Most guys need a change in their mindset, "If the bitch leaves - I upgrade" is the mindset guys need.

@dr.feelgood.m

4 жыл бұрын

You have 4-5 girls in rotation, and when you meet the new one, you just kick the one which does the LEAST GOOD for you. - this is not "an upgrade" but rather "economy patch" :3

3 жыл бұрын

Why even waste your time putting the effort in. Women bring no ROI on any interactions with them. The only men on the planet who are making money off their interactions with females are the ones teaching other men about their nature.

@benjaminpowdrell8382

3 жыл бұрын

Good point, pull the weeds out and find another bit of ground to plough

This is too much work cuz I dont babysit adults.......I'd rather stay single!

@knightghaleon

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed. If I wanted to be responsible for a child, I'd adopt and get a nanny. Having to do this with someone who has been on this planet 2-3 decades, makes me think I'm dating a mentally challenged person.

@mikeherdz1654

4 жыл бұрын

Faxxx, that's why I stay single and fuck different girls. Not wasting my time on a bitch.

@nosajmartinez6175

4 жыл бұрын

agreed and well typed

@oblivionsweeper

4 жыл бұрын

You are absolutely right, why give any woman the time of day if they're not going to be loyal it's a huge waste of time.

@retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106

4 жыл бұрын

Constant watching everything she do. You won't have time to do what you want too.

I was one of those guys “she’ll never cheat on me”...what I found out about my ex wife would make your skin crawl. Don’t Ignore your gut feeling guys. The phone placed face down is a dead giveaway

@scaryviper1984

4 жыл бұрын

Not as bad as a locked phone tho

@asddas2

4 жыл бұрын

Can you share? I'd like to have my skin crawling to the bone.

@PASSPORTKING2106

4 жыл бұрын

Yea bro sorry bout the thot but we need details and to hear the brutal truth....

@squeezerD

4 жыл бұрын

army ofgod this part irks me the most they locking their phones yet expect men phone to remain unlocked at all times. No way I leaving my phone unlocked if she locks her phone.

@retrogamer82

4 жыл бұрын

Ancient Knowledge I’ll try to keep it brief, it all started after I had back surgery in late 2014. While I was off work recovering I started noticing changes in her behaviour and routines. This is the first sign guys miss is when she changes routines out of nowhere and a lot of guys ignore. She stopped calling from her work to check up and see how I’m doing post surgery. Secondly she started sleeping with her phone under her pillow which set off alarm bells bcuz she’s never done that b4. Thirdly the one night she left her phone on the sofa I assume by accident it was password protected . The last thing that happened b4 I started to investigate was she called me from work to say I didn’t have to pick her up bcuz a “friend” was giving her a ride...uh huh. I knew in my gut an affair was happening but I lacked proof so I invested in a USB audio recorder and started planting it in our condo once I went back to work. It didn’t take long for me to hear my wife talking on the phone to her affairs...yes more than one she was sleeping with a guy and girl behind my back. She also talked badly of me and mentioned how she enjoyed the sex with her lovers in hotels 🤢 once I gathered enough evidence I confronted her about cheating but I did not reveal to her how I found out. Do not reveal anything guys just confront and move on.

Topic starts @4:23

@WAC1810

4 жыл бұрын

Real MVP

@godspeedrr5790

4 жыл бұрын

thanks man

@ricliu4538

4 жыл бұрын

Thats what we need..thank you

@halonutt1953

4 жыл бұрын

Wish I had seen this.

“He’s just a friend”

@AstralLaVista

4 жыл бұрын

Markie mark knows this all too well

@rodneyram5172

4 жыл бұрын

Means he smashes me 😂

@LLlap

4 жыл бұрын

Oh baby, you, you got what i need...

@AstralLaVista

4 жыл бұрын

@@LLlap When you say hes just a friend..

@renan150123

4 жыл бұрын

I've heard that before....

DO NOT ARGUE with this man. He is RIGHT. 💯

These are good pointers. I have a few. 1. When a female no longer go all out like she normally do that is a sign. Get jam up or need a bill paid. And you know she has it and she talk shit...... 2. If she do not invite you on dates with her friends that is a sign. Believe it or not a female will showcase her boyfriend any chance she get, even in front of her single friends. If she go on a lot of friend dates with no invite then she is seeing someone else. 3. You see a lot of numbers with no names in her car log and text. Now some females will program them with a female name. But if you see a lot of numbers without contacts that been exchange. That mean she was probably feeling someone out but never went anywhere or it was a pump and dump. 4. Her and her best friend falls out and she don't give a reason why. This is something you need to watch and why? More than likely she was using her friend to facilitate the cheating. Staying over her house while she get bunker bust or an excuse in regards to her absence. More than likely her friend wasn't having that shit anymore or they was fucking with the same group of niggas and there was a falling out. Guys keep your optics clean and watch these whores.

@retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106

4 жыл бұрын

You left out one detail. Most men who girlfriend tell them oh you can look through my phone i have nothing to hide is a red flag as well. Most times they will hide all they text messages in the setting archived messages. Most men would not think to check this cause they go looking at main text screen not a clue about them archived.

@torreselmonte1

4 жыл бұрын

How about not having a girlfriend just pump and dump or paying for a professional !!

@webeducation

4 жыл бұрын

@@retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106 Bro, that is exactly to a tee what she said. Had a bad gut feeling. A coupon other things she will say. 1) if you an me ever break up I'm going to be stay single. 2) ask her, did you see someone, and see how she reacts. Then say I meant the doctor for your ......... Mine blew up when I asked her that question. Note: don't paint any pictures or give any benefit of the doubt. Your mind will play tricks on you to make you think everything is okay and that your just overthinking everything. Women want you to believe your overthinking stuff. Do what you gotta do and jet. Then change your phone number. This is called respecting yourself.

@mikewill1740

4 жыл бұрын

@@torreselmonte1 That work sometimes but you'll end up paying too much money in the end.

@mikewill1740

4 жыл бұрын

@@retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106 That is true. Have to be careful with them. I have female who is trying to right a book on our hook up.

Women: "We should take a break." What they really mean: "I been cheating and found someone else."

@cadecope278

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Mr President

@StrangeTamer178

3 жыл бұрын

OR "I'm bored and want to cheat but keep u as a bf (basically just orbiter) and exploit u for ur resources/attention when I feel bad about myself"

I and my ex-wife when I was married both had morning jobs me 6a-5p / her 6a-3p when I got home from work one day she asks me did I fuck another woman I said no she took me to the bedroom and showed me a stain in the bed she tried to accuse me cheating on her with a woman that was on her monthly I looked at the stain and said to my self that's ketchup and immediately knew it was a setup I left her after that. I couldn't believe that my own wife would do that to me. she did it to validate her cheating. I'm divorced now. this happens in 2002 and I divorced her in 2004. I'm WAYNE BUTLER and that's my story.

@Dakkaroni

3 жыл бұрын

Hiiiiiii wwwwayne

@Tony_Ryders

3 жыл бұрын

That's a weird way to end your comment there, Wayne.

@NO-bh3no

3 жыл бұрын

@@Tony_Ryders stfu bitch. Welcome to the community Wayne ✊🏾✊🏾

@disgruntledtoons

3 жыл бұрын

If she planted the evidence, then you both know it's a lie. How could she possibly believe that this would work?

@PASSPORTKING2106

3 жыл бұрын

Yup the classic accuse you of cheating cuz shes cheating herself! Did she really think ketchup would work?

​i have an excellent memory and discovering your content during quarantine made something lock in place in my brain. now everything in my past makes sense

@MrShysterme

4 жыл бұрын

Yep, had 2 girlfriends that shit test the hell out of me. I thought that the only reason they did it was because they were bitches.

@jlyo1991

4 жыл бұрын

I’d imagine being divided into East and West was a pretty bad breakup.

@icculus19

4 жыл бұрын

Welcome to the red pill

@hermanhenderson966

4 жыл бұрын

Big don you on TRT?

Deleting entire call lists , message history , emails . That's a sign . But for me there is no need to check her phone . Just assume that she will cheat and protect yourself accordingly.

@thnzxc

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly!!!!!!!

@chrisnorwood841

4 жыл бұрын

A chick I talk to always deletes her texts, has a photo vault, and now has her phone on silent and she wonders why I won't be in a relationship with her smh.

@AnthonyTobi333

4 жыл бұрын

@@chrisnorwood841 I don't even get close to women anymore to even care if they are cheating or not. But trust me : Know that birth control is your responsibility not hers. Assume she will cheat . Once you notice the signs , just make yourself less available and then leave.

