Bontle Modiselle on Upside of Failure with Relebogile Mabotja

Relebogile Mabotja speaks to South African actress, television presenter, radio personality, dancer, choreographer, singer and model Bontle Modiselle-Moloi about the failures she has experienced in her life and how she continues to persevere.
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  • @sanelezulu4407
    @sanelezulu440711 ай бұрын

    Relebogile you were called for what you do, Bontle We Love You.

  • @neom645
    @neom64511 ай бұрын

    I feel like you've cut Bontle so many times thle. Cant they extend your time 😢. Strength to you Bontle, i understand how you feel about the death of your dad. The “if onlys“, they cut very deep. Receive your healing sis

  • @mmachauke
    @mmachauke11 ай бұрын

    God bless the Modiselle sisters. Bontle, thank you for courageously telling your honest account of what you thought “failure” was. In sharing your story, you have touched so many people’s lives. I pray that God continues blessing you with the beauty and grace that you are. That message from one of the 702 listeners: You are the hero that everyone needs, daily.

  • @nosiphongubo9487
    @nosiphongubo94877 ай бұрын

    I didn't know about her dad's loss. The power of true vulnerability it allows people to see you and relate with you. ❤ Duduzeka sisi

  • @platt690
    @platt6907 ай бұрын

    I struggle with mental health and have thoughts of ending it all, and hearing this story has been hard because my biggest fear is leaving my family in so much pain... Sometimes when you're in that moment you can't think of anything else, except for ending it all, somehow you're convinced that everyone will be better off without you... I'm really sorry that you all had to go through that.. and I'm sorry for everyone who suffers from horrible thoughts... 😔 🙏🏽

  • @rosiewilliams4595
    @rosiewilliams45957 ай бұрын

    Guys u never what people are going through so just be kind at all times 🙏🏽❤

  • @tshiditr9362
    @tshiditr93628 ай бұрын

    I didn't know that Bontle went through so much and it is so kind of her to share.

  • @Bazet465
    @Bazet46511 ай бұрын

    🫂😍love you Bontle you’re an Angel and you didn’t take your Dad away from your family it’s was Gods timing❤️….

  • @nikiwejentu9565
    @nikiwejentu95657 ай бұрын

    she articulates herself so well.

  • @patrickphahlamohlaka5850
    @patrickphahlamohlaka585011 ай бұрын

    Woooow 🎉 she carries light I mean u can tell that she's gifted

  • @YolaGolimpi
    @YolaGolimpi11 ай бұрын

    Don't disturb the guest, allow them to finish speak and share their story! It's really annoying

  • @Dizzy12346

    @Dizzy12346

    6 ай бұрын

    Thought so too . 🥺

  • @mownas_lifestory30
    @mownas_lifestory306 ай бұрын

    I’m only 18, but the way Bontle engages and how responsive she is is EXTREMELY POWERFUL ❤️

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali11 ай бұрын

    Oh bathong Bontle got me bawling 😭 . Askies mama. Jo! I cannot imagine! It’s incredible how that impacted what amazing women you have all turned out to be. Kudos to mum head a family in the aftermath. We serve a miracle working God!

  • @Smart-LearnerThandi
    @Smart-LearnerThandi11 ай бұрын

    It’s this side of you Bontle that just revealed the amazing person in you. It takes strength …. May peace be with you.

  • @anastasimankesemokgobu1724
    @anastasimankesemokgobu172411 ай бұрын

    I have heard her tell this story before and it is always so emotional for her, I can feel your pain Bontle❤

  • @thndythemedtech2143
    @thndythemedtech214311 ай бұрын

    My brother committed suicide last year. First thought that I had was regret and feeling like I failed him. Fortunately for me I was able to come into terms with the reality very quickly and I thank God for that Now I’m in a better space I feel like I have over come that situation Only God can carry you through that

  • @graciousmkhonto9349

    @graciousmkhonto9349

    11 ай бұрын

    My brother committed suicide last year as well. I have accepted that life doesn't always go our way and loss is one thing guaranteed in this lifetime 💔

  • @dancinginthepurplereign4126

    @dancinginthepurplereign4126

    11 ай бұрын

    I'm so sorry for your loss. My cousin brother committed suicide last year. Around the same week as Ricky Rick. He was a kind man and didn't deserve to die alone. It is still very shocking. I just wish I could do something about it. 😊

  • @tsholofelomatlala8105
    @tsholofelomatlala810511 ай бұрын

    My favorite segment, this was so triggering but it's the truth and reality that needs to be told. Strength to you Bontle 🙏🏾❤️🕯️

  • @zuzuh5755
    @zuzuh575511 ай бұрын

    Bontle,your daughter is super cute 😍.I'm so sorry sbt yr dad sis😢.

