Feminism: We are fighting to give women choices. Bumble: How about 1 app where only women can make the first move, for your safety. Shallon: OPPRESSION! patriarchy!

@liliopelo

2 жыл бұрын

RIP MUFASA

@al0boze

2 жыл бұрын

1

@christianmbabazi9722

2 жыл бұрын

🤦 it's like nothing can make her happy

@derekj773

2 жыл бұрын

1

@kennedychewe9484

2 жыл бұрын

1

she just doesn’t like that she’s not receiving hundreds of ego boosting affirmations from random strangers…

@hardplans2366

2 жыл бұрын

The validations on dating apps gotta stop They've all turned into BIGHEADS!!

@snowmountaingames

2 жыл бұрын

Social media is redistribution of confidence from vulnarable men to low self steem woman

@snowmountaingames

2 жыл бұрын

Love from brazil 🇧🇷🇧🇷

@digitalT83

2 жыл бұрын

nailed it

@blackestboy6871

2 жыл бұрын

but she doesnt have to be on bumble. 😭

Girl on tinder: "you better say something better than just 'hey'" Girls on bumble: "hey"

@zerowolf137

2 жыл бұрын

Most times they just match and don't make a move and the time runs out.

@babufits1584

2 жыл бұрын

Girls on Tinder: eww, these guys are so thirsty and creepy, I'm going to Bumble... Girls on Bumble: these fuckboys are so pussy, why won't they take charge?

@zerowolf137

2 жыл бұрын

@@babufits1584 Dude I know!

@SwabianClancy

2 жыл бұрын

Its the same with "I like good conversations" or "I only want men who can do good conversations" and the most what they can respond is "yes", "interesting", "I don't think so" and "xD".

@tortugadave8765

2 жыл бұрын

The amount of thought I had to put into my opening tinder lines (had to observe something from their pics or their interests, or their bio) was exhausting. I've never been on Bumble and don't intend to be, as I find my odds are much better in personal interactions. while.

Too emotionally risky; A bridge too far; BASIC human interaction skills; Her lack of self awareness is stunning.

1…Yes. Mufasa affected us all. So right, Aba. People need to appreciate more of what people have versus what they don’t. Unhappiness will always exist when you’re looking out of the window at potentials or hypotheticals versus enjoying the interior.

Let's totally ignore the fact that Bumble was created BY a woman FOR women to feel safe and empowered.

@SneakerBiscut

2 жыл бұрын

They don’t want to be empowered. They want attention

@xMckingwill

2 жыл бұрын

@@SneakerBiscut correction women like her are like that. Bumble is the worst app to get attention lol because women have to initiate the conversation. So bumble are for women who are a bit more invested ( even by a small margin)

@xxjjmil175

2 жыл бұрын

😂

@TheBaconBasket1

2 жыл бұрын

And it's just 1 app, this is not the case on ANY other dating app. Lol shes ranting about an app that fulfills a niche market of woman who'd rather have a choice in who talks to them.

@williambontrager2349

2 жыл бұрын

That's the issue. No one or no business can be responsible for how someone feels. If you feel oppressed then confirmation bias will always assign oppression as the cause or motivation of anything difficult or uncomfortable in your life.

Here’s a simpler solution: if you don’t like bumble… … don’t use the app.

@adrianjohnson8675

2 жыл бұрын

Easy peasy lol

@spamachuchan8824

2 жыл бұрын

How dare you suggest a simple solution 🤣🤣🤣

@denverjohnson5640

2 жыл бұрын

THAT PART!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@rmglover3191

2 жыл бұрын

Bingo! I mean, I was the silly person who watched this, but. I was like "it's ONE app - that gives YOU the power!" I was confused by this tirade.

@khushalpunjabi3661

2 жыл бұрын

Simpler??? You mean the simplest.

The “men are hunters” line is so funny to me because if you know anything about hunting there are different strategies to hunting. You can let the food or game come to you if you know their habitats and where they frequent, or you can set traps/bait.

I love all her ideas of opening lines for men to use on women. These opening lines are guaranteed to get you left on read.

Funnily enough, for anyone who has any experience on Bumble. Most women open with something like "Hi" or "Hey" or "How are you" (all initial messages that would be incredibly weak for men to use on other apps and likely will not result in a response) and then immediately shuck the rest of the conversational burden onto the man.

@riotking77

2 жыл бұрын

Weirdly high standards ladies….

@capo4ever334

2 жыл бұрын

Bro 😂😂😂 so true Girl on tinder's profile: "if you open with hi or hey I'm gonna unmatch you" Same girl on bumble: "hey"

@Hoss_91

2 жыл бұрын

I literally just had a match on bumble that gave me the pickup line “is this a museum? because you’re a work of art!” My response was me making fun (might’ve been a bit rude from me I’ll admit) to get a laugh back. I said “how long did it take to google that line?” The reason I don’t like that is cause it’s clearly a lazy copy paste that they’ve probably said to others. Every other girl it’s something cheesy or just “heyy” or “hi”.

@trevarigoldstein9917

2 жыл бұрын

Facts

@noneedtoexplain

2 жыл бұрын

@@Hoss_91 I mean that's better than, "heyyy" or "hiii". If the convo after that pick up line from her, whether it was copied or not, or said to others (like it really matters) is stale, wouldn't that give you your answer on the compatibility between you two?

