Parents really just throw away their own blood. OP wasnt even a bad person and they threw him away.

@junbun3642

6 ай бұрын

Blood doesn’t mean anything. Only stupid people use blood as an excuse. Family is loyalty and respect.

@A-Warthog-cc1wm

6 ай бұрын

@@junbun3642and you’re telling me that the cheating bitch has more respect and loyalty than OP?

@Slendi_mans

6 ай бұрын

@@junbun3642👏👏👏

@l-l-l-l-l-l-l

6 ай бұрын

Pretty sure his mom cheated on his dad too and thats why she was hell bent on him forgiving the cheater. Just like his pathetic dad might've did

@Slendi_mans

6 ай бұрын

@@bradstical86They didn’t say op deserved what happen to him. Just saying that family isn’t about being blood related and this story shows that this is true.

The fact that she did it while drunk means that she always wanted to do cheat, and the alcohol just gave her the push she needed. And the usual cheater excuses just prove it further.

@chessieray1465

6 ай бұрын

It is called liquid courage for a reason 🤌

@tesla6938

6 ай бұрын

while i do agree she wanted to cheat, you’re wrong in that just cause you do something drunk it means you wanted to sober, it’s just untrue

@shadowmaster335

6 ай бұрын

@@tesla6938 it is a proven fact that any kind of substance, be it drugs or alcohol, if consumed at large enough quantities will lower your inhibitions, you know what inhibitions do?, they prevent us (most of the time atleast) from acting on what we wanna do, there is a reason ppl say "a drunk person is a true person"

@boblee7998

6 ай бұрын

Ur exactly right. And the second reply is absolutely wrong. One hudred percent if they said it drunk they wanted it while sober.

@boblee7998

6 ай бұрын

Funny how ppl wanna defend cheaters. And i bet if we checked ots other cheaters trying to protect eachother. Glad he got out. He deserves better

Somehow, I find the parents even more disgusting than the cheater, especially the mother. Anyone who chooses the cheating ex over their own child is a vile, repulsive piece of garbage.

@boblee7998

6 ай бұрын

They both pretty disgusting

@lyntonfleming

6 ай бұрын

That's because it is. Parents are supposed to be there for you, unconditionally. To have them then turn around and support the person who stabbed you in the back, while making you out to be the bad guy? That's just... There aren't words for it. No word can fully express what kind of person that makes you. There's probably some long german phrase for it, though, so if anyone here speaks german, give us the phrase and a rough translation, thanks!

@jamegumb7298

6 ай бұрын

Ah it happens. My mother did as well. My mother cheated on literally everyone she was ever with. OP better watch that mother. Maybe a DNA test. So my mother made sure to invite my ex over all the time, keep sending her a new number all the time. Because and I quote "you do not leave a woman just because she gets bigger and better dick on the side füccin feggut". So then mom invited my ex for Christmas, I ignored, then surprise surprise she invited my ex' sidepiece. Called me names for doing nothing "a man would act" then when I did do something"a man would not act" then testify against me to make sure I got jail time. Then get mad because"a man would keep paying my rent".

@wandRng

6 ай бұрын

Wouldn't doubt if the mom herself had cheated at some point and that's how she was able to sleep at night-it was just a mistake, blah blah blah

@steeleMs

6 ай бұрын

​@b1h79 I was about to say the same thing. If the son would forgive the wife then it's the same as mother being forgiven by father

Is anyone surprised that the mom supported the cheater cause she was a cheater herself

@kumikor3392

6 ай бұрын

Immediately😂😂😂 no one supports more than a person who relates

@travisstanley4469

4 ай бұрын

Exactly....that's why the dad was a push over...cause the mom was a toxic overbearing cheater the whole time and beat him into submission

@dokuganryu1565

4 ай бұрын

Birds of a feather

@LucM17

2 ай бұрын

I wasn’t. I thought that at start

People need to quit interpreting someone leaving because of cheating as throwing in the towel. Cheating is a deal breaker for some and it'd be best to leave with as much dignity and self-respect as possible. Why even try to work it out when the paranoia is always gonna be in your ear from the broken trust?

@shadowmaster335

6 ай бұрын

yup, and for the love of god, seek a therapist for it, i havn't and every relationship i start i have the thought in my head from day one that "ohh she's gonna cheat on me most likely"

@rubykila2695

5 ай бұрын

Ex was really angry when she tough OP was cheating, until she was confronted with the reality that SHE was the cheater... you were ready to scorche that man for daring to put his penis in some other woman, when she was more wide open than the world wide web

@watermia

5 ай бұрын

Who is it NOT a deal-breaker for???