  • @swazi4769
    @swazi476911 ай бұрын

    I absolutely love Bontle. So sorry she had to go through it.

  • @charlottelisewilliams
    @charlottelisewilliams11 ай бұрын

    Didn't know this about their father wow...may God heal them amen!❤

  • @nqobilemncube9123
    @nqobilemncube912310 ай бұрын

    Thank you for being so vulnerable with us ❤ sending you lots of love. This was worth it. You've spoken to the soul. May God continue blessing you with all your heart desires ❤

  • @Liskhanyisele
    @Liskhanyisele11 ай бұрын

    This was a really beautiful interview, it made me view Bontle in a different light. She is so much power. ❤ In addition, can Relebogile please allow the guests to finish their lines, there were so many times when Bontle had something to say and Relebogile jumped in then the topic changed. This is coming from a good place as I am a huge fan of this segment.

  • @pearlbontsi6949

    @pearlbontsi6949

    11 ай бұрын

    😢😢true Relebogile would chip in and share her experience rather than allowing the guest to finish their lines and then she'd change the subject. That pained me😂

  • @ZuluGirlInNewYork
    @ZuluGirlInNewYork11 ай бұрын

    Relebogile, please don’t cut off guests hle. Allow them to complete their answers.😢

  • @esterasheela
    @esterasheela7 ай бұрын

    Love you Bontle ❤

  • @botlemooa8502
    @botlemooa850211 ай бұрын

    Oh Bontle, i am so so sorry ausi. Your tears, your pain, your family's pain...i hope you all completely heal. Sending lots of hugs to you sisi.

  • @connieramontsho7022
    @connieramontsho702211 ай бұрын

    What an inspirational woman❤. Did I mention the welling I did as I was watching. Blessings to you Bontle

  • @nalediebiditse8015
    @nalediebiditse801511 ай бұрын

    It was really hard to watch this🥲 Sending you hugs and may God sooth you where it hurts the most ❤️

  • @phumie2byn907
    @phumie2byn90711 ай бұрын

    She has such a beautiful voice❤

  • @PHOZISAbeja-mb6nn
    @PHOZISAbeja-mb6nn10 ай бұрын

    What a beautiful woman Bontle is❤️. I love her voice 😍👌🏾

  • @SuperNomathamsanqa
    @SuperNomathamsanqa11 ай бұрын

    Bontle triggered me after having lost my daughter In Utero when she did a dance mob in Sandton in 2019. I have never cried like I did, the incapability she speaks of is something I have had to carry for the rest of my life. My uncle subsequently also committed suicide. All the things being discussed on this episode are gut wrenching. I am alive and thankful for therapy. I am so happy things worked out for her.

  • @thandekamdlovu5212

    @thandekamdlovu5212

    11 ай бұрын

    I’m so sorry to hear about all the painful experience that you had to go through Thami, may God continue to comfort you.

  • @selaeloshadi4653

    @selaeloshadi4653

    11 ай бұрын

    😢😢 really sorry

  • @thandekamdlovu5212
    @thandekamdlovu521211 ай бұрын

    She is such a warrior,may God bless her.

  • @milicentsiba
    @milicentsiba7 ай бұрын

    Yho I just listened & I can really resonate with her so much my father did the same & my mom also was the one that found him, I don't wanna lie, I don't think uu ever heal from losing a loved one to suicide there's just always a big WHY what went wrong! (to those who don't leave letters) You really learn to live w the pain!

  • @zuzilezungu5899

    @zuzilezungu5899

    Ай бұрын

    🙏🏿 🙏🏿 ❤❤ Millicent

  • @siwemayongo8124
    @siwemayongo812410 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤what a beautiful soul, thank you Bontle for sharing

  • @fhaturamaswiela3438
    @fhaturamaswiela343811 ай бұрын

    - Oh she’s so Smart

  • @zuzilezungu5899
    @zuzilezungu5899Ай бұрын

    Hugs and love to you, Nana❤❤

  • @Liskhanyisele
    @Liskhanyisele11 ай бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Sending Bontle so much love and light

