Marrying in early 20s is the best, for all times

The simple answer is when you get matured physically and mentally. Now it depends on environment and relation aware

I am 41 and still not married. I had many opportunities to get married early, but I kept delaying, thinking that once things get a bit stable I would. I was so wrong ! All I have to say now is that learn science and technology from the West, but learn about relationships from the East. I am soon going to get married, but it's nothing how it would have felt had I married 15+ years ago.

I got married at 39. Marriage only happens when Allah wills it. Not a day earlier or late. No matter how much hard we try it will only happen when He has written for you. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try but have faith Allah will make it happen iA. Alhamdulilah! I’m content with my married life and husband. Pray for a good spouse and in-laws. I’m lucky in this regard. . Believe me it makes a difference

@tumblevid

17 күн бұрын

Not a day earlier or late, Whether one time or four.

@zainabtaqi9650

15 күн бұрын

Beshak

@BorderlessBulletin360

15 күн бұрын

Lol😂.

Behroz and Batool you guys are intellectually deeper than many content creators but something seems to be missing to make it more interesting. But still keep it up, don’t give up, both of you have potential.

Some good points

دل ناامید تو نہیں ناکام ہی تو ہے" لمبی ہے غم کی شام مگر شام ہی تو ہے "

Thanks for sharing this in my early 20s had a lot of clarity from this

@NorthAmerican-Desi

20 күн бұрын

Glad to know you found it valuable

I personally strongly believe that late marriage is better because marriage is not a luxury but huge responsibility. You need to enjoy independence in your life before jumping into making family. So for me based on my experience, later the better.

@NorthAmerican-Desi

23 күн бұрын

At the end of the day there is no right or wrong answer… there are simply pros and cons… thanks for your perspective

Loved this video

Keep up the good work! If I must be honest, why this video hit harder was feeling the mutual connection. As in, it felt like I was getting well informed advice from my relatives on this topic.

@NorthAmerican-Desi

19 күн бұрын

Many thanks 🙏

Mashallah guys u guys r Awsm . Very intellectual topics. Keep it up.

@NorthAmerican-Desi

23 күн бұрын

Thanks a lot

Thought full discussion 👍

@NorthAmerican-Desi

24 күн бұрын

Thanks

I completely agre with most of your points. Most of the people dont look at soft traits like adaptability, aggression and others. During my marriage, i was 26, and my wife was 25, allowing us to mould and explore difficult and different situations.

@NorthAmerican-Desi

20 күн бұрын

💯 same has been true for us…

You are gorgeous, Batol!! Beautiful couple MA❤ Enjoyed the video

I was 25 and my husband was 38, arrange marraige. Never had ANY unusual issue.. if we compare we had the same struggle what my other cousins or friends had. We ALWAYS understood each other very smoothly Alhamdolillah...

@NorthAmerican-Desi

20 күн бұрын

That’s wonderful… may you long years of happy life together…

@user-kh2mg7yu6n

19 күн бұрын

You married to father aged man😂

@user-kh2mg7yu6n

19 күн бұрын

What if when u turned to 30 and that time ur husband medically unfit to satisfy you?😅 Because when humans upto 40years they fall in medical complications.

@user-kh2mg7yu6n

19 күн бұрын

​@@NorthAmerican-Desi when she turned 30yo her husband is not more young as she in 30. So many medical complications can be happening to 40+men women

@ThomasEdison-dd8ms

19 күн бұрын

@@user-kh2mg7yu6n that’s just your narrative. Movie stars are always marrying young girls and guys both as per their own satisfaction. You want to set your own standards for everyone. Many young girls are happily married to older expats in Philippines and Thailand.

KZread algorithm please please please share this video to more people feed. Very rarely I come by videos where I watch the video and feel it was time well spent.

@NorthAmerican-Desi

15 күн бұрын

Many thanks for your support

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Girls get mature early is not the reason, man need more time to get settle to provide well That is the reason I guess.

Excellent topic chosen! Assuming, any legitimate age below 28 yrs is EARLY AGE GROUP marriage and above 28 yrs is LATE AGE GROUP marriage. Assuming, the other factors and constants (biological, social and financial) are normal, if possible... Marriage must be accomplished in the EARLY AGE GROUP to achieve healthy family structure, biologically healthier children, better social relationship, stronger emotional bonding within the couple and the family, better personal + professional / financial growth. In the LATE AGE GROUP marriage, a person becomes more calculative and marriage becomes more like a DEAL and CONTRACT. All the Pros of LATE AGE GROUP marriage actually become Cons, later in life. Those Pros do more harm than they helped/contributed earlier. It is a wrong notion in society that marriage is a responsibility + liability and it hinders the personal+professional growth of individuals. Rather, with cooperation, couples can grow faster and higher than singles. Kids are the most precious asset of a couple. The scientific fact cannot be denied that healthy kids can be achieved only through the EARLY AGE GROUP marriage.

