Body Language Analyst Reacts: 2023 Grammy Awards (Ben Affleck & J-Lo, Kim Petras, Sam Smith & more)
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What Is Happening with Ben Affleck and J-Lo? What was Kim Petras thinking during her acceptance speech, why was Sam Smith annoyed with the audience and how did Harry Styles melt everyone's heart with kindness? Find out now!
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Study on The Universal Display of Pride:
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Study on Widening the eyes during Fear/Surprise
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The Universal Emotions by Paul Ekman
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TIMESTAMPS
01:48 Kim Petras and Surprise
10:50 Sam Smith and Disappointment
19:47 Beyoncé and Humility
29:35 What is Happening with J-Lo and Ben Affleck
33:30 Harry Styles and Kindness
38:55 Master Profiling Technique
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Your interpretation of Kim's comment is great. Kim is German and they structure their sentences differently, my grandmother and mother's first language is German so I was used to it. She realized when she was saying it she was translating incorrectly and tried to correct but then figured everyone gets the point. Loved the video.
@TheBehavioralArts
Жыл бұрын
Ahhh. That makes perfect sense. Ok, I’m locking in option #3 then. So glad you commented 😊
@mammo7647
Жыл бұрын
I love to listen to people who speak different languages, every language seems to hold a microcosm of culture and attitude, and it’s seems a bigger reveal how they translate to the separate language. ❤
@dorisbanana3467
Жыл бұрын
Agreed! As a native German speaker, this literally translates to how you’d say that phrase in German
@katfromthekong414
Жыл бұрын
I am German and live in an English speaking country and I can confirm this too. When I switch between languages it's easy to get the sentence structure wrong or use weird phrasing that only works in the other language.
@vatrafeutanduk6627
Жыл бұрын
Understandable I took German class and see the I interpretation. Also I would love to see how passed off he would be as well reacting to how Steven Avery nephew was gaslighted by police and dectives honestly I think he may need to get involved in this case becuase this is that bad. There's a documentary called making a murderer and I Know there innocent.
I studied psychology and went on to a masters in clinical mental health, but people exhaust me, and I ended up in animal behaviorism working with birds 😅 you satisfy that psychology hole in my heart thank you so much! I may not be practicing with humans, but I appreciate this so much!
@emptythoughts3060
Жыл бұрын
I love animals… wish i could work with them instead of humans. 😢
@gulturgut798
Жыл бұрын
Hey, I also study psychology and am thinking about jobs later. What do you do with the birds?
@amjo4545
Жыл бұрын
That’s cute. And true. Ppl exhaust me too. I was taking psych and abnormal psych. To figure myself out. But had to drop out. Trying to get grant to go back. But that made me laugh.
The more I learn about Harry Styles, I see a really kind and loving person. You're totally correct. In an interview, he said how his mum is a special person who doesn't have a bad word for anyone. I think she did a great job of bringing up her son
@emptythoughts3060
Жыл бұрын
I dont know much of him, but so far what I’ve seen, he seems like a classy guy who is for a change kind!
@isaiahduran3567
Жыл бұрын
Didn't he sleep with a married woman that he worked with in a film? Seems like a great person!
@michellemcculloch
Жыл бұрын
@@isaiahduran3567 I agree.
Yelling at people to give a standing ovation is the equivalent of demanding an apology. Even if you get compliance, it becomes a completely meaningless gesture.
@TheBehavioralArts
Жыл бұрын
I agree.
@B__746
Жыл бұрын
Yep super tacky.
@DPBida
Жыл бұрын
Dude is pulling his best PC Principal getting pissed at Brett Favre for not clapping enough
@Jwlz29
Жыл бұрын
Demanding your acceptance. It’s still a no from me.
@franciet99
Жыл бұрын
I got from Sam wanting them to give a standing ovation to Kim was the thought ‘can’t you see how wonderful she is?’ then a flash of disappointment that the audience couldn’t support Kim as Sam thought she should be supported.
33:50 That's so beautiful that Harry styles shared that moment with his fan and almost bowed down to her. She'll never forget the moment
I love your honesty in your analysis-Not looking for the most salacious opinion. And your positive attitude. 😊
@silenceisgold758
Жыл бұрын
You like your favourite celebs praised and put in neautral zone and not trashed or better-EXPOSED. You just like positive being said and not truth.
