I'm offended by the fact that James and I look like siblings..

@whitney8678

3 жыл бұрын

😬 I wasn't even thinking about it til you said something. He WISHES he was you

@Laylasjustagirl

3 жыл бұрын

Observe I thought it was you in the thumbnail twice . Forgive me

@cazd5398

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@celloafterdark4173

3 жыл бұрын

I’m glad you said it so the comments didn’t have to 😂

@MrsSarahJohnson

3 жыл бұрын

Oh nooooo lol I didnt see it till you said something. 😳😳

My boyfriend bawled for hours when he had to give up his gecko. These people are monsters.

@areswalker5647

3 жыл бұрын

Your boyfriend seems to be a great man

@jo_verabradleyfan4743

3 жыл бұрын

Yep. Monsters indeed. My family and I bawled our eyes out when we had to give up our German Shepherd because our landlord found out about him and threatened to evict us. We only had him for about 3 months. Huxley was with these people for over two years. My lord. These people are cold, heartless monsters.

@toyamwarr

3 жыл бұрын

Same thing happened to me when my lizard died last year. I was so distraught, my parents called me throughout the day to make sure I was okay. I’m a teacher and losing classroom pets can be rough for everyone.

@JessStone-hl8ed

3 жыл бұрын

Greedy fame seekers!

@urischic1668

3 жыл бұрын

jo torres Had this same thing happen with my pit-Labrador puppy but we refused to give him up because we’ve had him for a year (he’s a year old) and he has attachment+abandonment issues as well separation anxiety

I find it hilarious that Myka is like “I’m so thankful for the people that respected my son’s privacy”...as a mom who used her son for a KZread CHANNEL...

@karyndewit193

3 жыл бұрын

That’s what I was wondering thinking!

@geniferprice8596

3 жыл бұрын

^this. They are absolutely full of shite

@neko_chan1598

3 жыл бұрын

And as a mum who punished and publicly humiliated that said son and that duck taped his hands. yeah....son's privacy went to hell the moment she posted the video of her adopting him.

@Eurisko229

3 жыл бұрын

@@neko_chan1598 Exactly. People that want to protect their children’s privacy don’t post videos of them on KZread of all places for the World to see.

@Rosa5311

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly, they're more than happy to document Huxley's breakdowns and get money from ad revenue but now they're "respecting his privacy and rights"

This quote is overused but, "Every child deserves parents, but not all parents deserve children."

@seachelle2316

3 жыл бұрын

it's not overused if not everyone gets the message

@cayleece7890

3 жыл бұрын

Extremely true!! I wish everyone would live by this quote.

@alexcrazyart6522

3 жыл бұрын

It's overused because it's true.

@NativeTexMexican

3 жыл бұрын

💯🙏🏽❤

@theKRB93

3 жыл бұрын

I had never heard that before but agree 100 percent, thanks for sharing!

Guys stop leaving such mean comments towards them.. I can’t keep liking them all

@iamisaid2295

3 жыл бұрын

IKR. 🤣

@JAG-yi4qg

3 жыл бұрын

I want to click the "like" on this comment over and over

@maryamtara2934

3 жыл бұрын

I can’t 😂😂

@shayla592

3 жыл бұрын

Had me in the first half

@kristinj3339

3 жыл бұрын

I am stealing this comment.

As a glasses wearer, I could tell she wasn't crying because she kept her glasses on the whole time. When I cry it either gets on my glasses or in order to fully wipe my eyes I need to remove them.

@guadalupecortez5290

3 жыл бұрын

And you glasses fog up

@wakokaine6976

3 жыл бұрын

She didn't touch them once

@annamorgan1772

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly! I wear glasses and when I cry they either get wet from the tears,fog up,or slide off. So definitely NOT real tears!

@uyoebyik

3 жыл бұрын

The internet is full of psychopaths doing fake crying now

@lisaraptor

3 жыл бұрын

THIS^^

"He's thriving, he's doing really well" Probably because he's not around you guys anymore

@TuesdaysArt

3 жыл бұрын

Based on all of the videos I've seen of him...that's believable.

@nikit0r

2 жыл бұрын

In all reality..Huxley (I hope I spelled his name correctly) is likely in a MUCH better and/or healthier home. I feel so badly that he has been dragged through their garbage as much as he has..but he is probably in a much better home and environment now.. I DO NOT LIKE THESE PEOPLE..

They take turns crying and putting on a show, it’s so staged that not even their partner is feeling moved when the other fake cries.

@lailarf3635

3 жыл бұрын

So true, if my partner cries I immediately well up!

@Suedetussy

3 жыл бұрын

You‘re so right, i had to laugh!

@josephinemorris3160

3 жыл бұрын

@@Suedetussy the more you watch it the more it looks like a puppet show

@josephinemorris3160

3 жыл бұрын

@@lailarf3635 happy tears, sad tears, sometimes you don’t even know what they’re upset about and tear up 🤷🏻‍♀️

@milirodriguez8493

3 жыл бұрын

"Taking turns" girl you got me ☠️😂

Raise your hand if you LOVE him when he’s biased and upset.

@sharinichols7576

3 жыл бұрын

🙌🏼 especially with this disgusting couple!

@StormyKate77

3 жыл бұрын

YESSSS

@RosenrotRtLiebchen87

3 жыл бұрын

yessss i was laughing cause i agree and saying out loud "i love this man" and only other being around is my dog who looked at me weird

@yourinnerlawyer4035

3 жыл бұрын

I understand that his approach includes bias, but it isn't an objective. Not trying to say he isn't talented lol or accurate ou have to stay behind t being ouTuber doesn't requires to uphold e rules an FBI Analyst requirement ws es and protocols they can't get

@bellaferelli751

3 жыл бұрын

My hand shot up and stayed there for ya girl ;) Preach!

Every single penny of the money they made off Huxley needs to go into a savings account for him. Period.

@carochan86

3 жыл бұрын

It's probably gone.

@Bri-ss1gu

3 жыл бұрын

@@carochan86 If Hux's new family sues them for it, they'll find a way to pay it. It's not like money is static, people spend it and they keep making it. They'll figure it out.

@carochan86

3 жыл бұрын

@@Bri-ss1gu if they get " canceled" and depend mainly on you tube maybe not. Bit your right I'm sure they would be paid if Huxleys family sued them.

@Hana.Behl-Lecter

3 жыл бұрын

And then some

@Caninecancersucksrocks

3 жыл бұрын

Brinna Senge YES! Absolutely, unequivocally yes! I’m sure they’ve already blown through it, but too damn bad. That precious child deserves every cent, but I also think they should have to help support him for the rest of his life, same as any other of their children. He didn’t ask to be abandoned by his birth parents, left without (most likely, not 100% sure) proper care for years, then adopted, brought to a different country, used and then dumped and abandoned AGAIN!. He’s a CHILD for pity’s sake, not an unwanted rabbit that’s ditched after Easter is over and it’s no longer “fun”. 🤬😡😠😤

“I didn’t adopt a child to show people his struggles” and yet they intentionally adopted a child with disabilities and made SURE that they could legally film him as soon as possible and did in fact film him while exhibiting symptoms, so this is absolute bullshit

@justmeek

Жыл бұрын

She didn't do it to show of his disabilities, she did It to make herself look better and get more views. That's all it was

I feel like I would've respected them more if they said: we ignored the warnings, we thought we could handle it, and we couldn't, and we feel guilty and ashamed about it, but we weren't the right fit for him, and we shouldn't have downplayed what the doctors said about him before we adopted him, and we're sorry, and we hope he's with a family that is best for him. Y'know if they just were honest about it, and owned up to it instead of talking nonsense, maybe I could sympathize and respect them a bit. But they didn't do that.