@NorthAmerican-Desi

23 күн бұрын

Thanks for your builds - and great perspective on this topic…

Best age for men to marry is between 35 and 40. Best age for women to get married is 25 to 28. Best age to finish women' education is before 25 (max. PhD). Best age for women to finish their first 2 deliveries is before 30.

@thegenprince

20 күн бұрын

😂 so until then men should be celibate? What a nut case 😅. And it gets harder to find a partner once you cross 25. Internet is unfortunately exposing young people to shit advice. Marry early folks 😉😁

I think divine blessings plays instrumental role when it comes to marriage.

ll the pros and cons in the video were revolving around materialism. There are two marital models: 1) Classic: The husband works and the wife takes care of the house and children. 2) Modern: Both the spouses work to meet both ends. In my opinion, it is best to mary a younger woman in the classic model since she could be groomed according to the husband flexibly. The top most thing while selecting a wife in classic setting is to guage her capabilities as a mother. In the modern setting, both of them should be of the same age group. There are two major advantages in marying early in both the settings: 1) More time can be spent together in terms of physical relationship. 2) Children will be able to see younger parents. Marriage is a distraction for materialistic people. They should pursue it after achieving their goals. One of the problem in South Asian culture is that we are not taught about maintaining relationships.

Seeing such an amazing content produced by our Pakistanis is so impressive. You guys deserve a million subscribers for this high level of intellectual content. Please keep it up and make more and more videos like these. Love from Pakistan ❤❤❤

@NorthAmerican-Desi

12 күн бұрын

Thanks please do keep supporting the channel with your views and likes 👍

No one wanted to marry my but then when I got my visa at 38 then suddenly har aik ka istikharah bhi green ho gya.

@NorthAmerican-Desi

17 күн бұрын

Hahaha I hear ya…

@Sainto0

16 күн бұрын

Same but abhi visa lgna hn bs 😢

@manhoosnick

16 күн бұрын

@@Sainto0 bass inshAllah phir larki walon ko bhi jawab acha aayega khwab main.

Good

its all about fate. Sometime you get sick, something happens that can never expect. God has decided the right time. even people try but they cannot make it happen.

Great job

24, 25 is the Best Age !

Most of what you said probably applies to people (guys/gals) grown up in Pakistan or maybe India. The perceptions and outlook to life of 2nd generation (kids borne and raised here in the USA) are different than what you think. Anyway, good discussion.

@NorthAmerican-Desi

22 күн бұрын

Yes and no… some / most of the things are universal… they do apply question is still which one do you weigh as more important of a factor….

I am 27 seven and i want to get married at 29 in 2026 winter What will you suggest about this. either it is late or early

I like your video,❤. Another big issue is children marriage in north america. They refuse lots of perposal and keep looking potential partners and rejecting each other for small things.

@NorthAmerican-Desi

23 күн бұрын

Yup.. we are still some time away from that… but see it happening around us too often… although I must admit I believe it’s the life most important decision ie who you marry and hence should not be taken lightly

Could’ve covered the content in 15 minutes. There was redundancy in the content.

Paaaa please please smile smile smiles

If life = 3 Hours , then @ the age of 20 years old best.then go up to 40 year then 60 then after life is a bonus ?Who knows who cares go up to 100 ?Minimum Budget to enjoy life simple ways .

For men 26-29. For women 18-22

Marriage should be done in adulthood. The advantage of getting married early is that your children become young in your youth.

لڑکیوں کی شادی زیادہ سے زیادہ 18 سال اور لڑکوں کی عمر زیادہ سے زیادہ 25 سال کی عمر میں کر دی جانی چاہئیے

Paa please change your channel name like CNN or BBC or GEO news because you have very good anchor

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Allah apko or sab ko khush rakhe Ameen , i also want to have my life just like your's in coming time Inshallah😊

@NorthAmerican-Desi

20 күн бұрын

Thanks

Boys 25-29, girls 18-25

I really like u guys 🎉 Pakistans top talent

@NorthAmerican-Desi

24 күн бұрын

Thanks 🙏

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But considering people don't make enough money back in Pakistan to own a separate house. They're going to live in a joint setup and this doesn't work.

@NorthAmerican-Desi

24 күн бұрын

Here it is critical that both spouse are working so they can start and fund the new life

But if we get married early, then we have to born kids in upcoming 2-3 years.In Asian context, people have kids just after 1-2 years(females tend to do compromises and sacrifices in most of the cases).

@NorthAmerican-Desi

21 күн бұрын

Having kids is and timing that is a different ball game all together… with its pros and cons a separate topic

@hanam_11

21 күн бұрын

@@NorthAmerican-Desi need a separate topic ❤❤

Kuch log to 70 saal tak bhi mature mahi hote or shadi 25 mai lerlete hain sari zindagi rote bilakte apni zindagi bhi. kharab kerte haun or apne spouse ki bhi.or kuch log by birth mature hote hain.immature ko to kisi age mai bhi shadi nahi kerni chahiy

@NorthAmerican-Desi

20 күн бұрын

True

It is very difficult to get married or to find your spouse.

