She seems very classy and friendly

@coldwarveteran

Жыл бұрын

her accent is from South England so it sounds very posh

@rohp1283

Жыл бұрын

And tolerant. If he is a typical Japanese man, it would take a lot of trying.

@Marsh_125

Жыл бұрын

@@coldwarveteran actually I thought she sounded Welsh

@Marsh_125

Жыл бұрын

@@SNLL811 that’s what I thought. Sounds like she was born in Wales, lived there for a while, then moved to England before going to Japan

@UserIsM

Жыл бұрын

@@coldwarveteran deffo not south England. Maybe welsh as other commenters have said

You can tell she has her life together based on how white her dress is, so crisp and not a single stain, i could never.

@moxee33

11 ай бұрын

Maybe her husband owns a laundromat? Have faith that you too can own a white dress! 😜

@priskruger314

11 ай бұрын

Simple lol. I have 3 white pieces, 2 tunics and one blouse. I only wear them when going out and take them off asap at home. Cause at home I cook clean etc. I do get food stains on thel from eating out but if you treat it asap w a special soap or even dishwashing liquid you can prevent the stains from becoming worse. And it is such a pleasant and fresh experience to quickly grab your white top nd head out looking crisp ❤❤❤

@BerthaC

11 ай бұрын

you can get a new white dress and wore it out for a day to feel that 😅

@omnacky

11 ай бұрын

@@priskruger314 But how do you manage to not get mustard all over it

@priskruger314

11 ай бұрын

@@omnacky oh I do I just use a spray against stains and toss it in the washing machine :)

She seems so intelligent, classy and put together.

@JamesEvans-yn9hh

8 ай бұрын

Yes emphasis on the word 'seems' British women are not this deep down and he's likely feeling trapped and stuck with her now. They're awful people (majority not all). You can tell she's a horrible person if you look closer

@joeycheckers114

8 ай бұрын

Intelligent based on what? Basic conversation skills?? Y'all get impressed over anything lmao.

@xxkanezxx6903

8 ай бұрын

​@@JamesEvans-yn9hhwtf are you talking about

@wankmaster69

8 ай бұрын

beach couldn't learn Japanese in 7 year.

@jiminswriter4209

8 ай бұрын

@@wankmaster69She speaks Japanese, but not as well as she would like.

She's definitely Welsh, although she's lived in Japan for 7 years, she still has her Welsh accent. She's extremely beautiful and classy.

@elfedowen6452

8 ай бұрын

We can never get rid of our accent 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿😂

@domestinger8805

7 ай бұрын

She wears the pants fosho

@jakel8627

7 ай бұрын

I'm British and I don't hear it. She sounds English to me.

@leeruffle6542

7 ай бұрын

I am hear the welsh like a soft Stacey

@annvirco7308

7 ай бұрын

I don't hear any Welsh ,it sounds more like RP

She got the relationship advice on lock. Cultural differences are not the downfall of relationships; hesitation/unwillingness to listen/forgive/compromise is the reason things fall apart.

@BrittenelleandOrionKMG

Жыл бұрын

Same for all relationships really regardless of race

@Mlopesfornow

Жыл бұрын

All those things are important, but you should still have self respect and know when to walk away when a relationship isn’t working

@jrufus9169

Жыл бұрын

​@Marissa Lopes you can't just cut off just because it's hard to maintain a relationship

@FellaHAILIRA

Жыл бұрын

It doesn't matter. Don't bring in white women. They will change our culture. Look at the western world, it is falling apart. We have to preserve ours. Countries where white women are in power are culturally and morally dead.

@ricepredator

Жыл бұрын

@@Mlopesfornow of course, know when to walk away or dig in deeper. There is no hardline on this kind of thing, hence communication so you know what to do.

The way she speaks, moves, her opinions, everything is so classy. I can only imagine her husband is a very elegant and intelligent person too.

@ah5721

Жыл бұрын

She has very Japanese mannerisms and make up.

@avasava7720

Жыл бұрын

Ok

@mumuuuuo

Жыл бұрын

Me thinking exactly the same. Want to see him

@JV-eh3lh

Жыл бұрын

I guess he's like the opposite lol

@imasunflowerlilfunny3353

Жыл бұрын

​@@mumuuuuo bro🤣🤣

My Aunt married the most kind, gentle, enthusiastic, charming man about 65 years ago. He was Japanese RIP..you will never be forgotten.

@HTOP1982

7 ай бұрын

We all Carry Tsubasa in our hearts.

Gosh her accent is so classy and cool 😩

@H1NCH023

10 ай бұрын

She's from South Wales

@NorthWestNomad

8 ай бұрын

Americans will find her accent as boring

@SOCyak

8 ай бұрын

@@NorthWestNomadI’m American and don’t really find her accent boring, I don’t care about accents much because I hear them all the time.

@pnbrowne

8 ай бұрын

She is trying to hide her Welsh accent…..