@krisd1996

5 ай бұрын

The person who cheated threw in the towel.

@TeeAiDee

5 ай бұрын

Straight up, even Jesus Christ permitted divorce due to unfaithfulness.

I'm glad OP didn't inherit his Dad's pool noodle of a spine

@Genburthing

4 ай бұрын

Well, we dont know if he is his child to begin with

@dacoop

3 ай бұрын

​@@Genburthing my thoughts exactly!

@divyanshsahai

Ай бұрын

@@Genburthingi thought the same. Sounds to me the mom must have cheated too and that’s why she is taking the side of the whore🤮

Why do people get mad at the victim for not giving the cheater another chance and then are shocked when the victim never wants to do anything with said supporter.

@Kevin7557

4 ай бұрын

I just assume because they cheated or took a cheater back. If more people directly accused cheater defenders of cheating, less would defend cheaters.

@denverarchdekin738

18 күн бұрын

I think it’s out of pity because in the end I pity all these people it’s a stupid mistake leading to the collapse of entire family’s what a sad world we live in these days

Her saying she is good at keeping secrets.. I bet she is and has cheated with someone else before or at least tried to. Also he only said he wouldn’t do anything with her because he knows you’d beat him up lol no doubt if you was weak like him and he knew you wouldn’t do a thing to him then he’d have gone for it and said yes

@rhiarebecca2000

6 ай бұрын

No good parent would take the side of someone who’s betrayed their own child, perhaps if you’d been abusing her then fair enough but no you hadn’t been so your mum had no reason to be siding with her and being so nice to her

@shadowmaster335

6 ай бұрын

@@rhiarebecca2000 trauma bonding is one hell of a thing, and my first thought in these cases are "what you wanna bet the parent that defends the cheater is a cheater themselves"

@Kevin7557

4 ай бұрын

Correct. By the end he found out someone saw her cheating before.

Only thing missing would be to tell his mom that she chose her dead daughter over her living son. I know, that is an a-hole move, but it is true.

@shadowmaster335

6 ай бұрын

i would've gone one step further and said "have fun with your fake daughter, now you can consider yourself the mother of 2 stillborns, cuz i am dead to you now"

@Maninawig

6 ай бұрын

@@shadowmaster335 that is dark

@shadowmaster335

6 ай бұрын

@@Maninawig well, i am a vindictive person and will go above and beyond to inflict as much hurt as i felt

@plsguidemethroughtheabyssmona

5 ай бұрын

Print these out and mail to mommy

@buncotton9669

4 ай бұрын

@@shadowmaster335 what a mood. You are my inspiration ❤️

He’s a spurs fan, he has suffered enough

@ai_d_in

6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@Sim0nphoenix

6 ай бұрын

It was even a Spurs football game!

@Sim0nphoenix

6 ай бұрын

@@Redesign24 Maybe should a said Hotspurs then. No need to be a douche.

@Sim0nphoenix

6 ай бұрын

@@Redesign24 see, you just can't help being a twat, can you?

@Sim0nphoenix

6 ай бұрын

@@Redesign24 If your intent was to inform, you would just pass on the information and I would be enlightened. But that wasn't your intent. It was to belittle so you could feel superior.

I can't with these idiots saying he didn't try to save the marriage. That was not his job. You break my trust, you're out of my life. Your disloyalty is not my problem to fix.

@eunicewilliams3

2 ай бұрын

Exacly thats how im

"I don't want things to change and deal with the pain of it, and I don't care about how much I have to hurt you to make that happen." -the mother

"Drunken rambling often is taken as sober thoughts." I remember someone said that a while ago either in a comment or Reddit.

@boblee7998

6 ай бұрын

En vino Veritas. In wine is truth

@boblee7998

6 ай бұрын

-doc holiday

@chinaking918

6 ай бұрын

The way my family say it “a drunk mouth speaks sober thoughts”.

These stories lowkey therapeutic as if I went trough a divorce and learned from my mistakes and now grew stronger 😭😭💀

@PRAIRIEGH0ST

6 ай бұрын

ikr ive had such a bad time with them... watching these videos where the guy just pushes his boulder feels weirdly healthy

@chinaking918

6 ай бұрын

Ngl it gives a lot to look out for. Swear I be spotting bs from a mile away after all this I’ve been through reading these stories 😂😂😂

@asnalem4391

5 ай бұрын

A very useful tip I've learned is f trying to be decent and not air out their infidelity to avoid drama because very often they will try to downplay it to friends and family, or even worse turn people against you and make it seem you are lying about the infidelity to make yourself look better.