I am a Great-Grandma, I’ve enjoyed 79yrs of life’s experiences and have loved every day. I have enjoyed your videos for some time but this one has been the best. I loved Harry Styles and his music for some time. I’m sure I’ll never get to know him or any of his friends; but you confirmed my opinion of him with your expert opinion. Thank you and thank you for all you share. Don’t stop!!! Ellen Love
J-Lo and Ben’s interaction could be me and my husband any given day! LOL Joking and teasing…I feel like he said something like “I should go interrupt Trevor’s bit.” And she gave him the “Don’t You Dare! You Behave!” and then Ben straightens up with feigned confusion about “Geez, what’s so wrong with my idea?” 😄
@TheBehavioralArts
Жыл бұрын
Hahaha that pretty much sums up the vibe 😆
@amandawoods847
Жыл бұрын
@@TheBehavioralArts first thought he says "going to bathroom", and her super swift response is "No, wait a sec". Couldnt have him leave her side, especially when nearby cameras, and closeups being actioned. Just a thought for those particular reactions. Really enjoy all your broadcasts, many thanks.
@kittmarie8285
Жыл бұрын
Haha! The way he was eyeing Trevor, i think you are right on! :)
@TheCriminalViolin
Жыл бұрын
@@thedepthsofrepair I would've done it anyway, whether it pisses off my spouse or not haha. That's actually a brilliant idea!
@mrs.h2725
Жыл бұрын
I’ve only heard negative things about JLo with ppl’s interactions with her, but my lasting impression from her was a lil doc she had on VH1 or MTV back in the day about her fashion line. She basically said that she could care less about animals suffering for the fur industry and she’d continue to use fur unapologetically. She was showing her real self, and her real self is gutter trash.
Thank you for this great analysis, as always. I want to add my observation to Harry Styles, who obviously was not feeling 100% well that night, who had that huge problem with the platform turning the wrong direction during the performance, and had to hear ppl shout Beyoncé should have deserved his Grammy. My impression was, that with all these different emotions going on inside him, there could not have been a better person than this beautiful superfan lady to give him the Grammy. This was such a warm, granny-like unbiased safe hug that was so good for Harry as well. There was as much receiving for himself as giving to her imo. It was my moment of the Grammys.
@barbarageorge7848
Жыл бұрын
I loved the super fan awarding him the Grammy!! Not sure who was more excited!! ❤
@kittmarie8285
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@judytinker3392
Жыл бұрын
Why people try to humiliate a celebrity like Taylor Swift and Harry Styles? It’s so bad!!!
When I saw J-Lo and Ben Afflecks interchange it completely reminded me of when a husband says something he thinks is funny and she thinks is inappropriate and she had a motherly reaction to keep him from taking it any further. IMO innocent and normal.
@girlietwirlie754
Жыл бұрын
That's what I saw too cus my husband says Lil jokes to me sometimes during serious events and I have that reaction lol
@phillipgalan660
Жыл бұрын
Motherly? LOL
@SuperAnnaspanna
Жыл бұрын
I think he was being completely inappropriate, from her reaction and then his reaction to her. Either way, normal stuff 😂
@southerncross5360
Жыл бұрын
I don't know how anyone in the audience could keep their body language in check. The last few years have proven to be hideous, most don't even watch it at home. Idk but if I'm Ben I'd want to get the hell out of there. Can't imagine this is his cup of tea, the same can be said for the majority of people who saw it as trash.
@lynettenelson3701
Жыл бұрын
That's my thought too 😁
This is one of my favorite videos, not only for the education, but also for the displays of kindness. 💜
@TheBehavioralArts
Жыл бұрын
Thanks 🥹 🤗
I love how honest, open and real you are. You’re not trying to appease these celebrities or subjects of the videos or anyone. You just seem truthful and straightforward😊
@helenperez9828
Жыл бұрын
Ballerina11 AA you are absolutely correct 100%! I have been wanting to comment this exactly, not just this but several before. But I always get distracted by the video content for that day. 😊 idk if that makes sense but yeah!! Best comment!
@Ballerina11AA
Жыл бұрын
@@helenperez9828 Yes! Sometimes it's so hard to find honest people these days...especially online.
@Ballerina11AA
Жыл бұрын
@@helenperez9828 and thank you!
