I always think what kind of person I would be if my innocence wasn't robbed from me at 4

@chitrakmodgil1973

2 жыл бұрын

I know its easy to say but don't lose hope man

especially if the person is a friend or a member of the family.

I was groomed and abused as a kid, when i tried to open up about it i was called a liar by my own mother without hearing my side of events. It went untreated for years and its destroyed my view of the world. I'm now severely depressed and i have suicidal thoughts often. Please pay attention to sudden or gradual changes.

@kp8174

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry to hear that you were not believed. God knows your sorrows. Lean on Jesus and He will help you. Praying for you.

@gazzhumbly5433

3 жыл бұрын

@@kp8174 thanks, it means alot. The hard part is facing this after keeping this trauma, but i'll see it through.

@kp8174

3 жыл бұрын

@@gazzhumbly5433 Our family is struggling with the same issues. I feel your pain and I’m so sorry that any child has to have their childhood killed and their life altered by a disgustingly sick individual. Come Lord Jesus, come.

@gazzhumbly5433

3 жыл бұрын

@@kp8174 amen!!

@kp8174

3 жыл бұрын

I recently came across a book that may be helpful. It’s called Ms. America by Day written by Marilyn VanDebur. Incredibly inspiring survivor. Hope it helps

If someone is harassing or threatening your child, remove them from your child friends list, block them, and tell someone in authority. Remember your childer have done nothing wrong to attract such attention.

@saratorrey2558

3 жыл бұрын

By having your child's email address you can see every conversation they have

most child abuse cases taken place by someone the child or parent's know or family members.

How could people do such barbaric things specially their own family

@wl415

3 жыл бұрын

Intergenerational trauma

@hothmandon

3 жыл бұрын

More like how could joc allow Pedophilia to even exist in the first place.

@luluthedog774

3 жыл бұрын

#Childabuse

@rubiscocue3812

3 жыл бұрын

Monke agrees

@thesupercs7003

2 жыл бұрын

Cause they are psychopaths.

*Send this straight to my parents when I was 5 and I would be okay*

@hhhhngg

Жыл бұрын

​@@robertelee1016pedo

Thank you, Child abuse in any form is unacceptable.

@phillipwalters9462

Жыл бұрын

Even so being accused of it is unacceptable too, even if your truly innocent ,simps must know their place in society

This is very enlightening. Such a tragic destruction of a child's life

I was groomed by a family friend that my mother said was a little off and maybe retarded. He was allowed to be my caretaker anyway. He would photograph me and do video photo shoots at the park or video me in the backyard pool. I had no friends my age. This happened when I was 7 until 9. He was in his early 40s. I wish I could remember everything. Eventually he was banned from the house by my mother. Not to long after he committed suicide. Im not angry with him. I'm angry that my entire family let it happen. None of it was hidden.. they knew I was alone with him several times in his van. They saw the pictures he took.. To this day I have not received an apology for the neglect from anyone. My mother and I had a conversation today about it. My family are jehovah's witnesses. I am not. She said to me to not keep account of the injury. I felt she was trying to shame me for asking questions about why it happened. She told me atleast I didn't get killed. She still has the videos he took of me in her closet.. I'm not commenting here for validation. I want to validate others that have gone through similar experiences and know they are not alone and that they are not at fault for thier own abuse. What was most horrifying to me was the realization that after he was banned from the house he was never reported to the police. My family let loose a known child predator. My mother thought he was a threat to me. I wonder why she didn't think he would be a threat to other children. Thank you for allowing me to use this platform to share my story. All my love goes out to those who have suffered from childhood sex abuse. If anybody has any advice on how to handle my family please, anything little bit goes a long way ❤

@bel7133

2 жыл бұрын

@Barb Love Yes we do not just leave our children with weird men in vans. Unfortunately happen alot in these false christian chruches/cults.. alot of abuse happens. Praise God for the truth, I hope this dear lady finds the truth in Christ Jesus. "The bible's way to heaven" youtube. Michael hoggard has great information on JW's exposing them. As the bible warns us about these "other gospels.

