CAN WE AVOID HARAM IN THE 21ST CENTURY? |
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In this podcast, the 3 muslims talk about Haram in today’s society, whether it be haram relationships, addictions, practices and what not. We also talk about haters and dms. We discuss the reality and steps to turn a haram relationship to a halal one (as discussed by other KZreadrs such as nouman ali khan, mufti menk and gabriel al romani alongside others) through marriage, importance and dangers of haram police and how to avoid haram such as music, substances, zina and so on.
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Timestamps ⬇️
0:00 - Introduction
0:36 - Importance of Marriage
1:27 - Backlash against the Mahdi Episode
2:54 - Attention seeking people
3:33 - Reading the comments on Social Media
4:59 - The Dark Side of Social Media
7:16 - Dealing with Hate:
Lessons from Muhammad ﷺ
10:19 - The Problem with People's Labels
11:43 - Unscripted Conversations
12:52 - Haram Relationships
14:03 - The Halal Approach to Marriage
19:42 - Reality of Modern Relationships
23:37 - Importance of Looks in a Marriage
24:48 - Issue of using the Traditional Approach to Current Challenges
30:10 - Lowering One's Sexual Drive
33:36 - Dealing with the Haram Police on Fiqh
37:15 - Different Opinions of Rulings in Islam
40:46 - Taking Advice from Experienced People
42:40 - Forbidden Acts during Intimacy
43:39 - Ignorant People trying to Discredit
44:31 - The Nuances of Islamic Rulings
46:35 - The Concept of Taqqiyah
47:41 - People's limited perception of reality
49:38 - How do Muslims get married nowadays?
52:13 - Understanding the Context Islamic Rulings
54:51 - Importance of Istikhara
55:34 - Getting information from proper sources
59:39 - Following valid opinions of the Sheikhs
1:01:35 - Closing Remarks & Wrapping Up
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Amazing episode my brothers. The struggle is real. May Allah increase you guys in everything that’s good and protect you from all evil.
@The3Muslims
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Ameen ya rabb. May Allah bless you as well.
@afandifitri
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Fatih, I love your recitations. Allahuma Barik my brother. May Allah protect you from Evil, Hasad, and Iblis my man
@hebi8641
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W Fatih 🙌
Allah told us to not even go "near" zinah, that's something to think about.
Yes, istikhara prayer is so important...2 years ago a man proposed to me, and i had no obvious reason to say no then i prayed istikhara and I had a dream where a woman told me this man is not yours he is for the two women in the next room...so i rejected the proposal, he already got married and I assume he is going to have 2 wives . So yes always pray istikhara and don't ignore the signs just because the proposal is good.
*Timestamps:* 0:00 - Introduction 0:36 - Importance of Marriage 1:27 - Backlash against the Mahdi Episode 2:54 - Attention seeking people 3:33 - Reading the comments on Social Media 4:59 - The Dark Side of Social Media 7:16 - Dealing with Hate: Lessons from Muhammad ﷺ 10:19 - The Problem with People's Labels 11:43 - Unscripted Conversations 12:52 - Haram Relationships 14:03 - The Halal Approach to Marriage 19:42 - Reality of Modern Relationships 23:37 - Importance of Looks in a Marriage 24:48 - Issue of using the Traditional Approach to Current Challenges 30:10 - Lowering One's Sexual Drive 33:36 - Dealing with the Haram Police on Fiqh 37:15 - Different Opinions of Rulings in Islam 40:46 - Taking Advice from Experienced People 42:40 - Forbidden Acts during Intimacy 43:39 - Ignorant People trying to Discredit 44:31 - The Nuances of Islamic Rulings 46:35 - The Concept of Taqqiyah 47:41 - People's limited perception of reality 49:38 - How do Muslims get married nowadays? 52:13 - Understanding the Context w.r.t Islamic Rulings 54:51 - Importance of Istikhara 55:34 - Getting information from proper sources 59:39 - Following valid opinions of the Sheikhs 1:01:35 - Closing Remarks & Wrapping Up
@The3Muslims
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@King Sultan he’s the timestamps creator
It is definitely harder, but remember that we also get rewarded for avoiding haram
You can avoid major sins if you are truly under Allahs guidance & you are sincere in wanting purity .
@WeEducateAndTutor
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The quality is only going up 💯💪 The soundboard or whatever you're using for the sound effects is a great addition to the podcast 🙌
Im here by recommendation of youtube and im glad, I like to see different point of views. You have here very valuable channel, for sure Ill be back for more commentry of our world. Greetings from Eastern Europe.
Eid Mubarak fam. Hope everyone has a good day day off or not🙏🏾
Personally the unscripted conversations with bloopers and jokes are funny and make the video more interesting. I'd prefer that over than a more serious tone
Comment for the algorithm once again
For the record bros, "not releasing" is mentioned in hadith. It is called 'azl' in Arabic aka 'coitus interruptus' and the historical ruling is that it is permissible.