@classic8802

8 ай бұрын

I thought I heard a welsh accent, I’m form north wales and don’t have the accent I’m that sucks :(

Acceptance, Patience and open mindedness is really the key. 😊

@commentarytalk1446

Жыл бұрын

I though that was very well said. I'd guess a nice man is a man with "good values" as well and that's universal across humans if developed. :-)

@spoopyscaryskelebones3846

Жыл бұрын

@@commentarytalk1446 yea

@garrettparks7439

Жыл бұрын

These are keys to a successful relationship in general, very good advice.

@BellicV

Жыл бұрын

As long as it goes both ways

@garrettparks7439

Жыл бұрын

@@BellicV Absolutely, agree! Both partners must show up and contribute equally to ensure a healthy and successful relationship, if one party is less committed, it results in a power imbalance that can lead to abuse.

She sounds like an open minded, kind woman. I like her. Very respectful.

@scoottoujourspret743

Жыл бұрын

Sorry but i dont like her voice

@Ron.S.

Жыл бұрын

Yet she came with the intention to overstay by one month…

@Boogiebandit6

Жыл бұрын

​@@Ron.S. what is that even meant to mean??? What was the point of this comment?

@Ron.S.

Жыл бұрын

@@Boogiebandit6 she said she planned to stay for 7 months. You get a 3 months visa and can extend for another 3

@Boogiebandit6

Жыл бұрын

@@Ron.S. cool

My husband is Japanese. Been together for almost 30 years and living in Japan for 25 years! He's wonderful 🎉 but a lot of my foreign friends are also married to Japanese as well. Mixed couples are not all happy though. Some are actually pretty miserable. So it's not all roses for everyone. It's been roses for me though. You do have to be careful..there are crazies everywhere.

@cksammi

8 ай бұрын

It's not the race it's the person you married. Choose wisely because marriage means forever with that one person.

@rasthehead

6 ай бұрын

@@cksammi I like what you said, but marriage isn't with one person in my eyes, at least not for me.

@Go4Broke247

5 ай бұрын

Gotta be able to understand each other's culture, family value, and tradition.

@vesper7750

4 ай бұрын

​@@cksammiwell not true, you can always get a divorce! Maybe for religious reasons some people believe it's "forever" but I think not for most, at least where I live (which is in Sweden and we're basically not religious at all here, not counting minorities and stuff like that).

Aww, I went to college with her. She was a lovely girl, from Swansea (South wales) ❤ she was very articulate with a nice presence 😊

@basugunja

7 ай бұрын

Good to know about her.

@Colorbrush21

5 ай бұрын

Such a small world. That's one of the nicest things about social media. You can connect with people you used to know. You met her in Wales. Someone else said she had a Welsh accent. And you just confirmed it. As an American, I would never have guessed Welsh. To me, she just has a cool, classy English accent. ❤

It's EQUALLY IMPORTANT that your partner is ALSO patient and open-minded. If not, your patience and open-mindedness will just spoil them.

@NowioART

Жыл бұрын

Speaking from experience, eh? How many good women spoiled you?

@ryantan9175

Жыл бұрын

@@NowioART bro wtf if he speaking from experience then it should be the other way around why r u painting him as the bad guy 🤨🤨

@unknownoblivion2417

Жыл бұрын

Facts, I’m seeing happen in front of my very own eyes w my brother and his foreign wife, it’s headache but not that much for him cuz he loves her and is willing to do anything to make it work on the other hand she acts like (let me not say negative things here.) It’s just not good, as a family we’ve been going through it let’s say, I’ve yet to have an open honest conversation with my brother on this I’m sure he has an idea what he’s putting us through but still it’s better if I explain it all clearly so he’ll really know where everything is at I feel like I don’t have a proper reliable, older brother cuz his actions show the irrationality in the choices (Poor uncultured vulgar shameless?/confident/inconsiderate girl came to a Rich family w out us getting a chance to question her properly, we just accepted her with open arms based on what my brother wanted, what kinda bs is that )

@renosance8941

Жыл бұрын

​@@ryantan9175Maybe it was just a joke... Ironically, an example of cultural difference. You can read his comment like "😤" or... you can read his comment like "😏" lol

@Frasianfamily

Жыл бұрын

Agreed, compromise goes both ways!!

The epitome of what an articulate, intelligent, and sophisticated lady is all about.

@Crystalbomb321

Жыл бұрын

She’s classy, but nothing she said was really that articulate.

@irenequidachay3609

Жыл бұрын

@elixirdrops4736 excuse me! Her enunciation is articulating! You need to educate yourself on what is the definition of articulation!

@theprecipiceofreason

Жыл бұрын

@@Crystalbomb321 Articulate means different things when applied to different cultures. I'm certain they just mean british in this case lol

@lotusgrl444

Жыл бұрын

No need to have fake botox lips, showing off her breasts, butt, I just returmed from California and omg talk about thrasy! And Im not saying cover up, just dress for your body and age and dont show off all the goodies

@pelletrouge3032

Жыл бұрын

@@theprecipiceofreason fr it was the accent

My husband is Japanese too 😊 and I am from Barcelona. I relate very much with this lady 🌸✨💛

@zeinainjalut7687

5 ай бұрын

You happy?

