Black Woman's Horrific Story Of Giving Birth Goes Viral
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@ghostchick5275 Жыл бұрын
It is not enough that this nurse lost her job. She should lose her licence.
@alexandersupertramp7353
Жыл бұрын
FOREVER. In EVERY state
@Teddy_Graham
Жыл бұрын
HR here. Firing them is safe. The George Floyd accountability act will NOT be A law unless that law that stops former employers from bad mouthing you is abolished. Currently a former employer can only answer YES or NO if they would rehire you! No details needed!!! This can be filled out or a phone call can be made that’s not recorded and on that call…… smh they speak freely. This is why they RESIGN!!!
@JasmineMarie420
Жыл бұрын
More...she should be in jail
@alsmithsr4296
Жыл бұрын
I say the white nurse should be ,👻
@bigtankmctokery543
Жыл бұрын
She should lose a LIMB! Cut out that lying tongue from her mouth!
@todddanforth8853 Жыл бұрын
I hope she sues the hospital into oblivion and the nurse goes to jail.
@BIGMITCHUGK
Жыл бұрын
She did sue and she won
@rlud304
Жыл бұрын
I’m just as angry about the treatment of this woman but you make zero sense. Do you not understand the difference between civil court and criminal court?
@OrganicAlumination
Жыл бұрын
@@BIGMITCHUGK Praise the Lord because especially that nurse needed to answer for insubordination and inexcusable tone
@cecooks Жыл бұрын
And this is why people scream black lives matter, not just because of police brutality.
@1truek269
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@EloquentThinker Жыл бұрын
That nurse shouldn’t just be fired, she needs her license revoked. She shouldn’t have the privilege to work in the medical field again.
@lakeshathornton7875 Жыл бұрын
They robbed her of an experience that was supposed to be next to God. I'm so glad her child is healthy and they both lived through the ignorance.
@abepresume8132
Жыл бұрын
Had she had self-respect she'd rob them of their lives.
@savitrihouston4036
Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯 Nothing but the truth
@lewa3910 Жыл бұрын
Black mothers deserve so much better than the racist American health system provides. So sorry for her. Truly disgusting how they treated her
@dreamyx01 Жыл бұрын
Please black parents or young black people watching this please go into the medical field. We need more black doctors.
@arneliashort4647 Жыл бұрын
This why black doctors, specifically black female OB/GYNs are soooo important.
@originaleverythingelseisca5977
Жыл бұрын
I agree
@mamilove7998 Жыл бұрын
MULTI-MILLION DOLLAR LAWSUIT FOR VERBAL ABUSE, EMOTIONAL ABUSE, MENTAL, GROSS NEGLIGENCE AND OTHER THINGS. THAT NURSE NEEDS TO CATCH HANDS!
@mikebsibb Жыл бұрын
That behavior is totally disgusting! I'm glad the nurse was fired and the hospital sued!
@phillygirl215_5
Жыл бұрын
That jealous ass nurse wanted you to suffer. She probably can’t have children!!!! Nasty on purpose. Sometimes it’s not cool where people have control and they abuse it
@cassandrastokes37 Жыл бұрын
I share a similar experience after having a miscarriage. The Doctor failed to clean the fetus completely out. He was too busy being a comedian, “well, you lost that one.” This man chuckled at the loss of my child. Two days later I’m back in the same hospital in more pain than seemed humanly possible to endure. I was writhing in pain, screaming uncontrollably when this RN chastised me and told me I would not get any assistance if I didn’t shut up! I had already been waiting for over an hour in the waiting room. Through my pain, I could not understand why she was so angry with me. I was in so much pain, and they would not give me pain medicine. I was dying and I knew it. At that point I welcomed it. I finally shut up when I passed out. I was rushed by ambulance to a larger hospital. I would wake up screaming because of the pain and then pass out again, because of the pain. After the last time I passed out I woke a day later. A doctor told me, had it taken me 30 mins longer to get to that hospital, I would have been DOA. The first doctor left a portion of the fetus inside my womb and I was dying from sepsis. My blood was infected by the dead tissue of my baby. This happened in Mississippi 23 years ago. But it saddens me that situations like this still occur. No one should have to experience inhumane treatment at the hands of those that took an oath to do no harm.
@as1985
Жыл бұрын
How dare they, I'm so sorry 💔💗
@originaleverythingelseisca5977
Жыл бұрын
I am so so so sorry this happened to you!! I will it part of my duty to make a change for us
@wandaruiz9814 Жыл бұрын
Omg 😳 how cruel outrageous!!! So sorry 😞 😮that women should be in jail. Her cruelty is endless. 😮
@pjtiongco Жыл бұрын
that nurse needs to be prevented from working in the health industry again.
@karenjackson9004 Жыл бұрын
Her case is a prime example of medical negligence, medical misdiagnosis, delayed treatment, and medical malpractice.
@smartkookie Жыл бұрын
Report these rude nurses. Remember they have a license that can be taken away. They also have insurance and can be sued.
@ZaterahUniverse Жыл бұрын
Sue the hospital immediately
@charlotteschnook1351 Жыл бұрын
My doctor was like this, he ended up killing another infant two weeks after my delivery and was fired. Get these unempathetic jerks out - they are liabilities.
@natnailsit Жыл бұрын
I'm a nurse and this is appalling! wow, why do black people always gotta suffer. In nursing school we're taught that pain is whatever the patient says it is! it is SUBJECTIVE and we have no say on what their pain is. This has to STOP!!!!
@erincoco612
Жыл бұрын
We do. As soon as you slap a BP cuff on someone you can tell right away if they're really in pain. That's a fact. And she was clearly suffering
@lisanicholas2433
Жыл бұрын
@@erincoco612 I concur! Pain is subjective but there are also objective signs that support a patient’s complaint of pain. This woman objectively showed she was in pain and not a drug user. This healthcare worker was biased and is not fit to care for human beings or any beings for that matter.
@akapczyn Жыл бұрын
20 yrs ago I had my baby at a hospital. I was 36. I had a doula. All my medical professionals were white. I am black. My birth was not complicated but I was unable to move to ease the birth. I was forced to lay on my back for hours. Pinotocin was prescribed. The side effect of this is cramping and frequent urine output. After many hours I was told to have a nerve block. My doula wasn’t anywhere to be found. The nurses, apathetic and rude. Eventually I was told that my amniotic fluid was low and I needed a c section and I had a lemon sized fibroid blockage of the canal. Time passed and I was restrained. I was not combative. I was not doing anything other than asking to reposition off my back. My arms and legs were strapped onto the table as I was wheeled into the operating room. They said it was for my own safety so I wouldn’t rip down the operating theater as if I was a violent criminal. Within minutes my belly was opened. My daughter extracted and I was hastily sewn up and sent back to my room to recover. I was traumatized and just wanted to go home. I asked not to have my baby fed by bottle. They gave her a bottle anyway for three days and would not bring her to me. I tried to breastfeed her but she would not and she became nipple confused and couldn’t latch properly. I did not give up. She cried due to hunger for days and my experience with the healthcare system was forever changed. I cursed that hospital from the bottom of my my ancestral soul for how they treated me and my baby. That hospital is no longer there, torn down and replaced by another building. I suffer with the memory of this, nothing can be done.
@corywilliams382
Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry you went through this.
@TeaKyle
Жыл бұрын
So u let her starve? Nice! U could have pumped and gave her a bottle of it!
@lovelybones8046
Жыл бұрын
Why do we do this ^^ to each other? Please ignore this person’s comment, sis. I hope u get resolution for your pain.
@treinapj Жыл бұрын
And this is why I request blk nurses and doctors
@sarcasticallyrearranged
Жыл бұрын
Why? Some of the most rude and dismissive nurses have been black. Then, you can’t call them out without them accusing you of not having their back. I don’t care about skin color just how I’m treated.
@kimberly8695 Жыл бұрын
This is why I have made efforts to seek out black physicians as much as possible.
@informedRev13
Жыл бұрын
Only!!!
@originaleverythingelseisca5977
Жыл бұрын
I agree. Me to!!