50:37 💯 correct and also keep in mind that if Allah wrote it for you, He(Allah) will give it to you and if Allah did not write it for you, have sabr, tawakul, engage in more salah and maintain the gratitude for that which He(Allah) is giving you and has given you(He is Al-Aleem ,Al-Hakeem).
Must say most of what you guys talked about this episode, I related to. Especially with so many people trying to claim what is right or wrong. In the end Allahu Alam, and I’m trying remain strict with prayer and not so strict with life. There’s not many things that people agree on when it comes fatwa, so I take what I can and apply it if it has more of a stronger ruling. But if there’s different opinions on the subject, I always choose the easier one. Islam is all about balance. Of course don’t be out here all Willy nilly thinking Allah is so merciful that you can do whatever you want but don’t also be so strict where life becomes miserable. Overall, great episode, I like how this was more of a just kind therapeutic stream where you all talked about the problems with young adults today and how it affects each of you. I think the more people see how similar one’s life is then it opens up a way for them to see life differently.
ALLAAH actually rewards good intention, alhamdulillah.
Look at you guys!!! Y’all really inspire me, may Allah bless you all
Cant text with a guy because it always ends up with the guy saying lets hang out, cant talk to a guy irl because it will end up with the guy saying lets go somewhere or lets talk in the car …Wallah its just hard may Allah help us #dontjudge
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@user-zs2qv1fm8v
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💐🌙very good 🌹👍🌷
@hibatuadam2777
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Beautiful
@Dont-worry1618
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May Allah swt bless u brothers
@sirArminFazeli
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Great brothers 🌸
By far my favorite episode so far, keep up the great work akhis
Podcast/Content suggestion: The final invite for Andrew Tate. 2 Serious talk with ¡showspeed and invitation to islam. 3 Podcast with Eddie from the deenshow.
Mashallah guys! Awesome work, very easy to listen to!
Eid Mubarak bros 😎 loving your new setup MashaAllah.
Love your podcast brothers Keep being in your prime 🏆
Love this new studio feel! Mashallah I also love your genuine conversation
This podcast lowkey took all of my random thoughts about being Muslim and gave them a voice. Ma Shaa Allaah, can’t wait for the next one! 🎉
Maashallah. May Allah grant us righteous spouses
Amazing your journey is, May Allah, bless all of you and those who support you.
Thank you guys very much, first time listening to your podcast and it was great, pretty eager to listen the upcoming ones, May Allah bless you guys.
salam, awesome stuff guys mashAllah. college student here, appreciate your topics and advice
masha'Allah guys😁
Legends, Keep up the amazing work
Mashallah, I appreciate the general conversation. For the topic at hand in the first 13min, I do want to let the brothers know that there are brothers and sisters out here who does appreciate the content and benefits from it. I pray to Allah that he blesses all three of you in this dunya and in the akhirah! Ameen. I pray that your dawah to us, is returned back to you guys in abundance of rewards from Allah swt. Ameen 🤲🏾🤲🏾
Ma shaa Allah
im grateful for you guys 👍i just want you to know that.
Eid Mubarak my Brothers, and to your Families. Yes, context is key, excellent point, Brother Faiyad. Brother Anghel made some good points in this episode, alhamdulillah.👏🏽
Assalamualaikum. The quality of the podcast is going up slowly but surely. May Allah bless the three of you.
MashALLAH, i learned some important points from you brothers. May ALLAH bless us all in our journey to success. AMEN
Alhamdulilah, Eid Mubarak folks.
Just discovered this podcast MashAllah!! JazakAllah Khair!!!
@rehanfarooqui2071
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Love the casual norm talk personally Also the fact that you got a main theme you revolve around major
💐 تحياتي وسلامي لكم جميعا باليمن والخير و البركات 🌙🕋 وعيدكم 🐏مبارك سعيد وكل عام وانتم بالف خير وصحة وسعادة وسلامة ودمتم في حفظ الله ورعايته سالمين غانمين والله الموفق والمستعان 🤲
Salam alaikoum brothers, you guys are amazing, I love your work, your kindness, sharing the love wisdom of Islam. May Allah (swt) be pleased with you all! Ameen. Rami, I love your attire looks really good on you!! Love and peace ✌️
Wa'alaikum assalam wa rahmatu'LLAHI wa barakatuh
ALLAH (SWT) Bless & guide and always protect you my brother's. 👍🤲 Ma Sha Allah ur doing a good job.♥️
Oh man, the part of reading websites and stuff and listening to shiekhs and trying to be 100% even though they sometimes felt extreme, ma men I stopped listening to and reading anything related to Islam (nah I recited Quran no excuse on that), point is, I stopped seeking knowledge, gaining is a different thing altogether. Alhamdulillah thanks bros this was pretty eye opening and sorta hit my gears. May Allah bless yall, JZK, have a wonderful Eid (dunno if it today on you or no)
Masha Allah, May Allah bless you guys for the efforts and works you put in his course, and for raising awareness of the evils affecting this Ummah. Ummm, I just got curious and kind of worried, have you heard from our brother zack Gonzalez? His KZread videos recently got taken down. Jazakullah khair.