@ninasteinwender3500

8 ай бұрын

Therapy helped my daughter a lot who suffered the same. We as parents are so sad that we could not noticed anything because she forgot all. I feel sorry for your pain but dont give Up, you can feel good again, search help and you will find Release!

thank you, from the bottom of my heart, thank you

They should be reminded to never ever arrange to meet an online friend alone for the first time.

This video hit me pretty strong, I was molested by my father along with my three brothers for almost 7 years. My father was never charged because he works for the federal government. Two of my brothers have committed suicide in the last 10 years, I have tried myself many times, only to be not strong enough to do it

@vanessafigueroa7713

2 жыл бұрын

You’re not alone..

Thank you so much for this video. May I please add another important sign? Children's drawings.

We have increased support for victims of sexual abuse, invested in training and technology to improve law enforcement’s response to abuse both on and offline, and brought in a tougher inspection regime to ensure all front-line professions are meeting their child protection duties

im the grand dad to my 6 year old step son.his grandma got guardian ship over him so hes now in my life daily.ive been having gut feelings that something is very wrong with his actions after returning from visits to his parents house.his grandma is undergoing chemo and radiation for cancer so shes not as attentive as before.im desperately genuinely worried about this young boy.he displays many signs pointed out in this video. im bringing in the authority's against his grandmothers wishes.my guts tell me im right and i honestly believe bolth parents are involved.i may end up being labled as the bad guy but if it saves this child its more than worth it.grama ofcourse is in total denial because the chemo has her not thinking clearly.please pray for this little child as he deserves all the help available to get him past this.

@Seanyhwh-qu4sb

Жыл бұрын

sadly his dad was killed 3 weeks ago at work now im full time poppy/ dad/ friend. i have no sympathy for anyone that even thinks of hurting my little big man.greyson is protected by my father God.

@daniellatrevino1534

Ай бұрын

What is his name please and any updates?

i know how it is when i awake up by nightmares, i cried so many time.i don't feel secure anyone actually

Thank you for this straightforward video on how to recognise child abuse and neglect in its various forms.

Just opened my eyes so wide- thank you for this video

Children can be at risk of online abuse from people they know, as well as from strangers.

I'm just saying, you really help a lot of us guys out, so thanks.

i hate child abuse i hate rape. i hate things that change people for life

God, only knows how I withstood it I was barley 2years old, it went on until I was 14 years, it has really messed me me all these years,

hey, this is a great video. I just wanted to note that it implies that the abuse is not already happening before the child and predator meet in person.

Thanks for sharing the video with us!

Thanks NNECA for taking such initiatives

Thankful for this message help dealing with my child hood trauma

So sad.Really need that kind of help,thanks by publish.

We just love to look the other way so as not to deal with such a possibility.

Thank you for this.

I just love to look the other way so as not to deal with such a possibility.Thanks NNECA.

I was adopted when i was 3 years old. My mom brought me to her boyfriends house where he had two kids, one biy and one girl. (I am a girl btw). He (stepbrother) told me it was a game amd encouraged me to play. And as a naive innocent 5 year old i said yes. He made me to nasty things to his privates and did thing to me in my privates. This went on for years and i am sure very very sure his sister saw us but did nothing. Every aingle day i would have icthiness in my privates, when i oeed, it hurt so bad amd it was awful. I wasn’t vocal about it tho. Now i think what would have happened if i said something. Anyways lets continue, so i had nightmares everynight almost, and take into consideration that that family didn’t treat me right. My mom’s boyfriend i am pretty sure he hated me and he even slapped me a few times, but i am not sure because as i sad previously, i had a lot of nightmares involving this whole family. I really don’t know how my personality changed because i don’t know how i was when i was 5 but what i know is that i became hypersexual after my stepbrother showed me porn. I became almost addicted and i believe i was depressed. I did things i absolutely regret. Now i am 16 and totally see the aftermath. I cannot touch anyone without feeling like i am doing something wrong or feeling like i am invading their privacy, even if it’s a simple hug. And when people tocuh me i allows them but i feel super weird and uncomfortable if it’s not someone i really really trust. Thankfully i am out of that disgusting family and i am doing better but i deffo need a therapist but i don’t want to tell my mum. It would break her and i don’t want to. I am getting better at communicating with people and tocuhing people. I am a bit hypersexuall still but i am getting amazingly better.

