IDK if this will be helpful to you, but a while ago I decided that if the person I'm interacting with (like your chiropractor) isn't trying to keep up a conversation with me, it is not my sole responsibility to fill the silence.

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

To a degree, I totally vibe with this. I think I’m just far too aware of my inability to carry casual conversation and I get in my head. Most of the time the other person is participating just fine but I second guess what I should say and if I’m “doing it right:” 😅

@GaryRoseCO

Ай бұрын

That is so true. I'm an extrovert , so I talk a lot and I don't know I've ever worried about what to talk about to keep a service person entertained. However, when people don't seem to want to talk, I am good with it and don't try to keep a conversation going.

@XOChristianaNicole

Ай бұрын

@@GaryRoseCO- Relatable and ditto.

@shelleytamara

Ай бұрын

​@@elyse_myers me too!

@AKcess_Dnied

Ай бұрын

I decided that if they're not trying to talk to me it is my responsibility to sit in silence as idk what to talk about with strangers.

"I was depressed. I made it. It made me feel better" -- aka me anytime I have the urge to crochet or knit something

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

Everything I have ever crocheted has been a result of being depressed and needing to do something with my hands. MISSION ACCOMPLISHED I FEEL BETTER. 😂

@shelleytamara

Ай бұрын

​@elyse_myers so in a way, it's a good thing the blanket isn't completed 😄

I loved several things: -when you cut to you eating the cookies like we caught you. -when you typed out the reason you don’t go into the basement like you can’t say it out loud 😅 -still in aw that you drive with an open coffee cup -Your January 10th entry is the reason I’m back in therapy bc you can’t run from yourself. I want to believe in myself again 💜

@cooki3monstrrr

Ай бұрын

I agree with all of it, but I especially appreciate the last one 🤎 you've got this

Your hair......is stunning. It's so pretty it's actually mildly distracting, in the best possible way. It encourages me to keep on with my curly hair journey. Outside of that random fact, your videos consistently remind me that all brains are different and it's ok. I identify with so many things you do and say. It makes me feel less like I am the only one out here like this. I am not saying "like this" is bad or good at all. I am saying it's a way to be and I am glad I am not alone. :). I really enjoy all of your content Elyse. Take good care and stay true to yourself girl!

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much 🥹 the internet isn’t known for kindness like this. From the bottom of my heart, thank you so much for taking the time to share your encouragement with me!

Also for the chiropractor just ask if they have any pets and then when you go back “how’s (insert pets name) doing?” They’ll be touched you remembered the name and then you can just move on to if your pain is better, worse, or the same.

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

THIS IS A GREAT PIECE OF ADVICE THANK YOU

@peacefuldoves

Ай бұрын

​@elyse_myers that tip is huge! Life altering hack. Bravo OP 🇬🇧

@jenhickle725

Ай бұрын

Good tip! I try to comment on tattoos if they have them. They love that.

@miss.dubbie

Ай бұрын

I do this with all my neighbors!!! I want to be "neighborly" but I know I'm not that neighbor. But I wanna be!! I live in a neighborhood with, Barley, Pierre, Sydney, Lucy, Little Lucy, Harley, Ruby, Handsome, Heath and their owners.

@cooki3monstrrr

Ай бұрын

​@@miss.dubbieHandsom Heath 😂 love this

elyse at the end going, “ i feel like a mental breakdown is coming….. yep i was right.” is so relatable

@snoozyq9576

29 күн бұрын

Thats not what she said

Other than how genuine and relatable the content on this channel is, I think part of the reason I love it so much is because of how kind the comment section is. Like who ever would have thunk that you could be yourself on the internet and have people respond with sincere kindness, empathy, and acceptance...shheeessshhhhh. Elyse really pulled in a good crowd of people with her fanbase and I couldn't think of anyone that deserve it more to be honest.

@jenhickle725

Ай бұрын

Seriously!! ❤

Fun fact, the song from the beginning was the first song I ever danced to with a boy. He was 87 and I was volunteering at a very festive nursing home

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

ohhhh my gosh I have never wanted to read an entire essay from a single sentence more in my entire life

Elyse. First of all, this is the first comment I have ever left on a video ever in my life. 2nd I saw one of your TikTok videos a few years ago, but I am not really on social media so it was like a one time thing. I don’t know how I recently came across you again on KZread as I was looking for some thing and I have been binging your episodes like it’s Bridgerton!! the relatability I have with you is insane. I have NEVER felt less alone in my life! I know how creepy that sounds and I’m sorry, but I just want to say I see you and I appreciate your authenticity and making me feel less alone in the world because you know that we all need that! so thank you for what you’re doing. Your LITERAL biggest fan. ❤❤❤

@zorgbarley1762

Ай бұрын

If this is creepy then I am creepy too! Lol. ... I hope it isn't creepy.

