is what has broken me the most. I feel so lost.

@ghostpants7356

7 ай бұрын

Same. I'm trying to hang in therr

I am married to a man that struggles like this...I love him dearly and I am here for it all...

@johnjack2472

4 жыл бұрын

Be strong and bless you.

@jasonschnapp9624

4 жыл бұрын

Here. Dont take hear for granted either

@timothycox1861

4 жыл бұрын

You my dear are a blessing please continue to hang in there with him 🙏🏻 praying for both of you I myself am fighting stage 4 cancer

@amandagilmore1458

4 жыл бұрын

Me too! Stay strong!

@christopherhudson7465

3 жыл бұрын

Tell him

Country music is on life support and Chris Stapleton is the plug.

@mackenzieburdge987

6 жыл бұрын

preach 🙏🏼

@jonnyd5202

6 жыл бұрын

And luke combs (:

@FishnTv

6 жыл бұрын

Amen

@drewsoliz7773

6 жыл бұрын

If y'all think he's the only one y'all should look up other guys also...jason boland...whiskey Myers...JAB...scooter brown...wade bowen...randy rogers!!!

@jareds2572

6 жыл бұрын

that new luke bryan album what makes you county well luke not one damn thing

This songs prolly the most haunting from my past…trying to save my ex-wife with a 2 y/o and a newbie addicted to drugs, we were freshly married and everything was supposed to be picture perfect here we are 7 years later I’m raising these children without her doing the best I know how to… this song was released exactly in the middle of my life’s hardships and Chris’s made me understand as much as you try at things some things you can never understand❤ if you’re battling what I had to endure my heart is there for you in every turn god bless

@MontygatormanFNAF

2 ай бұрын

You got this.

I'm very thankful this song wasn't released 15 years ago. My girlfriend who is now my wife went through a very deep and dark depression after her world collapsed around her. If I had heard these lyrics it would have broke me. I cry at this song because we were so close to this happening,my best life decision was never giving up on her because it has been worth everything.

This song was played at my sisters funeral after we lost her to suicide back in april. Now i can’t listen to it without losing it💔

@jennyrojas5037

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry for your loss

@kennethwilliams7731

3 жыл бұрын

I so sorry about your sister! Her pain was just too much for her to bear I guess. I will not judge her because i didnt know what she was dealing with. Stay strong brother and give that love you have in your heart for your sister to someone in need of it in this world,while you still have time! Lots of lonely people on this blue rock we call home,dont be one of them.

@rogercerasoli7875

3 жыл бұрын

Praying for you Colby. I've been through it with my brother.

@deborahdanhauer8525

3 жыл бұрын

I've been through this too. Just hold on. Sending strength and love to you❤

@amymilem7472

3 жыл бұрын

So sorry for your loss.

THANK YOU Chris Stapleton from those of us who suffer daily from mental illness...BLESS YOU..CRANK THIS SONG UP

@karmasbadside2546

4 жыл бұрын

I agree.. most just judge and say we are crazy .. but most times we didn't understand it ourself.

WOW this hit hard. If you are suffering you are not alone, we are with you. Dont ever take your life. get help and dont ever stop fighting the pain is real. As a retired police officer it was sad to arrive to a home and see the lifeless body of a person who deicded to take his/her life. Years later i suffered from PTSD as a result. As a police Officer not only to you have to deal with others but also the ones in your home. Powerful video, still tearing up. God bless all those suffering, god bless the famliy of those suffering and God bless our first responders who deal with it on and off the job. PLEASE DONT EVER STOP FIGHTING

Just lost my sister yesterday to depression 😭😭😭❤️❤️

@gracecarrillo2173

13 күн бұрын

I'm so sorry. 😢

She is me. broken. unfixable....but never unlovable. when we have these mental illnesses it's easy to convince ourselves that we deserve to be alone because of what we put people through during our episodes.

@hounddog2952

6 жыл бұрын

I jus prayed for you 🎤👋

@drewpit7936

5 жыл бұрын

Nobody is truly broken and unfixable.. All you need is to endlessly search for the right man/woman who doesn't "put up with you" but genuinely loves helping and sacrificing for you.. If you are religious, I hope God helps you in your path but inevitable you will find your own path.

