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The reason SNL did a skit on the Try Guys is because Ned is friends with a writer on staff who wanted to paint him in the best light possible and make the other guys look like delusional fools who were overexaggerating the situation. They put a lot of emphasis on him being fired for cheating when he wasn't, he was fired for his misuse of power.

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

Oh ho ho -- now _this_ is interesting. Thanks for the 🫖

@Iggystar71

Жыл бұрын

Right, because The Try Guys aren’t on anybody’s radar like that!! I know about them because of following them from Buzzfeed. The skit was beyond tone deaf and had the nerve to be unfunny too!!

@mitsukislife

Жыл бұрын

This situation is the perfect example of how a large social media footprint can backfire on you with a swiftness. Just a simple comment of "oh I have a friend who works at SNL" on one of their podcast episodes and BOOM. People have gone through all of your Instagram followers, ran names and employment checks on LinkedIn, and found your friend's name listed as a sketch author for a skit that tried to write off a quite heinous HR fiasco as another run-of-the-mill instance of cheating. The comment didn't even last a second and look at it's effects. You *hate* to see it 👀 SNL ain't shit for that skit either because I know they got decades of tea that would make Ned's behavior look like child's play...

@Iggystar71

Жыл бұрын

@@mitsukislife Was it just an off-handed comment? They made it seem like it was kind of well known since they were Yale bros. Although it doesn’t really matter because your comment is on spot. SNL needs to make a sketch about the writer who did the sketch.

@mitsukislife

Жыл бұрын

@@Iggystar71 I watched the clip where he said it, but I guess that clip could have been longer or he mentioned it again in another setting? 😳I didn't want to spend too much time watching him, he was always the least entertaining of the quartet for me 😭😂

I've never understood "cheat back". As far as I'm concerned, the correct answer to a dude cheating is *dump his ass.* "Cheating back" just makes the dude think he's somehow retroactively justified, because obviously women are no better, right? Screw that noise. He failed the keeper test, and there are no retakes. GTFO, do not pass Go, do not collect $200. "If our vision of Women's Liberation is informed entirely by being about to behave 'like men' , we will _never_ be free." FACTS! SO true. Holding men responsible for their bad behavior and exercising our option to reject them if they don't please us is, IMO, a lot more powerful than sinking to dudebro behavior.

@fangal12

Жыл бұрын

Also what I never understood about that mentality is what the hell type of relationship do you want to have? The kind where you both mistrust and mistreat each other and are perpetually looking over your shoulder? Sounds like a recipe for misery

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

🎯 Agree agree agree!

@pri2x0x

Жыл бұрын

it makes perfect sense, its classic "eye for an eye" mentality that is common in any interpersonal issue. We all have a proclivity for revenge-seeking, pettiness, and wanting to correct a perceived injustice. Cheating triggers this part of us. I think people just don't see past their own pain of being betrayed to recognize that "cheating back" is not actually going to resolve anything and in fact invites that same energy back onto themselves. "Playing in the mud" so to speak

@girlwhomustnotbenamed4139

Жыл бұрын

@@pri2x0x True but for the reasons the previous commenters mentioned, I never understood this attitude. If I'm cheated on I will probably feel rage, hurt, shame, dispair, disappointment, even agression, but I won't want to sexually be with someone else. Why does it bother me that somebody cheated on me if I can just cheat back to get even? To me it says these people really aren't aware of their own feelings and needs if they truly believe that cheating back is somehow going to give them closure.

@pri2x0x

Жыл бұрын

@@girlwhomustnotbenamed4139 if you can understand revenge, then you can understand this response. As i said, it lacks in maturity or foresight, but it makes sense why someone who is hurt would think this is a way of "getting back" at the other person. And i think we can agree that it ultimately backfires

The same way I immediately distrust anyone who makes being an “empath” their main personality trait, I don’t trust “wife guys” who make being married a personality trait as well. Both are overcompensating for something else entirely.

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

EXACTLY -- I couldn't agree more.

@shaniceaj

Жыл бұрын

Thiiiiisss!!!

@whoopsydaisy6389

Жыл бұрын

Yes! I've never met a wife guy who wasn't also an adultery guy.

@yougotgamesonyourphone6947

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. People who constantly declare themselves as an “empath” are some of the most emotionally unintelligent unhinged folks I’ve met in my life.

@orlencadelacruz5166

Жыл бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

“The Yt Guys” segment with the “what did I say” made me spit out my drink 😭😭😭

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

😁

My girl said "skid marks on your timelines" 😂🤣😭

Loving the Daria shirt!