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

First of all, SO GLAD YOU ARE HERE!!! Second of all (I know that’s not grammatically correct but I enjoy saying it anyways) that doesn’t sound creepy at all! I have so many people I follow on KZread who feel like my very own comfort channel!! I’m so grateful my videos can be that space for other people!

@billyalarie929

Ай бұрын

THIS IS SO PURE (i think i said this on another of your videos, like, a day ago??? You’re just such a sweet person!!!)

@estherfriesen2175

Ай бұрын

I literally had to double check your comment to make sure it wasn't me who posted it, because it sounded just like what I was thinking😄

@HRHDMKYT

Ай бұрын

I obsessively read a *lot* of comments, including replies to comments (it feels like being involved in colleague chitchats I used to have at work before I retired). I’d say the majority of comments to Elyse’s videos sound like yours. Her issues are so relatable because so many of us are overwhelmed by all the signals and stimuli we’re bombarded with every minute. The human brain has somehow become expected (by society) to evolve exponentially in the past 25 or so years, vs. previous generations’ brains which had a much slower pace of change in which theirs were expected to adapt. No wonder we’re so crazed and stressed and anxious and depressed these days. I’m thinking that pressure manifests in different ways different people, but what Elyse experiences seems to be quite common now. So it’s not creepy at all right relate. It’s perfectly (but unfortunately) just normal. (That’s why Elyse has so many Followers!).

I love how philosophical you are in your journal entries. My own are like "Took the dogs for a walk... came home and showered; may go get McDonald's for dinner" (3 days later) " Did end up getting McDonald's" 😂

Hank and John Green have a newsletter I subscribe to, and last week they asked us who we really liked to watch on KZread. YOU MADE THE LIST!!!!! I admit is squealed like a little girl. I think the bookshelf background is a great idea. Thank you for sharing your journal, thank you for sharing yourself with us.

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

WAIT WHAT?!?!?! I AM GOING TO CRY. MESSAGING THEM RIGHT NOW THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS WITH ME 😭😭😭😭

@cynhanrahan4012

Ай бұрын

@@elyse_myers Yes!

@myblueheather8240

Ай бұрын

Two fantastic worlds colliding here, and it makes me so happy.

Oh my gosh please write a book about your life and narrate it. Those journal entries felt so relatable and beautiful

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

I’m actually finishing up my first manuscript!!

@cynhanrahan4012

Ай бұрын

@@elyse_myers That is excellent news! I have so many stashed in my google docs that I cannot bring myself to submit because even very polite rejection makes me not write for months.

@stellagasaparro9912

5 күн бұрын

⁠@@cynhanrahan4012​​⁠​⁠​⁠​​⁠​⁠ super happy for you that you’re writing! That’s 90% of the battle, it is honestly hard for me to get through this comment without getting distracted 😅 hopefully one day the rejections will become water off a ducks back, but in the meantime writing for yourself is a beautiful thing. (And I know you’ve probably heard this before, but someone else’s response whether it be negative or positive could never determine your worth nor the quality of your writing 💜) Anyway, I’m rooting for you and I think you’ve got it in you🫰hope to see your book out, maybe in an Elyse review ;)

HIGHLY recommend trying out a physical therapist. They go through way more schooling and they can help you long term unlike short term relief from chiropractors. They can actually help you in a similar way but its much safer. A lot of people can actually get hurt and become paralyzed from bad experiences. Its not worth the risk go to the physical therapist who has a doctorate. Your spinal cord is so import ! Love your videos girl wishing u the best. Hopefully some more crochet content soon ❤ you inspired me to start

@lauraking8950

Ай бұрын

There are chiropractors with doctorate degrees.

@klharndt

28 күн бұрын

Wholeheartedly agree!

The police “ I know that you know that” was so funny to me lmaoooo

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

You know what you did 😂

Physiotherapist here - you should not need once weekly appointments (from a chiropractor or otherwise) for back pain for an extended period of time. If you have a good rehab plan with exercises that you do at home, you shouldn't really need weekly 'adjustments' for weeks and weeks on end (obviously I don't know your problem or what was going on, please insert all relevant disclaimers here!) but just letting you know!

@elizabethdrake4447

Ай бұрын

I am a PT also. Please please go to a PT instead of a chiropractor.

