House is an infectious disease specialist, but his boss makes him do general practice stuff as punishment.

@mdogzino

Жыл бұрын

He's also a nephrologist

@theseanie9958

Жыл бұрын

not necessarily true. every doctor in the hospital is obligated to put in a certain amount of hours

@musical_lolu4811

Жыл бұрын

@@theseanie9958 yes but incomplete. Specialists put in clinic hours seeing only cases in their specialty.

@stewartcaldwell5299

Жыл бұрын

Primarily he's a board certified diagnostician.

@ronmaximilian6953

Жыл бұрын

As you can tell, he does many many things for whivh he should be punished

I think in terms of the show House is the head of "Diagnostic Medicine", he's essentially trained in several specialties so he can work in multiple departments.

@ScanningTheMind

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like a cool job

@Necron00b

2 жыл бұрын

@@ScanningTheMind I highly recommend watching the whole series if you haven't, as Doctors you'll both love and hate what happens haha

@Flareontoast

2 жыл бұрын

@@ScanningTheMind the hospital they work at is also a free clinic that does walk-ins, so I assume that they have doctors do basic GP stuff and referrals for those patients if they're not busy. Idk if that's an actual thing, maybe just in the states? All of the main characters who are specialists in different fields, have those GP ish duties. They call it clinic hours in the show

@Gigemhorns2011

12 күн бұрын

He’s not allowed to work on kids technically

5:16 the self-surgery thing always reminds me of Leonid Rogozov, a soviet physician who took part in an Antarctic expedition. He found out that he had appendicitis and because he was the only doctor there and there was no option of extraction, he was forced to perform an appendectomy on himself, which he did succesfully.

@ScanningTheMind

Жыл бұрын

Can’t imagine what it must be like to be in that position 😳 what a legend!

@jackwells8107

Жыл бұрын

I hope he at least had a local.

@darqv9358

Жыл бұрын

Russians are the hardest mfs on the planet

@aps-pictures9335

Жыл бұрын

@@jackwells8107not many people around in Antartica

@jackwells8107

Жыл бұрын

@@aps-pictures9335 I'm not sure what you mean. 'local' as I used is it short for 'local anesthetic' like to numb the pain without knocking you out.

All doctors in that hospital have to work in the free clinic they have as well for a few hours a week, that's why House sees patients like that.

@ScanningTheMind

2 жыл бұрын

Makes for entertaining tv 🤣

@jaycee330

Жыл бұрын

And House always tries to get out of it.

I see I'm late to the party, but... The thing to remember about House is he's Sherlock Holmes. There's the deductive abilities and the abrasive personality, but he also lives at 221B and his best friend's initials are JW. Because of that, House has a tendency to do whatever he wants, assuming that he's right and will be able to get away with it.

Am I weird that I really would appreciate House’s blunt honesty from my doc…

@ScanningTheMind

2 жыл бұрын

I think everyone needs a bit of honesty now and then 🤷🏽‍♂️

@kyraweaver3442

Жыл бұрын

I'd trust hose with my health even with all the crazy stuff as long as he and his team figured it out I'd thank them and hug them even house

@mrdanforth3744

Жыл бұрын

I would love to have a doctor who knows what he is doing and tells the truth. Would also like a pet unicorn who lays golden eggs. Don't expect to find either one soon.

I used to work admin at a Canadian university department of medicine and occasionally resident training included Grey’s or House clips with discussion. The consensus was always “All of these doctors would be fired.”

House is an infectious disease specialist but the hospital has a walk in clinic that all the doctors have to take shifts in

my favorite thing about house is that they let him commit so many medical crimes and ethics violations and he only gets into legal trouble like twice

I always loved the whole "you have a parasite" bit, and to this day occasionally describe children as parasites in little clothes 😂 Also, someone who's old enough to be a doctor is also young enough to confuse CD players and MP3 players.... now I feel ancient and I'm only 32 😅

House has double speciality: infectious diseases and nephrology

@ScanningTheMind

2 жыл бұрын

Smart guy!