Bumble isn’t about women taking the first move really, it’s about them having some quality control. 99% of women on bumble just say hi. I’ve still got to do all the legwork.

@Raymal100

2 жыл бұрын

Girls have zero game

@marchuta326

2 жыл бұрын

This. They do no effort. They do not want to do the first move, it is just about control. Having men who match with her and choosing when she will allow them to talk to her. Getting validation without having men sending messages until she decides that she wants more attention. Not surprising from an app whose founding principle is that men are the only one who harass.

@aaiiddaann

2 жыл бұрын

It’s about them saying “hey” as an opener and expecting you to carry the conversation because you’re a guy.

@Aliyaaaa

2 жыл бұрын

Lol that's true. They will not write anything further

@akin242002

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds rough. I'm married and out of the dating game since 2013. It sounds like it got really bad since then. Okaycupid was decent back then.

18:00 I know this video is a few months old, but I'm disappointed at the lack of 1's in the comments

Angry, argumentative, inflated ego, and approaching 40... setting a new standard for femininity

She hasn’t noticed everything she saying about men applies directly to her. A fascinating watch in delusion and loneliness.

@joelzinho4600

2 жыл бұрын

30% of the population is suffering from this. Structural changes in society are abound.

@_cj__

2 жыл бұрын

That's exactly what I was thinking the whole time. "Is saying Hi really a big deal?" Then do it girl, if it ain't hard, do it.

@eliezerarvelo7372

2 жыл бұрын

Remember she's already 40. She's about to get bitter af.

@janeca1189

2 жыл бұрын

Actually yeah, hah .very true!

@imetmikemo182

2 жыл бұрын

The Mental Gymnastics withthis one are of gold medal caliber.

"I'm a feminist" *Proceeds to compare women to animals that men need to go out and hunt.*

@nickb6425

2 жыл бұрын

I love how she says "if you don't have the BASIC human interaction skills" bitch you're the real one who ain't got those basic social skills lmao

@ameliajoel6427

2 жыл бұрын

The disconnect

@tmerchead1

2 жыл бұрын

Yep lol.Sounds misogynist.

@CelestialNerd336

2 жыл бұрын

She's gonna flip when she finds out that trappers and fishermen exist...

@shathaan1763

2 жыл бұрын

Amazing

Funny story. A friend of mine suggested I try Bumble a while back cause I told her I didn't wanna be bothered trying to talk to girls anymore. I laughed when she told me about the dynamic of how it worked cause I already knew my inbox was likely to be a ghost town. You can be smart, good looking, goal-oriented, etc. whatever. Most men still know that women rarely make the approach on AND offline. I made the account with a completely satirical bio. Probably a given, but my inbox was indeed empty AF (lol). The best thing I did was set my expectations to not expect much of anything and just have fun. This allowed me to leave with a smile and my dignity instead of disappointment and another blow to my self-esteem. Bumble like all other dating apps are a joke so I treated it exactly as such.

@meyeneetuks4680

Жыл бұрын

Bumble really is just like the rest. If your a man. Empty and no woman willing to start conversation

1. Never forget

Oppression has lost all it's meaning. The Starbucks line is long and people be calling it oppression nowadays.

@Chateau25

2 жыл бұрын

Hilarious 😂

@blindfaith2934

2 жыл бұрын

women call it oppression when theyre not granted privileges.

@nancydenicea5591

2 жыл бұрын

your fault for listening to and becoming strong and independent forever victims.

@TigerJPK

2 жыл бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾 you said it!!!

@ShadeDraws

2 жыл бұрын

People call work itself "oppressive". We're doomed. I see mass graves in the near future.

“If they can’t start a conversation then they aren’t for me.” You just described why you wouldn’t date yourself.

@lera5872

2 жыл бұрын

Most underrated comment

@marlom7882

2 жыл бұрын

Sssshhhh if you give them logic they’ll get angrier

@kasF

2 жыл бұрын

This here

nobody has needed me more than this woman

Honestly, as a girl with a lot of dominant/masculine traits, I needed to hear this from you guys. I gotta stop complaining and approach.

@vegbeg9170

Жыл бұрын

Have you? 😮

@gamerman7276

Жыл бұрын

You have to show that you're interested, otherwise nobody is going to approach you and we'll just assume you're a lesbian.

@redmage8719

5 ай бұрын

Guys and subtlety don't mix so you gotta be blunt at all times. No playing hard to get either.

@johioju5990

4 ай бұрын

My girl of 3 years now only got to where we are now cuz she asked me out 5 times

@leroidesnoob8418

3 ай бұрын

​@@johioju5990 blink twice quickly if you in danger

“Men are hunters” I thought the whole point of feminism was to reject traditional gender-based roles and stereotypes.

@africkinamerican

2 жыл бұрын

She is embedding traditional assumptions in the language of feminism. Pretty confusing.

