To all future parents: Let your children speak their side of the story. Let them feel that you are always there whenever they need to talk and be open with. Don't repeat the same mistakes your parents gave to you as you were growing up!

@mayooctavo365

4 жыл бұрын

:((

@rheyanevinluan1936

4 жыл бұрын

YEP,SOBRANG TAMA KA DIYAN BUDDY!!!!

@kimberlyjaneramos691

4 жыл бұрын

And listening to your children also makes you earn their respect...

@marjoriebanculeta7733

4 жыл бұрын

😭

@kiwii1400

4 жыл бұрын

:'

"If you cannot understand my silence, how can you understand my words?" - Philosophy class

@chrisangelomaderal7816

4 жыл бұрын

mao nadayun

@mckurtmonthewsaulog9590

3 жыл бұрын

:(

@arniepanlaqui2084

3 жыл бұрын

I was about to comment this.

@myrnaalegre9784

3 жыл бұрын

ramdam ko ang pananawagan mo✌️❤️

@seiferfury

3 жыл бұрын

Dahilan ng mga tampuhin na kala may psychic powers ang shota nila. Magusap na Lang pwede?!

When I became a parent, I'm going to ask my children often "Are you okay?" I never want my children to be crying their eyes out when I'm peacefully sleeping under the same roof and I certainly never want them to feel like there's nobody there for them because I always be.

@trishxjoshbelarma220

4 жыл бұрын

This made me cry.

@spacefox6161

4 жыл бұрын

isnt this what we all ask for?

@mateokenneth1637

4 жыл бұрын

This made me think that it is a correct decision of myself not to build and start a family. I really think I can't do that for my children, if I happen to have one.

@commandersoysauce823

4 жыл бұрын

My message to all, Be the best son/daughter first before setting a goal as a parent.

@mateokenneth1637

4 жыл бұрын

@@commandersoysauce823 I agree.

I'm a bit jealous sa mga families na open and understanding, they do what ever they can to understand and help us without violence.

@aceaparis5904

3 жыл бұрын

Mas nakakainggit pag may pamilya yung iba tas ikaw wala.

@marjorie3731

3 жыл бұрын

Samedt. Lalo yung close sa parents

@jelainelumba9758

3 жыл бұрын

:(((

@artisanimation4631

3 жыл бұрын

Everytime pumunta ako sa bahay ng mga kaibigan ko masaya ako na naiinggit sa kanila. Halos lahat ng kaibigan ko close sa family maganda yung bonding. Samanla sakin buo pero malayo ang relasyon sa isat isa.

@marjorie3731

3 жыл бұрын

@@artisanimation4631 i feel you. Mas in favor pa sila sa mga lalaki kong kapatid and kami ng sis ko alienated

This made me realize that when life gets too noisy, maybe the only way to lessen the noise is to actually listen.

@honeibelledelacruz4155

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@whydoweexist5072

4 жыл бұрын

True that

@kennieken

4 жыл бұрын

TRUE!

@vince_c

4 жыл бұрын

TRU DAT!

@charlesandrenieves1663

4 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU FOR THIS

Ben and Ben expressing what they feel and their opinions through writing songs about what is happening rn is the best💙💛

@Bougart

4 жыл бұрын

at ganyan dapat ang OPM! Hindi puro clingy love songs

@PucckAlbion

4 жыл бұрын

I thought the same thing, when the "epidemya" line started 😄

@bananakun9995

4 жыл бұрын

💙💛

@myrnaoperario2775

Жыл бұрын

@@Bougart mk

I want my parents to hear this.

@eldong.1789

3 жыл бұрын

:(((

@florencemaebyll6470

3 жыл бұрын

Same.

@Gab-kx1oh

3 жыл бұрын

:((

@skelly1689

3 жыл бұрын

same :((

@samie9173

3 жыл бұрын

:))

This song hits different when you live in a house where instead of parents hearing you out, they shut you up...

@lowkey8468

3 жыл бұрын

fr

@markleejoshuadeleon6567

3 жыл бұрын

:

@darrenvonn828

3 жыл бұрын

Yh ify.

@lourraine6398

3 жыл бұрын

fr :(

@seeroflight5783

3 жыл бұрын

F bro

Fact: Ben&Ben never failed to satisfy our ears

“Tayo ba ay naging makasarili? Sarado ba ang tenga sa mga hiling?” When this part of the song is so timely- it has both political, family and romantic vibe. I mean Ben&Ben how'd you do that?! Kudos!!! 🙌🏻 PS. People who are fighting in different social media platforms needs to listen to this.

@jaysonvilleza3901

4 жыл бұрын

Sobrang totoo yan. Kaya salamat sa Ben&Ben!

@cephi

4 жыл бұрын

seriously ang galing nila. sana makita ng mga tao yung mga meanings ng mga kanta nila at hindi lang dahil maganda pakinggan (pero kasama na yun heh)

@czyruszamora5309

4 жыл бұрын

tamang tama sa panahon ngayon ng social media...dami kase away.

@esportstv6519

4 жыл бұрын

ok 😢

@joshuaromero3502

4 жыл бұрын

Hahaha true unang dinig ko plang i know na eh

may the toxic filipino culture be broken. huhu, this made me cry a lot. we always listen to reply, not to understand.

@ahegsg578

3 жыл бұрын

loh HAHAHAHA

“Sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng ‘yong galit” hits me the most. I know it’s the correct thing to do. Hell, it’s the best thing you can do. But why is it also the hardest thing to do.

@richardvienasuncion3496

3 жыл бұрын

It is😭💔

@thefallenangel8895

3 жыл бұрын

Ganda ng profile piccc

@vinzxd3114

2 жыл бұрын

Ego. Pride.

Why am I crying? After the chorus my eyes just burst into a waterfall. Hindi ko alam kung saan o kailan ako natamaan. Society? Government? Family? Tangina ang galing talaga ng grupo na 'to. Thank you for reminding us how to be humans, Ben and Ben. I love you.

