Ladies if you really want to make a statement. Contact the company of the products she was reviewing. Make your feelings known. You don't appreciate a non BW, who thinks poorly of your hair texture selling you products that are for your hair texture and are made by a Black Owned Business. Write them a letter and demand that she be removed from their list of influencers.

@cherrylove9704

2 жыл бұрын

I completely agree 👍

@Laura-sg6ss

2 жыл бұрын

Yepp!!

@michellemoore4585

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! This is how to fight. This is how to hold others accountable for how they talk to and about us. No need to rant and rave just silently and strategically hit the pocketbook.

@Mini-rt8bm

2 жыл бұрын

It was a small business and they’re friends so I doubt we’ll get much out of this

@athenasuperheldin1017

2 жыл бұрын

@@Mini-rt8bm what’s the name of the company

“4C women…Get cocky about your crown.” I like that.

@agotay25

2 жыл бұрын

Right, I need that on a shirt lol

@lissettexmarie275

2 жыл бұрын

Facts, I’m going to start saying, “I’m blessed to have 4C hair because Chile, I can literally do anything to my hair and it still stands tall 🤷🏾‍♀️.”

@Kreezword913

2 жыл бұрын

Yes 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

@lovehonor160

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! 👏🏾

@halosandhorns8330

2 жыл бұрын

CAUSE WE GOTTA LET THESE OTHER BITCHES KNOW 🙌🏾 ON THE BACK

Whether people want to admit it or not, a lot of people feel this way, even black people. It also seems like her mother instilled that belief into her as well. Just sad all around.....

@castalan00s

2 жыл бұрын

A lot of blkwomen don’t want to admit that some blk mothers with biracial kids instill anti-blackness to their mixed kids. Let us be real, if her father was blk a lot of black women would say the father instill this ignorance onto the mixed kid.

@AfroGirl5852

2 жыл бұрын

@@castalan00s exactly I agree!

@__Selena__

2 жыл бұрын

@@castalan00s I always want to say that but I don’t feel like going back and forth with people but exactly. There are several mixed people with black moms who have a superiority complex with identity issues. Don’t know why it’s so hard to believe for some people.

@castalan00s

2 жыл бұрын

@@__Selena__ A lot of black women tend to be dense when this subject is approached. They never want to realize that there are some black women that do not like their blackness and will find a partner just to have the mixed child they can live vicariously through. Self-hating black men AND women do this. I know a girl that refers to looser texture as “good hair”, she has a biracial child with a white man. Let’s be real, they’ll carry anti-blkness with them and will unknowingly or even knowingly project their self-hate onto their biracial child. I’m all for black women dating out but don’t do it because you hate yourself or do not like your black features. Do it out of being genuinely in love with the man.

@neeciiw7840

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly she got it from her mama🙄

Imagine carrying your child in your womb for 9 months, giving birth, raising your child... and then they grow up and say they are BLESSED for not inheriting your appearence... I feel so bad for this woman's mother 😭

@ahmudbrr4940

2 жыл бұрын

I'm mixed and I have curly hair and yes I love it! What's the problem in saying so? I'm both white and black. I don't have straight hair like my father nor 4c hair like my mother. It's curly because of my parents dna...both of them! I'm proud and you guys have to deal with it. BW don't get to dictate how other people should feel. Focus on yourselves.

@marialovesshires2385

2 жыл бұрын

@@ahmudbrr4940 hmm, i think you replied the wrong comment because you completely missed the point 🙄 this woman offended her OWN MOTHER, do you think she's right?

@MRGooodwineTV

2 жыл бұрын

should've never slept with a white dude.. her own mother fault for that

@Morgansaron

2 жыл бұрын

@@marialovesshires2385 👏👏👏 it’s the “you guys have to deal with it” for me 🤦🏽‍♀️

@AmoreAwareness

2 жыл бұрын

exactly

Having 4c hair is a blessing, not a burden. I’m grateful to be blessed with 4c hair and no one can ever make me feel bad about that 👑

@notabadword4026

2 жыл бұрын

I have type 4 hair and this shit is high maintenance and time consuming. Why are we all so afraid to be honest about this?

@adoremedream5834

2 жыл бұрын

@@notabadword4026 stfu. You showing your self hatred fool. I love my hair. Don’t try to stand up for ignorance. You making yourself look bad. You probably not even black.

@godislove7410

2 жыл бұрын

@@notabadword4026 hours spent on then lacefronts though

@kanyesnonexistentjacuzzi1799

2 жыл бұрын

@@notabadword4026 yes it can be a struggle and everyone knows it. but that doesn’t mean that we can’t appreciate the beauty and grace that it carries. Our hair is meant to be uplifted and embraced, not put down. Especially in our own community. Our hair is beautiful. Periodt ❤️ 👑

@lolagunz

2 жыл бұрын

Who is that in your avi???

“My mama got naps” should not be excusable for blatant texturism, colorism and anti Blackness. This is why distinguishing our identity and experiences are so important.

@gerreneerobinson4734

2 жыл бұрын

@@stephcurrytheg.o.a.t no that’s the biracials with black dads y’all self hate in y’all children this is rarely happens with black moms

@Janna_Ash

2 жыл бұрын

@@stephcurrytheg.o.a.t actually that’s more of the mixed kids of yt women and black men.

@faith7636

2 жыл бұрын

@@stephcurrytheg.o.a.t most biracials have ⚫️ FATHERS and rac!!!st ⚪️mothers. They are the real self h8ers. I see this in UK where we have the most biracial people in the world. Don’t play.

@TheDKShow

2 жыл бұрын

@@stephcurrytheg.o.a.t yea that facts are the MAJORITY of all biracials in America are made by Bm and that’s where most of this comes from. But it’s clear her mama didn’t teach her right. And society including the BC usually confirms this mindset in biracial people. Very sad.

@faith6715

2 жыл бұрын

@@stephcurrytheg.o.a.t you slow af. Over 50 percent of ⚫️ males have ⚪️ wives over here. Don’t let me about where I live.

She basically called her mama a nappy headed heaux and we’re supposed to be okay with that?! Girl BYE!

@mead9

2 жыл бұрын

Take a look on Soul Train, there were beautiful afros why do you think back in those days the white people wanted to get perms. Check out the 70's

@mead9

2 жыл бұрын

I was called ugly, transexual, white girl ect, Sticks and stones will break my bones but names will never hurt me. The worst is when someone supposes to be your friend that you trust them and they stab you in the back. What's hair can be groom straight, curly, and twist? So what's the big deal? Black women have an issue with their hair. Because had cursed the Daughters of Zion for being haughty toward their men. That's in the Bible. Why do black women stand out for all the rest? He put a scab on your head for being uppidy toward their men. That.'s why black women put on weaves and pieces to compensate what the Most High took from them: Isaiah 3:16 KJV - Bible Hub

@reesewiltz

2 жыл бұрын

@@invisiblerevolution her mother is lost as well. At some point we have to stop blaming our parents for things. She’s a grown women with a huge following of Black women with “African American” hair. She knew wtf she was saying. She even said “don’t come for me, SIS”. She watched the video, edified it and still posted it, not thinking it was problem. She meant wtf she said.

@Kyilil.B

2 жыл бұрын

there’s a lot of l*es and paraphrasing going on here.

@marlevar593

2 жыл бұрын

THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING!!!! LIKE YALL JUST GON SKIP PAST THAT?

girl you told no lies. it’s disgusting how people have normalized calling 4c hair “bad hair” no baby .

If society viewed people the way God viewed us, there wouldn’t be racism and colorism. God made us all beautiful. PERIOD!