It’s funny seeing you using Mahdi’s tactics of using sound memes. Keep the good work up. Barakallahu fikum. And don’t care about the emotional idiots
May Allah keep you guys blessed for life as well as your loved ones. I'm a hispanic Muslim and all I can say is we are all truly at home with Allah and I am thankful he has guided me to you well rounded, like minded individuals. Inshallah I get to meet or speak with you all someday, and continue to spread the good message as the force of good in this world grows stronger and stronger everyday, Alhamdullilah
EARLY GANG. Alhamdulilah
32:58 what brother Anghel says about context is soo important. not every problem is a spiritual problem and requires a spiritual lens. there are other ways to look at the issue of self-control: psychological, social, emotional, intellectual to name the main aspects of an individual. hence focusing on self-growth and development is 💯 barakAllah fikum for this
#don't judge, great one
Mashallah and Alhamdullilah for the you guys Dawah , Alhumdulilah the masjid that I go to in Culver City King Fahad Mosque in California is always every week kutbah speaks on current events and problems as Muslims facing nowadays for the next upcoming generation and so fourth. Alhamdullilah you guys are spot on how much we should emphasize modern day stuff
#dontjuge great podcast👍
Eid Mubarak 🎉
Love these cats
Mashallah #dontjudge it’s all about context
30:25 the pronounciation is funny as heck 🤣
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I would like a deep dive series into Uthman A.S, Ali A.S, Zubair and Talha A.S, Aisha A.S, and the battle of the She Camel and the first fitna.
Eid Mubarak brothers!
Faiyad can you try to avoid saying “bull ---“ even abbreviated since it still falls under swearing and could make the audience feel sinful for watching a video where there is swearing which is haram to watch.
Salamu Alaikum They think they know these youtubers/influencers in person and it’s crazy. They think they can demand them to do whatever they want. Y’all stay safe out here inshallah we break this illusion.
Most based podcast in the حىات دنيا
As-Salaam Alaikum
good podcast
I really like these podcasts but I have a tiny suggestion. It'll be nicer if you don't add the sound effects from other video clips in between what you're saying. Don't know if it's just me but it kind of takes away from the flow and seriousness of the discussion. It's like a distraction.
@lionofallah3441
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Lmao no matter what someone will always have something to nitpick
What mehdi episode are you guys talking about?
Mash'aAllah! Jazakum Allahu Khiran for this episode #Donotjudge
Mālik Ibn Anas (died 179 stated: “The latter part of this Ummah will not be rectified except by that which rectified its first part.”
The problem is when you have non muslims friends and go to their houses and when they decide they wanna go to the bar and you’ll be the only one who’s not going. It happened to me recently for the first time, what bothers me isn’t that I want to go with them to the bar but I just need to stay with them and have fun.
I prefer the unscripted format.
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5:35 I don't know how women can even comment such a thing on top of that to be even more disgusting. May Allah guide these sisters.
i love your job so much guys but I have to say something about Anghel's Thailand story. you can't judge people if you don't know exactly what's going on in that country. i don't know about Thailand but we are living similar issues in Turkey and people do judge from outside because they don't know what's really happening here. i personally don't pray at masjids in Turkey with Imam because in Turkey, the government chooses the Imam and it's a kufr system so the Imams they chose are just part of them. they don't have a right akidah and menhec they are just a basic doll of the government so my pray is not valid if I pray behind them when I know their akidah is not correct ( seriously they have no idea about what tavhid is, they believe in democracy and secularism and nothing else) ofc that's not for all of them but that's the general issue so I don't pray behind them as long as I know them and know their akidah correct. maybe you can call me extreme but that's better than my fard prays are not accepted by Allah just before that.
@merveakcay8504
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but I pray alone at the masjids if it's not built by the government like the masjid Çamlıca because those kind of masjids are just masjid-i dirar
W
Hello Brothers, Christian here. I'd be interested to hear your thoughts on Jordan Peterson's new video "Message to Muslim's"
#don'tjudge
You can never avoid Harambe. Harambe is always with us.
@WeEducateAndTutor
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😂you’re silly
The reason I never give topic suggestions is because I want you guys to explore what you want Just keep the topics risky hehe (blackpill, redpill , sub5, alphabet club etc)😝
well, all I can say about all Muslims is that certain traditions do not apply in today's modern society.
if you guys don't read the comments, who else is liking them? :'D
@The3Muslims
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We do read. We just don’t dig too deep into comments
@hibatuadam2777
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😂ghosts
Assalamu alaikum, i didn't like this episode that much because it felt like all over the place and sometimes even a bit boring, i'd humbly request to add a structure and topics/points you guys want to address fully and focus on those points mostly. Just my opinion, may allah bless you all and give baraqa in your efforts, ameen.
#dontjudge
who is Mehdi and what happened?
Comments good or bad, don't let it get to your head.
Estağfirullah kardeşim!
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