@rheycabel184

4 жыл бұрын

Parehas po tayo ate...natamaan rin ako Sa family talaga .....

@guccigang5281

4 жыл бұрын

Sameee

@jasminc5087

4 жыл бұрын

@@rheycabel184 Yes po. Coming from a broken family,I could understand the pain. If only we knew how to talk and communicate. Sayang ng panahon na nasayang.

@rheycabel184

4 жыл бұрын

@@jasminc5087 pag may nabibitawan na masakit na salita tapos d na alam kung paano pa mababawi....saket po

@jasminc5087

4 жыл бұрын

@@rheycabel184 😭😔

This music vid just represents what the citizens want right now. The Philippines as the house, the government as the parents and the children as the citizens. I just hope it's like in the video where instead of being numb, they listen and try to understand.

The only thing na kinakainggitan ko is yung mga Family na Open sa isat isa 🤧 yung tipong normal sa kanila yung mga bagay na hindi kayang pagusapan basta nino man

Nung isang linggo, nag away kami ng gf ko habang nasa mall kami. Pauwi na kami tapos nung nakapag park na ako sa bahay, nag play ito sa radio. Naalala namin pareho yung music video nung nabanggit pa lang yung "Sasalubingin kita, sa dulo ng iyong galit" Pareho kaming tumawa at nakijam

The only thing that is bad in Ben&Ben's music is that they end.

@darajoyce5514

4 жыл бұрын

Ohh true

@nelsonfellone0127

4 жыл бұрын

Sana hindi nalangsila madidisband pero wala ganun talagalife walang nagtatagal😞i hope this type of opm never leaves

@marloumartinez7107

4 жыл бұрын

Legit?

@yuumi5850

4 жыл бұрын

@@nelsonfellone0127 true ayoko mawala yung gantong type ng music

@claritaamanonce2917

4 жыл бұрын

Mag didisband sila? Legit ba?

When you're listening this song and realized that you got no one who would listen to you 🙃

@Kat-qe2zl

4 жыл бұрын

Then listen to yourself, do what's best for you and those around you. Hugs po ♥️ Kakayanin natin to 😊

@cpvtruferez3186

4 жыл бұрын

@@Kat-qe2zl thanks po😁

@krbasketballsubbed4686

4 жыл бұрын

You can do it stranger. ☺️ There will always be someone who is willing to listen. If you seek, you will eventually find. Just look up 🌥️

@cpvtruferez3186

4 жыл бұрын

@@krbasketballsubbed4686 I hope so

@senaqsn

4 жыл бұрын

there's always Someone who will. take care po! ❤️

My mom shut me out when i told her I was sexually assaulted when i was in 3rd grade. She said it was because maarte daw ako ever since and blame me for not shouting when it happened . I still love her but i wish she could just hear me out

@j.j.278

4 жыл бұрын

You're brave to be able to do that! I didn't even know I was sexually assaulted when I was young until later on. I wasn't able to tell my parents about it anymore, it's pretty hard.

@noonasplaylist6525

4 жыл бұрын

J. J. I told them earlier this year but it happened when i was in third grade (i am currently in college). Now, my mother acts like i am not her child

@sed9385

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry to hear that... it sucks when the person who you would've wanted to take your side the most don't... I hope you're doing well...

@lowkey8468

3 жыл бұрын

itz okay to hate your family members or not love them

@louisee4834

3 жыл бұрын

🥺😭😭

I can't tell my problems to my mom because everytime i do, she'll judge me. Now everytime she talks, i just listen and don't reply. She hates me for doing that.

@redrosies7636

3 жыл бұрын

sameeee hahahaha

Right after this pandemic is over. WE ALL DESERVE BEN AND BEN CONCERT 😭

@butchjacarafols7808

3 жыл бұрын

family is all you have... nice one!

@metalzero2830

3 жыл бұрын

isa ako sa mga bumili ng ticket sa ben and ben concert, at atat na atat na ako, kung wala lng pandemic :(

@hablartv5391

3 жыл бұрын

Let's hope and pray nalang na mawala natong pandemic nato haysssss...

@TrustinGodandBelieve

3 жыл бұрын

I really hope sooooo if they wont do a solo concert maybe they can perform at sarbay (Its like a concert with many artists Its in glan every year they do it except this year)

@gelinezambrano7145

3 жыл бұрын

A big yes 🙌

For those experiencing family problems: Hey, it's okay. You're not alone. I'm experiencing the same thing. Everything will be alright in time. Just speak out, our words might just be the remedy to all this mess. Stay Safe and Goodluck! 💙💛

@yukio2904

4 жыл бұрын

Thank u :)

@loneber8773

4 жыл бұрын

they always close their ears every time I try to defend myself from a mistake that I never did. It's no wonder why I hate myself and my family so much.

@chopilonavales

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you

“Uunawain kita” Sa totoo lang, napakasarap masabihan ng ganito. Kadalasan kase ngayon binabalewala yung nararamdaman mo, yung side mo, kaya nabu-build up yung emotions, naiipon hanggang sa ‘di mo na kaya at sasabog ka na lang talaga.

My father left us just this February before the lockdown started. I miss him, and being the eldest is really a challenge. I thank God for His faithfulness, hindi Niya kami pinabayaan. These past months felt like decades, dami nangyari. Wala, share ko lang, baka experience mo rin. One thing I'm certain; God will always take us where we should be: In His loving arms. In bisaya, we say "padayun!" Which means "Keep going!" So I'll say to you, yes ikaw na nagbabasa nito. You already know why. ♥️ Anyways, today is my birthday 😊. Thank you Ben and Ben for this inspiring piece. Sending love from Misamis Oriental 🙏 - Kent

@rhondaegericaultsajonia258

4 жыл бұрын

stay strong kent, keep your faith in Him💗 malalagpasan din natin lahat nang to😊

@kentlisterabao4880

4 жыл бұрын

@@rhondaegericaultsajonia258 Thank you, Yes! Si Lord na po bahala ❤️

@kentlisterabao4880

4 жыл бұрын

@@rhondaegericaultsajonia258 depression, confusions, miscoms, break-up, etc. -- all happened during quarantine, but looking on the bright side. I'm still breathing kaya thankful Kaya Lord!