@totallytaly1652

2 жыл бұрын

👏🏾

@toocooldanna

2 жыл бұрын

Amen

@IDontKnow-pf6en

2 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@pedroheilel130

2 жыл бұрын

If you take a moment to actually READ THE BIBLE, you’d know God doesn’t have this view on everybody. There are several verses showing God commanding his elected people to kill/slaughter thousands of other people…

@aladynamedSusan

2 жыл бұрын

@@pedroheilel130 THIS! HE absolutely has CHOSEN FAVS! AND THEY ARE THE PERSECUTED!

It’s the fact that she looks so proud saying it.

@empressdawnsomerville1101

2 жыл бұрын

I know right. Smh

@a.a.1867

2 жыл бұрын

She looks relieved

@jessicah6597

2 жыл бұрын

Right and she’s laughing smh

@miss11249

2 жыл бұрын

So many self hating bit.... out there

@shawbrothersgirl2740

2 жыл бұрын

I'm a black woman with nappy hair and I don't see nothing wrong with what she saying it's hard for us to manage our hair leave the girl alone she should be proud of her hair

“Don’t take this the wrong way”… what other way were we suppose to take it sis?

@mi3helle707

2 жыл бұрын

Imagine 🙃

@kimoramicheal8353

2 жыл бұрын

That part!

@dezmion

2 жыл бұрын

The right way lol… idk man, she was trippn

@jubilantsleep

2 жыл бұрын

I guess she expected us to laugh about it 😐

@quail57

2 жыл бұрын

LMFAO exactly.

Will we ever be released from the shackles of putting “biracial” or Eurocentric features on a pedestal 🤦🏾‍♀️.. it’s getting old.

@IHateEverythingInIife

2 жыл бұрын

Black asiacentric features need to be praised and black Latinas

@Leilawr

Жыл бұрын

​@@IHateEverythingInIife or just... fully black? tf

@lndingalle9605

Жыл бұрын

@@IHateEverythingInIife for what? Too many black women go around calling themselves Hispanic. To distance themselves from the black community. They look black and are black so say that.

@CHELSEABuckhannon

10 ай бұрын

I swear like who cares

The real discussion is not about what this individual said, but what society deems acceptable and has been ingrained in so many of us to fit these standards.

Her Mom’s self hate for her own hair has rubbed off on her. Disgusting. This started from home‼️

@antoinettekminor

2 жыл бұрын

Yup!

@TheLilly

2 жыл бұрын

I be looking at a lot of these interracial relationships sideways. A lot of y'all really not in it for love.

@Kaykay-jh1zu

2 жыл бұрын

Facts

@sungaze342

2 жыл бұрын

That’s why she married a white man or whatever it wasn’t of her on race smh

@castalan00s

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheLilly EXACTLY. Doesn’t even matter if the parent is a black man or woman. They purposely choose a partner to create a child that doesn’t have their features because they hate themselves. I’m not saying this is for all IR relationships but most of the time this is what happens. But people don’t want to hear about that.

“Don’t take this the wrong way” *spews ignorance*

@Prairie1960

2 жыл бұрын

I disagree that it spews ignorance. I imagine the reason why she said "don't take it the wrong way" is due to her knowing how some black folk over react to, and seem to get bent out of shape over almost anything, especially when it comes to hair texture...case in point with the majority of these comments, and I've seen it within my own family...so yes, I said it. Only speaking the truth. I'm "mixed", "tri-racial" , whatever...Mom is Native American, Dad is Black & Sicilian. I get what she said in this clip because I used to see some cousins who had "kinky 4c" hair and I'm glad I didn't have to go through all of what they had to do to maintain their hair. With that being said, all hair textures have their ups and downs regardless of race. I think a key element is to not put "mixed / biracial" people into the race of being black because we aren't. We are a mixture of two or more races, and if I have to check a box, I check both. If you're true to yourself, and not merely conforming to society, you shouldn't deny any race that is a part of yourself.

@MsDani171

2 жыл бұрын

@@Prairie1960 It is ignorant. You're speaking on hair you know nothing about. I have thick type 4 hair, and I have 0 issues of taking care of my hair. I've never had a perm. I style my hair when wet.....when it's the easiest. I love my hair! No problems over here!

@iseeyou2810

2 жыл бұрын

@@Prairie1960 you mean like she is disrespecting her mothers features and we should just stand around and say nothing?

@bbbryne893

2 жыл бұрын

@@iseeyou2810 this is what I’m saying! They’re like “oh I’m so glad I don’t have that” and don’t realize how ignorant that is to say. Like so now how are ppl with that hair type supposed to feel

Are we really surprised that she feels superior when we be in the comments talking bout “my 4c hair could never” under a mixed chicks hair tutorials, we slander our own hair and too many of us wear weave of a different texture, no one is gonna love our hair if we don’t love our own hair

@animeghost888

2 жыл бұрын

I can’t stand when BW do that. They take pride in “joking” about their hair. It’s not funny 😔

I'm shocked when i hear a black person use the words "good and bad" hair to describe black hair vs other hair textures. I was watching a show where a white lady lived with Native African people who lived isolated away from every other culture. So they hadn't learned to hate their hair or features (programming). The native African Women talked about the European white woman's hair like "we can't do anything with this. It's like horsehair." I found that so fascinating. Beauty is defined by the majority and the rest struggle with the cultural norms that put them down.

@Marie-jt6io

2 жыл бұрын

This video is not about white people

@be.A.b

2 жыл бұрын

Omg nothing cuter then the little kids from Africa seeing scary European “ghosts” for the first time lol. My grandma was from a rural village in Mexico. Didn’t get to go to school, and grew up without a plumbing. She said the first time she came to the states, she thought caucasians look like baboons in the face. She used to say that’s why she believes in evolution… they looked better after a while. She was completely serious. 😂 I guess some Europeans do have longer looking faces??? lol

@lareinadivestinesa2184

2 жыл бұрын

@@be.A.b That's true you should see Osferth from Tlk

@CulturalBackgroundsStudyBible

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this...so True💝🤜🤛🕊

@firstnamelastname4427

2 жыл бұрын

@@be.A.b My grandma grew up in rural Mèxico and she says something similar lol.

Oh no her mom is putting her mixed features on a Pedestal over her own features all while screaming she’s a BLACK woman mixed or not 🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴 lawd

@jhiselebardot

2 жыл бұрын

That part! SMH

@NovaNetworkProductions

2 жыл бұрын

A whole problem.

@rickiesmith413

2 жыл бұрын

@IVY, best comment ever. She got those ideas from her mammie.

@Tarapope34

2 жыл бұрын

you’d be suprised I met so many black women who hate their blackness so much they have biracial kids to live vicariously through them

@oncode7735

2 жыл бұрын

Bw can’t complain about what she’s saying if you’re not rocking your own hair textures

“Don’t take this the wrong way” & her parents didn’t help with her perspective on natural hair either.

@Breakinglily9889

2 жыл бұрын

She’s a grown woman let me ask you this question if it was another race a woman who said this her black audience would have revoked their support

@ramenwithaliens5431

2 жыл бұрын

Omg I love your videos Mire!!

@Breakinglily9889

2 жыл бұрын

I just find it weird that black women have this undying loyalty to biracial women who don’t even care about us. It’s time to pack it up they think everything some type of competition it’s annoying. Y’all need to start following more black women Influencers like Eva Apio

@snatchedwaistcuteface5415

2 жыл бұрын

That's cause her mom more than likely has self hate too. That's thing many bw mate with white or non BM & have biracial daughters and some times envy them and or live vicariously through them, showing self hatred of their own features by always obsessing over their mixed daughters hair & lighter skin smdh, But we don't hear IR dating black women talk about that though...🤐

@judithjacob1807

2 жыл бұрын

I love you Miree

Y'all can't be out here having mixed children and hating your hair. 🤦🏿‍♀️

@lesliejohnson1549

2 жыл бұрын

#allofthis

Ill be honest though. How can we drag her when we wear that texture of weave that looks nothing like our hair. We have to be intellectually honest and admit most of us black Women have a complex with our hair just like this woman.