@lauraking8950

Ай бұрын

This is very vague and can unnecessarily scare people. I was unable to walk for months and spent 6 weeks seeing my chiropractor 2-3 times a week and then an additional 8 weeks with a PT my chiropractor worked with to rebuild the muscles. Working with both saved me.

Tysm Elyse ..now I've got..." baby lock them doors and keep those lights down low" stuck in me dome😅

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

The next line is “put some music on that’s soft and slow” and until last night I literally thought the line was “let me give it to you soft and slow” and I didn’t even question it. Jonas had to tell me that it absolutely was not that. 😂

@diahan9896

Ай бұрын

​@elyse_myers i think yours is a much better version! 😂❤

@nunya6592

Ай бұрын

@@elyse_myers 😆 👏

@sarahleony

Ай бұрын

@@elyse_myersHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I just snorted

I'm crying. The last bit at the end just made me understand my Mama's dad. He constantly amd irregularly moved the family between New Mexico and Colorado her whole lifetime. Sometimes he'd randomly xome home during a day to tell my Granny that they're moving again. Never did understand and he died when I was so young that I never got to ask him. My Uncle was the same in bouncing around the country at least my whole life. He got Alzheimer's when I was too young to ask him either. You just provided me with the start of closure. Thank you.

That letter from your friend was beautiful and i think we all need to hear similar things often.

Hi, I work at a chiropractic office (in kearney!), and I’m here to tell you… you can always drop down to an “as needed” basis. Go as often as you feel necessary. But don’t stress if you can commit! Just communicate with your chiropractor, and when you feel better, just say you’ll come back as needed! It happens ALL THE TIME. You’re doing a wonderful job at adulting. I’m proud of you!

your videos feel like home 🥰 also “i was depressed. i made it, it made me feel better” is smth i feel to my core lolll

I love reading my old journals, but also have to mentally brace myself for them because they're such an emotional roller-coaster lol. One minute I'm smiling and laughing at a memory and almost feeling the same joy and excitement I did back then. The next...I'm reliving trauma and dispair that I described way too vividly, the raw emotion is overwhelming, and I have to try *really* hard not to get wrapped back up in it and spiral.

@Daymickey

Ай бұрын

This is TOO RELATABLE. In fact for me, the second experience wins out and so I just usually avoid it out of fear. 😂

ELYSE! PICKLES! Whenever you find yourself in NYC, there's a pickle bookstore in the Lower East Side and you can donate books in exchange for pickles!!! Or just buy pickles and secondhand books like a normal person. I'm not a pickle person but I hope you find some joy in that store!

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

I’m going to be there next week for work!!! YOU JUST MADE ME SO EXCITED!!!

@jacquelynchin5513

Ай бұрын

@@elyse_myers it's called "Sweet Pickle Books, located at 47 Orchard St, New York, NY 10002!

@jacquelynchin5513

Ай бұрын

@@elyse_myers it’s called Sweet Pickle Books. It’s at 47 Orchard St, New York, NY 10002 🫶

@meg.please

Ай бұрын

@jacquelynchin5513 I thought this said second hand pickles and I was like aren't all pickles second hand?

@XOChristianaNicole

Ай бұрын

@@meg.please- I vote for Elyse to write a song, called “Second-Hand Pickles.”

“I make a great first impression”. Felt so deeply. ❤

@jenhickle725

Ай бұрын

Saaaame

“I feel like Jonas is my husband” 😭💗 Thank you for giving us a glimpse into your journal and your heart, I loved this!

I've been acknowledging the last few days how much i've been glued to any mindless stimulation to cope with the burnout I've been in for the last month. I also hadn't been acknowledging or realizing that it was burnout. It's a really hard week (you know the one) (ftm, he/him btw) and my hormones are off the charts. The general burnout is real, the autistic burnout is real. The random bursts of a short sob when I've had six dozen moments of trying to let myself cry for weeks is disheartening. It ends as soon as it begins, whether by my brain shutting down, or intentionally doing so with mindless media consumption because I *can't* actually handle feeling the emotions when they come up. I know so well the feeling of finding/creating a new life for yourself and living in the joy and peace and revelations it brings- until you settle into it. Until your "new" life is just *life* now. It comes with all the same parts the first one did. All the pain, all the grief, all the memories, yourself as a whole. There's the new problems, the new challenges, the new stresses, the new responsibilities that are no longer new. They are simply yours. I'm really, really struggling right now. But I knew if I was going to consume media to cope, it'd be mindful, not less. It'd be something worth caring about, or someone. It'd give me a reason to cry, maybe. I needed something, and it really was just your humanity. Your genuine, soulful, lovely self, who reminds me so much of my sister it warms my heart. (demeanor wise, as well as also having OCD, autism, adhd, etc) thank you, Elyse. you are such a f'ing gift.