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

As soon as I saw it, I knew that they'd made it for me. 😌

@so.many.obstacles

Жыл бұрын

My sister says I remind her of Daria 😂

@yoavrahm2748

Жыл бұрын

I came here to say the same thing. Love the shirt love your stuff

@andreaparham79

Жыл бұрын

I need that shirt in my life

@sunnyday_lemonbars

Жыл бұрын

omg love! I'm definitely Daria w Jane's "fashion sense." 🖤

Too many people enjoy hurting others. I had to pull out of the dating game for a while, before I hurt these dudes back. Physically.

@MsElizaRae

Жыл бұрын

I opted out for similar reasons 😂

I feel like cheating back is just ignoring the pain the cheating behavior caused. That's not empowerment, that's reactionary and toxic b.s.

What's ridiculous is that polyamory is not a thing people hide away anymore. Cheaters can 100% find partners who are down for open relationships and no strings arrangements... It baffles me to the max that cheaters still force themselves into monogamous relationships that they know they hate being in.

@Selllenya

Жыл бұрын

Because cheaters aren't necessarily interested in a non monogamous relationship. The issue with cheating is the disrespect of the relationship boundaries and rules, people who exibhit this behavior often in monogamy will probably be the same way in non-monogamy. A lot of monogamous people seem to think that polyamory, etc, is just cheating with permission when it's not true, the rules of the relationship is what changes, respect and honesty is needed for any type of romantic relationship.

@JubeiKibagamiFez

Жыл бұрын

@@Selllenya True, so cheaters are cheaters because they like the sneaking, hiding, and lying?

@rubyrayne8

Жыл бұрын

@@JubeiKibagamiFez I don’t think they “like” it, but they are people who can’t be honest with themselves and also lack good communication skills.

@JubeiKibagamiFez

Жыл бұрын

@@rubyrayne8 Yeah. I don't think I'll ever understand cheaters. Open relationships are not uncommon anymore, for males and females alike. The freedom to $&+* whoever they want, whenever they want and still have someone to come home to, that's what cheaters want, really.... But then again, for some reason cheaters go on a rampage if their partner %$&*s around on them.... Maybe it's just a control issue for cheaters, but then there's a whole community of subs and doms where the cheater can be a dom and find a partner who wants to be a sub.

@TNDCBaby

Жыл бұрын

I said the same thing but they think it's too hard to find someone like that which is crazy I'm the age of internet.

I believe the other Try Guys were blindsided. Apparently they are very close to the wife of the Wife Guy. Eugene, the fashionable guy who was seething on the end, and her are best friends. Cheat back? Came close to doing that. Rented a room. Made a call. It dawned on me, um, I’m not the wack person so why should I be something I’m not to match his trifling behavior. Stayed in the room alone and kept my dignity.

@TCt83067695

Жыл бұрын

Eugene was doing the most in that video, it was almost cringe.

I’m so glad you mentioned women cheating. It’s not okay for anyone any gender. They are a whole different type of people

@Billibab

Жыл бұрын

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Leave or cheat back. When they ask"So you think you're better than Beyonce " The response is "so you think your Jay z?" I hope Beyonce cheated back too...

The whole Try Guys situation is so messy but I think one of the members said that the reason they think that the reaction was so strong was because a lot of teenagers grew up watching them. They were a comfort channel that didn’t demand critical thought just stupid fun and because of that they felt kinda blindsided. Also Ned’s wife was on and off the channel for years and viewer’s were curious about this wife Ned brought up all the time. Eventually the other SO’s started a podcast as a second job and it was sometimes more popular than the Try Guy’s podcast. The woman that Ned had a affair with was engaged and was with her fiancé for 10 years. She also produced videos that Ned’s wife Ariel was in and even tried on wedding dresses on the channel. Also I think Ned put more money into the company in the beginning because he was better off and the first Try Guy’s office was in his old house. He probably got a huge amount of money to leave the company but will probably not work in entertainment in the future unless it’s behind the camera.

@Jasyoucan

Жыл бұрын

Also the fact that it went down in public so blatantly. Didn’t even try to hide it for the sake of his children or their partners.

So glad I found your channel because I had been unsubscribed without knowing and I thought you were living your best life outside of the US. You are an amazing young woman as you remind me of myself when I was your age.

Is it fair to say “Once a cheater, always a cheater,” though? I mean, there are exceptions but I sure as hell wouldn’t trust it. Btw, Love the shirt and I have total hair envy!