@RevolutionAndPeace

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@tierneytime3928

2 жыл бұрын

YEEES!! Like the doctors told them…. Tried to dissuade them… she even says in a video that what the doctors were telling them about his issues “went in one ear and out the other” RRRRRRRRRRRRRR Infuriating… that poor kid…

@daniireland1985

2 жыл бұрын

I forgive you and you didn't even do this shit.

@tayloranderson7547

2 жыл бұрын

You don't do what

@chesnay1222

2 жыл бұрын

…”and all the money we made from the videos H was in will be donated / put in a trust fund for him or towards medical/education bills for him “

“Do I feel like a failure as a mom?” “Yes 100%” she sounds like every manipulative narcissistic mother I have ever met

@SjofnBM1989

3 жыл бұрын

It's a compliment fish. She wanted people to jump in the comments and go "NOOOO! You're the best Mom ever!!!!!" It blew up in her face cuz everyone just agreed with her and was like "Yup you are."

@alexis-hf1bt

3 жыл бұрын

My mom does that all the time in front of my therapist and psychiatrist when I try to explain how I’m feeling

@beckymm1989

3 жыл бұрын

@@alexis-hf1bt I'm so sorry! My Mom is a Narcassist and so toxic. Finally had to part ways. Best wishes..🤗🙂

@SM-yd8hq

3 жыл бұрын

Ask a question and answer the question....totally annoying

@hanagorilla

3 жыл бұрын

So as a mom with an autistic child I struggle every day I feel like a failure A lot but I would never give up my child ever not for anything

Before they even went to meet Huxley, Myka ACTUALLY SAID “My son is not returnable.” Such a POS.😡 AND they didn’t even pay for his adoption! They used a GoFundMe! Which I’m guessing brought in more than they actually needed, so they probably pocketed money from the adoption. What a Godly Christian couple.

@sophiekerr8964

3 жыл бұрын

She also said that the advice of medical professionals "went in one ear and out the other". There's no excuse for that level of douchebaggery. She knew to expect difficulty when raising this child, was warned about it by multiple medical professionals (she even said it in her "apology"). But life isn't perfect. She's just made life 1000000 % worse for a child who has already gone through trauma, a vulnerable child. She deserves zero sympathy

@jessicakes9118

3 жыл бұрын

@@sophiekerr8964 they were told he had a brain tumor. They anticipated this little boys death for sympathy donations. After finding out he had Autism and could be with them for the rest of their lives, they "returned" him. These people are sick.

@Pumpkin0_0

3 жыл бұрын

@@jessicakes9118 Yeah, she had an interview on another channel of how to increase fame on youtube, in which she shows her real self without her baby-talk voice. She said they were expecting the little boy to have a brain tumor, but didn't like the news that the boy was actually going to live with them for the rest of his life. And this was when she was asked what her "biggest failure" was. She didn't think of anything else but that little boy for that question and masked it by saying multiple times it wasn't a failure. Sigh.

@enoughalready244

3 жыл бұрын

@@Pumpkin0_0 can you link to that interview please??

@Pumpkin0_0

3 жыл бұрын

@@enoughalready244 This is the full interview. She's completely different: kzread.info/dash/bejne/oHqLmpqEZtDaorg.html

As a mother of a child with autism this INFURIATES me. My son is my light and my life and having autism doesn't change anything. He's amazing and incredibly smart. I'd never EVER give up a child because their care is hard.

@sashimi879

3 жыл бұрын

Good mom

@soulless_1984

3 жыл бұрын

I feel exactly the same. My 13yr old is on the spectrum, and you just do what needs to be done. Ive never begrudged him because of what he needs to have the same kind of life as any NT person. You just get on with it because he deserves the same kind of life as averbody else does. 💙🧩

@johannamcconnell4856

3 жыл бұрын

If anything it makes you hold on tighter because you feel like no one can love them as much as you love them. You’re never fully relaxed when they are not with you because the thought of them having a hard time without you there to lift them out of it makes you nauseous.

@christinehutchins123

3 жыл бұрын

Most people don't get to choose, they chose a child with special needs and I guess they thought it would make them look good and nice , all that. Till it was too much for them and not worth it. They are pathetic. I feel bad for the kids they are keeping.

@annwitten4359

3 жыл бұрын

Me too! I cannot imagine my life without my autistic son and I would never change everything we have gone through!! These two are just sad, pathetic excuses for human beings.... absolutely disgusting.

For someone who's been crying the whole time I find it funny she didn't have to wipe away any tears.

@AlexisTwoLastNames

3 жыл бұрын

for real. if i really cry, my face is covered in liquid and it tickles.

@di_zzy_j

Жыл бұрын

Not a single one. Really..

"until he finds his 'forever family" they talk about Huxley like he's an old cat.

@DarlingDaintyfoot

3 жыл бұрын

That was the most.... uncomfortable(?), disgusting(?) part of this whole video. I know it’s not the whole video so maybe we’re missing the parts that make it make sense but, these portions of their video give you the feeling that the child(! I don’t know how to make words bold) was thought of as a prop by them. Am I way off base here? A prop that affected their “non-video” lives too much & ended up not being worth it. Maybe I’m wrong but if I’m not, the type of person that thinks about fellow human beings like that is a horrendous person. It is horrible what they did to this child but I feel like it would have been worse to be raised by “parents” that feel like you are more trouble than you’re worth.

@maskedkitty7350

3 жыл бұрын

bro my oldest cat was legit 26 and i took care of her until she passed away in 2019 no matter what she did, even cats get treated better by people then they treated Huxley.

@tinagolshan403

3 жыл бұрын

@@maskedkitty7350 may your kitty rest in peace 😞❤

@mml0082

3 жыл бұрын

And “picked out “ Huxley like a pick of the litter

@maskedkitty7350

3 жыл бұрын

@@tinagolshan403 thanks, she was a really great and caring cat, she was a heck of a fighter too but she had sadly gotten an infection from a tooth she wouldn’t let us take out and wouldn’t fall out, they basically said they couldn’t put her under and take it out either because she was so old that she would just pass away on the table, so i made the hard decision and we had her put down, she’s still got a very very big place in my heart, she was around since i was seven years old and she kept going strong until i was in my 20s, she basically kept me going until i reached adulthood, she was basically family to me, though she always loved to headbutt me in the face a lot lolz XD and i’ll never forget the little things she like the head butting and cuddling that did changed my life and kept me happy during rough times, i’ll never ever forget that sweet old girl due to how involved she was in my life tbh, the real shock is that she honestly started as a young feral cat that hated my guts but grew to be my best friend. as weird as it might be i’ll always consider her a huge part of my family and life. she’ll always be part of me no matter what happens in the future.

It’s okay to be “biased” against blatant child abuse and exploitation.

@neoandroid8586

3 жыл бұрын

Totally Agree

@veeau1514

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@jennthurston364

3 жыл бұрын

Can not argue with truth.

@elizabethbennett5203

3 жыл бұрын

That's the truth of it

@kjlynn6791

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

Her high-pitched voice is so aggravating oh my god.

@alexandrathearmy8464

3 жыл бұрын

Her raspy voice makes me go crazy,along with her slug of a husband.