Harry Styles is such a sweetheart. That was the most genuine moment I've ever seen! I wonder how he stays so humble after so many years of fame? Thanks for the awesome analysis, Spidey! ❤️ Edit: After watching a bit longer, I think he stays so humble because he doesn't collect people or objects/things. He collects moments and experiences, which keeps him humble while he lives a life around rich things and popular people!
@TheBehavioralArts
Жыл бұрын
Yep. Great point. People who live for moments and experiences tend to have an innate humility and subtlety to them
@Nyalloyd
Жыл бұрын
Socionics talks about filling time with events as being a dynamic trait vs filling space with objects as static trait.
@JoniDiMaggio
Жыл бұрын
I'll never forget his first time on TV when he auditioned for X-Factor. Simon asked him why he was there. Harry said his mum thinks he's a good singer. Simon said all moms say that and Harry said I know that's why I'm here so you can tell me if it's true!! He was so cute and charming even back then.
@billej-m3659
Жыл бұрын
I think this too
I didn’t watch the Grammies; your analysis was so interesting and insightful. I love how sweet, respectful and appreciative you are toward them all. Loved hearing about your profiling and yes please! More about that.
The profiling information was super interesting. I was literally in a meeting yesterday where the fact that we both collect knowledge and information helped me move the discussion forward. I did it instinctively, but Spidey helped me see why it worked.
As an English second language speaker, here is my opinion: With Kim, when she uhhs, she is German and would feel all the emotions & communication in her head in German when she tried to speak English. Also, when she speaks, she needs to translate everything in her head into English. When I am emotional, my English grammar is incorrect and although I am fluent in English, I struggle to speak English which make me feel insecure in my competency in English as everything inside me screams in my home language.
@mermaiddiyartist8119
Жыл бұрын
That makes sense ❤. Just know you’re amazing ! The fact that you speak a couple languages is amazing in itself.
@ActionCat2000
Жыл бұрын
I could DEFINITELY see this in Bad Bunny's acceptance speech. He tried for English, but you could basically see him just mentally throw up his hands, and Spanish just poured out. I don't blame him, either! When you know exactly what you want to express, it's best to use a language in which you can.
@Evanthebat15
Жыл бұрын
I agree with you, English is my second language, Spanish is my first and when I am very excited/ frustrated or anything emotional my mind is trying really hard to translate not only the words but grammar which leads to me either freezing up or having like a word salad due to them being complete opposite and my mind is getting overwhelmed like "Shoot, I messed up, ah just forget it." That flight or fight response hits.
@tiffanymichaels2429
Жыл бұрын
I've heard people call their native language as the language of their heart.
Pausing at 44:11 - and I’m gonna guess that Harry is more than likely the type of person that collects moments & experiences based on his mannerisms, the way he holds the award back and away and focuses more on the feelings and emotions of the experience and people around him. Am I right? I’ll continue watching now …
@TheBehavioralArts
Жыл бұрын
Woohoo!!!! 🎯 🥇 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻
No matter what's going on ... positive or negative ... we love the way you tell it Spidey! And we love you! 💓
@jomangeee9180
Жыл бұрын
yup, but too much repetition and ridiculously long videos, just unsubbed
@AikoFox
Жыл бұрын
This isn't an airport. No need to announce departures🤫👋🏽
@jomangeee9180
Жыл бұрын
@@AikoFox lmaol go find a safe space !
@AikoFox
Жыл бұрын
@@jomangeee9180 😂 Its not that deep. Try to have a good day and touch some grass honey.
@jomangeee9180
Жыл бұрын
@@AikoFox I will u 2
I follow a couple behavior channels, and Spidey is the only one who includes data from studies that included people who have been blind since birth. Excellent info!
I would love to watch a video about what makes an actor give a believable performance regarding gestures and facial expressions (e.g. Al Pacino in the Godfather, Tom Cruise in a Few Good Men, Meryl Streep in The Devil Wears Prada, etc)...
@Digmer
Жыл бұрын
Amy adams in everything she does xD
@shelleymusleh439
Жыл бұрын
Love this idea!
@Lilybitch85
Жыл бұрын
I'd LOVE that. I've also always thought about what would be the difference between great acting and a genuine emotion. Some actors I'm sure put themselves in an emotion and have a genuine expression so would that affect how a specific actor's baseline is determined?
@xxyes8879
Жыл бұрын
I would love to see a video on that too, but it might be hard for spidey to do it on his own - might need to team up with a good actor
@MWah747
Жыл бұрын
Adam Sandler in "uncut geeems". He did a good job.
