Boundaries: It’s Time To Stop Dancing With Dysfunction | Lysa TerKeurst

Healthy boundaries are not only a good idea, they’re God’s idea.
In “Boundaries: It’s Time To Stop Dancing With Dysfunction,” Lysa TerKeurst reminds us how important it is to set boundaries in our life without losing who we are.
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Chapters:
0:00 - A Welcome From Holly
2:14 - Let's Talk About Boundaries
5:55 - Getting Biblical Confidence To Set Boundaries
8:27 - The Issue With Dysfunction
11:04 - A Picture of Healthy Boundaries
14:40 - Where Real Freedom Exists
17:24 - Bankrupting Your Capacity
21:27 - Where Dysfunction Grows
24:05 - Putting A Boundary On Yourself
26:18 - This Can Change Your Life
29:33 - A Real Life Example
33:30 - Helping You Avoid Extremes
36:52 - How To Fight For The Relationship
38:41 - Going Scuba Diving
46:00 - Keep Your Eyes On God
Scripture References:
Genesis 1, verses 2-8
Genesis 2, verses 14-18
Boundaries: It’s Time To Stop Dancing With Dysfunction | Lysa TerKeurst | Elevation Church

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  • @elevationchurch
    @elevationchurch Жыл бұрын

    eFam! Elevation Nights with Elevation Worship and Pastor Steven Furtick starts on April 18th! For tickets and more information, go to www.elevationnights.com/

  • @blasmincover7458

    @blasmincover7458

    Жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday Paster Steven🎂🎂🎂

  • @blasmincover7458

    @blasmincover7458

    Жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday 🎂 🥳 🎉

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    Жыл бұрын

    Feliz cumpleanos, pastor...period!🤩🤩🤩🤩

  • @christinejones3152

    @christinejones3152

    Жыл бұрын

    @@blasmincover7458lerlele my eyes❤that was great 👍 About dysfunction so accurate

  • @christinejones3152

    @christinejones3152

    Жыл бұрын

    🎉 Ty Ty g Trading Pleaser’s are Dysfunctional two

  • @worshiplibrary7157
    @worshiplibrary7157 Жыл бұрын

    The dear person that's reading this, we don't know each other but I wish you all the best in life❤ don't ever blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Your smile is precious and a key to a happy life…

  • @operationsmossa9896

    @operationsmossa9896

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen!

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    Жыл бұрын

    What are boundaries without restrictions? Help!🌫️🌫️🛀🛀

  • @hollycadam3455

    @hollycadam3455

    Жыл бұрын

    @@melaniemartin730 exactly!

  • @ashleysmith3627

    @ashleysmith3627

    Жыл бұрын

    May God bless you and all who read this. Thank you Lord for each and every person here. Your amazing Lord and I love you in Jesus name Amen

  • @louiselalande29

    @louiselalande29

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow,thankyou

  • @sabinej.4934
    @sabinej.4934 Жыл бұрын

    "We will always desparately want from other people what we fear our God will not provide." - Lysa TerKeurst

  • @sherrymesser9410

    @sherrymesser9410

    Жыл бұрын

    A real ah ha

  • @medicinesundanceshield4955

    @medicinesundanceshield4955

    Жыл бұрын

    Good Job Lisa

  • @medicinesundanceshield4955

    @medicinesundanceshield4955

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Lisa Termeurst

  • @amyperron8091

    @amyperron8091

    Жыл бұрын

    Ll

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    Жыл бұрын

    Who is she? 🌠🌠🌠

  • @ArleneDavid_
    @ArleneDavid_ Жыл бұрын

    29:27 “Adults inform, Children explain” straight 🔥

  • @koalalou68

    @koalalou68

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow...

  • @paisleymariehamlin

    @paisleymariehamlin

    Жыл бұрын

    Word. 👌💯 No is a full sentence.

  • @noladean6216

    @noladean6216

    Жыл бұрын

    Loved this Boundaries lesson; just so timely for me! Thank you Jesus ❤

  • @AspotleAbigail

    @AspotleAbigail

    Жыл бұрын

    Amazing Recap 🎉❤

  • @mikkiallen8689

    @mikkiallen8689

    Жыл бұрын

    63 years old and thankful to hear this good word. I have a caretaker type personality and it has ALWAYS been difficult for me do this.

  • @Young67101
    @Young67101 Жыл бұрын

    WOW!!!! As a survivor of narcistic abuse from a parent and then an ex husband... this is God teaching me how to stop lapping that mountain!! Thank you so much

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    Жыл бұрын

    What happened?!👭👭👭

  • @diamondbaby6970

    @diamondbaby6970

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too don't feel alone i still go through it now the kids attack me too.God got us 🙏 Sending love

  • @knowinggodtoday

    @knowinggodtoday

    Жыл бұрын

    God bless you sister!

