Blaine Larsen - How Do You Get That Lonely

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  • @tylerhart6928
    @tylerhart69283 жыл бұрын

    Its not just loneliness. Its emptiness that cant be explained. No matter how many people love you no matter how many people support you you can still feel empty and alone

  • @cheshirekat3050

    @cheshirekat3050

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's the despair. You feel like you've been fighting your whole life to be the person that everyone expects you to be, but eventually the chronic stress, sleep-deprivation, and general cruelty of those around you, and the apathy of those you try to talk to about what you're going through, just wear you down; and you feel many many years older than you really are. 'Till finally you just can't take any more; and you reach for that bottle of sleeping pills, or that razor, or that gun. Even the void of non-existence, is preferable to a living hell with no end in sight.

  • @spctwitchy

    @spctwitchy

    2 жыл бұрын

    I feel that everyday..

  • @cheshirekat3050

    @cheshirekat3050

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@spctwitchy I am sorry. That was what my life was like every day, in high school. I eventually made it through; but I still have PTSD from those years. I suppose that I'll always carry those scars with me. Is school the source of your depression, too?

  • @spctwitchy

    @spctwitchy

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@cheshirekat3050 I'm 28 medically retired from the army because of my suicidal ideations. Medication only does so much

  • @cheshirekat3050

    @cheshirekat3050

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@spctwitchy I'm so sorry. My uncle's time in the military drove him to become an alcoholic. It took years for him to beat his addiction. Did you apply to have get a PTSD service dog? I hear that the military pays for all of your medical needs, for life, as long as you were honorably discharged.

  • @lindacreater7465
    @lindacreater74653 ай бұрын

    Tomorrow, my brother would have been 43 years old. We lost him when he was 23 years old. He will be gone 20 years this August. I miss him as much today as I did the day we lost him.

  • @5150az

    @5150az

    2 ай бұрын

    This song was written about my Brother, Todd Wooton (10th Mountain) I miss him every day. He took his life while sitting next to a River he used to fish on. lindacreater7465, some days are better than other days, I am sorry for your loss. I know it is tough, we just fight for the next day.

  • @newyawkgiants5877

    @newyawkgiants5877

    2 ай бұрын

    @@5150azI’m 10th Mount and I know a lot of Brothers and Sisters have you in their hands. Some are confused about losing a Brother or Sister. I am not! Your Brother is a hero in my eyes. I’m near that point seriously,trying to reach out, but I’m not getting anyone. I’m here for you all. You don’t know how much to hear about someone else that was my Brother I wish I was there for him. I will never forget him, I’m not going anywhere and he will help me help more. My kids don’t believe me and my so called friends are not answering

  • @N3isfree

    @N3isfree

    Ай бұрын

    Rest easy 🕊️

  • @user-gh7hb1kc4q

    @user-gh7hb1kc4q

    9 күн бұрын

    💔😢💔😔

  • @beckykeyes7522
    @beckykeyes752211 ай бұрын

    I don't think a lot of people understand this song isn't about the loneliness but more about how do the ones around us not see the pain until it's too late ❤

  • @bryan5274

    @bryan5274

    10 ай бұрын

    Because mental illness has no time period or specific actions they have to do, most likely the family members had heard it other times and most people do just blow off steam and never follow through with it because that's right down the strike lane. It is the easiest way out of, long suffering as it said to do

  • @guesswho6946

    @guesswho6946

    9 ай бұрын

    For sure! Our grandaon didn't. He was a gamer and his last message said he was lonely. I just heard this song roday. Too many young are taking their lives.

  • @mD-du5ih

    @mD-du5ih

    7 ай бұрын

  • @mD-du5ih

    @mD-du5ih

    7 ай бұрын

    ❤😢

  • @beckykeyes7522

    @beckykeyes7522

    7 ай бұрын

    @jbrown4137 completely agree! However, I think our loved ones are left questioning all they didn't see. "Was there something I could've done?" "Maybe I didn't say or show how much I loved them." ❤️ it's a sad cycle and honestly no one knows how bad a person is hurting because most times it's amazingly hidden

  • @Vanessa-jz6zn
    @Vanessa-jz6zn Жыл бұрын

    Depression is like drowning, but there's no water and no way to come up.

  • @drakehonest9

    @drakehonest9

    8 ай бұрын

    Hey how are you doing today?

  • @AngelleahASMR

    @AngelleahASMR

    3 ай бұрын

    Me.daily

  • @bsociety4647

    @bsociety4647

    2 ай бұрын

    Exactly 😔

  • @nattressjohn

    @nattressjohn

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes it is it sucks

  • @anthonycurrens2651

    @anthonycurrens2651

    7 күн бұрын

    Yes and loving someone who doesn't feel the same way doesn't help

  • @chaoticcat6787
    @chaoticcat67874 ай бұрын

    You know, even years later this song still gets to me. My buddy in the Marines lost his fight.. no one saw it coming, I almost lost mine after that. I'm here today because of my wife. It's a struggle, not everyone manages to work through it sadly.

  • @idontwanttosaymynameonyout1486
    @idontwanttosaymynameonyout14862 жыл бұрын

    I wish people understood that it isn’t about being lonely. You can have a room full of people around you who say they love you but when you’re depressed it doesn’t matter.

  • @jssamp4442

    @jssamp4442

    Жыл бұрын

    So right. When the chemicals in your brain are not right, you don't get the expected results. Things that would normally make you feel good just can't. The right Seratonin and Dopamine levels.

  • @DragonbMaster12

    @DragonbMaster12

    Жыл бұрын

    Just because the say the love doesn’t mean they do. People I know from online and school care about me more than my family

  • @robertkemp185

    @robertkemp185

    Жыл бұрын

    People who suffer to the point of contemplating suicide … usually have experienced so much trauma in their lives (childhood or as an adult). Untreated it can destroy lives and/or take them away

  • @jssamp4442

    @jssamp4442

    Жыл бұрын

    @robertkemp185 I don't know the statistics on that. I can only say it is true in my case. I was lucky because my gun misfired, and I got the help I needed. Finally got the right diagnosis and medicine so that I can get back to living again. As a nation, our record and approach to mental health has been appalling. But it looks to be turning a corner. There is still a lot to do removing the stigma attached to mental health problems.

  • @brandenmcguire1806

    @brandenmcguire1806

    Жыл бұрын

    You can be in a relationship and still feel lonely! It depends on whether you're important to the one you love.

  • @erinking5013
    @erinking5013 Жыл бұрын

    It's the worst feeling in the world. Loneliness is a pain that forms a hole to the point you're numb. You don't feel wanted, loved, or appreciated... and worst yet... you don't feel like you exist... you feel completely invisible, especially when you cry out for help. It's like no one hears you.... it's painful...beyond words.

  • @jamiekreiner5543

    @jamiekreiner5543

    9 ай бұрын

    Ya that's os true when you have a man that says he loves you and doesn't show

  • @backinherarms

    @backinherarms

    7 ай бұрын

    Exactly Right

  • @sharonsanders3062

    @sharonsanders3062

    6 ай бұрын

    So true

  • @anthonyhaney4036

    @anthonyhaney4036

    4 ай бұрын

    It's the fact that you feel invisible. That your just gonna ge judged for opening up about your hurt. Your confusion. Abiut how you don't know how to get rid of the feeling.

  • @richardstevens5008

    @richardstevens5008

    4 ай бұрын

    @erinking5013 it's even worse yet when those you do say something to about how you're feeling just ignore it and pretend that what you say doesn't matter.

  • @mcgirlletsgo7135
    @mcgirlletsgo71355 ай бұрын

    Sometimes it feels like it would be so much easier to just slip away. No more pressure to be an adult. No more worry about taking care of everyone around u and finances. Just peace.

  • @nattressjohn

    @nattressjohn

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes exactly it hurts so bad

  • @AngelleahASMR

    @AngelleahASMR

    2 ай бұрын

    @@nattressjohn how are you doing today? What makes you smile?

  • @AngelleahASMR

    @AngelleahASMR

    2 ай бұрын

    It's not peaceful, it's absent of life. All things good and bad, ying and yang. Look for good even if it's just in today.

  • @fatalskull

    @fatalskull

    Ай бұрын

    Not the answer we have to believe that it will get better. This world has a way of breaking us down we just can’t let it win. There is a plan and it seems distant but he will get you through just talk to god he can heal. I know cause I tried that dark path and he showed me the light. My friend tried the other night but I called on him and he saved his life.

