Many of us weren’t raised by parents who told us we are enough and didn’t praise us and now as adults we struggle to find our worth and can’t see it. So sad. I raised my son the opposite of what my parents did. I praised him, complimented him, never squashed his dreams and he’s 31 and very successful, happy and well adjusted. We can still overcome if we accept that our parents messed up and had no knowledge to pass on and projected their own insecurities and inefficiency on us and it wasn’t their fault.

@Iyonndadon

10 ай бұрын

And know that your creator has unconditional, incomprehensible love for us all.

@PlaywithDaisy

10 ай бұрын

@@user-dg1te1ju7h same😞

@adorevevomusic

10 ай бұрын

who's fault is it than , somehow we know better if they tried they would too don't you think ? I am not making any more excuses for my parent anymore he was what he was and if he wanted he would be better because I can use that excuse as well and be the same but I am not

@rahinsabah7365

10 ай бұрын

At first I felt so sad reading your story but when started saying how you raised your son, it suddenly bought a smile on my face.

@tarabendre1825

10 ай бұрын

Actually, it’s not a good thing to praise kids. Only if they ask for it. Praising kids teaches them to be people pleasers. There’s also a difference between pro aiding kids based on performance vs effort. I read about this the other day, so thought I would share.

It’s becoming super clear to me now that I’ve been doing this all wrong. My self concept is all over the place I know my worth but I let limiting thoughts dominate too often which is reflected in my 3d.

@KennethLane90

8 ай бұрын

🙏🏾

@sarahoop5859

4 ай бұрын

Me too it’s like I know I deserve better but I don’t see myself that way

Thank you !!! The majority of people think of arrogance as having high self concept or confidence and it's quite off putting.

@Dreamwithjoy

10 ай бұрын

I agree 😂, that's why nuance is important!

@shortbreadcookie

10 ай бұрын

Ikr! And people who are quiet gentle or kind tend to be seen as soft and weak, which sucks

@mikelucas5845

10 ай бұрын

Ceases to suck when you develop a loving self concept. ❤️

I hope you read this message, You have a great future ahead of you I can easily see it.

I loved your point about not relying on external factors to determine your worth in a relationship. I'm so tired of hearing about "low-value man this" or "high-value woman that." It's such a cruel and reductive way to speak about people, and it makes romantic partnerships seem like a transaction.

@BlueYellowGreenVc

10 ай бұрын

Those people using those terms do indeed view relationships as transactional. So, it fits.

My family raised me in a way of that every single thing i do , and everything i am is never enough . Which caused me to have a low self concept and a lack mentality . It took me so long and so much work to have a good self concept.

@mikelucas5845

10 ай бұрын

Keep going, bc you are so lovable and awesome and amazing and valuable and worthy. Please try to always remember this. Your worth depends on NOTHING ❤️❤️❤️

@Manifest_success_with_me

10 ай бұрын

​@@mikelucas5845r🎉🎉 right

@tileshp3762

9 ай бұрын

How did you exactly do this work - through journalling and meditation? I have had exactly the same from my parents it really sucks and Ive got to age 44 struggle badly day to day

@Manifest_success_with_me

9 ай бұрын

@@tileshp3762 yes you can overcome anything in life, journaling+ visualization+ subliminal with affirmations through out the day

Joy, your message is spot-on about how to have a good life. We become what we think and believe about ourselves. I'm an old-timer, age 75, and I didn't discover the truth in your message until around age 40, which is when my life became wonderful. The "tool" I used to change how I see myself has been a gratitude list. I started writing it back in 1989, putting in every little, and larger gratitude, starting by thinking trough my childhood up until the present day. Today that list is over 54,000 words - 134 pages single-space typed into a Word document. Doing this exercise, and keeping it going over the years, caused a total shift in how I saw myself. Everything changed for the better. My life changed, my marriage changed, my business changed - all for the better. It's a wonderful message. What we think about expands, and by keeping grateful, I keep getting more things about which to be grateful. Try this. Keep it going, it works.

@JB-os3yp

10 ай бұрын

love this!

@mikelucas5845

10 ай бұрын

Yes that is awesome! ❤️❤️❤️

@Awaregirl

10 ай бұрын

❤

@WildSheWolf_

9 ай бұрын

that is so valuable to hear! i love to read the results of others, they inspire me to keep going!

@olive.yoo888

9 ай бұрын

This is so beautiful ❤

Environment triggers feelings which trigger mood which trigger thoughts and actions. You have the power to become less volatile to your environment you have all the control you are your god. Trust me when I say from experience staying in that higher frequency does attract positive experiences. Thats not to say you wont be tested but its a blip in time dont let that bs affect you queen. Stay unbothered.

@barcelona12ist

6 ай бұрын

how did you get to that state of mind? most beliefs are subconscious, you even don't know that they exist...