  • @zepgirl6495

    @zepgirl6495

    Жыл бұрын

    God's timing is impeccable!! I recently came out of an extremely abusive relationship, where there was utter chaos, which included my own mother and son. I have been struggling with how to establish healthy boundaries in this chaos. This message puts it all into perspective.

  • @airyeeblesid824

    @airyeeblesid824

    Жыл бұрын

    I can relate sadly Christina L, God bless you!

  • @tosheacollier2039
    @tosheacollier2039 Жыл бұрын

    A boundary is loving other’s well , so we don’t lose who we are. ❤

  • @Switzer1234

    @Switzer1234

    2 ай бұрын

    A boundary is loving OTHERS (not OTHER'S) well. No apostrophe in OTHERS. An apostrophe is to show possession/belonging to.

  • @blancamunoz6059

    @blancamunoz6059

    2 ай бұрын

    I don’t understand

  • @lavenderchai1613
    @lavenderchai1613 Жыл бұрын

    Work boundaries are a must, especially in an environment of worldly people. Please pray for me and my work environment. Thank you.

  • @elevationchurch

    @elevationchurch

    Жыл бұрын

    Lavendar Chai we are lifting you up in prayer today. Dear Lord we pray for wisdom and grace for Lavender especially when navigating the work environment. May Lavender please you, Lord, by desiring, asking for, and utilizing a discerning heart full of wisdom. It's in Jesus name we pray, Amen.

  • @lavenderchai1613

    @lavenderchai1613

    Жыл бұрын

    @@elevationchurch thank you so much! I will pray for you as well. Dear Heavenly Father, I want to express my gratitude for elevation church, and their prayer support. What perfect timing you demonstrate to all of your children. I ask for kingdom love and mercy and delightful deliverance along with your loving guidance and protection in all of our days. Forgive us of our trespasses as we forgive those who have trespass against us and deliver us from the evil one, for thine is the kingdom and glory forever and ever amen. Glory to you Jesus 🩸❤️

  • @connie10000

    @connie10000

    Жыл бұрын

    ​​@@elevationchurch What a beautiful prayer! Please pray for me too...being in my 50s I would never have believed the amount of abuse/demeaning supervisors & coworkers put in my path & low pay. Fear has crept in as I recently lossed my job due to under the table xyz's. Im such a professional, personable & dedicated employee. I'm new to Summerville SC from WI as a single person on a God-Move. I'VE attempted to find a home church where I feel as true genuine family , mutual relationships NOT JUST on Sundays. My bday & Holidays should NOT be alone. My dog, Faithie (like Faith in God) passed. Plus I had to purchase a different car same time as lossed job. Caught sick at work then new neighbors smoking pot. Now ill. Help pls. Each time I seem to set a boundary...retaliation rears it's ugly head. This is only part of my story being here over 1 year. No fam back home. Thank you Jesus for peace love smiles connection joy & financial freedom... the LIFE I imagined. AMEN❤

  • @connie10000

    @connie10000

    Жыл бұрын

    @Elevation Church Pls I am crying out for prayer. Pls send a Prayer Warrior like myself or more anointed to come against the enemy. SEE MY REQUEST ABOVE

  • @mariatripp

    @mariatripp

    8 ай бұрын

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @michellethomas6735
    @michellethomas6735 Жыл бұрын

    Profound! Boundaries = "The ultimate purpose is to love others well, without losing the best of who we are." -Lysa Terkeurst Thank you for such an informative and important message.

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    Жыл бұрын

    If it weren't for this, then now what?♊♊🌼🌼

  • @NMOWarrior2019

    @NMOWarrior2019

    Жыл бұрын

  • @dgingerich5994

    @dgingerich5994

    Жыл бұрын

    So excellent!!! Thanks for sharing perspective! 😊☺😃

  • @janicep1508
    @janicep150810 ай бұрын

    I liked this, and mostly agree. But we are also called to carry our cross. Love is sacrificial. I'm going to do whatever it takes to care for my elderly dad, even if his mind doesn't always understand boundaries or my energy level. It's ok, I love him. God will give me more than I need if I surrender it to Him.

  • @ParisWiggins
    @ParisWiggins Жыл бұрын

    WOW.... I'm literally shocked because I did this for over 15+ yrs and I use to be scared of people not liking me if I say "no" and it will cause me to people please, and God told me I need boundaries. Can't just let anybody have access to me on a higher level if they're not willing to come up on a higher level with me. This is it. This was just for me, at almost midnight word. Glory be to God. Thank you Father God 😘

  • @jenniferboedeker-jg9bv

    @jenniferboedeker-jg9bv

    Жыл бұрын

    I can relate

  • @rosannalancaster2165

    @rosannalancaster2165

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm struggling with this now

  • @crystaljohnson997
    @crystaljohnson997 Жыл бұрын

    TONIGHT, I LOST MY HOME TO EVICTION FOR MYSELF AND MY KIDS AND MY DOG. WE HAVE NO WHERE TO GO.. PLEASE PRAY FOR GODS WAY FOR US ALL...