Black hair literally grows towards the sun and stands tall like a crown. It's so beautiful.

@highpriestesschronicles4263

2 жыл бұрын

😍😘😘💯

@childofthedivine81

2 жыл бұрын

I’m sure they were talking about black women when they said the bigger the hair the closer to God! 👑👑👑

@radley3519

2 жыл бұрын

It's a blessing♡

@skholiwezondi986

2 жыл бұрын

Literally our antenna, connecting us to Ra. Our hair is beautiful and majestic.

@kt..b

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you..Like in nature....ie TREES 🌳

And let's be honest. Briana wouldn't be this ignorant if her mother loved herself.

@choclate39

2 жыл бұрын

That paaart !!!!

@Baylabadass

2 жыл бұрын

I was just saying this...she’s getting this ignorance from her mother. Probably one of those mother’s that praise having a “mixed” looking daughter with “good hair” smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

@sihlerapodile5336

2 жыл бұрын

I mean yeah, but she's grown now, how long is the mother going to blamed? and the fact that she is an influencer meaning that people from different backgrounds are watching her? It's her duty as an adult aswell to start throwing out that deep routed anti-blackness. At some point age does play into choice making, if she was a teenager maybe, I'd be like it's the mother but now she is an adult like the mother.

@kfrank9455

2 жыл бұрын

One of those self hating mothers who live vicariously through their mixed daughters

@shawnatarrant1017

2 жыл бұрын

Ooooooo that’s deep.

Like the irony in Eloho going on a rant about how Briana Monique shouldn't have said she's blessed to have her hair, only to end it saying that she's blessed to have 4c hair whilst wearing a type 3 wig🤦‍♀️

“No more humbly natural” I like that!! Talk your shit!!

When you say “don’t take it the wrong way” that shows that you know what you’re saying is and could be problematic, the fact you said it also highlights how majority of your Audience is African American, plus, you knew to frame it like that and use your… Biracialness and other yourself (I don’t have a problem with the othering it’s fine but…) She thought she was better and she was comfortable enough to say it because black men and some black women and the white system of colorism will protect her.

@pansyrosereality

2 жыл бұрын

Yes ? You said it.

@venusbaptiste8210

2 жыл бұрын

Oh Black men will jump in front of a bus for these women

@FieryPhoenixxx

2 жыл бұрын

Her black mother taught her she was better first.

@nomanipatrice4667

2 жыл бұрын

@@venusbaptiste8210 She thinks she is better than ds women concerning these bm until she realises like what Cyn G always says"She got the same black men that bw get"🤣

@nomanipatrice4667

2 жыл бұрын

@@FieryPhoenixxx Naahhh!! sometimes it's not the mothers/fathers but an individual being negative due to their self esteem thus projecting.See how she didn't say anything about the white side,because she wants to identify more with the side that black side

She looked so proud of herself when she said it too 😬

@Layla-fr7mf

2 жыл бұрын

She is an air head

@kaylalaufeyson8828

2 жыл бұрын

that's how them biracials be

@lyah_lilac25

2 жыл бұрын

@@kaylalaufeyson8828 um, no. Maybe you haven't came across biracial people that are not colorist and texturist in your life/area, but we do exist! 😅

@snatched.4513

2 жыл бұрын

@@lyah_lilac25 majority of you are like this and the ones who aren’t don’t often speak up so the statement is still the same. You are an acception to the rule

@brittanysbreakthrough9639

2 жыл бұрын

Right...a whole 🤡🥴

How is she anti black? All those black women that sew in hair that looks like her hair validates her feelings. so she doesn't have to sew it in like the rest. That's why she feels blessed. She doesn't hate her hair so much, that she covers it with another races hair that she bought for hundreds of dollars. Now to me all women that buy wigs and weaves and fake braid hair is anti black hair as well. Don't be mad at her because she loves her hair and you wish you had her hair. That's why you keep buying hair that looks like hers. That's why she feels blessed. Black women with 4c hair is out here spending thousands to buy what she can grow.

@makayy_love

2 жыл бұрын

and what about other women out here spending thousands on butt implants and big lips or boobs buying what is natural for us.....validate it.

I love my African hair, love the natural look, natural curls, love taking care of it because that's what God blessed me with.

This is white supremacy at its core. The idea that whiteness and proximity to whiteness is above all. I’d say I’m embarrassed by her by I don’t identify as mixed race. I’m black and proud of it. Edit: for the folks who lack comprehension - I’m black not mixed therefore I don’t identify as mixed.

@dearinsomniadontletthebedb9237

2 жыл бұрын

Well i mean if you're mixed, you're mixed😅😅

@Mimi89_7

2 жыл бұрын

And watch her mom be like they just jealous baby lol

@VenusAuset

2 жыл бұрын

You are mixed so why are you claiming to be black? You’re half black stop forgetting to embrace your other side even if you don’t like it

@parrismoniaa5008

2 жыл бұрын

It’s the “ they just jealous baby “ for me !!! I’m church hollering frr 🤣🤣

@kaerenparker3364

2 жыл бұрын

See it again for the mutts in the back. They always think dey better tham DSBW. Prolly thinks she is better than her mom. Great job Mom...smh

The jokes really write themselves with this one. Putting down 4C hair for being “nappy” but then losing your hair because you got braids that were never meant for your hair. Smh

@africanrumpunch7742

2 жыл бұрын

Riiiiight! I really hope thats is not lost on her.

@tinkerblack7743

2 жыл бұрын

Biracials were never black to begin with and most black white mixes are the result of black men (do you research) and it’s revealing the opposite of what black men claim is happening. Black men in america claim these descendants will grow up to be black as means to justify their high rate of dating outside of their race above every other race (brown,white) . Black men in America are basically whitening the black race. There’s actually studies on this, there increase of multiracial races, so the black demographic in America is not increasing it’s MULTIRACIAL that’s increasing. So everything black men claim were benefiting as a community from biracials are false. Non black women usually get the same black men black women get, they usually leave them as single mothers (do you research). Their children grow up and make countless videos on how they hated who they were (self-hate) from their self hating father. (edit: i mentioned in america because everywhere is different, not every black men thinks or behaves the way black men behave in america, yes the obsession with lighter skin tone is still a global thing and their are some black men who mimic behaviour however the rate of black men in america dating outside of the race is significantly higher than other countries, they have so much internalised hatred that actual universities in america teach people about the black male psychology and how think putting themselves besides non black women will gain the status when it usually doesn’t. the only way you can create black children is by a black father and black mother, don’t believe that interracial relationships give black children, sad that we are the only race that thinks like this)

@neesha901

2 жыл бұрын

@@tinkerblack7743 lol did you comment all that under this comment cause it's pinned? Cause that didn't really have much to do with the original comment so I was confused

@CristinaCee

2 жыл бұрын

Girl...That fuckin part

@briaarie9089

2 жыл бұрын

Okay Okay oh my goodness opposed

But black women also praise her hair type, historically and currently by her mother. Mixed women are told they are blessed by bw all the time. So what do we expect??

@anniiieehh

2 жыл бұрын

Why is it so bad to say that she's lucky for not struggling with hairstyling? Is something that takes a lot of time, money and physical effort ...