Ben Affleck's look about being at the Grammy Awards would probably be my own look, having to be there. There's nothing wrong with not having the same taste in music and not wanting to be in a room full of people much younger than yourself, and I have the feeling, that's where Ben's head is at. He's there because he's doing the "husbandy" thing to do, being there with his wife. But does he *want* to be there? I highly doubt it...and I can't blame him. I'd be waiting for the night to end, as well. 😁
@deannalassiter2088
Жыл бұрын
Except you must have missed it when she quietly chastised him
@charismahornum-fries691
Жыл бұрын
Pretty arrogant and conceded. It's one of her most important nights of the year business wise and he acts like a toddler without his toys. It's making them look bad. (Her reaction too by the way)
@jasonhartless3797
Жыл бұрын
It's really difficult to pretend to be happy when you're not.
@derekhunter5040
Жыл бұрын
@@charismahornum-fries691 "Pretty arrogant and conceded." Umm... It's Ben Afleck, what else would you expect?
@derekhunter5040
Жыл бұрын
@@charismahornum-fries691 also to concede is to acknowledge or give in, he's actually conceited.
I really loved this one Spidey! It’s Saturday morning here in Maui and this uplifting and entertaining analysis was a great way to start the day. I appreciate the way you use your own gestures illustrators and facial expressions to emphasize and explain. The list of written options combined with added pictures and your very expressive and engaging personality makes learning so much easier and fun. Mahalo!🌺
LOL your examples that you act out are so on point. They make me laugh and help me understand! Thanks for all you do. You alone got me into body language, then I mentioned you to my dad and he said he knows you! He is a novice mentalist and advanced magician! You rock Spidey!
@TheBehavioralArts
Жыл бұрын
Ooooo that’s awesome! He must be a huge hit at family events 😊
@BluEyed.Alicat
Жыл бұрын
@@TheBehavioralArts especially when I was a kid! ❤️❤️thanks for replying- so cool. Can’t wait for your next video 😊
8:33 wow! That was really beautiful... I noticed he was waiting for her but then everything else... Wow, how genuinely gracious and thoughtful.
I would love to see you analyze the litigants on judge Judy, especially ones she accuses of lying or says she doesn’t believe them. 😊
@Whoamidontknow17707
Жыл бұрын
Great idea!
@smiley27b
Жыл бұрын
I love that idea!
@Woolhelm
Жыл бұрын
Me too, great idea 😃
@Soshi701
Жыл бұрын
Judge Judy is scripted.
@shoshanadepaz8321
Жыл бұрын
Yes I'd love to see that
Spidey, for the first singer in the red dress, when she had the bilateral arm shrug where the elbows came out, I felt that it represented making a space and stepping into it. In other words, she said “ my mom believed me that I was a girl “, and she had a moment of relief in saying that (a mental/emotional process to say that), then the elbows was to make space. Her confidence rose and her elbows made space and walked into what is her current self. All in a split second.
I'm low-key obsessed with anything you cover, Spidey. Sometimes, we don't know what would be interesting to us, until you learn a little about it. Since finding your channel, my interest has peaked and can't get enough. Thanks for sharing your experience and being relatable
Harry’s manager, Tommy Bruce, has been a part of my extended family since he was about 10 years old. According to Tommy, Harry is a really nice person and that is clearly reflected here.
@raqraqwolf
Жыл бұрын
❤
With Kim’s arm gesture: I don’t really think this is what it is in this situation, but sometimes if I’m wearing a dress or top that is a bit uncomfortable I will move my arms in that way to make a slight adjustment or make myself a bit more comfortable. I think because of how the gesture lines up with what she is saying it’s more likely to be one of the reasons you mentioned, but thought it’s worth noting that those fancy award dresses can be a bit uncomfortable, not breathable, or feel a bit unnatural so I might subconsciously look for a moment where I can adjust myself.
@skwerl81
Жыл бұрын
I was actually thinking along the same lines, but wondering if it was more about her not wanting to move her shoulders bc of the fit of the dress. Like, feeling like she's sort of vacuum sealed in her dress, so not wanting to mess up the way it's fitting on her... so just moving arms instead of shoulders. I hope that makes sense!