  • @robertnonaka8701

    @robertnonaka8701

    Жыл бұрын

    Praying for you. Praying that God will protect and comfort you.

  • @Silver-cl2bd

    @Silver-cl2bd

    Жыл бұрын

    Jehovah Jireh, Lord, You are our provider!! Open every single door and opportunity needed to provide for their situation! Meet them! Provide for them! Comfort them and pour out your Love upon them during this whole process. We thank you now, in advance, in good faith that we will see your glory in this! Amen 💓

  • @nnekolo6183

    @nnekolo6183

    Жыл бұрын

    God will continue to keep you and provide for you Crystal Johnson in Jesus Name, Amen 💖🤲🏿🔥

  • @krystalhairston1979

    @krystalhairston1979

    Жыл бұрын

    🙏🙏

  • @erikmc6385

    @erikmc6385

    Жыл бұрын

    God please provide for this family in need. In Jesus's name. Amen

  • @YahToldMe
    @YahToldMe Жыл бұрын

    I also think that when we know God has ordained someone to be in our lives, we tend to pull back on boundaries and give them special passes/treatment. This shouldn’t be so. We should hold everyone to the same standard. I love how she talked about giving someone level 10 access when they haven’t shown level 10 responsibility!

  • @ArtistBarbaraAnnKenney
    @ArtistBarbaraAnnKenney Жыл бұрын

    Loved this. Boundaries, prayer and spiritual warfare saved my marriage and I am so blessed to finally have a healthy marriage!! My mother in law was toooo nice and my husband wasn't familiar with having Boundaries so it was a struggle...but he is happier and so am I. Note: I had to get really tough at times.Thank you Jesus.

  • @williamsroberto6598

    @williamsroberto6598

    Жыл бұрын

    Hello, how are you doing?

  • @KingdomCultureJa
    @KingdomCultureJa9 ай бұрын

    WOW! One expression. This message is an example of just how everything we need is written in the word. Thank you Lysa, we needed it. #lifechanging

  • @ouranoswealthgroup7042
    @ouranoswealthgroup7042 Жыл бұрын

    ‘Adults inform. Children explain’ 🔥💜 *coined*

  • @whenyourgone1994
    @whenyourgone199415 күн бұрын

    Lisa that was AMAZING 🤩 Boundaries saved my life 🙏 in Jesus name ❤

  • @asiacallier1
    @asiacallier1 Жыл бұрын

    WOW. Setting boundaries for the protection of others. As a highly sensitive overgiver, that one shift in perception has just changed my life.I have always had his belief that I have to sacrifice myself to honor God by giving more of myself then I feel comfortable with. When it leads to me being used, abused and taken advantage of I explode. I have never looked at setting boundaries as being a form of love for others. Because essentially you are protecting them from being her. Wow just wow

  • @rebeccamitchell8223
    @rebeccamitchell8223 Жыл бұрын

    I am having terrible issues with my daughters and ex husband of 24 years, I didn't choose to ever leave until I could no longer take his abuse. I left the church i was a member, but I told myself I wasn't leaving the lord. I strayed... now ,after 12 long years of searching for a path back to God, now that I finally sought him with all i had, mind ,heart you name it. Now though, my ex and kids have a better relationship than they do with me? Its like I live in the twilight zone??? To the point, my God ,who has been absolutely working real miracles since he rescued me let me somehow hear this ,I was looking for a gospel song , but just before I found this message I prayed not 10 minutes earlier for God to educate me on what boundaries are!!!!! I just want to praise Jesus holy name for loving and forgiving me for turning my back on him. Thank you Lord, and to the woman who God chose to teach me , thank you for your obedience. I forget how important obedience is , when God lays anything on your heart, we should all try our best to do what he is asking. You never know who needs to hear, see what he tells you to share. Thankyou, my cup runneth over.❤

  • @PleaseViewMyChannel
    @PleaseViewMyChannel Жыл бұрын

    _GOD_ _I am in need. Oh,, GOD, I cry out for YOUR help! The storms in my life are unrelenting and Im drowning. Yet, I will lift my eyes to YOU, for my help comes from YOU, the creator of heaven and earth. LORD, save me and my family, keep us from evil, rescue us from this long battle. For YOU are my keeper, my protector, my salvation. YOU watch over me day and night, guide my steps, and show me the way forward. My hope and my help are in YOU, LORD, for YOU are faithful and true. All this I pray thru YOUR Son Jesus Christ._ _Amen._ 🙏❤️