@AbroadwithSusana

5 ай бұрын

@@zeinainjalut7687 yes 😊 we have lived in 10 countries over 4 continents and raised two sons as 3rd culture-kids. Our live is full of adventure and both have grown a lot while keeping our essence. I highly encourage intercultural marriage from love and respect for each culture

Patience and open-mindedness! A perfect formula. Very cool lady. Came for a visit and met the love of her life.

Patience and Open-mindedness. That's what majority of folks lack.

@CordeliaWagner

11 ай бұрын

Why should I have patience for bad habits? Life is to short to hope someone will change. If it doesn't work out, move on. Being in a relationship isn't important.

@yuria_lu

11 ай бұрын

​@@CordeliaWagner and get ready for many divorces

@IVvOOvVI

11 ай бұрын

And communication and forgiveness is key to a lasting relationship.

@lakpansherpa6550

11 ай бұрын

@@yuria_lu Oops

@lakpansherpa6550

11 ай бұрын

@@IVvOOvVI Applies to any relation.

Her husband must be a really cool dude to have such a wonderful wife.

@IndigoIndustrial

Жыл бұрын

I have a feeling he is wealthy. You don't extend a visit to another culture for over 6 years for a fling with an average rando.

@zulaihaabdullah3965

Жыл бұрын

​@@IndigoIndustrial well I've seen a lot of white women married/dating beach boys here in my island. The beach boys don't even have stable income. So tell me if its because of money 😅

@IndigoIndustrial

Жыл бұрын

@@zulaihaabdullah3965 The women have the money and are looking for fun.

@popoch2

Жыл бұрын

@@IndigoIndustrial yeah, it's wealty and cool dude

@Lionheart1188

Жыл бұрын

@@zulaihaabdullah3965 tell me lies tell me sweet little lies

Totally agree with her, open mindedness and patience is key. I am German and have been married to a Japanese man for 14 years. Still happy every single day.

@dva1254

8 ай бұрын

so you two can read the manuals for the best cars, cool

@jedimonk993

4 ай бұрын

best comment lol @@dva1254

@johanna2690

2 ай бұрын

​@@dva1254 I'm glad you focussed on cars and not other similarities. I'm German by the way😅

I just met my Japanese boyfriend some months ago and I've never felt so comfortable and loved as I do now with him. I hope one day we will be able to say the same as this woman

@hackptui

6 ай бұрын

Sounds like you're on track for it. Congrats!

@manfredpalla161

6 ай бұрын

✌️🙏❤️🇯🇵😍😎🙋🏼🍀

Very elegant lady by how open-minded she is.

@mrjonni3684

Жыл бұрын

open minded = open to cheat

@SURO90

Жыл бұрын

open-minded = does not care if her wealth comes in dollar or yen

@vith4553

Жыл бұрын

@@mrjonni3684 Go outside and talk to real people.

@vimal-cliobconsulting

Жыл бұрын

​@@mrjonni3684 lol

@LeBronya_James

Жыл бұрын

@@mrjonni3684 That’s a nice joke because I know a few close minded cheaters

She’s so classy

@Michael-ns1ey

Жыл бұрын

Anglicised Welsh, going by her accent.

@cc8879

Жыл бұрын

@@levivanhelsing3580 Doesn't matter, they will be her kids, that is what matters. Kinda an odd comment buddy

@kataraarts3027

Жыл бұрын

@@levivanhelsing3580 I’m sure she’ll love her children nonetheless…. They’ll come out of her….

@ReblazeGaming

Жыл бұрын

@@levivanhelsing3580 That’s if she wants kids but your comment is weird as hell regardless

@ricksimon9867

Жыл бұрын

@@kataraarts3027 "nonetheless" ... you people don't even notice anymore when you are being racist. _

I want to have a tea party with her. She just exudes class and confidence

@gordonlekfors2708

3 ай бұрын

tea party? that sounds goofy

Her husband Speak perfect English, so great communication and open mind has a relationship value

Husband is very lucky man to have such a beautiful and articulate woman as wife.

@kyliessave8454

11 ай бұрын

She is very lucky as well, I presume.

@linternauta

11 ай бұрын

Simp I pity you

@Moiez101

11 ай бұрын

No. Wrong. No one is lucky. He must be an amazing man too. To say one person is lucky to put them lower.

@openm1ndead

10 ай бұрын

​@@Moiez101not necessarily. It could also mean that the speaker compared his experience with that man's one and found out he (the speaker) was not as lucky.

@aquaticlibrary

10 ай бұрын

She could be just as lucky

Imagine how classy the husband is 😳 I bet he’s a king🤴

@rohp1283

Жыл бұрын

Japanese believe they are a super race, so in his mind he is likely a king.

