Being good vs Being Perfect | Fridays with Tab and Chance

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Todays episode we talk about the things that can stop us from living our dreams, mainly the pursuit of perfection. We both share how perfectionism has slowed us down or taught us lessons on what we really need to focus on to be happy. Lets get into it!
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  • @JoyceDoty
    @JoyceDoty5 ай бұрын

    Tab is going to get Jodeci or Anthony Hamilton to sing with Chance for his birthday. 🥳🥳🥳

  • @keneshiaallah795

    @keneshiaallah795

    4 ай бұрын

    ❤ ABSOLUTELY ❤️ She About To Be On It 😁😁😁😁

  • @gloriawilliams1664
    @gloriawilliams16645 ай бұрын

    What I've learned from this episode is that Tabitha is a visionary. She will take a risk on something through blind faith and determination. She's fearless and intuitive. Chance seems more grounded and logical and methodical in his approach.

  • @keneshiaallah795

    @keneshiaallah795

    4 ай бұрын

    Yeah TABITHA Is A 🌟 AQUARIUS 🌟 CHANCE Is A Sagittarius

  • @roderickbaisden8571

    @roderickbaisden8571

    2 ай бұрын

    Exactly what I got from it! Also as an astrology head, I'm curious to know what's in their birth charts besides their sun signs? Because Chance was definitely giving Virgo rising energy to me.

  • @shenapaul2049
    @shenapaul20495 ай бұрын

    Child when i heard the word TRIP, i screamed cuz i knew where she was going😂😂😂 Lord, please send my cousins to Africa on a couples or group trip so Tab can experience the safari & Chance can sit it out & enjoy all the rest of the trip. Amen!

  • @LisaJones-hispite23
    @LisaJones-hispite235 ай бұрын

    I love how different y'all are but each bring your own beauty and light. Gives me hope for my own relationship 🙏😊🫶

  • @k.wit.da.9z

    @k.wit.da.9z

    5 ай бұрын

    Perfectly said...the reason why they work!! I see it clearly

  • @RachelTookes-kk3jp
    @RachelTookes-kk3jp5 ай бұрын

    I was told you don't have to be great to start you just have to start to be great!

  • @ct580
    @ct5805 ай бұрын

    Mr. Chance is 100 percent right. Gifted is different. Thank you Mr. Chance.

  • @JayyCarr15
    @JayyCarr155 ай бұрын

    I would choose to reframe the words as good better and best. My elementary school principal always had a saying. “good, better, best. never let it rest until the good is better than the better is best“.

  • @nudionne6578

    @nudionne6578

    4 ай бұрын

    I learned this same quote in Michigan while I was waitressing at Kerbys’ Coney Island. I use it as daily motivation

  • @kocoabutta2338

    @kocoabutta2338

    4 ай бұрын

    Love it.

  • @ladyt3182

    @ladyt3182

    4 ай бұрын

    I remember having a teacher who said the same thing!

  • @leticawiley8356
    @leticawiley83565 ай бұрын

    Chance God gave you gifts (one of them is to sing) and just because you don’t feel like your voice ain’t great compared to someone else’s voice doesn’t mean that your voice is not a gift that God gave you and its great. Age ain’t nothing but a number so let your gift make room for you and don’t put yourself in a box or God. God bless you and Tab. Love what you all do. Fyi: that music is needed today

  • @jamiliahrivera5986
    @jamiliahrivera59865 ай бұрын

    This level of mentorship for our youth is mind blowing dude literally building and pouring into children's strengths is RARE absolutely beautiful

  • @keneshiaallah795

    @keneshiaallah795

    4 ай бұрын

    I KNOW Isn't It So Lovely To Watch As These Two Pour So Much ❤Love & Life Into Souls 💕💕🌹🦋🌻

  • @Hermajestiya13
    @Hermajestiya135 ай бұрын

    Tab you looked so pretty today !! Your face when Chance said your Africa trip doesn’t have to include a safari😂

  • @channel44online

    @channel44online

    5 ай бұрын

    Chance is DEFINITELY going on Safari! I’m just waiting on the video 😫🤣😫 🐅🦒

  • @shanalegrant6931
    @shanalegrant69315 ай бұрын

    Tabs reaction to Chance’ word between perfect and good made me say, “And THATS where Choice gets it from🤣🤣😂!!!” Hilarious!!