  • @jenniferjohnson587

    @jenniferjohnson587

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @PamRecoveredPeace
    @PamRecoveredPeace Жыл бұрын

    I specialize in teaching boundaries to wives who have been betrayed in their marriages and this message was spot on in every way. Lots of nuggets of truth, insight and perspective here. Thank you Lysa :)

  • @desertcat3

    @desertcat3

    Жыл бұрын

    This is why I'm here don't know where to go after those boundaries are broken again when do you say when

  • @PamRecoveredPeace

    @PamRecoveredPeace

    Жыл бұрын

    @desertcat3 you get physical and emotional space and express protest about the hurtful behavior, and ask for what behavior you need to see instead. And the space is in effect UNTIL they Apologize Own it without blaming anything or anyone else Acknowledge the pain it caused you Explain what they will do differently next time Offer to make amends, do something to try to refill the good emotions they took away Make the words true with changed behavior And work to earn back your trust.

  • @yolandachoate7932

    @yolandachoate7932

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Lysa, struggling to build boundaries, with people that don't realize that they are not right at times.

  • @shanefisher6605

    @shanefisher6605

    Жыл бұрын

    @Pam Blizzard do you have a website or reference for counseling if one is in this situation of boundaries they do not respect and repeatedly are emotionally insincere and hurtful?

  • @ruthinha_ruby_kirkendorfer3771
    @ruthinha_ruby_kirkendorfer3771 Жыл бұрын

    " adults inform ... children explain" 🎤‼️

  • @donnacross200
    @donnacross200 Жыл бұрын

    "Love others well without losing the best of you are." ✝

  • @tammyhightower8594
    @tammyhightower8594 Жыл бұрын

    Please pray for me my best friend we were so close that she was more like a sister...she suddenly passed away Monday night in her sleep... I know she's where she's wanted to be for years but I'm devastated... I feel lost... pray for me and her cousin Susan please

  • @Thankful305

    @Thankful305

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh Tammy ~ I know it's been a week since you wrote this BUT, I can feel your pain and hurt. May our Father hold you and help you through this difficult time. In Jesus ♥Name~ AMEN!

  • @paddikeller

    @paddikeller

    Жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry my preson passed a year ago and it still kills me. Hugs.

  • @elevationchurch

    @elevationchurch

    Жыл бұрын

    Tammy we are praying for you and Susan today and grieving with you during your time of loss. Nothing in life can prepare us for the death of a loved one, but we have a God who is sufficient in comforting us during our time of grief. Lord God, we ask that you touch Tammy and Susan today and let them feel your comfort. Your word promises us that you heal the brokenhearted and bind up their wounds and we petition you today to heal the broken hearts of these women. We are trusting in your word that you, Lord, are near to the brokenhearted and save the crushed in spirit. We thank you for your abundant love, mercy and grace and ask you to wipe away every tear from their eyes and fill their hearts with your joy. In Jesus name we pray, Amen.

  • @michaelwilson7971
    @michaelwilson797120 күн бұрын

    Happy birthday Pastor. I thank God that you were born. You have helped me out so much though The Holy Spirit.

  • @1969LRS
    @1969LRS Жыл бұрын

    Boundaries are necessary. Certainly have seen the dysfunction in my family and how they have used me for years. But that knowledge has caused me to set boundaries for me and walk away now. God has opened doors I never thought would happen. Clearly each door presented is from God and I am so amazed and thankful.

  • @christinabrown2533
    @christinabrown2533 Жыл бұрын

    Listening to this sermon made me realize and understand more of why I don’t have healthy boundaries and a good relationship with my dad.

  • @knowinggodtoday

    @knowinggodtoday

    Жыл бұрын

    Be blessed!

  • @OnlyJesusStudio
    @OnlyJesusStudio Жыл бұрын

    "Boundaries are God's idea. Adults inform, children explain. Never take your eyes of the master." I love the diving story💦😄!! Keep your eyes on Jesus🔥

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    Жыл бұрын

    Why the scuba diving?🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @samuelstreeter5780
    @samuelstreeter5780 Жыл бұрын

    Dysfunction out and about, in front o a large crowd talking about people who got along without atguement. Praise the Lord

  • @worldshighestcurrency
    @worldshighestcurrency Жыл бұрын

    Boundaries isnt just GOOD for you, it’s GOD’s for you 🤩

  • @thechristianmom4716
    @thechristianmom4716 Жыл бұрын

    Wow God tries to protect us from pain when He tells us to obey His Word. He knows what’s best for us. Just like an earthly loving father protects his children. He is the beginning and the end. Let’s trust His heart and lean not on your own understanding and all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your path” ❤💡

  • @tahomalewis2300
    @tahomalewis2300 Жыл бұрын

    What a blessing to hear Lysa preach. I just finished reading her new book. I enjoyed how she delivered this delicate message at Elevation.

