You either forgive her or you don't, you can't get back with her then constantly remind her of the past. They've begun to resent each other

@someonewithanamepink9918

3 жыл бұрын

She sposed to earn his trust because she has lost it when she betrayed him! She expects him to forget it and act the same as before without even trying to earn his forgiveness and goes somewhere with no contact for 2 days, with her recent track record her behaviour is unacceptable. She is immature for him and he is scared because of her, she wants to be in his socials all the time but forgets how ashamed he must've been when he was betrayed and all of the people in his circle had known it, therefore he doesn't want to flaunt the relationship because he feels like it will happen again. The friends should stay out their relationship as they only know one side of sob story. And she is victim of her own demise not because she is oppressed by him, and for him his wounds are constant reminder of how his trust was broken hence why he is hesitant about putting 100% in the relationship because she gave away their relationship for a quick shag. Well the, why he doesn't leave her, I don't know... Maybe because he truly loves her and is trying to move past the betrayal it is harder to forgive than to say it, but her immaturity (avoiding responsibility for) her actions and his open wounds seem to create toxic relationships

@michelleannor6944

3 жыл бұрын

If it were the other way round - Reza cheated - your be calling him a pos/ toxic masculinity/ F boy waste of space and the usual misandrist nonsense. But because it's the female who cheated you still find a way to blame the dude. Unbelievable. No wonder men nowadays are going RedPill and MGTOW

@jolinxo

3 жыл бұрын

@@michelleannor6944 I would’ve said the same.

this is the most real argument in the show lol "You call me old and fat!" "you call be pea brain!"

Wait he plastered her on social and she cheated and now she’s complaining... lol bin her off

@mhmh7180

3 жыл бұрын

Fr

This show is like my drug. It’s fake but I love it

@lucasdunn1147

3 жыл бұрын

Parts of the show are fake but it is addictive

@DC42087

3 жыл бұрын

Should try crack its much better

@lucasdunn1147

3 жыл бұрын

@@DC42087 yeah might do

@jamesncraigrocjames2092

3 жыл бұрын

I do too!

@duncanadam41

3 жыл бұрын

How are drugs fake

She's obviously in the wrong because she cheated but if that was a while ago then he has 2 options - either get over it and put her on your social media since it's obviously bothering her or break up. If he can get past her infidelities, then he should be able to put her on his social media. If not, then bye bye relationship

@someonewithanamepink9918

3 жыл бұрын

Easier said than done

It doesn't matter how long you've been together as a couple. I mean this for any couple. But when the lack of trust outweighs the other aspects of a relationship, you either end it , or you both put your egos asides and work together to rebuild and fix what has been broken.

I’ve never heard him show ruby affection or even smile at her 🤣

this is the definition of a toxic relationship how is she trying to play the victim when she the one that cheated

@everebecca9868

3 жыл бұрын

But she said it was like 10 years ago she did it and its also his fault for getting back with her KNOWING hes not over it and punishing her for 10 years lol why didnt he just say i dont wanna be with you

@goodftoest

3 жыл бұрын

@@everebecca9868 she did it twice and she doesn’t trust him because he doesn’t post her on social media? I don’t think she should have trust issues because he didn’t post her online.

@justinesimpson7969

3 жыл бұрын

I mean he also said he was on dating sites to make friends 😬🚩

@314rowan

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah but you either move on and date someone else or stay together and stop bringing it up ever it's not healthy

@Dancediva240

2 жыл бұрын

@@everebecca9868 so she cheated at the start of their relationship??! They dated for like 10 years rite?😏

Loool miles you cheecky bastard😅 it worked

ruby only felt some type of way the minute miles said something about their relationship. not like you can't have a second opinion but i feel like she needed a reason to end things and fast...