@MrsJones-oj3cp

2 жыл бұрын

@@anniiieehh The struggle bw have with course hair can be understandable, not her delivery, texturism and disregard to offend other bw.

@anniiieehh

2 жыл бұрын

@@MrsJones-oj3cp agree

@raquelmoore3761

2 жыл бұрын

Black women praise this hair type when they wear weave that resembles the kind of texture this girl has. RARELY do I see BW who purchase kinky lacefronts or any sort of hair with kink to it. It's almost ALWAYS straight and silky. So.....I mean, we can miss me with the "we just wanna switch it up and have a diff look" excuse. Cuz that's what it is. And excuse.

@carressa

2 жыл бұрын

@@anniiieehh I think the delivery was wrong but being honest.. my natural hair is a lot of work. I love it.. but it’s a beast. Im blessed to have thick hair but detangling is a mess. Sometimes it would be nice to have a looser curl pattern. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Don't let the devil rob you of the joy God has given you. Jesus bless you.

@jenn4593

3 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏

i’m so tired of people coming for us black women. all we have to do is exist and people come for us. it’s exhausting.

@smtingwa

2 жыл бұрын

It's because they know how strong we are. I don't believe in black women being given extra hardships and having to handle it on their own because we need support too. People hate us because as long as things get thrown at us, we handle it and handle it with grace.

@justtee7752

2 жыл бұрын

We are blessed as a culture Period.

@jjordan95

2 жыл бұрын

@@justtee7752 we really are the taste makers for everything and the blueprint, yet we are the most discredited. i hate it.

@smtingwa

2 жыл бұрын

@@jjordan95 ugh, everyone wants to emulate us but they still hate us.

@mimiwho

2 жыл бұрын

I’m not tired; It motivates me even more to become the highest expression of myself. If she wants that version of her to be what people remembers of her, cuddos to her… I pray you find your strength to be the highest version of yourself!

"Don't take this the wrong way" then proceeds to say something completely offensive and shady. Whew chile 😩🥴

@keithearl7879

2 жыл бұрын

Talking negatively about her own family member... I can just imagine what she says to her white friends about her black family members...

@theoldschooldiva374

2 жыл бұрын

@@keithearl7879 her own MOTHER at that!!

@meiko2164

2 жыл бұрын

@@keithearl7879 You are DERANGED creating fake scenarios about her trashing her mother to some random mayos! 🤣

@sketelgyal

2 жыл бұрын

That part...I played this for my girlfriend without explaining the context and she was like hold up wait a min what did she just say.....all hair is beautiful hair, I am so sick of this bad hair good hair narrative

@keithearl7879

2 жыл бұрын

@@meiko2164 Sorry you feel that way , last I knew you're able to have a opinion remember this is KZread... PS if I'm so DERANGED why bother to respond ?

Yeah no, when some black women stop paying hundreds to have her hair type we can have that discussion.

@Gtdmilon514

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly lol this comment section is literally full of people who don't even like their own hair types acting woke 😂😂😂😂

@jennyld2053

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

I think all the nappy hair girls are jealous Of this beautiful creature

I’m proud to be a Black woman with Black features, dark skin, and black African hair. I refuse to feel ashamed of myself or to wish for ambiguous or white features. God made me black for a goddamn reason.

@jayrose4748

2 жыл бұрын

Good for you but most black women don’t even like their natural hair and wish their hair was like hers. So why act all offended.

@quinmcmullen9437

2 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@brittany.381

2 жыл бұрын

Okay 👏🏽

@jailindamon

2 жыл бұрын

@@jayrose4748 because I’m not those other black women tf... they don’t speak for me! I am me and they are them, I am proud of the hair on my head. So, if I take offense to something I shall take offense because I feel how I feel and NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO TELL ME HOW I SHOULD FEEL OR REACT TO BULL CRAP LIKE THIS.

@ifrahjama2215

2 жыл бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾periodttt

It be the fact that they start it off with “don’t take this the wrong way” like that means you know you’re saying something fucked up

@chiterrapalmer

2 жыл бұрын

ikr. just go on ahead and say it. saying it doesn't not make the statement less bad lol

@shawbrothersgirl2740

2 жыл бұрын

Excuse me as a black woman with nappy hear herself what is wrong with what this woman is saying she has a right to love her mixed textured hair and I'm going to tell you something else it looks bad on us black women that we going to threaten to unsubscribe because she loves her mixed textured hair and don't want nappy hair what's wrong with it if I was in her place I would say the same thing to and if people want to unsubscribe oh well because it looks bad on us it looks like we have low self-esteem I'm telling you that she loves her mixed textured hair and we're going to threaten to unsubscribe because of it very sad very very sad on our part

@chiterrapalmer

2 жыл бұрын

@@shawbrothersgirl2740 girl shut up. did you not watch the same video. The lady CLEARLY degraded "US" in her video!!

@artistdee2226

2 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY 😉 💯

@artistdee2226

2 жыл бұрын

@@shawbrothersgirl2740 You sound just as ridiculous as she does..she should get subscribers that have her texture of hair and then they can laugh together at everyone else. Dont try and secure a bag from the people whose hair texture you despise!! Point Blank Period!!

I love my hair and I’m learning more and more about my texture of hair. I used to be so insecure about my hair. I was wearing wigs to cover my hair, but God told me to ditch the wigs and start loving in the hair that He placed on my head. And i’ve did just that and I’m feeling myself more than I ever felt with weave or wigs!! And I’m blessed too because I can wear box braids too!! In fact my hair is in braids right now!! Ooow!!

@oliochele

2 жыл бұрын

That’s beautiful He gave you a true crown of beauty ♥️♥️♥️

I hope black women wake up, people notice how you look down on your own hair and don’t take pride and others get comfy in your insecurities and get disrespectful too. Hella black women think this too and mask it straight wigs all day.

Her mother sent her a msg that she is superior to her, thus this mentality… it’s a damn shame.

@BuddahflyBarbie

2 жыл бұрын

Sad

@VenusEnergy3

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-kq2we1ex3h Totally hear you. On the face of it, based on what she actually said, I think that’s a reasonable defensive but all the information you need, for me lies in the subtext & behind the grin on her face was telling something different. What she expressed towards her mother (in my opinion) was not compassion but pity. Pity suggests you think you are better than the person you are pitying. Compassion comes from empathy. I didn’t get that from her, I just heard a girl say “Rather you then me” and express relief that she got “lucky” to look the way she does. God forgive me if I have mischaracterised her mentality because I don’t know her personally but that’s what I got from her, sadly. 🙏🏽

@milkiekittie6659

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-kq2we1ex3h not having it isn’t a blessing though. That mindset is anti black. I don’t know about you but my hair isn’t difficult at all I love my 4c hair and playing in it.

@shawbrothersgirl2740

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-kq2we1ex3h exactly as a black woman who has nappy here what is wrong with this woman loving her mixed textured hair what the hell is wrong with that leave the woman alone LOL she sees her mom struggling with the comb and the naps who would want that if they don't have to have that

@milkiekittie6659

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-kq2we1ex3h strongly disagree when there Has always been a narrative that having 4c hair is the worse and anything 3 is seen as having “good hair”. I would agree if there was an equal playing field but no people always pushed that 4c was the worse hair texture.

This video made me realize that when it comes to hair I really don't follow bloggers who don't have my hair texture. I get so excited when I see a woman using the same foundation shade who has the same texture as I do! Really can't relate to following and learning from women with looser hair textures beyond supporting them as creators.

@BrittneyChristina

2 жыл бұрын

Same!!