@AFarmerCalledChicken

3 жыл бұрын

Her husband looks like Jaystation

@claranadine1086

3 жыл бұрын

YES I totally agree lol

@blessiemasancay4818

3 жыл бұрын

@@AFarmerCalledChicken I- 💀

@AFarmerCalledChicken

3 жыл бұрын

@@blessiemasancay4818 it’s the truth!

how can their kid's privacy be respected when these parents pimp them out on the daily? I think she spent more time on her hair than being a genuine parent THESE PEOPLE ARE HORRIBLE

"We want to respect Huxley's privacy," .... yet they paraded him around on the internet for years?? Lol ok.

@gbs_1

3 жыл бұрын

This comment couldn't be more true

@Debbiesdilemmas

3 жыл бұрын

Roux exactly. The whole point of adopting him was for viewers and to grow their channel. How is that respecting his privacy?🤮

@KB-pu8ff

3 жыл бұрын

So private that the police didn't know where he was for while. This happened in my state and made we wish I lived close enough to "meet" these parents.

@jacqlynberkoh2175

3 жыл бұрын

They should be forced to give back all income that came from anything Huxley. That means the house, and any luxury they got. The new parents should put it towards a trust fund cause, like damn, that kid is going to need lots of therapy and help for what these people did.

@jacqlynberkoh2175

3 жыл бұрын

@@KB-pu8ff girl do you need back up. Cause I want to " meet" these people too and give them a nice warm hug.

“His new mommy has medical professional training.” MYKA IS A REGISTERED NURSE. SHE HAS SAID SO IN MULTIPLE VIDEOS. IM SORRY BUT THATS JUST AN EXCUSE. I was angry during their whole apology but that statement is what did it for me. As a mother of an extremely medical fragile child with NO medical training, don’t make that excuse. That is disgusting.

@saggguy7

3 жыл бұрын

His “new” mommy..like, you mean his actual mother? It’s offensive for her to suggest that she was ever that boy’s mother.

@graysonrose7186

3 жыл бұрын

There is actually rumors that she didn't quit as nurse but was actually fired and had her license revoked because she shoved a cart into a pregnant women's belly. And all the therapists or nannies that were hired for H kept quitting, which can hint at what a horrible person they both are.

@r3fv774

3 жыл бұрын

also, they have SO much money (money that they made because of him) that they can afford therapy and medical support for him even without having medical training, it's just an excuse

@ahyokaredbird8191

3 жыл бұрын

“His new mommy” he’s not a fucking dog. God I hate these people. I hope they rot

@saggguy7

3 жыл бұрын

@@r3fv774 yes. They could hire full time support staff, and they would never have to lift a finger to take care of this child.

I’m autistic, and this whole impatience and inability to be empathetic/understanding/caring/accepting/tolerant attitude towards people like me needs to stop.

@Vampxiii_

2 жыл бұрын

I agree!

She literally posted an instastory where H was having a hard time and the whole time she was just aggressively & condescendingly say "Are you done?" to him

@HannahMattox

3 жыл бұрын

Don't forget she ductaped his thumb to make him not suck it. One of the miniscule self-soothing things the kid had to help him be able to make it through having psychos for "parents", they intentionally took it away. I know it can cause dental problems and blah blah blah, but the child was terrified of existing. Let him suck his freaking thumb.

@saraboyd1892

2 жыл бұрын

She treated him terribly.

@rosariodaniela765

2 жыл бұрын

As a mother i understand that there are many hard times; i have only 1 child ( before my pregnancy i wanted 3 kids, but now, after all the meltdowns and tantrums, i'm ok with 1); but she already had 3 kids when she adopted the child, which was already hard, plus being a nurse, she was aware what it means taking care of an autistic child... 😒 and the doctors, telling her about Huxley condintion's, wanted to avoid this situation for the little boy... so i strongly believe what someone close to Stauffers said about doing this adoption for viwers 😠

@sarahimran946

2 жыл бұрын

@@HannahMattox wouldn't a pacifier helped with it? Maybe he could shift from his thumb to the pacifier? Would that work?

@stephanied6636

2 жыл бұрын

@@sarahimran946 If the concern is really about teeth, a pacifier can cause the same issue. Generally, with neurotypical children, they give up thumb sucking naturally as they develop and find new ways to self regulate. However, in their case, I would have let Huxley continue to suck his thumb and would have explored other ways that could help him to do so. This can be done by developing a sensory profile, learning about self regulation for individuals with Autism and working with professionals. Which Myka chose not to and instead went with the cheapest there was (re: speech therapy. I know, has NOTHING to do with thumb sucking but if she cheapest out there, the chances grow that she cheaped out on other therapies too ). My son also has Autism, is largely non-verbal and sucked his thumb. As he got older, we learned other ways to support him.

Don't. Become. A parent. If you. Can't. Handle. Worst. Case. Scenarios.

@awfulcreature3224

3 жыл бұрын

YES. If you have a child and aren’t prepared that is on you. Any child has a chance to be born on the spectrum, or with a physical disability, or a whole lot of other possible complications.

@Artsy_Christmouse

3 жыл бұрын

@@awfulcreature3224 Exactly. You don't get to say "This is harder than I thought it'd be, I want out now." Just because your child was born differently than you expected. Hell, some people do that with their able-bodied, perfectly healthy children, and it sickens me.

@Artsy_Christmouse

3 жыл бұрын

@Christie Don't put words into my mouth. I'm pro-choice.

@Ss15996

3 жыл бұрын

And they have 3/4 other kids.

@junelledembroski9183

3 жыл бұрын

True

The fact she kept calling him ‘our son ‘ infuriated me he isn’t their son if he was they wouldn’t give him away he’s somebody else’s son now

@Pumpkin0_0

3 жыл бұрын

Well, even on her channel she called him "kiddo" over and over again, which I personally believe it's what someone calls *someone else's child,* not their own.

@ChibiDanyz

3 жыл бұрын

She even said "my adopted son from China" every single time she could in the videos! I mean... the kid has name... why not call him by his name? Why he always needs to be "the adopted son from China"???

@kathysharfe7088

3 жыл бұрын

He was never their son, they actually never finished the adoption process. Thank god that he’s not in they’re care anymore!

@Altajp

3 жыл бұрын

I think someone said in a different video that she called her biological children her bios in several videos as well.

@maireadnic8280

3 жыл бұрын

Alta. jp , Christ almighty! That is infuriating !

I love how they attempt to gaslight their audience by saying they wouldn’t dare to exploit their adopted son

@DanzigFan-vq3zf

2 жыл бұрын

They are Hypocrites, That’s what they are!

Dang, and she even had the gaul to try and blame it on her biological son, saying they weren't getting along. I grew up with 2 brothers and we got in physical fights CONSTANTLY up until around like 13 or 14. My parents never said "man these kids just aren't getting along, bye bye"

@ThatOneJayBean

3 жыл бұрын

right!

@Pikeya

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe the boys werent getting along because Myka artificial twined them. A thing just about every adoption agency tells you NOT to do.

@graciel1852

3 жыл бұрын

@@Pikeya what does artificialy twin mean?

@Pikeya

3 жыл бұрын

@@graciel1852 it when parents adopt a kid the same age as an existing kid. It fucks the dynamic of the family, and the bio kids using end up hating the adopted kids.

@graciel1852

3 жыл бұрын

@@Pikeya oh wow I didn’t know that

When you started fake crying to point out how easy it was, my dog turned to the screen for the first time and tried to figure out if you were ok. He paid no attention to the couple. I'm dying laughing.

@kayzero8366

3 жыл бұрын

He knows what’s up lol

@savannahramirez3435

3 жыл бұрын

ha mine did the same thing

@stormhawk9257

3 жыл бұрын

Tell him that he's a good pupper

@ewetn1

3 жыл бұрын

Omg lol I'm choking

@girliejax

3 жыл бұрын

Wow That's crazy..........makes sense tho good doggy

They need to quit saying "our son" he isn't your son, never was.