@danielgrim9279

5 жыл бұрын

Hun, a friend of mine has episodes like this, and she shared this song with me. It helped her, and it helped me to understand her better. Keep your chin up, and never doubt your own worth.

@mindiaddison8323

5 жыл бұрын

we are broken but not unfixable...God love us and is waiting for us to give Him our broken pieces and put us back together..."for i know the plans i have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and i will listen to you. you will seek me and find me when you seek with all your heart. i will be found by you. and will bring you back from captivity" Jerimiah 29:11-14...God is good...He creates beauty from ashes...please, call out to Him, He love you!!!

@lr5290

5 жыл бұрын

I know too well, that same feeling. I wish you luck and how to learn happiness in the future. ❤️

This video is very powerful , and it is intended to bring awareness to mental illness and how it destroys a person's life , not only that person , but all the family around them , There is a time and need to seek Help , before the tragic ending takes place , just like in the heart wrenching video. Do not be ashamed to ask for help. It just might save your life, or someone else you love and don't want to lose. Thankyou to "Chris" for bringing this in to full view.

@kerryfeland9889

8 жыл бұрын

Yes, please. Do not be afraid to ask for help. You never know where it may come from if you just ask !

@glendaclark1440

8 жыл бұрын

+Kerry Feland : my cousin is a medical examiner , suicide is a reality that M.E's encounter frequently , If someone would have just stepped into their life and took them by the hand and got them help , this can be prevented. Or if that person realise them self it's time to ask others for help , that is the 1st step to recovery.

@kerryfeland9889

8 жыл бұрын

I live this every day. My daughter is bipolar. This video puts into view what cannot be described to someone who is not living with this. To get help is not as easy as others would like you to believe and even the people within the system are not always the help you think they are. Someone who is going thru depression needs at least one voice in their corner to stand up for them, protect them and help them to get to that help. It is as much of a battle for the caregiver as it is for the person suffering with the depression. I've been asked for years by the professionals how I've managed to keep going and being there for my daughter. Simple answer....when I look around, there is no one else there except me and God to help her.

@dakotabiggers6331

8 жыл бұрын

Yes!! I can relate to this video! Its never too late to get help! I love this video and song itself

@melissaruppe3549

7 жыл бұрын

Agreed Ms. Glenda!! "Chris" is bringing country music back. I think he is very talented. Music is a huge influence in society. He brought awareness to a much needed cause.

I struggle with anxiety and depression and recently I lost my sister to cancer and I had a miscarriage a few weeks ago and trying so hard to stay positive I often listen to this song and cry

@melissaruiz7329

6 ай бұрын

Please try to stay strong, even though it's hard ❤

@meskyseid9973

6 ай бұрын

@@melissaruiz7329thank you ❤

@DB-hf7th

6 ай бұрын

May you be blessed with the grace to see God's love for you despite what you may perceive as God not being there. Trust in God and give everything to Him, all your pain and sorrows. Put God first and watch Him make your life anew.

@SeanHegarty-yv8yz

6 ай бұрын

Hi so sorry for the loss of ur sister, my sister had a miscarriage, I remember looking at her wee face, and knowing there was nothing I could do, and I was only her brother, broke my heart, I suffer also with anxiety and depression, I'm also a recovering alcoholic, 5yrs sober my punishment was to watch alot and I mean alot of my friends, friends I knew all my life and was involved with them all, all the way,lost my grandad on Christmas day and my dad on new yrs night different yrs, only to find out he was not my biological father, iv 2 sisters both called adele and now 2 brothers half siblings if u want to call them that, well after 30 odd yrs of alcohol and drug abuse, I fathered 1 girl and 1 boy and adopted 1 girl, my 2 wee girls now woman 1 married wasnt invited to the wedding, had to watch on a video of my xwife walk her down the Isle dressed as a man, top hat etc, looked like a joke ridiculous but hey that didn't put me back to drink or drugs I'm fighting like hell inside my own head to get all 3 of my kids back, my son is gay so what its 2023, I'm a grandad he is just 1yrs old past in Jan and hopefully a little granddaughter at 4 I think, I wrote a song and produced it and sang in the chorus, I talk at the end, it's called ( havent got to say hello yet ) by silent brook if u like check it out on KZread, and I'm in the middle of writing a couple of children's books, mermaids, Kings, witches, magic, and princess's I think what I'm trying to say is, I'm 50 51yrs old in a couple of wks, I made it this far, no idea how AA, helped saved my life, so I went talked to my doctor, and sought help elsewhere and talked to someone about it all, the deaths that hit me the screw ups iv made, I feel ur pain, plz hold on tell ur man, tell somebody or come on here and leave comments like this, this helps me it let's me share some of my experiences, and if I help 1 person who reads this hopefully you, ur not alone always remember that, and crying is good, God Bless u, andi hope u read this and any part of it helps even a little cause a little is better than nothing, and that's something ur not, ur not alone ur not nothing ur not wrong keep reaching out loads of love from ireland 🇮🇪🙏🙏🙏😊