Imagine calling someone intitled because they expect their _own_ _parents_ to be on their side, about a cheating wife, and that the house would go to him instead of her.... Like????

The ones who criticized OP sound like cheaters themselves or suckers who were cheated on.

Mom's a pro cheater, sho she'd rather mentor the younger ones than throw her out

@FlamesAndShadows

6 ай бұрын

Now you make me wonder if dad's apathy (can't throw stones and rock the boat if he stayed in now semi-stable marriage with a cheater as well for so long) and noodle spine is the result of what she wants to help her DIL with.

"The hardest choices require the strongest will."

@tzvidinoberlinberlin4629

6 ай бұрын

And the strongest wills being to the strongest warriors.

Heard this one before over in SSM.. Good story, well handled by the betrayed spouse

@donp7618

6 ай бұрын

Yeup

What I don’t understand is how people have told OP that he “threw in the towel too early” too early? Okay then people who have told OP that crap- WHEN IS TOO LATE?! Seriously anyone who says that crap to anyone who has been cheated on is just sick. You loved someone the partner cheated that SCREAMS VOLUMES on their part of the love! NOTHING! I’d rather throw in the towel as soon as I saw the person I was with cheated on me. Why would you tell someone who was betrayed so badly that they “divorced too early” yea and when is too late? OP deserves someone better.

"I don't miss her, I miss who she was" That hit me hard... I know the feeling.

The day my parents side with a cheating ex is the day I’m an orphan for all intents and purposes.

@frantheman1287

5 ай бұрын

Agreed! OP is living out every child's worst nightmare. Your parents picking someone else, a cheater of all things, over their own child.

Feels like mother was a cheater too, that’s the only reason to go against your own blood and support the cheater.

of course, its the spurs fan being depressed, not winning in life as well any Trophies.

@rzmck1

6 ай бұрын

im sorry you are so lonely and sexless that you felt the need to say that

@leonidas0242

6 ай бұрын

😂😂😂 "It's the history of the Tottenham."

How much you want to bet OP's mom is also cheating on his dad?

IN CASE YOU DIDNT KNOW, on iPhone if you go on messages, then on the top left it says edit, once u clicked that, click “show recently deleted” and there you go.

He should've gone NC with the parents after not having his back for divorcing his 304 wife. Its so funny how ah acted after he told her he was walking away, now she wants to work on the marriage, a classic from the hoe bag handbook.

@frankocuac493

6 ай бұрын

what 304 means?

@dimsufferer9951

6 ай бұрын

@@frankocuac493ho e

@roevhaal578

4 ай бұрын

@@frankocuac493 it spells hoe if you turn it upside down

@TheGosgosh

4 ай бұрын

@@frankocuac4933 holes on all 4s (so basically calling her someone who’s constantly down on her knees, using her holes as service for multiple men) There’s also „gardening tool“ (h0e) „she is for the streets“ (purchasable love) You’ll come across such terms when reading stories about women cheating

@glintspark7748

2 ай бұрын

@@frankocuac493woman of the night, frequent bed bandit, a honey who gets funny for a bit of money.

OP is a better person, I'm quick to cut ties with people so I would've sent ALL the text of cheating to my parents and tell them to never talk to me again.

How quickly she was to except it after she signed the papers, shows exactly what kind of person she is. She didnt love him she loved the stability that he provided her, she was so quick to except when everything was done because she knew she couldnt take advantage anymore.

The mother is trying to strong arm the son into forgiving the cheating wife because she is likely a cheater herself.

First. The minecraft player isn't good, probably the worst one yet. Missing easy jumps. As for the story, the parents are trash along with the now ex.

@primeeditor8164

6 ай бұрын

exactly

While i agree with op. It is true that lie detectors are almost as ineffective as flipping a coin. I would never agree to a lie detector test no matter how truthful i am. So she is right on that.

@dankolaska4277

6 ай бұрын

Just asking her the question and her trying to renege on it was likely enough to tell him that she knows shes not being truthful.

@chriscormac231

6 ай бұрын

Even the creator of the lie detector during the Black Daliah case said the thing didn't work

@verygooddeal4436

6 ай бұрын

@@dankolaska4277 why did you even comment when you completely ignored the point of that reply

@fungithefungi3331

6 ай бұрын

@@chriscormac231 i've read that somewhere too, it is widely used as a scare tactic to lure out confesions. Theres some show that is also on KZread that uses lie detectors to figure out who cheated and so fourth on already destroyed relationships, its my most common example of a situation where i think it shouldnt be allowed to disable KZread comments.