@STR0ZZ

2 жыл бұрын

No the whole point is to give wahmen all the advantages while still also being the victim

@bellanyvus112

2 жыл бұрын

It’s supposed to be lol the feminism that so many women claim today is not the feminism that made up the women’s suffrage movement. There was a time it did a lot of good for people. But now it’s become something heinous & it’s only hurting people, male & female alike. They are destroying all of the progress we made, as well as reversing the flow of progress. I don’t get it. It’s like they can’t rationalize that there’s bad people that will hurt you out there, regardless of gender. To them it’s just women good, men bad. But I know women who are exactly what feminists claim all men to be. Abusers, manipulators, liars, cheaters, etc. that’s just HUMANS. Some bad, some good. That’s life lol But they can’t see this for some reason. Also, she said men who don’t make the first move are fuckboys but to me that just says they’re scared to b/c women have the power in those situations. I made the first move on my husband, turns out he’d been madly in love with me for 2 years & we’ve now been together 10 lol he’s a literal saint & the opposite of a fuck boy. So I’m just super offended by feminist rhetoric lol Plus I was raised by my father who had to be mom & dad while working full time. I’m sorry to rant, I’m just “triggered” as they say 😂 I was going to have a simple reply to your comment agreeing but the dam broke, I get pretty emotional about this topic lol The men in my life, my dad & husband, are the two people who made me who I am & they’re who I’d go to war for, the most important people in my life. But, more importantly, my “speech” is b/c I would hate for men to forget that there are SO MANY women who support you & love you as human beings & understand your struggles too. And this is all coming from a minority, liberal, woman. The radicals try to divide everything & make everyone think just b/c you’re this you have to believe that, etc. When really there’s bad people on every side & the good people would probably agree on a lot of things if we actually spoke. Hope all is well for you & I hope you don’t mind my perspective, even if it did get a little off track 😂

@simpbeforeusleep

2 жыл бұрын

Only if it’s inconvenient for women. Feminism was never about equality for most people, remember that.

@Shay45

2 жыл бұрын

The whole point of feminism is for men & women to have social, political, and economic equality. If a woman wants to participate in traditional gender roles she can and if she doesn’t want to she doesn’t have to. Vice versa for men.

Her: "Why cant guys say hi first?" That is exactly what we have to do on literally every other dating app. The trouble with this issue is so many women want control. They want to be the ones playing puppet master pulling the strings of all the men around them. They want men to be chasing them and want to completely control every aspect of their relationships.

That thing about the compromise: WISDOM - this channel is indeed a unique example of that done right

Some People really out here demanding power, and then reject it when they see the responsibility entailed.

@justjoshua5759

2 жыл бұрын

Uncle Ben out here dying for nothing.

@ItsJustFox

2 жыл бұрын

@@justjoshua5759 Yoooo lmao

@ericalbright8371

2 жыл бұрын

@@justjoshua5759 you win bro

@Aliyaaaa

2 жыл бұрын

Pretty much yes. Woman only see all the nice aspects and wanna claim that for thenselfes yet they trynna avoid all connected responsibilities. They see that among CEOs most are men but they don't see that they just worked and sacrificed more. Or that most dangerous jobs are performed by men as well. That's why I would never consider myself a feminist.

@ChevsWorld

2 жыл бұрын

they want to be invited to the party just so they can turn down the invite

“That not Bumble, That’s Bumbleclot” Comedy gold from the master 😂😂😂😂😂

@thx2319

2 жыл бұрын

As a jamaican that cracked me the f up

@GirlLikeTash

2 жыл бұрын

@@thx2319 really did

@dennisjohnson680

2 жыл бұрын

@@thx2319 i 2nd that. Made bust out laughing real quick

@nothingsuspicioushere.6379

2 жыл бұрын

@@thx2319 bredda mi nearly dead.

@SuzetteSpeaksShow

2 жыл бұрын

I literally cackled!!🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

I showed my little brother lion King for the first time. He's like 17 but there is a 9 year diff between us hence why he didn't watch it with me and my other siblings when we were young. It was sick to see a reaction from a late teen on mufasa's death (he knew it was coming but thought it would be idk more disney). I think he is finally a man because he understands loss now.

I have horrible social anxiety yet I still reached out first to my now husband. It wasn't to rush into marriage or kids, we are childfree so... To be fair, i got everything i ever wanted in my partner and more. Idk if its because he is just that good, or my standards were just that low; either way im happy AF.

When preach said “it’s not bumble , it’s bumbleclot” 😂😂😂

@ngashjr

2 жыл бұрын

Beeirah!

@KhalliaBoo

2 жыл бұрын

Had me weak 🤣🤣🤣

@BarryMikokinju

2 жыл бұрын

I thought he said bombaclat

@bozzy7946

2 жыл бұрын

my first thought was the Portegeuse word Bumbklaat

@BarryMikokinju

2 жыл бұрын

@@bozzy7946 Languages of the world unite, together we can fight the evil oppression of..French

All her points and frustrations are literally the everyday man's perspective lol its everything we don't like that we have to deal with .. welcome to the wonderful world of being a man trying to date !!

@thatyellowfellow

2 жыл бұрын

I've used dating apps and the amount of female profiles that say, "I won't message first" or some dumb shit is too high for comfort.

