Can Women Really Have It All -- Pastor Sarah Jakes Roberts & Pastor Cora Jakes
That’s the question we often ask ourselves, but this month we’re challenging ourselves to define what “having it all” really means.
During Part I of our fall vlog series, we sit down for a candid conversation with Pastors Cora Jakes Coleman and Sarah Jakes Roberts to unpack our desire to have it all and get their life-lived insights on how to be content in every stage of our lives.
What does having it all look like for you in this season? Pastor Sarah eloquently explains:
“‘All’ changes as the stages of your life change, your needs develop, and your gifts and talents emerge. Having it all shifts and changes, and I think that if we are not careful, we will be guilty of wanting someone else’s ‘all’ because we didn’t take time to consider what our ‘all’ is."
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I really enjoy watching them. They’re being sisters, having a conversation as sisters and it’s great to see. My sister and I are like this and it’s wonderful. I don’t call her much because I work 2 jobs and get home after 8 pm. And because when we get on the phone it’s at least 6 hours which would put my bed time past midnight. She’s my best friend (actually my only real friend). I think I’m going to call her tonight!!
Im so grateful to see the human side of ministry ❣️
@shuronicarowe
2 жыл бұрын
Yeeesssssssssssssssss
I need a Cora Jakes Coleman coaching me. Lord Jesus. Thank you for this conversation. Love you Sarah Jakes - keep it 100.
@MsLi-ef1xp
2 жыл бұрын
me too! Where is the sign up ! lol
@empressunicorn5617
2 жыл бұрын
Girl. Yall are so annoying. God is greater . I would not want any of them coaching me
I so wish I had a sister, and prayerfully have a wonderful relationship like these two who are filled with so much wisdom. I enjoyed listening in on all they shared, and Cora you're the splitting image of your poppa ☺
I FEEL LIKE BEING CONTENT IN YOUR RIGHT NOW WILL HELP YOU ACCEPT YOUR TOMORROW THAT JUST CAME UP IN MY SPIRIT
@jonathansteve7730
2 жыл бұрын
Hello
As I’m watching the 2 of you talk to each other, I’m reminded of the book that your dad wrote “Daddy loves His Girls.” Images of how he described the 2 of you as children (each of your personalities, funny stories, etc.) come to mind. And then seeing the 2 of you interact w each other now as adults, married with children, loving the Lord and ministering to us women- it’s just so beautiful! It’s like a full circle moment that I get the privilege of witnessing despite never actually meeting your family! Thank you both for sharing your lives with us!!🌟♥️
@jonathansteve7730
2 жыл бұрын
Hello
I think everyone has their own paths Pst Sarah and if am given your path I may never be able to pull through,that was designed by the Lord for you and I have mine.You went to through a divorce I went through widowhood 7 months ago and that is my tear that left a stain on my cheek,,and I have accepted my path and I wait for recompense.I continue to walk my path as it is written in Psalm 139:16.
Whew!! You can’t have the promise without the process. A WHOLE WORD!! 🙌🏾
Cora is so wise and I love the humour you Both have and the unity ..✍🏽🙏🏽🧡🧡🧡🧡
"I know better what I need and what I want because I practiced during singlehood." SJR It made a lot of sense SJR!!! I get it!!!
Being Inspired by someone is different from comparing yourself and condemning ourselves. Inspiration can motivate us to do better and reach higher!!
I Love And Need This Sisterhood ♥️💯
I have to agree with Cora on this one, yeah to desire someone else life is to deny yourself and your own lessons that God has for you also you don't know what going own with everybody.
Hey SISTERS!!! I can not hardlY wait to see you guys!! Blessings to YALL!!!
Sisters...my take-a-way. Update my atmosphere; self examination and soul care. Beautiful! Real soulful talk. Becoming better. God bless you two.❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽
It's OK TO BE INSPIRED BY OTHERS BUT NEVER COMPARE EVER. YOU ARE SO AWESOME ❤🌺❤🤗
I don't know what's is feels like to have a sister love, I do admire the bond that they share with each other's , charity begins from home, train up the child in the way they should go, sister love soul sister loving and bouncing off each other positive, positive energy speaking about thier true lives stories, may they get strong and strong, with the divine protector,blessing and guiding them, I feel the peace between them. Go sister go sister, soul sister soul, the inner beauty that you send out is connected and contagious, be your true self you know your true worth.💚💛💝🙏
@jonathansteve7730
2 жыл бұрын
That's such a deep emotional words
@jonathansteve7730
2 жыл бұрын
Hello
This is such a poignant and amazing discussion, especially for those seeking marriage and currently learning to embrace all aspects of single hood - and how single hood lessons are applicable in married life!! Absolute jewels!! Bless you, Queens!!
@kimhogan2266
2 жыл бұрын
This is The Truth about Life.
Wow this is so powerful, help me Lord.
Preach Sister Cora! I agree you can't just take the good you have to take the whole story. I understood what they both were trying to say but Cora is right! Amen!
Accepting where you are in your journey is experiencing God's peace! Such a timely message.