She sposed to earn his trust because she has lost it when she betrayed him! She expects him to forget it and act the same as before without even trying to earn his forgiveness and goes somewhere with no contact for 2 days, with her recent track record her behaviour is unacceptable. She is immature for him and he is scared because of her, she wants to be in his socials all the time but forgets how ashamed he must've been when he was betrayed and all of the people in his circle had known it, therefore he doesn't want to flaunt the relationship because he feels like it will happen again. The friends should stay out their relationship as they only know one side of sob story. And she is victim of her own demise not because she is oppressed by him, and for him his wounds are constant reminder of how his trust was broken hence why he is hesitant about putting 100% in the relationship because she gave away their relationship for a quick shag. Well the, why he doesn't leave her, I don't know... Maybe because he truly loves her and is trying to move past the betrayal it is harder to forgive than to say it, but her immaturity (avoiding responsibility for) her actions and his open wounds seem to create toxic relationships

I think Tiff hit the nail on the head. Reza holds a lot of resentment towards Ruby because she cheated on him. This relationship needs to end and I think they both need to start afresh because from an outside perspective this is a toxic relationship.

Habs, Miles and Tiffany are the biggest stirrers in this programme , they definitely try to scupper everyone else’s relationship. Mean people

Does every woman on this show have vocal fry?

@michaelscofield6721

3 жыл бұрын

Yeeeeeesssssss (me replying in vocal fry)

I like Rez , he's original , he can do soo much better

@Boelle.

3 жыл бұрын

Can he?

I think she fancies miles and made up a stupid reason(social media) to be upset at Rez. So that theres valid reason that she could split from Rez. But at the same time she dont really have courage to end long long relationship

A dating app to make friends ? Right ...😂

Dunno if their relationship will survive, but last night Reza was right on the money when he said that Miles is 'a meddling giddy kid' LOL

He posted her, she cheated, he stopped posting her. They both don’t think too highly of each other nor trust each other. It’s time to end it.

I watch this show religiously and I don’t even know this couple 😂

@Sofia-mb4cq

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah they came in it last series! So they are relatively new.

@ac2244

3 жыл бұрын

Wow your obviously as blind as a bat.

@burni988

3 жыл бұрын

@@ac2244 🤣 rude

@laurarigby2261

3 жыл бұрын

Haha same, they've just appeared out of nowhere. Everytime they come on I shout "WHO ARE YOU???!!" 😂😂😂

@burni988

3 жыл бұрын

@@laurarigby2261 I just find it so weird that they seemingly have come on the show just to publicly display their breakup. And I'm just like, are you genuinely having relationship issues, and if so why have you only just showed your relationship on TV when it's going wrong? Or is it that this is just a fabricated storyline, tbf it could be that like what sam and zara did. Its so weird.

3:45 did anyone notice that guilty pause 😂

This reminds me of the first Sex and the City movie where the marriage counsellor told Miranda that she could either forgive her partner and move past the cheating or break up with him.

This is why I don’t have social media because it will destroy your life over silly things people say and do.

@HOAfan11

3 жыл бұрын

it's so ridiculous right to view social media as something that validates your relationship...this generation is so lost.

When they argue it's like they're in year 7 and they're new to relationships . They're so many things going on in the world and they want to argue abt social media, name calling, photos. Like wth

This is probably why he keeps you off social media, you jumped on MIC and the problems begun

Social media really did play a strong part in this? They have got to be joking... you don’t post me?? I have you in 3D!! My friends know you.. you’d feel more secure if a bunch of strangers knew we were in a relationship? Wow!

@Harvestdiaries

3 жыл бұрын

I know, right!?! The mentality these days is just maaaad

Totally get his point imagine having to post a picture on a Instagram account just to prove he’s in a relationship love is DEAD 💀

Tinder to make friends🤡🤡🤡

@ashleyntumba

3 жыл бұрын

honestly lool

Tiff nailed him to a wall.

Spoiler: they broke up. They don’t follow each other on Instagram & she’s hanging out with Miles (like...dating)

@katieg905

3 жыл бұрын

whaaaaaaaaat

@anyag5369

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I thought that. Lol

@ihh619

3 жыл бұрын

Is she dating miles? Really?