  • @claudiacham8397
    @claudiacham83975 ай бұрын

    Y'all are too much!!! I LOVED this! Tab, is soooo right.... we let our own insecurities and doubts stop us sometimes from doing what we love!!! ❤🥰🙏

  • @marshabowens9253
    @marshabowens92535 ай бұрын

    Welcome back fam I miss y’all on Fridays. Tab &Chance I’m glad y’all with us on Fridays! Congratulations 🎉🎈🎊 Tab on everything. 🫶🏾❤️💙🫶🏾❤️💙

  • @Jesus.SaVeS77

    @Jesus.SaVeS77

    5 ай бұрын

    Gnite @marshabowens, I'm Glad, Happy Tab & Chance R back as well. I miss'd them both too. Tab was travel'n, so Thank Praise God, team Jesus she's back🏠 safe now & with her hubby & son.

  • @bobbyhill3rd242

    @bobbyhill3rd242

    5 ай бұрын

    That's Husband and Wife Love you both.

  • @educate2cre8
    @educate2cre85 ай бұрын

    Oh Chance has no idea how gifted he really is. That's wild.

  • @naturalbeauty637
    @naturalbeauty6375 ай бұрын

    My husband gets fixated on perfection when ever we get home renovations done. It’s frustrating in real time but after it’s done, I’m glad be pressed for perfection because it’s worth the end result. Ooh & off topic,I love Tab’s earrings!🤎✨

  • @lexxrexx23456
    @lexxrexx234565 ай бұрын

    & Choyce can hit a GREAT note like her Daddy too! They both be sounding good

  • @lenorabrown7797
    @lenorabrown77975 ай бұрын

    I love how much fun Y'all have with each other. We not only witness the LOVE, we witness the LIKE you have together. Much Love to you both and thank you for sharing with the rest of us. God Bless Y'all! ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @rjd.6067
    @rjd.60675 ай бұрын

    Hey Brother Chance! Just wanted to express my respect and admiration for you and your wife. You guys really set a great example for relationships in our community. 🙌🏿 May God continue to bless you and the family 🙏🏿

  • @CozyQueen_
    @CozyQueen_5 ай бұрын

    You better sang Chance. We wanna see you shine too. You do have a great voice. Don’t let your age discourage you. You can be like Usher on skates 😂 I laugh cuz I just bought some at 35. I don’t care. Call it a midlife crisis. I alive so I’m going to live. ❤

  • @daymon6868
    @daymon68684 ай бұрын

    TAB! I JUST GOT MY A COPY OF BETTER HOMES AND GARDENS! You’re on the cover!!! I love it !!!!

  • @kimransom283
    @kimransom2835 ай бұрын

    These are great! Doesn’t sound like Chance wants the limelight that comes with singing. Just let him light up the essence of the house and fill it with love with his voice.❤ but … I’m sure the people would love to hear a bar on Fridays😂

  • @RachelTookes-kk3jp
    @RachelTookes-kk3jp5 ай бұрын

    From a spiritual side: We Are taught through the word of God to "be ye therefore perfect"!