When this video spreads an important message,thanks .

this vdeo is so good it makes me cry 😢

upgrade video for child abuse prevention is excellent

The NNECA channel is very nice because this channel is aware the child abuse and child maltreatment are often used interchangeably.

I remember back in the 90's when I was in Elementary school my a group of kids were harassing and bullying me and my gym teacher pretended to be my best friend about it and promised me he will make it stop, all I have to do is not hit them. So I whent home rest assured. The next I come in with confidence just to find the same group of kids are only treating me worse. Shouting in my ear, flicking my ears and laughing at me when I said PLEASE STOP. at the end of the day Mr. Short was his name. He aproched me again and said I got distracted yesterday so this time for sure. So I whent home rest assured again. I come back in the next day with confidence just to find im still being targeted so I come to him and he seems annoyed with me and says Look! If it happens again just come to me and say Mr. Short. I need help! The next day he wasn't in and I'm still getting bullied. Friday came and he was in so while I was being harassed and bullied I go up to him while he was talking to the Principal just to find these kids still won't stop and they are both ignoring me. I shout Mr. Short. I need your help! Still he ain't doing shit and still these kids won't stop so I keep shouting Mr. Short! Mr. Short! As they keep shouting in and flickering my ears and hating me for being a suburban kid while they were inner city kids making fun of the way I walked and talked. I couldn't take it anymore, I shout WHY WON'T YOU HELP ME?! So I raised my hand and hit the worst kid then all of a sudden I'm the 1 being marched to the Principals office getting in trouble while the bullies got to walk. They both made it seem like it was my fault, Mr. Short said well I was going to step in but then you broke the rule. Didn't I say no hitting? I said yeah but you kept prommising me..... He interrupted me and said well now I can't. I was forced to miss the field trip that I was going to go on that day, I had to miss recess after lunch plus, get grounded for the whole weekend and face more bullying as the year whent on. By the end of 5th grade year he told me to go into a back closet and strip down to my underwear and he took a picture of me and got caught. Police found kiddy porn in his basement, from years worth of Speashal Olympic kids, it turned out my principal knew about it and helped him cover it up for years, the disciplinarian had been molesting kids in his office with a curtain over the door window so people on the outside couldn't see. I remember 1 day me and a bunch of other kids were put on a school bus and driven to the station where they were all at to explain the underwear incident because it was connected to my Opeashal Olympics swim team where he told me I had to wear a speedo. To this day I still have trouble stopping when others ask or tell me to stop. I'm angry at God for allowing pedophilia to exist knowing we could happily do without it and still refuse to fix it.

@fou_fou

Жыл бұрын

We support you and believe you. Every person have an exam in life to succeed no one is leaving without problems you may say but being a victim of pedophilia is not the same as some of my friends or neighbors problems but god created us and knows who can survive each task and he only gave you a hard task because he loves you. There are more hard tasks. And this is humans faults pedophilia is from han and satam at first not from god. God created us to give us exams life is not so easy right? ,but it is short. The second life is the real long life and persons who succeed in the first one will succeed in the last one. I recommend that you read Quran and Sunnah i guess it will help you a lot. I was sexually abused at age of 5 and i'm not straight really but it is a war life. So stand up and fight evil and sins do not be like this monster short.