@michaelwright8896

2 ай бұрын

dumb guy almost no connection.

The antivax movement actually started in the UK so thanks a ton. XD

@ScanningTheMind

Жыл бұрын

Yeah Sanchit started it.

I live in the UK and grew up here, a few kids at school didn’t get certain vaccines when the rest of us did but I’ve only met one family who isn’t doing most vaccines…

The bad part about 14:00 is that House is actually not his father’s child.

Always a delight to watch your reactions videos!

@ScanningTheMind

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoy them!

I actually had a cousin who kept putting on weight and the mystery was solved when she delivered twins. Twins run in the family so she shouldn’t have been surprised!

@JakkFrost1

Жыл бұрын

You didn't clarify though, was she surprised it was twins, or was she surprised she was pregnant at all? If she knew she was pregnant, then yeah, she shouldn't have been surprised by twins, but you said her weight gain was a mystery, which it shouldn't have been, unless she didn't even know she was pregnant in the first place.

@DrRonThomasJr

Жыл бұрын

@@JakkFrost1 She never specified but was in denial about it, according to my grandmother, with whom she was living at the time. The notion of twins would have been a high probablity as she had twin brothers and my father was a twin. Most likely, she was avoiding the idea until reality came around ...

Definitely want more House MD react videos!

The definition of a parasite is something that lives off it's host. So... technically... yes, a fetus would qualify as a parasite. And I think that House was just trying to convince her to keep the baby by any means.

@KxNOxUTA

Жыл бұрын

He did not try to convince her to keep it. He mentioned that she's too late for it to be legal. He said it's legal to "up to a month" and that she however is "due in about 5 months"!

5:00 I read of one doctor removed Lipoma from himself, he did that a lot of times for others, but when he did for himself, something went wrong, and he good some blood infection and died.

@ScanningTheMind

Жыл бұрын

Oh dear 🤦🏽‍♂️

@alertol

Жыл бұрын

@@ScanningTheMind yeah, not the best outcome...

If you think some of the stuff he does in this set of clips is unethical, wait til you check out the compilation of times he doses people against their will 😂

Just ran across this --- one year later! Great vid. Cheers from Adelaide, South Australia

@ScanningTheMind

11 ай бұрын

Thanks!

On the subject of charapones... I was 15, almost 16 and still hadn't had my first period, so I was referred to a gynecologist to check everything was normal and not only was he a man who had to do not only an ultrasound like this but also did an internal exam with his hands AND he also had a male trainee down with him for that, talking him through my anatomy. I was still a virgin and other than sexual abuse, I'd never had anyone touch me there and now I had two much older men proding around. When they eventually noticed the silent tears streaming down my face, they reassured me I was just a delayed developer, that my period would likely come soon (which it did, on my 16th birthday funnily enough) and then quickly got a nurse to hold my hand for the rest of the internal examination. Though they meant me no harm and simply did their job, it didn't help my trauma responses and it's an experience I've never forgotten. They said afterwards that they thought I had already turned 16 and that's why they went ahead without a female chaperone but I've noticed that nowadays (I'm now 33) they generally offer to get a nurse for even for me as an adult woman as support, so it's an interesting change I wish happened earlier 😳🤷🏻‍♀️ x

@xEvilRaptorx

Жыл бұрын

Thats wild. I wonder how many young girls are getting exams like that and don't have a female around for support. Or if they even need it (stupid 30y.o. male here, idk much about that stuff)

The saddest thing is they were talking about this guy who tried to give himself stitches when I cut I had open when I was five my uncle actually gave me homemade stitches with dental floss and when I tell you that stung like a mother you never forget the first time you feel unbelievable pain

@ScanningTheMind

2 жыл бұрын

😳

@Mr.wednesdayallfather

2 жыл бұрын

@@ScanningTheMind things were different in the '80s and I want to clarify if you're going to try to give yourself homemade stitches don't use dental floss it hurts like a son of a b****