@markmckinney9821

2 жыл бұрын

Facts

@anthonysmith5724

2 жыл бұрын

Bro . you ever turn a woman down when she approaches first??? They go nutty. Saying your scared and ish . if the rolls reversed we would be canceled . quick😅

@jchapfly5422

2 жыл бұрын

@@thatyellowfellow wild part is they’re still playing on easy mode lol

@johnnycalderon9951

2 жыл бұрын

@@thatyellowfellow that gets me hype up lol those r the ones u smash and dash

I heard it come up at 3:54 MY FIANCÉ of 2 years overall 4 years, MADE THE FIRST MOVE ON ME! And we have the healthiest relationship I’ve ever had and it’s been incredible. The fact that for this ONE app, this ONE time, she doesn’t wanna reach out first???? Is actually insane to me. How you think you’ll find love that way, is beyond me

17:55 tell em, R.I.P. MUFASAH

Hear me out here; I feel like Shalen is all butt hurt over bumble because she made an account, reached out to a dude with some weak ass game & got rejected. So now she’s all pissy saying she shouldn’t have to hit a dude up first because it didn’t work out the first time she tried🙄🤣

@texmex8220

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣for reals

@alexenglander6224

2 жыл бұрын

to give her credit i reckon she prolly tried more than once, but she deffo got rejected again and again, and again, and again, and again and again (i could keep going but you get the point)

@redsampler2017

2 жыл бұрын

maybe he wasn,t a dude with weak ass game, maybe he was a dude who had seen or heard from her before on the internet/social media...

@asdfghj13579fly

2 жыл бұрын

@@redsampler2017 I think he was referring to her game as weak. She approached him with her weak ass game.

@redsampler2017

2 жыл бұрын

@@asdfghj13579fly oh yes i see know, , nevermind then :-) thanks

Girls: "Dont hit me with no weak shit like hi or hey" Same girls om bumble: "hey"

🥰 love this channel. This Bish is crazy lol

Girl you ain't a wildebeest, you're a human being with agency who can talk.

The fact that she's trashing her friends' relationships who actually got married off of Bumble just shows how delusional she is.

@TopFlightSecurity415

2 жыл бұрын

and petty

@AMK544

2 жыл бұрын

And bitchy

@NinjaAssassin279

2 жыл бұрын

And musty

@Madonnaleilaable

2 жыл бұрын

And childish

@odinanithegreat7544

2 жыл бұрын

And grimy

The lack of self-awareness in this woman's arguments is truly shocking.

@rogerm3708

2 жыл бұрын

The only app where the woman says 'hi' first. Use one of the other apps

@ixcrusha2024

2 жыл бұрын

If you tried to make her aware she’d try to run from hearing it

@Mr.Fridaynight

2 жыл бұрын

Oblivious .

@seif9923

2 жыл бұрын

also her arms are so fat

@monicavava

2 жыл бұрын

Makes sense why she still single.

It's not bumble, it's a bumbaclaat . . . what a legend

A year later and Aba's bit in the middle still kills me

Fun fact: the creator of Bumble is a woman, Whitney Wolfe Herd. Yet Shallon STILL tries to pin the blame and responsibility on men and "the patriarchy". OKAYYYYY THERE

@ablebodied175

2 жыл бұрын

That's usually the case where girls like this don't like something. "A man did this" or "How can I blame men for this?"

@Anonymys43

2 жыл бұрын

Wooooooooow

@ColonelDecoy

2 жыл бұрын

Herd was also an executive at Tinder before resigning over sexual harassment issues, and her ventures since have been women-focused. Bumble was designed to solve some of the major problems for women in online dating. Shalon is way out of her depth.

@imetmikemo182

2 жыл бұрын

Gyno-Centric brainwashing at its finest

@mgs85

2 жыл бұрын

Patriarchy pretty much always used as the bogeyman.

Girl I'll just stay single. Hell

@yisangyang362

2 жыл бұрын

I watch both your videos and these guys. Weird mixing of the KZread circles. The KZread gods are pleased.

@bernardpuller4380

2 жыл бұрын

Camelot watches aba and preach? Big W.

@sarinotsorry2478

2 жыл бұрын

Love you watch these guys !!!

@ashharkausar413

2 жыл бұрын

Sup Cam!

@SaberInferno

2 жыл бұрын

Can't blame ya in this market.

And now as of Apr 30, 2024, Bumble has officially provided women the option to request the guy to msg first 😅, can't wait to see Preach say "no, no, no..."

"Why can't guys use their thumbs and type hi?" But can't answer why women can't do the same exact thing?

The most terrifying thing for me is when she talks about her friend like: "She wanted a husband, she found a guy, they got married. So beta!". Bish, do you know how hard it is?! That woman was able to settle with her own requirements and also with another whole human being, and they created a family. You sitting here cannot even settle with common sense!

@TheDJGuVna

2 жыл бұрын

I laughed too hard at that last line cos it's so true 🤣🤣🤣

@jeremynewsom8465

2 жыл бұрын

LMAO @ you can't even settle with common sense. That line took me out

@sancocho1718

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds more like she's resentful, and jealous.

@CoolGuyEh

2 жыл бұрын

This needs to be pinned

@odinanithegreat7544

2 жыл бұрын

Definitely jealous, she is.

The fact that she thinks guys don’t reach out first is kind of a self report that guys probably don’t reach out to *HER* as often as she’d like. I also love how she interrupts her own program to 💩 on her “friends” marriages. They need to watch out for her

@mysticstrikeforce5957

2 жыл бұрын

yha she should blame new wave feminist they told us they want to independent and now be pushy when coming up to me. Like girls just don't like to hear the other side cause they only want their life to be a struggle not the other gender.

@michellerichardson3090

2 жыл бұрын

Theres always that one girl getting rejected that wants to try to pull all the other girls down. "Girl these men are just ignoring us" Nah thats just you

@amenra6042

2 жыл бұрын

One word can sum it up; projecting. 😂

@adrycough

2 жыл бұрын

I didn't even think about it like that.