  • @itstaesmith_
    @itstaesmith_5 ай бұрын

    Tab gone make sure to bring that Africa conversation up 😄 Chance face went stale like “here she go with this again” 🤣

  • @mizzyoung9836
    @mizzyoung98365 ай бұрын

    Omg y’all are too much!! I laughed so hard I’m the beginning with that upbeat of the intro song!!😂😂😂

  • @desiredsolutionz3536
    @desiredsolutionz35365 ай бұрын

    Mann. YALL ARE A MESS😅😂😂😂. I do believe in what you both said and YES, Chance, you can sing and that is a gift.. I'll buy the album. Hey Tab, add Chance e on the Tab Time intro😊.. Love yall

  • @alisalewis2560
    @alisalewis25605 ай бұрын

    That"s an R & B lyric.....write that song for Tab, Chance!!!😂❤❤

  • @latasha6014
    @latasha60145 ай бұрын

    Tab, you look so much like your beautiful mother here. I know she is always smiling at you from above. ❤🙏🏽

  • @Jesus.SaVeS77

    @Jesus.SaVeS77

    5 ай бұрын

    Hi, Gdm.,U seen Tabs mom in her video's B4 in the past?

  • @Anisha618

    @Anisha618

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@Jesus.SaVeS77 she has posts of her mom on social media. Be blessed.

  • @AskJaeSix
    @AskJaeSix3 ай бұрын

    When I heard the piece about showing respect to those with the gift and it potentially being hamful to others...the first thing that came to mind was the example about nature. One flower will not choose to bloom less because there is a prettier flower blooming in the area. It will bloom no matter what....there is space for all. Look at how God work. I'vee been hesitant to take up space and this is exactly what I needed to hear ❤

  • @LLCoolCooper
    @LLCoolCooper5 ай бұрын

    Chance don’t sell yourself short! And you can do voice lessons to improve your God Given Talent!

  • @dawnltaylorable
    @dawnltaylorable5 ай бұрын

    Ya'll really hit home with this topic, I have started a candle business about two years ago, in memory of my mom who passed away, but I've put it on pulse because to me, it wasn't good enough . People have told me how good my candles smell and how long they burn, but to me, they're not good enough. No matter what I do, it must be perfect. Nobody wants to help me with anything because it has to be perfect or it's not good enough. I can't understand why I don't believe in myself and know that my candles are awesome.

  • @jazlyncollins793
    @jazlyncollins7935 ай бұрын

    Talents are definitely gifts because everyone doesn’t have the ability. Some ppl can’t even hold a note Unc. I feel like Work and Time goes into making your Gift Great. Some ppl naturally just have it to where they can blow and knock down anything. But those people you named had the gift and they made their gifts PHENOMENAL. The Gift is the substance.

  • @toniamccrimon350
    @toniamccrimon3503 ай бұрын

    I love the way Tabitha Glows looking at Chance!! Everybody is getting kicked out the house or studio when this show is over!!

  • @clarissarodrigues2779
    @clarissarodrigues27795 ай бұрын

    I love to see u two having so much fun and lots of love

  • @shannonstroughter
    @shannonstroughter2 ай бұрын

    This episode was for me. I consider myself a perfectionist in some areas. I feel it has to be calculated, and I need to KNOW the plan before execution. I admire free-spirited people that are not overly concerned about the opinions of others. That is freedom.

  • @clarissajasmine8607
    @clarissajasmine86075 ай бұрын

    *"Compound interest is the eighth wonder of the world; he who understands it, earns it, he who doesn't pays it."* read again.. THIS IS DEEP!💯✨

  • @arlenehall1250
    @arlenehall12505 ай бұрын

    "I can guarantee it, I stand by it or I sit by it that's why I'm sitting in the chair now"

  • @GINNIEJOY5420
    @GINNIEJOY54205 ай бұрын

    There are times when we should be "perfectly OK" with our "imperfections." The key is recognizing and accepting that we do have imperfections, but then strive each day to be better and do better in that particular area in our life.

  • @toniamccrimon350
    @toniamccrimon3503 ай бұрын

    I think the bigger picture I'm hearing is Chance is talking about Honor!! Honoring those in music, the gifted and great!!