@TinyyTinkerbell

Жыл бұрын

Me personally if you cheat i do not forgive. Im not here to generalize but you dont know who that person may be who is what what im about to describe. The person that you will forgive and they will constantly cheat and normally know 8/10 you will forgive them and stay with them….yeaaa so I don’t stay with cheaters. You cheat once its a wrap. Edit: also most cheaters end up cheating again..and again…and again lol. I personally dont care if its fair. It wasnt fair to step out on me but he did that so🤷🏽‍♀️.

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

I wrestle with whether that's fair all the time, but I err on the side of believing it in my personal life, I must admit.

@joannamarieart

Жыл бұрын

I don't think it's always true for every single person, BUT in my actual interpersonal relationships, I always treat it as true, because I'd rather be safe than sorry and I could never fully trust someone again after they've cheated.

Love Daria! I just think so many people cheat because of ego, they are too fabulous to be limited to one person. That is something you especially need to consider if you get involved with anyone with even a hint of fame and/or money.

@7venrashad

Жыл бұрын

The stars of their own reality shows.

@BeautifulEarthJa

Жыл бұрын

men that earn less than their partners cheat more....there will be a whole heap of 'excuses' in patriarchy and it having money/fame is not the only one

That Chile thing makes me chuckle still to this day. 🤣. When I first watched the video I was confused as to what she was trying to say. I realized that the lady read Chile and thought black women said it like chilly. 🤦🏾‍♀️😮‍💨🤣 When you repeat it I still can't believe she had the audacity. Whew chilly. 🤣🤦🏾‍♀️

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

"Woo chillay" will forever be up there with "things like such as" for me. 😌

The Don't be a Menace line, I loved it lol, Nia Long will forever be the epitome of beauty without trying, Or at least I feel that way, I also agree with the idea of where cheating has gone, I think part of it has to do with the whole "No one takes losses" movement, Social media has made this idea grow and grow, on social media no one takes a loss, so if you get cheated on, you cheat back , there for the loss is avoided. I hope that makes sense, good video.

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

It absolutely makes sense, and I think that's a great insight into why this whole "cheat back" thing has gotten so much traction. Thanks for sharing!

I fell out when you slipped Klandace right on by us without missing a beat! 😂😂😂

The Try Guys apology situation and *firing* has less to do with Ned cheating and more to do was a lot do he is a co-founder and had a high up position and was in a position of power, no matter how consensual it is. . This was a case of textbook Shitstorm that keeps HR managers up at night and lawyers playing Jeezy “I Got Money” on repeat while filing the briefs.

Ti, I’m still trying to figure out why it made the news. I only know the Try Guys cus Eugene kinda cute. Besides that Quinta is the best thing to come out of Buzz Feed as it stands.

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

Also mystified! I figured they're just way, way more popular than I had ever realized, for this dime-a-dozen affair to get the press that it did.

Am I the only one who had to rewind the video after she said 🐫 because once it hit, you couldn't stop laughing 😂 🤔?

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

🐪🙃

@adams8830

Жыл бұрын

I almost missed that!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Acon1882

Жыл бұрын

I had to pause it because I just couldn’t stop laughing! I think it was also the way she just subtly threw it in there 🤣🤣🤣

Whenever this topic is discussed, I always ask this question: Why don't people who prefer non-monogamy engage with people who desire the same? To the men, there are women who will willingly engage in a non-monogamous/polyamorous relationship. So why do non-monogamous men seek out women who explicitly desire monogamy? It doesn't make sense!

@joejoejoe532

Жыл бұрын

My gut feeling tells me that it has to do more with ownership then sexual/romantic/life partnership. A non-monogamous man may seek out a monogamous woman because it makes him feel like she is bound to him and no other.

@msdiva

Жыл бұрын

@@joejoejoe532 Whew chile....that's a word! I guess (some) of these folks who cheat aren't seeking an honest & equitable relationship. One where each partner has the agency to make an informed decision about their participation in the relationship. They are seeking to manipulate & control people. Smh...Thx for your insight.

@Selllenya

Жыл бұрын

I wouldn't call cheaters non-monogamous necessarily. They're just disrespecting the agreement of the relationship. If they do it in monogamy, who says they wouldn't in non-monogamy? Yall know we have boundaries and rules too? All relationships do

@hellraisinhamster

Жыл бұрын

I’ve realized that some people are just straight up sadistic and get off on the fact they are doing something they know would hurt you. Like some weird power play or something. I’ve had this discussion with a past partner once who was liking certain types of photos of women on social media and messaging these women, some being past flings, ect. I told him like “If I’m not the type of girl you’re after or you don’t think im the one for you, or if you’re still curious about other people to the point where you still feel the need to talk to and look at other potential partners, then maybe we aren’t compatible and we both deserve to find someone that has compatible values and expectations for a relationship.” And then he went on convincing me that I was the one he wanted and eventually it led to him physically cheating so always trust your gut and the signs someone is full of shit lol. Actions over words always. I genuinely think he got off to my reactions to him blatantly checking out and flirting with other women. Glad I have matured since then.