  • @user-tg6qv9yr3o
    @user-tg6qv9yr3o7 ай бұрын

    She is true reflection of her name. Thank you for sharing yourself with us

  • @nonkumonkoe
    @nonkumonkoe11 ай бұрын

    This was so beautiful love Bontle ❤️

  • @EugenMazinyani
    @EugenMazinyani11 ай бұрын

    Hugs my love and it's not your fault....I am sorry u had to witness all that

  • @goitseonebodumele3270
    @goitseonebodumele32707 ай бұрын

    I wanted to hear talk about her struggle with motherhood you cut her short😢😢

  • @_ruddie
    @_ruddie11 ай бұрын

    Love and Light to you Bontle and your Sisters❤

  • @zimasancoliwe
    @zimasancoliwe11 ай бұрын

    I am so sorry she had experienced it. ❤It was never your fault Bontle. You saw it and it was never your fault❤❤

  • @Ngoanana21
    @Ngoanana2111 ай бұрын

    " I don't want to perform myself..." that is so powerful and relatable to me as a mom.

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali11 ай бұрын

    Please have Bontle on unpacked!

  • @user-tp4gj2rg3d
    @user-tp4gj2rg3d10 ай бұрын

    beautifull ladies in the studio, I love you both very much. To you Bontle keep rising and shining like the bright star you are and nothing can stop you. I love your content very much. Thank you Relebogile for always given Us your best,keep it up.

  • @lufunomphaphuli
    @lufunomphaphuli11 ай бұрын

    Sending love and light❤

  • @NodasebonaFlorenceMogapi-kj3yu
    @NodasebonaFlorenceMogapi-kj3yu11 ай бұрын

    Loving you so much. Bontle❤❤❤

  • @dineomhlari1038
    @dineomhlari10386 ай бұрын

    oh how i love this lady❤

  • @siphokaziluzipho4197
    @siphokaziluzipho419710 ай бұрын

    Im in tears.....

  • @olivialivv5566
    @olivialivv55663 ай бұрын

    love you Bontle

  • @thuliradebe8461
    @thuliradebe846111 ай бұрын

    I love you Bontle ❤

  • @Nondumicoe
    @Nondumicoe11 ай бұрын

    Sending you Bontle all my love, strength to you nana ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Nondumicoe
    @Nondumicoe11 ай бұрын

    Her father was sooo cruel for doing this to her kids especially after what she shared with them, wounding her forever 😭😭💔💔💔

  • @liseboleahtaeli4665
    @liseboleahtaeli466511 ай бұрын

    How i love this beautiful soul Mamoloi

  • @vfabach2874
    @vfabach287411 ай бұрын

    Ohhh Bontle ❤

  • @mbalizondi869
    @mbalizondi8696 ай бұрын

    💔💔💔It's so sad. So sorry Bontle that you had to go through such a trauma at such a young age!

  • @thelmangoma-mavhunga-sn7hh
    @thelmangoma-mavhunga-sn7hh10 ай бұрын

    Blew my mind wow

  • @RonealTjiane
    @RonealTjiane10 ай бұрын

    She’s just humble which is a bonus🥹🥹❤️

  • @doremi131
    @doremi13111 ай бұрын

    Relebogile Mabotja, you are glowing girl. wow

  • @Amogelang_matjila
    @Amogelang_matjila7 ай бұрын

    May the Lord God bless you bontle and your family and also help you to pass through this situation and heal from it I love you so much

  • @boitshepodiketane1351
    @boitshepodiketane135111 ай бұрын

    I love Bontle man❤❤❤

  • @simplyjaja3087
    @simplyjaja308710 ай бұрын

    No child deserves that, that sight nor such guilt ❤ God help those who are triggered ❤

  • @siphokaziluzipho4197
    @siphokaziluzipho419710 ай бұрын

    Just want to hug her.

  • @life_asthepooh8804
    @life_asthepooh880411 ай бұрын

    I love you bontle ❤️❤️

  • @lindokuhlemolefe471
    @lindokuhlemolefe47111 ай бұрын

    we love you bontle ❤

  • @xihlamarisomayimele5164
    @xihlamarisomayimele516410 ай бұрын

    I love you Bontle❤❤

  • @janempete7771
    @janempete777111 ай бұрын

    Bontle❤🤗

  • @amandanxala2580
    @amandanxala258011 ай бұрын

    😢Bontle❤

  • @sandagcadinja8045
    @sandagcadinja80453 ай бұрын

    Bontle ❤

  • @MitchellMolala-wv3iy
    @MitchellMolala-wv3iy10 ай бұрын

    Very painful 😭😭😭😭

  • @11071991tawanda
    @11071991tawanda11 ай бұрын

    Word is From 27:54 to the End. I have always loved this Woman.....

