BBP REAL LIFE BUDGET | Single Mom + Savings Tips

It’s time for another Real Life Budget. I asked my readers to submit their REAL information. Real spending, real debt, and real savings goals.
I am taking those real-life numbers and showing you how I would organize and budget that information using my Budget By Paycheck® Method.
If you would like to submit your budget information to possibly be picked for a Real Life Budget that we will show on KZread, please reach out to budgets@thebudgetmom.com.
Diane is a single mom who is a Database Administrator for an IT Department at a local college. She lives in Queens, NY, and eventually wants to move to a lower-cost of living area in the future.
Diane submitted her information because she is struggling to organize and tackle all of her larger short-term goals.
CHAPTERS:
00:00 Introduction
02:15 Why & Personal Story
04:20 Income
04:37 Fixed Expenses
05:48 Variable Expenses
06:31 Debt
07:53 Savings Goals
10:18 Budget By Paycheck Method
14:51 My Recommendations
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Kumiko Love is a single mom who empowers women everywhere to regain control of their financial lives. An Accredited Financial Counselor with over nine years of experience in the finance industry, she founded The Budget Mom, a community of millions of women on a path to financial fulfillment.
She's also the creator of the wildly popular Live Rich Planner® and Budget by Paycheck® Workbook. Love has been featured on Good Morning America, the Today show, CNN, CBS, ABC and in USA Today, US News, World Report, Huffington Post, Money Magazine, Parents Magazine, the Washington Post, and Real Simple. She lives in Spokane Valley, Washington.
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  • @rachelleblanc4797
    @rachelleblanc4797 Жыл бұрын

    I would love a series where you circle back and check in on these people and how they are doing now with their budget, savings goals, debt repayment ❤️ amazing video. Thank you!

  • @ceeleereed

    @ceeleereed

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too!

  • @alizuzy

    @alizuzy

    Жыл бұрын

    I was just thinking about that :) and I saw your comment :)

  • @screenqueenlucy123

    @screenqueenlucy123

    Жыл бұрын

    She did do one video I think checking in on a woman and her husband they done really well from her advice 👏 x

  • @budgetwithdoughva6849

    @budgetwithdoughva6849

    Жыл бұрын

    Agreed! This would be amazing to see if they stuck to their budget ❤

  • @marlettjvcb

    @marlettjvcb

    Жыл бұрын

    Legit the only reason I was gonna comment. Lol 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @RayEmureMusic
    @RayEmureMusic Жыл бұрын

    I love these real life budget planning. It makes me look at mine and see what else or better I can do.

  • @andreamiracle8402
    @andreamiracle8402 Жыл бұрын

    I’d encourage her to check out free coding resources online, like W3 schools, for example. They offer free tutorials on programming languages like Python, Java, and C, plus other things like HTML, CSS, AND SQL. When she’s ready, she can take an exam (for a fee) to obtain a certificate (or certificates). The cost is significantly less than the coding course would be. Saying this as someone who looked at a coding bootcamp through a well-known university, but it would have cost well over $10,000. I’m going this route instead, encouraged to by my software engineer husband.

  • @kat-oe7gb

    @kat-oe7gb

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope she sees this, because these schools tell you anything to get your money and when u graduate you cannot get a job.

  • @alethlumagbasboniol4473

    @alethlumagbasboniol4473

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤👍

  • @michellemorales401
    @michellemorales401 Жыл бұрын

    Another great Real People Budget. This is a great example of how splitting up your payments, properly, can afford you to split up your paychecks to better accommodate your bills. I struggled with that in the beginning. Now, we're a month ahead and our due dates better accommodate our pay schedule.

  • @EmsFitVenture
    @EmsFitVenture Жыл бұрын

    The coding course seems incredibly expensive given there are other online coding courses and certificates you can take for far less.

  • @calydeiscope9043

    @calydeiscope9043

    Жыл бұрын

    Wondering if this is because of her location?

  • @lynettemillhouse8452

    @lynettemillhouse8452

    Жыл бұрын

    @@calydeiscope9043 Nope. The only thing that can really make that difference is between the needed certification and an associates degree.

  • @mizzelleve
    @mizzelleve Жыл бұрын

    Diane you need to look into applying for some educational scholarships ASAP. There are always a lot of programs for single Moms, especially tech. Miko has given some amazing tips. Don’t let them fall on deaf ears!

  • @jomar9024
    @jomar9024 Жыл бұрын

    I would suggest that she waits until after she moves and maybe extend out another 12 months before she buys a car. New York has good public transportation. Car insurance is very expensive and off the street parking is not cheap.

  • @dianr4210
    @dianr4210 Жыл бұрын

    Great suggestions. Sometimes it just takes thinking it through with another person to get it all figured out.

  • @AlessioRastani1.

    @AlessioRastani1.

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks~>for watching and commenting, reach out to Finance Josh with the wat'sApp number above for a business investment plan that will change your financial life!

  • @DebtFreeJessie
    @DebtFreeJessie Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Miko! I'm trying to balance debt payoff, savings and investing so it was helpful to hear your recommendations on how to approach balance between goals!

  • @melanieshipley3133

    @melanieshipley3133

    Жыл бұрын

    I am pretty sure that she and most financial advisors would say pay off debt before worrying about investing because you are not going to earn in interest in your investments what you are paying in interest. Knock out that debt after you have an emergency fund and then you can focus on saving and investing

  • @BudgetingGranny
    @BudgetingGranny Жыл бұрын

    I would never rely on child support. If they are offsetting his refund, the lump sum could come…or he could have been smart enough to adjust his withholding and she gets $0 as he no longer has a refund coming. Sometimes it’s a “one and done” type thing once their refund gets offset the first time.