@FlamesAndShadows

6 ай бұрын

There is always a chance she was sloppy while googling 'how to work around a lie detector'. I would've took the computer there and then, just in case, before it might be fixed

Imagine giving birth to someone knowing you'll throw him away over some asshole that betrayed him

“Nothing I saw really leaned towards her cheating” You mean other than flirting with another man and asking for sex? Yeah totally nothing to see.

Cheaters NEVER change I knew my ex WAS a cheater I ended up with a stepdaughter 1 month younger than my oldest son

Some people just don’t deserve the right of having children or being called a parent.

Lots of stuff here just..messed up. His wife would even message the jacket dude begging him for that type of stuff already ruined everything. The friend started it with his wife and already screwed up too. And his mother is taking his wife's side acting like that's her own daughter? Bruh, you have a SON, she's not your daughter! You're gonna take a cheating woman's side over your own blood who didn't do anything wrong or be unfaithful? It's unbelievable...

I understand OP, cheating for me too is an absolute mood destroyer, form loving to feeling nothing. how can you love someone that clearly doesn't love you? why would you want to fix things if there is no trust left? I too rather brake everything up to not waste my time anylonger with someone that is not worth that effort, Op's parents made their bed, one by actions the other by inactions.

Ok but what I really want to know is what happened with his leg. Like did he just wait there for 2 hours? Or did he get there some other way? Can't just leave us hanging like that without any answers

I would have cut the ties completely if my parents did something like this they can keep their own inheritance

I love how every reddit author themselves were the picture perfect spouse 😂 i never feel like these stories are legit.

Just the thought of my wife doing anything remotely like this scares me so much. 22:01

If OP sees this then don’t transfer ownership of the home. It’s better for your parents to put it in their will which will save you money in the future

I wonder what the mother's reaction would have been if he had been the cheater.

OP should have looked mom in the eyes and ask " Honestly if you were in my situation would you be doing what you are telling me to do? If you remotely believe that you would follow your own advice then maybe you didn't raise me right because i can't comprehend why you are against me"

Dads a doormat who got cheated on. Glad he raised a son with a backbone

It's insulting how people think chatting to someone other than your partner isn't cheating. When it really is... the fact that you're thinking about it enough to put your thoughts out in a chat to that someone means you've committed to doing it at some point.

Good stuff OP. Well dealt with. Can't have been easy with seamingly the world against you.

I hate when people say you give up too easily on cheaters as if they didn’t give up easily on the relationship first. They felt the need to seek another person without talking to their partner with any problems they might have had. It’s not OPs job to fix this relationship. If she cared she wouldn’t have tried to eff someone else.

@frantheman1287

5 ай бұрын

I agree. Cheating in my opinion is an instant cause for a relationship to end. No and's, if's, or but's about it.

Props to the dog walkers

People who called him spoiled honestly f them

Breaking trust takes a lot longer to heal than a broken Rist

Well, I Brando listened to over thirty, and you are right. Thanks for telling me to. It's life, it's confusing, but this really put it in perspective. I can't get married now. There is no way I can trust a woman now. Even if she is really perfect, it's just a mask. Thanks. Thanks to all the op's, thanks to the dude who types it up for ai to read. Thanks Brando. 20 years and you have only given me the best advice, seriously, I'll take a bullet for ya any day of the year. Thank you all.

My mother always wanted a daughter and didn’t get one. Stories like this scare me. I have a nasty feeling my mother would not disown her son’s cheating spouse like in this story, and it sometimes gives me anxiety about dating and marriage.

after waching these made me understand why Jedi had no attachments

0:13 the spurs football game😂

Average spurs fan bottling the marriage 😭😭

This dude struggling so much at Minecraft

spurs??? horrid team mate, go for yanitee

Ya know, I keep hearing these stories but no one's first thought (at least they'd admit to) involves the number 32 and a glove that doesn't fit.

I have no Sympathy for my friend's mom and I'm really glad her dad kicked her mom out. For the past 8 months her mom is been cheating on her dad. Mostly he had to cancle 6 family trip, miss my friend's birthday and her dad's birthday, and miss date nights and outings. It was becoming more obvious until her aunt saw her mom kissing a guy at a steakhouse. Then one day she told my friend's dad she been cheating on him for 4 months. Her SIL called out her lying and told her the dad it was 8 months not 4 months. Well 2 weeks later he divorced her and kicked her out since it was his house. My friend cut contact from her mom because her mom didn't want custody of her she said it was fine because SIL more of a mom than her. That left her mom shocked I wasn't suprised because it's true she never asked my friend how was her day or what was happening in her life. Treated her like a chore it's been 10 years and calls her mom by her first name and treats her like a stranger.