@TheLeedeerod Жыл бұрын
I had surgery & was in EXCRUCIATING pain for 2 WEEKS. They accused me of being an addict, too. The medical community closed ranks & treated me like a crackhead. I advocated for myself & needed emergency surgery because they‘discovered’ the issue. The medical community is quick to label people, especially women of color. They’ve got SO MUCH work to do… 🙄
@ponderqwan5723 Жыл бұрын
nothing has changed. I remember when I was in pre term labor with my 1st child in 1989, white nurse was telling me be quiet, I probably didn't make as much noise when I made the baby. I tried to call my mother on the phone to tell my folks how I was being treated but they were listening to my conversation over the intercom. I notice the red light activated on the wall. After that the nurse blatantly warned me against telling stories to my family. I was 17 years old. I had high blood pressure and felt so afraid. All my adult life I've had to battle with Healthcare providers. If I wasn't so honorary I'd probably be dead because of misdiagnosis or underdiagnosing. Heck, had a dr go out of his way to write a letter to a program I needed help from to tell them I was lying...yet he still took my money to see me and tried to push pain pills I refused to take. Yeahhh I FEEL this 😔
@patwilliams2563 Жыл бұрын
Every black pregnant woman need to take a medical advocate to the hospital with them.....this is insane!!!!!
@MissElaine121
Жыл бұрын
A doula is needed
@cmnr8487
Жыл бұрын
I recently watched several videos of white couples whose babies were accidentally switched at birth, so it is not black vs white, it is stupidity and incompetence of the staff. No one is safe.
@Nell654 Жыл бұрын
This happened to me as well. I was in labor with my only son and I told the Dr the pain was excruciating that I needed help. He dismissed me and told me to go home that I was not progressing. I told him how can you tell me to go home I am post dated at 41 weeks? I told him he I was going nowhere. The next thing I knew was I felt a sharp stab of pain like someone was sawing my uterus and I screamed and the nurses checked me only to see that my uterus had ruptured and my son was swimming in a pool of amniotic fluid, blood 🩸 and stomach fluids. They knocked me out instantly and gave me an emergency c section. My son spent a few days in nicu to be stabilized. These miscreants are vile malevolent people who don’t deserve to be in the medical profession!
@goodlove8899 Жыл бұрын
Sue the Nurse and the doctor and the hospital
@larrybillups5689 Жыл бұрын
Her baby experience racism before being born into this world.
@ynonaellis6008 Жыл бұрын
I fully agree to the person who said the nurse should have lost her license. I'm so glad that Mary Catherine won lawsuit and her son is well.
@michaelbey388 Жыл бұрын
Damn! The nurse couldn’t tell she was pregnant and had the nerve to say what kind of drugs she’s on! Damn!!!
@freddielind5282 Жыл бұрын
I've met many nurses that should not be a nurse!
@natthayafamilylove4613 Жыл бұрын
I hope she sued the shit out of that hospital
@lisanewzealand
Жыл бұрын
She did🙂
@lewa3910 Жыл бұрын
That nurse who complained about the mother deserves to be locked up! The mother & child deserves to get paid millions by that horrible nurse
@yumiko0017 Жыл бұрын
See this is one of the reasons as a Black Woman why I’m going into nursing. We need to be there for all patients but most definitely our own.
@TheDyedebella Жыл бұрын
And THIS is why black people HATE going to the doctor🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😩😩😩
@meahdahlgren6537
Жыл бұрын
and write people to
@gwenj Жыл бұрын
I had to go to the ER three times after being diagnosed with a miscarriage before a D&C was done. There was infection in my body that could have been fatal. I refused to listen after I called my doctor's office and was told by a nurse that I didn't need to go to the ER. When I arrived, the doctor said that it was a really good thing that I came in. I was also losing blood and had to have a transfusion. This is so sad! We have no choice but to advocate for ourselves.
@karenjarrett3014
Жыл бұрын
Being an advocate for yourself saved your life.
@janlul1211 Жыл бұрын
that nurse should have been charged and arrested and put in jail simple
@Nennine001 Жыл бұрын
I'm white and the same thing happened to me when the ambulance took me to the ER. It happened twice. The nurse told me to shut up because I was disturbing the other patients when I was in a closed-door room. I was vomiting profusely and sweating so badly that my nightgown was soaked. Emergency surgery was performed because of an intestinal blockage and that's not all. In the ambulance, they gave me a Wal-mat bag to throw up and no blanket except those tin foil ones. I hope I never have to go through this crap again. I'm sorry sweetie. I hope you're ok. Hugs from NC.
@AgingbtrthanspoiledMilk24
Жыл бұрын
it's not about you. I'm sorry you went through this but it's not about you this time. it's about a black woman and her child
@abadirzulu5249
Жыл бұрын
There's something demonic that's happening with lots of people.
@genericamerican7574
Жыл бұрын
@@AgingbtrthanspoiledMilk24 it’s about the US healthcare system. Look up what they do to pain patients. It started in 2016. Well a little before that but that is when the government got involved with pain management. They ended it. This is what happens when they don’t want to have a patient that is in pain so they don’t want to get to the problem. They just want you gone. They will tell you to go home and shut up even if they have to wheel you out and pay for the cab they dump you in.
@alexag.5008
Жыл бұрын
@@AgingbtrthanspoiledMilk24 nobody fucking about your shitty, trash opinion, so shut the fuck up, loser.
@rlud304
Жыл бұрын
@@genericamerican7574 Sit down 🤦🏻♀️
@jwhetstone100 Жыл бұрын
So she was fired and not PROSECUTED???? WHY NOT?
@treinapj Жыл бұрын
My daughter has sickle cell anemia and was admitted in a severe pain crisis...and a white nurse practitioner decided that she didn't need pain medication though she was screaming in pain saying she was overreacting. I told another nurse to call the doctor and I called my child's hem/occ doctor and told her what the N.P. said my 12 yo.daugter was drug seeking. I cussed that nurse out
@sarcasticallyrearranged
Жыл бұрын
I’m not surprised since the “War on Opioids” has taken away the proper way to treat pain by accusing everyone of not needing it and being addicts. It’s disgusting how people are left to suffer and the overdose rates have skyrocketed! I’m sorry about your daughter. It’s unfortunate that medical care involves teaching employees that asking for pain relief is a red flag!
@rlud304
Жыл бұрын
@@sarcasticallyrearranged This is about racism. Try to keep up🙄
@mikalabaker6110 Жыл бұрын
Once a nurse loses their compassion it's time for them to GO!!!
@demetrioslater8633 Жыл бұрын
I hope they fire who all was involved in this inhumane lie and she sues the hell out of the doctors and hospital. She deserves everything and more for her traumatic experience.
@Kindlycallmecarebear Жыл бұрын
My sisters baby died inside of her because the doctor decided to go home and NOT do the c-section. Yes, my sister is black. Who got the c-section? The white woman in the next bed. EVEN THAT WOMAN, THE WHITE WOMAN SAID “Your baby would be alive if he helped you instead of me.” My sister was awarded 1 Million Dollars which isn’t shit for losing a child.
@sevo12t Жыл бұрын
Sometimes this is the one of the reasons why black people are scared to go to the doctor
@showkingsent Жыл бұрын
Name and shame the hospital, the nurse and the doctor.
@Hello_182 Жыл бұрын
The nurse most likely has her own drug addiction problem
@MitziHart
Жыл бұрын
Oooh, that’s it,… the protecting Addict >>>sounds like my Birth mom 🤔
@Hello_182
Жыл бұрын
@@MitziHart a mentally unhealthy person projects their own insecurities onto others
@sheriharris7635 Жыл бұрын
The anger I felt listening to her story 😡
@lorisreality8681 Жыл бұрын
There are very racist biases when it comes to pregnant women especially. Also, I would like to say there is a heavy bias against ANY patient who complains about pain in hospitals. I have learned this from experience. It's better to simply tell them you're in fact in pain, but not to talk about it too much beyond that. I was angrily told, while I was on my 15th hour of labor, to lower my voice because my crying was disturbing other patients on that floor. I was told repeatedly, " We will NOT be giving you any narcotics!" I hadn't asked for any. I was asked if I had taken any illegal drugs, while I was pregnant, repeatedly. The doctor told my mother, " if she doesn't quit that crying, I'm gonna slap her into next week." My baby's head was lodged in the birth canal and her heart rate kept dropping, when I pushed. They finally, after an hour of telling me I wasn't pushing hard enough, they used forceps to reposition her head. My baby came right out easily at that point. Some doctors and nurses just don't have enough compassion about people to do their job.