@kentlisterabao4880

4 жыл бұрын

@Suri MythicalDauntless Amen! I couldn't agree more!

@antoniojosiahphilipm.7817

4 жыл бұрын

So lovely! Belated Happy Birthday! Lots of love!

I remember his word 'yung away ng buong fam. namin no'ng buhay pa papa ko “Saka mo lang makikita Ang halaga ng isang bagay Kung Wala na ito sa'yo. So nung year 2016 pumanaw ama namin. May iniwan pa nga akong poem para sa kanya. At ito 'yun 👇 -A poem for my strong-willed and tenderhearted Father He was born in strong A repairer to problems and failures. And he was the pillar of our home. When I was a kiddo He said, who's my favourite hero? Then I replied "A hero of builder, a repairer, a lover, stronger and a protector...and it was "You". You're my secure foundation I'm filled with love and fond appreciation. I'm so thankful for all the memories we shared together. He's my shield, he's my sword My paper and my pen. If I could write a story, It would be the greatest ever told. I'd write about my daddy, For he had a heart of gold. Thank you Father Things could be a better For the people who are there

@blaseyyy8415

4 жыл бұрын

🥺🙏❤️

@jfcervantes5512

4 жыл бұрын

Hugs!!! ❤

@juliousranga7527

4 жыл бұрын

I know, he's proud of you. He build a good man❤️

@judeanaungon9581

4 жыл бұрын

Brought me to tears💖

@jeangrey6278

4 жыл бұрын

Hi earl! Stop chopping onions😢❤

Pangkalahatan tong kantang to, grabe. Hindi lang pang-pamilya tulad ng nai-portray sa mv kundi pwede rin sya sa gobyerno, sa mga nangyayari sa bansa, sa jowa mo, sa kapatid, sa kaibigan o kahit sino pa man. Hindi naiiwasan ang hindi pagkakaintindihan. Pero at the end of the day, kung handa tayong pakinggan ang hinaing ng bawat isa, maayos natin ang bawat problema. This is Ben and Ben. Theyre not only musicians who create songs. They create masterpiece.

Please marami pa sanang OPM...😢😢😢

@miggymontauge

4 жыл бұрын

Sana may makinig din sa amin. open.spotify.com/album/7insRqQL1YmYZTouTicCOm?highlight=spotify:track:4BN3SvEi63r8hBQBvyfA4X

@darylwali8892

3 жыл бұрын

Most of them are hard to find cause they r underrated

@joemave_tv8293

3 жыл бұрын

sir nebb pa shout out😀

@jay-annoliveros5358

3 жыл бұрын

Napadpad na naman si Sir Nebb dito ah hahahha

@Maverick_Handles28

3 жыл бұрын

Sir Neeeeeb hahahaha pa shoutout aaaahhhhh 😁

I’m crying while watching this music video. Hindi ko kinaya ang sakit sa heart. Maybe sa iba is sobrang madrama lang ako and such but i remember my papa sa music video na to. My Papa left us nung 3 yrs old ako. No communication at all. I hated him. But years past dahil sa mga events sa schools and church like father’s day and family day naiinggitnako sa mga friends ko na may kasamang family ako is pinipili ko nalang maging facilitator pag may family event. Kasi alam ko naman wala akong maisasamang family. Kasi my mom is working abroad din and sa lola ko lang ako naiwan but i’m not my lola’s favorite apo. Kasi kung may family event mas pipiliin niyang sumama sa pinsan ko kesa sakin kasi ang akala nila is kaya ko ko naman mag isa. They never asked me kung okay lang ba ako. And when i was grade 9 dahil sa sobrang inggit ko sa mga friends kong may tatay. Hinanap ko si Papa sa Facebook. And nakita ko siya. Nakita ko na may bago nasiyang kinakasama but wala silang anak. I message my papa. And naging okay naman. Nasa oman siya and kasama niya niya yung kinakasama niya. Then nung nag summer vacation nagmeet kami. And at first okay pa din naman. But nararamdaman kong hindi ako yung priority niya. Instead na makipagbond sakin. Parang mas importante pa yung kinakasama niya. Well i understand him. Sabi ko nalang sa sarili “siguro ngayon lang to” and now college na ako. But still the same. I was never his priority. Akala niya is pag binibigyan niya ako ng allowance is nakabawi na siya sa pagiwan sakin. Everytime na ichachat ko siya akala niya hihingi lang ako ng money sakanya. But no. I need a father na makikinig sakin. I need a parent na yayakap sakin kung ang sakit sakit na ng mga nangyayare sakin. Papa fed me up with material things but i don’t need it. I need him kahit as a father lang. Pero wala pa din. Mas importante pa yung mga pamangkin niya kesa sakin na sarili niyang flesh and blood. Last week i open up sa mama ko. And i’m so lucky that my mom understand my situation. She’s my Bestfriend. But kahit ganun. Na dapat kontento ako na may mom ako nankikinig sakin. Feeling ko may kulang pa din. So i tried opening up to my father. But he never listen. He thought nagiinarte lang ako. That my depression is just my kadramahan. And may kelangan lang ako kaya he’ll send me money nalang daw. I know what to say nung sinabi niya yun kaya nag okay and nag thank you nalang ako. And hindi ko alam kung masama ba tong iniisip ko na sana hindi ko nalang siya hinanap. Kasi i was happy naman without him growing up. Kasi right now I’m drowning. I just want him to see me as his daughter. Huhu. Sorry dito ako nag rant. Ayaw ko kasi mag rant sa mga friends ko. Dahil nahihiya ako. I’m really sorry

@gelobaltazar

4 жыл бұрын

I hope you get well soon ate! We don't know each other pero I just want to tell you na sobrang lakas mo to be able to cope with the challenges na you and your family are facing. I know na kakayanin mo lahat ng yann! Godbless!