@avery960

Жыл бұрын

Cheating is usually about both pleasure and power. Cheaters like feeling like they own their partner, so they don't want their "property" getting "used" by others. They don't want non-monogamy, they want control

Absolutely agree. Which is surprising to me why so many women that drug Jada Pickett Smith.

Koon-ye & Klandace sent me🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤣👍🏽

i watched the try guys a lot and Ned did A LOT of loving on his wife so him cheating shocked many. not me, but that's because I'm the biggest cynic of 2022

Daria reminds me of you. bc she's hella smart with very sarcastic dry humor. I've always wanted to be cool like that but alas. I'm hella goofy and slow with comebacks

"Cheaters and their cheat-ations" had me spitting out my coffee. 😂

I love Daria and I can't believe I was a little surprised to see you wearing it. Daria could definitely be part of the napfam.

I worked with a professional who cheated to his heart’s content . Over time his personal life began to invade his work life and his performance on the job suffered . He was pulling up pictures of women in bikinis on his computer screen as we were working on maintaining a key certification for our jobs . He let his certification lapse and was eventually fired . Years later he’s still running around like an idiot. There’s so much more to life than cheating and lying . Look at Ime . I wonder if he thinks it was worth it .

Not the wooo chilé 😂

“Na na na na na…” theme song started playing in my head as soon as I saw the shirt!! One of my all time faves. 👍 Thanks for the upload! Usually I’m so bored by cheating headlines that I flip right past it (they happen so often), but I will admit I did a doubletake at the Try Guys situation, because it was a bit unique. Ned being in charge of HR 👀 at both Buzzfeed and then 2nd Try LLC, his family car (that was reported when he did the dirty with the employee), which his wife still had to sit in to pick up the kids 🤢🤮, ex-colleagues and lawyers all jumping in with their 2 cents when the headlines came out, taking a fan photo at the Harry Styles concert he attended with the employee knowing that he’d already been recognized etc etc. I’m just like why? Why be so messy? 🤷‍♀️ I don’t understand people that choose the harder route. Props to Eugene for committing to the deep v-neck sleeveless fit though. 😆

@lemonline3719

Жыл бұрын

It was sooo sloppy.

@SH-wk6po

Жыл бұрын

Indeed!

Your wordplay is iconic…periodt 😂😂😂

Thank you for once again blessing your humble youtube brokefam with a new video.

I LOVE your shirt! I feel for the generations who have no idea an icon like Daria exists 😢😂

Your hair is sooo cute! Found my style for the rest of the week 😍

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

🙌🏾🥰

Cheating back is not about empowerment or freedom though... it's about revenge

Cheating back definitely isn't a flex but neither is being a pickme. In the common event that the female is the one that got cheated on. I'd rather move on and say nothing about it than encourage her to play nice. Cause that makes it seem like that dude is important yet he's not. If it happened to one of my girls, best believe we'll have more profitable things to talk about.

A lot of commentary youtubers lose my focus shortly into the video but your wit keeps me captivated the whole time

I also don’t cheat i leave. No one is worth my body if i need to seek elsewhere.

Eugene's face in that Try Guys video will forever be a mood.

I love your eyeshadow! Also, I love seeing your videos pop up on my timeline!

I truly appreciate your description box. Thank you sooooooo much for the detailed links! And you look gorgeous as usual and inspired my makeup look for tomorrow!

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

💁🏾‍♀️🖤

Camels?!? I CACKLED!!!🤣🤣🤣

🤣 For the love of Ray J 🤣 I can empathize with people who are hurt and end up acting in dreadful ways and cheating. But we honestly don’t know how we will react in a situation until we are in it. You can say you will cheat all day but it takes effort to cheat, it takes the heart or lack there of. All I can say about the issue is just turn to your higher power, whatever you believe in. Pray, meditate, cry and just go through the feels. Allow yourself the emotions you are experiencing. That is the only way you can truly heal from heart ache 🙏🏽 Be safe out here y’all ♥️

The way you broke this down and connected it to patriarchy was seamless, so well said 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾 That paired with your humor is TOP TIER. Looking forward to more of this. edit: and the switch up on the taglines though!🔥🔥🔥

I never understood cheating it's better to be honest and don't get married if you are not serious.