@spoonageDC2

Жыл бұрын

Lol wtf 😂

@imtired5401

Жыл бұрын

@@rohp1283 Reality whites think they’re the superior race lmao I’ve never heard Asians thinking they’re better even tho they get discriminated when coming to a foreign country

@cachuapi2408

Жыл бұрын

Hahaa

@larapalma3744

Жыл бұрын

​@@rohp1283LOL yea cos they've the lock on that 😂

What a gorgeous woman! She seems to be very educated, cultured and very classy!!

@gordonlekfors2708

3 ай бұрын

ok calm down buddy before you go in your pants

She is really classy and articulate! N that British accent❤

@TheHabsification

5 ай бұрын

You might not have noticed it, but she's Welsh, she might have lost some of it over time, but you can hear it.

@lichade2008

5 ай бұрын

@@TheHabsificationNope she is English 👍

@lichade2008

5 ай бұрын

@@Confederate888 Nope she sounds English to me. Welsh people have a different accent

@lichade2008

4 ай бұрын

@@Confederate888 I am English and I live in London. I know she is 1000% English. What’s your point? 🤷‍♂️

@oompaloompa83

4 ай бұрын

I'm from London and Surrey. That's a Welsh accent.

It's always pleasant to see a mature response.

@myplan8166

Жыл бұрын

THAT's what irritated me after watching a lot vids on YT.

@manoman0

Жыл бұрын

educated. Educated.

She is a very charming and elegant woman

@davidmc8475

Жыл бұрын

I wish more women dressed like her. I go to the grocery store and see women in yoga pants or pajamas. BTW men need to up their game too.

@BehindTheBush96

Жыл бұрын

⁠​⁠@@davidmc8475 …in boring all-white work clothes from head to toe?

@GrungeVoid

Жыл бұрын

they* you don’t know their pronouns please don’t assume their gender

@AnotheraccountonYTlovesyouall

Жыл бұрын

She's British what do you expect ☕🤏🧐

@AnotheraccountonYTlovesyouall

Жыл бұрын

​@@davidmc8475yeah although as a brit it's not as common to see people in Pj's usually they at least put on something like a hoodie or some joggers. Not saying that no brit does this just that it isn't as common as in some places I've visited like America

She's the sort of human being that keeps my candle of hope burning for society. Class, style, intellect, outspoken, and patient.

She's so classy, I understand why her man fell for her

I LOVE her dress! It's Japanese-Western mixed, just like her marriage 😄

@badetsambrano9495

11 ай бұрын

How I wish someone would tell us where we could buy the dress. ❤

@hallievanoutryve3109

11 ай бұрын

I didn’t even notice, elegant and subtle, how perfect for her

@Funkteon

10 ай бұрын

@@badetsambrano9495 You'd tend to find options like this in women's stores in Tokyo that are geared toward corporate women.

@badetsambrano9495

10 ай бұрын

@@Funkteon thank you for the information. ❤️ Will definitely search for this kind of dress when I visit Tokyo. ❤️

@turnipsociety706

10 ай бұрын

upper class mixing with upper class

She’s so confident and eloquent

@karadiberlino

Жыл бұрын

The voice though… 👉🏼😩👈🏼

@Gleowyn

Жыл бұрын

​@@karadiberlino No idea what you mean, her voice sounds really nice.

@morty7145

Жыл бұрын

@@Gleowyn yup

What a sweet and classy lady

I love her accent and how clear she speaks…her look is classy ❤

I'm an American man and like this British woman, I too am married to a Japanese man -- we met in Osaka in 1993 and have been together now for 30 years. We randomly passed each other in the middle of the day on a busy street and could have easily missed a long happy life together had we not caught each other's eye, taken a second look and stopped to say hello.

@KFC431

Жыл бұрын

Damn, that's such an uncommon combo ngl. Congrats, your happiness is all that matters.

@titanz9071

Жыл бұрын

Thirty years?! God bless happy life

@manoman0

Жыл бұрын

Brilliant.

@alisonwhite1020

Жыл бұрын

Thats beutiful mate im British & i belive love is love, im not into all the woke stuff. But john lennon said love is love. & i say love him for who he is!?!? Imagine if you didnt see each otger. Like that film sliding doors with Gwenyeith palltro, sorry about my spellings, One love. X

@PinkyJapan

Жыл бұрын

I had to read that twice and then I got a big smile with lots of warm fuzzies. 😊 Bless your beautiful life together! 🌈

I met a wonderful Irishman when I was working as a nurse (I’m Filipino)in the USA in the mid-80’s. We’ve been married 34 years, thank God for this blessing.

@philipmulville8218

Жыл бұрын

I’m very happy for you. A happy marriage is indeed a blessing.

@claudiaespinosanchez2321

Жыл бұрын

😍😍😍❤❤❤congrats❤❤❤ this is heartwarming

@troigcyusa

Жыл бұрын

Filipinas love white men more than white men themselves 😂

@mx-5miata658

Жыл бұрын

Your Irishman sure loves brown pudding.

@PinchHarmonic69

Жыл бұрын

Did he pound you out good?