@ashleymufasa

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@ssb4918

3 жыл бұрын

So true !!

@kublakhan2342

3 жыл бұрын

I knew something about them keep on referring to him that way was rubbing me up the wrong way and I couldn't put on my finger on it... You completely nailed it.

@nikkibauer227

3 жыл бұрын

if they had actually thought of him as their son they never would have gave him up. To them he was just a nuisance and I hate them for that. Disgusting people

@agayhavingfun2679

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly it doesn't matter if you adopted him or he's your biological son it really doesn't matter, what makes you a parent is caring for your child and being the mentor they need in life to shape them into a human being that will be good for society and not being neglectful abusive that is not what a parent does I'm so sick of abusive parents playing the victim

It cracks me up when they say they’re trying to protect Huxley’s privacy......like they’ve ever cared about any of their children’s privacy.

Saying "new forever home", is like saying "I have good body odor." It's an oxymoron. Either you're in a forever situation or a temporary one.

@owlcat9692

3 жыл бұрын

there's also the fact that kids don't have ''forever homes'' like pets do. a pet will never be able to live on its own, there's still a possibility that huxley will be able to live independently someday

I have worn glasses for most of my life and if I’m crying really hard, there’s no way my glasses are staying on.

@SP-wm8cu

3 жыл бұрын

Omg. So true. My glasses fog up when I start crying and then get really wet because of the tears.

@rebeccah3715

3 жыл бұрын

For real.

@Liz-rf4qu

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@vesnabernjak-ord8674

3 жыл бұрын

I agree. I fog up too. And the glasses come off when crying. She is so fake!

@chocolatefever48473

3 жыл бұрын

Legit!

"His new mother is a medical professional" Myka is literally a nurse.

@anarsuarez

3 жыл бұрын

I heard she is no longer a nurse since she got her license taken away. Not sure why.

@emilyd.6371

3 жыл бұрын

@@anarsuarez you can Google it. I dont recall the details, but I think she threw something at an employer or something.

@UlieWalksWithTheKing

3 жыл бұрын

And they allowed her to adopt? What is this craziness?

@ladyfrederick788

3 жыл бұрын

After seeing this I’m concerned about what she may have done to her patients, that of course, would have “never” been her fault.

@sabrinastratton1991

3 жыл бұрын

@@anarsuarez she assaulted a pregnant co worker, and gave the patient the wrong medication

"This entire video is them desperately trying to scrape together their careers." Spot on, so well said.

Well, the boy dodged a bullet. Imagine spending your whole life with two narcs who use you for their Internet career. He will be safe and happy with someone else.

@6thgraderfriends

2 жыл бұрын

It's so sad that they didn't take his doctor's original advice years ago when he said he didn't recommend this couple adopt him.

When you acted out her fake crying at the start: “and the high pitcher voice that anybody can do oh I’m crying, nobody cares” the way you immediately switched back to a normal voice and facial expression of not caring SENT ME Edit: HOLY CANNOLI thank y’all so much for the likes I’ve never had this happen before on a comment on a KZread video 🥺

@hexmaniacgabby5160

3 жыл бұрын

Savage lmao

@brambleberry95

3 жыл бұрын

I started fuckin cackling 😂😂

@sarayasanchez839

3 жыл бұрын

That made me BUSS LAUGH sooo fuckin hard😂 cuz like most of his other reactions are very unbiased or as unbiased as possible.

@ashasuresh1342

3 жыл бұрын

LMAOOO HONESTLY THAT WAS HILARIOUS

@chuckdontjudge

3 жыл бұрын

Yassss mama go off!! I was absolutely infuriated because everything is about me me me and not that innocent child. But that 8passengers family, I legitimately went out of my way looking for ways to report and stop them

They TOLD her, medical professionals WARNED her to not adopt H because it wouldn’t be a good fit. And she responded feeling offended. Days after they gave H away they went to a resort in Bali and posted on ig about their beautiful vacation. These people are the worst kind of narcissist and I really hope no one forgets what they’ve done

@SupportMensMentalHealth

3 жыл бұрын

They've just adopted another special needs child from abroad, I wonder how long this one lasts before we have the white background talk

@whitcassie

3 жыл бұрын

@@SupportMensMentalHealth omg you're kidding me. Please tell me you're kidding. Who tf vetted these people for that adoption?? They need to be fired.

@c.b5996

3 жыл бұрын

@@SupportMensMentalHealth wait what!? No way, not another child after H. They had a baby shortly after H came home with them and they found out it was too hard and disposed him like literal garbage. That whole " medical professionals told us that we need to find him a different fit/family." like hold the fuck up for a min! More like "said no medical professional Ever!" . No medical professional in their right mind would tell a couple to give up a child,no fuckin way, esp one with severe abandonment issues. More like you do everything you possibly can for that child through thick and thin for the rest of your lives and you never give up on a child that YOU, meaning myka, wanted and picked out like an ice cream flavor . These morons are absolutely disgusting. As an adopted child and now a mama of 2, I'm beyond disgusted and hope nobody ever forgets. They rehomed all their dogs too. They are terrible sorry excuse for humans who should never be allowed to breathe. They thought it was ok to just pick a kid to get rid of. If it was one of their bio kids they would have sent them to the room when they were throwing a tantrum and probably not bat an eye. They thought of H as disposable. They shouldn't be allowed to breathe they are literally pieces of garbage

@romantic_hippie

3 жыл бұрын

she's a registered nurse, she IS a medical professional! She knew exactly what was going on and willingly chose to ignore it all like a dumbass. I wouldn't trust her as my nurse

@erinw8787

3 жыл бұрын

They have not adopted another child .

This was a gaslight-athon. I'm super thankful for your anger and bluntness on this one. My thoughts are for Huxley and for all autistic people who felt the pain of this.

"Anybody can act like they're crying," then in normal pitch, "and nobody cares." EPIC!

"Sitting on a golden couch" is going to become a new phrase to describe fake apologies. I just know it.

@meowyowyow

3 жыл бұрын

Right?! Love the not-so-subtle shade! 😂😂

@darwenrover8910

3 жыл бұрын

The funny thing is that Jeffree Star sat on one on his recent 'apology' video

@cristalat101

3 жыл бұрын

@@darwenrover8910 r/woosh

@jaycievictory8461

3 жыл бұрын

@@darwenrover8910 He analysed the Jeffree video recently. It's where he first came up with that phrase 🙃

@moriahlyn

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

PLS do not stop this series

@darkghoul4049

3 жыл бұрын

Indigø. 💯

@knucklesskinner253

3 жыл бұрын

PLEASE STOP SAYING THE KIDS NAME!!

@markk8248

3 жыл бұрын

Knuckles Skinner the minute those foster parents put his name out there it was too late for that. They used him on the internet for money and made him famously known because of their disgusting actions. It’s no one else’s fault that his name is all over the place.

@knucklesskinner253

3 жыл бұрын

MARKY MARK I never said it was anyone else’s fault. But you’re no better than the parents if you keep using his name. 🤦🏻‍♂️

@JasmineBusse

3 жыл бұрын

Very interested in your analysis of this extremely manipulative & deceitful couple. We need a series yes!

"It's not about me.." *fake sobs, stroke hair*

Adoption is so important to kids like myself. I have a family that loves me. For 16 years they have loved me and they still do. I have learning disabilities and medical issues but my parents never gave up on me! I can’t imagine what Huxley is going through! I can’t imagine loosing a family that you thought will always have hope in you. I feel sick to my stomach because The problem wasn’t him! It was the parents!