As a child there were signs of child sexual abuse growing up I had a delayed speech at 3 years old and some of the things I remembered as a child. Regressing behaviors like Bed wetting while potty training Promiscuous behavior Nightmares or Flashbacks Resisting changing clothes for bathing or changing clothes Underwear urinating that was unrelated potty trained at 4-6 Masterbating through out my childhood Pain while urinating Becoming very clingy Becoming secretive by telling lies and keeping it a secret with an older child through out my childhood Unexplained Personality Changes: Rage, Anger, Insecurity, Depression, and Anxiety. Changes in eating habits such as not wanting to eat or swallow food. Playing with Barbie dolls inappropriately at a church at 8. Talking to older friends by asking for money for items Self harm: cutting myself, banging my head on the door, stabbing myself with a pencil. Dressing provocatively and shabby at 16 for a 19 year old guy. Bruises around genitals and rashes on the bottom and soreness. Acting out at school from elementary to high school. When I was 3, I was molested by a teenage babysitter who I trusted and thought she was going to take care of me. It all started when I was toys and then she told me to come here. She took a white chair, held me down, went my pants, pulled my underwear and molested me. I kept kicking her off to get her off of me but it was too late. She even told me to stop as an stop making sounds when I was in pain as a nonverbal 3 year old girl. She left me alone while being in pain. She was a teenager at that time and I was a toddler. I mean, what could a 3 year old do when someone had done something to them when they are nonverbal. She took advantage of me and stole my innocence from me. When you are nonverbal you make sounds and not say words. Also I had a delayed speech at the age of 2 back in September 2006 where they would take to speech just to talk. I was talking but I stopped talking because of the trauma and stuff happening to me. My older sister thinks I am lying when it really did happen to me. As I started talking, I was scared growing up to tell my mom and dad what happened because of the flashbacks that had been happening to me back when I was 3. I thought if I told them, they'd blame on me and think I was lying when I wasn't lying. I remember what I saw in my flashback nightmare as a child. She had dark skin with glasses with a silk pressed ponytail and was wearing a brown shirt with white stripes while molesting me down there. It was a white room and it had a sliding screen door with blinds. I didn't know what it meant and I didn't know what made her do it or why she would do it because it happened to me so for long that I could ever remember. I knew her face but didn't know her name because she did not tell me what her name was. Triggering warning: I began urinating on myself and on the bed at 4-6 while potty trained, my mother saw me and I was having some serious traumatic nightmares of physical abuse from my father back when I was 2 about the glasses I saw in the bathroom, sexual abuse between my teenage babysitter was very scary and painful, and verbal abuse from my dad being mean to me. As a child, I was actually weirdly crying in my sleep and acting provocative in front of my teachers while dancing to a children's music in Music class with my music teacher. She saw me twerking and shaking my butt at 4 years old. Having temper tantrums constantly, aggression, and having anger issues at school at 5 years old and I never anyone why I was angry because I was dealing with a lot of bad going on in the house where there was violence and aggressive behavior. In elementary school, I was acting out inappropriate manner by masterbating, having a lot of temper tantrums for some of the reasons, raging at teachers, anxiety due to comprehension of the grade level of learning. My teachers were trying to help me but I pushed them away and did the same to my parents as well because I kept holding on to the anger inside me. I thought that was normal behavior, me thinking to touch other kids as a child which I got the same behavior from my teenage babysitter for what she did to me, I didn't know any better and I was only a kid. I got very clingy with other people I knew and my mother when I was 5, because I wanted to be with mom instead of being with the people all around me. I wanted to be with her and I didn't think she would need any space from me or sibling. I was clingy with her doing it for no reason just to be with her the whole time. I wanted to be safe I saw myself doing those things and thought it was normal as well because me, I'm autistic and may not know a lot of things growing up. I can't just act like it never happened to me when it did. I kept refusing to change my clothes because of the bruise I had down there and I was leaping up and saying ow while being in a tub with soap and water when my sibling and I were taking a bath. It was painful for me to wash it down there and scary for me to wash it hardly to make sure it was clean because of the abuse that happened to me. While we were going to church, my dad kept yelling at me to eat waffles for breakfast and I was not feeling like eating, which happened at 4 years old. I was very traumatized physically and verbally that is when I started to have some aggressive because I saw what my dad was yelling and abusing my siblings with a belt. I would always hide in my room and not want to see those things because it would scare me too much. He treated me like dirt and dismissed my feelings. My dad caught me twerking on the stares at the age of 6 and told me not to do it and it was nasty because I saw those fast girls twerking and swearing at my school and thought it was cute for me do those things at that age. I was acting grown, swearing because of a student said swear words in front of me, and having a smart mouth in first grade. I played Barbie dolls that were naked and made them twerk at the church and flashing their butts while laughing at 8 years old and my mother said to me to stop so I never did it again. That was weird and I remembered doing it and I also made Barbie dolls kiss and have sex with each other. When I was 10 years old, I was flashing my butt in front of students on the bus while going home from summer school and thought it was cute all because I got that behavior from Grown Ups 2. I was dressing provocatively for a boy to date me in high school and got rejected because I wasn't his type. I thought he liked me but didn't understand what it meant to me so I started twerking and dancing provocatively in front of girls and boys at the 8th grade prom while acting grown and wanting a boyfriend so bad those girls made fun of me for not having a boyfriend. With the Minnie Mouse ball plushy I was pretending to lick her butt and also doing the sexual position with a Minnie Mouse doll when I was 14 being horny. I started talking to older guys that were 3-4 years older than me when I was only 16 years old. The boy was asking me for money for his shoes and I told him I didn't have any money because I never had a credit card at that time on Snapchat 2 times. The guy from high school I met was 18 years old and I was 15 when we met each other walking in the hallway, we were cool then until I was crushing on him too much. That 19 year old man was a drug dealer and a gangster and I pretty much knew that because I acting out sexually with an older boy at my school meaning I was very much obsessed with him and didn't understand social cues. I was chasing and talking to guys because I thought I could trust them but it turned out that they were using me and all I ever wanted was love. But I didn't know what love meant to me. Back then my dad wasn't showing me love or affection and that was why I was chasing after older boys in high school just to love me, I didn't love myself growing up and was thinking I was ugly. We don't talk to each other anymore. Plus soreness and bruises on my genitals from masterbating non-stop. I was groomed as a child from those sexual acts from other people, especially on TV. I was supposed to be a child and not an adult. It was so disturbing me to go through it. I thought I got over it and I just didn't like what I did as a child growing up. It messed me up completely and I am willing to go to therapy. I really don't like talking about it because it makes me feel uncomfortable, angry, sad, and scared. Now I am 19, I am going to have to live with it for the rest of my life and just get some help because I cannot help myself at all. I should told mom long time ago but I was too afraid to tell her.