@Irepeatthisisnotatest

3 жыл бұрын

@@ihh619 I don’t know for sure. Her and her boyfriend aren’t friends on IG anymore and she was hanging out with Miles. Tbh, Miles probably hit it and quit it.

@user-ri8rp1um1e

3 жыл бұрын

They follow each other now

Ruby is causing waves with Reza. She thinks she can have a break and chase Miles.

These to just need to call it a day 😂

everyone’s having a go at her for cheating, which yes is fucked. but if he chose to forgive her he can’t keep being that up and using it against her.

It is clear they don't belong together. They can love each other, but their relationship just doesn't work. Reza & Ruby both deserve people that cherish them. Tiff & Habbs are being arm chair psychologists (but they have a point yet it is always better to let people come to their own conclusions). There has never been a moment on MIC like this where two women have confronted a guy and he remained so calm and just listened. Rez appears to be a cut above the rest of these guys. I hope he remains practical & reasonable.

Social media?! LMAOOO

Social Media once again. Black Mirror is a beautiful show.

REZA IS 10 YEARS OLDER THAN RUBY SHE CHEATED WHEN SHE WAS 19/20 AND HE WAS 29/30 IF EH DONT LIKE THAT SHE CHEATED BREAK UP WITH HER OR STOP COMPLAINING

Good advice

ReZA looks like that lord of the rings elf that say my precious

@ew4645

3 жыл бұрын

Ah yes gollum the elf

Social media destroyed the meaning of a relationship

Pea brain. Lol. Are we 13 years old

“You never got over it” wtf Ruby!

This is actually funny

They seem like they hate each other lol. Why are they together?

My husband and I don’t post each other that much on social media, I like other guys content and he likes other girls content, I don’t understand what the big deal is, if you secure within your relationship that stuff shouldn’t matter.

@drentsammy6438

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

I know many couples who choose not to post each other and are in a happy relationship because they have the foundations down trust. It is BS about the social media thing, degrading each other is a major red flag, the main cause seems to be with the true lack of trust from reza and tbh who is ruby to give all blame on him darling you cheated on the guy, that true trust has gone and that love is broken. Take the blame it seems more so that because reza has seemed to forgive, ruby think she doesn’t need to redeem her self or resume back to how it initially was. All I’m saying this is going to not last.

Let him go ruby, u truly deserve a MAN!

So he likes pictures of other girls and they have an issue...yet she cheated! 🤔

Constant bickering is a sign a relationship has run it's course! MIC is full of bickering couples LOL!

@justpeachybaby271

3 жыл бұрын

Its so fake😒

I feel like I feel like 😭😭😭

Tbf he is short.

@burni988

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣 cause that's all that matters ofc

@suziyard9465

3 жыл бұрын

@@burni988 kinda does

hes done!

Tiffany needs to shut her mouth

How old are they 😂😂

People in the comments blaming Miles or saying he had something to do with this when RUBY CHEATED. There were already problems in that relationship. Reza didn't, and will probably never, trust her.

Rez can do so much better. That girl has literally no guilt and is an intense gas lighter

My guys a mug...

Reza and Ruby will survive this and still be together

Yah yah yah yah yah yah yah yaaaaah

Is this the same Rez who used to date Louise for a bit ?

why does she care about social media so much 🤦🏼‍♂️ that bit was pathetic

Lol Miles flirting with her now makes sense

He is SO FAR out of her league.

I'm lou young

Do people know that there is a life beyond social media?

@thebrunetteinroom7

Жыл бұрын

No. They don’t. They live for social media. Pathetic really

Look at both of these cheats themselves giving him advice lol tbh he can do better then ruby.

No offence but she’s out of his league anyway

time to move on.

I feel bad for him though bc I don’t think there is an issue w liking others girls pictures... does she not like any guys?

@Pudgenello

3 жыл бұрын

What about talking to other girls? And having dating apps? Lol

*pea-brain*

You know thank god im not on this show cause these people are so immature at there age.

🤐

I'm sorry, but this is the lamest storyline among lame storylines

He’s 34…waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyy too old to be on this show.

Weird couple

Ugrfh they should be more into their own culture