James said “Before we picked up Huxley,” not “adopted,” “picked up.” 😳

@kkheflin3

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Like a pet dog. Or hamster. It's reprehensible behavior. The child has to be better off without these horrible people. I hope to God he is.

@lovinglife419

3 жыл бұрын

Such a cringe worthy term to use for an actual human child, like he was dog, a gold fish or gallon of milk. They lack compassion and I’m GLAD this child has gotten away from them.

@alexandrathearmy8464

3 жыл бұрын

I wouldn't even use that verb for a dog,let alone a human being.

@Verpent

3 жыл бұрын

As someone adopted. Honestly hearing the word adopted reminds me of a dog. And I honestly would rather my mom say I was picked up than adopted. 😂

@lapatti

3 жыл бұрын

@@Verpent I would have never guessed, but surely is not something that they've learned from Huxley since, from what I've heard, he's non verbal

As an autistic person, this is the first time ive watched this "apology" video because I knew it would be hard. The fact that someone is analyzing it as we go was very helpful for me to understand. I may have my struggles with non verbal communication but I can tell how fake they are. Parents like these, that are martyrs, claiming their lives are painful because of their autistic kids, make me livid

@thefluffyaj4119

3 жыл бұрын

im neurodivergent aswell (i think i might be autistic but havent gotten diagnosed yet. i am diagnosed for other neurodivergent conditions though) and same. i hate how they turn it into a story about how much of a burden huxley was. the poor kid probably wasnt even treated that well by them. who knows what went on behind the camera (the camera shouldnt be on the child in the first place in my opinion). i really really hope he goes to a place where he gets treated right, is happy, and can heal from the trauma this will probably cause

@the5stacys

3 жыл бұрын

I subbed.

@juliettem13

3 жыл бұрын

Well in the defense of good parents with special needs children, it can be hard for them. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not defending them since they took the easy way out instead of doing something for him, but you get my point. My heart goes out to parents who actually care about their children, they just don’t know what to do and that becomes too overwhelming for them.

@Hollister74

3 жыл бұрын

People like these are not parents! They are people who have children. Being a parent is being there for ever therapy visit, every meltdown, learning how to reach your child and how to be their biggest ADVOCATE and SUPPORTER. Being a parent is knowing your child is so much more than a diagnosis and helping the world to see it. That is a parent and every child deserves that!

@audidoddy

3 жыл бұрын

Im autistic too and completely agreed

Let's pray for Huxley and all the other kids who need homes, that they get the love and stability they deserve.

This makes me feel sick. I could not imagine adopting someone and giving them back? The rejection the child must have felt, I hope he does well in life in spite of this.

I get so angry when I hear her say “his new forever home.” No, It’s his forever home. Saying “his NEW forever home” implies he had one to begin with. You didn’t rehome him, you abandoned him after 3 years. After attachments were made and after you milked as much money you could. It took a while for him to bond with them most likely due to trauma and they have the audacity to put him through it again. The fact they talked about adopting again before revealing that they abandoned Huxley is sickening!

@veeau1514

3 жыл бұрын

😥 shes fucked up in the head 😠

@jennthurston364

3 жыл бұрын

They should never be allowed to adopt again. I am 48 single and childless. I would love to adopt but where I am you can not adopt if you are single. They have the honour of adopting a child and they p!$$ it away. What huge @$$ h0l€$!!!

@D-me-dream-smp

3 жыл бұрын

As well as poor Huxley imagine the trauma for the other children.

When the observer gets more emotional than the ones being observed

The language they used in talking about rehoming like he was a dog or a forever home like an animal that rubbed me so hard the wrong way

I'm obsessed with how impossible it was for you to remain unbiased in this. Like. It warms my heart so much and restores some faith in humanity.

Her fake crying/talking gets so high pitched it almost turns into a dog whistle.

@dlemon90

3 жыл бұрын

The higher the pitch, the sadder you are... everyone knows that 😛

@cyanide_lollipop3264

3 жыл бұрын

@@dlemon90 So if that's how you judge happiness, she must be suicidal. 😂

@christaharding6600

3 жыл бұрын

Yep! She reminds me of Jodie Arias with her narcissism and tone of voices!

@sophiasnegova5234

3 жыл бұрын

Please... Dog whistle sounds way better than the noice she makes.. she sounds like nails scratching on blackboard

@caridennis3171

3 жыл бұрын

Trying to call Huxley back

"I'm sorry your feelings are hurt. Meanwhile, Huxley is having a much harder life than you." Damn, yes.

@xenthiaviawant6563

3 жыл бұрын

Huxley dogded a bullet. This Woman is a firstclass narcissist. Her husband is a conarc.

@professionalcommenter

3 жыл бұрын

@@xenthiaviawant6563 No, they are both malignant narcissists.

@sheenaalexis8710

3 жыл бұрын

I just happen to be reading this as he said it lol Savage. And TRUE!!!

@evemii

3 жыл бұрын

@@xenthiaviawant6563 Whenever she looked genuinely close to being sad she was talking about herself, it’s scary how self involved some people can be - especially if they are parents

You have been able to keep a better unbiased composure with murderers! As someone with autism, I really appreciate you defending my low functioning brothers. This poor kid is always going to feel like he has brothers and sisters that are now missing. A lot of people approach autism with a "how can we cure it" mindset without realizing how offensive that is and I appreciate you treating Huxley like a human that needs better ways for his needs to be taken care of vs his autism needing to be cured. You're a great guy Logan, appreciate ya.

That sounds so scary when her (Myka's) speech/voice and expressions turns into something completely different in the middle of it.. it's like "show" is on, off, on, off... psycho

The WHOLE adoption process was documented. They specifically requested a special needs child. They knew what they were getting themselves into. They documented this poor child's entire life once he was in their custody. These people are terrible people. I work in a hospital adjacent facility (similar to Ronald McDonald House), and there are people with FAR less privilege and money that do so so much more for their children with special needs or terminal illnesses. I have interacted with families who know fully that their child will not live more than a year, and they give that child the best year ever. You can't just give up on a child, especially when you have taken steps to document and monetize their lives!! It's absolutely disgusting behavior. Thank you for not standing for this behavior, and for blatantly calling it out!!! Love how salty you get in some of your videos lol it is definitely warranted!!!

@D-me-dream-smp

3 жыл бұрын

The way she spoke BEFORE the adoption showed serious narcissism. And then they have the gall to call abandoning this poor kid after two years “a journey” where they suffered. They DUMPED him in foster care!!! Me me me me.

@moniqueuu8777

3 жыл бұрын

They did anything for likes.

@natalieferrier1234

3 жыл бұрын

I also blame the adoption agency

@candicewdub2269

3 жыл бұрын

They asked for a child with mild special needs

@summers9052

3 жыл бұрын

@@candicewdub2269 no. there’s evidence of them asking in Facebook groups which disabilities people think are hard to handle but actually aren’t. they were informed of Huxley’s extreme trauma and disabilities and needs and were warned that they likely wouldn’t be the best fit for him and they still CHOSE to take him in because he wouldn’t garner them sympathy and a FUCK TON of ad revenue. they knew exactly what they were doing and when they finally realized they were in over their heads, they added to that poor child’s trauma.

Generally profiting from children without their consent is horrible but these people make it even worse

"There was not a minute where *I* didn't try *our* hardest." This sentence, along with James continuously referring to only Myka doing her best and leaving himself out of the story, speaks absolute volumes.