@ScanningTheMind

2 жыл бұрын

I’ll keep that in mind next time I suture anything up 😂

@Mr.wednesdayallfather

2 жыл бұрын

@@ScanningTheMind lowered my friend I hope you're not having to use that that's good old hillbilly surgery use a good old sewing needle that you heat up and pour whiskey over it to sterilize it

@jackwells8107

Жыл бұрын

I have always had a high tolerance to pain killers (at least certain types). When I was a kid, they didn't believe me. As an adult, I was having an ingrown toe nail removed. I told them I could still feel it, so they tested me. "What does that feel like?" "Like you're running the dull side of the scalpel across the bottom of my toe." Doc's eyes went wide and they gave me some more.

Frank Costanza: "It was a one in a million shot, doc - one in a million!!!"

"Straight complaint to PALS. Pals? Nevermind that! That's the GMC, mate! Oh the joys of working in the NHS...

About your story of the patient operating on himself: there actually is an episode where House does exactly that. Season 7, Episode 22 (Spoiler: of course this also didn‘t end very well)

@ScanningTheMind

2 жыл бұрын

Of course he does 😂 wouldn’t put anything past House

@Mr.PM1993

2 жыл бұрын

well that idiot was in so much pain that took a trail without test

@wiener_process

Жыл бұрын

There was a soviet doctor, Leonid Rogozov, who performed a succesful appendectomy on himself while on an expedition in Antarctica.

@ScanningTheMind

Жыл бұрын

What a legend!

I absolutely love this. I'd watch more videos like this. Side question: Is there something off about the audio?

Those CD ones were also mp3 players. A CD can hold mp3 files. And if the player was made after a certain date they all could play mp3 files. The flash storage and hard drive ones are more iconic when you think about mp3 players of course.

Nice stuff lads

@ScanningTheMind

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks 🙏🏾

I like your chemistry. You guys are very pleasant to watch. (edit... oops- this last bit is redundant.) Dr. House is a diagnostician. He is "Head of Diagnostic Medicine" at a teaching hospital.

#1. I like House. #2. I really enjoyed your commentary. #3. Thanks for making my day.

Should go through some full episodes but thanks for following through

@ScanningTheMind

2 жыл бұрын

No problem, this was actually very fun to film 👊🏾

@apatternedhorizon

2 жыл бұрын

These are a lot of the clinic interactions which were always good. He always has a main case as well thats more interesting.

Rewatching house right now, I'm not medical guy but he's the head of diagnostics so I'm guessing he's a diagnostician

@ScanningTheMind

2 жыл бұрын

Interesting! All Drs are “diagnosticians” though- diagnosis is just the first step in treating a patient! He is VERY good at it though…

You guys are hilarious to watch this with!!!

The reason House wanted the patient to raise her arms was to check for her breast changes due to pregnancy.

@KxNOxUTA

Жыл бұрын

Nope! As he said, he saw the scar of the birth control implant on her arm. That's what that was abour! Also not all breasts change, no arm lifting would help with that and to see "change" he'd need to know the patient but he does not.

@RajPraveen1312

Жыл бұрын

@@KxNOxUTA i see.. i must have missed that. Thanks for clarifying 👍🏻

Oh I missed that homage to Gary Oldman when house rocked his head back taking pills like in Leon

I remember doing the long history with a med student before (born with osteogenesis imperfecta) and I couldn't resist just quizzing the poor guy... You pick up a thing or two from a childhood in hospital & 40+ breaks

I haven't checked every comment, but House does actually operate on someone in Season 2 Episode 21! The best two-part episodes of any show I've ever seen

House *can* operate. Just like any doctor *can* operate. Its just he's not a surgeon so he leaves it to surgical except for minor operations and extreme circumstances. Example he autopsies a dead baby himself rather than leaving it to the specialists because the baby died from an outbreak of disease and House is the infectious disease specialist, making him feel responsible. And the times he does operate he's looking for something specific and he still has a full surgical team with him.