@EmperorSeramir

Жыл бұрын

The guys could smell the crazy coming from her. I knew as soon as I saw her on screen "this bitch is crazy."

RIP Mufasa

Never listen to anyone who has their Christmas tree up in October..😂

Girls: “I don’t like it when guys say “hi” or “hey”” Also girls on bumble: “hey” smh

@oradrive745

2 жыл бұрын

Or heyyyyyyyy

@epultimast

2 жыл бұрын

You guys get a "hey"?! I get "👋".

@WhoBlah21

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry, I'm going to be incredibly honest here but online dating is mostly a looks game. No one actually reads bios, about me, nor any interest tags if it were, saying "hey" or "what's up" wouldn't be a trend from both men and women due to people talking about interests in the first few messages. Pick up lines and jokes almost never works because at the end of the day if she's not liking what she sees on your pfp, it's a no-go no matter how much you're channeling your inner Dave Chapelle.

@onward2727

2 жыл бұрын

@@WhoBlah21 America is very superficial

@onward2727

2 жыл бұрын

Not just America, but in America, it’s pretty bad

Women 2002 : ewww don’t approach me it’s creepy Women 2021: ewww approach me or your not a real man

@jasonandrews1770

2 жыл бұрын

Nah today women still say both so you cant win

@unfazedo

2 жыл бұрын

@@jasonandrews1770 the only move is not to play the game.

@jasonandrews1770

2 жыл бұрын

@@unfazedo straight up. Just work and vibe with the boys. Lifes been so much better ever since

@ItsSimplyZoe

2 жыл бұрын

It's not the same women! That's the problem, women from one group try to speak for the ones in the other group. Now we all look crazy! 😂 🤣

@bmgfrosty7089

2 жыл бұрын

@@ItsSimplyZoe The problem is neither should be creepy or "beta" so both groups sound crazy/entitled.

Oh stop. Approach, be approached, just live. I made first move and my husband and I been together for over 22 yrs. Married for 20. Hell, after our 3rd date I proposed, jokingly and he said, "Absolutely " look, if a relationship is gonna work, you willing to put in the work? It will. Just do your best and enjoy life as best as you can.

I honestly was going to let here finish without interrupting her but as pointed out 7:46 I could no longer stay silence. Let's be honest, women want men they necessarily find attractive to approach them. This isn't about men approaching women, let's call a spade a spade. You want men who you typically find attractive to approach you. Men do approach you, just not the men you found suitable to date/relationship.

For those of you who are unaware: getting on Bumble is 100% voluntary...

@petrri323

Жыл бұрын

Lol this. I feel like someone needs to tell her she doesn’t have to use the app if she doesn’t want to do the approaching. Like… it’s quite literally the only major dating app on the market with this system in place.

@fashionrevolution5810

11 ай бұрын

Say it LOUDER📢

Bumble gives them a "hi" button that automatically sends a gif for a greeting. The app even removes the pressure of having to say hi. Even with that, she is complaining. Wth

@imjustsayin34

2 жыл бұрын

Yes it’s very low effort lol I didn’t even respond to my current boyfriend until he super liked me and I did the basic hey how are you💀

@jshooper7819

2 жыл бұрын

LMFAO. I stopped using that app years ago. I didn't realize that it literally gave them a "Hi" button. How fuckin lazy is that? Hahaha. Yet these Feminist Karens are still complaining. Their lack of self awareness is mind blowing.

@maineman5757

2 жыл бұрын

@@imjustsayin34 Recruit difficulty

@willcresson8776

2 жыл бұрын

@@imjustsayin34 I mean, I superliked my current GF on tinder but I'm so glad she put in more effort than that. I'm not going to assume anything about your current relationship, I try to assume most people are decent, but I will say that despite what some people (mostly women) say, men actually love effort and attention. Even the most classically masculine men.

@winxclubstellamusa

2 жыл бұрын

@@willcresson8776 I’m a young woman doing some research before I start dating again. What do you mean by effort and attention? Showing interest and confirmation that I like them? Too much pre-emotive confirmation would be a turn off for most… how much is the right amount?

just got a bumble ad on this lmao

I met my husband on Bumble. Loved the power of being able to choose whom I approach!

Taking dating advice from someone someone who’s chronically failing at dating is like taking career advice from a homeless guy.

2020 Preach: "booboo" 2021Preach: "Booboo honey chicken" 2022 Preach: "booboo honey chicken stir fry shaka laka ding dong"

@4megapete

2 жыл бұрын

I really want him to say that now 😂

@RobSwizz1e

2 жыл бұрын

Underappreciated comment here, hahahaha

@nickb6425

2 жыл бұрын

Actually sounds like something he would say LOL

lmao opening with "uhhh tapping is so easy why cant men do it!?" literally proving its too hard for her to do even that.

Is your friend happy? Then what else matters? Jealousy of your friend is unbecoming.

1 time for Mufasa. A true King.

@flyinglow7218

2 жыл бұрын

1

@birdieagszero6570

2 жыл бұрын

Get ya 1s up!!