  • @slimhustle4736
    @slimhustle47365 ай бұрын

    Glad to see y’all back me and the family been waiting to sing Fridaaaaaays😂

  • @womensbasketballtv
    @womensbasketballtv5 ай бұрын

    Tab’s WOOWWWWWW😂😂😂😂😂😂 almost made me forget my comment. Chance is chasing MASTERY as a golfer. 💯 ⛳️

  • @JoyceDoty
    @JoyceDoty5 ай бұрын

    Just got assigned to a new leadership position.. Definitely needed to hear this. Thank you for sharing! 🧡🥑🙏🏽😊

  • @Kenesha_
    @Kenesha_5 ай бұрын

    Love y’all!!! And yes Chance was giving us every excuse 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @sonyacollins6646
    @sonyacollins66465 ай бұрын

    Seems like it’s been forever since I’ve seen Fridays with Tab & Chance so good to see y’all back

  • @enjoyingtalkswithlb8473
    @enjoyingtalkswithlb84735 ай бұрын

    so glad y'all back

  • @13larmaine
    @13larmaine5 ай бұрын

    Yess... I've been waiting for another episode 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💃🏾

  • @MommaB-j6n
    @MommaB-j6n4 ай бұрын

    One thing for sure Tab and Chance y’all are great at keeping it real. ❤❤

  • @teem7030
    @teem70305 ай бұрын

    Love this topic... right in time and always 💯! Thanks fam!!

  • @MzMel-2023
    @MzMel-20235 ай бұрын

    I agree with Tab...many of the things you mentioned are reasons to say, "Why not?" It's something I enjoy...and just share your joy and those that will enjoy what you produce will support YOU, CHANCE. People in our generation will appreciate having the experience as well. 👍🏽❤👑🎼🎶🎵🎶🎼🎤👤

  • @MzMel-2023

    @MzMel-2023

    5 ай бұрын

    Just do what you love and share it... whatever happens is meant to happen. All those you mentioned, bring or brought what they had & people like it because they like their abilities alone not in comparison to others. DO YOU CHANCE & LET THE OGs ROCK WITH YOU!!!💯☺️👍🏽😉💯

  • @sonyablakeley4520
    @sonyablakeley45205 ай бұрын

    I'm feeling a certain kinda way! Luther! And Jodeci!? TIFF! (as I throw phone across the room) 😫🤦🏾‍♀️😫🤦🏾‍♀️forever your girl😂 bless her heart. #GenX best time to live

  • @vernettarudd5895
    @vernettarudd58955 ай бұрын

    Welcome back I missed y'all Tab and Chance 🥰💕💕💕🙋‍♀️

  • @barbarawells2320
    @barbarawells23205 ай бұрын

    I just love the way he looks at you ❤❤❤

  • @shanea146
    @shanea1465 ай бұрын

    Yay!! I missed yall 💞

  • @ladeanridley5782
    @ladeanridley57825 ай бұрын

    Thank you for the "GOOD" Encouragement!!!...I needed this message!❤😊

  • @iamworthydaily
    @iamworthydaily5 ай бұрын

    This conversation is a blessing! I needed to see this. Chance got a single or two in him... Can't wait to hear it. 😃🙏🏾

  • @TriciawiththeTRUTH
    @TriciawiththeTRUTH5 ай бұрын

    Love this conversation! 💖 I've always said we get in the way of ourselves. Just get started...

  • @Alexlittle9
    @Alexlittle95 ай бұрын

    This is very healthy and a great dialogue with acceptance and understanding. Thanks for being regular people and I love your love🩷

  • @katalincsiszar5770
    @katalincsiszar57705 ай бұрын

    Hold ooon, hold ON....the spirit sings through a person, if Chance loves doing that it shouldn't be judged not even by himself! And deffinitly shouldn't be held back from others hearing it and getting moved by his singing, because it is a gift that should be passed on💗 Oh Lord, I just realized I am doing the same thing with my singing🤦 Lord have merci, thank you, Amen.

  • @Marteen40
    @Marteen405 ай бұрын

    Yall were teaching on this one. Thank you so much for the message with real fresh stories and insight from a personal level, thanks Tab & Chance!

  • @joycemelton9694
    @joycemelton96945 ай бұрын

    Welcome back, I really enjoyed your discussion tonight. Lots of food for thought, thank you. Peace and blessings ❤️❤️.