I, too, crochet when I'm depressed and/or anxious. There's something calming about it. Now... I'm sure you probably have heard this but I once heard charcuterie pronounced like "Shark's Cochie" and I can never unhear it. Thanks Elyse for being so relatable.

Wait, please. Have I been saying "gouda" wrong my whole life? Those journal entries. Beautiful.

@Kathleenhm

Ай бұрын

We've all been saying it wrong. Lol I was until about 2 years ago.

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

No you haven’t! It’s “goo-da” but I was just saying “how-da” because it always reminds me of the time Jonas went to the city Gouda when we were dating and talked all about it (and pronounced it as “how-da”.) I was mainly making fun of myself when I said it like that but I realize how it just kind of sounded pretentious hahaha

@Kathleenhm

Ай бұрын

@@elyse_myers how-da is the correct pronunciation!

@injones74

Ай бұрын

@@elyse_myers whew 😅🧀

@kerrieonmywaywardson

Ай бұрын

Over time my little brother was in a school play about cheese and he was the Gouda

Elyse, in my humble opinion, you are absolutley awesome. You are authentic, scattered, witty, intelligent, and for some reason, the phrase "organized chaos" comes to mind. I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate your content, as it is a rare thing to find such candor amongst influencers (or among people, in general). I hope the future brings you more ups than downs, more joy than sorrow, and more light than darkness. Keep up the good work!

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much!!! 🥹🫶🏼

Girl, your spanish is SO GOOD! Pretty much perfect pronunciation already!

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

Oh my god thank you so much??? I am really self conscious because I remember the way my grandpa sounded and I just sound so…white. And every time I learn a new word I can just hear him laughing a little. 😂

@caroshulman

Күн бұрын

​@@elyse_myersyou've got this! Open for practice whenever, being spanish first language here!

I loved absolutely everything about this vlog. You're a walking safe space, Elyse! Keep shining you sweet soul 💜You're doing a great job!

I laughed, I cried, I felt seen (esp. “I make a great first impression”, the charcoochie song to the melody of Bring It On, and “the next entry is 9 days later after daily entries so I feel like a spiral is coming… yep.” I love rereading my journals it’s like a little celebration of how far I’ve come. Elyse, you are indeed a gift. in case you forgot

Me crying over how I imagine you felt reading that letter at that time and how overwhelmingly powerful it must have been but then also laughing about that top notch role call

The last journal entry you shared was so touching. I can't tell you how many times I've felt that very same way. Thank you for sharing.

I loved the journal entries so much thank you for sharing them 🥹 I unexpectedly cried when you shared the part @19:40 where you say “…my independence could potentially really get in the way of letting jonas love me…I forget to let people in” so relatable omg. Thank you for being vulnerable

When she said "I'm really bad at mail, really bad a mail, I need to get better at mail." I felt that.

I don’t think you’ll ever see this but in case you do, you inspire me so much. I struggle a lot with anxiety and for a long time I felt completely helpless and like I would just always feel this way. When I started watching your videos and saw you actively trying to face your anxiety and talk about how much you struggle with it I started to realize I don’t just have to be stuck dealing with it for the rest of my life. You inspire me to face my anxiety and try to better myself at my own pace. Thank you so much for being so open about how anxiety affects you, it reminds me that I’m not alone and that I’m not crazy. I love all your videos so much and I’m always so excited to see a new one come out. Thank you so much for everything.

First!

@jennastephan1413

Ай бұрын

😂you can be Elyse’s #1 fan, that’s fine 😂

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

Hi friend!!

@rosey_ie

Ай бұрын

Love this 🫶🏻

Don't get discouraged about the blanket! The first half was the hardest for me because of all the decreases. Once the increase side is bigger than the decrease side it goes much faster. Can't wait to see how yours turns out!