@esil5853

2 жыл бұрын

1

@zigan3036

2 жыл бұрын

1

@codykillerpup1971

2 жыл бұрын

1

"If it's so easy, why can't guys do it?!" Well, they do it every-fucking-where else. Don't use Bumble if the one feature that makes it "special" is something you don't want. Stay in the other 9000 dating app options. It's basically like saying close down all the gay bars because I'm not gay and I don't want to be with men. It's so funny when women want the most unique and special messages, all the while no info in their profile that you could actually base anything on and when it's their turn to say something, first or not, they have absolutely nothing to say. It's also funny how she complains about "I don't want to be with someone who doesn't put in the work... If he can't develop the basic human interaction skills... If he can't approach a person he doesn't know and say hello, what do you think that relationship is going to be like". The irony is so god damn thick in the air, considering that's what can be true the other way around as well. She's basically complaining about the things she doesn't want to do if men don't do them. These people want everything and give nothing. It's kind of sad that women don't even understand how hard men have it on dating apps etc. The inequality of features and power, I showed women the male side of the apps and they were baffled by the difference. Even the women looking for serious relationships think men have it easy there and they are completely ignorant to all these things because they don't have to think about it. Women seem to think every man has it at least as easy to get dates as they do. Also fun fact: The moment you mentioned police at the end I heard sirens go by outside.

@TrenyLew

2 жыл бұрын

God damn cos u wrote a essay u earned a like from me

@aguythatsrandom

2 жыл бұрын

So true! They legit be having nothing in their bios to build an opener conversation about. You are almost forced to talk about their appearance and they obviously don't want that. Don't know how many profiles I come across that said, 'I don't know who how to write bios, just message me'.....I be like.....'ya couldn't even put effort into your own profile bios so people can see who you guys are as an opener?' PATHETHIC And the inequality with dating apps is so true! Men legit have to pay for all dating apps to even get anywhere. A woman can go on their for free and get 100+ likes a day. Simple. I gave up on dating apps last month. Waste of time for me

@luisd8818

2 жыл бұрын

@@aguythatsrandom because they are used to using their looks to get everything they wanted since the beginning of time lol and then they act all high and mighty. Girl stfu and back that poon poon on over here 😆 you ain’t that special

@mike45blue

2 жыл бұрын

When you only view the top 20% of men on dating apps of course you would have this delusional perspective of "men having it easy." Why bother with a profile bio when you know Chad is on his way to be at your DMs regardless? And once you're done with Chad you still got Tyrone and Carlos on their hit list. Notice how I didn't say her hit list? Yes she might think she's winning if she got dudes she actually like hitting her DMs and stroking her ego but once they fuck he's off to the next one. That's fuckboy 101 and it amazes me, with all the studies of dating apps either women do not care or they're completely oblivious to their own nature. They want you to type something quirky while getting their back blown by the guy who didn't even have to try.

@Yasharal110

2 жыл бұрын

Imagine needing an app to get a date. Just walk up to someone and chat.

If you never settle, you never settle down.

This made my eye twitch in frustration

"If she said hi on Bumble, She's ready to rumble." -Michael Buffer Also, R.I.P. Mufasa, a real 1.

@tre4248

2 жыл бұрын

I dont knoe what this means but i fuck with it

@biggchaka1614

2 жыл бұрын

💯

@nabilsyafiqjamaludin6847

2 жыл бұрын

He was a real 1

I made the first move for my man and even courted him cause I was aware he was a little anxious around me and unsure of himself, as soon as I continued talking to him and making him feel comfortable he became more confident and after two years we are very happily married :)

@signsofthetimes886

2 жыл бұрын

Boom, you're a real one

@jollygoodgordon5580

2 жыл бұрын

YAHWEH Bless your marriage

@SamanthaP48

2 жыл бұрын

Same. (Not the “he was anxious & unsure” part) Nearly 14 yrs later, I still am. 😅 A lot of times I get the whole “that makes you masculine” line. Men deserve to feel desired & adored. Keep it up Sis.

@francescaknapp

2 жыл бұрын

@@jollygoodgordon5580 thankyou thats so sweet

@anthonym840

2 жыл бұрын

👍 good catch.

Funny thing is if we get real traditional it was the women that gave a man a signal to then approach them so the women made the first move "dropping the hankerchief" so it's her if anyone who has been bamboozled

She’s fucking delusional. I’m going to use her in my Anthropology discussion on the naturalistic fallacy and it’s connection to the second wave feminist movement. Thank you guys as always for the amazing content.

@kraftyhandz

2 жыл бұрын

That’s really awesome hahaha

@EdgarHernandez-uu4iw

2 жыл бұрын

Ooooh how nice. Upload a video if you can

@mamoud6648

2 жыл бұрын

Please upload

@oxyht

2 жыл бұрын

That’s awesome

@dorjjodvo1992

2 жыл бұрын

Second? We are in the third wave tho

She’s an example of, “the emptiest vessel makes the most noise.”

@nobody3431

2 жыл бұрын

Never heard that saying before, and I’m definitely stealing it lol

@imetmikemo182

2 жыл бұрын

In this case the vessel is a hallowed out gaping t￦at

Man am i happy that my lady was the one coming up to me. There are millions of crazy people out there.

getting a ad for bumble on this is hilarious.

Never underestimate women’s ability to rationalize what men should be doing without shame

@sp0ngeb00b7

2 жыл бұрын

We don't claim this sociopath, please don't lump the mentally deranged in with the rest of us

@starversys

2 жыл бұрын

you nailed it !! ;)

@brianbouf8303

2 жыл бұрын

@@sp0ngeb00b7 nice to hear nice perspective.