@ScanningTheMind

2 жыл бұрын

Any doctor can operate in the sense you can train most people to operate- in reality most doctors are not trained to operate and wouldn’t even know how to tie a basic suture 😂 I suppose anything is possible from House though

@Skyte100

2 жыл бұрын

@@ScanningTheMind basically he's good enough for certain procedures. He's head of diagnostics so he can assist with surgeries and in one case it was experimental so he ran the show, he still had proper surgeons in the room to do the majority of the work while he mainly ordered everyone around since he knows what they are looking for. Dudes head of diagnostic medicine and his team's the entire department. Gotta have his feet wet in multiple fields of medicine. But normally he'd leave it to the specialists, since that knowledge of medicine doesn't translate to he's a specialist. Example Foreman is a neurosurgeon that works in the diagnostics department. Another example once he is reasonably sure its cancer he gets Wilson involved. One notable case was a rape victim that he wanted nothing to do with because while he has dual specialties in diagnostics and infectious disease, neither of those qualify him to treat the emotional trauma of a rape victim in any capacity.

@ScanningTheMind

2 жыл бұрын

@@Skyte100 bro you seem like you are a house expert- any recommendations for which episodes you want us to react to? I love house, but in real life medicine no way do things run like this 🤣

@Skyte100

2 жыл бұрын

@@ScanningTheMind hmm. Season 1 episode 4 and season 1 episode 19 involve an outbreak of infectious disease. With 19 being notable in involving how strained the hospital is during it, which is something covid definitely caused. Season 3 episode 18 involves a possible outbreak of disease on a plane House is on.

@ScanningTheMind

2 жыл бұрын

@@Skyte100 will check those out, thanks!

board-certified diagnostician with a double specialty in infectious disease and nephrology."

I guess house is also a great show to see examples of what not to do if you wanna avoid medical malpractice 😅😅

Dr. House is the type of doctor that I wish personally all GP's were like. A bit unprofessional for the sake of his own amusement, unafraid of bending a few rules to make sure a correct diagnosis is given, short and blunt responses with a tinge of tasteful sarcasm. Sure maybe not a GP that's as calloused as House, but that brutal honesty is a virtue in medicine.

Aww, I wanted to see your reaction to the joke at the end of the pregnancy scene

@ScanningTheMind

2 жыл бұрын

haha maybe in the next House reaction video!

12:40 did operate in one episode...

Please do "The Knick"

That part where house was ragging on that guy for his tattoo at least his tattoos probably better than mine a cousin of mine was in the pen and he learned how to give prison tattoos I have one on my right shoulder not sure what it means but it's on my shoulder

@Mr.wednesdayallfather

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah little love adamant to this comment I found out what my tattoo means and I'm getting it removed apparently it's a white supremacist tattoo because my cousin's an a******

"It is unethical"! No it is America. It is legal as long as you don't get sued! And if you do get sued, higher a better law firm and counter sue!

@Ashurman666

Жыл бұрын

And that's why America has such a shitty health care system

12:10 I would've expected him to call a pregnancy a "neoplasm", not a "parasite"...

@seraphina985

Жыл бұрын

In some sense it is easier to describe the relationship between the foetus and the mother as parasitic in nature. Then again neither term is applicable by strict definition of either term. Neoplasm is excluded by the fact the growth is by no means "abnormal" as this is an entirely normal growth occurring within the organ that is adapted to function as the support for the same. Parasite is also excluded by definition too though since it is defined as an organism that survives at the cost of a host of a different species, this explicitly rules out an intraspecific pregnancy ie a normal pregnancy or even a surrogate pregnancy with an embryo of the same species. Although a interspecific pregnancy; which would require xenotransplantation of an embryo from a different species; would meet that definition of a parasite I guess. Well actually things of that nature do occur in nature mostly by insects that traumatically implant eggs or larva under the skin rather than into the reproductive tract see parasitic wasps for example, although you might want to skip that further reading if you are squeamish.