  • @imareal7625
    @imareal76259 жыл бұрын

    That was Blaine Larsen in the pickup. He wrote this song while still in high school after a friend took his own life. Both his voice and wisdom were beyond his years; his music touches the soul.

  • @MrCrowebobby

    @MrCrowebobby

    9 жыл бұрын

    The song was written by Rory Lee Feek and Jamie Teachenor as a tribute of and dedication to the memory of Lance Emmitt, of Mount Pleasant, Tennessee, the son of Mack Emmitt and Gloria Renee Thomason Mash. Lance Emmitt had committed suicide on Nov. 11, 2003. He was just 19.[2] The song opens with reference to a small news item about the suicide of a young man.

  • @joseyspergon7795

    @joseyspergon7795

    7 жыл бұрын

    I was in A horrific car accident which killed my fiance in August 1991 an left me in A chair this song means so much to me it touches my soul I die 3 times so there is A reason why I hear. So I couldn't make the call when I fought to live..

  • @charitycalvert2798

    @charitycalvert2798

    Жыл бұрын

    Sorry sweetie but wrong Rory Feek wrote that song

  • @aaroncoffman88
    @aaroncoffman885 жыл бұрын

    Most people (Thank GOD!) don't understand the darkness.That inner voice that reminds you you are worthless, helpless, a burden to you and those you love. Most people don't understand the stuggle to get out of bed in the morning and do your best even though you know it won't be anywhere near enough. Suicide doesn't seem like just an end to your own pain but a way to ease the pain of those around you because they will no longer have to deal with you. Please pray for those with depression they are fighting battles eveyday

  • @donnapulliam4477

    @donnapulliam4477

    4 жыл бұрын

    According to my son's note he left, this is absolutely true. He said he didn't want to be a burden anymore and was tired of the temptations of alcohol and wanted me to know it wasn't my fault in any way and wanted me to have a happy life. I miss him with my every breath and will until I take my last.💔😢💔

  • @user-zq7gl9tx3y

    @user-zq7gl9tx3y

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@donnapulliam4477 I'm so sorry for your loss ! I had a nephew , may they be at peace now !+

  • @jays3330

    @jays3330

    4 жыл бұрын

    I lost son to suicide, 5 years ago.. since than I lost my marriage, n good paying job, n I think about not living everyday... But I know my other 4 kids need me.. but I feel useless n helpless bc I'm stuck in a world that I don't want to be in.. I know that battle everyday n struggle to get out of bed everyday

  • @user-zq7gl9tx3y

    @user-zq7gl9tx3y

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@jays3330 my sister also struggles daily as a result from her son's suicide . I feel her pain as well as my own . plz don't give up ! Your other children need you more than you could ever imagine . try to stay strong ! My sister and I do fundraisers and walk for life annually , just to try and bring awareness to the world . its hard , but make the life you lost bring good things to others in need . he will always be w you ! My sister also , finally after 5 years joined a support group that has helped her deal w some of hwr pain . God bless you always !

  • @danielsmelser5765

    @danielsmelser5765

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @davidbeckham1760
    @davidbeckham1760 Жыл бұрын

    Unfortunately there are too many people that feel that lonely. Let's try to cut that down by being kind and helpful to each other.

  • @gailwilson7577

    @gailwilson7577

    4 ай бұрын

    My man feels that way everyday 😢he's very secluded dnt want noone around him talks all the time about leaving this life

  • @jacksondickson5487

    @jacksondickson5487

    4 ай бұрын

    @@gailwilson7577I’m with it I’m getting close to it too ain’t got too much longer

  • @BrandonDickenson35

    @BrandonDickenson35

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@gailwilson7577seek help though the othe ppl that love him. You gain power as a collective, and also will maginify a group of people that appreciate him. Even if he had no family, he has ppl he encou ters day to day that "see" his place and impact on the world. Don't hesitate, your time could be well running out.

  • @pamelahuffman7461

    @pamelahuffman7461

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@gailwilson7577mine is the same way so sad😢

  • @pamelahuffman7461

    @pamelahuffman7461

    4 ай бұрын

    Good 👍idea the world would be a better place if we're just kind to one another❤

  • @michellebarnes707
    @michellebarnes707 Жыл бұрын

    I BROKE DOWN WHEN I HEARD THIS SONG..... BECAUSE IT IS AS IF IT WAS WRITTEN FOR ME...I DON'T THINK IT CAN EVER BE SAID ANY BETTER THAN THIS...... AMAZING INSIGHT!!!!!!!!

  • @sarahbatchelor2542

    @sarahbatchelor2542

    10 ай бұрын

    I grew up in a meth head home, alone in the two kids from my husband who is beaten by his dad with two kids. We are a family of sex and I will fight for them no matter what or who! ❤ We've been together ten years

  • @brittanytrujeque-boyer1158
    @brittanytrujeque-boyer11585 жыл бұрын

    They don't want to die, they just want the pain to finally stop.

  • @tkvimsavage1886

    @tkvimsavage1886

    5 жыл бұрын

    That sad AF...

  • @thatBroErick

    @thatBroErick

    5 жыл бұрын

    I just want the pain to stop also. I wish i could stop screwing everything up. I wish i was never born.

  • @heatherlovell6502

    @heatherlovell6502

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@thatBroErick 💜

  • @catherinerumbarger4539

    @catherinerumbarger4539

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jiu Jitsu Dragon, do you have a way I can contact you?

  • @JayDineroBandz

    @JayDineroBandz

    5 жыл бұрын

    💯

  • @keithmercer7015
    @keithmercer70154 жыл бұрын

    Its hard to keep going when you're facing depression. Its like a constant voice telling you youre better dead. When youre depressed you tell ypurself no one knows. You hide it because you feel like a burden

  • @76BobcatVillager

    @76BobcatVillager

    4 жыл бұрын

    You hide it because you feel like a burden

  • @didyaknowit

    @didyaknowit

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @timconnors9744

    @timconnors9744

    4 жыл бұрын

    I relate

  • @niccidymora5743

    @niccidymora5743

    4 жыл бұрын

    Keith Mercer so true

  • @dianajohnson6330

    @dianajohnson6330

    4 жыл бұрын

    feel broken no one cares of your feelings.

  • @sherylaltvater1875
    @sherylaltvater18755 ай бұрын

    There are many reasons why we feel empty and alone.. no one will ever understand our reasons why.. this song makes me cry but also drives me to push forward

  • @crystalizeddreamer6272
    @crystalizeddreamer62729 ай бұрын

    I can never forget how many times this has spoken so deeply to me and so many people. It breaks my heart...

  • @JeremyXSinging
    @JeremyXSinging2 жыл бұрын

    It's been 15yrs since I've tried committing suicide and now I work in a mental hospital helping people through their suicide attempts. I listen to the song when it first came out and I'm still listening to it today because it really hits home for me not only because of the attempt but it helps me save lives at my job. Thank you Blaine Larson.

  • @joycemoss6205

    @joycemoss6205

    2 жыл бұрын

    your story gives hope! God bless you!

  • @joshh7332

    @joshh7332

    Жыл бұрын

    You are awesome! Keep it up

  • @margarethester4019

    @margarethester4019

    Жыл бұрын

    Blessed be

  • @bourneleader8001

    @bourneleader8001

    Жыл бұрын

    I love you ! Thank you for the love you put into life. I wish you happiness

  • @alisahubartt2209

    @alisahubartt2209

    Жыл бұрын

    I know the loneliness depression causes. Growing up with careless parents, being the shy girl whos always judged and put down, wondering why you're here, feeling like dieing, cutting not for show but to take pain off your heart, pretending you arent hurting yet crying every night im alone. It took a lot of fighting within myself to over look horrible, angry, selfish people and make myself happy and push past feeling empty. Still some part of me, when thinking about the past, can make my heart hurt a bit but now its more of a disappointment that it happened but I can look up now and be able to smile a real smile. That battle takes time, even a few kind words from even one stranger can make the world of difference. I try to be that person now who will lift another person with a smile and kind words ❤

  • @gavinpickens4009
    @gavinpickens40094 жыл бұрын

    It's a fight some don't win. It's hard to explain what you feel in your head. I've been there and still fight every day.