@Error-000

2 жыл бұрын

It is like their ultimate ability

@sp0ngeb00b7

2 жыл бұрын

@@brianbouf8303 Shallon Lester is an outspoken cheater and seriously questionable person, who is very adamant on describing every single take of hers she needs to repeat to a therapist, on her KZread channel instead. Now it is normal for women to feel anxiety around how much their man “wants” them which is why I think she is not gelling with the app, it forcefully places her in a scenario, where she has to express her wants first (making yourself out to be the more interested one is a place of weakness for both genders). But the literal only thing this means, is that she’s using the wrong dating app for her. Also cheaters project jealousy bc they do the same thing 🤠🤠

"Why is our manhood defined by our ability to approach you" Thats what I call bars MY GOD

@SirN8speare

2 жыл бұрын

If anything that says a lot about their femininity

That was a lot of words to say "I am jealous of my friends relationships".

My girl got out the friend zone 😂😂😂

Since women are independent women should approach men first. Women should feel what going up to strangers and getting rejected is like

@Aliyaaaa

2 жыл бұрын

Truth is even then woman would usually not be rejected as often as men would. No matter what we do, there will always be a difference which is why there will never be 100% equality

@Menmenthealth

2 жыл бұрын

If you are a man that can reject women you are a high quality man

@awildtomappeared5925

2 жыл бұрын

@@Aliyaaaa it's almost like people aren't equal, hopefully the npc clones will realise this some day

@Supreme_Lobster

2 жыл бұрын

@@awildtomappeared5925 💯💯

@karlwilliams8625

2 жыл бұрын

Flirting or even eye contact is a struggle for them. They'll look scared of you and wonder why you didn't approach them.

There's nothing wrong with approaching men. They've been doing it for years. Some men are tired of rejection. At least they giving you the option of choosing.

@blindpilot_v1

2 жыл бұрын

🙏 blessed comment 🙏

@Saixjacket

2 жыл бұрын

And we still hit on women despite the 99 plus rejection rate. Men are learning how to take it and leave it, women are giving out the playbook for free.

@capo4ever334

2 жыл бұрын

If I go for like female model tier women I'm probably getting rejected. The absolute blow to your self esteem kills.

Someone got rejected so she don’t wanna text first anymore

I can practically feel the wind blowing in my face from those fugly fake lashes.

1. Mufasa was indeed a real one. I cried so much

This reminds me of Bill Burr and his wife Nia switching roles of approaching someone. Bill made the argument that women have no game. In the middle of their experiment, Nia asked why is Bill making it difficult for her to ask him out. His response: "Welcome to my world."

@RandomPerson-gf6gd

2 жыл бұрын

Can you give me a link to the video?

@gametrain5439

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you found it, it's a great conversation they had

@RandomPerson-gf6gd

2 жыл бұрын

@@gametrain5439 I haven’t, what was it called?

@gianni206

2 жыл бұрын

This video’s fantastic- you have no idea

@hesseislife

2 жыл бұрын

@Random Person it's definitely worth a watch; you should look it up!

The music at the end of the videos is back 🙌

I got 2 bumble ads while watching this.... Bumble ain't sweating it🤣

Her hunting anology is hilarious because trappers exist. You put out traps with bait and wait. The prey comes to you.

@TheAnamnesisable

2 жыл бұрын

She doesn’t hunt or even understand these things so nothing she says will make sense

@victorcode2075

2 жыл бұрын

What Hunter wouldn't want to see an animal stumble across his path?

@Remianen

2 жыл бұрын

New York City exists due to trappers. Imagine that!

@nickb6425

2 жыл бұрын

Pretty sure even animal predators trap and wait for their prey LOL. I've atleast seen videos of it. Also I hate when women like this use the "men are hunters" thing. Know what hunters do? Kill. Sooooooo..?

"How do you make a woman miserable?" Give her everything she wants.

@leeyandrencube6426

2 жыл бұрын

This comment is so funny yet so true 😂😂💯

@marlom7882

2 жыл бұрын

I am so glad I gave up. I’m clinically depressed myself. I’m busy trying to stay here I have no tools to help someone (else) who will never be happy

@jackwhite8238

2 жыл бұрын

@@marlom7882 I'm jumping out on a limb here and please correct t me if a m wrong but I assume the reason you are depressed is because you have recently learned that you have been fed lies your entire life and can not figure out how to actually fulfill that false reality. We've all been there. But there is another side to this coin I call the poker theory. Sometimes you are dealt a shifty hand you can either fold or play anyway. However you only play when you can see a weakness in your opponent's strategy. You use that weakness against them. Maybe in past hands they bet high when they have good cards but bet weak when they want you to think they have good cards so they take minimal risk while bluffing you. So you call that bluff by bluffing them. You don't ask for the rules to be changed to suit your situation you just play the game as it is. Sometimes you win sometimes you lose. Either way there will always be a new hand as long as you keep playing. Its the exact same principle with dating. You have to see it for what it is. A game. Sometimes you have good hand most of the time its a shitty hand. Sometimes you win sometimes you lose. And sometimes you have to bullshit to get to the top. When you win a hand you don't give some of your winnings back to your opponent. Fuck him. This is your game now.