I am one that suffers from ptsd, depression and anxiety. I would be lying if I said detrimental thoughts have never crossed my mind. We all have different things that have brought us to this point. Sometimes it's a daily struggle dealing with it. Other days are cake. But I have to keep trucking along. I know it's going to be a battle, but I'm a survivor and I won't let it beat me. Being a musician I can appreciate the way some can convey things like this in a song. Sometimes it's just the therapy required. I really want to say to all those in the comments that have said they suffer from the same things, I am proud of you each one of you for being able to say it. It's a strong thing to admit that you always aren't. Keep you heads up and please reach out if things start to go in the wrong direction. Y'all are survivors! Y'all got this!! Much love.

You don't listen to Chris Stapelton's music you feel it,

@wakandaislit1006

4 жыл бұрын

1000 % TURE

@hideyourcar6556

4 жыл бұрын

No life Shaq read your comment for this song on his reaction channel

@123433325

4 жыл бұрын

I'm here for that too

@lovelylove2482

4 жыл бұрын

Love it!!

@scottbabstock5580

4 жыл бұрын

Damn right

This song is about the general consensus of how people think they are supposed to react to a loved one who suffers from mental illness. The husband is a metaphor. He is a law enforcement officer who saves people. Listen to words of the song. It's like the husband is telling the wife to do what ever and he will be there. When someone has reached the point of taking their own life, no one else can save them. Their loved ones can offer support and try as hard as they to prevent them from harming themselves. I know. I tried twice to end the pain in my life through suicide. I am stronger and healthier now. Depression is a all consuming black hole that closes in around a person and only that person can make the journey out. Meds, counselling, loved one are tools that assist, but only the person battling can help themselves.

@tracywallace6927

6 жыл бұрын

I am tried of loving a man that doesn't love me

@nickblake9710

6 жыл бұрын

David Mosley clearly bud he loves her to no end

@Staggababe

6 жыл бұрын

David Mosley exactly right. Can't help someone that doesn't want it. Took me learning that the hard way a few times for it to stick.

@theinternethq1910

6 жыл бұрын

I’m no stranger to suicide and depression, in fact I have dealt with a couple periods in my life where I thought about my own life but always reminded myself... it will be better. My first suicide attempt was after a close friend of mine to his own life. I was heartbroken and didn’t feel like I could go on knowing it was a death I know I could have prevented and decided not to. My roommate saved my from my attempt and convinced me to become a man of faith and I learned there is always another way out. Since that day ten years ago, I have prevented 3 suicides of loved ones and 1 complete stranger, all thanks to the power of speech that God gave to me. No matter how bad it gets, put your faith in something, anything and you will defiantly see change.

@jenniferprice9813

6 жыл бұрын

I honestly agree with all you guys but this song it touches my heart because there's just things about the song That Just you guys don't understand that you you go on there and you watch 97.5 and you going to think you're a beast or something that you guys have in the whole entire world and but in this Grace Chris Stapleton all this rock music and s*** and all the stuff that that's not that's not in the new music Chris Stapleton is the s***

Exactly what I go through. Just found out I’m bipolar 2. I always thought the surges of energy were just happiness, and I never felt like anybody truly understood how low the lows would get. To anyone dealing with this I love you . Don’t give up.

@alexporter7379

3 ай бұрын

As someone who was in love with and in a relationship with someone like this, PLEASE talk to them. We don't understand. Honestly. My ex tried to kill her self over it, and it still haunts me. We love you, I promise, and we really want the best for you. We would give our soul to see you be happy forever.