@TSquare7741
Жыл бұрын
And it seems likes Kim has a bit of difficulty walking in their shoes… 🤔
@O2life
Жыл бұрын
I thought of that, too. Sometimes the shoulder straps are just a little loose and it feels like any sudden movements might make them slip right off. I'm definitely not going to be shoulder shrugging wearing that.
@mary-janereallynotsarah684
Жыл бұрын
@@skwerl81 vacuum sealed in her dress 😄 I love how u put that. Yeah that dress was super tight and she has the veil. Looks great but must be uncomfortable.
This is one of the most valuable channels I've ever come across. Your analyses are always spot on, you educate us in such an entertaining way, and this video in particular just made my day. I have never considered your content to be negative, but I do agree that the conscious focus on the positive energy is a breath of fresh air in a world that's so negatively oriented. Moreover, these artists are our role models and it's nice to realize that they're just wonderful people :).
Love, love, love this video, Spidey- so fascinating and just a pleasure to learn things from your knowledge bank and fair-minded presentation. That Harry Stiles moment started out right also because Trevor Noah is an aware and generous man - taking almost an awkward amount of time stop, cross over a bunch of people, and include the fan/guest in the presentation. I loved that, too. I've got to say, being able to do these spontaneous things at such a huge venue also takes a secure sense of self because it's going off script for what's "supposed" to happen. Loved seeing all the people you showed here. (Re J-Lo and Ben, it must really stink to be having a glitchy day when you're famous!)
@barbaraclair7494
Жыл бұрын
That was a class move by Trevor!
@rebirthoftragedy
Жыл бұрын
His best video, for sure.
The more I learn about Harry Styles the more I find he is a super genuine and kind person, and a lot of people seem to feel the same way about him. Your analysis just reinforces my opinion !
Also love your line readings! When you imagine and state the possible inner dialogue and act it out with the body language and facial expression - Fabulous and such a value!
Loved the analysis on Harry, he really is an extremely kind soul❤️
@LoveFitsAll
Жыл бұрын
I read that as sold out. Yes he's sold out
@Andreacosta448
Жыл бұрын
@@LoveFitsAll 😂😂
@LoveFitsAll
Жыл бұрын
@Andrea Acosta good sport. He does seem nice tho
@bbsv13
Жыл бұрын
He literally spit on someone
@mariee.5912
Жыл бұрын
@@bbsv13 that wasn't true.
People yelling at Harry like he gave the award to himself…it was so sad. I understand wanting Beyoncé to win but it wasn’t Harry’s fault that she didn’t.
I wouldve placed Harry Styles into the "people collector" group. Sure he enjoyed the experience and wants to take it in, but his focus was imidiantly on the people around him. The way he engaged with that lady and the other nominies made me think shareing this moment with them was his top priority.
@TheBehavioralArts
Жыл бұрын
Yeah that’s great reasoning and the truth is if you communicated with him with that in mind it would be quite successful. Like I said a lot of people have two collections and he can very well be experiences and people. The vibe checks out 100%
@nostalji75
Жыл бұрын
@@TheBehavioralArts Thank you for your affirmation! I see myself mostly in the second category: collector of "knowledge and information", so naturally I love your systeme and this channel in general. Super insightful as always
Do you think when Harry was on the stage hugging the fan, that it was also an opportunity for him to take a moment with his back to the crowd, connect on a one to one basis with someone, to compose & ground himself, before going to make his speech?
@TheBehavioralArts
Жыл бұрын
Oooooo great call. Very possible
As someone’s who’s first language is not English, I think that your are right in saying her behavior is based on the fact that what she said will do. Often when I get things wrong, I do the same. I just realized some of this myself, with you pointing it out. Thanks!
@TheHartsa
Жыл бұрын
I love Spidey's videos because I get it all the time that I find myself doing exactly what Spidey's pointing out. It increases trust to his analysis because there are many things that we can confirm that are from our own life.
Wow Spidey. This one was such a pleasure to watch. And it helped shine some light on a part of my personality that I had denied myself for a long time : I collect moments and experiences. It’s just who I am. Going through a difficult break up right now, from my best relationship ever, but the wind has changed and life takes me elsewhere. Takes me inward. Thank you for making this very positive video on such a sunny day. Bisoux from Montreal.