* I get what I want as long as it doesn’t hurt myself or others, and benefits the collective as a whole. ❤

@yaarahaim6143

10 ай бұрын

❤

@graceclover8697

10 ай бұрын

“i always get what i want in healthy ways” “i get everything i want with no harm caused” my favs

Parents were v strict and so was my dance teacher. Yes I learned a great Class8dance form under her for 12 years but those 12 years of my childhood I was under pressure , stress n lot of unrequited discipline which often use to turn into distress. I m a first class first university topper gold medalist girl..fair n beautiful and a dancer and singer..however I never knew I need to value myself as a result my husband too thought of me as very gullible n took me for a ride for several years wth tremendous mental abuse n disrespect...but no more. Enough is enough. I stand up again n first v thing I want to love myself ..right from a small child uptill now..I😊 I select people v carefully now ..I need best wishes from you all..

Abundance is an energy, feel your way into abundance. Who are your role models, what inspires you about them, whats their self concept. Learn from them, what are they doing right. How we do the small things is how we do the big things. Do small things like a big person. Embody the energy of that future you that you hold in your mindspace. Wishing us all the best. With love Sun.

I love how you outline the difference between arrogance and confidence. So true. Thanks for the explanation!

You should know how uplifting your words are! I woke up feeling like I wasn't able to manifest, and now I know I can do anything.

I'm so grateful I found your channel, I love this video I promise to achieve a high self concept because I know what I desire is just around the corner. ✨

I always felt that I needed to lower myself, don’t have worth and thinking that I didn’t deserve anything good because of my trauma. Now that I recovered and my way to healing I still feel the same and people please a lot. Changing how I think of myself is the answer Thank you so much ❤

Thank you! I needed to hear this message all my life, but in this moment. I love you, you are one of a kind, different, stand out from every of manifesting teacher. Thank you again for this video!❤

I’m so happy your channel found me today. I’m grateful for this content. Much needed. Thank You🎉

Keep toxic people out of your life. You must know what narcissism is to keep out these predatory and abusive people out of your life. Toxic people will destroy your life.

@GeschichtsProfi

10 ай бұрын

Yes this is so true people underestimate the power of toxic people narcissistic /psychopaths,.. are like an evil force . Cutting the cords from these people is mandatory for a good life

This is perhaps the best video I've seen in my life about manifesting and similar topics. I subscribed. Beautiful energy. Thank you.

When i watch this video in the morning i see that you have 459 subscribers now you have 744 your amazing ❤ i'm soo greatful for that i found this video and your channel. Keep going girl looking for more amazing content ✨️

Wow ❤ THANK YOU. I really needed this today and there you are. Grateful for your content. Keep shinning your North star 🌟 💫 ❤⭐️ ❤🌟

love this! perfect timing. your personality creates your personal reality so get to working on self concept and how you view yourself, you guys lets gooooo

Really needed to hear this and slow down and trust my self and my power in my reality in life.

All I need to hear for now and forever. Thank You!!!

thank you for this video. I need a reminder of this message regularly cos it's so easy to forget 😭

your voice is so calming great vid 🫶🫶

This is part of Hermeticism and I agree completely. Also it is important to love and accept everything and everyone as it is, as well as yourself. In doing so will kill negativity and lack and you become someone who attracts what your new worth is. It will also take any SP off the pedestal. I love you Joy. I have subscribed because we can never have enough of words and ideas such as these.

Downloaded this video to keep it on a demand for whenevere i need it. I geew up just generally hating myself and not seeing my worth and unconsciously carried that program around with me. I basically ruined my life before it even began. Thank you for always motivating me. I really want to book you for coaching one day.

Joy you have an extremely serene voice which resonates deep within even for us. This is really helpful and elevating. We all are rewards like yourself Joy.

Thank you so much! It's already done!❤❤❤

subscribed! ive been telling myself that ill focus on self concept but then i end up focusing way too much on sp or literally anything else. now ill actually be placing the focus on me 💅

Thank you! This video is right on time. 🙌🏽 I needed to hear this today, in this moment. This is how l used to feel and need to get back to it.❤️

That is some rare and realistic take on self- concept. Appreciate it❤️

first of all you’re gorgeous you’re so well spoken and i love your voice and btw this is a really detail video and your tips are very unique so thank u🤍

You are a beautiful soul. I was seeking Joy, and I found you. Thank you for reminding me of my worth. I wish I could surround myself with friends like you. By the way, I stayed to the end without skipping, because you are worth listening to!

Absolutely love your comment and videos Thankyou for freely sharing this with us all ❤❤❤

What a beautiful message. Thank you for sharing!

I am freaking stoked for the world we are creating!!

Thanks for this video, the king Queen mentality help see the things in other ways, like yeah... the queen can't be stressed or anxious for everything, she need to believe that everything is going to be ok❤

Thank you for making this video. Everything you said was what I needed to hear in my life right now. I was so anxious today feeling like I wasn’t enough and that I didn’t deserve what I desired even though I know I shouldn’t be thinking this way. I feel so uplifted and encouraged. Thank you so much. Well done! I wish you and everyone the watching your content an amazing fulfilled life!

I really appreciate the way you broke this down and explained it, I listen to alot ot manifesting and metaphysical content, you explanation is really clear. Just subscribed, looking forward to hearing more from you.