  • @jasoncook6232

    @jasoncook6232

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @judycarter538

    @judycarter538

    3 жыл бұрын

    💕

  • @shaylaroberts7592

    @shaylaroberts7592

    3 жыл бұрын

    Glad you're still here ❤

  • @loganmegginson8644

    @loganmegginson8644

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @pritilady

    @pritilady

    2 жыл бұрын

    Very true.... getting that lonely and nobody knows happens more then you know.

  • @davidgrant2772
    @davidgrant2772 Жыл бұрын

    It's not just feeling lonely. You feel isolated. You feel like you're just watching life go by and you're not part of life anymore. It's a fight that you fight and one you know you may not win. It's a demon inside you know could win at anytime. You feel attacked. You feel like you're always on the edge. One bad day could send you over the edge. It's when you look in the mirror and try to convince yourself that you can live today. Then you tell yourself the same the next day and the next day and the next day and you pray today isn't the day when you can't tell yourself that anymore.

  • @jknoll3515

    @jknoll3515

    9 ай бұрын

    Yes thats the mindset you are in when suicidal and depressed I feel this exact way. I have to fight it just to get through another day until I cant take it anymore.

  • @cardey316

    @cardey316

    8 ай бұрын

    I've never replied to anything on KZread because why but you described it perfectly. Which means you're going through it too.god bless and I hope you're still out there. Lord knows with our depression we could be gone any day. I hope you won your fight I still don't know if I'll win mine.

  • @mandybeauchamp4109

    @mandybeauchamp4109

    6 ай бұрын

    I'm at this point now. Why do things never change.

  • @lindatownsend3749
    @lindatownsend3749 Жыл бұрын

    It is a constant battle..Even when you know so many love you and admire you..there can still be an emptiness that you cannot explain. The darkness and lonliness can overshadow everything else. My wife of 8+ years walked out because she could not deal with my cancer. Days with my students are amazing but as soon as I get home..the darkness settles in. It sucks.

  • @drakehonest9

    @drakehonest9

    8 ай бұрын

    Hello 👋 how are you doing today?

  • @ianmoone9036

    @ianmoone9036

    2 ай бұрын

    Hello friend.. are you ok?

  • @benbarclay1274
    @benbarclay12744 жыл бұрын

    When you're hurting and dying nobody cares. When you're dead everyone shows

  • @heathercarangi3901

    @heathercarangi3901

    4 жыл бұрын

    People care but if they dont know becouse u dont tell them I would have done anything to stop my boyfriend from killing himself but I never new

  • @masonwilson4805

    @masonwilson4805

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's actually pretty dang true especially for my "family". I prefer the term blood relatives. No one gives a shit about anyone and when they die they put on an act. I'm the last of my bloodline that seems to care about anyone but themselves. I was abused and abused and abused by so called family. It hurts. No one knows how broken I am. I always put on a face that doesn't look broken. I tried being more open about it but no one cares to hear it. I cant trust anyone now. Not anymore. A guy who was like a brother to me turned on me all because of lies his ex told. Before that, we were like brothers. That ol boy saved my life from a suicide attempt. He sat me down afterwards, and told me he was once in my shoes. He showed me this song. Every time I get upset I listen to this song. Helps me realize I'm not actually alone. I just really wish I hadn't have lost him. I feel so alone now. He was the only friend I had. I got a last name that no one likes. All my other friends left me for either drugs or they just didnt wanna be around me for various reasons none of which were in my control. I guarentee that when ever I do die that every single one will show up. You are absolutely right.

  • @nathanblue

    @nathanblue

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ben Barclay yup, and they like to pretend like they never knew you’re hurting.

  • @Tammy-nt6cb

    @Tammy-nt6cb

    4 жыл бұрын

    Do true!

  • @hadassahpuckett

    @hadassahpuckett

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes it feels like that's. I am a child of GOD. God is always in the battle with you.

  • @jocelynpaul8615
    @jocelynpaul86155 жыл бұрын

    It is very easy to hide a broken heart and a damaged spirit with a smile you can be hurting and still let everyone think everything is okay I know this from experience I suffer from depression I can fool people all around me but I can't lie to myself

  • @nunyanunya5099

    @nunyanunya5099

    5 жыл бұрын

    So true

  • @vincentbowman9884

    @vincentbowman9884

    5 жыл бұрын

    I hide mine everyday I'm worthless

  • @vincentbowman9884

    @vincentbowman9884

    5 жыл бұрын

    I be just another story in the paper

  • @LeaderofThePack303

    @LeaderofThePack303

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@vincentbowman9884 you are not worthless. Nobody in this world ever and I mean ever is worthless. You are loved and special to those around you. I believe in you Vincent.

  • @dawnbyrnes960

    @dawnbyrnes960

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too. It's so easy to hide.

  • @veronicalhettichgoree2246
    @veronicalhettichgoree22464 ай бұрын

    24 years ago January 07, I tried ending my life. It was the voices in my head and my heart hurt that no pill could fix. I am a born again Christian and it still hit me. This type of depression hits all people. I found a relationship not religion in God that healed me. I reach out to certain people now to talk to when the depression tries to creep in. Prayers for those who suffer.

  • @Markdenson012

    @Markdenson012

    2 ай бұрын

    This song hit so differently, it speaks directly to my heart ❤️ and I can't help it so it's on repeat all day lol. Where are you from beautiful?

  • @marypambrun2004
    @marypambrun20048 ай бұрын

    My daughter has been fighting mental illness for 22 years and I just lost her to it. Why doesn't anyone pay attention. ANYMORE??

  • @Markdenson012

    @Markdenson012

    2 ай бұрын

    This song hit so differently, it speaks directly to my heart ❤️ and I can't help it so it's on repeat all day lol. Where are you from beautiful?

  • @danielnelson292
    @danielnelson2923 жыл бұрын

    Remember. Check on your friends who seem happy. The ones making everyone laugh are usually in a lot of pain themselves.

  • @isabelg7085

    @isabelg7085

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly. I have been told that I am the happiest and nicest girl but I am struggling. And suicide has become part of my life.

  • @kddavis5492

    @kddavis5492

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@isabelg7085 clowns are the saddest ppl of all

  • @kushaalprasad2178

    @kushaalprasad2178

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@isabelg7085 hope you're good now

  • @dreeve3171

    @dreeve3171

    2 жыл бұрын

    Very well said

  • @MaBoJo1

    @MaBoJo1

    2 жыл бұрын

    had a tear in my eye, this is what i do

  • @BudLangley14
    @BudLangley145 жыл бұрын

    I wish this type of Country would come back

  • @juniorjames7532

    @juniorjames7532

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jirgiaho

  • @juniorjames7532

    @juniorjames7532

    5 жыл бұрын

    @DrummerBoyUU vuuijiiihiuoiii

  • @juniorjames7532

    @juniorjames7532

    5 жыл бұрын

    @DrummerBoyUU hkuoojiiiiiiojiiiijik

  • @juniorjames7532

    @juniorjames7532

    5 жыл бұрын

    Iiegoo

  • @juniorjames7532

    @juniorjames7532

    5 жыл бұрын

    Iuegoieho

  • @heatheraycock9868
    @heatheraycock98682 жыл бұрын

    What would happen to my children when I'm gone is the only reason I'm still here 🥺😢

  • @BrandonDickenson35

    @BrandonDickenson35

    Ай бұрын

    How ya doing nowadays?

  • @heatheraycock9868

    @heatheraycock9868

    Ай бұрын

    ​@BrandonDickenson35 I honestly don't know. I have no one to talk to but my kids. Atleast I have them though. Thank you for asking I really appreciate it.

  • @jessicavasquez4535

    @jessicavasquez4535

    Ай бұрын

    Believe that you are loved. I don’t know you but I’ll hurt if you decide that life isn’t worth living.

  • @Jerushareddy7

    @Jerushareddy7

    22 күн бұрын

    I have the exact thought 😢

  • @docski6559
    @docski6559 Жыл бұрын

    It's not being lone wely but a an assortment of things. For me, survivor's guilt, PTSD, and even feeling like you need to be back in combat. There are times when I feel like can't do anything right or that I'm a burden, I have to fight the demons inside that tell me to just end it all. My saving grace and reason for life now is my daughter.

  • @jakubsztochmal5238
    @jakubsztochmal52385 жыл бұрын

    People that have never been truly lonely, will never understand, how do You get that lonely...

