Caring for Parents: Preparing for the Unexpected | Stephanie Bernal | TEDxSMUWomen

For the first time in history, women have more parents to care for than children. A record number of women are leaving the workforce to care for aging parents, yet few have a financial plan or know what to expect. How can we better plan for the inevitable? This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @faithellis2010
    @faithellis2010 Жыл бұрын

    This talk is easily the best, organic illustration of what it means to confront the most unpleasant reality of your parents' aging and all that it entails. It should have waaaaay more views! I am the sole caregiver to my 93 year mom, and I thank you so very much for putting into words my feelings 🤗🤗🤗

  • @mncedisilolwana3311

    @mncedisilolwana3311

    8 ай бұрын

    I am the sole caregiver to my 93 years old grandma without any support from siblings or relatives.

  • @ExitWORKS
    @ExitWORKS15 күн бұрын

    Thank you Stephanie soooo much❤... I can't begin to tell you at this moment in time...

  • @shantishalom1
    @shantishalom14 ай бұрын

    My mom died when I was four, leaving me and my two sisters navigating a confusing world. Recently I asked my father why they didn't talk about the after if they knew she would die soon of cancer, he answer me, your mother didn't want to talk about it and I was scared. That silence let my uncles take control of their assets, of our custody and defined our lives horribly. I which they would talk about it.

  • @chrislim7976
    @chrislim79762 жыл бұрын

    This is so depressing. I am going through this. I wish everyone well. 😔🙏

  • @mrpapakc

    @mrpapakc

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry, Chris, I hope he/she doesn't suffer long! God bless you and comfort you....

  • @chrislim7976

    @chrislim7976

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mrpapakc I will not be able to handle it. Thanks.

  • @tequilabumbum4373

    @tequilabumbum4373

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@chrislim7976 i hope you are doing well🙏🏽 praying for you

  • @chrislim7976

    @chrislim7976

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@tequilabumbum4373 I am doing better and been more accepting of the situation. Everything has a purpose. I guess it's up to us to see it or not. 🙏

  • @tequilabumbum4373

    @tequilabumbum4373

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@chrislim7976 you are so right and Im so glad to hear that. Its all about our own perception, got to keep positive and keep pushing. Remember to take care of yourself first 🤍 all the best

  • @bebeclark8836
    @bebeclark88362 жыл бұрын

    This really helped me. Thank you.

  • @fleshpuppet2679
    @fleshpuppet26792 жыл бұрын

    You're awesome Lady,thank God your parents gave birth to their "diamond"wish you the best of health!!RIP Dad.

  • @arisurfin
    @arisurfin2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this.

  • @michellec2899
    @michellec28992 жыл бұрын

    BEAUTIFUL!

  • @nnyabeezknesz4356
    @nnyabeezknesz4356 Жыл бұрын

    🙏🙏

  • @luciinbrazil1128
    @luciinbrazil1128 Жыл бұрын

    and the BOOK IS... WHERE???

  • @cpmooremusic
    @cpmooremusic Жыл бұрын

    Much needed & so helpful! Enjoy my great Mother's words at: Josephine Moore Words of comfort & wisdom, at Chris Phally channel.. Carried by the angels, What God has Prepared, Prayer and Phally, Let God Supply....

  • @catherinemuniz4837
    @catherinemuniz48372 жыл бұрын

    P

  • @mohiniwagh8234
    @mohiniwagh8234 Жыл бұрын

    pay

  • @toniwillis3957

    @toniwillis3957

    Жыл бұрын

    I saw your comment...."pay". How in the world? Take out a loan? If you have to leave your job, what would be the alternative? Cause most of the time we are at our wits end to pay it forward for the funerals.

  • @uu119816
    @uu1198163 жыл бұрын

    Why is this a gendered issue?

  • @edwardpiper5476
    @edwardpiper5476 Жыл бұрын

    Interesting personal story, but very little practical advice for how to "prepare for the unexpected." Ultimately, this was a waste of my time :(

  • @katyamcphail3668
    @katyamcphail366810 ай бұрын

    Think the presenter is very nervous trying to make the talk a bit more interesting/fun? Everyone has their own challenges so this wasn’t relatable at all for me, waste of my time