@NiaPgn Жыл бұрын
This is why every time my friend who is a black woman had to go to the ER, I’d meet her there in case we had to fight for her care. Wtf.
@lucytoo2130 Жыл бұрын
I lost a baby in 2003. I showed up to bmc and was there the whole day. They kept telling me I wasn't far enough along to go to the pre natal unit. I was 2 days away from this date. I got a ultrasound, by a Eastern European tech.. she was hurting me.. refused to bring me there. Sent me home.. This was on a Friday. I woke up on Saturday morning in horrible pain. They Finally bring me to the pre natal unit. They tell me to get undressed. While getting undressed I started to bleed. I lost the baby. I was so heart broken. I had a African nurse. This is the first time I've Ever spoken about it to Anyone!!! And because I couldn't talk about, I never sued. They were negligent. I know it's because I'm Black. They also told me I wouldn't have Any more children. God knew better than them, I had one more baby. A boy, which was what I lost. He's the only one I have. He's 14.
@Jay_foodz Жыл бұрын
As black people we need our own hospitals & community for blacks only
@steviejetera1601
Жыл бұрын
Yes we do banks, farmland etc...and don't sell shit to them ..that's another way they get us. Everytime we own something they see potential in they wanna buy it from us for less than it's worth
@Jay_foodz
Жыл бұрын
@@steviejetera1601 big facts you right they always want what we got, copy what we do now they wanna start dating black females like what it makes me laugh 😂
@user-dv3kq3rm4h
Жыл бұрын
We've done that already though and the other folk mobbed and destroyed those communities. They're obsessed with us.
@mrskingkong1485 Жыл бұрын
I hope she sued them!! There is no amount of money to make up for this evil place!!
@elsierodgers4874 Жыл бұрын
The doctor almost killed Serena Williams because he wouldn't listen to her when she was trying to tell the doctor something was wrong.
@JaneDoe-ve5lr Жыл бұрын
The hospital, nurse and doctor must be charged with abuse and malpractice. Take their licenses away. This is disgusting and cannot be ignored. PLEASE RELEASE THE NAME OF THE HOSPITAL, NURSE AND DOCTOR IS
@kpw84u2
Жыл бұрын
Good luck with that. They already either paid off the State regulators or are the State regulators... thanks to Citizens United and Neoliberals outsourcing our regulatory bodies to corporate interests.
@rlud304
Жыл бұрын
There’s already been a lawsuit( which is great). What do you mean by “Charged” with abuse? Like criminally? I don’t understand what that actually means.
@kpw84u2
Жыл бұрын
@@rlud304 abuse charges are a criminal procedure... The problem with filing just a civil action in such matters, is it more often does not remedy the underlying problem to prevent further occurrences.
@aech619 Жыл бұрын
Because society views me as a white woman I have NEVER had trouble getting anything prescribed. Most of the time docs are all too willing to write a script for me instead of provide alternative solutions to my medical issues. 10 yrs ago, during a bout of depression/anxiety/insomnia around seizures I had been having, I was prescribed oxy, Ativan, fentanyl, gabapentin, and Xanax among other meds which were constantly changing and I had to ask the doctors to stop because having meds thrown at me instead of fixing the problems doesn’t do anything but create addicts. Meanwhile women of color struggle to get the meds that they seriously need. These kinds of disparities should never happen. We need to be doing more to address this.
@qur4334
Жыл бұрын
It's So Hard To CHANGE The Heart. One Day The EVIL ONES Will Have An Epiphany
@kkcook3743
Жыл бұрын
I hope you are well now.
@vivianjcardriche
Жыл бұрын
And that why so many whites are addicted to oxycontin. Which is a for of coxycodon. I am so glady out of racism didn't prescript it to me 34 years. My back has been hurting for 34 years and I was lucky if they gave me an aspire for my pain. I have disc problems at L4,5, and S1 and L5 and my cox tail bone and just with in the last years I have gotten help. Doctors have kicked me out of their office many times.
@TheeCourageousQueen Жыл бұрын
That nurse needs to lose her license 😡
@emmaearthling444 Жыл бұрын
What the fuck. That nurse AND that doctor need to lose their license
@3arthIsGhetto Жыл бұрын
*SUE SUE SUE SUE SUE SUE SUE SUE SUE SUE SUE* *I'M LITERALLY CRYING AND PISSED THE EFF OFF AT THE SAME TIME*
@frankmartinez1164 Жыл бұрын
Her employer is also at fault for making her wait to go to the hospital.
@lilmamasomeanlovedymond5416 Жыл бұрын
BUT WHY WASN'T ANYONE CHARGED WITH TWO COUNTS FOR ATTEMPTED MURDER
@anthonyharris3193
Жыл бұрын
OMG SUE THEM THIS SHOULD NOT HAPPEN TO ANY ONE
@francesnelms610 Жыл бұрын
Sue the crap out of the hospital, nurse and doctor.
@moniquemckenzie800 Жыл бұрын
I watched a black KZreadr's story about giving birth in Japan, a country where most people haven't seen black people before, and was treated a million times better than she would have been here. It was amazing, they catered to her every needs and didn't seem to have a problem with it. Their goal was to make sure she had a comfortable birth and stay at the hospital and that's what did. They probably hadn't seen a black woman in person before but that didn't stop them from caring about her and her baby. Just a glaring far cry from how America treats its own God d*mn citizens!
@Omnipotent_Diva
Жыл бұрын
That's %100 true.
@Asa...S
Жыл бұрын
Maternity deaths per capita (per 100 000 births) The US: 17.4 Japan: 3.7 (Source Statista Maternal mortality rates worldwide in 2019, by country)
@johnpeters9793
Жыл бұрын
@@Asa...S How are they in African countries???
@Asa...S
Жыл бұрын
@@johnpeters9793 It varies from 1150 in South Sudan to 37 in the Egypt. Health care spending per capita South Sudan: $23 Egypt: $150 Japan: $4,360 US: $11,945
@johnpeters9793
Жыл бұрын
@@Asa...S How come black run countries are so horrible??
@Inecirful Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this! As one who was once part of the medical profession we see this type of systemic racism far too often, the biases against African American is a reality that we should not have to endure!!! SMH....Happy to know that mom and son are alive and well which speaks to our ability to survive horrific circumstances!
@vergris1 Жыл бұрын
This is very very sad and horrible. I can't understand it.
@sharondavis6674 Жыл бұрын
First No on the telling me to shut up.
@jjoyce46 Жыл бұрын
As a nurse myself, nurses are not allowed to tell a patient to shut up and not allowed to say you are on drugs when they have no proof. She obviously didn't do her job at all. That 'nurse' should have had her license taken away by the State Board. Glad you sued that hospital and I hope other black women do the same!!!
@someguy7629
Жыл бұрын
I'm a volunteer nurse in my country, if i asked such things, i would have been fired the same day/night for sure.
@jacquelynyoung221
Жыл бұрын
She didn’t want to do her job. She thought that she would get away with it. Can you say privileged-at least that is what she thought.
@johney3734
Жыл бұрын
this is the best ep.. it had stats that in my mind gives proof of a biased medical system. (i know some doctors think black ppl have thinker skin than whites and feel less pain) from the show the difference in death rate is far to large for life stile choices to make up the difference... the story had the WORST!! birth story i have ever heard and all birth story's are bad, but what that nurse said to her is nuts! and then she and baby died for a long time, crazy ep i had to show it to my wife.. your a nurse, would you have spoken up if you were in the room? follow up question. she was so sick why was she alone in the room with one nurse given the screaming and all..