I ❤️❤️these 2 women! Cora “ now thats that Raggedy 🤣🤣living!! I love their transparency & humor but also their 🙏🏾teachings!
@jonathansteve7730
2 жыл бұрын
Hello
All =The desires of our hearts. When our ways please the Lord, He will give us the desires of our heart. This varies based on each of our needs/desires for our lives. We must get it from and through the Lord!!! Seek God for our All!!!
"It's okay... it's not my time" SJR. Great point SJR we have to be careful to focus on cultivating contentment in Christ not on any form of comparison.
@PSALMSOFSONGS
2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely Queen. 💯
Cora you are so correct. People put what they want you to see on social media. There might be a lot more going on that they don't show.
Women can have it all but it’s better to have all that God has specifically for us and that’s different for each woman.
This was a great conversation. I agree with Cora. You don’t know the internal warfare people go through for the anointing that you see. But I hear you Sara we need to learn acceptance with who we are called to be in Him, that’s the only way to to authenticity and finding our unique greatness in the Kingdom. Contentment is the fruit of faith and acceptance, the reward of working your lane, diligently as unto the Lord and no longer trying to swerve into someone else’s lane. 💡🕊📖
Thank you "Women are suffering far more than men during this time" The women who are supporting family, business, ect. We men need to step up and do more to show we are seeing this truth and doing all we can to help bring understanding into our world. Blessings.
You can’t take the good pages out of the book without taking the whole book💯 I love this! Also I use to dislike when people told me it wasn’t my time, and then I had to realize i have to enjoy the time in. God gave me gifts I haven’t fully cherished yet and if he was to give me what I want, would I be able to handle it.
Love this Ladies talking openly about Singleness before Marriage. Amen
@jonathansteve7730
2 жыл бұрын
Hello Teresa
I hope to see more of these chats. I needed this good ole girl chat after a long week. Keep em coming 🤍🤍🤍
@jonathansteve7730
2 жыл бұрын
Hello
Your right Sarah cuz I wish my son was still here in the flesh .He passed at age 6 . He would be 17 this year. The right perspective is everything and Cora, your right everyone won't post what they don't want us to see. Who wants to take pics while their depressed etc I am learning not to compare too. You both have great points . It made me think would someone want a kid so bad that they are willing to have one knowing they may only live 6 years or less like my did. I am thankful for the 6 years I had with him. Although that last year was so hard but it wasn't all bad Especially as a single divorced mom. There were so many blessings in it all. My son was such a blessing
@Dr.J1972
2 жыл бұрын
Praying that God continues to strengthen you.
@lebomuchmoney7886
2 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss
@Jesus_Reigns383
2 жыл бұрын
I so relate to what you have said about your child…. My son died at 13yrs old & I knew he was terminal for 8 yrs. one thing my son told me that I carry in my heart is….mom..you don’t want heaven to be all old people. He was sooo correct. I Love children & look forward to working in the nursery in heaven. Other mothers & myself were surprised how accepting our kids were about heaven & dying. Children readily believe in God & Jesus. It’s a beautiful part of life I would have never experienced otherwise. I fully believe in heaven as one result of what I went through as well as a very deep trust in Jesus.
@patrynaswritings7617
2 жыл бұрын
@@Dr.J1972 Thanks so much. I appreciate it. God bless you.
@patrynaswritings7617
2 жыл бұрын
@@lebomuchmoney7886 Thank you beloveth. I appreciate it. May God bless you
The process, can't be skipped when comparing... Love this conversation their having, lol ❤😊👍🏼
I don't have any friends or women to get advise from n these I cherish so much thank you
Peace ! That passes understanding.
Faith and contentment = acceptance
Jesus!!! If you're gonna gonna compare with someone else, and want THEIR promise...you have to take THEIR process too! My GOD! A smile may come with loss, guilt, shame, defeat, trauma, net loss, ...whew
Thank you Father for leading me here and for what I need for THIS day.
Cora, you had me cracking us😆. I can listen to the two of you for a long time.
"Put your phone down!" This is such a sibling conversation loooooooooolllllllll! Love it!
Love this interaction between sisters💜Very helpful words of wisdom and experience. Thank you both Pastor Cora, Pastor Sarah. Blessings to you both💜💜
THISSSSSSSSSSSSS was GOOD, all of it.
Yes, it is what we perceive "All" to be.
@lovefelix1566
2 жыл бұрын
True
YESSSS!!! Come through family 💞💞💞
I love you Sara jakes… god knew we needed your character in this life journey. Everything you speak speaking to my heart❤️
Self Care and Soul Care
This is so amazing…many important nuggets. I have saved this to watch again and again. Many books can come from this to inspire women. I would love to sit in a room with you both and/or women of faith to have these conversations. It is so uplifting as I am feeling challenged in various areas of my life. I am grateful for you women of God.
This was so good. I love the real sister banter. When Sarah started whispering " I can do all things through Christ..." I fell out 😂😂 I needed all of this: the wisdom, the laughter, etc.