@bg6358

2 жыл бұрын

@@donna7049 what a stupid response. I'm an Indian woman with Indian hair. Am I going to try and learn from an afro tutorial? You missed her point

@BeEnOn

2 жыл бұрын

Same! I was mad about her statement but for what? Clearly she is ignorant & still hasn’t educated herself on how to articulate herself without offending anyone. You are absolutely right!!!! Follow women that look like you & represent similar characteristics. Like Alliyahface! I may not look like her but she has never talked down about her race. She shows her black family & loves them. She talks about real issues. She puts out resourceful messages that I happen to implement in my routine. She thinks beyond just her looks & materials. Honestly what could you learn from Briana? 🤔

@clouudii_Cx

2 жыл бұрын

That's 100% facts all what your stating.

@hitskwaad

2 жыл бұрын

@@donna7049 you've clearly been hurt in the past but you're still encouraged to read and process what someone says instead of just guessing what they meant and lashing out with unrelated nonsense hoping to strike a nerve.

Loveeeee when youtubers use their platform to express how they feel as though they’re at home talking to their friend. I felt like I was listening to you on the phone. 😂😂 Great video!

@ayrielevans-wilson6066

2 жыл бұрын

Factsss! I was just thinking this lol responded at certain points and allll 🤣

Shout out to my fellow 4c queens!!!!! Period on the “I can get any style I want!” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 I’ve been natural for 10yrs now and have love every single moment of my journey!!! Even though it’s a struggle sometimes, it’s a struggle I’m willing to go through. I am the mother of my crown 👸🏽 ✊🏽

IMO it’s mom’s doing- she said her mom told her she was “lucky” to have her hair texture. Imagine her hearing that all her life. It goes back for generations.

@abiandrews6

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@nickb839

2 жыл бұрын

Jay Paul is that your real hair in your profile picture? You guys complain about it but let’s be real it’s the antithesis of what good hair is. No matter what the beauty standard I don’t think it can change. I’m “Brown” but blacker than Black with straight hair. You guys trash Cardi B etc but looks so bad man as an Indian and I’m not trying to be rude but which version do you think is superior or will actually last in the long run?

@judithep.8604

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, that’s my real hair and it is straightened in this pic. I straightened it out of preference (mainly bc I wasn’t sure how to take care of my natural hair at the time). There is something to be said about what motivates you though- the lady in the video seemed to feel superior bc of her hair texture where someone else may feel superior with textured hair. It’s all about what’s in the heart in my opinion. Unfortunately it seems like her thoughts about her hair was passed down to her in a negative sense. She should love what she has but that appreciation should come out of self love and not “thank God my hair isn’t nappy” attitude IMO

@marathongirl27

2 жыл бұрын

Her mom very likely had biracial children in an effort to “dilute” her African hair/features and create kids with “good hair”.

@nickb839

2 жыл бұрын

Marathongirl27 I respect Black people as a race, but I’m being honest when I say a lot of other races and people pity it and the hair is probably one of the main reasons. It’s like historically you had the blacks with the straight and nappy hair but until it’s washed out if ever I think the latter is what defines it.

“She also thinks she’s blessed cause she don’t look like African Americans” Say it louder for the people in the back!!!

@NiniBonita

2 жыл бұрын

Oh I thought she was African American black 😬🇬🇲

@IseenDejaVu

2 жыл бұрын

@@NiniBonita she is biracial

@MariE-bz2eq

2 жыл бұрын

@@IseenDejaVu she looks African american. I wouldn't have know she was biracial unless she said it

@mrscheek7611

2 жыл бұрын

She does look like a regular light skin African American I wouldn't have guessed she was biracial.

@librasun1096

2 жыл бұрын

But she do tho, that's the gag. Not one feature ol girl has is "conventional" or European...😂

No more humbly crown. Let’s get cocky. Our hair defies the law’s of man’s “known reality”. Thank you so much Eloho.

We should be proud of our hair. Think about it? Nobody on this PLANET! Have the hair that we have and that’s what makes us unique and beautiful.

Not some of y’all defending her saying “she didn’t know” “it’s her mother’s fault” she a grown women she should educate herself tf is wrong with y’all

@jakearrow8047

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@Ozioma333

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!!

@AriaPringle9053

2 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY!!!!!!!

@jessicarabbit5787

2 жыл бұрын

It’s her and her mother fault she’s a grown woman and to sit there and say “don’t take this the wrong way” she already knew what she was going to say so yea the backlash she’s getting she deserves

@rebecca1331

2 жыл бұрын

Light skin tears gain sympathy💀😮‍💨

HELL NO!!!!!!! I can’t ! I just CANT. Literally gonna drag her in my next video. It’s like I’m shocked but NOT shocked.

@freckledfacedbeauty151

2 жыл бұрын

Can’t wait to see it sis !!!

@contourbae

2 жыл бұрын

OMG HEYY this interaction >

@sasshil4202

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂 chioma I literally read your comment in your voice in my head 😂 I’m ready for your video

@kokolatte825

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@Abdullah20042

2 жыл бұрын

Hey I love your channel

I don’t have 4c hair but I 💯 agree with this commentary. It’s time for BW to stop ✋🏽 being humble and go ahead and stunt on em!

You aren’t reaching at all sis! Love this 💙 keep speaking up for all of us black sistas who don’t have the platform to speak up for ourselves. I love you for this

Exactly why mixed ain't black. We are not the same. Black is not selective with an on and off switch. Period... And these are the same ppl used to promote OUR(black woman) standards of beauty.

@thatladynikki

2 жыл бұрын

Yesssss!

@Moniethemom

2 жыл бұрын

This is the ONE!!!!!

@null9590

2 жыл бұрын

They want to be black when it's convenient, but say dumb sh*t like this without even thinking. Baby you're Bi-racial. You'll never be black

@dawsonfamily9214

2 жыл бұрын

Yes Ebony!!

@Teachingtea

2 жыл бұрын

💅🏾

I really think more black women should wear afro textured extensions that match their hair texture instead of waiting for their to grow, other races do this. Its unnoticeable!!! I think you can find some on Amazon

@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly what I been doing wearing more kinky extensions it look so much more natural and better my opinion

@trinityzurielle4186

2 жыл бұрын

I’ve been looking into more type 4 extensions, I want something that looks like my own hair ( just a bit longer)

@godislove7410

2 жыл бұрын

@@trinityzurielle4186 type A

@trinityzurielle4186

2 жыл бұрын

@@godislove7410 type A? Wym? Genuinely curious as I’ve been natural my entire life but haven’t heard that before

@channelcoconut6830

2 жыл бұрын

I agree, I’m doing this now, no more silky straight/bodywave etc Afro kinky, yaki, curly textures highlight our beauty more IMO

Black women stay saying that biracial with black mamas are less problematic 😒

Btw.. straight hair is not always "silky" like it's portrayed to be. When it dries out, it get very strawy (straw like ) ok, like you said, they have their set of challenges. Afro textured hair that's properly moisturized is soft and silky in my opinion.

“Don’t take this the wrong way,” proceeds to denigrate an entire group of people for their hair texture. I blame her mom for calling her lucky.

@ms.a806

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe her mom was bullied about her own hair texture as a child and felt she needed to procreate with a white or non black man in order to have kids with “good” hair.

@blackdiamond097

2 жыл бұрын

@@stardust464 this. Disgusting

@kokolatte825

2 жыл бұрын

@@ms.a806 i was bullied constantly about my 4ab hair. I would NEVER say that but I will say the natural hair movement is more in the last 10-15 years. Which lends to there being no excuse for Brianna Monique's ignorance here, especially after the year we had in 2020 where we expect White people to understand everything that affects us and you giving a biracial a pass on this!? I think not!