@princessjoycepalma5471

3 жыл бұрын

Hiiii! thank you for being strong person! kaiyak story mooo, kakainspired. Just want to talk to you, if need mo kausap anytime hehe. Add me sa facebook! Hugs to youuu!! Love ka ni God. 💚💚

@Jessa1428

3 жыл бұрын

Gelo Baltazar awww. Thank youuuuuu!! 🥺😊

@Jessa1428

3 жыл бұрын

Princess Joyce Palma hiii. Thank youuuuuu!! 🥺💓

@johnallenportentado3474

3 жыл бұрын

Grabeee😭 Nakakaiyak naman po yung story niyo💔 Sobrang strong niyo po ate, and i hope na maibsan yung pressure na nararamdaman niyo🥺 God bless po and Take care.

Kailangan namin ito sa panahon ngayon. Salamat, Ben&Ben. Music ninyo ang nagsisilbing isa sa mga liwanag sa dilim. Sobrang bigat buhatin at damhin ang nangyayari sa paligid. People are dying, losing jobs, grieving in hunger and in need. Parang mas madaling mawalan ng pag-asa at magsawalang- bahala nalang. Pero salamat, pinaalalahanan niyo kami na makinig sa iba, at higit sa lahat, na meron at meron pa ring nakikinig. Puhon! Magiging maayos rin ang ating bansa. Panghawakan natin ‘to!

Our family has been dysfunctional for years. Easy to be said than done, na pag-usapan nalang, pero mahirap talaga once you grew up in an environment where speaking up for yourself means you are disrespecting your elders/parents. Nakakapanghina, na minsan wala ka nalang magawa but to cry at night, ilabas lahat ng sakit. We do love our parents, but love isn't enough even for families. Kakampi dapat naman sila sa mga laban ng buhay namin, sa pag-abot ng mga pangarap namin, but it works the other way for us. This is for me/us. I am the eldest. And the same cycle goes for my two younger brothers - we seek love from the outside of our home when we truly crave it from our own parents. Sobrang sakit makita sila nasasaktan, but we have to be strong. In time, we will have our own lives, I just wish, we could hang on a little longer and when we are older, babalikan nalang namin to as life lessons. Maraming salamat sa mga pamilya na tumanggap sa amin, at tinuring kami na parte ng pamilya nila. Masyado ng mabigat yung effect ng nangyari at nangyayari sa family namin. Who knows, maybe in time, it'll all be fine. Or not.

@comebackfailed6350

4 жыл бұрын

It will absolutely be fine.

@jerazelarbutante6157

4 жыл бұрын

😔😔 same here 🥺

@tessaquilona6875

4 жыл бұрын

I am an only child and I grew up in a dysfunctional family as well. It really is a push and pull relationship with them. We’ll get through this 💖

@glx9858

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@RA91001

4 жыл бұрын

God bless you maam🙂

Sadly di pareho hangarin natin, gusto namin basagin ang kadiliman, kaso sila hindi.

Hi everyone! I just want to share my experience in my whole life. Noon, every morning of Sunday palagi kami sa church. Masaya at walang katulad, mahilig din kami mag gala kahit saan and masaya ang family ko. But one day, dumating sa point na naghiwalay ang magulang ko sa harap ko at nag away mga kapatid ko hanggang sa ako nalang ang naiwan mag isa sa bahay namin. Walang magulang, walang mga kapatid na dating masaya pero, ngayon malungkot na. Nag iisa nalang pero ang mindset ko ay normal pa din. Galit sakin si papa at ayaw nya sa akin for real pero, gusto ko maging mabuting anak kahit di mabuti ang tingin sa akin. Nangyari lahat ng yan sa araw ng pasko. December 25, 2011 - 6:43AM Pero tiwala ako sa sarili ko at tiwala ako na pagsubok lang ng Diyos ito sa akin. At ang tanging hiling ko ay mabuo ulit Sana ang pamilya ko, someday. I love Ben&Ben songs coz it's very inspiring. Thank you ❤️

@stephannycollantes5364

3 жыл бұрын

Praying for you kua😊 and to your Family . STAY STRONG CHEER UP TOMORROW WILL BE BETTER IN A DAY OF DARKNESS

Hindi sila nakinig sa atin 😭🇵🇭

This literally gives us more reasons to stan ben&ben! THE MUSIC THEY PROVIDE LITERALLY HELPS US WITH EVERYTHING! WE LOVE YOU BEN&BEN, ALWAYS!

That “sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng iyong galit” hit me the most, misunderstanding and clashes with my mother happens when I burst in mid conversation. I know my points and alam kong tama ako, sometimes I just don’t know my place na anak ako (disclaimer: hindi “anak lang ako”, this one is disrespectful). I have the right time to tell my part but I don’t have the rights to disrespect them, same as they having the authority to tell me things that they considered right based on the experience they have but they still don’t have the rights to disrespect me.