@althor9997
Жыл бұрын
Because it probably didn't happen lol.
@202nw_ceo2
Жыл бұрын
@@jacquelynyoung221 she said enough! She should have her license taken from the board!
@Khalfrank Жыл бұрын
That cave woman should lose her nursing license and fired and be arrested.
@Nadeine Жыл бұрын
Let's get the name of the nurse and doctor. Their license needs to be revoked.
@stacyphilippe8927 Жыл бұрын
Same thing happened to me, except I was saved by a black nurse. She had to convince the midwife to admit me to the hospital. I ended up sitting in the lobby, sobbing my eyes out waiting for a monitoring room because my blood pressure couldn't be read. Thank God for another black nurse that noticed my pain and made the decision to take me to labor and delivery instead. I had to be put under anesthesia just so I wouldn't bleed out. I was diagnosed with H.E.L.L.P and a minor stroke. My son was placed in ICU and we didn't meet until the day after delivery. I still have PTSD, and refused to have any other children.
@urbanhabuki8091
Жыл бұрын
Are you seeing a therapist? Are you improving? Yes! Same here no more children for me. Once is enuff! I might adopt a child to give he/she a loving home.
@stacyphilippe8927
Жыл бұрын
@@urbanhabuki8091 yes, I am absolutely seeing a therapist! Bless you for thinking about adoption♡ so many children need a loving home to be raised in.
@kaydavis2310 Жыл бұрын
No mother should ever go through this situation. Thank God both mum and son survived. What a lucky pair they are. I'm so pleased she won her case.
@divinereflections5657 Жыл бұрын
Lord I hope she SUES THE HELL OUT OF THAT HOSPITAL😡😡😡.....
@Soltice-ty2nf Жыл бұрын
My ex husband had a high fever and i rushed him the hospital. He was shaking because he has chills . The nurse told my husband to stop shaking with an attitude. I flip!! My ex had septicemia. They send him home without waiting for the text. He could have died. If you are not fit to be a nurse , don't be
@tangelahenderson2198
Жыл бұрын
MY SENTIMENTS EXACTLY 💯❤️💯
@TheURBANSTONE Жыл бұрын
That’s why black people don’t trust the medical industry. This is sad, so sad. The money won’t heal the trauma but will help. Blacks should have own hospitals, this repeating horrid lack of care.
@peterbryantorres7096 Жыл бұрын
This happens to women of color all the time!!! Ladies, if you ever encounter this or any other type of disrespectful treatment IMMEDIATELY REQUEST to speak with the Patient Advocate or the Hospital Administrator. Take down names of EVERYONE who has been in contact with you. Record it if you’re able. DO NOT PLEAD, DEMAND! This story is awful. Thank God she and her baby are doing well but this is clearly traumatizing to her and her child.
@dglorious1269
Жыл бұрын
Right.🎯 Please be AWARE ladies! It's nothing to play with! ⚠️
@Ashley-oi2uw
Жыл бұрын
So true , they will leave you in pain sitting in the lobby for hours because "they don't have a room available" or so they say. Racism in healthcare is still happening and it's sad. Why do white lives matter but blacks don't? Why is America thinking so messed up? That lady could of lost her life and her baby! Glad you both made it!
@ltelpc Жыл бұрын
That nurse needs to be exposed so she CAN'T hurt anyone else. So glad mom and baby survived. There has been many that haven't been so lucky due to racism and just complete hatred and lack of humanity.
@riettarichardson9485 Жыл бұрын
I am glad this mom sued and the nurse was fired!
@jacobjerrall6381 Жыл бұрын
THIS IS SOME BULL THEY TREATED HER LIKE SHE WAS NOT HUMAN 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
@G.MONEY. Жыл бұрын
I had diverticulitis when i went to the hospital and they asked me to rate my pain on a scale of 1 to 10. I said 10, even though it was more like 15. Then they asked me what drugs i was on. I told them tylenol and pepto. They insisted i must be drug seeking, because the symptoms i was describing sounded like withdrawal. WTF? NOT AT ALL. Within 9 hours of showing up at the ER, my colon ruptured and and i almost died. I had a perforated colon that started leaking feces into my blood stream. Within an hour of having a CAT scan, i was having emergency surgery to remove 12 inches of my colon to save my life. I'm sure if i had been a pretty little white girl they would have believed me.
@jrgreen7303
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry that happened to u. ik exactly how u feel
@imperfectlyperfect3961 Жыл бұрын
Where in the heck did she give birth at?!? Everybody who saw her at this hospital needs to be fired. She also needs to sue the hospital!!!
@charlesbrazell2136
Жыл бұрын
Hell yeah! 12-6-22.
@jasmineiam Жыл бұрын
This is ridiculous! Y’all almost killed this woman and her child and tried to blame her for drugs!?! Everybody needs to lose their license.
@MrBobbyBX Жыл бұрын
Put the nurse's picture up and name the hospital!
@sweetcheeks89
Жыл бұрын
Her doctor was black and the nurse philipino. I saw other comments of this and looked it up. In fact this woman never said anything about it being of her race or racism. So im really confused...he certainly will not be putting a photo up
@hevel4383 Жыл бұрын
This young lady should have made an official complaint to the medical board against both nurse and doctor. And sue each of them individually for pain & suffering.
@jubilantsleep
Жыл бұрын
She definitely sued
@hevel4383
Жыл бұрын
@@jubilantsleep yes, she sued the hospital and won. She need to sue the nurse and doctor separately and go after their license.
@Natapier
Жыл бұрын
@@hevel4383 Well said!!
@PIMPSTREZZ-DNA-FAM Жыл бұрын
I'd SUE my boss and I'd sue that damn hospital
@michelegrice4938 Жыл бұрын
I am so angry and disgusted for all the women who are treated like this. It's so disgusting and disposable.
@mikelarry2869 Жыл бұрын
This is why as BLACK MEN we must stay and protect our children’s-mother no matter how she annoys you
@thetruedoctrineofchristnet7473
Жыл бұрын
FACTS!!!!!
@b.robins7305
Жыл бұрын
Stay with your family, ask yourself why do I get annoyed, and go to therapy and get help to learn how to manage your emotions. Then, you can raise your children.
@ScorpioMojo Жыл бұрын
I'm an RN and this was shocking to hear, but unfortunately not rare. Black people are treated like 3rd class citizens by the healthcare industry, as in any other American industry.
@TheMightymo05 Жыл бұрын
I worked in hospital security for three years. Medical racism is a real thing.
@crankypantsmcduff Жыл бұрын
That poor woman. That is horrific, I hope she sues them immediately.
@joannboyd8855 Жыл бұрын
Not unusual for black women to be denied treatment. Ask me how I know!!!!!!! How sad
@ronadams3107 Жыл бұрын
Young baby boy, you have a MOTHER. A woman that literally battled the worst our society has to offer to bring you in this world. Love Her and grow to be good that's all she'll ever ask in return
@rlud304
Жыл бұрын
That’s so toxic. Leave that innocent baby alone. No one asks to be born and like all children he owes nothing “in return” for the parents’ choices.
@rlud304
Жыл бұрын
@cherryhoneyricola That has nothing to do with my comment. I was referring to a child not owing his or her parents anything IN RETURN because it was the parents’ decision to have them and not the child’s decision to be born. Children don’t owe anything to anyone IN RETURN. Did you catch the IN RETURN part? Those were Your words.
@wandaspencer4988 Жыл бұрын
YOU need to Sue the doctor and hospital
@Mztonyg Жыл бұрын
I had an anesthesiologist insist that they gave me enough meds for a c-section, I started feeling the pain, intense pain of my c-section. The doctor cussed the anesthesiologist OUT, and insisted that I get the proper medication. I passed out because my blood pressure dropped. I missed her so much. She was an excellent doctor. My child was born, my first born, dead for 7 minutes. I k ow there are other stories like ours. This is so saddening 😢.