  • @rangy1222
    @rangy1222 Жыл бұрын

    Amen help me God so that l will not take my eyes off the Master

  • @ninasalter1341
    @ninasalter1341Ай бұрын

    Thank you pastors❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤love ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤love you all appreciate you more then I can ever say in words. I love the Holy Spirit!!!!!!

  • @juneandjesus
    @juneandjesus Жыл бұрын

    Amazing words of wisdom from the Lord, Lysa. Thank you! Only recently I had noticed the words 'separated' mentioned many times in Genesis1. You have given a new meaning to the word ' boundaries' - to love people without losing ourselves in dysfunction, all the while keeping our eyes on the Master! HAPPY BIRTHDAY PASTOR STEVEN.. YOU BLESS US EVERY WEEK. May God bless you and continue to guide you with wisdom 🙏

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    Жыл бұрын

    We're struggling with boundaries...help!🚮🚮🔹🔹

  • @pnew2565
    @pnew2565 Жыл бұрын

    Amen - thank you Lysa - glad you faced the truth and stopped marketing forgiveness in a relationship that simply hadn't shown you any remorse or desire to restore. All the effort was from you. You look great and free.

  • @catrinagodon8989

    @catrinagodon8989

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly! I kept my humility, a teaching of Jesus and kept going back and expecting better from that other person. I allowed the mistreatment because I thought that was WJWD. I now realize the difference between forgiveness, good (& required) goodbyes, and why we need to set healthy boundaries. Trust Him and keep looking up for His guidance to let you know that you've already learned those lessons that are preparing you for the next chapter in your life.

  • @sheila9371
    @sheila9371 Жыл бұрын

    I love Lisa and her teachings. Forgive what you cant forget is wonderful.

  • @saragharibi5976
    @saragharibi5976 Жыл бұрын

    Your church is lucky to have such an amazing speaker. I believe every church/mosque/etc in every religion needs to have someone to advocate for mental health in a way that their followers will be open to listen to the message, and to make it understandable for them. This lady has the skill set for that, and that's amazing.

  • @kimberlytate2623
    @kimberlytate2623 Жыл бұрын

    "HAPPY BIRTHDAY PASTOR STEVEN"🙏✝️❤😇🎂🍨

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    Жыл бұрын

    Hooray!🥳🥳🥳

  • @cassandrayoung7612
    @cassandrayoung7612 Жыл бұрын

    Wow! This was such an "On Time" message. God bless 🙌 🙏 ❤️

  • @briyannagonzalez6652

    @briyannagonzalez6652

    Жыл бұрын

    for real amen

  • @torrencebuckner5685
    @torrencebuckner5685 Жыл бұрын

    I think I've found a new family óf believers!

  • @annabanzon313
    @annabanzon313 Жыл бұрын

    Its true, I am limited, but God is unlimited and im not God!

  • @cora-marienelson8876
    @cora-marienelson8876 Жыл бұрын

    I think this is maybe the best teaching on boundaries I have ever seen! Thank you Lysa!

  • @audreytravis3982
    @audreytravis3982 Жыл бұрын

    So great to hear a message from Lysa Terkeurst! I am doing a book study with a friend, and the book we are studying is Uninvited. This book is wonderful. God is using Lysa’s book to show us patterns, perspectives and behaviors that we have obtained through rejection and abandonment. Thank you Lysa for putting into words your most private memories. Thank you Pastor Steven and family for your hard work and dedication and thank you Elevation Church staff for your dedication and hard work as well!

  • @Jamie-rc5kl

    @Jamie-rc5kl

    Жыл бұрын

    Did you get this on your page to about being a winner. Lol of a giveaway.

  • @audreytravis3982

    @audreytravis3982

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Jamie-rc5kl yes just ignoring it. Kinda sad that people use Elevation Church name for their own agenda..

  • @Jamie-rc5kl

    @Jamie-rc5kl

    Жыл бұрын

    @@audreytravis3982 Yes had downloaded telegram and thought something not right so I Uninstalled it. I was looking at a lot of post that had similar to these so I muted that person ignored. Thanks for getting back to let me know.

  • @IvanSanchez-cs1co
    @IvanSanchez-cs1co Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Jesus, I was homeless, until Jesus remembered me and sent me a good broker MRS SARAH ANN HEIM, She helped me a lot and my life totally changed... Hallelujah, Our Lord Jesus have lifted up my life!!!

  • @ameliawilliams8522

    @ameliawilliams8522

    Жыл бұрын

    @Charles John how can I reach out to Sarah's services???

  • @okoogbuka5725

    @okoogbuka5725

    Жыл бұрын

    Wooow that woman her good work has been everywhere, feel more confident investing with her..