Im also in relationship with a Japanese man ❤ the key of success any international relationship is as this British woman said ,,it’s pretty interesting every single time we discover a new cultural difference 😍

She's one of the few people on the internet speaking sense.She has humility.

I can relate to the lady. I am an Italian woman and my husband is Japanese. We have been married for 7 years now and we are expecting our second child. We couldn`t be happier 🇯🇵🇮🇹

@marty8895

Жыл бұрын

😍😍😍 Auguri per il vostro secondo figlio!

@martinalonardelli8040

Жыл бұрын

​@@marty8895 Grazie❤

@giulianopisciottano8302

Жыл бұрын

Auguri

@yuu_miran

Жыл бұрын

Charming❤😊

@futavadumnezo

Жыл бұрын

That's very interesting, it's like fire and ice trying to get together. Damn. Now I want to hear your story.

What an elegant lady

@chamade166

10 ай бұрын

Easily impressed by heteronormative cis women I see. Feels more like it belongs to some other toxic era, but probably feels at home in Japan.

@peterbaini8752

10 ай бұрын

Thats the word that fits the lady

Elegant ❤️ Her husband is a lucky man

I would love to date a Japanese man. It’s just hard to find one who is willing to in the US.

Japanese and British must be a very polite combination 😂

@rachelar

Жыл бұрын

Could be chavs from Essex etc

@kgapaneseschoolgirlb

Жыл бұрын

@@rachelar She doesn’t sound like a chav from Essex lol. Probably from Wales or at minimum near the border. But I feel like she’s from Cardiff or something

@yuki-sakurakawa

11 ай бұрын

But the added sarcasm in British humour will be a bonus

@YourEveryPicture7

11 ай бұрын

​@@rachelar If you think that's an Essex or chav accent - yr either clueless or deaf🫣💜 If you cannot tell she is English with a little bit of a Welsh inflection then clearly you don't know much, but that's not Essex + she has excellent diction🙏💜🇬🇧

@tallisinwonderland4724

11 ай бұрын

@@rachelarI’m an Essex chav but I’m very polite 😂

As a german woman with japanese husband, I also agree. Patience, open mind, always learning about culture is necessary. We always analyse the situations in order to understand and improve ourselves. Communication is important

@ricksimon9867

Жыл бұрын

spelling

@PedritoCarrillo

Жыл бұрын

Who cares your history? 😂

@icrushchildrensdreams4556

Жыл бұрын

Axis powers reunion

@user-ig6sw3zz9f

Жыл бұрын

Lol, so you settled for a japanese because you are in love with the japanese kawaii culture😂。wannabe japanese foreigners everywhere. everywhere...

@lisal.1114

Жыл бұрын

​@@PedritoCarrillo​Do u mean your story? If she would be of any other nationality, would u just be as condecending?

My parents are also like that. My mom’s British and my dad’s Japanese. It is definitely a less common combination in Japan, idk why.

@kris5992

8 ай бұрын

I’ve lived in Japan and often it’s the MIL. You clearly have a wonderful grandmother who is opened minded and let your parents work out their marriage in their own way. The miserable mixed couples I have met where the wife is a foreigner is down to differing expectations of the role of women.

I'm a white American who married a Korean man while living in Korea. We're in America now, but he's the best partner I could have ever hoped for. She's right. Patience and open mindedness are really positive traits.

@sarcastico3238

Жыл бұрын

Excuse “A white American”… girl / guy? Just curious Thanks

@ericstech3181

Жыл бұрын

@@sarcastico3238 they are a white American girl

@sarcastico3238

Жыл бұрын

@@ericstech3181 “they”?

@sudershanganesan5172

Жыл бұрын

@@sarcastico3238 they - pronoun for respect

@nox6767

Жыл бұрын

​@@sarcastico3238 Singular they. Common pronoun used in the English language.

He picked very well. Very classy ,pretty, and well spoken

@michaeldelgado2107

Жыл бұрын

Many women are chameleons. You assume she is all those things based on a two minute interview. Behind closed doors she could be evil like some females I have met who come across in public as pretty and friendly etc.

She has such a good energy. A well sophisticated woman👑

I was in a relationship with Taiwanese man. It was the happiest relationship I ever had, I still miss it.

Those hand gestures are giving strong fairytale princess vibes and I'm honestly here for it

My daughter is dating half British half Japanese guy right now. It's her first boyfriend and I am very happy for her. She met him while studying in London while they both were working at Starbucks. ❤ He is very nice, polite and put together. They both are very happy and going to visit Tokyo this winter. She had already met his family and they were very friendly and happy for both of them. 😊🎉

@theragoooverlord5021

Жыл бұрын

noone women behave like the whyte woman does

@lolitarouge

Жыл бұрын

How nice. I love when cultures mix together & people can learn to live in Harmony. How does she feel about your comment about her written here?

@chauvintookaknee4blm268

Жыл бұрын

@@lolitarouge gay

@lolitarouge

Жыл бұрын

@@cobra12353 what is your point?