@jackwhite8238

2 жыл бұрын

@@marlom7882 in other words don't give up. Do accept defeat. Adapt. Restratigise. Take what worked and implement while discarding what failed. Sometimes you have to completely start over from scratch as in my case. So instead of looking for the one to marry. See how many new faces you can bust a nut on in a week. Try being indifferent instead of caring. Not out of spite but because you are a busy and fruitful man that has to much on his plate thean to be bothered with the fickle ways of females. A wise man said you will lose greatness chasing women but you will never lose women chasing greatness. And by the im sure you know by now this is the exact mentality women take towards us. They seek what is best for them as their end result your feelings and emotions be damnd.

@oscaraurelio8869

2 жыл бұрын

She cannot even say "hi!" and have some conversation. She had a job in this thing, and she cannot even do it right SMH.

PREACHHH! "It's not Bumble, it's BUMBACLOT!!!" 😭🤣

...does she not know how hunting works?😂 No ma'am we don't go roaming around the woods looking for the deer. We post up in a spot they're known for and you sit and wait for them to come to you. Jfc this isn't the ice age where we're running after mammoths with spears🤣

The whole concept of Bumble was to serve as a level of security and empowerment to women. In the past, when you open messaging up to strangers online, women received many un-solicited messages, this manages that problem. This is a stupid argument. Don't like bumble? Then don't use bumble. This is a really simple fix. Potato Head.

@Hunting4truth

2 жыл бұрын

literally any othe app and she would have what she wants but she needs something to complain about shes gonna say this is all men all men want this entitlement she thinks we have on dating apps ffs

@hellohey000

2 жыл бұрын

As a woman, I like bumble. I don't really see a problem here.

@DonnielSeymour

2 жыл бұрын

😆

@letsgetjackdup9952

2 жыл бұрын

You got a point. I agree. Women who say that are just upset they aren't getting many matches with "quality men" but they aren't swiping to find quality men because they have "High standards" that is why they can't find quality men. Women like this are like the type of women who skip through all the average Joe's and go straight to the guys with muscles etc.. and complain there are not any good men. 😕

@crashzone6600

2 жыл бұрын

Catering to feminism will get you canceled.

She's just embarrassed she has no game. Most of the things she's saying are the exact same argument guys that are clueless with wmn say. When people get exposed they tend to make up every excuse in the book as to why they aren't the problem.

@kaliimyst7925

2 жыл бұрын

A

@jackwhite8238

2 жыл бұрын

Straight facts bro. Its the perfect indication of laziness. I know because I operated along those same lines for such a long time. And as a result I became a hateful and bitter person. That fuled its own fire. In a sense it is a strategy, an in efficient strategy but a strategy nonetheless and believe it or not that is also a desired outcome you weed yourself out for them. When I decided I didn't want to be that person and started understanding the rules of the game and how they are rigged against me far beyond what any carnival game could dream of I decided to play by my own rules. This batch thinks we are playing checkers and I'm now a chess master and its my board

1 Mufasa taught me the circle of life. Rest in Pepperonis.

Excellent Video, Interesting

"Those are Feminist. You must never go there Simba!" 1 for MUFASA

" It's not BUMBLE it's BUMBACLOT !!" the best quote of 2021

@WickedHill

2 жыл бұрын

I lost it

@Jelisha106

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@evyn8946

2 жыл бұрын

im sleep 🤣💀

@eznosnopes5276

2 жыл бұрын

Preach has been dropping hard bars this year.

@ZekromvsReshiram2423

2 жыл бұрын

Almost spat out my coffee, yeooooooo XD

So I have not truly jumped back into dating. I am out of two back to back super longterm relationships and so I have not been on dating sites much.What little I have seen: 1. Men will approach you - a lot of them. Too many messages to even read almost immediately. It's overwhelming. But men DO approach. 2. You do not need to look like an Instagram model. 3. You just need to be a real human person. 4. Men want to make connections. I see it all over.

meanwhile all her openers were probably "hey" 😂

1 for Mufasa The delusion of this woman is something we see everyday, she believes everything around her should change, adjust, and correct itself however she remains pure and perfect. She's alright, she can do no wrong. Crazy.

@NightDoomyeayuheard

2 жыл бұрын

1 for Mufasa

@mSantsnj

2 жыл бұрын

1 🙏🏽

@kaycee8323

2 жыл бұрын

I think that's because some people are so dang insecure about themselves that they seek weak spots in literally everything around them. And if someone is deficite oriented - they'll ALWAYS find stuff to cuss about.

@chrismaneewan7651

2 жыл бұрын

1 🙏 Mufasa was a real one

Her friend has a decent agreeable husband that they met online... and she seems unable to cope with that by any means other than framing them both as defective in some way. People like this are alone because they choose to be, even if it happens to be an unconscious effort. I feel like the only kind of relationship she can even imagine is a fairly tale picture perfect scene that you'll rarely, if ever, catch in real life.

Every girl I've ever been with since I was a teenager, im 36 now, I approached. I've never had a girl actually approach me. At least not in dating terms. I've had women introduce themselves to me but it was clearly more with intentions of just letting me know she was there but the expectation was still on me to pursue. Honestly at this point I dont know if I could handle a girl actively pursuing me. It would feel like the fucking twilight zone, like I was being punkd or something.

Guy on the left made a song in the 80's "love can't turn around"

Bumble is showing women a glimpse of what men go through. And they don't like it.

@deathlst8860

2 жыл бұрын

This should've been the title lol

@MrLawalker

Жыл бұрын

Ikr?!?