Good video so in a word I like it nneca channel.

Ohh wow! very nice video I am very surprised to see your video.

Just awesome!

17 signs of child sexual Abuse video channel very essential for child and parents .

Really need that kind of help

the point is very need for us .

The terms child abuse and child maltreatment are often used interchangeably

I recommend for this channel

It really make a horrible situation for a child. so we should along with our childen if (s)he falls in such situation.

Awesome video channel, run it.

I think that is a great plan

I love this channel

I just wish I could figure out everything. Every bit of my childhood is just too blurry or just gone entirely. It doesn't help that I can't ask if any of these signs were apparent to my caretaker as a kid. :(

@fou_fou

Жыл бұрын

We support you ❤ May Allah help us all. Forgetting sometimes is a blessing. Seek professional help.

yes, education is important here.

Nice vid. Very informative. Yes I know Babu Sana how could people do such barbaric things to their own family.

very nice theme I am very surprised to see your video.

Thanks for the NNECA because it is a good invention for the young guy.

It is happening all time i don't know how to prevent it. because we chemistry is very difficult.

I have a 6 year old daughter. Separated from my SO. I really am trying to learn to what to look for, if ya know someday.... and then I mean it’d be super hard not to destroy whom ever does this shit...

What is the best questions to know if that person is already been sexually abused by her father? Any advise what to do.

Everyone should know about it, but its a good stap.

They want us to learn how to be safer online and stuff like that

Have you any website about Child Abuse Signs???

It is a great initiative..... Have you any website for more info?

So sad...

I don't want to remember my child again. it was really horrible

Some secrets are suppose to go with us. I am 35 and I have never had the courage to speak out or stand up for my self.

@chitrakmodgil1973

2 жыл бұрын

You can talk to me brother

@chitrakmodgil1973

2 жыл бұрын

Remember it was not your fault

@fou_fou

Жыл бұрын

Brother i can see that you are muslim from your name. You still can talk look for professional help it will help you a lot insha Allah stay strong even if you are a man it is ok to speak truth.

i suspected my little sister got sexually abused.. but the problem is she never tell us 😔 what can i do?