@chrisnorwood841

4 жыл бұрын

@@AnthonyTobi333 one of the best ways. I only know this about her since we've been talking for awhile. It's best to assume they all will or are cheating. Interesting you mentioned birth control. She claims she's about to start taking it. I already know it's a trap and I dropped her yesterday.

@AnthonyTobi333

4 жыл бұрын

@@chrisnorwood841 bro . Never leave birth control up to a woman . All in all its best to listen to that voice in your head that says don't get into it with a woman .

When they accuse you of cheating and you're not......dead giveaway!

My ex wife was well aware of the phone face down trick, so she stopped all notifications, kept the phone face up and “casually” checked her phone. Bottom line is just assume she’s been cheating since day 1.

Most wives give their husbands second best version of themselves.

@johnlozauskas778

3 жыл бұрын

If that...

In 2004, my ex wife did something totally out of character! We were married 9 years and together 20 total. When I got angry and confronted her about what I suspected, 2 days later she came home while I was at work and gathered everything she could along with our 2 boys clothing... she left and never came back! 2 months later I was in divorce court! Since then (16 years ago) she’s hit “the wall” really hard!!! Weighs about 270 lbs, totally gothic in her clothing, never any makeup and forces herself into our kid’s lives... they both have wives now... I recovered nicely... beautiful Asian wife, new home and planning a very active retirement. My lesson??? Bitches ain’t shit! Well... some, not all.

I knew something fishy was going on when she started to hide her phone and take it everywhere with her. I didn't have to ask to see it. You know what's up.

The modern age has been really good to women. Almost no accountability for what is the worst behavior. Society doesn't punish them, courts don't punish them, law doesn't punish them. Is there any going back?

@godlikeexcellence1201

Жыл бұрын

at least we can call them out, shame them

19:31 Donovan said "if a woman cheats on you, she will definitely cheat on you". This repetition must have been a mistake. I guess he meant "if a woman cheats WITH you, then she will cheat on you".

@godlikeexcellence1201

Жыл бұрын

there are plenty of such mistakes in his books too. he has high emotional intelligence but it seems like he lacks school education

@maxavail

Жыл бұрын

@@godlikeexcellence1201 I think he's just being impulsive and not careful.

@Jjonescp3

Ай бұрын

@@godlikeexcellence1201 that’s extreme, how much education do you need to be an American? Look around lol

All I can say is never trust a creature that can bleed for 5 days and won't die 😏😏

I agree with almost everything you say, but sleeping with married women? Got to draw the line there man, maybe some guys are ok with being an accomplice homewrecker but I'm not.

@peterwoods35

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah that is really despicable behavior. He seems proud of it. 😠

@classicslayer456

4 жыл бұрын

Donovan's logic is more so if she doesn't care about her marriage why should I?

@velvetmelancholy2066

4 жыл бұрын

It's not like he actively pursued them knowing they were married, these garden tools are actively looking for dudes to sleep with. Who cares who she sleeps with, the guy has 0 responsibility to HER marriage vows.

@mikewill1740

4 жыл бұрын

I did it once as a young buck and got scared. Well technically they was separated. But never again, i don't fuck with married woman or those that was once married.

@Ryan--G

4 жыл бұрын

@@classicslayer456 Yeah I get it, I'm not judging him for it. Just my view that it takes two to tango, and I couldn't live with it.

Woman's complaint about you: "You blink too loud!" 😆 20:40

@larryrubin5150

4 жыл бұрын

Priceless

I can’t even begin to tell u how real these pointers are. I’ve been thru at least 7 of these signs in my blue pill beta days years ago. Listen up fellas.

dave the guitar player seems to get a lot of action...

@mate53

4 жыл бұрын

It's why I play guitar.

@karlanm925

4 жыл бұрын

He has a lot of time since all his gigs were cancelled due to quarantine

@TheMarioMan247

4 жыл бұрын

Sounds like young Dave Mustaine

@Franatomy

4 жыл бұрын

Almost as much as that bastard Kevin who works in the sales department

@GeraldM_inNC

4 жыл бұрын

I literally LOL every time Donovan comes up with a new description of Dave.

Your videos have helped me seeing women and relationships with a different eye. I lack empathy so I don’t have the tools other people do when it comes to relationships and even friendships. I’ve always tried to study body language to help me but ur videos have helped a lot too.

Think about how much women claim they love shopping. Do you really think she goes shopping for 6 hours a day 5 days a week?

Thank you Mr. Donavan. I have learnt MUCH from you. And I will put this into practice.