Subscribed!!!!! Amazing way you out things. I feel so powerful and so much of what I’ve been trying to learn has finally clicked. Thank you love ❤❤❤❤

So well articulated. Thanks for this.

Hello, this video popped up in front of me today. This is my introduction to you and your channel. Thank you for this video. I value and appreciate what you are sharing here, and your voice feels good.

Thankyou Joy! You are a real one ❤️ selfconcept IS NR 1

Thank you for this wonderful video💖. I needed to hear it this morning.

This is the best self concept video i have watched u speak so calmly that it feels like a therapy listening 💕

Wow. Absolutely amazing video. Love your insights and how you express and explain them! I also love towards the end, you say- idk maybe this isn't the way manifest your life...but this is how I did it! I even journaled about some things you brought up. And questions you asked. I really loved how provoked it made my mine! Thanks for sharing. 🙏💚

Thank you, watching this video and another one of yours, has reminded me of my power and i really needed to be reminded of that.

What a beautiful soul you are. Inside and out. Thank you for your precious video 👸🏻💖🙏

Got so many self-limiting beliefs up in here it feels like I'm gonna pass out when I focus on maintaining this mindset 😂 Been practicing for a while, but this was a great listen! Subbed

Great information 😊 I love the king and queen concept on living on faith that you know what to do and not stress. We problem solve everyday just take the stress and chase out of it!!

You are such a Gem, what a beautiful human being you are. Thank you so much Joy xo

I like how you talk and explain about self-concept very well. 👏🏼✨

new sub! loved how you explained the importance of having a good self concept in a clear and easy manner 🥰

I love you too! You are an amazing speaker and wonderful thinker. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us!

Yup, if you release the importance of what you're manifesting, it appears quicker! thanks for the message. love your accent.

Thank you. You are a relatable and effective communicator - and I needed to see this video tonight.

Great video! Self concept is everything ✨

Unbelievably executed, thank you for the reminder that the power is within me.

Listening to this for my morning affirmations made me feel so powerful

This is such a powerful message. Shared and subscribed. Thank you ❤❤❤

JOY I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!! You honestly touched my heart with this beautiful sweetmessage and making me realise how important it is i view myself first before even thinking about others.😘❤💞

Thank you for making this video, a lot of values given ❤

You just earned a new subscriber! Beautiful and a much needed video! Keep it up💗

Thank you for these wise words. I know I'm so worthy I'm so unique I have a lot of skills but I tend to downsize them so much and feel like crap.

thank you so much for such an informative video! and your examples of how to practice self concept were truly great, subscribed! ❤

This was so good! Thank you Joy

*You don't need to get plastic surgery* hits hard 🥺 coz as a young child i never felt pretty and thought only beautiful people can have good friends. But as i matured i realised its all about self concept 💗. Thank you for your lovely video.

I like your message and appreciate that you took the time to record these wise thoughts.

This video is perfect just what I needed thank you!

A stunning message, Thankyou.

So important. Thank you for the reminder.

Wow!! It's my first time to see a girl that is wise, deep, and pretty at the same time.. Hope you all the best I've learnt a lot from you. Thank you ❤️

I feel so lucky I found this channel and this video

Thank you for this video. It has opened my mind to a whole new concept of life

Loved your perspective. Thanks ❤

Thank you ❤ I needed to be reminded of who I am 😊

thank you for creating this video 💜

I just discovered your channel, it was in my recommended list. I feel so blessed after listening to your videos. I already started binge watching them. Your messages are mind blowing mega good and your voice is soo soothing!! I don’t know you but somehow I love you 😅. I Immediately subscribed. I can’t wait to listen to your next videos. Sending you lots of love & light. ✨

Thank u for this powerful message, wish I heard it 40 yrs ago:-) But I hear it now!

this video is soo comforting and you look soo pretty 💜

You are amazing...I hope your channel grows!

Something about this just HITS the right spot. There is a whole lot of other material on the topic but that stuff feels forced and this stuff feels natural!!

You made it, congrats!!! ❤️❤️❤️

Thank you so much for this video It was definitely needed

OMG!!! This is soooo good! Thank you so much.❤

How did you learn to speak so flawlessly? You are a beautiful, well-spoken, and smart person. Thank you for this. My girlfriend needs to know this since she doesn't realize how smart and beautiful she is herself.

You are really amazing. What you say makes sense. And you are pretty. I love the calmness in your voice💕

I’m so happy that I clicked this vid n thank u sm:)

This is turning lights on for me, thanks!!! 💡 🎉

Thank you so much joy ❤ I love all of your videos they helped me so much

I love this, your energy is relaxing ❤

You rock! Thank you for this gem video

So Calming and Authentic and no faking or extra anything.. to the point video.... love it

Thankyou dear..really appreciate your mindset ❤

Best self concept video I’ve seen on KZread

I LOVE this. WHat need needs me to be manifested in this world

beautifull message, thankyou.

Thank you so much for the video.❤