  • @gud9706
    @gud9706 Жыл бұрын

    46:10-47:30 "You're hesitant to draw a boundary because you're so afraid that the other person will take something from you that they give you that you're not sure you'd be okay without. We will always desperately want from other people what we fear our God will not provide. Keep your eyes on the master."

  • @ouranoswealthgroup7042
    @ouranoswealthgroup7042 Жыл бұрын

    A timely word for my right now. Thank you, Lysa!!

  • @girlaboutlife
    @girlaboutlife Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Lord for this message that you shared through Lysa. I have been doing on this amazing journey with God and my therapist where I am finding my voice and setting boundaries in places that I had never considered before. This message solidified that this is a Godly thing and I am on the right path.

  • @WhitfordPR
    @WhitfordPR Жыл бұрын

    You should literally do a Tedx on boundaries explaining it this way - in levels of capacity Why is it that we think ungodly or counter to God to do things that are healthy ❔

  • @lumkaedaniell655
    @lumkaedaniell655 Жыл бұрын

    We always want from other people what we fear our God won't provide 🙏

  • @Mandachu85
    @Mandachu85 Жыл бұрын

    You have no idea how badly I needed this message today! I have drawn my boundaries and on Wednesday need to start firm in them because if I don’t I’ll be living in the dysfunction! You just Showed God wants me to set healthy boundaries and he supports them!!! Thank you for this message!! ❤🙏Amen!

  • @ArtistBarbaraAnnKenney

    @ArtistBarbaraAnnKenney

    Жыл бұрын

    Boundaries are needed asap, pray take action...maybe add some humor at first but firm Boundaries saved my marriage

  • @maryadeniran1643
    @maryadeniran1643 Жыл бұрын

    Happy Birthday Pastor Steven!!! GOD Bless you and may you have so many more, Psalm 91:16, in JESUS's Mighty Wonderful Name AMENNNN and AMENNN!!!!🙏🙏☺️🥳🥳🥳🎂

  • @JaysonFord-ik7wi
    @JaysonFord-ik7wi Жыл бұрын

    Can Doing Did // Infinite Mercy Grace by means of LOVE! !!! Forever Grateful

  • @pamboire6973
    @pamboire6973 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks lysa.. finally this truth is spoken to the church.. never heard about boundaries at a church..

  • @marthabejarano8437
    @marthabejarano8437 Жыл бұрын

    Such a great blessing to hear the word of God from Lysa Terkeurst!! What a great lesson on boundaries!🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    Жыл бұрын

    If it weren't for this teaching, then we're having a hard time establishing boundaries! Now what?🕯️🕯️💡💡

  • @operationsmossa9896
    @operationsmossa9896 Жыл бұрын

    Glory be to God! Amen for this word, I recieve it!

  • @premienaidoo1166
    @premienaidoo1166 Жыл бұрын

    ✨💫😎🔥🎉🎉🎂HAPPY,HAPPY,HAPPY BIRTHDAY PASTOR STEVEN FURTICK😎🎉🎉💫✨🙏🙏🙌🙌TO GOD BE THE GLORY...HES GOT ELEVATION CHURCH IN HIS HANDS...MAY YOU N HOLLY GROW ABUNDANTLY IN GODS KINGDOM..YR FAMILY 👉CHURCH🙌🙌 "OH GOD MY GOD I NEED YOU🤩😍🔥NAMES🙌🙌🙌 JUST LOVE THE PRAISE N WORSHIP...ENJOY

  • @angiehalbert9083
    @angiehalbert9083 Жыл бұрын

    As someone who is an a marriage with a narcstic mate, I totally get this....

  • @bridgetmeredith2518
    @bridgetmeredith2518 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this AMAZINGLY EMPOWERING message! God bless you

  • @MrsHMLong
    @MrsHMLong Жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday Pastor Steven 🥳🥳🥳 God bless you more than you/we can even imagine! You are appreciated so very much! 💙

  • @user-pg2ee7iu3l
    @user-pg2ee7iu3l11 ай бұрын

    This teaching was awesome totally spoke to me that I’m ok

  • @erikmc6385
    @erikmc6385 Жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday Stephen Furtick. We appreciate you and love you. Your very special and I appreciate you delivering God's word in a way that goes straight to my soul.

  • @kqwerty
    @kqwerty Жыл бұрын

    Happy Birthday, Pastor Steve

  • @ninasalter1341
    @ninasalter1341Ай бұрын

    Amen ❤

  • @angietorres4753
    @angietorres4753 Жыл бұрын

    Please pray that I learn to stop dancing qorh disfunction when it comes to my co-parent. I'm due April 13, 2023. My co-parent is very inconsistent. I am tired of getting hurt, going through disappointment, not understanding why he doesn't care, and "wishing" he cared about his daughter.