@MsTMarie83 Жыл бұрын
Ugh it makes me sick to my stomach that women in america have to deal with this!! Black women have had a higher birth mortality rate forever & it never seems to be addressed... hoping voting more strong black females into office will fix this... Stay strong mommas!!
@nathanlyon8775
Жыл бұрын
Australia is exactly the same..
@JetBlqk Жыл бұрын
When I was in labor with my son I had a nurse who was a NUN tell me that it didn't hurt that bad. I'm like how would you know?🤷🏾♀️😡
@Zoki4444 Жыл бұрын
Nurse should be banned from ever having any kind of anasthetic administered to her. If she's getting a cavity filled, if she's having surgery, if she even stubs a toe and begs for help, doctor should tell her "no, you're faking, you just want to score drugs."
@princesslamour1985 Жыл бұрын
I just gave birth and it's ALLLLL true!!!! My pregnancy was trash, labor was trash, after labor trash. I tried so hard to advocate for myself but I can't do an entire hospitals job
@luckzthesecond1694
Жыл бұрын
I am sorry. I hope a Women Infants and Children program and a Mother Baby program can support you. I pray for healing, bonding, and care.
@onevoice7 Жыл бұрын
This is why I try to get a black doctor as much as possible to help. Other races unfortunately treat us bad in the medical field. I had surgery which I woke up in the middle of and when it was over was in severe pain. I literally had to beg the nurse to try to give me some kind of pain relief. And when she finally gave me the pain relief I was met with an attitude and rolling of her eyes as though I was lying about my pain. Never again, will I get that surgery again even if I needed it. I don't trust.
@gurlchyle1437 Жыл бұрын
I’m 63 years old. I have sickle cell anemia. I’ve been treated with suspicion at hospitals but what really had me scratching my head was when a black Dr. at the emergency room told me that I was NOT having a sickle cell crisis but was experiencing trauma (I had been bumped…bumps cause crises), gave me a knee brace and sent me home. You’d think after 63 years I’d know when I’m experiencing a crisis. 🤷🏾♀️
@peyenappleguy
Жыл бұрын
They get these degrees that makes them think they know everything but how to actually treat us like human beings.. most are Void of empathy and compassion and should have never become "Doctors"
@Hisloveredeemedme Жыл бұрын
Im so glad you are covering this. Black women go through so much with the healthcare world.
@itzlexxii Жыл бұрын
This is heart breaking, why do we have to go through this at such a vulnerable time
@tracybinol6708 Жыл бұрын
I am so glad she sued and won! That treatment was disgusting.
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It is not enough that this nurse lost her job. She should lose her licence.
@alexandersupertramp7353
Жыл бұрын
FOREVER. In EVERY state
@Teddy_Graham
Жыл бұрын
HR here. Firing them is safe. The George Floyd accountability act will NOT be A law unless that law that stops former employers from bad mouthing you is abolished. Currently a former employer can only answer YES or NO if they would rehire you! No details needed!!! This can be filled out or a phone call can be made that’s not recorded and on that call…… smh they speak freely. This is why they RESIGN!!!
@JasmineMarie420
Жыл бұрын
More...she should be in jail
@alsmithsr4296
Жыл бұрын
I say the white nurse should be ,👻
@bigtankmctokery543
Жыл бұрын
She should lose a LIMB! Cut out that lying tongue from her mouth!
I hope she sues the hospital into oblivion and the nurse goes to jail.
@BIGMITCHUGK
Жыл бұрын
She did sue and she won
@rlud304
Жыл бұрын
I’m just as angry about the treatment of this woman but you make zero sense. Do you not understand the difference between civil court and criminal court?
@OrganicAlumination
Жыл бұрын
@@BIGMITCHUGK Praise the Lord because especially that nurse needed to answer for insubordination and inexcusable tone
And this is why people scream black lives matter, not just because of police brutality.
@1truek269
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
That nurse shouldn’t just be fired, she needs her license revoked. She shouldn’t have the privilege to work in the medical field again.
They robbed her of an experience that was supposed to be next to God. I'm so glad her child is healthy and they both lived through the ignorance.
@abepresume8132
Жыл бұрын
Had she had self-respect she'd rob them of their lives.
@savitrihouston4036
Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯 Nothing but the truth
Black mothers deserve so much better than the racist American health system provides. So sorry for her. Truly disgusting how they treated her
Please black parents or young black people watching this please go into the medical field. We need more black doctors.
This why black doctors, specifically black female OB/GYNs are soooo important.
@originaleverythingelseisca5977
Жыл бұрын
I agree
MULTI-MILLION DOLLAR LAWSUIT FOR VERBAL ABUSE, EMOTIONAL ABUSE, MENTAL, GROSS NEGLIGENCE AND OTHER THINGS. THAT NURSE NEEDS TO CATCH HANDS!
That behavior is totally disgusting! I'm glad the nurse was fired and the hospital sued!
@phillygirl215_5
Жыл бұрын
That jealous ass nurse wanted you to suffer. She probably can’t have children!!!! Nasty on purpose. Sometimes it’s not cool where people have control and they abuse it
I share a similar experience after having a miscarriage. The Doctor failed to clean the fetus completely out. He was too busy being a comedian, “well, you lost that one.” This man chuckled at the loss of my child. Two days later I’m back in the same hospital in more pain than seemed humanly possible to endure. I was writhing in pain, screaming uncontrollably when this RN chastised me and told me I would not get any assistance if I didn’t shut up! I had already been waiting for over an hour in the waiting room. Through my pain, I could not understand why she was so angry with me. I was in so much pain, and they would not give me pain medicine. I was dying and I knew it. At that point I welcomed it. I finally shut up when I passed out. I was rushed by ambulance to a larger hospital. I would wake up screaming because of the pain and then pass out again, because of the pain. After the last time I passed out I woke a day later. A doctor told me, had it taken me 30 mins longer to get to that hospital, I would have been DOA. The first doctor left a portion of the fetus inside my womb and I was dying from sepsis. My blood was infected by the dead tissue of my baby. This happened in Mississippi 23 years ago. But it saddens me that situations like this still occur. No one should have to experience inhumane treatment at the hands of those that took an oath to do no harm.
@as1985
Жыл бұрын
How dare they, I'm so sorry 💔💗
@originaleverythingelseisca5977
Жыл бұрын
I am so so so sorry this happened to you!! I will it part of my duty to make a change for us
Omg 😳 how cruel outrageous!!! So sorry 😞 😮that women should be in jail. Her cruelty is endless. 😮
that nurse needs to be prevented from working in the health industry again.
Her case is a prime example of medical negligence, medical misdiagnosis, delayed treatment, and medical malpractice.
Report these rude nurses. Remember they have a license that can be taken away. They also have insurance and can be sued.
Sue the hospital immediately
My doctor was like this, he ended up killing another infant two weeks after my delivery and was fired. Get these unempathetic jerks out - they are liabilities.
I'm a nurse and this is appalling! wow, why do black people always gotta suffer. In nursing school we're taught that pain is whatever the patient says it is! it is SUBJECTIVE and we have no say on what their pain is. This has to STOP!!!!
@erincoco612
Жыл бұрын
We do. As soon as you slap a BP cuff on someone you can tell right away if they're really in pain. That's a fact. And she was clearly suffering
@lisanicholas2433
Жыл бұрын
@@erincoco612 I concur! Pain is subjective but there are also objective signs that support a patient’s complaint of pain. This woman objectively showed she was in pain and not a drug user. This healthcare worker was biased and is not fit to care for human beings or any beings for that matter.