LYRICS Sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng 'yong galit Uunawain kita para 'di tayo maging Epidemyang 'di matapos-tapos sugpuin O problemang 'di makita, sa'n ang salarin? Tayo ba ay naging makasarili? Sarado ba'ng tenga sa mga hiling? Nakikinig ka ba sa akin? Hindi kita gustong awayin Pareho ang ating hangarin Ang kadiliman ay basagin Kung mayro'n kang pupurihin Sige lang, gawin mo 'yan Kung mayro'n kang babatikusin Sige lang, gawin mo 'yan Mahalaga'y bawat isa'y mapakinggan Nakikinig ka ba sa akin? Hindi kita gustong awayin Pareho ang ating hangarin Ang kadiliman ay basagin Patawad na sa pagkukulang Naririnig kita Nakikinig ka ba sa akin? Hindi kita gustong awayin Pareho ang ating hangarin Ang kadiliman ay basagin Nakikinig ka ba sa akin? Ang bukas ay ating yakapin Pareho ang ating hangarin Ang kadiliman ay basagin Nakikinig ka ba? (Sasalubungin kita) Nakikinig ka ba? (Sa dulo ng 'yong galit) Nakikinig ka ba? (Uunawain kita) Nakikinig ka ba? (Para 'di tayo maging...) Sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng 'yong galit ❤

AGOT TO JINKEE: NAKIKINIG KA BA SA AKIN, DI KITA GUSTONG AWAYIN

@wordplay1527

4 жыл бұрын

Oof

@mathsaya2022

4 жыл бұрын

HAHAHAHAHAAH

@gcjohntoledo

4 жыл бұрын

Timely

@blesszygweannebongcawel5343

4 жыл бұрын

*Agot to herself

I LOVE IT WHEN JASMIN WAS WATCHING BEN&BEN ON HER LAPTOP

@peterpansplayground

4 жыл бұрын

so meta.

@justme9591

4 жыл бұрын

@@peterpansplayground ow i was happy someone notices my comment, thanks dude!

@cjmuertigue

4 жыл бұрын

And that video was the music video of "Masyado Pang Maaga". So deep 💙💛

@ysakhan4573

4 жыл бұрын

@@cjmuertigue hala oo nga noh, ngayon ko lng po na-gets hehe

@ampar1010

4 жыл бұрын

Why Same

PARA SA LAHAT NG PINILING TUMINDIG. SALAMAT.

I want someone to say to me "Sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng Yung Galit" because I really need it right now.

Having different opinions shouldn't break us apart. Instead, we should listen to and learn from each other. Thank you for this wonderful MV Ben&Ben 💙💛

I feel like the "epidemic" has two meanings. The actual epidemic and the problems plaguing the family

@darajoyce5514

4 жыл бұрын

True

Kanta to para sa mga bunsong di makasagot sagot sa parents nila, those victims of toxic parenting na di pinapakinggan ang mga anak nila

@koshizen7966

3 жыл бұрын

not just bunso, but all kids, regardless of their birth order :((

This is actually a real picture of what is really happening in every family rn. And the lesson is everyone should be heard and choose to extend love and understanding. And also time, for us to also see what matters the most in this life.

Sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng 'yong galit Uunawain kita para 'di tayo maging Epidemyang 'di matapos-tapos sugpuin O problemang 'di makita, sa'n ang salarin? Tayo ba ay naging makasarili? Sarado ba'ng tenga sa mga hiling? Nakikinig ka ba sa akin? Hindi kita gustong awayin Pareho ang ating hangarin Ang kadiliman ay basagin Kung mayro'n kang pupurihin Sige lang, gawin mo 'yan Kung mayro'n kang babatikusin Sige lang, gawin mo 'yan Mahalaga'y bawat isa'y mapakinggan Nakikinig ka ba sa akin? Hindi kita gustong awayin Pareho ang ating hangarin Ang kadiliman ay basagin Patawad na sa pagkukulang Naririnig kita Nakikinig ka ba sa akin? Hindi kita gustong awayin Pareho ang ating hangarin Ang kadiliman ay basagin Nakikinig ka ba sa akin? Ang bukas ay ating yakapin Pareho ang ating hangarin Ang kadiliman ay basagin Nakikinig ka ba? (Sasalubungin kita) Nakikinig ka ba? (Sa dulo ng 'yong galit) Nakikinig ka ba? (Uunawain kita) Nakikinig ka ba? (Para 'di tayo maging...) Sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng 'yong galit

Minsan yung gusto mo sabihin sa pamilya mo ay itatago mo nalang kasi ayaw mo maging failure Nakakahiya kasi para sa mga magulang natin na hindi natin naabot yung pangarap nila para sakin. At minsan gusto ko eh magusap lang kami tungkol sa bahay na yun, pero ayaw namin pagusapan lagi namin iniiwasan. Im sorry for beig a failure

@rheyanevinluan1936

4 жыл бұрын

i feel you sobra.

@kyletrinidad9446

4 жыл бұрын

I feel you.

As much as how we want to speak up for ourselves, sometimes, the most important remedy for tensions in every relationships is "listening." Before we want to be understood, we should understand where others are coming from first. Listening takes humility. Listening breaks down walls for both parties to meet. Listening is the most amazing aspect that I like the most in being human because bruhh, I was able to listen to this masterpiece like wowwww Ben&Ben always never fail.

Just wanna share my story My dad passed away just around a week ago. He's one of the unfortunate ones na nadali ng COVID-19 sa Saudi. Biglaan nga e. The last time we chatted with him, he's doing much better. Di na sya dependent sa ventilator and we're expecting he'll recover na. Then the following day, we received the sad news. Kumalat na sa katawan ni papa ang virus and di nya kinaya. Ayun. Now, I just feel empty yet filled with regrets and guilt. Around a month before he passed away, we had a huge argument. After that, di na nagvivideo call samin si papa. I said sorry to him thru messenger nung father's day but di nya sineen. He's really mad because of that. Tumawag nalang sya ulit nung birthday ko. By that time, he looks sick already. What bugs me is, maybe if I just shut up that time and listen nalang (even if it hurts), maybe naguusap pa kami non and nalabanan/ naiwasan ni papa ang covid. Gusto ko sana makabawi sa lahat after pagkarecover ni papa, but oh well, kinuha sya kaagad ni Lord. Papa's too good for that. He didn't deserve this.