If someone cheats once they will do it again 26:00

11 years? I don’t want to be negative but I find it extremely hard to believe this was the 1 and only time something like this happened.. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 10 years and we’ve definitely had our problems but the thought of even texting another guy behind his back repulses me.. also kind of weird she drank 2 bottles of wine alone?

The spurs football game? Huh? The Spurs a basketball team playing football? What?

You lost me at Spurs football game! 😂😅

we gonna talk about 20:13-20:32?

@Trinexx42

6 ай бұрын

I saw that and had to go back and watch it again. LMFAO

They made there beds they can lay in it

“The spurs football game” tf

Honestly I would have disowned my parents too I couldn't deal with people like that that sit there and back up the person that cheats and the fact that the mother won't get it I will sleep she needs to understand she's picking someone that's not her daughter over her son

@frantheman1287

5 ай бұрын

Birds of a feather, flock together. The mom also cheated and is hoping that her son is just as much a pushover as her husband, so she can continue living with the daughter she lost and never got over.

Feels fake 👍

I already don't like OP. Some guy you don't even say is your friend was supposed to fight for you in high school? Absolutely not.

I swear to hell i hate people of reddit sometimes. Their opinion are so fucking warped that it makes my blood boil. How the hell are they blaming this guy!?

The wife probably gets a new man much sooner and rarely , if ever thinks about him

I’m surprised that nobody brought this up but ur mom’s probably a cheater too. And the timid father probably enabled it. That’s probably why she doesn’t see what your wife did as something wrong

Do it for DAN!

The Spurs football game? I’m already done with this story. Can’t believe anything after that😂

@richmccann2052

5 ай бұрын

He is most likely in England and watching the Tottenham Spurs soccer team.

If i was op i would breakdown cause my mom is in hosptial

Are these AI stories? WTF does he mean the Spurs football game?

@ireadfanficsforcomfortandn2534

2 ай бұрын

It’s a football club from what I know

the spurs are basketball not football🤦‍♀️

0:45 They are inaccurate though.

Anyone wonder if ops mom cheated in the past? Why would she side with someone who betrayed her son

North London forever

I want an update on the sister who bf ghosted her for her older sister and everyone is treating her like crap and wants the grandmother air loom

OP'S mom sure ain't helping the whole boomers suck stereotype

"Every morsel of love I felt for her dissipate into the atmosphere" also, "...it took over every permutations out of the equation..." LOL. Nice AI writing there.

Defo deserved it, he’s a spurs fan😂😂

I have one thing to say about him being a spurs fan Wompidy Womp Womp

Isn't this a repost or is this a really similar story you posted because I swear I heard this on your acc

@tolkienblack

6 ай бұрын

It has to be the same story. I definitely heard this before

I’m interested in how whoever’s playing Minecraft failed the melon part 3 rimes 20:08

He was watching The Spurs football game 🤔 🧐 I live in San Antonio and I didn’t know they had a football team 😮😂

@cyn1clcynide

6 ай бұрын

Tottenham Hotspur, it's an English football team (not the American handegg ball mind you)

@kumikor3392

6 ай бұрын

OP mentioned they didn't go out of the country when they were married, and just vacationed to South England. They live in the UK

Your mom cheated on your dad bro and dad knows n accepted it.

0:13 spurs football? Ayo what?

@banespeace9079

6 ай бұрын

@@Redesign24 well duh lol what team is he referring to that's why I said what 😂

Mrs Mommy

Honestly tired of these stories where they say it was the love of their life than immediately say they can't continue with them without any thoughts about it, it obviously wasn't the actual love of their life just someone they did love, but do agree parents were in the wrong supporting ex, but OP shouldn't be dishonest in his initial sayings and his regrets about being with her all along as no one would say that about someone they felt was their true love

This is a 10 min story that's 28 mins long.

what is this 180 he is talking about? can some one explain ?

I am one of those people

talks about mending bridges after the ex leaves but conditions it on the house? I thought he didn't care about it anymore. One sided story with multiple warning signs showing that the OP isn't that great either.

@frantheman1287

5 ай бұрын

Bro had his life nuked by the wife AND basically disowned by his parents. Really can't blame a person for missremembering details. And much like other stories it might also not be real to begin with

Spurs football game

Hang on it takes 2 hours for an ambulance to reach you in the UK? I dont want yall to complain about the united states' healthcare system, at least we get treated. I have never once heard of an ambulance taking 2 hours to get to you, doesnt matter the circumstances.