There’s something so reinvigorating and also devastating about reading old diaries and journal entries… Its like, seeing my old goals and wishes and knowing the ways it went well, but also knowing the ways it didn’t. Its strange. ❤

Thanks for another relatable video, so many things! I've lived in an allegedly haunted house for 6 years now. I just treat the haunting presence as a roommate that wants to be acknowledged but not physically seen. The anxiety, depression and the wherever you go, there you are, as well as growing, maturing and accepting yourself more and more is a journey I feel honored to have shared with me. I feel so much less alone to see when you describe or experience things that I also see in my life. Good luck in all your endeavours. Kind regards from this ADHD/Autistic man in Iceland

that entry you read about moving and feeling like everywhere you aren’t currently is better and that ultimately you are just trying to run away from yourself… that was incredibly powerful and moving. i have been feeling that way for a while now. i feel like anywhere but where i am would be better and then i go to that place but nothing changes. thank you for sharing that ❤ ik it probably took a lot of courage to share that vulnerability even if it was from years ago… thank you ❤

Why does her journal sound like an actual book. It sounds so good I would stay up all night reading it 😂

You're a very gifted writer. I enjoyed listening to you read your journal entries. I would read a book with you as the author, because I like the way you describe the every day. I loved the details about packing up your life, and the way you write in meaningful metaphor. 10/10 no notes.

My biggest takeaways from this video is that I really underestimate pickles and I have that song stuck in my head now. 😂

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

Pickles are everythinnnggggg. Ironically I don’t like them on things, just alone hahhaha

I'm sure you get these comments a lot. But I've been feelin pretty low today, rather down in the dumps, ya know? And laying in bed while kinda feelin like I'm hangin out with a friend and laughing about normal little things made me feel a lot more comfortable and a little happier. Thanks for that. Appreciate you a lot 🤍 P.S. that final journal entry nearly made me choke, it just hit so close to home. It sounds like something I would've written about myself in college.. "There is no amount of running I can do where I can run from myself. Wherever I go, there I am..." and "A girl on the move, looking for home in all the wrong places." Damn. I was truly running from myself, my traumas and my toxic family for so many years of my life. The grass never failed to seem greener elsewhere. And with every new place came another reason to be dissatisfied and somehow even more lost or hurt. I'm glad we both made it out of that, Elyse. Thank you so much for sharing that entry 🤍

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

Ironically, I got the paper airplane tattoo I have on my arm roughly 24 hours after I wrote that journal entry to remind myself that I can’t run from myself when I move to a new place. I was living in Texas at the time and was about to finish my semester at college and move to Omaha to be in the same place as Jonas. And I kept thinking “Omaha is going to be the place I officially start over and thrive.” But I felt like I was wasting my short season in Texas because I was looking forward to Omaha so much that I was barely present in Texas. I was showing a friend around the Fort Worth stockyards (she was visiting from out of town) and we saw a tattoo parlor, and I ran inside and asked them to tattoo a paper airplane on me. I didn’t know at the time that my upcoming move to Omaha would be as impactful as it was, but I decided that whatever came of my impending move would be important because I decided it would be. Because that would be the move that I stopped assuming would cure me. That I might move a million more times before I found a place I felt I belonged in. (Omaha just so happened to be the place I got engaged, married, and became a mom.) Even if it wasn’t the place I changed my identity two times over, my paper airplane and I would have made it special because it would have been the place where I finally accepted myself. I didn’t realize when I started reading this journal that I’d find that journal entry (or all those other journal entries I found that didn’t feel significant when I was writing them, but absolutely were as I read them back.) but I’m so grateful I kept a log of those thoughts. If I take anything away from this week, it’s that I need to get back into the practice of writing my thoughts down every day!! Finding them years later is life changing!

@meg.please

Ай бұрын

@elyse_myers your writing is inspiring ne, friend!!

@mariahlamb2983

Ай бұрын

@@elyse_myers Ah oh my goodness, thank you for sharing such a sweet and impactful story with me! Who would’ve thought that cute little paper airplane tattoo on your arm had such a significant, transformative and beautiful story behind it. Now even I have some new symbolism connected to a this paper airplane. You’ve really inspired me. Feels like just a little sprinkle of destiny that you flipped open to that page in your journal. I may still have some struggles with mental health and get frustrated with my own brain, but I’m happy with myself, I’m blessed to be a mother, I’ve found my person in life, and I’m comfortable where I am for the first time in my ever. I’ve got one more stop to make, I’m moving from MA to NH in pursuit of buying an A frame cabin home in the woods. A dream I’ve had forever and a day. But I’ve finally reached a place where I don’t feel like I want to run from myself or my life. I want to pick it up, all of it, and place it in this final destination. So I’m gonna send out my last little paper airplane a few years from now, and that’ll be that. 🤍

So beautiful. The way I can laugh or cry in the span of seconds when watching your videos. I felt a lump in my throat when you read your friend’s note. Thank you for sharing the small and big moments with us.