To everyone who hurts because of me, I'm sorry...... I promise you guys are more than I could ever hope for... 🙏 Bad days, for now at least, are still followed by good days❤️ For everyone struggling, I see you❤️🙏

I was married for 25 years to a wonderful woman when I first met her. However, she injured her back on her job and had back surgery. But to know avail, she was left in tremendous pain and so was prescribed pain pills and she became extremely addicted for the 22 of these 25 years. This ruined a good marriage and relationship. She has passed since in 2015 with ALS. Now I am old and alone and it gets very difficult at times, we never had any kids. Thanks Chris Stapleton!

@KaySmith-cr1ks

2 жыл бұрын

Sending prayers for you 💖

@georgeforyan113

2 жыл бұрын

@@KaySmith-cr1ks Prayer is about all I have left. Thanks!

@rwork3474

Жыл бұрын

God damn pills take just about every person who takes them. I can promise you it was never that you weren't enough to quit or anything to do with you at all. They literally rob a person's soul, their entire being. Don't know you but I will tell you that underneath the pills, and illness existed a woman that would have loved you with every last breath. I know this because she was me.. And I'm right where she was... and watching the love of my entire life walk out of my life before the inevitable takes place. I'm very ill now, and she's chosen to leave and nothing i can do to stop her. Hope you find some peace in this somehow.

@vwalker3139

Жыл бұрын

George, I hurt my back 25 years ago in a car accident, 3 verb. crushed. I have never been me again. I refuse the pain pills because of what I have read about them, side effects and stories of people like your wonderful wife. My family knows nothing of the pain I feel. I take the pain and move forward. I sit, lay, stand to ease the pain, ice too. I have gained so much weight that it hurts to move. I hurt my knee about 2 months ago and now I have trouble walIking. Must have been very painful for her to take those pills. I am so sorry for your hurt. I hope you are at a new place in your life now than you were 4 months ago when you wrote. I enjoy Chris' song Starting Over. Peace to you Friend! Blessing to you!! CheerS!!

@georgeforyan113

Жыл бұрын

@@vwalker3139 I am sorry and feel for you all that you have gone through and what you are going through also. Life can really be a full job of challenges, many of what we did not expect. I hope all things will get better for you and that there will be hope at the end of this tunnel. As for me, I have moved on from where I was and what I was experiencing and would never want to go through all of this again. Even though it is all over now, I try to find peace in my solitude, trying to become a better person and doing things that keep me occupied and make life enjoyable as best as can I am not very trusting in having a relationship mostly because of my age now....It is not as it was when I was younger. I just hope that you will be able to heal and find joy in this very unpredictable world and know that you have a purpose to strive for that gives you a peace of mind

My fiance took his life 6 days ago and I miss him more than words can describe. The pain is neverending. I want him back. He brought me so much happiness, hope, peace and love. This world is a darker place without him. I love you, my sweet Junior.

@6rea6per6

3 жыл бұрын

💔🙏💔

@chrisstapleton2314

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for the unwavering love and support. Indeed you are a true fan. You can write me on chrisstapleton357@gmail.com

@josephcook8264

2 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry!! May Jesus Christ comfort you as you heal!!

@trenae77

2 жыл бұрын

Suicide has always been seen as a weak escape from problems we don't want to handle in the past. I think more and more every day we are recognizing it as the clarion call to society that we open our eyes and see those around us before they fall too far beneath the surface to save themselves. My heart breaks for your loss, but I pray that you find small glimpses of light in the memories you held of him. Snatches of music that remind you of the times of joy.

@jddallan1115

2 жыл бұрын

Helen. So sorry for your loss. Wish I could bring back any human. Hope you're well. Take care

" your love might be my damnation and I'll cry to my grave " hits like a cold winter breeze, excellent song writing.

I feel these words so deeply! 😢 I feel like ending it all everyday but i have a little girl ill be leaving behind.... she keeps me here. I can listen to this song on repeat... i have no words for how deeply this song goes for me!!

@FirehawkG

Жыл бұрын

Stay strong !