  • @davidfeather7861

    @davidfeather7861

    4 жыл бұрын

    Vanesssa G

  • @jamesfarr8054

    @jamesfarr8054

    4 жыл бұрын

    Very true

  • @jeremyfannon8537

    @jeremyfannon8537

    4 жыл бұрын

    Being lonely is the worst feeling ever. No comparison.

  • @billhouse8199

    @billhouse8199

    4 жыл бұрын

    I know lonely cause Ive been it my hole life

  • @humboldt218

    @humboldt218

    4 жыл бұрын

    This song is about how those close didnt see it.

  • @clintkelley1021
    @clintkelley10218 жыл бұрын

    unless you have been there, you will never understand. it isn't selfishness. it is absolute hopelessness and despair.

  • @evanwhite5400

    @evanwhite5400

    8 жыл бұрын

    I live it. I'm tired of bipolar disorder . I'm tired of being controlled why should I live? I wanna go home and be with Jesus. It is not always a selfish act to commit suicide.

  • @evanpoitra2605

    @evanpoitra2605

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Evan White I understand what you're going through, but at the same time, how could you or I take our own lives and, in doing so, tell Jesus that the life He gave us wasn't worth living. Life never gets easier, but the Lord makes us stronger, and guides us through life, and when we have grown in our faith fully, Then Jesus will call us home again. You will get stringer, you will make it friend

  • @clintkelley1021

    @clintkelley1021

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Jessica Piszczek ;)

  • @evanpoitra2605

    @evanpoitra2605

    8 жыл бұрын

    I understand, and i apologize if i criticized your pain. From my experience, God's agenda has never been to make our lives easier, and He never meant for us to feel this way. I fully believe that what we do with the crap in life we've been handed is what God is looking at. Times of depression are a completely natural part of life, but to live in that day after day is not what was intended for us. It may take years to get out of depression as it did for me, but when the day comes that the good things start happening it will be because we stop looking at everything wrong in our lives and begin looking at everything good, no matter how small the good is. and those small thoughts make all the difference in the world for me.

  • @chrismadden7728

    @chrismadden7728

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Evan White son I dont know about bi polarism but I know this son. I lost my son to an I.E.D. in Afghanastan. I have lost about 16 buddies I served with to suicide caused by PTSD. Trust me young man suicide is no answer. You will leave behind more hurt and sorry than your problem can ever cause. No my son didnt kill himself, but I have to wake up everyday and know he wont call so we can talk sports and I will never hear "I love you old man". you ever need someone to talk to Im here

  • @issyfountain9509
    @issyfountain9509 Жыл бұрын

    It's not just loneliness, it's a hopeless that consumes you while leaving you feeling empty and crippled with a pain that's indescribable. It's not wanting to die so much as wanting this pain to stop

  • @tarotinthekichen1831

    @tarotinthekichen1831

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s also the feeling of I just don’t want to exist anymore it’s to much. It can be like drowning and you feel like the world keeps tying weights to you

  • @ravenfox5876

    @ravenfox5876

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m a disabled us army veteran and I suffer so badly. This statement couldn’t have been said better

  • @Profile907

    @Profile907

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly this.

  • @stefanoperoni6059
    @stefanoperoni605910 ай бұрын

    Time will never scratch the emotions you feel in your heart when you listen to this beautiful song.

  • @babytristansmom
    @babytristansmom4 жыл бұрын

    The friendliest face is the one that is hurting the most. To make others feel good and happy. To make them feel better. Why? Because you, yourself don’t feel like you’re the best. You feel alone. Scared. Tired. Irritated. Quiet. Shy. You just want to hide and act like the present is real. You want to relive the beautiful past that you thought was beautiful. I’m still struggling. And it hurts me to see others feeling what I have felt, what I am feeling, what will happen. Being alone is sometimes a curable yet a fatal choice.

  • @ash-baby-4065

    @ash-baby-4065

    4 жыл бұрын

    Are you okay now?

  • @christophermascale2719

    @christophermascale2719

    4 жыл бұрын

    I read what you said and I cried cause I feel like this 24/7

  • @joannulloa950

    @joannulloa950

    4 жыл бұрын

    People think about ending it it's when they lost everything the pain that life causes it's too much to hold onto they cannot stand living one more day for one more minute I think nothing's going to help it's never going to get better nobody cares

  • @darkjim86

    @darkjim86

    4 жыл бұрын

    We try to make others happy. So we justify our purpose to live. Eventually that fails us to and we get further lost in the thoughts of death and loneliness. Their is no escape in our mind

  • @themarksman6071

    @themarksman6071

    4 жыл бұрын

    All ive known is pain i suffered to make others happy. Now i hide alone feeling the pain. Its sad to watch others be so happy. But at least they are. Life is painful and we indure

  • @maimeeher4015
    @maimeeher40154 жыл бұрын

    2020 still listening anyone💗

  • @Tammy-nt6cb

    @Tammy-nt6cb

    4 жыл бұрын

    Still listening, 2-18'2020. So sad!

  • @aliciacraig1155

    @aliciacraig1155

    4 жыл бұрын

    Still listening.

  • @travisgotts1544

    @travisgotts1544

    4 жыл бұрын

    2-22-20 and just hearing this. It's so heart breaking.

  • @emilgrandbouche1546

    @emilgrandbouche1546

    4 жыл бұрын

    Strong message for all

  • @matthewstrickland6233

    @matthewstrickland6233

    4 жыл бұрын

    3-3-20 😥

  • @Snowmask23
    @Snowmask232 жыл бұрын

    When I was younger and saw this video, I too wondered how does someone get that lonely? Then years later after battles with anxiety and depression, I finally understand. So far, the one thing I have learned is to latch onto anything, no matter how small, to give you something to look forward to. Even if it is just a tv show or a game. You can have family and friends but in the darkest moments and the quietest moments, it feels very lonely regardless. I hope everybody keeps fighting the good fight. Its not easy but life can still surprise you with good things.

  • @fruitloop1241

    @fruitloop1241

    Жыл бұрын

    You just also wrote about my life! We will get thru this x

  • @JodyBeard-rp2fl

    @JodyBeard-rp2fl

    8 ай бұрын

    If anyone feels that lonely just remember GOD put you on this earth for a reason and he has plan for everybody so when get that feeling just talk to GOD he listening to you and he feels you with his love for you and just remember that you have a family that loves and need you and keep your head up better days are bound to come around

  • @amandas6375
    @amandas63759 ай бұрын

    2023 still listening. bawling my eyes out 😢

  • @drakehonest9

    @drakehonest9

    8 ай бұрын

    Hey how are you doing doing today today?

  • @Markdenson012

    @Markdenson012

    2 ай бұрын

    This song hit so differently, it speaks directly to my heart ❤️ and I can't help it so it's on repeat all day lol. Where are you from beautiful?

  • @davidkillingsworthjr2875
    @davidkillingsworthjr28755 жыл бұрын

    this hits me in my soul. because i know what it feel like

  • @patienceleach9313

    @patienceleach9313

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me to its not fun at all..

  • @lilynorman4636

    @lilynorman4636

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me to I lost my Nana to suicide and baby brother to a car fire both gust 10 months ago

  • @Tymyson

    @Tymyson

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too..

  • @jonathanbyington8224

    @jonathanbyington8224

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm here for any and everyone who needs to talk I've been there recently with an attempt suicide but still here with alcohol related thoughts

  • @janetjones2692
    @janetjones26923 жыл бұрын

    With his voice I'll never know why he didn't make it bigger than he did. Cause I love to hear him sing and listen to the story he tells with so much emotion.

  • @WantToGoHomeSoon

    @WantToGoHomeSoon

    3 жыл бұрын

    You probably will not understand this. So he probably would not join the free masons. Or the illuminati. Yes he must join one. Tim McGraw, Faith Hill etc.. Reba.. Pop rap country, it's scary behind the scenes. But I bet he choose not to sell his soul for fame and wealth.

  • @freemangriffin4953

    @freemangriffin4953

    7 ай бұрын

    I wonder what he is doing with the rest of his life? 2 chart hits only, really surprising. very talented....