@v0id_d3m0n

Жыл бұрын

​@@chauvintookaknee4blm268 quite the opposite

I proud of her husband !! Well done, Japanese man 侍👍

Her outfit is dope as hell. Looks like a modern kimono. Very nice

What a beautiful woman. Oozing grace and elegance👏🏾

@theloniousm4337

11 ай бұрын

Just like your average Japanese woman.

I love the way she emphasized being open minded. It’s so important to try to understand and love one another just the way we are but all be open minded. I live my life this way and it’s nice to see others living the same way 🙏🏽

@basugunja

7 ай бұрын

I hate too much open-mindedness.

She reminds me of a classic British woman

Keep at the Japanese! It's a beautiful language and it's so worth learning to speak the language where you live!

As someone in the same boat I can say patience and open mindness is very important as is forgiveness. Because the cultures and languages are truly opposite you will be hurt by your partner sometimes and have to work through that together. Japanese and western couples aren't an easy thing to make work but you can do it if the person is worth it. ❤

@DSan-kl2yc

Жыл бұрын

Any examples you could offer about opposites, just out of curiosity?

@pandorabox5532

Жыл бұрын

​@@DSan-kl2yc not my personal experience, but there's a channel called Nekojitablog, it's from a couple of a Spanish man and a Japanese lady who currently live in japan. Their content is mostly in spanish, but they often talk about how Spanish and Japanese cultures are very different. An opposite aspect in demeanor is that spanish people tend to speak loudly, be very expressive and frequently use cuss words in casual conversations, which may come as rude or boastful to japanese people who are extremely polite and modest in public. This modesty for spanish people may seem distant or too reserved. The food in another good example, spanish food comes in big portions and has lots of spices while japanese food portions are light and rather sober in flavor. I really recommend that channel, it gives a good insight on what japanese culture is like and how it is to marry a person from a very different background.

She’s not just British, specifically she’s Welsh. 🥰🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 (I’m only mentioning because I’m also Welsh.)

@FoneAkcount

Жыл бұрын

im english i stupidly only picked it up as read it... heard end the sentence just sounded posh before that

@Harrietmjones

Жыл бұрын

@@FoneAkcount To be fair, she sounds quite posh too, well spoken or however you might want to say it. You’re right anyway too. ☺️

@uzaidgurjee4798

Жыл бұрын

@@Harrietmjones she sounds Welsh but went to a very posh school in England

@wordsfromreuben3075

11 ай бұрын

Ahh I thought so! I could tell, I love Wales and the Welsh accent! 😊

@omnacky

11 ай бұрын

I thought she sounded new zealish or australian

I could listen to her all day 😊 British English sounds so classy, clean and intelligent, if you know what I mean

@TallulahFoxxx

11 ай бұрын

Contrary to dozens of comments, her accent is actually Welsh 😝 It’s common to see people getting confused or mixed up when it comes to Britain, so though _most_ of this isn’t directly related to your comment, hopefully people reading my reply will have some of their common misconceptions cleared up 🥰 British English and a “British accent” are a bit different: British English is a *language* and is the most widely spoken language in the UK (there are actually multiple native languages spoken here like Scots Gaelic, Welsh etc.) but the way we actually _sound_ when we speak it, is an accent 🤓 Lots of people, especially Americans, say they love a “British accent” but there’s really no such thing 🤓 Britain is just the term for the land mass (aka. the physical island) but it has 3 of the 4 countries of the UK standing on it. Our official “country” name we use is “The United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland”, UK for short, because we aren’t really a single country. We’re a political union made up of 4 separate countries; England, Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland. Contrary to popular belief, it’s NOT similar to the USA because the USA is one country made up of multiple states, it’s not a union of separate _countries_ haha. The term “British accent” would refer to ANY accent of Britain: remember, Britain is just a land mass not a country, so referring to the island means England, Scotland AND Wales. Most international people can hear a clear difference between those accents 🤓 I’m Scottish, so technically I have a “British accent”. However, since my accent is SO different to an English person’s, most foreigners wouldn’t typically describe my accent as “British”. When people say British accent, they actually mean to say _English_ accent, which is more accurate 🤓 To round it all off, studies show that in the UK, there’s a noticeable accent change every 25 miles 😝

She’s a dream. Classy, beautiful and pretty sure she is respectful of other cultures and has a great outlook on life in general.

Open mind , patience and a lot of sense of humor . I am a Spanish women married twice for 28 years to a Japanish man

@PriyaPans

11 ай бұрын

You married your husband twice?

@helenabok1610

11 ай бұрын

Wow, Spanish lady with a Japanese man. That is an interesting combination.

@rp2895

10 ай бұрын

@@PriyaPans she's been married 28 years to 2 japanish men. japanish food is good for aging.

@tq6892

10 ай бұрын

Japanish? So almost Japanese but not quite.

I'm Canadian and I want to learn more about the Japanese side of my family. My Great grandfather was Japanese and married my Great grandmother who was English. That was way back in 1917 when mixed couples were almost unheard-of. I'm so proud of their courage to not let bigotry stop them. Especially in that era.