@trishcastillo675

3 жыл бұрын

Hey, I don't know how much pain ur going through, I want u to know that if ever u need a shoulder to cry on, I'm all ears. Everything happens for a reason, I hope ur doing fine now. Stay safe, we're proud of you and we love u so much

@trashbins7798

3 жыл бұрын

Please do not beat yourself up.

@mamiiishenggay8475

3 жыл бұрын

May sakit din ang tatay ko now at nasa saudi din sya, sobrang lungkot na naiisip mo na mag isa lang sya don. Sabi ko nga umuwi na sya pero hindi naman ganon kadali sa panahon now. Dasal na lang talaga na mas lumakas pa sya at ilayo sa sakit 😭😭

@YeyeThestoryteller

2 жыл бұрын

Same, nag away din kami ni nanay before she passed away last august 2021 due to covid din. Biglaan, akala ko makakarecover na sya bigla na lang tumawag yung Doctor na wala na si nanay. Ang masaklap di na namin sya nakita kasi bawal bumista sa mga covid patients

Nung pinalabas na ako ng seminaryo, nalungkot parents ko, pero sinabi lang nila na kahit saan man ako o ano man ang gusto ko patuloy parin nila akong susoportahan. Ayaw nila ako mag pari noon, pero ngayon hindi ko narinig sakanila yung ineexpect kong linya na "o diba sabi na namin sayo noong una wag ka na mag pari" pero ngayon, they just want the best for me. I love them.

@planaskiannicholas3500

4 жыл бұрын

May iba pang hangarin sayo ng Panginoon kapatid! Hindi ka man niya tinawag bilang Pari niya, May mas magandang plano sayo ang Diyos! ❤☝️🙏🏻

@rheyanevinluan1936

4 жыл бұрын

siguro kuya meron ibang calling ang Diyos sayo!!

Petition to play this as loud as possible in front of malacañang.

@darajoyce5514

4 жыл бұрын

HAHAHAHAHAHA trueeeee

@demonchavez6423

4 жыл бұрын

Yan utak mo petisyonin mo.. hahaha.. dame alam

@Bougart

4 жыл бұрын

pa woke na corny amputa tang ina mo! Lahat na lang isisisi mo sa gobyerno Ayusin mo muna utak mo! Pareparehas lang tayo may galit dito wag mo naman kimkimin lahat! Lahat tayo gusto ng pagbabago

@jaimarbella3996

4 жыл бұрын

@@Bougart Corny na ba ngayon ang gusto ng maayos na gobyerno? Kina-cool mo ba ang pagiging bulag sa katotohanan? Yung comment mo parang kuhang kuha mo sa "Tatay" mo. ;)

@johnalbertty2332

4 жыл бұрын

Ayan mga hindi nakikinig

Yun parents kona pinabayaan kaming 4 na magkakapatid buong buhay namin..... ni kamusta hindi nila magawa. 😢😢

@JaiSai-re1fj

3 ай бұрын

Minsan tlga hindi kapani paniwala yung nga kasabihan lalo na yung 'walang ina ang matitiis ng isang anak'

The "suyo" song that changes the mood inside the car from "tense and toxic" to "all is well."

This is one of the reasons why I stan them. They're not afraid to speak up. They use their platform to voice out abuses and uplift Filipino spirits. I hope we could learn from them to be able to use our voice to speak up to the current issues that plaguing our country even if it's not directly affecting us.

GRABE CHILLS WHEN THEY STARTED TO LOOK AT ME AND MOUTHED THE LYRICS AS IF THEY WERE TALKING TO ME

@danielletrothubina7897

4 жыл бұрын

Sameee

@annahilith

4 жыл бұрын

Samee

This made me tear up. Madalas kasi, in our pent up anger towards family members, we tend to shut them out. This song really opened my eyes to that. And ganda rin kasi pinapakita nung MV that at the end of the day, family is family... despite the problems... and the differences in beliefs. "Sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng iyong galit." Huhuhuhu grabe iyaaaak

This song makes me so fucking emotional. I listen to this almost everyday because somehow it understands me. My family is whole but our relationship is broken. Someday when I found myself I'm gonna make my family listen to this song and ask them. "Nakikinig ka ba sa akin?"

Lyrics: Sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng 'yong galit Uunawain kita para 'di tayo maging Epidemyang 'di matapos-tapos sugpuin O problemang 'di makita, sa'n ang salarin? Tayo ba ay naging makasarili? Sarado ba'ng tenga sa mga hiling? Nakikinig ka ba sa akin? Hindi kita gustong awayin Pareho ang ating hangarin Ang kadiliman ay basagin Kung mayro'n kang pupurihin Sige lang, gawin mo 'yan Kung mayro'n kang babatikusin Sige lang, gawin mo 'yan Mahalaga'y bawat isa'y mapakinggan Nakikinig ka ba sa akin? Hindi kita gustong awayin Pareho ang ating hangarin Ang kadiliman ay basagin Patawad na sa pagkukulang Naririnig kita Nakikinig ka ba sa akin? Hindi kita gustong awayin Pareho ang ating hangarin Ang kadiliman ay basagin Nakikinig ka ba sa akin? Ang bukas ay ating yakapin Pareho ang ating hangarin Ang kadiliman ay basagin Nakikinig ka ba? (Sasalubungin kita) Nakikinig ka ba? (Sa dulo ng 'yong galit) Nakikinig ka ba? (Uunawain kita) Nakikinig ka ba? (Para 'di tayo maging...) Sasalubungin kita sa dulo ng 'yong galit.

@aurorasunrise3489

4 жыл бұрын

thank you.