What drives me crazy about this is the fact they said they "didn't know" about the "severity" of Huxley's autism, but in a video by The Right Opinion, he explains that that is absolutely NOT the case. The medical professionals on BOTH SIDES told them they weren't prepared to live with him, and they found new people who told them it was fine. I have NO sympathy for them.

@hershelroswell

2 жыл бұрын

very late reply but exactly this!! the fact that they were told they likely weren't the right family for him and in myka's own words "it went in one ear and out the other" because they were so marinated in their saviour-complex bullshit

I feel weird "hearing" someone crying but not seeing it. I feel like my brain is super confused, and hearing the high pitch bothers me so much.

@jaycievictory8461

3 жыл бұрын

That's exactly it 👌

@kaylakthulhu8623

3 жыл бұрын

I totally agree. Her nose looks a little red too?? That combined with the high pitch noise at the beginning almost fooled me. The weirdest thing I found was that she had no tissue?? Like, she's crying on camera, would anyone really not want to wipe their tears away and blow their nose?? No, because there were no tears in the first place

@adelacozlac366

3 жыл бұрын

@Milan Suman Her nose could have been red just from the fake wiping off.

@lunacouer

3 жыл бұрын

@@adelacozlac366 That's what I was thinking. She also would've been rubbing her makeup off, so between that and irritating her nose with the fake wiping, it's gonna be red.

@kyhoney

3 жыл бұрын

kaylakthulhu AGUST D

Her squeaky voice sounds annoying.

@sophiekerr8964

3 жыл бұрын

Especially when it goes higher for when she's fake crying. Like stfu

@ashcatchum

3 жыл бұрын

It sounded exactly like what Laura Lee did and if you haven’t heard of her or seen the video go watch it you will laugh your butt off at how undeniably fake it is

@martinevanloon2695

3 жыл бұрын

Yea you dumped your kid and went and had a ball in Bali - you were really grieving lol And that fake voice you use on the videos totally different when you use your normal voice.

@hexmaniacgabby5160

3 жыл бұрын

It's part of the manipulation as well. Kind of scary how fake she is.

@mlee_wood3778

3 жыл бұрын

I had to take a break because her voice annoyed me so much. Its the worst

I too have glasses and whenever I've even come close to crying, my classes fog up and I have to take them off. She's got none of that happening here so I immediately felt inclined to believe it's fake

@nicolleford8007

Жыл бұрын

I've seen a lot of this comment and honestly when I'm really upset my glasses are the last thing I'm worried about, they will probably fog up and get watery but I like minimal vision as opposed to none, that being said her performance is quite obviously fake outside of this detail as well

As the mother of a kid with autism, this story is so upsetting. I hope Huxley has found the family and help he needs, now that he's free from this family

@raymondkravitz2001

2 жыл бұрын

He should sue as an adult.

The mirror neuron thing is a good point. I'm pretty sensitive so when people genuinely cry then I cry no matter what ( its kind of a problem lol). I felt NOTHING when she "cried" 😂😂

@christinecutter505

3 жыл бұрын

Except the heeeeeBbbeee jeeeeebeees lol

@WillaHerrera

3 жыл бұрын

I agree!!

@WillaHerrera

3 жыл бұрын

@Sheena Folsom you're*

@BirdSniffer343

3 жыл бұрын

@Sheena Folsom yea and a Highly Sensitive Person :)

@BirdSniffer343

3 жыл бұрын

@Sheena Folsom Its honestly never even crossed my mind to develop it more but Its fascinating to think about it that way

I didn’t believe in cancel culture until this family.

@briannahatcher9422

3 жыл бұрын

They are literally the worst. Family vloging in general is gross

@jaydevannlisamarie4685

3 жыл бұрын

Same here Celia and completly agree Brianna!!! 🤣🤪 Greetings from Jayde (Melbourne, Australia)

@D-me-dream-smp

3 жыл бұрын

They deserve to be banned for USING a HUMAN BEING to make money like adoption was a hobby they got tired of.

@fridaycaliforniaa236

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry I'm not english guy. What is "cancel culture" thing ? a way of life ? Thx in advance =)

@adriana12995

3 жыл бұрын

Cancel culture isn't inherently a bad thing tbh. The problem is that people use cancel culture to cancel people for the stupidest shit. These "parents" are a perfect example of why cancel culture should exist though.

Omg thank you so much for bringing up the placating gestures! I just realized that every time I give a presentation, I have my hand on my neck. Sometimes it's just touching my neck, sometimes it's fully around my neck, holding it loosely. I literally never even knew that I was doing it, and then when I realized I was doing it I had no idea why. Anyways thank you for solving this mystery

The apology video made me cry... for the baby. I'm autistic. Thank you for your candor and passion. Waffles 🧇❤

My mom quit her job to take care of my brother My mom spent thousands of dollars for my brothers therapy. My mom got pregnant at 13 My mom went through a divorce. My moms grandparents died. My moms dad was abusive. My moms mother is in a abusive relationship. Did my mom give up on my autistic brother because it was "to hard" or "there was other things to worry about", no. Did my mom just give him away, no. So why did they complain about somthing that real people have to deal with. Sorry to brake the mood but even though shes nice to brother, she in mean to me. She acts like hes a perfect kid but really hes not, she yells at me to the point im scared to be around her. Im scared that she might disown me when i come out as gay, i even though about moving to a different country because of the abuse.

@euphoria7372

3 жыл бұрын

I really hope your mom is doing okay. She seems like a incredible person, She really deserves a reward.

@jennthurston364

3 жыл бұрын

@@euphoria7372 She has that reward in her beautiful children.

@vikivictoria7343

3 жыл бұрын

Huxley is so much better off in a different family! We should rejoice that he is no longer with them!!

@euphoria7372

3 жыл бұрын

@@jennthurston364 True.

@lilomonroe3466

3 жыл бұрын

your mother is an actual mother, she is incredible oh my god..

You can tell he is really passionate about this, it feels so good to see how much he cares about Huxley and what’s best for him.

@smittywerbenjagermanjensen9281

3 жыл бұрын

Yea he was genuinely disgusted by these ppl and what they have done and I stand by him on that as literally every human should

A year later and I am still SO infuriated by these people and how absolutely disgusting they are

"get them out of your life if possible" hes literally my dad. whenever i tell him about something he has done that has hurt me he finds a way to start crying and make it about poor him. its horrible

@Vampxiii_

2 жыл бұрын

My mom does the same unfortunately.

@LucidDreams.999

2 жыл бұрын

My Mom as well. She’s a total narcissist.

It angers me so much when he says "when we got him home there were more needs than we were first told about". Let me put it this way, you give birth to a biological child and then a few years later some developmental delays start appearing, what then? Return them to the hospital?? Although given these two I wouldn't out that past them, anything that doesn't fit in with their perfect Instagram family!

@AlexisTwoLastNames

3 жыл бұрын

this is exactly what i was thinking!

@lindsey5659

3 жыл бұрын

Sounds like someone who adopted a puppy who was more hyperactive and were too lazy to take care of it so decided to re-home it.

@edithtierce8209

3 жыл бұрын

I’m sure they would if they could! Then again their kids are probably monsters off camera but those kids came from them soooo they need to portray that their genes produced angel children who do no wrong. Sickos.

@lostsignal4359

3 жыл бұрын

Another cult used to do that ......World war 1??

Narcissist and performance. They genuinely do not have empathy. They are looking for how hard it is for them and they are the victims. So happy that this child is out of their care. They are sorry for themselves. Narcissists perform for their ego and inflate themselves.