What do you do when you have responsibilities from college life to take care of your sister and parents?

@NorthAmerican-Desi

22 күн бұрын

You should marry some one who is not a liability,… rather can share responsibility… so a working and earning spouse…

@sulemansadiqvirani4866

22 күн бұрын

​@@NorthAmerican-Desi Thank you, that's the difficult part to find someone, finding content person is difficult now a days when we are so much materialistic

@NorthAmerican-Desi

22 күн бұрын

I agree it’s not easy…

Paaa financial analysts never became relation analysts

I am 31 and single.

I think marry early is really good for all the points that you raised, but one thing must be kept in consideration while marrying early is not to have kids. This issue needs to addressed to the potential couples considering marriage.

@NorthAmerican-Desi

24 күн бұрын

Yup having kids is what really changes things… so need to time it well..

What should be the age difference between husband and wife to lead a satisfied life ( satisfaction on all the levels)?

@NorthAmerican-Desi

20 күн бұрын

I believe there are again pros and cons to that… there is no right or wrong answer…

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I think, seeing the condition of Parenting model in Pakistan, one should never marry before the age of 25. Before 25, it's all drama and emotional immaturity.

wrong, marry early

I think ye qismat ki bat hai... Hmare hath me ni h

Paaaa behrooooz please don’t dominate to innocent wife

Anyone answering me ! may abhi tak itna settle b nai hua k may Pakistan may electricity bill day sakn nd my age is 28 nd salery is 40,000 mery khyall may mujhy nai krni chaiyay jb tak may settle nai hojata

@DontOpenThisChannel

19 күн бұрын

Hazrat Ali married when he had nothing, what if you will be in this situation till death?

Before starting you sey my personal experience. And in video you used word research 5 to 6 time . So sorry 😔😔😔

You forget, marriage is optional. Just because our culture in west or east says to marry, does not mean its necessary. For some its better not to marry.

@NorthAmerican-Desi

22 күн бұрын

Agree it is optional… and I do subscribe to that…

@inticfc7734

20 күн бұрын

It’s not optional. Islam asks us to get married.

@DontOpenThisChannel

19 күн бұрын

​@@inticfc7734 indeed these people are doing kufr by judging other than what Allah have revealed

Stable life and mature complete.bas

What if someone is not independent even at 30 years old?

@NorthAmerican-Desi

19 күн бұрын

I believe being independent is a pre requisite

Musalamaanon ko shariyat k mutabik jindgi gujarni chahiye

BBC mean Behroz Batooool cast

She seems to be the one who likes to have the last word 😅

@NorthAmerican-Desi

20 күн бұрын

💯

@shakirhusain7987

20 күн бұрын

Why is that with some people!?

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bro had more brighter forehead then my future. just tzke it easy.

@NorthAmerican-Desi

20 күн бұрын

Fully agree to that..

Paaa behroooz try to talk with smile face you are not in office

@khawajamazhar9188

20 күн бұрын

He is ...in her office 😂

Very week statement s....

@NorthAmerican-Desi

20 күн бұрын

👍

@aliakramsialkot871

20 күн бұрын

@@NorthAmerican-Desi Kuch bataty han . Kia wakey hi AAP ko NAHI lag Raha AAP ki video time wast this.

@NorthAmerican-Desi

20 күн бұрын

@aliakramsialkot871 I guess it was such for you… thanks

For Boys the Best age of marriage is 28 and for girls the best age of marriage is 25.

@umairiqbal2880

22 күн бұрын

Am 35 still single and happy

@fabolousfour1266

22 күн бұрын

It depends on individuals

@NorthAmerican-Desi

22 күн бұрын

Agreed

@deathwai7648

22 күн бұрын

​@@umairiqbal2880yeah some are 45 abd divorced never judge your present happiness

@theinternetguy4426

22 күн бұрын

Its subjective always

Sorry 😔 with respect Your video not so much useful. Sorry 😔 if you mind.

@NorthAmerican-Desi

20 күн бұрын

Sure… no worries

👽👽👽👽parents decide our life partners usually uncles daughter👽👽👽👽

@NorthAmerican-Desi

23 күн бұрын

:)

Boring

@NorthAmerican-Desi

22 күн бұрын

👍

keep it up guys!! @BahrozNBatool

@NorthAmerican-Desi

18 күн бұрын

Thanks

Behroz and Batool you guys are intellectually deeper than many content creators but something seems to be missing to make it more interesting. But still keep it up, don’t give up, both of you have potential.

@NorthAmerican-Desi

23 күн бұрын

Thanks … would love to know what you think can be done better… thanks for your support

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