Elyse, you just are such a light. Your humor and thought process is amazing and reminds me of my daily moments. Right down to the crumbl cookies! . I've given up on my curls (way too lazy) and you're inspiring me to the again! I started crocheting (again) because of you and forgot how much it gives me joy. Thanks for being you. So glad I found your channel. I missed seeing you!

Went looking through the comments to find someone else feeling the same as me and I'm glad to find a few more - loving the last statements from the journal! Having it describe just what I need to understand, accept and remember. That I cannot run from myself. And that anxiety can, and will, always be created in my head. And be a part of me. No matter where I live. This insight beeing particularly important these days as I am currently packing up a house I've had a lot of anxiety in - to move to a new home - with some part of me hoping I can run before more anxiety comes rolling in... Thinking that this place is where it all started, often forgetting that I have experienced versions of it my whole life. Only this place becoming the symbol of my worst experience with anxiety...yet I guess 🙂🙂🙂 Then overthinking why I would even post this comment. Who cares what I think and is rambling about? Oh well. I'll just post it anyway. Hopefully it reaches you Elyse. Sending a huge Thank you! for charing! Both this and other tough things happening to you. It may sound strange - but I often find it easier to cope with my struggles when I hear someone else going through similar things. Not feeling unique seems to make it...hurt less. Love from a burnt out woman since a few years back - who finally got the privilege to become a mom this year - and therefore is a whole new level of vulnerable 😅❤️

The way you talked about coding is how I feel about my current job. I was in special ed for years and my body and mind couldn't take any more. So I took a drafting class and fell in love. The fact that an engineer can just give me redlines and it's just me and the building model is so liberating. I'm so fortunate that my job is my hyperfocus.

I'm looking forward to reading your book when it's finally published, you write so well :) Though if I'm being realistic, I'll probably listen to you read it as an audio book while I also keep my hands busy crocheting things. I don't even know what my current project is, just making squares to use up my current stash instead of buying even more yarn. My mental health is not so great at the moment. It's very easy for me to get into this rut where I'm stressed, overwhelmed and not making good choices in my physical health (emotional eating, avoiding leaving the house and exercising, insomnia). Which then affects my mental health, and keeps me in this vicious cycle. Today was meant to be a day where I did things, including yoga in the makeshift studio I've set up in the spare room (i.e. I've put a mat on the floor and put a wax melt thing in there). But the sleeping did not go so well, so I've sat around in my pyjamas feeling like a zombie and snacking. I don't ask anybody for help or support, because my brain has convinced me there is nobody who wants to listen and help me in the way I need to be supported. It's created this reality by spending a lot of time avoiding, isolating, dissociating, or being so clingy/needy that I annoy myself, moving from town to town on temporary teacher contracts, so I haven't had a good chance to establish a strong support base. Writing my thoughts into the comment abyss helps me process my feelings and what steps I need to take now.

You reading about all the memories you and Jonas had together had me in tears. It’s just so sweet and pure and so glad you guys found each other.

The incredibly neat notes in your composition books… 😌😌😌

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

I’m so glad those made your eyeballs happy! Me and my notes are good friends

Elyse, Girl, I see you!! Your journals were very profound. I wasn't that mature at that age, not real sure I am at 38. LOL - You are so right about being strong and independent. I was those things for many reasons. Which did cause problems in my marriage. Once I figured out, I wanted him to want to help me/do things for me, it helped significantly. It took me 7 years (together and 3 years married)..I never said I was a fast learner. LOL - I can still do things for myself, but I express that his acts of service make me feel cared for and I let him do things. I stopped saying "I can do it all by myself" (then get mad when he didn't do things for me). It made total sense. I love the start of the book background. Here is to all the books I have coming in the mail myself. And I already added 4 books last weekend that I purchased locally.

You are the much younger version of me. How is it possible to hear you talk, hear your sense of humor, your self doubt and self admiration, your struggle with ADHA and fear and joy of life and think, that's me! She's me! Luckily you're decades younger and have time to sort out all those parts about you that you are still trying to sort out. I'm in the middle of a mid life crisis after surviving an abusive marriage, Ovarian cancer, a horrible accident leaving me permanently injured, jobless, homeless and trying to rebuild my already fragile life. It seems beyond ridiculous to say that I know I'll be ok. I've made it this far with most of my sanity (not as much of my dignity) intact but, I'm better for having made it to the top of those mountains. I've been working on a Blog that will hopefully inspire women surviving similar circumstances, to be brave and save themselves. The journey is scary, lonely and often painful but, worth the risk if it means freedom of abuse and the opportunity to find yourself again. Thank you for inspiring me. 🤟

I showed my husband what you said about the chiropractor because he has been telling me to go so much and I finally had to ask him to stop suggesting the chiropractor. Today you put my feelings, as to why i cant go back, into words 😂😂😂

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

HAHAHHA I have to say it was incredibly helpful on the “pain radiating within my back” front. But in terms of the “I have no idea how to socialize myself” front, it was my nightmare.