The fact she said “don’t take this wrong way” as a preface. Whew, mercy. lol 🤦🏾‍♀️

@raekwonpipkin

2 жыл бұрын

A preface 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Aoendkth-nv7au

2 жыл бұрын

Bless it Lord

@teahgurl

2 жыл бұрын

She knew she was deadass wrong but that anti-Black just seeps out 🤣🤣

@kiabrooks1472

2 жыл бұрын

Wow so Beautiful but so 🤭 . God bless all wemon like me with hair. But my ego was hurt from this lady sounding like highschool , I have learned and am still learning God made me perfect .Makes no mistakes. Ladies please don't let her or people like her hurt you. I miss my momma she never said my hair was nappy or ugly RIP mommy.

@iseeyou2810

2 жыл бұрын

@@teahgurl she said her mother was always telling her how lucky she was. The self hate the mother had for herself trickle down to her daughter.

I’m thankful for going through my loc journey. It really has taught me about self and to love my hair. Since I locd my hair on 8/15/20, 2 years later, I receive so many compliments b/c of not only rocking my natural locs out but b/c of the confidence I display when I go outside.

I LOVE every second of this and it was all needed

Nooooooo omgggg & then she said, don’t take this the wrong way!!! What year are we in???? Does this girl live under a rock??? She is so far removed from what is going on in the world right now!!!! It’s beyond anti black!!! Nawwwww this is crazy disrespectful! Her black mama has also given her the go ahead to talk so much mess about 4c hair!!

@PHlophe

2 жыл бұрын

someone needs to send this video to Deijah Harris .

@godsgirl7201

2 жыл бұрын

Omg I 100% agree with you The thing is there's millions of women out there like her full black and mixed there definitely needs to be a movement going on to help educate more on self love and black hair ❤️ I'm just now finding your channel love it😘

@godsgirl7201

2 жыл бұрын

@UComaEYB8n5pweESyFguKsLA 🙌🏼

@Lovergiirl48

2 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯💯

@JD-zw5os

2 жыл бұрын

Well mummy obviously showed for a loooong time that she didn’t like her hair 🤷🏾‍♀️

Sounds like her black mother is just as anti black as her. She was probably happy as hell her daughter didnt come out like her. SAD African American hair IMO is the best it is SOOOOO Versatile. The main people who complain are those who don't take the time to MAINTAIN and LOVE on their hair and really put in the work to keep it healthy. She almost looked like she had disdain when she said "My mom is black...so" and not the eye roll when she said that. We see you. UGH

@shakirakelly8063

2 жыл бұрын

True true if she had a strong proud black mama in her life she wouldn't be saying these things.

@FineNaturalHairROCKS

2 жыл бұрын

I love this comment so much because I was actually thinking the exact same thing.

@danishadixson3232

2 жыл бұрын

Her mother is Asian

@FineNaturalHairROCKS

2 жыл бұрын

@@danishadixson3232 I thought her mother was Black? Is she a Black Asian?

@danishadixson3232

2 жыл бұрын

@@FineNaturalHairROCKS Yeah that’s how she acts

4C appreciate post!: So I have 4C hair. I used to want hair that was silky (during my Disney teeny bopper stage watching Pocahontas and the later seasons of sister sister) but when I relaxed my hair…. I hated it. I hated how flat it was, the texture, flatironing it, how it would mess up if it was windy outside, getting relaxers and the smell (to this day makes me sick) . When I went back natural it felt so right. I felt like a whole model when the wind would blow and my hair wasn’t all in my face and didn’t mess up my style. Playing with my kinky coils pulling them down and watching them spring back, Making a style last for days with twists/plats, then take it out when I went on dates and parties (idk about y’all but there’s something about a man that appreciates the natural 🥰). The vibe was exactly what I was missing with straight hair. Then I loc’d my hair. When I tell you I have found my hair purpose with locs. ❤️ I actually love doing my hair, styling my hair, playing with my hair. It’s so healthy. After being natural so long it changed my perspective of a lot of things because what I eat affects my hair, so I drink a lot more water and less sugary drinks. When I see girls with curly or striaght hair I don’t hate, I will compliment them because that’s THEIR journey it’s not mine I was BLESSED to be born with 4C hair and take the journey I’m on. If you as a person can’t appreciate someone with 4C hair that’s a YOU problem because I know it’s magnificent!

Thank you for this video it really actually helped me and I do this not on her mama’s level cus deep down I know I am blessed this is gonna push me more to wear my naps! I AM BLESSED and I was driving listening to this and I wasn’t even watching it and I couldn’t keep my eyes on the road from the tears 😂😂😂😂

She definitely got this attitude from her mother's own self hatred of her hair. This is pretty common. A black woman hates her hair and has a biracial daughter with hopes her hair texture will come out "better". I hate it here.

@UdoADHD

2 жыл бұрын

Mhm, her black momma had that self-hate. Trained her daughter that her hair is "better". "Good".

@crystalo8603

2 жыл бұрын

Honestly, her mom didn’t have to do anything. Society would’ve gotten the job done.

@disneytoysr4fun975

2 жыл бұрын

@@crystalo8603 The mother made her think it was ok to say it out loud probably.

@SnozBerryQueen

2 жыл бұрын

It's pretty rough here ngl.

When Eloho said “Short. 4c. THICCCC. Nigerian haaayerrrr. Eyyyeaa. I love her.” I said Purrrr 😂😂

@iameloho718

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂🙌🏿✨✨✨ we finna deep condition and chat okur

@besthotchocolate

2 жыл бұрын

@@iameloho718 yes ma’am I’m due for a deep treatment 🌟💅🏿

I’m new to your channel but I appreciate you uplifting black 4 type hair. We’ve been conditioned to hate our hair our whole lives and it’s really hard to genuinely be confident after years being told it’s ugly.

Not the lawn chair 😭😭😂😂 YOUR CROWN OF NATURAL COILS IS GORGEOUS‼️ ✨👑👸🏾💜✨ #magical 💅🏾💎

I hope biracial folks keep revealing their true feelings. Then maybe one day Black people will stop whipping out the cape and getting mad at those of us that don’t feel the need to group us all together.

@khloebrown1687

2 жыл бұрын

Yassss!!! Pls I’m so over ppl trying to group us all together let biracial like herself be in their own damn group!!!!

@BlackTinkerbell

2 жыл бұрын

I'm biracial and I can tell you, this girl is just really kinda dumb.

@puppyprincess2822

2 жыл бұрын

True but BP, especially BW, need to unlrearn and unpack the toxic texurism ideaologies. Im not saying it will be an easy thing for us, but many BW really see their hair as a chore.

@christinem8799

2 жыл бұрын

@@puppyprincess2822 This omg.

@MiaG2012

2 жыл бұрын

@@puppyprincess2822 So true. It starts so young too. Perms at like five years old, that's some deep seeded hate that can go a long time. Our hair can flourish if we just treat it right.

I don't know... I would happily change my hair texture for one that is less coily. Xtra coily hair is annoying AF. I sit at about 3c/4a (that's the weave I buy for curly extensions). I'm gonna keep it 100, it's a pain in the ass. Tighter coils are less manageable. It takes more time and energy to manipulate the hair. Humidity is my enemy. It just takes more time and effort. It's like someone who can naturally maintain their body weight. They can eat whatever they want, they don't have to work out, but they maintain their weight. You can be someone who looks at a slice if cake and gains 10 pounds. You have to bust your ass at the gym and you have to constantly worry about your diet, just to maintain your weight. No one would say you hated yourself because you would prefer to maintain your weight with zero effort. If we're honest, everyone would love to not have to do anything special in order to maintain their figure. Same with hair. I love being able to wash and go. I love being able to style my hair with little effort. Tighter coils take more effort. Just detangling alone!!! Once again, it doesn't mean that there's anything inherently bad about your hair. It's just an appreciation for convenience.