@shawnlawrence5622

Жыл бұрын

Please stay strong... As Miranda Lambert has sang it takes all kinds of kinds... That includes the people with depression and such. Don't ever feel you are alone. People will listen. There is so much that this one life we live has to offer. Don't ever think death will make anything better because it won't. No matter what storm we go thru the storm never lasts forever... Never. Remember you don't get to try again so make the best of what you have look at the good things in life they are all around us. I love you and I don't even know you and if I do someone else does too.

@Maza675

Жыл бұрын

Don't ever do it. It is all you will become known for. Plus you just pass the pain on that you feel to those who care for you.

@jonathanwatson2392

Жыл бұрын

Please stay strong love. I know the feeling so well. You are loved and need to be there for your daughter. Hearts.. I know its easier said than than done.

@Nataliedatha

Жыл бұрын

noooooo!!! wayyyyyyy giiiiirrrrlll!!!!!¡!

As a survivor of suicide this just broke me down so much… to anyone out there thinking it won’t get better it does but it’s not a easy road to travel but it sure is a road worth traveling ❤️

@mikechristian5253

Жыл бұрын

Well done Isaac I don't know u but I'm so glad ur here brother

@BrendaJohnson-tv3zy

Жыл бұрын

Well said. Good for you, you inspire folks. Just did

@new_guys

Жыл бұрын

My son attempted suicide last month almost succeeded that was his 3rd attempt!!! Everytime I got to him before he could die!! The last time he was so close he wasn't breathing when paramedics got to him but they were able to shock him and do cpr to get him to the hospital and they saved him. He was so mad at me!! He said why won't you let me die!!! I'm tired of fighting my demons!! He is in very intense therapy now!!! But I'm happy to say he doesn't want to die now!!! He cut himself so bad the scars are so deep!!! But he is learning to cope!! We see a future now that we didn't see before

@connorking3022

Жыл бұрын

@@new_guys I struggled a lot when I was younger in and out of different therapists and I came very close to suicide at one point. My parents sent me to a place where I could get help and I am glad they did because I'm older now and matured and have realized a lot of different things about life as I've gotten older. I'm happy now and I work a job that I love and live life to my best.

@jenniferblanchette2300

8 ай бұрын

❤

It hurts when someone you love with all your life is hurting and you can't help or don't know how to help. You just helplessly watch them in pain.

@timothycox1861

4 жыл бұрын

Amen brother I am currently fighting stage 4 cancer and sometimes I moan all night long in pain and my wife is there for me I feel bad for her because if it was the other way around I would be there for her but it would hurt me so much to see her go through it

March 31st 2024 anyone

@jackiegreek

Ай бұрын

Yup

@tmc4609

Ай бұрын

April 25th 2024

@user-yn4nl9nr3u

Ай бұрын

Yes

@heatherwhitlock9996

Ай бұрын

03/03/2024 to be specific😢

@graciefighter5038

Ай бұрын

I still tell my wife this is our song everyday ..

My grown daughter was in a bad relationship with a guy who made her feel like dirt, and I didn't find out until she called from the ER after attempting suicide. My wife and I brought her back home and it still took awhile for her to see what a bad situation she had been in. It's been a year and she's doing much better. It's nice having her home again. We are building our relationship stronger. I'm grateful for this second chance and I know not everyone gets that. My heart goes out to the good people who have lost someone they love to suicide.

Jesus Christ. I have never once been able to truly articulate, to ANYONE, what my marriage felt like. What it WAS like. Not why I loved her so much.. Those incredible highs. Those moments of tenderness. And inextricable ONENESS. Nor why it nearly drove me mad...and cost me a piece of my soul. This song, this VIDEO... says more than all my words, sighs, and tears ever will. For all those desperately trying to make a go with someone who is in so much pain... strength and courage to you. 💪🏾❤️ And for all those suffering so greivously, haunted to the core of your souls, by demons you simply cannot shake... Oceans of love to you. It's not your fault. We know. We really do. May peace someday come to your heart. 🙏🏽

@wesley4543

Жыл бұрын

You said what I was thinking my Cindy was wild. I loved her so much. I couldn't have even imagined leaving her. I feel bad and glad at the same time for people who never really know how that feels.