I really respect Sam for not saying anything and letting Kim take her moment. I think it’s a great way for people to show and give class.❤️
@mistybehaviours
Жыл бұрын
Until he asked everyone to get up
I really enjoyed the profiling information and would love more! Thank you for this video. I really appreciate how you share your wisdom and insight with kindness, compassion, and a fun spirit instead of using it to cut people down and be critical. I always feel uplifted after watching you.
So much support from this consumer! What a fun and positive video! Thank you Spidey for bringing some joy into this week
Yet another fantastic video. Thanks Spidey. I always watch your videos with fascination. I’m even slowly working my way through past videos that you posted before I found your channel. Today’s video was both fascinating and really sweet. I also hadn’t seen Harry Styles win and acceptance speech until I watched your video. I think seeing you talk about it like this heightened my appreciation for his moment and graciousness as well.
Really loved this! Again, like your previous video, I really enjoyed you breaking down your own performances and techniques. I would love to see more about profiling and your own performances. Appreciated the lighter and happier analysis as well! Thanks Spidey!
Full face cover: overwhelming awe. That's what the movement always says to me. Could be sadness, etc, but overwhelming awe on top.
Spidey I really enjoy your break downs. I watch other body language channels but your content is very informative and insightful. Thank you! You’re very talented. ❤
I love this one, it’s one of my favorites. The positive focus and the Harry Styles interpretation made me smile. Thank you thank you. I learn so much from you. I’ve studied Meyers Briggs for years to the point I’m able to accurately(for the most part) choose which of the personality types a person is. I’m so excited to read the new book you mentioned. I’m also excited to learn the “collector model” you presented. you’re awesome and I appreciate you ❤
@TheBehavioralArts
Жыл бұрын
You will LOVE 6 minute X-ray. I find it much more simple and applicable to every day life than Myers Briggs personally.
@bobbiefrederick3819
Жыл бұрын
Enjoyed this very much. Hoping you will be doing a Vanderpump Rules interpretation in future posts.
Another great analysis Spidey.. Thank you!!! I'm definitely learning, I'm finding it so much easier to spot things that used to take me a few relooks. Wishing you all the best on the travels and shows/conferences you have lined up.. Take care of yourself 🤗💛
I love your videos and the way you express your knowledge. You blew my mind with the collectors!!! Thank you so much Spidey 💖
You're interesting, engaging, kind and I love your content! I was super excited about the profiling, even got out my notebook to write it down... would love to see more 🙏
This was a really fun video. I love that you analyzed lots of people and reactions, not just one or two. That makes the event come alive in a completely different way. Thank you!
Wow, I loved the profiling. I think it's fascinating! I would really enjoy learning more. Thanks for a fantastic job as always!
I love the way you analyze people and situations and I also love the way you show examples by your expressions which makes me understand the feeling behind what you are saying. I would love to sit down and have a conversation with you spend the day with you and then have you tell me what kind of person I am! LOL I can relate to a lot of things you say and I appreciate your videos so much. Sending love and hugs.... Linda
Spidey, I love how you focus so often on kindness. It says so much about you. Thank you for the tips at the end. I’m a moments and experiences person myself.
Yay!! Grabbing a popcorn and ready for another insightful analysis 😁
@Whoamidontknow17707
Жыл бұрын
Please share, I’m all out of popcorn! Lol 😆😉
One of the best videos you have put forth. I particularly like that you interrupt your own dialogue to show the moments that you are talking about for reference. Much more engaging than having to jump back to review. Well done.
I love you doing this Spidey! Love focusing on happy moments to see very genuine and natural/normal behaviors etc. Sam Smith seemed like such the gentleperson for being that way toward kim. Letting her have her moment. Sam really comes off as considerate, kind, conscientious, respectful, loving, gentle, gracious, and so many good things. I like this moment specifically top, because I think it is really revealing about who is truly is.
Here within an hour. Thank you for all the awesome content! Body language analysis is so much fun 😊
@raqraqwolf
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When you said Harry Styles with moments and experiences, makes me think of all the random videos I've seen of him at his concerts where he has personally connected with someone (fan) in the audience and given them a moment in the spotlight. Same as with Ed Sheeran. Laid back, people focused, humble and kind.
I'm SO glad I subscribed to your channel. Every video I watch teaches me something that I am glad to know. I love that you're a good person & I respect your skills and what you do with them. Thanks!
