Stop giving a brother a chance, Ladies. This is a warning from all who won't change for you.

@H.S.M.ShinzoVirtuoSoul

6 ай бұрын

And kings have to stop giving any sister a chance. We as Kings and Queens need to be united in the reality that we’ve accepted a lot of judgment, misguidance, lack of respect and boundaries, lack of self love and awareness, lack of disciple and accountability over healing and building ourselves into people capable of sharing a space with another and truly being ready to commit to investing our time, energy, resources, and emotions into another individual. We as a community have to take responsibility for the state we’ve allowed our men, women, children, entire society become shaped and molded into a representation of distrust, deceit, slander, hate, competition, fear, and much more. We’ve allowed the degradation of culture unfold before our eyes. It all starts with the family structure, weak families equals weak communities, weak communities means easy access to manipulation, easy access to manipulation means corporate agenda and strategies can be put in place to further separate and misalign the balance of the divine feminine and divine masculine, disrupt the balance and now things can move in any which way the disrupter seeks it to go. Love you queen you’re very correct in your stance as Queens especially being the ones who are so receptive who are the one to open up to receiving you have to cherish you energy on all level mentally, physically, spiritually, and soulfully. Queen can’t allow this weak and misguided kings who have become slave to the systems of self doubt, self sabotage, self degradation to be whom they share their space with. Your are what you consume and vice versa as kings we can’t pour our light into any unestablished, unrealized queen whom isn’t ready for someone who wants to pour into her and develop a genuine connection and perpetuate elevation for both parties

@manyrubies

6 ай бұрын

He literally said “I hurt you on purpose” but here comes the “both sides” word salad lol.

@visionsofablackherstorian

6 ай бұрын

@manyrubies the first sentence let's me know I shouldn't read all of that. We know that most women ain't out here hurting men on purpose, but I don't know if I can say the same for men.

@H.S.M.ShinzoVirtuoSoul

6 ай бұрын

@@manyrubies I’ve seen both sides hurt the other intentionally, we’re all reflections someone’s story may not be the same but can be similar. Can’t lock it into to a box when it comes to energy and that’s what everything stems from. I just like to view the duality of life and approach all angles of perspective. It’s just how i operate. I see the state of where relationships are on both sides. A lack of accountability is and issue in both ends, but the way each side operates in terms of how they go about is different. Whether from a conscious or and emotional standpoint if your intentions is to cause harm, get your get back, or make them feel you pain than you’re hurting them on purpose. He’s clearly damaged in a multitude of ways and has to heal, Im not saying he’s not wrong for what he’s done or is doing. I’m stating that as people in general we have to be discerning of whom we allow in to spaces of vulnerability after all energy is precious and energy in motion stays in motion, so you can have negative low vibing energy in motion or uplifting high vibration, it comes through proper evaluation and allocation of the energies in alignment with the life and state of being you seek to reach. But i get it in two sides fighting the war often don’t want to hear a third party say they need push for peace, especially after so much pain, death, lost of resource, bridges burned, kingdoms crumbled, etc.

@H.S.M.ShinzoVirtuoSoul

6 ай бұрын

@@visionsofablackherstorian Feel free to read if you wish. Just sharing my view of things. It may be more women or more men, I haven’t done the analytics. I’m speaking from the angle of truth I’ve witnessed. Both sides experience similar traumas in different formations of how they arise. My view in things is we have to accept the broader responsibility as society in of itself from the state of dynamics in place. We’ve allowed a multitude of different areas to promote separation, disconnection, disrespect, and disregard for true genuine connection and unity. Whether it’s the corporate agenda of men vs women, and the equality rights in there. There’s plenty unfair on both ends in terms of corporate design and that’s for a reason. To the music and art, songs about hoing and tossing ass, or dishing harmful substances to the communities and gunning down brothers sisters left and right, the agenda of distrust especially through systemic oppression put into place, all the well fair options and areas of support from government assistance put in place for women so that they feel less reliant on a strong male presence and rely more on the government breaking up families. It goes deeper than men and women at this point. We have to acknowledge the disunity in play, the lack of principles and respect on both sides, the need for healing on both sides, and not just acknowledge it but intentionally work towards resolving it. If we get caught up in feeling like we, men, women, any particular one set of people when in the end we all are here and all gotta live on this earth. we can either fight each other or raise each other up.