One of the most unique and perceptive videos yet for Donovan. He doesn't just rehash cliches from the manosphere. The guy has a brilliant analytical mind and learns lessons from all his experiences.

This is why i love Bush. Ive Known this for 5 years. If my girl shaves her bush were done

@kingash1982

3 жыл бұрын

Yo this is the best advice / strategy thank you. I typically stay away from ltr's but the next girl I start seeing regular I'm going to say I like Bush and let her grow it out a bit like a grade 2, she ever says she's going out with the girls, away for work etc and comes back shaved 100% she's been playing. 👍

@DarthFurie

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao this is fucking genius 😂😂😩

@JamesP29

2 жыл бұрын

I rather her cheat then deal with her hairy bush! Lol

Donovan that's great content my man! It's all true!

I wanna thank all these guys on you tube for all this knowledge that our fathers and grandfathers didn't know or for whatever reason. Didn't think about sharing this knowledge with us. Thank you 💪

Males I'm gonna let you in on another dime. If she has texts in her phone that dates back at least 3 months, the relationship has DEFINITELY existed longer than 6. The proof simply exists somewhere else

"You blinked too loud" that low-key made me chuckle.

The goat is back!!

Nice tips dude, greetings from mexico

@kevinhamilton9920

3 жыл бұрын

Tell Canelo Alvarez to get his ass back in the ring. ;D

Wow bullseye 🎯 man all that has happened to me in the past thankyou for your wisdom 🙏🏼👍🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

The most informative video from you , ever!

Best episode yet Don.

My banana gobbling ex wife's behavior to a "T". All 8 behaviors, she waxed her v, started saying and texting "nahhh" instead of "no", phone face down, got a tongue piercing, started belly dance lessons (her lover at the time was Arab), etc, etc, etc... Never again thanks to Dovovan and Joker. Keep up the humanitarian work, brother.

Hard truths fellas. Understand this as early as possible!

Lol thanks for the valuable info I just realised. The girl im seeing her phone is ALWAYS on silent. It never rings no notification sounds but at times I catch her checking it. I now realise she has disabled alot of functions on the home screen too 🤔

I don’t get emotionally attached to women anymore. Thanks to the women I met in my twenties. Pump and Dump, we don’t go on dates.

Don’t agree with you sleeping with a married woman because your sending the wrong signal to the younger generation. Besides it’s wrong and you know it! Who wants to destroy a family.

@arthurhyatt8964

4 жыл бұрын

She did. Not him. 🤷‍♂️

@jamesatthewatercooler5463

4 жыл бұрын

Takes two to tango

@IISSIIWhit3lioN

4 жыл бұрын

I get your view and I think the same way, but it's funny how ass backwards it is for me to worry about HER marriage more than SHE does 🤷🏻‍♂️ So I can't blame anyone for doing it. But yea I do highly recommend to avoid married women, not so much to preserve the sanctity of marriage, but to avoid the possible consequences like getting shot by an angry husband. Just not worth it IMO.

@kevinhamilton9920

3 жыл бұрын

You're not wrong. I slept with a married woman knowingly one time and felt pretty bad about it later. My excuse at the time was, "Well, she's gonna cheat with SOMEONE so it might as well be me." I won't do it again.

@TheAwhi

3 жыл бұрын

BULLY_DA_KID preach

Everyone else watching and listening to Donovan's great advice. I'm listening to his advice and watching the " e " in Gobblers appear and disappear throughout the video

This even opened my eyes.damn good wisdom

It's not that she WILL cheat, it's because she CAN.

@linklinksson6885

4 жыл бұрын

If ya wanna fix that help take down big brother and everyone else enabling it

This is million dollar life saving info for a lot of men.👍

Starts at 4:26

Solid shirt Donovan.

All facts brother ✊🏽💯

“Girls are professional cheaters” got that right!

I very recently have experienced ALL of these....even though I suspected the entire time, the actual truth was FAR more than I even imagined... EVERY one of these is absolutely true!

Yes, the female chameleon is real ...

If your wife parties with her girlfriend every other Saturday night, doesn't come home until Sunday afternoon, and admits to cocaine use/addiction, SHE IS CHEATING ON YOU!! There probably is no bigger pantie-dropper than cocaine (so I am told). If your wife or girlfriend uses that drug you must DTB!!

@flippymcflop1110

4 жыл бұрын

@John Bopp shit bro was that your wife....