So many powerful gems in this conversation. Thank you Queens 🌻 May your "All" be supplied unto you in Jesus' Name, Amen 🙏
I really understand coras point about comparison. No one’s life is all perfect and the things that I can’t see is what they have been graced to conquer. it doesn’t mean l don’t appreciate their life I may even pray for similar things that God allowed me to see. But I didn’t have their upbringing. I didn’t grow in their neighbourhood so it’s unfair to myself to compare myself with anyone.
@jonathansteve7730
2 жыл бұрын
You just perfect the way you are
@jonathansteve7730
2 жыл бұрын
Hello
Yes thank you God for faith, contentment, exceptance!! What God has 4 Me it is just 4 me!!.... love you Sarah 🥰🙏🙏
Thank you.... Pastor Cora ..... I love you guys I love the real in you....
I love what you said about comparing your life to others Cora ThankYou!
I am so blessed to.listen to you girls!! Bless Lord who allowed to fall on this video.
Too many woman are sacrificing without gain 👏🏾
Love God's people ♥
I understand and agree with Cora. Very, very instructructive conversation between two sisters. Tears into purpose.
Beautiful, enjoyed these two Godly sister's conversation. What a perspective ❤🤗
Thank you Lord for my sister's! Love you ❤️!!
You cant have the promise without the process....that is so good 👍
Wow😯 Past. S. J. Roberts, you nailed it for me: marry out of need vs. want after a divorce. You made perfect sense to me. I can relate to you wholeheartedly😘🙏🏿🇭🇹
@elueparleroi8661
2 жыл бұрын
🇭🇹🙏🏾❤️ too
Thoroughly enjoyed this conversation and Sarah, everything you said made perfect sense. I’m in my dating myself after divorce stage and relate so well with your prospective. Spent too much time validating and completing my ex and realized I was depleted my ownself
I put time aside time and enjoyed every word discussed. It was great conversation, and I gained a greater insight of processing your life. I can be their grandmother. 😌 I love them and their parents. 💕 Cora and Sarah, conversation with my sister is AWESOME. 💕
God has chosen our destiny! Faith it and endure the process he has for you.!
Amen I want to have it all Father God
Word!!!!
Thankful for mentioning mental health. I can have it all self love. That's what having all means to me. Protecting me in this time. Women of God you both are head on.
Hallelujah amen glory to God jesus is lord
Thank you Pastor Cora ❣️
This is deep but a healing chat
Thats exactly what Cora is saying. I love you both... Cora is on point exactly. This is so good and healthy and real. ❤ both powerful women of God!
WOW! This is for me and really me How I needed to hear this Ladies you Rock Keep up the good work You saved my life You’ve rescued me heeeyyyy
Jesus is your free gift to heaven when you believe in his death, burial and resurrection you are immediately saved
HAHA! HELP THE PEOPLE! We set unrealistic expectations via comparisons. "Oprah, HOW did you get THAT deal and NOT me?" Beyonce, WHY did you call Tiffany and NOT me. I love Sarah's transparency because we toil in our hearts with such questions, EVEN as Christians and try to suppress them and it leads to depression.
Awesome! Powerful!
"I want the Instagram post....not their story...You can't have the promise without the process" CJC... Whew!!!!! Preach!!!
Good morning God bless you Pastor Sarah Jakes
Preach Sara Jakes Robert’s!!🙌🏾🙌🏾
Love them so wise and funny 😄
Love this dialogue!❤️💕
Grace & Peace Pastors
You two are a match made in Heaven. So anointed & intellectual. Cora is more like the big sister though, she has such an old soul filled with so much knowledge. Sarah is my comedian. Love y’all! We need more of this duo. 💞
Powerful
Thank you. This was a phenomenal conversation. Truly Liberating.
Thank you both.
Thank you Pastor Sarah & Pastor Cora. Your conversation was very enlightening & inspiring. You both are truly a light to all women. Continue to share & minister to us . Blessings to you both.
Love Love this! Thanks for inpactful transparent conversations! Phenomenal Women!! May God continue to bless you both abundantly!
Thank you ladies, I really enjoyed this conversation. I witness SO many grown women living their lives in constant comparison and competition with other women.
I agree with Cora!! Take my own process. Someone else process may not be for me.
Powerful thanks blessings 🙏❤️
This was so Awesome 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Cora 😂 I just love u. 💛🌹
God thank you for giving me a listening Ear. I have heard and gained so much knowledge in this conversation. Thank you both for your candid conversation. You ladies are awesome.
Ooooooh!! POWERFUL Sacrificing without gain!!! 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 Amen and STOP comparing ourselves to others. Stay in your own lane. What God has for you is FOR YOU. Date yourself to know yourself!!! We can have it BUT NOT all at the same time; there is a right season for everything. Continued Blessings in allllllll your endeavors beautiful women of destiny.
Thanks So Much.. Love you 2
Powerful !
Loved this conversation between two Beautiful Sisters - received some great nuggets.💜💜
My contentment in my unique process is the miracle 🙌🏾
I agree Sarah. We can’t be skeptical of peoples lives!!! Some are enjoying their marriage, family and most of all a victorious Christian lifestyle!
Cora!!! I only want the promise!