@NNECA

3 жыл бұрын

Dependent on your country, make contact with your local child abuse prevention charity or agency, and ask to them for local advice in the first instance, and then if you still suspect make a report to your local police

Abuse sing perfect

I'm all of those things but not abused

This is scary

You know when I sleep then suddenly I wake up and cry then again sleep this happen for 3 week

Online Grooming should preventing I think.

Hi I have a question. My younger sibling keeps telling me that he’s private area hurts and I asks him what happened and he keeps calling his dads name out should I be worried that he could be getting touched on by him ?

@NNECA

3 жыл бұрын

in the first instance take him to see his doctor and they will be able to establish the cause of the pain

A child doesn't HAVE to spell out about what's troubling him/her through charades.

Heres 1. If they don't wish to pose in front of cameras. That would be a possible sign of product of kiddy porn.

I don't eat food in morning and night that day is the most bad day in my life

@chitrakmodgil1973

2 жыл бұрын

If you don't want to eat food don't if you want to cry do it just don't give up . I know it will be hard for you to continue but in some cases you cannot give up

The most problem at these time a lots of Children rapist !!!

😢

I have mental abuse that probably why I have 9 of these

This is amazing one line grooming is so bad for the children it prevent as soon as possible.

Lets include the peer perpetrators that are connected to the pedophilia networks. This is something that seems hidden. A peer or classmate that know about these child exploiting network seek out kids that seem vulnerable and they lure them online to these predators that are waiting by to exploit these vulnerable innocent children. It is very sad all when they was trying to make buddies. This need to be seriously addressed.

I'm a kid

Lessons On Child Sexual Abuse Has Never Been This Easy. Watch This Video & Do The Workbook

Umm why do I feel attacked

the child is torn away from their primary caregivers by child protection services; the child gets brainwashed, disguised as therapy, into hating; families are ripped asunder and destroyed;

Tell SOMEBODY..TRIBAL LAW...ASE AHO MOORE NATION GRAND RISING

These People who done that to Children they must go to Hell

You know when I was returning from tution something happened with me then I was in depression for 3 week and not talking to anyone I am very silent and I was afraid and I like to live alone and only crying then my mom dad asked me did anything happen I never said anything and again in shock and now trying to sucide I am in guilt that it happen with me because I am a girl and for boys a girl is a toy 🧸

@aesthetictheme5715

2 жыл бұрын

It's not your fault, no one have a right to hurt you.

@chitrakmodgil1973

2 жыл бұрын

Listen friend you have two choice one is to get uo and fight and one is to do whatever shit you want . But you gotta stand up i know its easy to say and it will not change the thing that happened to you . If you want to cry do it just don't give up

That PE thing hit me hard. I’ve never felt comfortable with PE and I’ve always refused to participate, and although I’ve always had trauma counseling, I could never explain why I didn’t want to oarticipate in PE because I don’t feel comfortable with it, even though I do go to the gym when I want to. Now it all makes sense

i know how i got here, i clicked it

Dude dis just sad at least she aunt beaten tho

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I worked with a guy who as a grown man wet his bed every night

Jesus's just looked at the link how the fuck is he still aloud to comment and be on KZread I fucking lost for words

MY GOD !!! THERE IS A SPECIAL PLACE IN ""HELL"" FOR THOSE WHO BOTHER & HURT CHILDREN !! I HOPE THEY BURN IN HELL FOR ( EVER & EVER AMEN )

How does a person become an offender ? No I don't believe they are born that way. This is just an excuse. All children are born innocent. They are born with a clean slate. Be aware of who writes on that slate. Be involved in your children's lives. Be aware of the people and influences in their lives.

I’m not abused but I do have anxiety maybe because…. *MY BROTHER WATCHED FRICKING PENNYWISE RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME.*

This channel is known to online Grooming be aware to the children.

Buy hidden cameras

I think I was raped

Maa baap ki zeemedari..