@wakelamp

Жыл бұрын

I have heard it described as a fierce fight for.resources whilst staying within the soe that can be delivered. I am not certain whether that is parasitism

Not met any adult who hasn't been vaccinated? I didn't get many vaccinations as a child as I had measles, mumps and rubella as a child before the vaccinations were commonly available. I did have a polio one. I am 64. I still remember how bad I felt.

I did a course with the ambulance service, I noticed that paramedic instructor in charge had a swollen abdomen. I didn't say anything in case she was just fat. Three weeks later she discovered that she was 6 months pregnant. She hadn't worked it out.

I'm just here to tell you two that you're absolute cuties 💕

@ScanningTheMind

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂 Thank you! Nothing on Dr Chase though…

I have successfully operated on my ingrown toenails for years… yeah I know I should have them permanently removed but I like my toenails … I just sit on the leg until my foot is good and numb and go at it.. it’s not pretty but it doesn’t hurt as bad as you’d think!

I want a doctor that talks to me like the idiot I am. Just tell me when I did something stupid, no need to sugar coat it

House has been seen to operate at least once, on a patient with CIPA who has a 7.6m long tape worm in her intestines. Though is it technically surgery if you don't know the patient out first?

Well, I would just hope it was consensual... some people may lie because something bad may have happened.

normally writers do their research ad talk to the actual people who do the job to get them as close to the real thing 60% of the time it is right but we must always remember it is for entertainment not education

Here in the states they can't refuse to see you just because you sued them

In the US they dont need chaperones for opposite sex doctors. I guess as a precaution, but ive never had one.

I don't know what the situation is in the UK, but when my children were born in the American state of Maryland, the law required a paternity test on the newborn. So I am objectively sure both of my children are mine, and even more sure since my son looks exactly like me and my daughter looks like a picture of my great-aunt from 1920.

@ScanningTheMind

Жыл бұрын

That’s mad - so every child born in Maryland gets a paternity test done at birth?! Definitely not a thing here in the UK! I’m now imagining all the really awkward conversations health care professionals have to have with new parents 😂

@markbanash921

Жыл бұрын

@@ScanningTheMind Yep. I remember my wife looking at the results and going "oh there's a surprise." Actually Maryland had a lot of illegitimate births and they wanted to make sure they understood who the father was so they could find him financially responsible. It really wasn't done out of any sense of compassion or human decency.

@macmcleod1188

Жыл бұрын

Paternity tests should be required. Just knowing it would be tested would reduce false paternity cases. And DNA testing in multiple studies has shown unacceptably high rates of false paternity (in all class strata and even in highly religious groups). It also stops one man from fathering a bunch of children and avoiding financial responsibility.

@gnommg

Жыл бұрын

​@@macmcleod1188 eventhough I agree with your conclusion your facts aren't correct. A metastudy from 2005 on paternal discrepancy looked at 17 studies and found a Median of 3.7% of paternal discrepancy. The often cited study with a rate of 30 % looked at cases where paternity was being disputed i.e. there was enough reason for potential fathers to distrust their partner. It is therefore to be suspected that the rate is significantly higher than the rate looking at all births. Eventhough paternity fraud is fairly rare the impact is so devastating that mandatory testing at birth is justified.

@macmcleod1188

Жыл бұрын

@@gnommg Um.. You *don't* consider a *3.7%* discrepancy unacceptable? What the hell, man!?! Given the legal and financial consequences, I consider anything over 1 per 10,000 to be unacceptable. And I think many people would consider anything over 0.5% unacceptable.

It's the not getting caught...

house can do operations , but standing hurts his leg and he has the authority to tell someone else to do it so he does

well this is house, Unethical is his middle name.

you would love seeing house trip a patient then give him a paralytic while hes in excruciating pain. also the pills are Vicodin

My kinda doc.

I know someone that isnt vaccinated, the daughter of my brother in law, her mother refused and my BiL tried via court, they denied. They were already divorced before my niece turned 1.

He was doing general work as a punishment, normally he works in his area of expertise.

14:10 not ethical, but highly common

I thought ethical standards usually require you to *not* tell someone your patient's secrets?