20 yrs ago I had my baby at a hospital. I was 36. I had a doula. All my medical professionals were white. I am black. My birth was not complicated but I was unable to move to ease the birth. I was forced to lay on my back for hours. Pinotocin was prescribed. The side effect of this is cramping and frequent urine output. After many hours I was told to have a nerve block. My doula wasn’t anywhere to be found. The nurses, apathetic and rude. Eventually I was told that my amniotic fluid was low and I needed a c section and I had a lemon sized fibroid blockage of the canal. Time passed and I was restrained. I was not combative. I was not doing anything other than asking to reposition off my back. My arms and legs were strapped onto the table as I was wheeled into the operating room. They said it was for my own safety so I wouldn’t rip down the operating theater as if I was a violent criminal. Within minutes my belly was opened. My daughter extracted and I was hastily sewn up and sent back to my room to recover. I was traumatized and just wanted to go home. I asked not to have my baby fed by bottle. They gave her a bottle anyway for three days and would not bring her to me. I tried to breastfeed her but she would not and she became nipple confused and couldn’t latch properly. I did not give up. She cried due to hunger for days and my experience with the healthcare system was forever changed. I cursed that hospital from the bottom of my my ancestral soul for how they treated me and my baby. That hospital is no longer there, torn down and replaced by another building. I suffer with the memory of this, nothing can be done.
@corywilliams382
Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry you went through this.
@TeaKyle
Жыл бұрын
So u let her starve? Nice! U could have pumped and gave her a bottle of it!
@lovelybones8046
Жыл бұрын
Why do we do this ^^ to each other? Please ignore this person’s comment, sis. I hope u get resolution for your pain.
And this is why I request blk nurses and doctors
@sarcasticallyrearranged
Жыл бұрын
Why? Some of the most rude and dismissive nurses have been black. Then, you can’t call them out without them accusing you of not having their back. I don’t care about skin color just how I’m treated.
This is why I have made efforts to seek out black physicians as much as possible.
@informedRev13
Жыл бұрын
Only!!!
@originaleverythingelseisca5977
Жыл бұрын
I agree. Me to!!
I had surgery & was in EXCRUCIATING pain for 2 WEEKS. They accused me of being an addict, too. The medical community closed ranks & treated me like a crackhead. I advocated for myself & needed emergency surgery because they‘discovered’ the issue. The medical community is quick to label people, especially women of color. They’ve got SO MUCH work to do… 🙄
nothing has changed. I remember when I was in pre term labor with my 1st child in 1989, white nurse was telling me be quiet, I probably didn't make as much noise when I made the baby. I tried to call my mother on the phone to tell my folks how I was being treated but they were listening to my conversation over the intercom. I notice the red light activated on the wall. After that the nurse blatantly warned me against telling stories to my family. I was 17 years old. I had high blood pressure and felt so afraid. All my adult life I've had to battle with Healthcare providers. If I wasn't so honorary I'd probably be dead because of misdiagnosis or underdiagnosing. Heck, had a dr go out of his way to write a letter to a program I needed help from to tell them I was lying...yet he still took my money to see me and tried to push pain pills I refused to take. Yeahhh I FEEL this 😔
Every black pregnant woman need to take a medical advocate to the hospital with them.....this is insane!!!!!
@MissElaine121
Жыл бұрын
A doula is needed
@cmnr8487
Жыл бұрын
I recently watched several videos of white couples whose babies were accidentally switched at birth, so it is not black vs white, it is stupidity and incompetence of the staff. No one is safe.
This happened to me as well. I was in labor with my only son and I told the Dr the pain was excruciating that I needed help. He dismissed me and told me to go home that I was not progressing. I told him how can you tell me to go home I am post dated at 41 weeks? I told him he I was going nowhere. The next thing I knew was I felt a sharp stab of pain like someone was sawing my uterus and I screamed and the nurses checked me only to see that my uterus had ruptured and my son was swimming in a pool of amniotic fluid, blood 🩸 and stomach fluids. They knocked me out instantly and gave me an emergency c section. My son spent a few days in nicu to be stabilized. These miscreants are vile malevolent people who don’t deserve to be in the medical profession!
Sue the Nurse and the doctor and the hospital
Her baby experience racism before being born into this world.
I fully agree to the person who said the nurse should have lost her license. I'm so glad that Mary Catherine won lawsuit and her son is well.
Damn! The nurse couldn’t tell she was pregnant and had the nerve to say what kind of drugs she’s on! Damn!!!
I've met many nurses that should not be a nurse!
I hope she sued the shit out of that hospital
@lisanewzealand
Жыл бұрын
She did🙂
That nurse who complained about the mother deserves to be locked up! The mother & child deserves to get paid millions by that horrible nurse
See this is one of the reasons as a Black Woman why I’m going into nursing. We need to be there for all patients but most definitely our own.
And THIS is why black people HATE going to the doctor🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😩😩😩
@meahdahlgren6537
Жыл бұрын
and write people to
I had to go to the ER three times after being diagnosed with a miscarriage before a D&C was done. There was infection in my body that could have been fatal. I refused to listen after I called my doctor's office and was told by a nurse that I didn't need to go to the ER. When I arrived, the doctor said that it was a really good thing that I came in. I was also losing blood and had to have a transfusion. This is so sad! We have no choice but to advocate for ourselves.
@karenjarrett3014
Жыл бұрын
Being an advocate for yourself saved your life.
that nurse should have been charged and arrested and put in jail simple
I'm white and the same thing happened to me when the ambulance took me to the ER. It happened twice. The nurse told me to shut up because I was disturbing the other patients when I was in a closed-door room. I was vomiting profusely and sweating so badly that my nightgown was soaked. Emergency surgery was performed because of an intestinal blockage and that's not all. In the ambulance, they gave me a Wal-mat bag to throw up and no blanket except those tin foil ones. I hope I never have to go through this crap again. I'm sorry sweetie. I hope you're ok. Hugs from NC.
@AgingbtrthanspoiledMilk24
Жыл бұрын
it's not about you. I'm sorry you went through this but it's not about you this time. it's about a black woman and her child
@abadirzulu5249
Жыл бұрын
There's something demonic that's happening with lots of people.
@genericamerican7574
Жыл бұрын
@@AgingbtrthanspoiledMilk24 it’s about the US healthcare system. Look up what they do to pain patients. It started in 2016. Well a little before that but that is when the government got involved with pain management. They ended it. This is what happens when they don’t want to have a patient that is in pain so they don’t want to get to the problem. They just want you gone. They will tell you to go home and shut up even if they have to wheel you out and pay for the cab they dump you in.
@alexag.5008
Жыл бұрын
@@AgingbtrthanspoiledMilk24 nobody fucking about your shitty, trash opinion, so shut the fuck up, loser.
@rlud304
Жыл бұрын
@@genericamerican7574 Sit down 🤦🏻♀️
So she was fired and not PROSECUTED???? WHY NOT?
My daughter has sickle cell anemia and was admitted in a severe pain crisis...and a white nurse practitioner decided that she didn't need pain medication though she was screaming in pain saying she was overreacting. I told another nurse to call the doctor and I called my child's hem/occ doctor and told her what the N.P. said my 12 yo.daugter was drug seeking. I cussed that nurse out
@sarcasticallyrearranged
Жыл бұрын
I’m not surprised since the “War on Opioids” has taken away the proper way to treat pain by accusing everyone of not needing it and being addicts. It’s disgusting how people are left to suffer and the overdose rates have skyrocketed! I’m sorry about your daughter. It’s unfortunate that medical care involves teaching employees that asking for pain relief is a red flag!
@rlud304
Жыл бұрын
@@sarcasticallyrearranged This is about racism. Try to keep up🙄
Once a nurse loses their compassion it's time for them to GO!!!
I hope they fire who all was involved in this inhumane lie and she sues the hell out of the doctors and hospital. She deserves everything and more for her traumatic experience.
My sisters baby died inside of her because the doctor decided to go home and NOT do the c-section. Yes, my sister is black. Who got the c-section? The white woman in the next bed. EVEN THAT WOMAN, THE WHITE WOMAN SAID “Your baby would be alive if he helped you instead of me.” My sister was awarded 1 Million Dollars which isn’t shit for losing a child.
Sometimes this is the one of the reasons why black people are scared to go to the doctor
Name and shame the hospital, the nurse and the doctor.