@lawrencestoke

Жыл бұрын

Learn about it, you won't regret it. Interesting history

@samanthajade3782

Жыл бұрын

Same! Except I'm American and my grandmother was 100% Japanese, she met my white grandfather during WW2 when he was stationed in Japan. They lived there for a few years before they moved back to America. My grandmother was scared and essentially erased our heiratage from us due to fear of being bullied and prejudice. They only moved back after America ended their Japanese internment camps (i.e., American version of concentration camps). I'm only 25% Japanese but i want to learn about my heritage that my grandmother was too scared to share. Edit: I'm not suee when they moved back but i do know it was sometime in the 50s as my dad was born in michigan in 59.

@smavtmb2196

Жыл бұрын

@@samanthajade3782 That's amazing You should definitely research more. Your Grandparents must have met sometime after the United States military established its first base in Okinawa in April 1945 as American forces fought for control of the main island in the closing months of World War II. The Japanese portion of my heritage is from my moms side and by WW2 my Japanese great grandfather and English great grandmother had a family. Unfortunately like the US Canada also detained its Japanese citizens.They were detained under the War Measures Act and were interned for the rest of the Second World War. Their homes and businesses were sold by the government to pay for their detention. Sadly that included that side of my family. In 1988, our Prime Minister at the Brian Mulroney apologized on behalf of the Canadian government for the wrongs it committed against Japanese Canadians. Your Grandparents were very fortunate to find love in such a time of confusion and horrible hate. Its very sad that ignorant hate like that still exists against many people today. Good luck on your heritage journey.

@samanthajade3782

Жыл бұрын

@SMavTMB Thank you and you too! You also just taught me something new! I don't know really anything about Canada's history, but it's interesting to learn they also detained their Japanese citizens (also terribly sad 😔).

@yuu_miran

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like a story for some movie😊

I am a Malaysian. My gf is a Brazilian. 🇲🇾❤️🇧🇷👩🏼‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏽🌹💞👩🏼‍🤝‍👨🏽🥰

Such a matured and calm answer. It’s nice to hear something that makes sense.

This lady is a total class act. I could be friends with her.❤

@peepocozy8594

11 ай бұрын

broken branch, grandmother cry

This is the most british women I have ever seen Edit: Folks I am not serious about this statement, I am just saying she dressed up very classy. The lass doesn't sound very Bri'ish innit

@ricksimon9867

Жыл бұрын

spelling

@superbritbros.5793

Жыл бұрын

The most? There's only one here dude

@charliedeegan1598

Жыл бұрын

​@@superbritbros.5793they just means she has a lot of british stereotypes.

@superbritbros.5793

Жыл бұрын

@@charliedeegan1598 I know what he meant. But read what he said again 🤣

@edithputhy4948

Жыл бұрын

Lol she's dressed so elegantly

"Found myself married to him" Wow. What a thing to fall into 😂

Same. I didn’t expect to be in japan longer than a year or two and here we are 5 years later and my husband is Japanese too. Been together for 6 years

She is right Patience , open mindness and Important is kindness needed

My daughter is married to a Japanese guy and they will have a baby in the autumn.

@arewealone9969

Жыл бұрын

Congrats!

@yasminchan7425

Жыл бұрын

Congrats to them! ❤

@NowioART

Жыл бұрын

When living through your offspring is your entire personality... Anyway, congrats to the couple

@yy.189

Жыл бұрын

@@NowioART What? You want them to give their entire life story in the comment? You’re odd.

@missterious711

Жыл бұрын

yay :D

She has a hint of Welsh lilt to her voice. I wonder if she's English or from Wales?

these videos have been helping me a lot with my anthropology class! I’ve learned so much!

She is the definition of sophistication

@magtag853

8 ай бұрын

She is like a rare type of lady

Her relationship is an example of how awesome the modern world is. As little as 100 years ago, it would have been unthinkable and unheard of for a woman from England to travel alone to Japan and, in that time, meet and marry a Japanese person. Here's to hoping that we continue to see the destruction of the artificial walls that we put up between ourselves for no reason at all.

@KennyboyGM

Жыл бұрын

What are you talking about? When the Spanish conquered the new world, it’s not uncommon for Spanish men have have a wife back in Spain and multiple native partners. White men have been doing this for thousands of years

@RobotTechHead

Жыл бұрын

@@KennyboyGM Multiple willing native partners?

@stephhhie17

Жыл бұрын

​@@KennyboyGMThat was hundreds of years ago, not thousands

@eeeggg33

11 ай бұрын

She didn't travel from England, she's Welsh lol

@Josh-99

11 ай бұрын

@@eeeggg33 I apologize for the error. I'm American, and as is typical for Americans, I frequently miss the nuances of differing European ethnicities.

