I’m a male coquette. Great breakdown. As someone above referenced, only like this with people I am really into which is rare. I did this unconsciously when I was younger as I am an avoidant attachment style. It would drive women nuts, in particular beautiful women who are used to getting what they want. You use their ego against them. They chase their own ego. I find it doesn’t work nearly as well with lesser attractive women because they are often not self assured enough to take the rejection and keep coming. Essentially the coquette is able to emotionally engage their targets. This is one massive advantage as a male coquette. You get in the women’s head. Doing this will make a love/hate thing going on. As Robert Greene noted, once you see the anger of them being ignored or when you withdraw, you know the seduction is on.

Hey! Great video and explanations. I also struggle with understanding why people can sometimes seem distant and unreachable. I can also provide alternative theory. The girl from “Basic Instinct”, for instance, was likely previously abused by toxic people. The detective investigating her case showed an example of a man who expects women to fullfill his urges, like it’s their job. For those who watched that particular movie, look at how he treated his female coworker, and how he aggressively pursued the main antagonist, even when she was no longer interested. I don’t think she was “using” him here, but rather playing a game since she was captured and almost no choice. Also, the female antagonist had a girlfriend, but they had to pretend they were just friends in public, because nobody would believe them. 🙄 This was also a recurring topic in the movie. And the antagonist’s girlfriend was portrayed as a crazy lunatic. So, instead of being just a narcissist, it can simply be that some people are repeatedly being treated badly by possessive people, and they don’t want to succumb to that. So they play a game. Others have internallized trauma.

@Primalsutra

2 жыл бұрын

Very interesting genuine response, i'll have to rewatch that movie from this perspective. Thanks for sharing, I appreciate this deep dive!

great analysis

I’m a coquette and I think you’re spot on! Great break down 😊

@Primalsutra

9 ай бұрын

🙏🏽🔥💯

I do this because of my APD which I’m trying to heal, NOT because I want to be ✨seductive✨. Well I am more introverted and extra private/unpredictable minus all this. I’m magnetic with or without these traits.

@Primalsutra

10 ай бұрын

Interesting! Didn't know about Auditory Processing Disorder

My best friend told me I should check this out and I realised I do this unconsciously 😂

gud vids brother u explain it well!

@Primalsutra

7 ай бұрын

Appreciate it! 🔥 check out our podcast Savage Shaman Seminars on IMCTV

I got involved with a coquette but I didn’t know it at the time. I’m trying to get over her as we stopped talking 3 months ago. If anyone has any advice I would greatly appreciate it

i need your help sir, my 1st year in college on semester 1 most of my friends told me i was a guy who is talkative, trying to get everyone knows me something like that. Without knowing this before, on my 2nd semester on my first year i unconsiously withdraw that but it was not 100%. After that little withdraw then most of them ask me what happen to me, and they say its better like this. I find it quite comfortable. I walk alone in my university,sitting alone in class or during break time, walking alone. Afterwards i found art of seduction, and around 2 weeks ago on my first semester in my second year i think coquette might work and i totally withdraw and things started.One of my friends thought that she made a mistake To me, another thought that i unfriend him etc.As a 20 year old, i think i was talkactive but i Sense these “cold” Inside me, i was actually only joking without talking about myself most of the time, in class or hangout with my friends. I was too quite shy, do you think coquette is good for me? thank you

You are absolutely running Wanted LOL

Anxious-avoidant is exactly what I thought 🤣

💯

@Primalsutra

4 ай бұрын

🙏🏽 oss brother! 🚀🔥

Have you been running Wanted?

@Primalsutra

Жыл бұрын

I haven’t bro, but it resonates with me. 😎

@yentl8638

Жыл бұрын

@@Primalsutra what have you been running then in this video there is something which is drawing me in. What subliminal were you running at this point in time? :)

@yentl8638

Жыл бұрын

Are you gonna tell me :)))

@Primalsutra

Жыл бұрын

@@yentl8638 I don’t remember bro. Honestly. I’ll make a video soon about what files I’ve been using consistently in a row.

@yentl8638

Жыл бұрын

@@Primalsutra I’d love to know, have you been building Customs? Somehow your hair looks beautiful and you really have “shine” to your presence.

As a male i try and take sex out of the equation to level the playing field, woman will try and control men with sex. Its all about having the upper hand in relationships or when casually dating.

@Primalsutra

8 ай бұрын

Epic!

There is a difficulty I want you to clarify to me. Should I play the role of the Coquette only at the beginning or the length of the seduction process because the process requires some contact for periods of weeks with your goal, so you cannot postpone the fulfillment of a desire or play hope and despair and absence in the near final stages of seduction causes pain to your goal and a feeling of insecurity Of course, you will not be able to use it during the operation, so is there a coquettish pattern that can be used daily other than making it chase you or cry something else

@winninginlife

Жыл бұрын

You're overthinking....meaning you're an easy target. As a natural coquette didn't even know that was a term, you know you don't Need anyone. Once someone becomes interested in me....I enjoy understanding what it is they lack & provide it. Most people truly don't know what they want, need & desire a coquette can make you feel loved....then naturally pull away because we don't like clingy people. All the while the person gets frustrated but keeps coming back for more, coquette are creative lovers too so we'll fulfil your kink to the point of bliss...then disappear leaving the person wondering if they keep chasing the coquette what other tricks up our sleeves. Hope I was able to explain it to you, we are capable of falling in love but we understand people can get bored, that's when the coquettish behavior rears it's ugly head unfortunately smh

@jayden7951

11 ай бұрын

It comes from within, you feel that inner detachment as soon as you pick up cues that the other person has been intrigued. It's a switch. Once they start to lose hope, that switch goes on again and you start showering them with attention, love, care but as soon as they start getting closer - you start feeling cold and detached again. It's emotional withdrawal due to fear of intimacy.

So can men be coquettes or is it called something else ?

@Primalsutra

Жыл бұрын

Yes they can 💪🏽💯

How to witn against Coquettes?

@Primalsutra

2 жыл бұрын

Did you mean *win? Learn to stay in neutrality and not get sucked into the world of shadow and light extremes.

@haihai5293

2 жыл бұрын

@@Primalsutra Thanks for response. Maybe you will do video on this thema, would be epic because I don't see any kind of that particular video. Greetings from Poland.

@successartistry3023

Жыл бұрын

Become a coquette

@haihai5293

Жыл бұрын

@@successartistry3023 Intresting.

@sierrahopkins6557

Жыл бұрын

you don't.

I am only coquettish with a lady i am not fully interested in Never purposely unlesss nervous.

How to deal with such girls, if she`s my girlfriend ?

@Apep88

Жыл бұрын

It's easy, just beat her ass

stop exposing us kind sir lol

@Primalsutra

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

Omg this is me lol.

@Primalsutra

2 жыл бұрын

Haha great ✊🏽👏🏽💯😁

@shuddup3618

Жыл бұрын

same #coquettesquad

@CrescentDream

Жыл бұрын

@@shuddup3618 welcome to the fold hun!

great analysis

@Primalsutra

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏽💯🔥🧚🏻‍♀️