This song relates to family, friendship, politics, lovelife and more To me it's family, my father to be exact. When my father was still alive we were always on each others throats, no day would pass where we wouldn't fight it also got worse when he got sick. I was a dumb kid who was acting like an adult while my father was a parent who knows he got little time to teach his experience to his child but I did not understand this before, all I could see was a man yelling at me. I guess sometimes it's too late when you realize your mistakes, I was listening to this song when the line ''nakikinig kaba sa akin? D kita gustong awayin'' my tears suddenly poured while remembering all those fight we had. The reason why he was always yelling, the reason why almost every action I make he always have mistakes to point out was his way of preparing me for the harsh world but my dumb ass self just couldn't understand that before, so if anyone is reading this comment please don't make the same mistakes I made. Say thank you and I love you to your parents you'll never know when you'll lose them treasure every moment you have and listen to what they have to say and please try to understand.

@noeliilacerna6080

4 жыл бұрын

Hugs brother. Laban lang!

@TerrTerr002

4 жыл бұрын

This comment is so underrated, bilang mga anak gusto natin intindihin tayo pero nakalimutan natin pakingan ung gustong iparating sa atin ng ating mga magulang, tinitake natin as nagging while blaming them for our faults or decisions that we made, they were only preparing us for the real world that is unfair, salute sau laban lang

@mark9438

4 жыл бұрын

I always remind myself that I have to honor my mom and dad even in the most difficult time. I always hated my dad and mom before for yelling me back on the days that I’m still young. But now I totally understand them. I’m working away from home and I always miss them. I wish I could go back in time where my mom cooks me tinolang manok, and the time when my dad will drive me to school. I wish I was with them during this pandemic. I wish I could be a good son to them. I was busy growing up that I almost forget that they getting old. I always pray to God that at least he would give me a chance to give back to my parents and make them happy. I don’t want to have regrets in the end!

@lolopop85

4 жыл бұрын

I can relate. Same scenario. Its pretty difficult to deal with some situations. Feeling mo mag isa kalang. Pero di lang pala sila na Vocal. Then you will realize something when the time comes.

@iamjhovie

3 жыл бұрын

On point

Just watched Dito at Doon. LSS NA NAMAN DITO

Pag ako naging parent hinding hindi ko ipaparanas sa nga anak ko yung nga nararanasan ko ngayon.

Only my twitter account knows how feel to be unheard :((((

@aeiouhenz5284

4 жыл бұрын

What's your name po, i'll follow you. :)

@castilloadriannesamn.7717

4 жыл бұрын

@ili wys The feeling is mutual 😔

We cant blame why this song is now on trending. Its lowkey shades to our country. Let this song be the voice to those people who cant speak their thoughts out. Let our voice be heard! Let us make a noise. We stan the right band ❤

@camhere157

3 жыл бұрын

I agree! Love Ben&Ben,♥️

@louiecruz3598

3 жыл бұрын

Agree........ Pare pareho ang ating hangarin..kadliliman ay basagin. di kailangan ng away... no color, no hate... 👍👍😘

Hoy ano ba Ben&Ben! Napadpad ako dito dahil sa SB19 pero bat nyo ako pinaiyak. 3rd song nyo na to na napakinggan ko na naiyak ako. Mahal ko na rin kayo.

It's so hard to believe that everything you see is different from the things that you've been told. -Eraserheads

After all, we all just want someone to just sit-down and listen and hear our hearts out

few years from now, we will remember this song as a part of history that is hard to forget :( this song speaks so much about what we’re all going through

I hope that one day, magiging National Family Anthem itong song na ito.

I never listened to my mother, everytime na pinapagalitan nya ako.. She always tell me na wag kong gawin yung mga bagay na hndi ako handa. Nabulag ako, nainlove ako, nabuntis at naghiwlay din kami ng tatay ng anak ko.. Ngayon yung mother ko nagaalaga sa anak ko while working. Kahit anong mangyari always listen to our parents. Its the best for us. I love my Mo & my Son. 💓

Speaking is easy, listening is difficult. To truly learn from one another, we must listen.

This is the perfect timing for this song. ♥️

I'm experiencing this right now. My parents is about to get divorce and i can't do anything to help the problem is they don't know how to listen to each other and to me . It makes me feel so sad and bad about it .. thank you ben and ben for this wonderful song ..

Ben&Ben deserves a worldwide recognition

I love how this song is not just political, but can also tackle different social issues and how subtle they produced the MV but didn't lose sight the song's meaning. #StanBenandBen

@Bougart

4 жыл бұрын

tungkol sa buhay in short!

Pinapaala ng kantang to na walang perpektong pamilya. Lahat ng pamilya nagkakaroon ng balakid sa kanilang buhay. At ang pamilya ang magsisilbing sandigan ng bawat isa, at mangyayari lamang ito kapag sinubukan nateng intindihin, mahalin ang bawat isa. This song is a reminder na try to be a little more understanding to the people around you kase everyone has their own battle in their life.

A song about society which is basically us. Sobrang daming emosyon sa 4:51 mins na kanta. Minsan kailangan natin I-try na ilagay yung sarili natin do'n sa lugar ng isang tao para kahit papaano masabi natin na naiintindihan natin sila, pero sa totoo lang hindi naman talaga natin maiintindihan ang iniisip ng bawat isa kahit pamilya pa natin o malapit na kaibigan. Siguro ang kailangan natin ay pasensya at pag-unawa na lahat ng tao may pinagdadaanang iba't ibang problema kaya minsan kailangan din natin maging sensitive sa mga salitang nabibitawan natin kase minsan may kasalanan din tayo. Just wanna share my thoughts about this song. Have a good night everyone♡

Akmang-akma ang mensahe ng awiting ito Sa nangyayari sa ating bansa ngayong panahon ng kampanya ng mga politiko Kung saan nagkakagulo ang mga tao Kahit na pare-parehas lang naman ang gusto Pakikinig ang tanging maipapayo Upang pagkakaunawaan ay matamo

my family is going through a very rough time right now and I suddenly asked the Lord to give me a sign to go on and open up to my parents about the things that have been bothering me for months now. mind you, I am not a very religious person. then bam! ben&ben suddenly released this video that perfectly portrays the struggles of my family and a lot of families during this pandemic. God really does work in mysterious ways. Kudos to you Ben&Ben. Lots of love from me and my sibs.