  • @divastarr35
    @divastarr355 ай бұрын

    The beginning with the "beat!" Y'all had me cracking up! I am not feeling great today and really needed a good laugh, so thank you for that! Love you guys and love your show! Blessings!

  • @RachelTookes-kk3jp
    @RachelTookes-kk3jp5 ай бұрын

    Starting is good Tab!!! 😂😂

  • @TG-hf1gx
    @TG-hf1gx4 ай бұрын

    Okay that intro tho!😂😂😂 I needed to smile. My cousin was murdered March 2nd. Thank you.🙋🏾🌉

  • @MsV22much
    @MsV22much5 ай бұрын

    Good to have you guys back. I've missed you but I know that you were pursuing greater success with your book tour. Congrats on your Emmy. Sending ❤to the family. 🎉🎉

  • @kristiejohnson5173
    @kristiejohnson51735 ай бұрын

    Chance you are gifted like most people you have to grow in your gift and it do take time it does not happen overnight❤

  • @jacquelinebryant5026
    @jacquelinebryant50265 ай бұрын

    Love both of you❤😂!! Chance Go on that amazing Trip for your Sweet thang!!

  • @Djounbug
    @Djounbug5 ай бұрын

    Welcome back. I missed you both. Great topic today. I purchased the book "I did a new thing" which I will be reading this weekend. Love ya'll❤

  • @iAMtheYELLOWrose
    @iAMtheYELLOWrose5 ай бұрын

    Yall are different but the love. Thats what it is all about. A good love. Turn on that johnny Taylor. Good love. 😂 And chance, you can bring back the ole school. You never know.

  • @marciethompson6734
    @marciethompson67345 ай бұрын

    Welcome back!

  • @RachelTookes-kk3jp
    @RachelTookes-kk3jp5 ай бұрын

    True Tab!!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @ErinMBlack
    @ErinMBlackАй бұрын

    I love how you matched his energy with the beat in the beginning 🤣

  • @tarabenson645
    @tarabenson6454 ай бұрын

    I loved this episode❤

  • @amberashley7559
    @amberashley75595 ай бұрын

    Tab thank you for this segment ❤❤

  • @tiam5365
    @tiam53655 ай бұрын

    Aaayyyeee such a delight to see u both. My son & I literally was just speaking on this and I learned is called #ImposterSyndrome

  • @arlenetanner3637
    @arlenetanner36375 ай бұрын

    Glad to my favorite folks back😊😊❤😊

  • @RachelTookes-kk3jp
    @RachelTookes-kk3jp5 ай бұрын

    Nothing wrong with the words perfect, good or great they all have outstanding values, but from a spiritual stand point we are taught through the word of God "be ye therefore perfect"! even as your Father Is In Heaven Is Perfect"!!

  • @susanwalker18
    @susanwalker184 ай бұрын

    I love Tab & Chance.

  • @Gifted504
    @Gifted5045 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂I wasn’t ready for the draws throwing!!! My tea came out my noise!!!🤣🤣 Waiting patiently for Anthony to be invited on Friday’s with Tab and Chance!

  • @sholitiapeterson5372
    @sholitiapeterson53725 ай бұрын

    You can see it all in tab face. She's about to make this happen for him.❤😊

  • @joslypierre-louis3046
    @joslypierre-louis30465 ай бұрын

    This was so good!

  • @frankspencer3440
    @frankspencer34405 ай бұрын

    Always great!!!