@ScanningTheMind

Жыл бұрын

Nothing patient identifiable- which we take very seriously.

@The_One_In_Black

Жыл бұрын

@@ScanningTheMind Right. So wouldn't the ethical thing be *not* to tell the husband his wife cheated on him?

@ScanningTheMind

Жыл бұрын

Haha, House does what he wants!

The whole core concept of this show is that House is NOT ethical xD Pointing it out is the very definition of "redundant".

House is British in real life

12:44 actually iirc we do see house operate but I think because of his bad leg he avoids it also, he is a "diagnostician" which I believe is a made up specialization. But basically he is responsible for diagnosing cases other specialists failed to solve.

What still sticks out is Dr House doesn't know how to use a walking cane.

@rmdavidov

Жыл бұрын

He does, he just likes using it his way

He does surgery in several episodes.

Medical ethics are a little bit like Star Trek's "Prime Directive"...

What a time to be alive wherein KZread and Tiktok is laiden with HOT doctors

A lot of STD cases House hated

14:20 I’m confused, it’s not ethical? But doesn’t she have doctor patient confidentiality? Legally he CAN’T tell the husband right?

@KxNOxUTA

Жыл бұрын

That's not the point. The not ethical part is to advice a patient to fake official documents and betray partners. Just imagine what mess that is for any kids when it blows up later cause due to medical conditions bloodwork is done and they find out. It's not ethical to cheat and betray and encourage said things. His confidentiality by the way does technically not apply to crimes.

What is wrong with the audio during the clips? Like a bad phone connection.

15:20 Two random internet doctors make alarming distinction that HOUSE IS VERY MUCH UNETHICAL IN HIS OVERALL PRACTICE OF MEDICINE The rest of the world figured that out after about 2 minutes.

Needs more unskiable ads . . .

In France, it's actually illegal for men to get a paternity test. What that says about the infidelity of French women, I do not want to say.

In America people operating in themselves is common

In the US, no one gives a shit about the fathers. Completely OK to test paternity without consent

about the vaccination thing, i read somewhere of a way to combat the logic with even more ridiculous logic. and yeah, it's primarily an american mindset. method of approach to refusing vaccinations: "have you considered that anti-vaccination is a foriegn propaganda intended to weaken the population?"

Ethics can be situational…. Im gen x fight me

House is a nephrologist I think!

@ScanningTheMind

2 жыл бұрын

He must be suffering from kidney failure, cos he has no filter.

@Montegoraon

2 жыл бұрын

Double specialty. Nephrology and infectious disease.

13:15 those stories are the result of intense denial .. people don't want to accept being pregnant .. therefor they aren't ... untill the baby is there

14:29 Why unethical? He's just advising her how to best manage the situation...

@KxNOxUTA

Жыл бұрын

You shall not advise people to fake official documents and betray others!

Turn down the background music

House is a drama-comedy. No one believes anything in the show is realistic. It's meant to be absurd.

@ScanningTheMind

Жыл бұрын

I thought it was a docu-drama

@PandoraWolveCrow

Жыл бұрын

Actualy ? No you're wrong.

@macmcleod1188

Жыл бұрын

Actually, the show is fairly accurate. The inaccuracy is in the rate of rare cases. Many of the shows come from a journal of rare cases and they did have a doctor on staff checking accuracy. However, in a choice between drama and medical accuracy, they always went with drama. After a while it started to be so formulaic that college students had drinking games around it. Many of the "inaccuracies" are also set up (paid for) in universe. He's the head of diagnostic medicine so he gets the rare cases and has a large staff. And in the early seasons, we were shown and told that the patients had gone through several other doctors who failed before they came to House. After a while they dropped that (probably because it was repetitive and took 1 or 2 minutes of their 42 minutes to tell the story). However, it's no where near as accurate as Scrubs. That show is amazing.