@darbylynch9391

3 жыл бұрын

I really wanted to cry watching this! I couldn’t actually been sad! I was trying to feel for them. All I did. The entire time they talked. Cringed. I CRINGEEEEEEDDDDD!

@SaikouKarate

3 жыл бұрын

Narcissism has nothing to do with having empathy or not

@miegravgaardxoxo

3 жыл бұрын

I feel bad for their biological children. 🙁 There has been videos where her kids are crying and she’s just sitting there enjoying their attention 🙁

@sfnerd2023

2 жыл бұрын

@@SaikouKarate yes, it does. In fact, it’s one of their biggest traits.

@SaikouKarate

2 жыл бұрын

@@sfnerd2023 You are talking about psychopathy and not narcissism.

I wish she would stop saying “our son”. He was their pawn!!!

I'm autistic, and I am soooo glad my parents never treated me like a piece of plastic. If these people actually loved their kid and how much money they have, they would get an in-home therapist to help the whole family better communicate.

How to fake cry in 3 easy steps: 1: Make a frowny face 2: Talk in a choppy, high pitch voice 3: Snort, a lot

@auntkaz422

3 жыл бұрын

4. Wipe your fake face on your blindingly white shirt...

@babymaude8469

3 жыл бұрын

@@auntkaz422 "Blindingly white shirt" I just laughed so hard I wheezed 😂😂😂😂😂

@shellynazyia

3 жыл бұрын

@@auntkaz422 seriously why is it so bright?!

@butter7790

3 жыл бұрын

And gulp like crazy

i roll my eyes whenever i see parents talking about how hard it is raising autistic children, like ok but have you ever stopped to think how hard it is for them?

@Drew57720

3 жыл бұрын

As an autistic person: THIS ^

@teamobi3327

3 жыл бұрын

And the hilarious thing is... It's inherited. So then is the parent complaining about their own genes, or their partners (in the case of blood-related children)? Or are they that dilutional to think that they also don't have issues caused from the same source?

@maryamkidwai2543

3 жыл бұрын

Parents complain abt how hard it is to raise any kids all the time....its normal as long as they treat theur kids right.

@angelic.process

3 жыл бұрын

@@maryamkidwai2543 yeah but as an autistic person who grew up with a mother who never shut the fuck up about how hard her life was when she literally did nothing for me.. i think i can say the majority of them don’t treat their kids right. regardless it’s selfish and unfair to complain about your life just because your child is autistic, it makes them feel like its their fault and their life is already 10x harder since they’re the ones that have to live with their condition lol

@maryamkidwai2543

3 жыл бұрын

@@angelic.process sorz man just saying not all of them are evil

“We wanted to protect Hux’s privacy and rights” Oh Yeah! sure, and that whole playlist with almost 30 videos about him shows it all (i don’t really remember how many videos were but there were A LOT)

@sarahlinn4421

3 жыл бұрын

SPEAK ON IT

@jessbellis9510

3 жыл бұрын

Don't forget ALL of them, including their apology video was MONETISED.

@raymondkravitz2001

2 жыл бұрын

My inner snide grandma is like "then why make videos on a kid who can't consent to filming".

Watching this video was so satisfying. I know you did not want to be biased, but showing your bias and calling out their bullshit is exactly what we all need! P👏R👏E👏A👏C👏H 👏

As an adopted child, this breaks my heart. I could not imagine, having parents and then all of sudden being “given a forever home”. The beauty of adoption is that it is a chosen love. It’s always been hard for me to explain but I’ve had people say something along the lines of “do you feel like your parents love you less than parents love their biological children”. My response is always “no I think my parents love me more because they chose me”. It’s a different kind of love to CHOOSE love. Of course there are situations where parents will adopt children and don’t have this love in their heart, but I’m talking about my experience only. My parents wanted a baby so much that they were on an adoption list for YEARS and prayed daily to be chosen. To think that there are people in the world where their love is conditional, especially at the expense of a child that can’t help the situation that they are in, is so HORRIBLE to me. And to think that there is a chance that this amazing child will one day see this video and be made to feel like it was his fault...I can’t even produce words to accompany that thought. Heartbreaking, absolutely heartbreaking for that sweet baby.

@babymaude8469

3 жыл бұрын

That's so rude people would ask you if you think your parents love you less. Wow! Sometimes people need to keep their thoughts to themselves. That it beyond terrible for anyone to ask you that. They're your parents and they tried very hard to be your parents.

@christinaa7469

3 жыл бұрын

Shelby Michelle adopted kid here too and this is absolutely right!!!!! ❤️

@christinaa7469

3 жыл бұрын

Baby Maude it does sound rude (I’ve gotten the same type of questions) and is definitely uncalled for. Usually people are asking out of genuine concern (they think) because of stories about shit monsters like these two & worse....

@babymaude8469

3 жыл бұрын

@@christinaa7469 Ugh, people should be able to know what is and isn't appropriate to say out loud after a certain age. I'm 30 and recently found out I was pregnant. I am not married, but my partner and I were very much trying for a baby. We keep our relationship pretty private, we aren't all over social media proclaiming our love for one another so some people didn't realize how serious we were. I can't tell you how many people have said, "Oh, wow. Are you happy?" instead of congratulations. Lmao. I am 30 years old. We know where babies come from. This was a planned baby. Of course I'm happy. 😂

@christinaa7469

3 жыл бұрын

Baby Maude people are insasaaane but I’m happy you got your wee babe 🥰

They paraded that boy in front of the camera for years, even when he was struggling, they stuck a camera in his face. They asked for money before they even adopted him. All they did was exploit him, yet now they want to go on about his ‘privacy’, then they dumped him off to another family and blamed it all on Huxley.

@waggishwonderland

3 жыл бұрын

Obviously it's Huxley's fault. They clearly had no fault in this! /sarcasm

@D-me-dream-smp

3 жыл бұрын

They horrifically showed NO empathy for how this poor child felt during this whole “journey” of theirs.

@rosarioadrianacandelerorue3710

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly what i was thinking

Super late on this whole situation, but I'm so confused. I have a nephew who's struggled, and is struggling, with Autism, ADHD, OCPD, and severe Anxiety. And my sister, his single mother has "struggled with his medical needs", to my knowledge over the past 15 years she's never tried to "re-home" him, OMFG...INFURIATING

They should have had criminal charges. Humdreds of couples can't have children and fight for years to adopt. This is unnexceptable.

For those who may not be aware: Google her Facebook comment to a China adoption group asking what "problems" are easy to manage but don't appear easy to manage to other people". They initially thought H had a terminal brain tumour. When they learned he in fact just had autism and would live a long, healthy life, they noped out of that adoption *hard*. They were not in it for the long haul. They were in it for the views & sympathy when he died of the "brain tumour". 😤

@prettypleasewithsugarontop4858

3 жыл бұрын

That's gross

@Nothereatalllllbotuhoh

3 жыл бұрын

I cannot even breathe past the anger in my chest at the thought of this concept

@cheekymunki6

3 жыл бұрын

@@Nothereatalllllbotuhoh it is awful but that comment to the China adoption group is damning. I feel like not enough of the videos on this couple mention it. And it makes what was already a despicable situation even more disgusting.

@meaniemaelily

3 жыл бұрын

cheekymunki6 I can’t find that comment - can you give me a site?

@cheekymunki6

3 жыл бұрын

@@meaniemaelily Google the following search term on Google images: "myka stauffer facebook adoption" and scroll down a tiny bit. You'll see a message from her to a group called China Adoption Questions, posted on 5th August 2018 saying "We are praying about adopting again. And my husband wanted me to ask what special needs would you consider minor or relatively easy to manage that most people wouldn't consider easy?"