When you love yourself you know when someone else does.

@user-dq9rr9mv3f

6 ай бұрын

Bl@c Men Don’t luv BW.. never have…

This is so deep a true message about mirroring

Took me 32 years but I did it - it’s never too late ❤

All I can do is weep while he speaks the truth of my life for the past 24 years with my children's father 😓😓😓😓. Everyday praying for a way out.

@CJLopez-

8 күн бұрын

Please know, you can get out. There are women’s shelters, there is help for you. X

@ChrisEllis-jx6qs

6 күн бұрын

@@CJLopez- i hope shes out now

💥👏🏾POWERFUL💥👏🏾 I CRY FOR MY SISTERS...PRAYING that they GET OUT PLEASE. As for me & for the RECORD....I WISH A MFR WOULD.

This is incredibly hard, sad to listen to and see yourself in the poem but necessary 😔 😢

I’m so grateful to God I know the truth about who they really are and how they really move.

Since I found this I repeat it so my soul can get it.

Princella high powered podcast for more teachings. But he did his thing there

@nomorecrocs

6 ай бұрын

word!!

This is what it would look like if Satan was to ever tell you the truth. Or did he just do that thru this man?

@MissSeeSue

5 ай бұрын

😮 that’s deep

@maddywoo5922

4 ай бұрын

That's so funny you said that because I was literally thinking of the Hades and Persephone

This is very powerful and needed to be said. 👏

This needed to be said!

Listening to this every morning as my pep talk

I will say im a product of a generational course as men we foolishly taught each other this was the thing to do but it wasn't, it was like watching a wilted flower in your your hands and it was your fault thank God that stage of my life is over I was working way to hard 😊

I’m a woman. I can’t imagine being in this position and staying. Fearing being alone isn’t a reason to stay in abuse. Alone is good. It’s freedom and joy.

@Ehlaar

5 ай бұрын

Its not being alone thats the fear it having to rebuild only to have to deal with them for life if yall have kids.

Truth! 🙏🏽🖤

I needed this today!

Thank you so much for this ❤

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👂🏿Remove Gender (unless it applies) and focus on the Energy of these words.… It can be difficult to accept but Healing ❤️‍🩹 is Paramount in an Effort to move Forward..Never Gaslight Your Soul 🤲🏿

Damn I feel for brother. Idk him personally but i seen another poem of his in regards to the scar his dad left him. And a part of that is why he’s like this but in general idk his whole story. It’s sad he has that state of mind and he’s so closed off to love, and trust me i know the pain of not feeling worthy or incapable of attracting love but it’s another trauma within him that makes him wanna redirect that pain toward another so intently. We all project, but his need to bring some down into that state of misery is regardless of how much i feel his pain and can see his misguided but i’ll never respect any who can’t face their emotions and rather have someone embrace that emotion with em instead of getting out of it choosing to drag one into is disgusting no matter how much you cost it in sugar. And that is said from the most compassionate space I can offer to instill upon others what you wishes was never instilled into you will always be disgusting in my eyes. Because i’ve wanted to make people feel my pain so often and never did I let myself do that, not because i couldn’t or i was scared to but that I stood on principle and would never allow my suffering to become another Im a man and I can clean my own mess is the mentality i took, and overtime i’ve healed and I’m still healing. Love you tribe appreciate you sharing I wish peace love and light may you receive healing protection and growth, may you expand into something and someone who embodies higher intentions than this variation of self

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This is about a narcissist

@mzSholar

Күн бұрын

Big Facts

Being with a narcissist psychopath 😢

Sounds like a narcissist and codependent relationship