@juliestogner2542

7 күн бұрын

My general doctor retired some years ago. He was ALOT like House. He spoke with sarcasm, cuss words etc. God I miss him

Unvaccinated people in the U.S. tend to be in closed communities. Vaccination is required to attend public school (and most private schools) but isn't required in home-schooling and off books religious schooling. Rates are also dropping as the horrors of polio and other diseases are fading from public awareness. P.S. I just realized you guys are in UK. In the U.S. , "public" schools are free schooling available to all citizens (as long as they are vaccinated).

@CrankyGrandma

Жыл бұрын

Vaccination is not required in all public schools if the parents have an objection due to ethical or religious grounds. Depends on the state.

@macmcleod1188

Жыл бұрын

@Cranky Grandma sort of... the waiver allows the states to ban the student from school during outbreaks. From the Texas site: "Each parent or guardian who signs a vaccine exemption affidavit form also is acknowledging they understand that their child may be excluded from school attendance in times of emergency or epidemic declared by the Texas Commissioner of Health." Of course, the way it worked in practice was all the kids got sick, took it home, and all the parents got sick. Because the diseases move much faster that a state organization can move.

@macmcleod1188

Жыл бұрын

@Cranky Grandma and if you look at the child deaths per state at the kaiser foundation you can see child death rates per 100,000 citizens are much higher in any anti vax states . Mississippi is 32 child deaths per 100,000 citizens. California is 12.5 child deaths per 100,000 citizens.

You guys twins?

I'm pleased to hear from you that participating in paternity fraud is unethical. Unfortunately given how much of it happens, a lot of people are perfectly willing to participate.

@peterjf7723

Жыл бұрын

I was talking to a friend who had DNA tests done. She was aware that her father was infertile and her mother had used donor sperm. Her sister also had her DNA tested and was unsurprisingly her half sister. However her half sister found that the donor the sperm for her conception had been very busy and she had twenty other half siblings.

@KxNOxUTA

Жыл бұрын

It is AND give a good thought why it's a thing. If its really as frequent as you imply, then think even closer, why it happens in first place and why people fail to treat it openly and move on, together or alone. Freat chance to learn a great lot about power dynamics, resource issues and lack of social skills. Do you wanna reduce the chances of getting betrayed that way? Start your relationships out by commnicating that you are willing to actually work through problems together and manage your emotions when a problem occurs. Tell them what you hope they'd do, should they ever miss up and communicate readiness to distribute resources in a way that would allow both of you to leave. The more free people are and safe they are in a relationship, they more they must actively choose to stay and work things out. The less likely that you'll end up with betrayal or it getting hidden after they've snapped out of it, or sth. like this problem occured. Had she felt safe in telling him, then she'd not gone through all those mental and procedural gymnastics. There's always two sides to the situation as far as relationship problems are concerned! She ows the betrayal to 100%. But the part of them not communicating it and handling it as a couple, is a 50/50, as uncomfortable as it is!

Why are you recording in a house with some rude musician, who is starting playing music every time you trying to say something. He is just mean. His music is louder than your voice!

_British_ doctors?

@leonrussell9607

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, pakistani doctors is the right title

@KxNOxUTA

Жыл бұрын

@@leonrussell9607 Wow, look at these racists here who feel safe to crawl out and spout BS in public! Incredible! Are the two of you not ashamed of how frail you are? Talk about low capacity to reason and emotionally regulate :'3 You neither seem to know how citicenship works, nor how you shouldn't go around assuming the family history of people (aka stuff like their birth place or parents). And you thought it's smart to specifically go through the trouble of marking yourselves as incapable of discernment or social decent behaviour? Oh my! Somone send these poor sould some help. They're very confused and very scared of their biased expectations not getting met (as if that's even hte job of other people, to maintain their strange assumptions about reality). 🤦‍♀ We have a word, it's called "Fremdschämmen" it means sth. along the lines of "feeling shame for others". You lots really call forth that feeling!

British)))

Are brithish indians now? I thought they were white? I'm confused

And how about the hoax jab? Still feel good about vaccines after all the truth coming out?

I love me some House.