  • @lynettawalker45
    @lynettawalker454 ай бұрын

    I love this episode. I learning to be consistent and not perfect in my business. I appreciate you Tab and Chance for you guys transparency.❤

  • @sharoncampbell860
    @sharoncampbell8604 ай бұрын

    Omg I almost tripped on the treadmill when listening to you guys speed up that song.😂😂😂😂😂

  • @patriciashort7908
    @patriciashort79085 ай бұрын

    Chance and Tabitha are Perfect for each other, Love the Browns ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @deannastewart8095
    @deannastewart80955 ай бұрын

    Chance is absolutely correct!!! Just because you good at it doesn't make it your gift!! 💯

  • @tonyettesable
    @tonyettesable5 ай бұрын

    I love this conversation!!!! Chance, thanks for the mini lesson on Good, Great, and Perfect. I will definitely use that same mindset with my own children in their sports journey. Tabitha thanks for the input in the lesson. I really enjoy watching and listening to both of you. Continue to let GOD use you both. Be Blessed

  • @user-mf4kz2dc4f
    @user-mf4kz2dc4f5 ай бұрын

    I agree with you Tabitha,; Chance does have a gifted voice! I would definitely buy his album. 👍 I love you both ❤❤

  • @stephaniejones7015
    @stephaniejones70155 ай бұрын

    😂😂 you two are so real & so funny at the same time

  • @JosieStyles
    @JosieStyles5 ай бұрын

    I enjoyed this so much

  • @gtzion6501
    @gtzion65015 ай бұрын

    Chance, you're right. I have tried and joined the dance ministry at my church several years ago. I stopped because I wasn't that good to me. I do praise dance in my place of residence . Getting in front of people and being on point, while a bunch of people are watching; it's a whole different world.. Asked to rejoin " nicely declined ". 👍🏼

  • @alexishunt4336
    @alexishunt43362 ай бұрын

    😂😂 Blackie giving his input with a growl😂😂

  • @sheilasafadaran1825
    @sheilasafadaran18252 ай бұрын

    Now I don’t typically comment but I felt the need to and neither one of them will probably see this but oh well! I agree with Tabitha and will say this, I know Chance from playing basketball at 24 hour fitness and I know he could have played in the NBA and he could be a superstar singer so in reality, you cannot play in the NBA at 45 but what you can do now that your wife is so famous and well connected, and you remain a gifted and talented house singer, with all due respect, go get your butt in the studio and record a cover or record your own song and put it out on your social media, just for fun and see what happens!!! Your fans of you both personally will love your musical expression and you have NOTHING TO LOSE!!! I respect the heck out of Tab and Chance so like NIKE, just do it!!!

  • @busybutbalanced24
    @busybutbalanced244 ай бұрын

    I know you don’t believe it Chance, but you are a GREAT singer!👏🏾🎊

  • @bluenas1887
    @bluenas18875 ай бұрын

    “Forever my….girl” 😂😂. I, myself, am also a 90s baby however…Jodeci is my favorite male r&b group.

  • @MCarnegie66

    @MCarnegie66

    Ай бұрын

    Forever my lady…

  • @lashondriawilliams2758
    @lashondriawilliams27585 ай бұрын

    Tab and Chance ...OM G.. I love y'all... sooooooooooooo funny!!please don't stop

  • @rashidawhite6617
    @rashidawhite66175 ай бұрын

    Since it's Black History month, I would like to mention how Tab had to fight for the right to put that "Da Ba bom bom" in the theme song. She prevailed and it is the song that we all enjoy today. 👏🏾...😂😂😭

  • @DeedyWard
    @DeedyWard5 ай бұрын

    The speed-up of the intro blessed me!!!!😂😂😂

  • @mamasbotanicalsfarm7538
    @mamasbotanicalsfarm75385 ай бұрын

    I love to say doing my best. Which may vary at times but the goal is to always strive to do my best. Perfection can cause stagnation and paralyzation in my life. Grateful to have and continue to overcome the desire to be perfect.

  • @sheilawallace8209
    @sheilawallace82095 ай бұрын

    Y'all are wonderful 🎉🎉

  • @sharonbrown7806
    @sharonbrown78065 ай бұрын

    I totally agree with Tab…stop those excuses Chance and put that big toe out there and jump on in! 🎤 🎶 You can do it “The Thunder Cats” 😂 I love that Tab supports you in everything and sees your good, great and perfect self! Love yall🙏🏽💕🎶

  • @neycep1823
    @neycep18235 ай бұрын

    I just love yall 😂

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