  • @carolinegodden4364

    @carolinegodden4364

    Жыл бұрын

    Sure will 🙏 hmmm I will pray that you receive higher love, in appropriate ways and in ways that are visible in your little 👪. Love Caroline x Melbourne Victoria Australia 🇦🇺 STRAYA SOUTHERN Cross ➕ Southern HEMISPHERE It's gonna be great, Angie!!! 💋

  • @charlottefargo1588

    @charlottefargo1588

    Жыл бұрын

    You have so much more to worry about now! Focus on that baby. That's the best advice you could ever get. Focus on what is important. Pray for the other parent but go on with your life and be happy

  • @elevationchurch

    @elevationchurch

    Жыл бұрын

    Angie Torres, we are praying for you and your unborn child. We praise God for the gift of new life and we ask that He continue to mold you and teach you and give you all you need to care for your child. Father, we are asking you to stay close to Angie. To walk with her and talk with her. To give her your eyes to see, your ears to hear, your mind to think and your feet to walk in the paths you would have her walk. As she learns to trust in you give her the strength, hope, peace and love that she needs to grow this child up in the way you would have her. Restore her family to completion and alignment with you. We love you, thank you and praise you! In Jesus name we pray, Amen.

  • @angietorres4753

    @angietorres4753

    Жыл бұрын

    @@elevationchurch Thank you 😊

  • @jennamtee
    @jennamtee Жыл бұрын

    Happy Birthday Pastor! 🥳 thank you for sharing your preachings online. I hope you had a great day 🙏🏼

  • @jackiedamm5592
    @jackiedamm55924 ай бұрын

    Need boundaries with my adult daughter.

  • @elizabethmartin3054
    @elizabethmartin3054 Жыл бұрын

    Wow 🤩 I celebrate my birthday too on February 19th 🥳…!! Happy Birthday to my AMAZING Pastor Steven Furtick 🎉🎈🎂

  • @donnalazza8429
    @donnalazza8429 Жыл бұрын

    That was one of the most beautiful sermons I have ever heard in my lifetime. So eloquent…

  • @williamsroberto6598

    @williamsroberto6598

    Жыл бұрын

    Hello, how are you doing?

  • @ParisWiggins
    @ParisWiggins Жыл бұрын

    This is an amazing word. Thank you Jesus🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @ashng22
    @ashng22 Жыл бұрын

    Had to listen just audibly bc the eyelashes were so distracting … you’re beautiful Holly without needing to try so hard.

  • @InSearchForWisdom
    @InSearchForWisdom Жыл бұрын

    Please sir, it's short ooo, pls can we have part II. Ejoor sir😩🙏 the wisdom choke abeg. Thank you daddy.

  • @bigfrankentertainment
    @bigfrankentertainment Жыл бұрын

    happy birthday Pastor Steven! and thank you for having this wonderful woman on to preach!

  • @samonefrelix65
    @samonefrelix65 Жыл бұрын

    Have a wonderful and blessed birthday Pastor Steven🤍🎊 I pray God continues to speak his words through you and also continue to bless you your family and this amazing ministry ❤.

  • @favourasu
    @favourasu Жыл бұрын

    Happy Birthday Sir

  • @ccstolberg8785
    @ccstolberg8785 Жыл бұрын

    Happy Birthday, Pastor Steven

  • @diamondbaby6970
    @diamondbaby6970 Жыл бұрын

    I love this lady OMG i totally felt her vibe and i'm gonna take her advice 🙏🗣️I needed to hear this Feliz Cumpleaños 🎊🎂 Pastor Stevens 🙏💯👑You and Your wife and this guest speaker rock wow i love Yall

  • @jessicaking-staino3019
    @jessicaking-staino3019 Жыл бұрын

    🦋Great message, thanks for posting, God bless!

  • @sofiaedwards
    @sofiaedwards Жыл бұрын

    She finally explains what is a boundary after 30 minutes!

  • @almarioantaran947
    @almarioantaran9478 ай бұрын

    Godbless, CHURCH OF GOD, PASTORS ❤ MINISTERS, BROTHERS & SISTERS ❤ FAMILIES, CHILDREN'S ❤ GLORY BE TO GOD.❤ ,

  • @Ckrissy013
    @Ckrissy013 Жыл бұрын

    46:58 what Lysa said right here, made me clinch my chest. This word was one of those messages that you know was meant for you 😢!