  • @bobmorrison5636

    @bobmorrison5636

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@freemangriffin4953....He was writing, recording, performing in videos and switching labels. But the musical life dramatically took a turn. Larsen now works with Search Nashville, a nonprofit, interdenominational organization. Larsen had attended a Search small-group session and, in 2012, he had transitioned into full-time ministry.

  • @LD-zb7bq
    @LD-zb7bq10 ай бұрын

    13 years later and I find this song. Describes everything I've ever experienced for the last 10 years. Don't be me. Go get help. You're all worth it ❤

  • @naomimoran5564

    @naomimoran5564

    9 ай бұрын

    Songs 20 years old next year

  • @ericjohnson8600

    @ericjohnson8600

    9 ай бұрын

    Get help buddy there has to be something for you. I need it to

  • @biancamoore413

    @biancamoore413

    9 ай бұрын

    You deserve help to you deserve happiness, and peace and so much more. You are smart and talented and amazing and lovable you are important. What you feel what you think whats in your mind and heart is important. You are not trash or a waste. You are lovable.

  • @shannonwhitfield8943
    @shannonwhitfield8943Ай бұрын

    I called depression the a silent killer because most don’t really see when someone is this depressed.

  • @charleslawson1714
    @charleslawson17145 жыл бұрын

    Those who aren't in constant war with them selves will never know.

  • @nunyanunya5099

    @nunyanunya5099

    5 жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @emilyjohnson7177

    @emilyjohnson7177

    5 жыл бұрын

    Right.

  • @elizabethroam9280

    @elizabethroam9280

    4 жыл бұрын

    I am all the tine

  • @crystalhuckins7550

    @crystalhuckins7550

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ur absolutely correct I fight every day,and there's so many more of us out there

  • @WitchyWolf1993

    @WitchyWolf1993

    4 жыл бұрын

    Each day we constantly war. We ask this to ourselves. Are we going to win this time or are we finally going to just give up. The constant emptiness and the ups and downs make us wonder if anyone can see the war is a constant battle field that we're sometimes not sure if we have much left at the end of our day.

  • @stivinhilliwuy6725
    @stivinhilliwuy67254 жыл бұрын

    A smile is the easiest lie of all.

  • @darrinkoenig9078

    @darrinkoenig9078

    4 жыл бұрын

    "I'm fine" and "I'm just tired" are close behind

  • @harveyhall6418

    @harveyhall6418

    4 жыл бұрын

    It is true. I fake every Christmas for my nephews

  • @favoriteneff9151

    @favoriteneff9151

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sure is

  • @mikaylaneveu2660

    @mikaylaneveu2660

    4 жыл бұрын

    So true

  • @nathanblue

    @nathanblue

    4 жыл бұрын

    stivin hilliwuy I can cry in front of people and still no one will care about me. Many people don’t have any support system.

  • @damonkennysr.4775
    @damonkennysr.47752 ай бұрын

    I’m a 47 year old man dealing with depression and anxiety for the first time in my life and I know it’s hard to ask for help but remember you have plenty of people who love and want to care for you so please don’t give up and remember if you’re having the worst day of your life then tomorrow will be better ❤

  • @brockgrubb2605
    @brockgrubb260516 күн бұрын

    It's not about dying. It's about ending the pain. This is from personal experience.

  • @donniebenthin9784
    @donniebenthin97845 жыл бұрын

    I've been married to my wife with severe suicidal thoughts for 18 years. Everyday I wonder if it's that time. I hope she never gets that lonely..

  • @richardcentkowski146

    @richardcentkowski146

    4 жыл бұрын

    Just be their for her and make sure she knows you care. It's hard for someone who is suicidal to believe that anyone regardless who it is would care. I know this cause I am a suicidal person and it's hard to believe it good luck to you and your wife.....

  • @douglasm.stearns181

    @douglasm.stearns181

    4 жыл бұрын

    Very sad!! 😭😭😬😬😰😨🙏🙏✝️✝️

  • @brisagega461

    @brisagega461

    4 жыл бұрын

    You sound like a wonderful husband

  • @djtwixx

    @djtwixx

    4 жыл бұрын

    Donnie your a amazing person show her every day she is loved and that your there for her

  • @courtneyg3824

    @courtneyg3824

    4 жыл бұрын

    You’re amazing for sticking by her as I have seen so many walk away and out of my life that say it’s too much for them. I get it but it only makes you feel more alone and more bad thoughts come flooding in. Bless you and your wife.

  • @tonyh.3537
    @tonyh.35377 жыл бұрын

    u get that lonely when everyone turns their backs on you, when everything u do ain't enough, when after trying ur hardest you just give up & yet everyone who says they're there for you ain't really there....

  • @kimcarmona798

    @kimcarmona798

    7 жыл бұрын

    Tony H.

  • @kendallpowell837

    @kendallpowell837

    7 жыл бұрын

    contact alisha melcher brown on Facebook. I'm not on my profile atm..but I've got an ear, and definitely the time to listen..

  • @wendyarbuckle1187

    @wendyarbuckle1187

    7 жыл бұрын

    Tony H. im here!! reach out....wendy.l.arbuckle@gmail.com my son took his life at 18, wish he had someone to help...

  • @hopesimpson4837

    @hopesimpson4837

    7 жыл бұрын

    that is so tru you think the person you love loves u the same but when. u get in a situation thats when. they turn there backs on you you get critised for everything you do and all your trying to do Is gain acceptance and love from them you get really Lonely and depressed

  • @shaelong6134

    @shaelong6134

    7 жыл бұрын

    Tony H. yeah, it's the worst feeling ever

  • @VirginiaShockley-ir2zs
    @VirginiaShockley-ir2zs Жыл бұрын

    It's a lonely place to live inside yourself, I live it everyday

  • @drakehonest9

    @drakehonest9

    8 ай бұрын

    Hey how are you doing today?

  • @ClaudiaStarfish2000
    @ClaudiaStarfish20002 ай бұрын

    As Someone who has struggled with suicidal thoughts for the past couple of years this song really touches my heart.

  • @rendalee6168
    @rendalee61683 жыл бұрын

    One of those songs you cannot forget. Love this young man for giving us this song. Timeless.

  • @kenhartman9981

    @kenhartman9981

    8 ай бұрын

    Hi rendalee where are you from?

  • @Pendaws
    @Pendaws2 жыл бұрын

    This young fella doesn't look old enough for the voice he has. Well done young man.

  • @nataliecorbin567

    @nataliecorbin567

    2 жыл бұрын

    I was saying the same thing. Such a baby face with a powerful voice. Beautiful song

  • @rotweilerdc

    @rotweilerdc

    Жыл бұрын

    Auto tune obviously

  • @stephenvolson4495

    @stephenvolson4495

    Жыл бұрын

    dude you are soon right. l thought it was faked and I did a double take amazing voice on this baby face kid.

  • @jessicasovern1382

    @jessicasovern1382

    Жыл бұрын

    @rotweilerdc it's not I have met this artist multiple times and have heard him sing right in front of me no microphone! He is so incredible! This was years ago you should hear him now

  • @e-racer4673

    @e-racer4673

    Жыл бұрын

    @@rotweilerdc no you should hear him talk. The kid that killed himself is from my hometown went to my school. His grandmother lived next-door to my ex-wife. It was all over a girl The guy that wrote the song is Joey of the Joey and Rory, duo husband and wife and she passed away from cancer a few years ago. He lives a few miles away from me, but he’s wrote several songs like some beach somewhere and many more.

  • @ukjoe42
    @ukjoe4225 күн бұрын

    I can be in the best mood one minute, and then out of nowhere, have every negative thought I've ever had, suddenly become the only thing I can see. It's insanely frustrating when it happens. It can temporarily blind you to reality. If you don't have the ability to talk yourself down, it becomes very easy to just give in. Especially when you're already angered that people will call you selfish. In reality, the ones that ask you to "just hang in there," are the selfish ones.

  • @brendarutledge5653
    @brendarutledge5653 Жыл бұрын

    What a sad but beautiful song. 😔

  • @drakehonest9

    @drakehonest9

    8 ай бұрын

    Hey how are you doing today?

  • @richardcollins6629
    @richardcollins66294 жыл бұрын

    I just broke down crying to this song....straight out of nowhere (i think). God this is still a powerful song 😢😢😢😢

  • @sarahmforsman

    @sarahmforsman

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too. I think with me though, it's because I've been there. Knew how I was going to end it, everything. But then I looked at my girls' pictures on the wall and realized that no matter what I was going through, I could not do that to them, take away their mama, and I couldn't do that to my parents or siblings.