@jamesevans8934

Жыл бұрын

And as for the filthy dog beneath my feet is how the Bible describes this person i pray God gives you since enough to stop using pills to keep someone so precious and worthy of a much better life than a dog like you could or would ever give her before life consumes you because I am not as strong as God so know everyday I pray for you and you might need to pray for me that God stays in me and I keep you in my prayers for ever

@meandmy3make4

Жыл бұрын

Amazingly well worded

@viswaprasanna941

Жыл бұрын

@@meandmy3make4 Thank you, Amanda. You're very gracious. 🙏🏽

@JenTheHippie

Жыл бұрын

I cried when I read this. As hard as it can be to love someone with mental illness, it's a million times harder to be that person. The suffering is unimaginable to the point where one is willing to take their own life to escape the pain. Then we are treated as if we are weak-willed and it is our own fault.

After so many times hearing this song, it still gets me. I feel like I’m on of the lucky ones. My wife was an addict for years. She had her fair share of acting out like it was a case of mental illness. Truth be told, she showed signs and symptoms of bipolar disorder. The drug and alcohol addiction only enhanced it. It took years of trying to get her help, but she finally got it last spring. Only to relapse a few short months later. After so much torment after the relapse, I felt like I had no choice and got the police involved. I said I felt lucky, because after her time in jail, and since her release, she has been sober ever since. She’s also getting the help now that she needed back then. Not to say anything bad against rehab, but that didn’t work for her. She realized she had to work for herself. Time in jail, self help, and yes even marriage counseling and therapy she did/does for herself, she came back to me. I hurt for those who didn’t make it.

@T2Hookem

2 жыл бұрын

This song definitely speaks to me as I was that steady rock for my wife. Granted I felt weak in the end when I had to see her get hauled away in handcuffs, but she’ll even tell you, me calling the police on her saved her life. I saw her at her best which was/is she is sober and clean. I saw the demon in her when the addiction and mentally ill state of mind took over her. I had many of opportunities to leave, but I didn’t.

@doublebarrel4629

Жыл бұрын

Hang in there man I don't know your wife but she probably worth every bit of it so just hang in

@cheriehambly1867

Жыл бұрын

You sound like a legend for sticking by her and not giving up

@ronniemorland1377

Жыл бұрын

I know what you have been through. My wife was also an addict. Her so-called friend brought her drugs, and it went downhill from there. I loved this woman more than anyone in my life. And it never made sense because we were so opposite. She left and disappeared for two years. Not a day went by that I didn't come home and pray she would be sitting there waiting. She never was. Now it's been over three years and she is in prison. We got to spend 3 days together before she turned herself back in to Tulsa. Like you though it's awful her not being with me, it saved her life. Like you said rehab was a waste for her. the drugs were just as plentiful there as anywhere. My worst nightmare and fear were one day I would get a call asking me to identify her body. Her relapses caused so much pain. But even as I write this it's only her that forever has my heart...... But this song is ours just like so many others!!!

@T2Hookem

Жыл бұрын

@@cheriehambly1867 I wasn’t trying to be legendary. I just saw too many people in my family give up over less than what I endured. To know is love, right?

I can't believe that this song still has me in tears years later it just resonates on so many levels 😢😢 To anyone who reads this fight hard and you are not alone...❤️🙏✊🏻

I lost my dad on mother's Day night for me its getting harder knowing I'll never see his big jolly smile I feel pain I never knew existed,, he had a heart attack I gave him CPR for 12 mins waiting on the EMTs to take over he took his last breath in my arms I knew they couldn't bring him back to me.. God bless you and your family as well as all those whom have lost someone you love

that's a very touching song!! what blows my mind is there is multiple thousands that dislike it ?? how in the world can even one person dislike that song and or video????

@jamie9562

7 жыл бұрын

maybe because it's derivative (feel free to look that up) of every other country artist,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,ever

@betterbiscuitbureaukinship4755

7 жыл бұрын

For some people it hits too close to home. Looking in the mirror isn't for everyone.

@fastballfilms4214

7 жыл бұрын

some people react different, there wasa time months ago i couldnt listen to this song without crying

@mmmppp555

7 жыл бұрын

Med Tech27 Wow, your comment is so real. That is exactly how it is...