Nothing beats watching youtubers that look like you, thank you Eloho

Lord, when will it end?😩... Just a friendly reminder for everyone reading this, black is beautiful our features are beautiful. Don't let anyone make you feel any different. ❤ ❤👧🏿💅🏾👸🏿

@venusbaptiste8210

2 жыл бұрын

It won't....they're only going to perpetuate white Supremacy

@Prettybrownie77

2 жыл бұрын

I love being a beautiful black woman I celebrate all my sisters I love to just paint beautiful black women on my canvasses with thick gorgeous locks and turbans and fluffy kinky hair just like me. There is so much beauty in type 4 hair I think God I have it. I’m 39 years old and ppl swear I’m under 21 it’s because of the melanin and kinky big ass hair. I would want no other hair. I love my wash n go’s and protective styles , braids and twist outs!! I just love being a fluffy , slim thick beautiful Black Woman and I love all Black women! I shout it from the roof tops! Because we are so gorgeous!! 💕❤️😍

@Greatness_

2 жыл бұрын

It's tiring 😂 I'm glad I love my hair

@godsgirl7201

2 жыл бұрын

Yass I'm not mad at her I'm mad at her mom praising her hair and not praising 4c hair too

@lydiabrown4769

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you sooooo much! Right back atcha! Have a blessed day!

“If I had my momma hair I would do the same thing and cut it all off” Girl what ?! That right there alone speaks for itself ✋🏾Self-hate all over

@kittycat1004

2 жыл бұрын

Was so careless and disgusting. We need to stop praising and following women who look like her over other woman who have pred black features. We encouraged this by praising and supporting them. Sounds like TI daughter. Make them irrelevant and pull the support/followers. She a basic girl. Nothing special but we gave them this god complex.

@sunflower1905

2 жыл бұрын

@@kittycat1004 Absolutely! And what’s worse is the fact that instead of apologizing like an adult, she chose to try and cover it up. Definition of throwing stones & hiding hands!! It’s ridiculous. She needs to be worrying about her grated ends and damaged edges, talking about blessed sweetheart bye 😂 I have 4c/4b hair myself that can be as short, as long, and curly as I want it to be meanwhile she’s stuck with the same basic, boring “3c” hair. And I’m not one for being rude or petty but it has to be said just like Eloho explained. These chicks is getting too comfortable!

@TayJade0321

2 жыл бұрын

Girl I was waiting for this comment. To me that was the worst part

@TheBebe7124

2 жыл бұрын

Okay but many 4C black women have said countless times that they can’t stand their texture and they go bald bc of it... and everyone screams yaas when they do it, why is this any different? If anything I admire her honesty, bc many women hide the hate for their hair under wigs, weaves, and call it a “protective style” instead of admitting they don’t like their hair. It’s the same thing, no?

@sunflower1905

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheBebe7124 But this isn’t that case, we know her mother clearly stated that she hates her 4C hair to this girl, now this is her saying that she’s glad that she doesn’t have to go through that, having “naps” like why we gotta have naps? All the shots she took at a whole community they were uncalled for She could’ve gave this message in a better way, I don’t see it as honesty imo, I see it as egotistical. As black women we know there’s black women out there that hate their 4c hair, but there’s also ones who embrace it, but shit like this is why we say what we say and feel how we feel about mixed race/biracial women 🤷🏾‍♀️ Personally I know a biracial girl who hates her hair but as soon as someone comes for her playfully the first thing she’ll say is “that’s why I have longer/prettier hair than you” “your hair is nappy I got good hair”

The lawwwnnn chaaaiiirrr!!! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 That officially SENT MEEE!! 😭🙌🏾

I'm mixed race (half white half Asian) and when I was younger I believed I wasn't pretty because I had really dark thick straight hair and the princesses I saw had lighter and curlier hair than me for the most part (in kindergarten there was this blonde girl who I basically followed around like a servant because I thought she was the prettiest person ever). Now, I don't know if the standards have changed, but I get a lot of compliments on my hair and how long and soft it is and I've become less worried about the color (I dye it unnatural colors like pink or blue but I usually leave my bangs dark brown). What I'm saying is that the beauty standards will likely change in your favor and even if it's not all the way, there will always be someone wanting what you have (even now I'm jealous of how more textured hair has such volume when mine is thick and heavy and needs special treatments to make fluffy)

This is why we have to get RID of the 1 drop rule and stop claiming everyone as black!

@valj9508

2 жыл бұрын

Right!!!

@alanaatkinson551

2 жыл бұрын

I never claimed them to begin with. It's those self-hating black people who refuse to accept the truth.

@fancygirlfacesmua2574

2 жыл бұрын

YESSSS. I've been saying this for the longest. Stop claiming everybody. Blacks have a hard time with this. These people are their own group.

@justtee7752

2 жыл бұрын

PERIOD.

@annaross1362

2 жыл бұрын

Fr!!

Great example of not claiming bi-racials as black.💁🏿‍♀️

@LikaLV

2 жыл бұрын

Yup and you will never see me claiming them as such either

@destinymcgowan5328

2 жыл бұрын

@@LikaLV same

@geovanajalio4200

2 жыл бұрын

I get what you are saying... However biracials are black too. We can't be ignorant like them.

@browneyesblackdragon7999

2 жыл бұрын

Yes ma'am

@godislove7410

2 жыл бұрын

Same they're not one of us. Our hair is like beautiful dark fluffy clouds. Amen

I always say in a world where everything has to be on trend and alike, we have hair that is sooo DIFFERENT across the board and nobody can change that period!! I struggled with learning / loving my hair since I was young and this has def took me a long way.

Agree with you here! I hate how she said “I don’t do anything to my hair” and giggles. That’s ridiculous. You don’t need 4c hair for breakage, thin hair or frizz. That’s on all types of hair and all women style their hair. Texturism at its finest. Ridiculous.

“I’m blessed and you’re cursed, because I can wear box braids.” PERIOD. 😂

@breakandanga7762

2 жыл бұрын

Girl you look like Eloho 😄 thought this was her

@KatNaturalBeauty

2 жыл бұрын

Facts lol

@guitarawks09

2 жыл бұрын

🤣

@grayni76

2 жыл бұрын

💯!

@muslimrayhannah

2 жыл бұрын

That part 😂😂😂😂

I blame us… BW are so damn dope but we accept everyone into our space and then they get real comfortable and start emulating everything we do and then convince themselves they’re better. The conviction she had behind that statement… “Sis my mom got naps”…I really need for us to be more protective of our spaces.

@kaniaholmes

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@lmupzz6864

2 жыл бұрын

Her whole mannerisms are giving white girl but she wear box braids n dress like us 😂

@chasityford5776

2 жыл бұрын

I definitely agree which is why I support gatekeeping 100%

@coffieangel5689

2 жыл бұрын

@Styled by Tee Shante Your comment should have thousands of likes. The fact that it doesnt shows that many bw still have resistance towards really keeping our spaces exclusive. I absolutely agree with you and hopefully more bw will begin to practice this. Every other space does and you see how they benefit from it.

@coolrunnings1936

2 жыл бұрын

@Gina Harvey well you are entitled to emulate what you want.... that comes with free will and the fact that you are half. It all started because mixed kids were rejected by one race and adopted by the other. You are right, You've not black! And those ever who claims you are, are only following that one drop rule created by the your ancestors. Meaning they are still enslaved mentally to societies ways. Be what you want, pick a side, don't pick a side. Nobody should care apart from you!