I appreciate your love and appreciation of people! It is almost infectious. And I really appreciate your doing more human analysis. The BP are great at interviews and interrogations and we love them for that, but you share insights that are more 'people watching'. And it makes a good contrast. I'd love to see you, Rob, and Chase just watching random people and gossiping about their stories!
I find everything you talk about so fascinating! I’m trying to absorb as much information from you as possible as I have a loved one who continuously lies to and manipulates me. Thank you so much for your content! Keep it coming!
LOVE the profiling lesson/tips at the end!! Would love lots more of that kind of content! It added so much, in context with the content that’s already amazing. Thanks, Spidey! 🙏
I think this is my favorite of all your videos. LOVE the positive spin on body language analysis and the “collectors” analogy. Would love a deeper dive into how to use those insights to connect and communicate better with people in our lives. We need a Spidey Master Class!
Yowza! How informative Spidey!! Got Harry right with moments and experiences! I'm learning so much from you! 💖
I couldn’t help myself from sharing these wonderful lyrics that have always been precious to me. “I can't remember all the times I tried to tell my myself To hold on to these moments as they pass” Adam Duritz and Counting Crows
Love your videos! Nice to see Chase Hughes get a shout out. He and the Behavior Panel are great. I find your analysis of people very much in line with what I learned from them. I really enjoy your stuff! Plus it's nice to see a Canadian in the field!
I always enjoy every video of yours sooo much! It's amazing how 46 mins go by, listening to your explanations about behaviour. Thank you so much 😊
Oh I didn't know any of this was a thing😂 If it's a Spidey upload I'm here!🤗♥️ Thank you, love to you and family 🥰🐢🐍
It’s not that I loved the profiling information at the end but I actually found it to be some of the most useful Information you’ve shared and I’m already thinking about people in my life and what they collect. Also seeing it applied in your performance was incredible. Interrogators don’t get that validation because they keep what they see to themselves. It’s crazy that you present the profile and get that confirmation that you nailed it. Wow wow wow
Love the profiling info added in here! Such a fun extra element to cover in your videos. I checked out the book 6 minute X-ray & it is 🔥!
I didn't think I'd enjoy this as much as your other videos as I'm not that interested in the rich and famous. However, I enjoyed it immensely and learned such a lot. You showed that they are people, with responses, joys and heartaches like all of us. Thankyou for showing the universality of body language and how much we all have in common, famous or not.
Harry-moments/experiences; people!! Love this Spidey!!! I was sooo hoping you would do some of these types of +ve analyses!! AWESOME!!💯💯👏🏽👏🏽
It's very interesting what you said about the mouth blocking during experiencing the emotions. I think the most common sign of it we can see on all the proposal videos where so many usually girls cover their mouth and I think it also may show their insecurities, like maybe my teeth aren't 100% what I'd like them to be, maybe my mom was telling me all my life to cover my mouth or not keep them opened, maybe I am insecure about my facial expression when I am showing that shock, or simply I am not sur eif my lipstick hasn't bled on my teeth. Food for thought eh?
@yourcommentmakesmecomment.3423
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Totally agree! I always cover my mouth when I'm laughing in public because I hate my teeth. I don't want to do it and it's very deliberate. I also stop myself from giving a big bright smile and that often makes me look like I'm smirking. I hate it but I'm still not prepared to show my crooked front teeth. It sucks and I'm not blocking my '' true feelings'' about a person or situation, except maybe my self hate lol.
@MsLaurjean
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Me too!
I would 100% love to learn more about profiling!! I never miss your videos, Spidey. They’re one of the highlights of my week🤩
This was amazing!! I always so appreciate your analysis and learning more about the many things you share. I found the profiling extremely fascinating and would love to better understand how to tell which type of a collector each person is.
Oh my gosh, I love this concept of grouping types of collectors! Understanding more about this could be so helpful in lots of ways!
That moment between Jen and Ben was really funny. I would love to know what he said 😂. Yes, please do videos on how you profile! That’s so interesting how you can pick up on things so early in meeting someone.
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I’m pretty sure J-Lo is saying “don’t drink, don’t drink” & Ben replies “Relax”. His face is saying “I need a drink”, so it wouldn’t surprise me if that’s what he said to her! 😂
Waw! This was incredible Spidey, as always! I'd love to have more content about profiling, it's so intersting. I'm definitely a collector of moments and experiences and and my boyfriend of knowledge. I often tried to make him want to do more and he's always surprised that I don't necessarily want to know more. Now it's clear! It's gonna change so much about our own perspectives. I love that! Thank you!!