  • @kristinacampbell4878

    @kristinacampbell4878

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes very powerful song. I cry every time I listen to it.

  • @marybrown394

    @marybrown394

    4 жыл бұрын

    Your not the only cried over this song

  • @billhouse8199

    @billhouse8199

    4 жыл бұрын

    At this point an time I'm starting to think there is no GOD

  • @soniac8532

    @soniac8532

    4 жыл бұрын

    It has always made me cry

  • @xXKRiSTiNXx1990
    @xXKRiSTiNXx19904 жыл бұрын

    If you dont know what its like to get that lonely, then you never will understand truly..

  • @danielturner8236

    @danielturner8236

    4 жыл бұрын

    I am like this everyday since I lost my mom. Its been a real struggle for me

  • @billhouse8199

    @billhouse8199

    4 жыл бұрын

    From one to a nother I truely do know what it is like walk i n my shoes for aday an you'll see

  • @chriswicks1785

    @chriswicks1785

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ain't that the truth

  • @captainamerica6826
    @captainamerica68263 күн бұрын

    Today is father's day I'm blessed to be here

  • @brianneokes4986
    @brianneokes4986 Жыл бұрын

    “How do you get that lonely and nobody know”. And yet every single person will blame themself because they didn’t know. I wasn’t there for her and I will forever regret not knowing.

  • @kenhartman9981

    @kenhartman9981

    8 ай бұрын

    Hi brianne where are you from?

  • @Markdenson012

    @Markdenson012

    2 ай бұрын

    This song hit so differently, it speaks directly to my heart ❤️ and I can't help it so it's on repeat all day lol. Where are you from beautiful?

  • @rachszy3
    @rachszy38 жыл бұрын

    This video is just as moving and touching as the song itself. It's a shame Blaine never got the recognition he so deserves.

  • @ronroberts5573

    @ronroberts5573

    8 жыл бұрын

    Hell yeah,Just came across this Song not so long ago,Never heard of him Bfor,Love this Song,💓

  • @wendybolin36

    @wendybolin36

    6 жыл бұрын

    Love you

  • @niniberoin296

    @niniberoin296

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thats true, great song and great voice but where is the recognition,

  • @anthonysaylor4520
    @anthonysaylor45204 жыл бұрын

    It's easy when no one talks or checks on you even when you reach out to them. It hurts so much

  • @youngrosco4515

    @youngrosco4515

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sorry you feel that way... I live alone and it does hurt too....

  • @dianajohnson6330

    @dianajohnson6330

    4 жыл бұрын

    they look at there ph never reply back.

  • @feralbigdog

    @feralbigdog

    3 жыл бұрын

    and when you cover up anything someone might pick up on, as far as i see it, its my business, no-one elses

  • @tikesplace

    @tikesplace

    3 жыл бұрын

    Society will tell you that you should just move on, not reach out to them anymore but you just keep reaching and they just keep ignoring you. Then society says, reach out and smile and brighten someone's day or help them through a tough time (because you never know what someone else is going through). So you keep doing that and no one does it back to you or if someone (usually a stranger) does, it does not feel quite the same as having someone who you love reach back to you.

  • @kelliedoxiern4308

    @kelliedoxiern4308

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes. You are right. I stopped reaching.

  • @mrchasingten4260
    @mrchasingten42607 ай бұрын

    It's. Being hurt so bad it rips your heart out of your chest, day after day feeling empty, worthless, thinking you were a mistake being born. I understand them and this song

  • @JamesOwens-qv1bi
    @JamesOwens-qv1bi10 ай бұрын

    What a beautiful song making me cry listening nobody knows what’s going on in a person’s head. Lost several good friends let women take them down I never saw it coming. Wish we had of talked about it. Loneliness is a silent killer just like depression and heart attacks. Great job son beautiful voice what a song.

  • @tracyellaine3723
    @tracyellaine37235 жыл бұрын

    Is someone still listening to this song? 2019?

  • @traceyweaver7775

    @traceyweaver7775

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yep me and boyfriend Brendon Morris

  • @frankblack442

    @frankblack442

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yep

  • @frankblack442

    @frankblack442

    5 жыл бұрын

    This song has gotten me though some tough times

  • @anthonyplapp6503

    @anthonyplapp6503

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yep

  • @coreykennedy766

    @coreykennedy766

    5 жыл бұрын

    yep i am right now makes me think of my friend i lost in 07 to suicide he never got to graduate from high school

  • @GODMARS367REALM
    @GODMARS367REALM4 жыл бұрын

    It's crazy strangers can tell something is wrong but not your "close friends" or your loved ones....

  • @aboudreaux0112

    @aboudreaux0112

    4 жыл бұрын

    IPA Alliance so true!!

  • @singularsquids5753

    @singularsquids5753

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m pretty sure my dad can tell but I just tell him I’m tired and that usually works

  • @moseslawed3763

    @moseslawed3763

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's true sometimes... I do my best to be real in front of my loved ones... We know when one another is hurting... Sometimes it's them hurting , then it's my day ... That's just part of life... When we love , we pay attention to, it's part of love... There are times that we hurt and we hide it and keep it inside and now our loved ones can't see it... Not healthy... Then sometimes we hurt and it's just for us and we know that it want do any good to burden our loved ones, something's we must work out on our own... That's just life... Life is short, shorter for some than others.... Don't be fake stay real and don't miss any moments! God bless yall

  • @KILLJOY375
    @KILLJOY3753 ай бұрын

    In 2019 I lost my Aunt, rwo fellow soldiers that was suffering from depression. People like to think it was a spur of the moment or an impulse decision. What rhey fail to realize is a lot of these people have been fighting for years holding on to the hope that " things will get better" or "you never know what tomorrow will bring" but when yiu have dealing with PTSD or depression it can go on for years not just months or weeks. For some people they run out of strength and time.

  • @crissycraycraft6446
    @crissycraycraft644611 ай бұрын

    It's not hard to get that lonely ❤

  • @jennyf7016
    @jennyf70168 жыл бұрын

    This song should be dedicated to the VERY talented Robin Williams. He will forever be missed.

  • @user-bo6ou8ek6n
    @user-bo6ou8ek6n6 ай бұрын

    I've never been so emotional about a song, it brings back so many dark memories and moments in my life. As so many people have said, it's not always about being lonely it's almost never about just being lonely,it is so very much more!! Emptiness and you just get overwhelmed with so many things the everyday fight n when fight so hard and yet you still get no place you lose with no place to go, you get boxed in or backed into a corner that you can't get put of or away from you no place to run or anything.

  • @beamath1781
    @beamath17812 ай бұрын

    Three years has gone by and I still don’t understand. Love you my son. We miss you 😢

  • @holdawn
    @holdawn4 жыл бұрын

    The video makes this so much sadder. Seeing everyone going to the funeral, people who knew him, but didn't really know how he was feeling. Showing the people they pass who are obviously lonely too

  • @Markdenson012

    @Markdenson012

    2 ай бұрын

    This song hit so differently, it speaks directly to my heart ❤️ and I can't help it so it's on repeat all day lol. Where are you from beautiful?

  • @rmcnulty2
    @rmcnulty210 жыл бұрын

    every time I hear this song I get tears in my eyes...because I know how easy it is to feel lonely, even when surrounded by a room full of people...and trust me, nobody notices.

  • @jessicaswanson7744

    @jessicaswanson7744

    10 жыл бұрын

    i always feel that way.

  • @tiffybear7

    @tiffybear7

    10 жыл бұрын

    I know how you feel.

  • @mattpayne24

    @mattpayne24

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @ronniegatling2013

    @ronniegatling2013

    5 жыл бұрын

    See even u three that replied it's a simple one j know how u feel like if u fucking knew how we felt or this person felt u would say more clearly u have no fucking idea how it feels

  • @ronniegatling2013

    @ronniegatling2013

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@tiffybear7 no u don't

  • @Allenroth1980
    @Allenroth1980 Жыл бұрын

    It’s not feeling lonely it’s the total emptiness inside you that does it. You don’t want to die but you feel it’s the only way to relieve the pain.

  • @rharmony25

    @rharmony25

    11 ай бұрын

    My kids and the prospect of going to Hell are the only things keeping me here. I know that sounds weird but that’s how I feel. I’m not even that religious. And sometimes I wonder if some day that won’t be enough.