It’s the picture of the lawn chair for me 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😭😭

I love you girl, you spoke nothing but the truth.. you can tell she doesn't believe what she said about her hair because she kept repeating it.

in one of her other videos, she said she was glad that she didn't have to deal with what darker skinned women deal with and called herself "apologizing" about that as well. the girl is literally a colorist

@heyyou..

2 жыл бұрын

as a white person I am shook what tf is wrong with her… her hairtype is literally my hairtype and it’s sooo boring lol you are gorgeous btw

@jessicah6597

2 жыл бұрын

That’s so sad. I don’t know why people like her. She gives me mean girl vibes

@Diamond-db3fx

2 жыл бұрын

?? how is her pointing out the fact that she benefits from colorism make her colorist... she does

@100XPercentX

2 жыл бұрын

@@heyyou.. you dont have to put your own self or part of yourself down... i always see that with white people. its sad.

@applesaucetoaboss800

2 жыл бұрын

We gone blame her mama. Her mother has instilled this into her.

When she said “my mama got naps”, it took me back to Martin and how he used to go in on Pam about her “beadie-bees”. Its the ignorant, outdated verbiage for me. Are we in 1991 or 2021?! I mean, c’mon.

@goodmusiq3539

2 жыл бұрын

I always thought it was so disrespectful that Martin always went in on Pam and talked about her looks. Imagery in film and television is important

@kaerenparker3364

2 жыл бұрын

@@goodmusiq3539 ikr. Pam looked better than Gina and still do. I HATED how Pam was always bullied by him and denigrated. Martin is a straight clown.

@Nina513

2 жыл бұрын

@@goodmusiq3539 There was blatant colorism, featurism and texturism on that show. Black people overlooked it, though. Same with A Different World.

love your channel 💕💕

She read TF out of her 😅🤣 All facts! I'm definitely subscribing because the im here for the authenticity

i blame the mom on this one. its clear her mom made her feel superior

@Greatness_

2 жыл бұрын

Yup I could hear it "omg you hair is so pretty, I wish I had your hair, baby your hair is so pretty"

But she isn’t the only problem. Her mom is the real problem. Dark skin/black women praising lighter skinned women just like a big portion of black men. Her mom is more anti black then she is

@shannilove2801

2 жыл бұрын

Yup her mom influenced her

@NanaNaima1

2 жыл бұрын

Her mom could have been Becky and she would have said the same shit

@kashingin8894

2 жыл бұрын

@@NanaNaima1 clearly not since she specifically talked about her moms “nappy” hair

@sharyebethancourt3660

2 жыл бұрын

TY! Exactly! I 100% blame her damn mama!

@milaliah

2 жыл бұрын

That's what I'm sayin!!!

Can confirm that women with all hair types have issues with their hair. 2C hair gang here and my curls are forever a knotty frizzy mess😩 I’ve actually had it chemically straightened (Japanese straightening) to tame my mane but now it’s super dry and I have to use a ton of conditioning products. I’ve spent over $1000 this year already for this and I know my roots are going grow back. Pretty high maintenance. I’m planning to to eat with the straightening and learn to care for my natural curls better 🥰

Got a new sub here. I actually caught her vlog and I was listening to her say this about bi racial hair vs African American and I’m like hmm… my niece bi racial and she NEVER says things like that. I unsubscribed from her now cause you’re right. What is she posting differently from other African American women? Is it because of her skin tone and looks that draws us to her? Nah, I’m good on that.

Why are people wanting her to apologize or acknowledge anything? She meant that shit. She watched her own video, edited it and still uploaded it.

Black people have the oldest and greatest history,don't let slavery be the only chapter you know. Your hair represents something great.Your hair is your power, your connection to the cosmos ,the sun,nature n etc. People are suffering on this planet because they are ignorant n uneducated.

@true3704

2 жыл бұрын

❤️

@ziolp

2 жыл бұрын

TY!

@lareinadivestinesa2184

2 жыл бұрын

From Ethiopia to Europe and more!

@13579hee

2 жыл бұрын

This isn't the answer dummy. AntiBlackness is GLOBAL and TONS of people on the continent HATE THEIR HAIR. THIS IS THE FUCKING PROBLEM.........YALL DONT KNOW HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF WITHOUT TRYING TO MAKE YOURSELF A "KING OR QUEEN". If you can only love 4c hair when its seen as a kings hair, you CLEARLY don't love 4c hair!

@reabetsweashley6244

2 жыл бұрын

@@13579hee Who said anything about 4c hair? I didn't specify which hair type soo what are you on about?

Was she not just saying that her mom has to go through more trouble and maintenance while doing her hair?? Hence her saying "don't take this the wrong way.." because I'm sure she's aware of how people could misinterpret her intent of even mentioning it. Look I'm all for exposing those who show texturism and colorism but this ain't it ya'll... there was nothing discriminative, malice, or wrong about what she said I just saw a woman who felt bad for the amount of work her mom had to put into doing her hair and an appreciation for not having to go through all the work to upkeep her own. That's what I got from it. Now what Chris Brown and countless others have said about women with thicker hair is out of line, but this? Naw, this ain't it.

babe “cocky about my crown” is a whole saying right there it should be a trend and viralllll i love it!

smh the self hate runs deep...unfortunately society reinforces these ideals

@turtlemask2899

2 жыл бұрын

And it’s our job to De-Colonize/ Reprogram ourselves and put OURSELVES on a Pedestal nobody is going to do it for US.

@Galaxy-rj1kj

2 жыл бұрын

society you mean white ppl? cause wtf

@Galaxy-rj1kj

2 жыл бұрын

@May M old black ppl

@a.a.1867

2 жыл бұрын

No don't call it self hate bc she isn't black at all. It's racism, let's call it what it is 💜

@iloverette

2 жыл бұрын

ain't no self-hate. she's dissing tightly-coiled, BLACK hair and pedestalizing her looser-textured, MIXED hair. It's racism and it needs to stop.

It’s her looking in the mirror while talking about how blessed she is *not* to have her mother’s Hair texture 🤣. She can edit and clip all she want .. Miss Mamas meant what she said

@thatgirlkells5505

2 жыл бұрын

But it seems her mother instilled the negative notions about kinky hair.

@aishashiddat1038

2 жыл бұрын

This is sad. These are the women who are biracial or have mixed ancestry that give us a bad name. We aint all like this....this is ignorant and embarrassing. There is no such thing as good or "bad" hair. We have different textures. Smh...

@Laura-sg6ss

2 жыл бұрын

Loooll frr, she thought she could erase it😂😂 this is the NET baby

@Starrfyre

2 жыл бұрын

Definitely! She said what she said, meant what she said, and she'll say it again, just maybe not on video this time. Smh

@joeroot9142

2 жыл бұрын

@@thatgirlkells5505 yessssss

I'm gonna be honest I would have just taken it as she's happy her hair doesn't take as much effort but her delivery was totally tone def. 4c or coarser hair texture does take more effort and I think that's because society still does not deem it as acceptable. I'm Jamaican and I realized this last year that even in a predominantly black country there are biases to black hair. I usually go to work with my hair out its more on the wavy/curly side at least when its shoulder length and that was fine i had bleached my hair and hated the look cause it was really damaged so i decided to cut it and when i did that i learnt i could so an afro (was not cut evenly)and it was gorgeous! i went to work and they told me i needed to put my hair up i was so upset cause i wear my hair out all the time why is it a problem now. Point is hard to appreciate something when every one else is telling you its not good enough.

Atleast when we put braids in our heads it grows 😩. We can get a silk press this week and curls can still bounce back next week. If anything our hair withstands all hair across the boards.