Profiling sounds so super interesting! The whole collectors theory is fascinating! You yourself, Spidey, seem to be a mix of collector of things and experiences, based on what I've noticed. I am eager to hear more!
I just want to note that Black women often have hairstyles (lace wigs or braids) that *can* limit eyebrow and forehead movement in the same way Botox would. Not saying Beyoncé was wearing a wig, just throwing that out there because it reminded me and it’s good to know culturally as we analyze body language. Another great video. I don’t watch the Grammys but knew this would be a gem. So much to unpack. By the way, Spidey, your videos have made me a better writer. It’s become more and more effortless to show and not tell. So thank you!
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Thats a good point, it also brings up high pointy tails, I use to wear the high pointy tail frequently years ago and it pulled on my forehead a bit so it limitted forehead movement. Good observation!
The seat filler from JLo & Ben's table posted a video. She said they were lovey dovey & cute all night. The moment you covered was actually JLo showing Ben that he was a meme again for his "I do not want to be here" expressions/vibe. I'm not a huge fan of either of them, but they do seem to be truly in love so I hope they last.
I did not see the Grammy Awards, so did not see the J-Lo and Ben Affleck spot first run. As I watched it here, my first thought was that they were part of the joke. To me, they looked as if they were acting a part for the camera. I thought it was funny.
This was really fun! I really enjoy learning from your videos😊 I would love to see more on profiling. I work in a really diverse profession, and I think this could help me understand people better in order to promote the best interactions with them!
I loved this episode. You blow me away with your analysis. The way you explain things. Sheesh! I think you were spot on discussing people in this situation. I am a Harry Styles fan. It was the first thing I noticed when he won. (Real time) As an older woman that loves Harry I really related to his graciously giving the spotlight to her. I do love Harry's music, but more than that his interactions with people and experiences. Thank you for what you do
Affleck is a big baby child. He can't stand putting her first.
Great analysis as always Spidey! Love your reviews just wholesome and transparent. TY 4 your information. Always welcome
What a fun video!!! This was a perfectly refreshing video and so much fun!
You are great at this! Thanks for the valuable learning
I definitely reckon Ben Affleck took the opportunity to tease J Lo because his body language is the exact same as my dad's, who always pretended to be put out when he got told to stop lol. It's the exact reaction he's looking for. And then he pretends he's only just seen the camera & nothing is up. It's all exaggerated which tells me he's mucking around. Particularly because he knows he's a grumpy meme, & he really played that up all night lol. If you're sober at a drinking event, you have to make your own fun lol.
Brilliant. Your analysis really helped me enjoy these moments at the Grammies. You're a pro, and so gracious. Thank you!
Loveing this one! Its upbeat and a nice switch, with a great valuable end! Awesome peek behind the curtain there! Love 6mx indeed, this collecting idea is a nice add to the human needs map haha. Would be cool if you and chase did another little collab where you compare the profiling tools you both use in day to day life and just add on eachothers knowledge and have some fun with that 😄 Love your little gettogethers 😉
I think it was a combination between hiding vulnerability, and trying to be polite. I believe Kim was really nervous because it was her first win, and it can be scary to stand in front of a huge audience. Love your analysis, Spidey!
This was so good. I really love your analysis of Beyonce. It's spot on. She's expressed before that she has social anxiety and doesn't like being the center of attention unless when she is performing.
Another wonderful video Spidey!!! And yes I would love more videos on profiling and learning other topics. Love this channel! You are amazing person and do such an amazing job!
Thank you for the info on collection at the end…loved it!
You can make the general public believe you feel any emotion based on your eyes. It's why people think im upbeat, happy-go-lucky and generally leave others feeling upbeat. I pull everything up to my eyes. I drop the mask for offensive people. Edit: spidey just did this talking about jolo/Ben. To appear more authentic, give a very light giggle while smiling at the public. Your smile is more real regardless of your real feelings.
Harry was so nervous my poor baby, people started yelling “beyonce should’ve won” that’s part of why he was so emotional in his speech.
Thank you Spidey! Lovely. You are the Best!! I would love to learn more about profiling❣️❣️. 6:22pm
I absolutely LOVE everything about this analysis! Thank you for doing this on an event such as the Grammys, I've never seen an analysis like it and you are absolutely PHENOMENAL.