  • @Cindy-qi5me
    @Cindy-qi5me Жыл бұрын

    😢 the song made me cry so much i've been so lonely and I know a lot of lonely people wanted to hurt themselves and give up nobody knows what you're going through should never let anybody judge you

  • @FredMcconville933

    @FredMcconville933

    11 ай бұрын

    Hello Cindy how are you doing?

  • @pooh8688
    @pooh86886 жыл бұрын

    Depression is a big reason people commit suicide. Don't judge someone who's feeling suicidal, because, that could be what pushes them to end it. You know that they have to have been feeling desperate for quite some time. Sometimes You don't realize that suicide is a permanent solution to what may be a temporary problem. You just quit caring. A lot of people don't understand how You could even think about taking your own life. When things get so bad and seems to get worse daily then it feels like the only way to end the constant pain. You should talk to them if you've noticed changes. Sometimes, someone to listen with OUT judging, and a shoulder to lean and cry on, if necessary ,is what they need. Really hear what they are telling you. Let them know You love an care for them. That they matter to You. When You get that far down it feels like no one cares. You begin to think that everybody would be happier if you were no longer around. Until You've walked in their shoes You don't know what somebody else is going through. You just never know what is going to send them to their breaking point. If You notice a change in them, care enough to address it or go to someone who will. Keep what they tell you in confidence. The last thing they want is for there issues to be out in the public. Offer to go with them to get help. If they start isolating themselves more than usual,giving away things they normally wouldn't, sleeping too much or too little, talking about ways to end their life. These are some of the signs of suicidal people. There are many ways to help someone who's struggling with mental health issues. Just be a friend and be supportive. Most importantly, don't judge or shame them for having these feelings. Everybody handles stress and life's circumstances differently. Just be a friend.

  • @brandonwade5912

    @brandonwade5912

    6 жыл бұрын

    Mary Baker very true stuff there

  • @BrianSmith-nw3pp

    @BrianSmith-nw3pp

    5 жыл бұрын

    I dont think people judge the ones who do this. They judge those who attempt it cause they want attentuon cause they are narcissistic and not hurting.

  • @brittanyw8091

    @brittanyw8091

    5 жыл бұрын

    I needed to hear this. This is nothing but the truth!

  • @timc4876

    @timc4876

    5 жыл бұрын

    Mary Baker very true because I’ve been there

  • @iknowarmy5952

    @iknowarmy5952

    5 жыл бұрын

    Agreeded

  • @Dustinfightsdemons
    @Dustinfightsdemons2 жыл бұрын

    I always made everyone laugh and everyone always thought I was the happiest so nobody asked if I was ok.. I used it as a defense mechanism because I was broken inside.. I was taught not to show weakness so I turned everything into a joke. It wasn't until Robbin Williams died that I realized what he said was true. "I think the saddest people always try their hardest to make people happy because they know what it’s like to feel absolutely worthless and they don’t want anyone else to feel like that"

  • @patriciabuttram5545

    @patriciabuttram5545

    2 жыл бұрын

    Dustin I'm so sorry baby

  • @Dustinfightsdemons

    @Dustinfightsdemons

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@patriciabuttram5545 I'm ok now. But thank you ❤ I just had to switch my lifestyle up 😂

  • @nickkenmill8364

    @nickkenmill8364

    2 жыл бұрын

    Dustin 💜 I know your story too well..

  • @irabull9611

    @irabull9611

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm in the same boat. But just haven't realized y I am like this.

  • @Dustinfightsdemons

    @Dustinfightsdemons

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@irabull9611 I had a low self esteem and it was easy to make friends if you were funny.. also if you can make a girl laugh then your more likely to win their heart. Maybe you need some counseling to figure out your inner demons. It helped me

  • @stitchrcrp
    @stitchrcrp2 жыл бұрын

    through nobody caring. through being bullied. through being called worthless, and every slur you can possibly think of. Through losing everyone close to you. Through being pushed too much. Those are just SOME of the things. theres so much more. People always act like they know you, but they dont truely know until its too late because nobody ever cares enough to ask, or to simply check in.

  • @hartmut4686
    @hartmut4686 Жыл бұрын

    Fighting serious depression. I miss you love you Holly.can’t go on much further😢

  • @lisaperry4095
    @lisaperry40955 жыл бұрын

    When you've spent your life feeling unwanted, unloved and that no one cares it's really easy to think life just isn't worth it.

  • @chelseyhernandez7766
    @chelseyhernandez77664 жыл бұрын

    It's so sad, people can feel this way and people that are the closest to them have no idea 💔 I thank God he sent me my husband and kids when he did 💖 it definitely saved my life!

  • @Alethiometer

    @Alethiometer

    3 жыл бұрын

    I lost my husband & daughter when suddenly your life is snuffed out gone lost & forgotten after everyone goes home from the funeral you are forgotten too painful to remember so they just morn you because your heart died with them, but no one cares they leave the grief on you

  • @isaactesfaye4911

    @isaactesfaye4911

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Alethiometer so sorry to hear that!! If you need to talk I'm available anytime. God is always there for you He is the best friend one ask for. And he is a good listener!

  • @williamkolthoff2559

    @williamkolthoff2559

    2 жыл бұрын

    Us people that feel empty and alone really don't talk about it. Just like suffering from depression right now I don't talk to anyone I take my pain out on me 🔪

  • @debraortega3668
    @debraortega3668 Жыл бұрын

    The pain the darkness inside, just doesn't go away. The black hole they can't climb out of. We just need to try to help them overcome.

  • @michaelsmith_32329_

    @michaelsmith_32329_

    Жыл бұрын

    Hello Debra.. how are you doing?

  • @SomeoneYouDontKnowOfficial
    @SomeoneYouDontKnowOfficial Жыл бұрын

    I'm so sick and tired of having to come back to this song after it happens again and again and again.

  • @apriltaylor2685
    @apriltaylor26854 жыл бұрын

    Its not lonely. Its feeling of burden to everyone you love and the fear that the pain will never stop. ❤

  • @mah4769able

    @mah4769able

    11 ай бұрын

    You got that right. That dark hole you can't crawl out of!!!

  • @gpmcd1044
    @gpmcd10444 жыл бұрын

    Wow. Here it is 2020, 11 years after this video was published, and I am hearing this song for the very first time. It really hits home for me. I’ve now been on antidepressant drugs for 30 years. It’s still a fight every day just to keep going. Whoever said “Depression is not a sign of weakness, but a sign of trying to stay strong for too long” really hit the nail on the head.

  • @magpiephotographysaintjohn930

    @magpiephotographysaintjohn930

    Жыл бұрын

    Suicide hands the pain to all those left behind and it never leaves. I pray you find the courage to find your joy in life. Sending love to you ❤️

  • @jdprentice720
    @jdprentice7204 ай бұрын

    Just lost my little brother today. I’ll never see him or talk to him or joke with him again and it hurts so bad. Please please please if you’re on the edge know that people do love you and we’re wrecked when you go this way. There’s no coming back from this one little bro and now we have to pick up the pieces without you. I hope you found the peace that you never had here but the rest of us are devastated. RIP Walt

  • @sethalexander91
    @sethalexander91 Жыл бұрын

    I thought people with depression were weak, now I know how it feels. Mental health is serious. Pills and alcohol may numb the pain for a bit but it’s not the solution. So what is because I’ve tried everything? I’m just a lost broken soul looking for the sweet release. 💔

  • @joshrison5864
    @joshrison58645 жыл бұрын

    u can feel lonely in a room full of people and noone knows trust me it hurts it sucks and it gets to the point u can't no more

  • @michellewilliamsau

    @michellewilliamsau

    4 жыл бұрын

    Josh Rison I feel that way! I understand your pain and loneliness also!

  • @heatherneal4674

    @heatherneal4674

    4 жыл бұрын

    I hope ur not still stuck in that feeling. I've been there too many times to count & I hate to hear when others have managed to find themselves there as well. It's a very deep pain in the pit of ur soul that slowly eats at u until there's just no more left to be eaten. And when u've been there more than a few times, it almost starts to feel like that's what normal is...thereby making the actual normal times feel wrong/off. Until ur just so d*mned confused & tired of the ups and downs & round and rounds of life's merry go round! And all u want to do is get off this ride! Make it stop! My dear readers, whomever u may be! Please, don't let things get that far for u?! Talk to somebody. Anybody. Hell, they have an app for that! Just remember, no matter how alone u may feel u are, u aren't. If nothing else, those of us that get that way from time to time, we're there for u!