The nurse most likely has her own drug addiction problem
@MitziHart
Жыл бұрын
Oooh, that’s it,… the protecting Addict >>>sounds like my Birth mom 🤔
@Hello_182
Жыл бұрын
@@MitziHart a mentally unhealthy person projects their own insecurities onto others
The anger I felt listening to her story 😡
There are very racist biases when it comes to pregnant women especially. Also, I would like to say there is a heavy bias against ANY patient who complains about pain in hospitals. I have learned this from experience. It's better to simply tell them you're in fact in pain, but not to talk about it too much beyond that. I was angrily told, while I was on my 15th hour of labor, to lower my voice because my crying was disturbing other patients on that floor. I was told repeatedly, " We will NOT be giving you any narcotics!" I hadn't asked for any. I was asked if I had taken any illegal drugs, while I was pregnant, repeatedly. The doctor told my mother, " if she doesn't quit that crying, I'm gonna slap her into next week." My baby's head was lodged in the birth canal and her heart rate kept dropping, when I pushed. They finally, after an hour of telling me I wasn't pushing hard enough, they used forceps to reposition her head. My baby came right out easily at that point. Some doctors and nurses just don't have enough compassion about people to do their job.
This is why every time my friend who is a black woman had to go to the ER, I’d meet her there in case we had to fight for her care. Wtf.
I lost a baby in 2003. I showed up to bmc and was there the whole day. They kept telling me I wasn't far enough along to go to the pre natal unit. I was 2 days away from this date. I got a ultrasound, by a Eastern European tech.. she was hurting me.. refused to bring me there. Sent me home.. This was on a Friday. I woke up on Saturday morning in horrible pain. They Finally bring me to the pre natal unit. They tell me to get undressed. While getting undressed I started to bleed. I lost the baby. I was so heart broken. I had a African nurse. This is the first time I've Ever spoken about it to Anyone!!! And because I couldn't talk about, I never sued. They were negligent. I know it's because I'm Black. They also told me I wouldn't have Any more children. God knew better than them, I had one more baby. A boy, which was what I lost. He's the only one I have. He's 14.
As black people we need our own hospitals & community for blacks only
@steviejetera1601
Жыл бұрын
Yes we do banks, farmland etc...and don't sell shit to them ..that's another way they get us. Everytime we own something they see potential in they wanna buy it from us for less than it's worth
@Jay_foodz
Жыл бұрын
@@steviejetera1601 big facts you right they always want what we got, copy what we do now they wanna start dating black females like what it makes me laugh 😂
@user-dv3kq3rm4h
Жыл бұрын
We've done that already though and the other folk mobbed and destroyed those communities. They're obsessed with us.
I hope she sued them!! There is no amount of money to make up for this evil place!!
The doctor almost killed Serena Williams because he wouldn't listen to her when she was trying to tell the doctor something was wrong.
The hospital, nurse and doctor must be charged with abuse and malpractice. Take their licenses away. This is disgusting and cannot be ignored. PLEASE RELEASE THE NAME OF THE HOSPITAL, NURSE AND DOCTOR IS
@kpw84u2
Жыл бұрын
Good luck with that. They already either paid off the State regulators or are the State regulators... thanks to Citizens United and Neoliberals outsourcing our regulatory bodies to corporate interests.
@rlud304
Жыл бұрын
There’s already been a lawsuit( which is great). What do you mean by “Charged” with abuse? Like criminally? I don’t understand what that actually means.
@kpw84u2
Жыл бұрын
@@rlud304 abuse charges are a criminal procedure... The problem with filing just a civil action in such matters, is it more often does not remedy the underlying problem to prevent further occurrences.
Because society views me as a white woman I have NEVER had trouble getting anything prescribed. Most of the time docs are all too willing to write a script for me instead of provide alternative solutions to my medical issues. 10 yrs ago, during a bout of depression/anxiety/insomnia around seizures I had been having, I was prescribed oxy, Ativan, fentanyl, gabapentin, and Xanax among other meds which were constantly changing and I had to ask the doctors to stop because having meds thrown at me instead of fixing the problems doesn’t do anything but create addicts. Meanwhile women of color struggle to get the meds that they seriously need. These kinds of disparities should never happen. We need to be doing more to address this.
@qur4334
Жыл бұрын
It's So Hard To CHANGE The Heart. One Day The EVIL ONES Will Have An Epiphany
@kkcook3743
Жыл бұрын
I hope you are well now.
@vivianjcardriche
Жыл бұрын
And that why so many whites are addicted to oxycontin. Which is a for of coxycodon. I am so glady out of racism didn't prescript it to me 34 years. My back has been hurting for 34 years and I was lucky if they gave me an aspire for my pain. I have disc problems at L4,5, and S1 and L5 and my cox tail bone and just with in the last years I have gotten help. Doctors have kicked me out of their office many times.
That nurse needs to lose her license 😡
What the fuck. That nurse AND that doctor need to lose their license
*SUE SUE SUE SUE SUE SUE SUE SUE SUE SUE SUE* *I'M LITERALLY CRYING AND PISSED THE EFF OFF AT THE SAME TIME*
Her employer is also at fault for making her wait to go to the hospital.
BUT WHY WASN'T ANYONE CHARGED WITH TWO COUNTS FOR ATTEMPTED MURDER
@anthonyharris3193
Жыл бұрын
OMG SUE THEM THIS SHOULD NOT HAPPEN TO ANY ONE
Sue the crap out of the hospital, nurse and doctor.
I watched a black KZreadr's story about giving birth in Japan, a country where most people haven't seen black people before, and was treated a million times better than she would have been here. It was amazing, they catered to her every needs and didn't seem to have a problem with it. Their goal was to make sure she had a comfortable birth and stay at the hospital and that's what did. They probably hadn't seen a black woman in person before but that didn't stop them from caring about her and her baby. Just a glaring far cry from how America treats its own God d*mn citizens!
@Omnipotent_Diva
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That's %100 true.
@Asa...S
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Maternity deaths per capita (per 100 000 births) The US: 17.4 Japan: 3.7 (Source Statista Maternal mortality rates worldwide in 2019, by country)
@johnpeters9793
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@@Asa...S How are they in African countries???
@Asa...S
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@@johnpeters9793 It varies from 1150 in South Sudan to 37 in the Egypt. Health care spending per capita South Sudan: $23 Egypt: $150 Japan: $4,360 US: $11,945
@johnpeters9793
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@@Asa...S How come black run countries are so horrible??
Thank you for sharing this! As one who was once part of the medical profession we see this type of systemic racism far too often, the biases against African American is a reality that we should not have to endure!!! SMH....Happy to know that mom and son are alive and well which speaks to our ability to survive horrific circumstances!
This is very very sad and horrible. I can't understand it.
First No on the telling me to shut up.
As a nurse myself, nurses are not allowed to tell a patient to shut up and not allowed to say you are on drugs when they have no proof. She obviously didn't do her job at all. That 'nurse' should have had her license taken away by the State Board. Glad you sued that hospital and I hope other black women do the same!!!
@someguy7629
Жыл бұрын
I'm a volunteer nurse in my country, if i asked such things, i would have been fired the same day/night for sure.
@jacquelynyoung221
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She didn’t want to do her job. She thought that she would get away with it. Can you say privileged-at least that is what she thought.
@johney3734
Жыл бұрын
this is the best ep.. it had stats that in my mind gives proof of a biased medical system. (i know some doctors think black ppl have thinker skin than whites and feel less pain) from the show the difference in death rate is far to large for life stile choices to make up the difference... the story had the WORST!! birth story i have ever heard and all birth story's are bad, but what that nurse said to her is nuts! and then she and baby died for a long time, crazy ep i had to show it to my wife.. your a nurse, would you have spoken up if you were in the room? follow up question. she was so sick why was she alone in the room with one nurse given the screaming and all..
@althor9997
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Because it probably didn't happen lol.
@202nw_ceo2
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@@jacquelynyoung221 she said enough! She should have her license taken from the board!
That cave woman should lose her nursing license and fired and be arrested.
Let's get the name of the nurse and doctor. Their license needs to be revoked.