@karanbarrentine3583

7 жыл бұрын

BC the ones that don't like the song obviously don't know what being "REAL" IS ABOUT. SO UNTIL THEY LEARN TO BE REAL WITH THEMSELVES,. THEY NEVER WILL LEARN TO RESPECT ANYTHING THAT MIGHT REPRESENT REALIZISM

I suffer from alcoholism and been sober for going on 6 years and it's still a struggle. all you can do is one day at a time. but this song hits home seriously. what a genius Stapleton is

@pluviophile1988

6 жыл бұрын

t redwood dude if you think the message of this song is even remotely about alcoholism, you have grossly misunderstood it and appallingly so

@josephbrashears8558

6 жыл бұрын

Lone Wanderer 360 4 "You're" an illiterate. Dumb fuck. Lol

@angelashipman8530

6 жыл бұрын

t redwood I understand completely

@anthonybugg255

6 жыл бұрын

t redwood I just join the battle 3 months so far not a longtime but like you say 1 day at a time. stay strong.

@myGodis1lord

6 жыл бұрын

Dog after 6 years thats you. Thats you still wanting to drink. I been clean off speed for 15 years and 6 in i can tell you i didnt want nothing to do with it. So my friend the sympathy stick will only get you so far. 6 yrs been long enough u shouldnt have any dependency on drink except you still wanting to drink. At some point dont you look what it has taken how can it still be a struggle?

We sometimes feel guilty or sad that we couldnt save someone close to us from mental illness but the truth is you can try with all your heart but help also has to be wanted you cant force someone to get help if they dont want its sad but my aunt has had bipolar our life and my uncle's been with her for 40 years and has been by her side their whole marriage it's hard it's an emotional rollercoaster for anyone involved so love to all the suffering from some sort of mental illness and God bless❤

@Carlossantanamusicinc

8 ай бұрын

Hello dear, it’s nice meeting you on here

This is one of my favorite songs and videos...I suffer from PTSD, Anxiety, Major Depression. My 16 year old sister committed suicide and it killed me, then when I think I was on the right track of healing from that suicide and all the other hell and trauma I have endured (5 years later), my 24 year old brother Dustin committed suicide. Wrecked my whole world, the nightmare began again. This time around...it was worse. I was gone mentally...it affected me and still does with my memory,my employment, and every relationship I ever have. I always resort to the worst possible scenario to prepare my mind, just in case the bad happens. I sabotage my relationships with doing so. I have been haunted with ignorant people telling me to follow suit with your brother and sister. It's terrible, how do you move forward when the only 2 people that were 100% in your corner are gone? This video should be recognized for bringing awareness to this subject...thank you for lyrics Chris, they have saved me from some dark times. AMAZING 🔥🔥🔥

Chris Stapleton our last chance at real country music

@mikeash8213

8 жыл бұрын

agreed

@gunsight4162

7 жыл бұрын

We also have Justin Moore, but I'm afraid his new album might be pop country

@grimdawg83

7 жыл бұрын

don't forget about Sturgil Simpson and Cody Jinks

@gowlerphoto

7 жыл бұрын

Kacey Musgraves has a really good country album too. It's new, but it's written from the heart by her and just a few other people. She keeps the same band, and they have respect for original country's sound while still being current. Her last album was equally as good.

@jamesangelo8432

7 жыл бұрын

You need to listen to Jamey Johnson, Frank Foster, Cody Jinks

Everyone who struggles with depression needs a lover like that. Oh my. 😪

@chrisstapleton3250

3 жыл бұрын

I have come a long way to this point and right from the very beginning you my fans have been solidly behind me It’s been a landslide but we always pull through together,your love and support are amazing. Believe in your self you can always achieve your dreams Kindly tell me where you are from and also drop your email so you can be selected to lend your voice on my upcoming projects

@Justafeller

2 жыл бұрын

@@chrisstapleton3250 You must think people are stupid lol. Not a single person would fall for your nonsense.

@jodyyork3821

2 жыл бұрын

I had one i told him i hatrd him and wanted him to stay out of my life for good. I dobt hate him and i miss him every second of every day but im loosing it daily and its not fair to him

@devinwayneloveispain7870

2 жыл бұрын

Hey baby girl

@adriftofwords

2 жыл бұрын

@@jodyyork3821 I never know what version of myself I am gonna wake up to every day anymore. It is a battle. I hope that you can find some form of happiness today and live in those moments for as long as you can. I know it is hard to do because if you have my luck, life is like a wrecking ball.