The Daria Shirt makes me so happy.

I know we dislike/don't care for THAT family, but Tristan Thompson has been known for his infidelity, yet the family cast Jordyn Woods out and welcomed Tristan in, several times!! The situation solidifies the fact that men are given more leniency when they cheat.

For the first time in a long time, I got you on my front page! Joy! Thank you for persevering with your amazing self!

You look amazing sis. Love your t-shirt

I am 30 years old and I swear to God. I thought cheating was rare until I got cheated on and then I started realizing every f****** body is cheating right now.

Part of what you said reminded me of the "ladette" culture here in the UK in the 90's. So, we had lad culture, hard drinking, sexually aggressive, loud mouths. Then, young women started acting the same way, cos erm, equality 😳 For me, equality means treating everyone with respect, not becoming as abusive as the men. Equality is not abusing everyone equally

The T-shirt ❤!

Love your shirt!

Love your commentary !

Klandice girl I can’t I love your tone it’s so unbothered😂😂😂😂

not the "for the love of Ray J break up"☠️☠️☠️☠️

@Billibab

Жыл бұрын

You are the funniest

Cheating is bad, that should probably be posted in all high schools at this point and be an elective in colleges. Nobody knows that greed is the downfall of many; men do know and continue to do wrong with no stealth. I don't understand most people. 🤷🏾‍♂️

Excellent commentary as always. Plus, I love the Jane and Daria tee shirt.

Once again, you killed it w this vid🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

All my creators are posting at the same time lol

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

I love it when that happens!

If it’s not something you can tell your partner about, without them getting emotional, it’s cheating.

Great conversation, and the shirt ♥Daria was one of my fav's growing up.

ooh. loving the green/yellow eye

“People _or_ camels”, _gaaah-_ dayuuum!😭😭😭

The Daria shirt flooded me with so many good memories.

@belizegal29

Жыл бұрын

Same. Loved that show…👍🏽

As an outsider who’s never watched the try guys, you articulated my thoughts on that whole situation perfectly. And Adam Levine, who tf is shocked that dude cheat?!?

Hey Ti 👋 I know it's been a hot minute since you did a look book but I would love it sooo much if you decided to do a fall or winter look book this year! Either way, I'm gonna watch whatever you upload... 💕💕💕

Love the way you rock Daria&Jane shirt 😎

😂😂😂”” khunye the skid mark on your time line”.

Yup, I ALWAYS stay till the end!🤩

Your hair and makeup is 🔥

I love that Daria Shirt I miss older 90 and early 2000 shows

I 🚚 ing your videos and that is that. Thank you for sharing ❤️

Your hair 😍!!!

Ahhhhhh the shirt!! Yes yes yes bring me back to a place where Daria is always on!

Your shirt!!! 🤩🤩😍😍🥰🥰🥰

Lord this was on point.

I love your t-shirt!

Love your Daria shirt ❤

Like that article on Letterman. Early 2000s were wild.

Omg! I love ur shirt! Daria is a classic.

Hurt people hurt people threads 👍

Your hair is 🔥

Love from the H !! 💚💚💚💚

Great video

YES TO THIS ENTIRE VIDEO! Cheating back is the stupidest shit ever. Do better and move on, unless you’re just as trifling as the cheater- in which (they are).

Not I’m this early by accident omg

🤣🤣🤣Beach front in Utah!!! I was delayed but got it🤣

Your end of video eye wink is back. I was missing that. It's adorable when you do that.

👏💯💥 Awesome look too! 🖤

10:16 THIS👏🏽PART👏🏽RIGHT👏🏽HERE👏🏽

i cant critique this video without writing a whole novel in the comment box, but te whole country is onna be readin my book/ideology in due time, so you can feel free to read it ten wit every1 else. its insightful

I've been saying it for years. I'm not cheating, I'm leaving. You've got my subscribe.

Did she say Coonye? I love it. 🤣🤣

This is going to be offtopic, because I just started watching the video. But I had to pause it, to write how gorgeous your makeup is. Could you please tell me the brand of the eyeshadow? It's freaking stunning.

I don't know if you did this on purpose but the tourism ad I got for Utah had me dying and was enough to make me a semi-silent watcher (not counting when I talk back to you like you can hear me) comment.

Before the video started and I saw the diara shirt I was like this is our queen Periodt