  • @jenniferhill89

    @jenniferhill89

    Жыл бұрын

    She opened my eyes and my mind so much!! Wow wow, all my excuses gone, I am laying down my wants and needs in the name of "love and hope" but I am just enabling bad behaviour😢

  • @leratomusi4595
    @leratomusi4595 Жыл бұрын

    Happy belated birthday 🎂 Ps Steven, thank you so much for what God is doing through you. We so appreciate it

  • @maribelalaniz4377
    @maribelalaniz4377 Жыл бұрын

    I prayed that prayer

  • @christylee35004
    @christylee35004 Жыл бұрын

    Keep your eyes on the dive master. Children explain, adults inform. Powerful Powerful words

  • @Mslee0415
    @Mslee0415 Жыл бұрын

    Great message!!! Happy Birthday Pastor!!! 🎉

  • @aprildavis1034
    @aprildavis1034 Жыл бұрын

    Happy birthday, Pastor! 🎉🎉

  • @FavorsVoice
    @FavorsVoice3 ай бұрын

    This was beautiful

  • @jackieventer2485
    @jackieventer24852 ай бұрын

    I needed to hear this!! Thank you for the great illustration’s!

  • @brooklyn_breaux
    @brooklyn_breaux Жыл бұрын

    READ BOUNDARIES BY HENRY CLOUD AND JOHN TOWNSEND. EVERYTHING SHE'S TEACHING WILL ALL MAKE MORE SENSE. I'VE READ IT A FEW TIMES AND STILL LOVE FRIENDLY REMINDERS LIKE THIS.

  • @jayque8187

    @jayque8187

    Жыл бұрын

    Really good book on boundaries!!!

  • @__feehcosta
    @__feehcosta Жыл бұрын

    Great sermon!!! So much information! Loved it

  • @cmcking1967
    @cmcking1967 Жыл бұрын

    please remember me in prayer

  • @user-zs1qg5tp6r
    @user-zs1qg5tp6r Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Jesus for this sermon, its okay to say No.

  • @melissamoreno3088
    @melissamoreno3088 Жыл бұрын

    You rocked this sermon!!! Just what I needed ❤ God Bless you and ur family

  • @karenlegg1131
    @karenlegg1131 Жыл бұрын

    Wow I can’t believe the sermon was meant for me for sure thank you very much great ❤God bless you and your wisdom

  • @gabrielasantosloc.n778

    @gabrielasantosloc.n778

    Жыл бұрын

    What you understood from it ?

  • @sharonmiller7215
    @sharonmiller721510 ай бұрын

    Alanon and AA teach this so well also. They are God centered programs. Give them a try for those who love alcoholics in thier life.

  • @cassiewilson1003
    @cassiewilson1003 Жыл бұрын

    Yessss this is ittt🌺🌺🌺💖

  • @DanielCollins._
    @DanielCollins._ Жыл бұрын

    My sermon notes for "Boundaries: its time to stop dancing with dysfunction" : 1.) You get used to dysfunctions and tag them normal because you have lived in dysfunctions for a while, where there is dysfunction there is often chaos and where there is chaos that is a indication that there is a need for boundary in your relationship 2.) The more access you have is the more responsibility is expected, a boundary without restriction/ consequence is a bad suggestion, healthy boundaries are not only a good idea but they are also God's idea. Dysfunction grows where there is too much access, not enough boundary, put a boundary on yourself instead of putting boundaries on someone else. Setting boundaries is crucial for your own health, boundaries help you avoid extremes and keeps you stay safe, sane, stable, and self controlled. It is important to set boundaries in your life without losing who you are, boundaries ultimate purpose is to love others well without losing the best of who you are 3.) Never take your eyes off the master, keep your eyes on the master. You always want things from people when you feel God won't provide 4.) Success will lead you to more space but not more responsibility, success is not permission for you to ignore the basic and foundation, good stewardship is not selfishness but is wisdom

  • @MichaelMorehead711
    @MichaelMorehead711 Жыл бұрын

    The Lord's Prayer Our Father, which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy Name. Thy Kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, As it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And forgive us our trespasses, As we forgive them that trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation, But deliver us from evil. For thine is the kingdom, The power, and the glory, For ever and ever. Hallelujah Shalom.🙏 🪰🐝🪱🐛👣🎯🩸👑🎺👻✝️🛐🛑🐍🔥🚒🚑🚓🚕🚜🐌✍️🙌🛟⚓🤳☘️🍀🥲

  • @rkp317

    @rkp317

    Жыл бұрын

    Please pray for me as I fight addiction and extreme fatigue. Thank you!!

  • @MichaelMorehead711

    @MichaelMorehead711

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@rkp317 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @nobodysbaby5048

    @nobodysbaby5048

    Жыл бұрын

    🌼

  • @lizabaradona6397
    @lizabaradona6397 Жыл бұрын

    THANK YOU!!!! I needed this for the last 25 yrs of my life!

  • @CoreyMuller-zi8ll

    @CoreyMuller-zi8ll

    Жыл бұрын

    Hello 🤗

  • @lindahebb4832
    @lindahebb4832 Жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @kristinesearles8482
    @kristinesearles8482 Жыл бұрын

    Happy Birthday Pastor Steven!!! Hope it's as fantastic as you and your sermons are.

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    Жыл бұрын

    Indeed 😊