  • @thandonm
    @thandonm7 ай бұрын

    The time is ALWAYS so short 😢 aaaah Bontle 😢😢😢

  • @selaeloshadi4653
    @selaeloshadi465311 ай бұрын

    This is painful I can't 😢

  • @janemore657
    @janemore6577 ай бұрын

    I love both these beautiful women.

  • @dudunkuna7439
    @dudunkuna743911 ай бұрын

    Can relate in so many ways. The ppd and blaming one’s self for your parents death. Thank you Bontle

  • @lebopeku6940
    @lebopeku694011 ай бұрын

    Ke morate thata Bontle❤

  • @hazelmabuza806
    @hazelmabuza80611 ай бұрын

    She is one of my favorite 😍

  • @busisiwemdluli439
    @busisiwemdluli43911 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @nomvulaloverson572
    @nomvulaloverson57210 ай бұрын

    Sorry love made me cry u been through alot

  • @Vickymackay
    @Vickymackay10 ай бұрын

    @Riri .. You look so gorgeous with make up ..❤

  • @kemmonyemakoma7406
    @kemmonyemakoma740611 ай бұрын

    😢yooh Bontle

  • @karaboteffo6676
    @karaboteffo667611 ай бұрын

    ♥️♥️♥️

  • @blinkym21
    @blinkym217 ай бұрын

    This really became about Relebogile.. so many amazing moments were lost😏😥.

  • @thabosoweto3094

    @thabosoweto3094

    4 ай бұрын

    Shes the host deirmEtt!!

  • @NodasebonaFlorenceMogapi-kj3yu
    @NodasebonaFlorenceMogapi-kj3yu11 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @mayleencray1597
    @mayleencray159711 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @IAmChosen9925
    @IAmChosen992510 ай бұрын

    Relebogile is my hero haikabi 🥺❤️

  • @kwenamabye7871
    @kwenamabye787111 ай бұрын

  • @sedzaninemudivhiso1906
    @sedzaninemudivhiso190611 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤😢

  • @dikgalevictoria3016
    @dikgalevictoria301610 ай бұрын

    When she was about to cry and then cried, and said "guys im so sorry"..felt like i could get inside the screen and hug her😢❤ She's so sweet and real. A beautiful soul indeed

  • @xoliswakali15
    @xoliswakali1510 ай бұрын

    Bontle... The moment, ngavele ngakhala.

  • @goodnessmosehla8362
    @goodnessmosehla836211 ай бұрын

    "Bathong ba modimo"😂😂😂😂

  • @boitumelobuthelezi8960
    @boitumelobuthelezi896011 ай бұрын

    Yoh😢 this has triggered me so much 😢

  • @mahlodinorah487
    @mahlodinorah48710 ай бұрын

    The afternoon I cut my seven years dradlocks, I cried like smbody died. It's not just smthing that one will do n just say I did it. It's like a part of you been ripped off even when cutting them off was not a must, I choose to cut them off bcos I just needed o see a changed me. But it wasn't easy

  • @BusisiweHlatshwayo-sj5cz
    @BusisiweHlatshwayo-sj5czАй бұрын

    This triggered me so much my dad also took his liffe infront of me

  • @Nondumicoe
    @Nondumicoe11 ай бұрын

    Refiloe keeps interrupting her guests and telling long stories before asking questions. Immediately when she tries to talk, she interupts. We want to hear her tell her story not the interviewer.

  • @masechabamdaka785
    @masechabamdaka78511 ай бұрын

    🫂🫂🫂🫂🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽Bontle🫂🫂🫂🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💔

  • @princessmaphalla6195
    @princessmaphalla61957 ай бұрын

    Askies mama😢

  • @brokecreole
    @brokecreole11 ай бұрын

    this is so difficult to listen to.

  • @blaqbee03
    @blaqbee0311 ай бұрын

    The interruptions are so cringe from Relebogile. Let the guest tell her story instead of telling us about you hawu..

  • @agnesmacharia6055
    @agnesmacharia60557 ай бұрын

    She's from south Africa or something

  • @zuzilezungu5899

    @zuzilezungu5899

    Ай бұрын

    Yes