According to a family friend, Myka told her kids that they had to get rid of Huxley because he was "going to kill them in their sleep." I can't even... These people are like legit sociopaths.

@neverendinglute3125

3 жыл бұрын

This was a common stereotype for adopted kids for like over a century the least they could do was be more creative. Wtf is a 4 yo gonna do anyway?

@jessicawaite5140

3 жыл бұрын

@@neverendinglute3125 idk like beat em with a sippy cup or smthn lmao

@Noble_healer869

3 жыл бұрын

As a parent to two autistic boys on different ends of the spectrum I can not understand how they could just give up on him. Kids like Huxley work best with a schedule and lots of patience. They also knew he was autistic BEFORE adopting him. All they did was traumatize that poor boy. They have no heart at all!

@littlekitsune1

3 жыл бұрын

@@neverendinglute3125 I don't think she actually believed he was going to do anything, that was just her convenient excuse to play victim and get away scott free.

@neverendinglute3125

3 жыл бұрын

@@littlekitsune1 I figured that as well, but like it’s a terribly old line, like saying a dog ate her homework. It’s a low effort excuse that clings to the fear of orphans and autistic people rather than any sense

I've been binge watching a lot of Observe videos, and this is one of the best. I'm 100% here for Logan's straight rage!

They didn't love him, it's like Huxley was just 'hired' to help them make more money.

“Trying to protect Huxley’s privacy” after they spent all that time showing off videos and pictures of him even when he was having difficulties. STOP saying “my son” he’s not YOUR son anymore! Thank God! Also she called her husband Jim instead of James in their video.

@bonnierae22

3 жыл бұрын

Not defending them at all they're terrible, but Jim is a nickname for James. (My grandpa's name but everyone called him Jim lol)

@chey3454

3 жыл бұрын

Bonnie Waddell I never knew that!😂 I’m over here like she can’t even call him the right name

@lizzmunster3390

3 жыл бұрын

Right, she still has up all the videos he was in on her channel. There was a clip on a video where she pretty much is upset with Huxley cause he’s crying in the closet tells him “to stop throwing tantrums” rather than getting in the closet with him to hug him and console him. I believe they are 100% the reason why Huxley never adapted. Plus recording all his outbursts and posting them online is definitely not protecting his privacy.

@Travelling_with_my_dog

3 жыл бұрын

There is also a clip of her looking at Huxley (who is just playing at the time) with such venom that it is truly scary. Although terrible that he has been "re-homed," the poor kid is so much better off without her.

"They're not horribly hurting, they horribly hurt someone, but they're not horribly hurting." Whew.....I felt that.

@D-me-dream-smp

3 жыл бұрын

And they couldn’t give a sh*t about that kid.

@harlowitter3060

3 жыл бұрын

Damn right

You have shown more compassion towards Huxley in this 20 minute video then these two are probably capable of in a whole lifetime!

As someone with two brothers that are on the spectrum of Autism... you don’t just throw away your family members because it’s “hard on you” when they’re struggling. Wtf. I mean yes it can get overwhelming sometimes, but you never give up on them. Ever. That’s family.

I mean, they taped the poor babys hands to stop him from comfortin himself, while letting their older biological children suck their thumbs. They took a child with special needs, and platantly disregarded his needs. They separated the children, gave their biological children familytime, vacations and affection, Huxley didn't see any of that love they claimed to have for him. I can't even imagine what new trauma that sweet lil boy got for being abandoned and separated from the other children he grew up to call his siblings. These people are not just "mistaken parents", they are simply getting away with abusing autistic child on the internet for monitary gain - they are criminals, and should see punishment for their actions.

@SoothingTrash

3 жыл бұрын

Or that part when they put him in time out for still being hungry

@KileyLyle3

3 жыл бұрын

How do you know that?? The taping thing. That’s horrible 😶

@meaniemaelily

3 жыл бұрын

Karley Renée This makes me want to throw up. As a mother who’s daughter is such a picky eater, I would be THRILLED to feed her extra food at any time ever!!

@hetatoiviainen9489

3 жыл бұрын

Kiley Vargas They talked about it before, in their own videos where talking about his tantrums. I dont know what all is still up on their channel about that boy anymore, but they were pretty "open" about how they treated him.

@jennal4143

3 жыл бұрын

Kiley Vargas You can see it in a clip in Tom Harlock’s video on them too, it’s infuriating to see.

Funny how her crying seems more real when she’s talking about how hard it was for her dealing with “insidious comments” than it does at any other point during the video. THAT was real - she really does feel sad about the mean comments... but she doesn’t feel sad about rehoming Huxley.

@MsBrendalina

3 жыл бұрын

So true. She only showed genuine emotion when whining about mean internet comments and losing Instagram followers. She couldn't care less about Huxley's suffering

@kookiecream7259

3 жыл бұрын

Yeh I thought I am wrong for thinking she is showing real sadness but then I was like "I mean it's about HER"

The entire time I watched their video (before this video) I was screaming "HE'S NOT A PUPPY. JUST STOP."

I love how sincere you are. The fact that you try so tremendously to be unbiased about two people that are so completely worthless.

i want to actually thank you for getting angry, this was the only way i could get through their video, being angry at them with you. I'm autistic and adopted and when i first saw the news about this it made me think what if my parents changed their minds

@percy_coro_cos

3 жыл бұрын

This video really made me think... I'm adopted as well and have realized that I have severe depression due to growing up in a white family and well.. Country (and well add gender dysphoria and a transphobic family to that). They keep being annoyed with me showing symptoms and struggling. I kinda wish they would have given me to a different family...

@RosenrotRtLiebchen87

3 жыл бұрын

@@percy_coro_cos you're valid and i hope one day your loved ones can also see you as your true self and not how they want to see you (if you figure out how lemme know lol, I'm 34 and still working on a bit of that with my family)

@2xbeans

3 жыл бұрын

I wanted to thank him, too, for showing anger! As a 47 year old adoptee who still struggles with some adoption issues…I want to throw some love and hugs to you and all the rest of us who felt this story to the core ❤️

I’ve noticed that people who wear white and furnish their home with white are quite controlling and egotistical

@LorraineVirginie

3 жыл бұрын

I used to follow them, a ton of their house is white too lol. Confirm.

@minijcooper757

3 жыл бұрын

I sell paint so I'd have to disagree because a lot of people just follow trends. Except these people. What horrible brats.

@KB-pu8ff

3 жыл бұрын

Parents who wear a lot of white or have a lot of white furniture: DEFINITELY. Kids are messy. But a strict controlling parent can stifle that. Which is why my furniture and clothes are all dark colors.

@AriPicard

3 жыл бұрын

@@minijcooper757 I guess you've been lucky. I was a hairdresser for 15 yrs and traveled a lot so what I noticed was quite up close and personal.

@minijcooper757

3 жыл бұрын

@@AriPicard maybe, but the trend has REALLY shifted toward it in the last 3 years so a lot of people have it now because they're keeping up with the Jones'. There's also people like me who use white sheets and towels so they can be bleached because of little people. I get what you're saying though. There are few people who maintain that all clean, white, minimal look and they don't do it on accident. It just seems unfair to lump everyone in with this egregious behavior.

Your passion is what keeps bringing me back.

THANK YOU FOR THIS. Somebody needed to say it. As an adoptee, it's insane to me the amount of people who think she doesn't need to apologize. She used that child as a prop.