Your videos literally always make me feel better, no matter if I was feeling down or if I was already feeling good.

Wow, your journal entries hit me right in the feels. I have tried journaling, but after a few days I always stop because I feel like I'm not doing it right. I am my own worst critic. I love watching your videos!

i ALWAYS have a song in my head. sometimes its loud and sometimes its just like light background music. but i genuinely constantly have as song in my head. the first 15 seconds of this video are my entire life and i am absolutely living for elyse' josh turner impression.

Love the library wall background idea!!!

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

Yessss!! So excited!

“I don’t even put gas in my own car anymore!” Man can I relate to that! My husband treats me like a princess too! I am SO happy you found your knight in shining armor too! You deserve the absolute best!!!❤❤❤

I would watch a full reading (of what you feel comfortable sharing) of your journals. Your writing is so honest and well written. I love your excitement and want more! 😊

🥹 Wow!! I think this may be one of my favorite videos of yours! The connection between the letter you found from your friend and then the time period in which you found it...then finding the journals with your deepest thoughts and feelings...🥹 I would pay to buy those books and read them maybe over and over like a novel. Your life story..in chapter books!! I know what you're thinking...what??? Who would care about my thoughts and life? But Elyse, we all have those thoughts and feelings at some point. We are all in this walk together. You are not alone. 💖 you really are so loved! It really touched me what your friend wrote you. Such love, encouragement, and support.....Priceless! Your friend is right on! One day at a time...one moment at a time...together with the ones you love and love you. ❤️ Thank you so much for sharing! May the Lord Jesus bless you with His peace that passes all understanding. 💖 with love and high fives from Oklahoma

I bought the blanket pattern because of your video and i call them my pile of "noodles" until it starts to look like a blanket 😭😂 Thank you so much for bringing me some peace and relatability in my anxious times!❤

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

Noodles! I love it! 😂

Love you Elyse. Its fun going back thru old memories so you can be grateful where you're at today! Sometimes it's not so fun but a good lesson instead.

those shelves are PERFECT. what a perfect idea!

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

THANK YOU!

Elyse, you fill my soul with so much joy and comfort and validation. I know we are two different people, but I deeply understand so much of what you say, do, and share with us. I have never found someone who I am so similar to, and you make me feel seen just by being yourself and sharing your humanness. Thank you for being here. Thank you for being you ❤

I've had back issues since I was 15 (I'm in my 30s now), I got myself a posture corrector. It's made of cloth, and it helps you stand/sit up straighter, and I've needed to have my back adjusted less.

I got really consistent about going to the chiropractor every 6 weeks no matter what. I've been where you are and I just finally committed to myself to take better care of myself. I could never do weekly either lol.

I went to the chiropractor for over twenty years and always got temporary relief. Went to a physio therapist for 3 weeks and got permanent relief.

The "why doesn't anyone go to Nebraska" is so relatable 😭

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

I cut out a large portion of footage where I was basically campaigning for Nebraska, specially directed and people who do the booking for tour venues. And then upon further inspection as I began editing, I realized how niche that request (5 minute begging) actually was. Hahahha

Casually crying in my car in starbucks parking lot listening to Elyse Myers share her personal journal entries. That last one got me 😭 thank you for sharing

I’ve never ordered cookies in the middle of the night but I’ve definitely ordered yarn.

I would read your journal like a novel, you are SUCH a beautiful writer. Makes me so excited that you are writing a book!! Already decided I’m buying it the second it comes out

OMG you pronounce Gouda the proper way! That makes me so happy :P Also your journal entries are really well written.

every time I find out something new about you (i.e., lived in Australia, moving from CA to TX, taught yourself how to code in 4 months, owned your own business, etc.) I am always amazed at how much life you have lived for someone so young

I’ve had some issues with my neck after a car accident, while chiropractor was helpful at beginning, it didn’t really start to improve until I started going to a physical therapist that taught me stretches and exercises to do. I would recommend getting a referral from your PCP to PT and trying that instead.