  • @dravenmarsh1675

    @dravenmarsh1675

    4 жыл бұрын

    I feel like that everyday

  • @robinrobertson7655
    @robinrobertson76556 жыл бұрын

    I suffer from depression and ptsd even with the meds some days the pain is so great.i cant get out of bed i found a poor kitten. Who needed a lot of help.i don’t know who saved who.but with him by my side. I see some hope.he is my guardian angel.

  • @LMG1792
    @LMG1792 Жыл бұрын

    Man this hits home right now with how I've been feeling.

  • @kathyedelman362
    @kathyedelman3622 жыл бұрын

    To my son Jimmy; the only thing harder that that pain of you leaving me behind, is the pain I see in you dads eyes (you were his best friend).

  • @drakehonest9

    @drakehonest9

    8 ай бұрын

    Hello how are you doing today??

  • @kreg4672
    @kreg46726 жыл бұрын

    "And nobody knows" The lyrics that got me because nobody really does know until it's too late.

  • @eddavis9704
    @eddavis97048 жыл бұрын

    Everyone has limits to what they can endure. Some can take a lot, others can't. When you lose your support system and you just get so tired, it's easy to think about it, or act on it. Berating someone or claiming religion is the answer won't help, walk a couple of miles in their shoes and you might understand.

  • @KittyKat2151

    @KittyKat2151

    7 жыл бұрын

    +joel750 never get that lonely some one else cares don't be stupid and take away there everything because there's that hurt that wont ever go away imagine you're in the persons shoes who has to stumble upon you how do you tell there family that they pulled the trigger or in my case bleeding the person who cares who arrived a second to late toblate to watch them pull that trigger because i couldn't move fast enough i drive as fast as i could to watch a man who save my life take his own to look into his eyes at the moment the bullet pierced through his brains ..the pits of my stomach ideas right there yet so far away i couldntvrun throughout the blockades fast enough now hurts but no matter how lonely I've fleet means nothing compared to the ones you leave behind

  • @creativekoala9721

    @creativekoala9721

    7 жыл бұрын

    People who take their own lives are not selfish. I used to think so too, but after going through the pain of severe depression with someone I love, I see how much of a battle it can be. This is the way I see it. In humanity, we have a strong will to live. People will cross unimaginable hurdles, and do amazing things to survive. So if a person thinks they only have one way out, there are a couple things going on; For 1, there must be some level of depression or chemical imbalance to give up the will to live, 2, they feel backed into a corner with no other way out. The best thing you can do is support them, love them, offer options for other ways out, (for example sometimes it takes moving, or leaving a toxic relationship to help the situation) Also I have seen miraculous results from some multi-vitamins called True-hope which specializes in mental health. I just don't believe it is selfish. Take care.

  • @cassiealbaugh3031

    @cassiealbaugh3031

    7 жыл бұрын

    this is so true. it would be the worst feeling in the world to think everyone would be better off without you. I lost my son to suicide on his 21st bday. I found him hanging in my basement. I will never forget it as long as I live.

  • @creativekoala9721

    @creativekoala9721

    7 жыл бұрын

    cassie albaugh I'm so sorry. Just know that it is not your fault. I can't imagine your pain.

  • @kimcarmona798

    @kimcarmona798

    7 жыл бұрын

    I totally get this song and what you said is so true. It's very easy to get that lonely. I live it every day.

  • @HENZI-cv7re
    @HENZI-cv7re6 ай бұрын

    I will forever love this song. So incredibly heartbreaking and heartwarming at the same time.

  • @veronicaseibert157
    @veronicaseibert157 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for being alive

  • @jeremyheartriter2.063
    @jeremyheartriter2.0634 жыл бұрын

    I was feeling just empty but this song honestly feels like a tight warm hug from someone who loves you. Thank you.

  • @gailwilson7577

    @gailwilson7577

    2 жыл бұрын

    My man said its not hard to be that way that the song speaks, may be it was the way he was treated never know!

  • @sharonbaulch

    @sharonbaulch

    2 жыл бұрын

    You might feel that way but you do matter and you are no less important than anybody. I understand because I've been there. I care my friend even though I don't know you my heart goes out to you because we are human and we feel the pain of others. Peace

  • @bkfam5
    @bkfam53 жыл бұрын

    Lost my 12 yo son on 9-21-16. This song hits me hard. If not for my other 3 boys, I would prolly follow him. It’s hard being left behind by a child.

  • @brandon556

    @brandon556

    Жыл бұрын

    Sorry for your loss and you have my condolences

  • @Markdenson012

    @Markdenson012

    2 ай бұрын

    This song hit so differently, it speaks directly to my heart ❤️ and I can't help it so it's on repeat all day lol. Where are you from beautiful?

  • @southerngirl5111
    @southerngirl5111 Жыл бұрын

    I know how you get that lonely and it's a horrible feeling. I'm there...

  • @michaelsmith_32329_

    @michaelsmith_32329_

    Жыл бұрын

    Hello.. how are you doing?

  • @brandon556

    @brandon556

    Жыл бұрын

    Sorry to hear that

  • @valoriehollan3495
    @valoriehollan34959 ай бұрын

    This one hits me so hard, my 33 year old daughter just took her life. We will never know the pain she was feeling.

  • @mikeymoose5200

    @mikeymoose5200

    9 ай бұрын

    So sorry to hear that 😢stay strong

  • @memenow2345

    @memenow2345

    8 ай бұрын

    So sorry ❤❤❤

  • @valoriehollan3495

    @valoriehollan3495

    8 ай бұрын

    I know its not about being Lonely. My daughter fought her demons for years

  • @Anonymous-ji4sb
    @Anonymous-ji4sb2 жыл бұрын

    The hardest part about being an educator, is dealing with this. I live in the suburbs of Portland. Oregon is one of the higher rates of suicide and after 18 years, It’s happened a lot more times then I care to admit. The biggest problem is, most people don’t show signs of depression when around others so we can’t help them overcome what they are struggling with. It’s so sad.

  • @kayteeoconnell2469

    @kayteeoconnell2469

    2 жыл бұрын

    We are very good at hiding the pain. At least in my case, I told my parents and close friends. I’m still fighting for each day, and most people still don’t take take it seriously. 🤷‍♀️ Pretty sure that most people would still express disbelief is one day I fail in my struggle, despite how open I am about it. Everybody knows. No one does anything about it,

  • @pamelaroark4510
    @pamelaroark45106 жыл бұрын

    In Memory of my Son Michael Anthony Haas. And all others who lost their battle with depression and addiction💧

  • @theresaholmes5687

    @theresaholmes5687

    5 жыл бұрын

    Pamela Haas i lost my son at 20. my heart bleeds for u.i blame myself every day

  • @joyjames7279

    @joyjames7279

    5 жыл бұрын

    so sorry for your Lost of your son🙏💜

  • @1211jinx

    @1211jinx

    5 жыл бұрын

    So sorry for your loss..🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @iknowarmy5952

    @iknowarmy5952

    5 жыл бұрын

    Too jeff

  • @idntknowuthatsmypurse
    @idntknowuthatsmypurse Жыл бұрын

    Rip Cody. Rip Uncle Steve. No longer fighting them demons. You are never forgotten..

  • @greeneyeslynx1884
    @greeneyeslynx1884 Жыл бұрын

    The world is a dark and desolate place viewed through the eyes of one in pain

  • @Markdenson012

    @Markdenson012

    2 ай бұрын

    This song hit so differently, it speaks directly to my heart ❤️ and I can't help it so it's on repeat all day lol. Where are you from beautiful?

  • @randymartin2551
    @randymartin25512 жыл бұрын

    I cry everyday the feeling never goes away the tears fall as I write this one day I will meet my twin brother in heaven

  • @r37l36

    @r37l36

    2 жыл бұрын

    As a twin myself I’d like to say I’m so sorry for you loss. I’m sure the pain is unbearable at times. Your brother would want you to find happiness and live your best life. You will meet him again with lots of amazing stories to share. I wish I could take my own advice sometimes. Some days are much harder than others.