@John_code

4 жыл бұрын

I would have kicked her out just for parties and drug abuse or not even have bothered being with her in the first place

@sentientnutsack5197

4 жыл бұрын

Drugs in general make women horny.

@retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106

4 жыл бұрын

@@sentientnutsack5197 yep it really does.

@chinashorts1491

4 жыл бұрын

Even marijuana is super effective. I had a friend that was a room mate. If I brought a girl home, he's innocently offer to smoke us out. Thing is if I wasn't in the mood, the girl would leave me to smoke with him. Every single time. It fucked up a few of my relationships and then I had to tell him to lay off the offers. I'll never forget that. No matter who you are, what you got going on, how close you think you are. A stoner with a few buds can easily take your girl at the end of a date.

One thing to add is her introducing to you a new sexual position and technique that she wants to try. She knows the routine and wants to try it with you, but you were not the one who showed her first. It was some dude that very week.

@shazlor2626

3 жыл бұрын

Good one, Yeah that's how I clued on to an ex's true heart years and years ago.

These were on point.

HS! Great drop sir

The "Sharpe Shooter" ... accurate all day everyday 👍

Perfecto!!!!!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Nothing but facts guys. Listen up!!!

If she breathes.. 🤷🏻‍♂️😄

Number 4!!! I always thought that shit was suspicious, thanks for the confirmation

For an Man it’s a bit disgusting to think about the time gaps she has and don’t want to think about if there was someone inside her hours before you

Your ad is sharp!

You are very intelligent!!

This video is 🔥

I can relate to some if it by experiences. And I realised I pushed a good catch away. At the age of 50 I just can't stomach relationships any more. I feel very happy in my house, living a solo life with no complications. Let the young guys deal with the mess of relationships and chasing tail.

Bill Withers Use Me,Donovan Sharpe in song,especially the last line

Im single but this info comes in handy

Great game here.

Game on 💯💯💯

Powerful stuff!!!

Thank you.

Facts right here brotha!

All this is true, I've been through this. Especially the phone part

it HURTS to hear all this... oh god the truth

Awesome.

Excellent!

I don't have friends nor listen to women when they talk about their relationships, but my ex was cheated on me. What hurt the most was when I found his dating profile stating he was looking for someone to start a family with, in one of the messages he said he didn't have any children. I was 6 months pregnant when I read that, it left me confused and heartbroken.

oh my God, Dave really needs to get his shit together 🤣 🤣 🤣

Wow I need you 3 years ago 😂😂

You are the man

I lol’d at ‘blink too loud’ 😂

Great content, I subbed … I noticed my ex-wife was cheating on me because in all her time together she had never told me what a good catch I was in bed and I thought to myself why are you telling me this you’ve never said this and then I realized women who’ve cheated with another man when they get home to their husband they have passionate sex with him and then tell him how good he was to make her feel better for what she did

Donovan you are the fucking man! You hit the nail on the head with these 8 points and you're right! They're all typically things that we would overlook, but when you examine them closely it all makes sense. Thanks for the video!

all well said.

Nice shirt, who makes it?

@velvetmelancholy2066

4 жыл бұрын

Laiso

thanks

So damn accurate.

Donovan, We need a video on Johnny Depp VS Amber''Banana Gobbler'' Heard

Man,it’s better being MGTOW,there’s a lot of work to do if you want to staying in a relationship,I’m married but if I get divorce I’ll never go back to the plantation

@stevend8785

3 жыл бұрын

Also me.

@jaythenihilist4689

3 жыл бұрын

I have just accepted they a woman will never be 100% committed to me. So I refrain from getting married, living together, and try not to get too attached.

Donavan is the truth! Hahaha so true...

You know someone isn't a true Yankees fan when they jump ship to the red sox.

Be aware of affection covered up with guilt.

I stopped fighting over women a loooooong time ago. "You've been downgraded to Visitor. Hand your key card into Security at the gate. Your stuff will be in boxes outside the manager's office. Be quick, because Friday the Goodwill comes by early for pick-up. Have a nice life." - _Your Ex-Nice Guy_ - ( Security loved that note. lol )

“You blink too loud!” 😂😂😂

He did mention illimitablemen. Any interviews with him?

20:22 "You blink too loud" 🤣

Honestly, I know in the back of my mind not all women are like that but the odds are so stacked against us it gets kind of depressing when I think about it.

6:34 Cucumber Connoseuir 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Man I’ll tell ya ,I wouldn’t mind some sloppy seconds right about now!! It’s been soo long !