C J Don't matter how kind some one is taking care of a sick person long term is very stressful

CJ & Mini Hawi bear in mind that’s the new normal for Bobi now. I don’t know if you have heard about dementia. That may be kicking in slowly.

Hello Claude and Min. It's good to see you guys. Please remember to take care of yourself. Too often, caregivers become extremely stressed, tired, and sick from taking care of their loved ones with dementia. At times, that person may say hurtful and mean things, but please note that it is not them, but, the disease. There are times when your sweet BiBi may not remember who you are. It's hard, but keep showing her love and appreciation. Blessings. Sending you both virtual hugs.🤗❤

@paidamoyochekenyere3919

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That's true 👍

@elainedepass4762

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You are right on point. My thoughts also🇯🇲

Min Hawi looks like she can do with a good relaxing vacation .🙏🏾🙌🏾💖💖💖

MH, CJ...hang in there. It sounds like Bibi has Dementia and a touch of Alzheimers disease. My gmom had both. She may start asking about her parents or just things in her past. Music helps...keep singing with her or get her something where she can listen to old songs/memories for her❤❤❤

Hello CJ and MH much greetings my favourite people ❤ MH you look run down big up baby gal and hold your head up high

@ClaudeJoseph_ke

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Thanks so much

Please don't throw the needles that Bibi will use to check Her glucose lever in that ditch. You must gather them and take them to the hospital for proper disposal.

CJ African Eagle...why not use most of the broken bricks to pave your new sitting area where you made the benches instead of throwing them away.

@morvelbrown4609

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Good idea 👍🏾

Hello CJ sometimes you just have to say no some people are just selfish

CJ and Mi Hawii ! Keep on keeping on . God Almighty will always be on your side . Your Progress is inevitable by the grace of God Almighty ❤❤❤

It's stressful to care for a sick. Pray for patience and strength. Mostly to accept situations you can't change. It shall be well ❤

When a member of the family is unwell, everyone is under emotional or physical stress, that is why while you are young and healthy, try to be independent in every aspect of life and do your best to lead a healthy and active life. When a person is sick they are inclined to take out their frustration on the person they love most, so don't take BiBi seriously for what she says to you when she is upset, you need to have lots of patience, so happy that you have found someone to take care of her. To make meals more exciting, tell her that you are going to have a picnic in the garden because it is a beautiful day, have everything set up then take her there, play some African or Gospel music, sing and dance with her, cut her finger and toenails and apply the cream on them, or give her a body massage to relax her, let her sit outdoors with the farm animals around her, let the children sit next to her and tell them about their day at school, let her friends visit her for coffee and snacks. She will be more relaxed and sleep better by providing activities and stimulation. The most important thing is don't let her fall. A big percentage of people in the world have Diabetes but it can be controlled with medication, diet and exercise. Give BiBi a small piece of meat if she is craving it with lots of vegetables and gravy that will satisfy her and make her happy, work around the menu, instead of salt, add spices like pepper, lemon and herbs, but don't deprive her, she hasn't got long to go. Everything is in moderation. I also have Diabetes and lead a busy & active life. All the best. Cheers!

Hi CJ & MH! Resilience where love rules is automatic❤❤❤❤ God loves you both for taking care of Bibi! Just hang in there and you will be richly rewarded🎉🎉

may the most high continue blessing you and your family, regard to BIBI.

Thank you Hawi for taking care of granny

Dementia is very awful it will stress out the person who is looking after them hope everything work out for Bibi jamaica girl love everyone

Happy to hear that Bibi does better

I will keep saying God will continue to bless you all as you continue to take care of Bibi, your children will not let you down in Jesus name amen 🙏

Bibi needs a walker to walk with she should not walk without it. She is too weak Plus. She is up in years. I myself am up in years and diabetic. I know it’s too hard energy is low and you’re always tired and weak even when you feel good, you’re tired and weakat this age

The land is looking good CJ and Min! Good work and care with BIBI👌🏽❤🇺🇸

🇺🇸🇺🇸🙏🏽🙏🏽💖💖👍🏽👍🏽!!!! Praying! Hang in the there!!!

I’m glad you’re feeling much better now.

I feel you Bro. Keep good faith.

Like and share the video guys

continue being positive, be yourself, no matter what, you can never change human.

Thanks! Do something nice for Bibi. She is going through the changes. Praying for your strength and Faith in God during these tiimes.

@ClaudeJoseph_ke

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This really means alot.Thank you so much🙏🏿♥️

Hi CJ, thanks for what you are doing for bibi. Just to let you know that her life at the moment that is tricky situation I myself that’s professional and it has many challenges dementia back home especially in Africa many people will think that some one has run mad when it’s not. It needs someone who will understand her like Diane. Dementia is not cup of tea. It comes with so many challenges and behaviours where by she or he will forget he’s own family member and friends and so on. Good time as you look after bibi.

God will see you through this too .

Hello CJ and Min Hawi big up yourself 🙏❤️

thank you Min Hawi may God bless you.

For sure but keep on going brother

Bibi.has dementia, dementia guys. It makes Bibi not know when she wants to eat or doesn't want to eat. You have to time it so that everything is in P😂erfect sink for her, especially because she's diabetic well done, though well done, keep it up.🎉🎉

Great video kaka

🤩🤩🤩kids kids kidsCJ

BB big ❤

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Hel.ment protect head if accidents

Big up your salf

Thanks min hawi

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Lol

Cj. You dont.look happy at all.

You need to love you you don't look happy