@jilatorre9804

4 жыл бұрын

:(((

SUR🍟! Ang ganda ng message ng kanta + na-justify talaga ng mv yung gustong iparating satin ng Ben&Ben💛💛💛

let's welcome the future parents out there, I know we will be better. let's forgive out parents as well.

i'm here because i want to share something. a lot of things are happening today especially because of the upcoming election. we need to choose the best leader who will give us a good governance. halos araw-araw ay nakakarinig at nakakakita ako ng arguments. me and my sister are for leni-kiko. pareho kaming nanindigan para sa maayos na pamumuno. first time voter ang ate ko, samantalang ako hindi pa botante. we're both encouraging our parents to vote for them, pero palagi kaming hindi nabibigyan ng chance na makapagsabi sakanila nang hindi nauuwi sa pagtatalo. everything that is happening to me and my sister rn reminds me of this song. hindi na kami napapakinggan, hindi na kami nauunawaan, hindi na nila alam kung bakit kami lumalaban at naninindigan. and now, i'm here at this point na ayaw ko ng magsabi sakanila ng kahit ano pa man. ma and tang, if u r reading this i hope u r proud of ur daughters. they're fighting for everyone's rights and for the country's future. the both of u taught us not to be selfish, we chose this decision kasi gusto naming gumaan din ang buhay ng iba. i hope the both of u are proud that u raised ur two daughters independently and bravely. sana, maunawaan at mapakinggan niyo rin kami.

BEN&BEN SURELY ARE IN TIMING EVERY.FREAKING.TIME.

Salamat sa hindi pananahimik, Ben&Ben. Malaking bagay. ❤️💙💚

Mas lumalim ang song dahil sa MV 🥺 hello sa 'yo kaps na nag-recommend nito sa akin hehe... pangatlong balik ko na dito 😍

#LabanKapamilya ❤️💚💙

Ang sakit isipin na parang walang halaga yung boses nating Pilipino sa mga nangyayari sa bansa natin. Laban lang!✊

@lordshalomdizon3217

4 жыл бұрын

Troot lalo na pag kritiko🙁

THIS SONG IS TIMELY RELEVANT.

"me listening again after watching dito at doon"

this song hits my heart badly because of the heat of the election, results, and argument and discourse between supporters. we all want what's best for all, for our country and kababayan, yet there are still so many people that rather stay blind to the truth. as we speak on behalf of those who cannot, they still choose not to hear and acknowledge. we are fighting against injustices, yet most people still choose to neglect the evident issue.

Wow surprise!! Thaanks fam. Labyouu all!💙💛

is it strange how this song literally lifted the weight off my chest? i mean ben&ben... 👏🏻♥️

While reading some comments daming Pinoy nag-aaway, lalo na ang DDS at yung DILAWAN, para sa akin lang ha... Anu mapapala ng mamamayang Pilipino sa away ninyo, di naman namin ikakaunlad yan o ikakaunlad ng iyong mga sarili, di rin naman kayo nakakatulong sa inyong kapwa, bat ba kayo mag-aaway ano ba mapapala ba ninyo sa away niyo, yayaman ba kayo dyan, di naman diba, Payo ko lang sa kapwa nating Pilipino na nag-aaway, please understand each other opinions and PoV, walang silbe yang ginawa ninyo. Aaminin ko ha wala namang perkpektong pinuno lahat naman nagkakamali diba, nagkakamali nga yung ibang pinuno sa ibang bansa tayo pa kaya. P.S. = Concerned Citizen here

I don't know kung ako lang ha pero feeling ko yung kantang to para sa government and society. "Epidemyang 'di matapos-tapos sugpuin O problemang 'di makita, sa'n ang salarin?" tapus biglang "Nakikinig ka ba sa akin? Hindi kita gustong awayin Pareho ang ating hangarin Ang kadiliman ay basagin" Ben & Ben lang sakalam talaga😍

naalala ko pamilya ko sa kantang to grabeeee lesson to sakin mahalin nyo pamilya mo habang andayn pa silaa na gumagabay sayoo

I live by this song. When family members just become civil with each other, when BFFs turn to being just friends, or just someone you know. Pero mapapaisip ka din, handa ba talaga tayo to have this for the sake of achieving truth? Actually, the question is, how do we know kung sino ba dapat ang pakinggan? Sino ba ang bulag? Sino ba ang dapat umalalay? What if ang kapalit ng katotohanan ay kaligayahan? Masama ba for once, isipin ko muna sarili ko? Magulo ako, selfish, ano ba ang dapat? At the end, is this all worth it? Hanggang kailan?

When i see the MV and read the translation, i remember an indonesian film (NKCTHI) and they both made me so emotional. Thank you Ben&Ben for making such a beautiful song

this remembers me of a government who never listens to the people "nakikinig ka ba sa akin, di kita gustong awayin pareho ang ating hangarin, kadiliman ay basagin"

@eunsilversuju16

3 жыл бұрын

YES!!!!

This is timely. It's a very simple yet mind-boggling question to the government, the politicians, the press, activists, and above all, my fellow Filipinos: "Nakikinig ka ba?"

We are all suffering from this pandemic. There are lots of problems that we are facing today, but there is only one God who can help us and we can make it through. Godbless us all.

Nakikinig ka ba sa akin?: An Open Letter to the Philippine National Government

Kanina pa ako nagscoscroll na ako sa music page at ito ang pinakaunang opm na nakita ko yung iba kpop or international, I don't care sa music nila, please Lang palawakin natin ang opm gaya nang dati, puro opm Lang nakikita mo nakakamiss rin pag pumunta ka nang music page tapos puro opm ang sunod sunod Like if you agree