Same thing happened to me, except I was saved by a black nurse. She had to convince the midwife to admit me to the hospital. I ended up sitting in the lobby, sobbing my eyes out waiting for a monitoring room because my blood pressure couldn't be read. Thank God for another black nurse that noticed my pain and made the decision to take me to labor and delivery instead. I had to be put under anesthesia just so I wouldn't bleed out. I was diagnosed with H.E.L.L.P and a minor stroke. My son was placed in ICU and we didn't meet until the day after delivery. I still have PTSD, and refused to have any other children.
@urbanhabuki8091
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Are you seeing a therapist? Are you improving? Yes! Same here no more children for me. Once is enuff! I might adopt a child to give he/she a loving home.
@stacyphilippe8927
Жыл бұрын
@@urbanhabuki8091 yes, I am absolutely seeing a therapist! Bless you for thinking about adoption♡ so many children need a loving home to be raised in.
No mother should ever go through this situation. Thank God both mum and son survived. What a lucky pair they are. I'm so pleased she won her case.
Lord I hope she SUES THE HELL OUT OF THAT HOSPITAL😡😡😡.....
My ex husband had a high fever and i rushed him the hospital. He was shaking because he has chills . The nurse told my husband to stop shaking with an attitude. I flip!! My ex had septicemia. They send him home without waiting for the text. He could have died. If you are not fit to be a nurse , don't be
@tangelahenderson2198
Жыл бұрын
MY SENTIMENTS EXACTLY 💯❤️💯
That’s why black people don’t trust the medical industry. This is sad, so sad. The money won’t heal the trauma but will help. Blacks should have own hospitals, this repeating horrid lack of care.
This happens to women of color all the time!!! Ladies, if you ever encounter this or any other type of disrespectful treatment IMMEDIATELY REQUEST to speak with the Patient Advocate or the Hospital Administrator. Take down names of EVERYONE who has been in contact with you. Record it if you’re able. DO NOT PLEAD, DEMAND! This story is awful. Thank God she and her baby are doing well but this is clearly traumatizing to her and her child.
@dglorious1269
Жыл бұрын
Right.🎯 Please be AWARE ladies! It's nothing to play with! ⚠️
@Ashley-oi2uw
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So true , they will leave you in pain sitting in the lobby for hours because "they don't have a room available" or so they say. Racism in healthcare is still happening and it's sad. Why do white lives matter but blacks don't? Why is America thinking so messed up? That lady could of lost her life and her baby! Glad you both made it!
That nurse needs to be exposed so she CAN'T hurt anyone else. So glad mom and baby survived. There has been many that haven't been so lucky due to racism and just complete hatred and lack of humanity.
I am glad this mom sued and the nurse was fired!
THIS IS SOME BULL THEY TREATED HER LIKE SHE WAS NOT HUMAN 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
I had diverticulitis when i went to the hospital and they asked me to rate my pain on a scale of 1 to 10. I said 10, even though it was more like 15. Then they asked me what drugs i was on. I told them tylenol and pepto. They insisted i must be drug seeking, because the symptoms i was describing sounded like withdrawal. WTF? NOT AT ALL. Within 9 hours of showing up at the ER, my colon ruptured and and i almost died. I had a perforated colon that started leaking feces into my blood stream. Within an hour of having a CAT scan, i was having emergency surgery to remove 12 inches of my colon to save my life. I'm sure if i had been a pretty little white girl they would have believed me.
@jrgreen7303
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I'm so sorry that happened to u. ik exactly how u feel
Where in the heck did she give birth at?!? Everybody who saw her at this hospital needs to be fired. She also needs to sue the hospital!!!
@charlesbrazell2136
Жыл бұрын
Hell yeah! 12-6-22.
This is ridiculous! Y’all almost killed this woman and her child and tried to blame her for drugs!?! Everybody needs to lose their license.
Put the nurse's picture up and name the hospital!
@sweetcheeks89
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Her doctor was black and the nurse philipino. I saw other comments of this and looked it up. In fact this woman never said anything about it being of her race or racism. So im really confused...he certainly will not be putting a photo up
This young lady should have made an official complaint to the medical board against both nurse and doctor. And sue each of them individually for pain & suffering.
@jubilantsleep
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She definitely sued
@hevel4383
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@@jubilantsleep yes, she sued the hospital and won. She need to sue the nurse and doctor separately and go after their license.
@Natapier
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@@hevel4383 Well said!!
I'd SUE my boss and I'd sue that damn hospital
I am so angry and disgusted for all the women who are treated like this. It's so disgusting and disposable.
This is why as BLACK MEN we must stay and protect our children’s-mother no matter how she annoys you
@thetruedoctrineofchristnet7473
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FACTS!!!!!
@b.robins7305
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Stay with your family, ask yourself why do I get annoyed, and go to therapy and get help to learn how to manage your emotions. Then, you can raise your children.
I'm an RN and this was shocking to hear, but unfortunately not rare. Black people are treated like 3rd class citizens by the healthcare industry, as in any other American industry.
I worked in hospital security for three years. Medical racism is a real thing.
That poor woman. That is horrific, I hope she sues them immediately.
Not unusual for black women to be denied treatment. Ask me how I know!!!!!!! How sad
Young baby boy, you have a MOTHER. A woman that literally battled the worst our society has to offer to bring you in this world. Love Her and grow to be good that's all she'll ever ask in return
@rlud304
Жыл бұрын
That’s so toxic. Leave that innocent baby alone. No one asks to be born and like all children he owes nothing “in return” for the parents’ choices.
@rlud304
Жыл бұрын
@cherryhoneyricola That has nothing to do with my comment. I was referring to a child not owing his or her parents anything IN RETURN because it was the parents’ decision to have them and not the child’s decision to be born. Children don’t owe anything to anyone IN RETURN. Did you catch the IN RETURN part? Those were Your words.
YOU need to Sue the doctor and hospital
I had an anesthesiologist insist that they gave me enough meds for a c-section, I started feeling the pain, intense pain of my c-section. The doctor cussed the anesthesiologist OUT, and insisted that I get the proper medication. I passed out because my blood pressure dropped. I missed her so much. She was an excellent doctor. My child was born, my first born, dead for 7 minutes. I k ow there are other stories like ours. This is so saddening 😢.
Ugh it makes me sick to my stomach that women in america have to deal with this!! Black women have had a higher birth mortality rate forever & it never seems to be addressed... hoping voting more strong black females into office will fix this... Stay strong mommas!!
@nathanlyon8775
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Australia is exactly the same..
When I was in labor with my son I had a nurse who was a NUN tell me that it didn't hurt that bad. I'm like how would you know?🤷🏾♀️😡
Nurse should be banned from ever having any kind of anasthetic administered to her. If she's getting a cavity filled, if she's having surgery, if she even stubs a toe and begs for help, doctor should tell her "no, you're faking, you just want to score drugs."
I just gave birth and it's ALLLLL true!!!! My pregnancy was trash, labor was trash, after labor trash. I tried so hard to advocate for myself but I can't do an entire hospitals job
@luckzthesecond1694
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I am sorry. I hope a Women Infants and Children program and a Mother Baby program can support you. I pray for healing, bonding, and care.
This is why I try to get a black doctor as much as possible to help. Other races unfortunately treat us bad in the medical field. I had surgery which I woke up in the middle of and when it was over was in severe pain. I literally had to beg the nurse to try to give me some kind of pain relief. And when she finally gave me the pain relief I was met with an attitude and rolling of her eyes as though I was lying about my pain. Never again, will I get that surgery again even if I needed it. I don't trust.
I’m 63 years old. I have sickle cell anemia. I’ve been treated with suspicion at hospitals but what really had me scratching my head was when a black Dr. at the emergency room told me that I was NOT having a sickle cell crisis but was experiencing trauma (I had been bumped…bumps cause crises), gave me a knee brace and sent me home. You’d think after 63 years I’d know when I’m experiencing a crisis. 🤷🏾♀️
@peyenappleguy
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They get these degrees that makes them think they know everything but how to actually treat us like human beings.. most are Void of empathy and compassion and should have never become "Doctors"
Im so glad you are covering this. Black women go through so much with the healthcare world.
This is heart breaking, why do we have to go through this at such a vulnerable time
I am so glad she sued and won! That treatment was disgusting.