🇧🇷🇧🇷 The point is: it doesn't matter where you were born: if you go to Japan, DON'T TRY TO CHANGE ANYTHING ABOUT the way japaneses think or behave. You are the one to adjust in their way of live. The entire world HAS SO MUCH to copy and learn from Japanese people. They are indeed, an unique and AMAZING people!!🇧🇷🇧🇷

7 años después y todavía está aprendiendo el idioma. Está como yo con la universidad 😂

@AntharieAzarenna

3 ай бұрын

El japonés es super difícil para un extranjero no es como aprender inglés para nosotros los hispano parlantes además de que la escritura es a puro símbolo, super hardcore el japonés

i’ve been married to a wonderful, amazing ‘mezorashii’ japanese husband for for than 15yrs already, his english is great, he’s 5yrs younger than me, he wrote love letters when he started courting me, he treats me like a princess, he does the grocers shopping,cooking, of course he is working at the largest steel company in japan, he is a God-sent for me❤

@YasminMahnaz

Жыл бұрын

Did u get together at 20???? Were you hot white trophy girl,?

I'm so happy she met her love! It often finds you in surprisingly places!

@theragoooverlord5021

Жыл бұрын

just another compromised whyte woman following a lifetime of programming from advertisements, t.v and moves that have brainwashed her. no other woman in the world behaves like this

I think it’s mostly like that because well women generally don’t have to go to other countries to find a pairing.

She was born in the Uk but she dosen't look british ,either polish or lithuanian ,which is not surprising at all.

as a German man who is not married to anyone, I can definitely say that I'm not married to anyone. just be open minded

@Sujay95

Жыл бұрын

LOL 😂😂😂

@vam9785

Жыл бұрын

I appreciate the insightful comment from a german man who is not married to anyone 👍🏻 … 😂

@yuu_miran

Жыл бұрын

😂👍🏻best advice ever

@adelalovesmadara4062

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂❤❤

@theragoooverlord5021

Жыл бұрын

you are portrayed as disgusting in the media to your own women that's why.

Patience is the most underrated super power ever

That sounds like my story hahha a month in korea has turned into 4 years hahahaha

Her combination is much more common in Australia. Australian woman with a Vietnamese man.

She mentioned a very important point: individual's unique way. Even within one country, one culture, each individual could do things differently

she's so well mannered, like it goes far beyond the good manners I was taught as a southerner as it comes with a different kind of understanding and worldview, it's almost like nobility. I haven't seen that much outside of film. EDIT: other people are saying "classy", I think that's a good way to put it.

@jinnamonroll5684

Жыл бұрын

I feep like nobility wouldn't move the hands so much while talking

@PrinceGaki

Жыл бұрын

She's classy, but sad that she doesn't seem to speak Japanese well enough even after 7 years of living there. Seems like she has problems adapting. Ofc, I don't know her so I can't judge and I'm just assuming at this point.

@uqs57bju

Жыл бұрын

@@PrinceGaki Depends on if her husband is as kind and considerate as she makes him out to be. It would be simpler for both to just speak the language that they are both reasonably proficient at. Love that you said that you are guessing because you are reading a lot into some very notions. She might be pretty good at Japanese, but she just prefers English and her husband doesn't mind. He wouldn't have gotten married to her if it did. To clarify. These are all just assumptions as well. Although i would say that they are fairly grounded in the information that is given.

@KJames2345

Жыл бұрын

Classy, she's a posh British citizen, 90% of UK citizens are common folk.

@harunrazak1866

Жыл бұрын

What about Northerners?

'Patience and open mindedness.' I just saw the interview with the Indian girl on dating in Japan. I think this woman has some great advice for her.

I like the way she's expressing herself. Being open minded and respectful to different cultures means a lot❤

Very educated, wise woman. She's a keeper for sure.

I think she's the most matured, professional, and well-mannered among every foreign women you interviewed with. Good luck for her family

@user-io3ru9tc1d

Жыл бұрын

There are a lot of them

@Sujay95

Жыл бұрын

Ok simp

@captainobvious6070

Жыл бұрын

I am sure most foreign women you find bad are more polite, well mannered and professional than you'll ever be.

@lemagnifique1573

Жыл бұрын

@@captainobvious6070 nah bro i mean on this channel not in my rl

@RRich100

Жыл бұрын

@@captainobvious6070 why would you assume that?

I’m Scandinavian and always very attracted to Japanese men. They are always surprised by this kind of reversed scenario lol.

Beautiful thought process at the end

She's Welsh. I love her accent.

@panchuleta03

Жыл бұрын

it sounds like the correct way to speak english

@jayjaydubful

Жыл бұрын

I can't hear any Welsh accent...

@womanonabicycle

Жыл бұрын

It's especially strong in the words return, seven and meeting.

@deniss.6205

Жыл бұрын

Yes, but no chance her children are WelHung...

@nisoshahabibzadeh

Жыл бұрын

She really is not Welsh?!?

She is so elegant and refined.

@AntoDesormeaux

Жыл бұрын

and not in a snobby way :) sounds very likeable

I love Staffan! His energy is so wholesome - ice cream and deep talks

She’s Welsh 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

I like her calm and considered thoughts. She comes across as mature and dignified. Her husband is a lucky guy.