Those journal entries made me want to start writing again. Because look at where you are right now? You made it through that spiral all the way to this moment. Two kids, still married to your best friend.. ❤ i hope you find joy in this ❤

You're such an inspiration, Elyse. I LOVE that I found your channel, its been my greatest KZread discovery in a decade. Thank you

Cabot's Seriously Sharp is my favorite cheddar cheese!! Bar none!

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

I WAS UNPREPARED! IT WAS SO GOOD

*cracks open my own journal from 10 years ago* ❤️

@elyse_myers

Ай бұрын

YES

The chiropractor dilemma is the most relatable thing ever! First of all no, second of all you want me to pay how much every week, third of all I don’t want to keep having the same conversation over and over. 😆

Does anyone else really wanna hear Elyse finish singing the song? I mean, she sings that part so well. 😊

Coming from a 50 yr old gypsy...there are soooo many reasons that we move around so much. Yes, we may be moving away from things, but we may also be trying to move towards things. It's not always a negative reason. I enjoy the adventure and excitement as well. I grew up as an only child with a single mother for the first several years of my life, so maybe moving alot also made it easy for me as an adult. I've felt a mix of judgment and admiration from others. Some people thinking that I was running away or avoiding things (which could be partially true) and those that wished they had the freedom I did, with being single and having no children. No matter the reason, look back on those experiences as what they are...experiences and adventure. Lessons are always learned (even if we don't realize it until later). ♥

Ah man write a book! I’d read the shit out that. The perfect mix of humour and seriousness, vulnerability and confidence x

22:10 hit me like a freight train. Thank you for being so open 🫶🏻

Wow. It continues to amaze me hearing someone recount their experiences and realizing I feel the same way and experience the same things. For a world so vast and full of many different people, in some ways we’re all the same. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences Elyse. I feel less alone. ❤

I had this conversation with my Mom the other day. I can more easily make small talk in social situations where you'll never see the other person again (standing in a line, for example) than make long-lasting friendships because... what do you talk about when you're just getting to know people? It's too much pressure, I usually find an excuse to cancel plans and stay home.

These videos truly feel like spending quality time with a good friend 🤍

That last journal entry 🥺💔 it was so relatable and so heartbreaking all at the same time. Thank you for sharing! This was such an amazing video and I'm so grateful for your existence in this world! Feels like a warm hug, but metaphorical of course because I don't want to make you uncomfortable lol

from the outside yku absolutely have NO reason to be in anyway insecure about ANYTHING because you are soooo talented in so many ways. so intelligent, creativ, smart, funny, wise and inspiring. anytime i watch you it reminds me to live more for me and follow my hobbies and talents. bring them more to the surface. i m, like you, interested in EVERYTHING 😅you are truly an awsome human. thank you!!❤ KEEP GOING

Elyse..I’m sure you've heard this many times. BUT. You 100% should write a book. The way your words describe your feelings..ugh it is so impactful..and relatable. You are amazing. Never stop being YOU♥

Your journals are so beautifully written. I think you’re working on a book, or maybe I dreamt that, but if not you def should!

I saved this video to watch it when I needed some peace and I’m so glad I did. I’m so encouraged by you, specially the way you approach new experiences, even when they’re scary. It’s really made me try to change the way I face my own challenges-thank you so much 💜

"The relief I feel to give myself permission to not leave my house." Boy am I familiar with that feeling. I love it when plans fall through and I can stay home and not feel guilty about it. High five!!

Those bookshelves are wonderful! It is great you have so many old journals to look back on! The letter from your friend was so sweet!

I've watched lots of your videos and I think you're so good at telling stories. You're hilarious!! I identify with a lot of things you've talked about too. So I just wanted to say thank you for sharing your life. There have been times when your words have helped me. Also, I think it's cool you're learning Spanish. I'm English but have been living in Spain for a long time so I've learnt the language as an adult too!!

I had to watch this a second time as it has so many good nuggets. • Nebraska definitely needs more tours to come through • The note from your friend is beautiful • I ghosted my last chiropractor because I could not handle him asking how work was every week • Rereading your journal can be a beautiful and crazy thing • "I was depressed. I made it. It made me feel better" I appreciate you sharing so much, and I feel like I have found a kindred spirit. Thank you for being you!

Once I gave myself permission to not leave the house only that ended up lasting for several years. Then the country went on lockdown and I was like who's normal now? Then I got out of my house with the rest of the country and go lots of places now just won't go alone though lol

Your writing is so beautiful. I’d read a book by you any day!!

Those words of being too independent and also afraid that it will stand in the way of letting people in… my every day fear and thought ❤❤❤❤❤