  • @thebosshouse

    @thebosshouse

    Жыл бұрын

    This! I've worked with men who got lower paying jobs to avoid support as well. That's not reliable at all. 😬

  • @madalynnr9940

    @madalynnr9940

    Жыл бұрын

    She's been a single mom for 12 years it's highly unlikely that it would be a one and done thing at this point. She feels it's reliable enough to include, and considering that she excludes her freelance income because it isn't reliable I think she knows her situation.

  • @kellseitrendafilov688

    @kellseitrendafilov688

    Жыл бұрын

    So it is possible for someone to not pay child support? That’s insane to not take accountability and so sad.

  • @thebosshouse

    @thebosshouse

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kellseitrendafilov688 Yeah it's possible, just like some people don't pay their taxes. The government usually catches up to them eventually, but it can take years.

  • @yellowdressbookstore6602

    @yellowdressbookstore6602

    Жыл бұрын

    I dated a guy who illigeally had HALF of his wages garnished. One week after garnishment he only recieved $200 for 40 hours! He was forced to work under the table jobs an additional 30hrs a week to make ends meet

  • @libbysworld7649
    @libbysworld7649 Жыл бұрын

    So happy to see these coming back!

  • @arthrodea
    @arthrodea Жыл бұрын

    I would call that 10,000 the emergency fund and NOT use if for a coding course. She could probably get scholarships to cover at least some of that course. Also - 20K seems really high for a medical coding course (I assume that's the coding we are talking about?) - most would be around 3-5K. There is alot of extra she could cut in the budget for a short time (less than a year) - get rid of eating out, beauty, Spotify, KZread TV (you can get regular KZread for free), vacation savings. I have never spent $700 for a birthday - children will be happy with a simply fun celebration and simple gifts. $150 for a planner? Target sells beautiful ones for like $20. I would go bare bones for about a year and knock out all the debt. I personally did this for over 2 yrs and paid off 6 figures of student loans.

  • @NinaDreams81

    @NinaDreams81

    Жыл бұрын

    The coding course is most likely a computer programming course. There are a lot of coding bootcamps that cost around 20K. The problem is that some boot camps are scams, so I hope she is doing her research. I'd rather do the free courses online. I'm a software engineer, and there are a ton of good free resources.

  • @NinaDreams81

    @NinaDreams81

    Жыл бұрын

    Also she looks to be in pretty good shape financially to be honest. I don't see why she has to panic and pay off the debt ASAP

  • @arthrodea

    @arthrodea

    Жыл бұрын

    @@NinaDreams81 AHhhh thanks - that makes more sense for the price.

  • @yellowdressbookstore6602

    @yellowdressbookstore6602

    Жыл бұрын

    A pilgrant will pay for most of her college bc she is very low income!

  • @saracor30
    @saracor30 Жыл бұрын

    Good luck to Diane! This was a great video. I feel like I can relate in a way as I’m also from NYC. Love your content 😊

  • @tkdally
    @tkdally Жыл бұрын

    what would happen in her budget once her student loan repayment become due again?

  • @everythingkendra36
    @everythingkendra36 Жыл бұрын

    Idk how I was not subscribed all this time but im subscribed now. I have your book 'My money my way' soooo, why I wasn't subscribed beats me.

  • @janetrothwell4448
    @janetrothwell4448 Жыл бұрын

    No mention was made of an emergency fund or savings. Is she supposed to be dipping into her sinking funds for that? Those should be separate from sinking funds.

  • @kellseitrendafilov688

    @kellseitrendafilov688

    Жыл бұрын

    I was wondering about the emergency fund too

  • @MonicaPriceCMP
    @MonicaPriceCMP Жыл бұрын

    A real life situation with a single mom! Love that

  • @randomsarcasm2022
    @randomsarcasm2022 Жыл бұрын

    Buying a vehicle, buying a home, and moving to another state don't seem to be realistic goals given her income and location. She's benefiting from some low income benefits (e.g. rent) so she should continue to utilize those. She should focus solely on the coding course and eliminating cc debt.

  • @BugsyB1979

    @BugsyB1979

    Жыл бұрын

    I wonder if the expenses associated with a car are worth it.

  • @yellowdressbookstore6602

    @yellowdressbookstore6602

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@BugsyB1979 The parking alone! Ouch

  • @lindacee2893
    @lindacee2893 Жыл бұрын

    These are my favorite videos 🤗, helps me figure out my own situation!

  • @mandysemmens1567
    @mandysemmens1567 Жыл бұрын

    This was very helpful. I would like more videos that show this type of example of trying to decide which goals to save for when they are all around the same time line.

  • @Alice_v2.0
    @Alice_v2.0 Жыл бұрын

    This was the first one of these that I’ve seen and it was incredibly useful and well presented. Thank you so much! I look forward to learning more from you and being able to get your planner system. Brilliantly done. Greetings & appreciation from London. 😊

  • @powerpuff4ever

    @powerpuff4ever

    Жыл бұрын

    The thing I love about watching this channel is you don’t even really need the planner. I’m sure she appreciates the support but she doesn’t bar off any of her tools or pages within her videos and you honestly walk away from the channel with a full budget management system that you can track in a notebook or spreadsheet. I just seriously appreciate the transparency here

  • @monacarney2689
    @monacarney2689 Жыл бұрын

    I would love to see a lot more of these real life budget videos. I love them. It’s so helpful.

  • @rachelsurratte8047
    @rachelsurratte8047 Жыл бұрын

    Great Job. Real life budgets are so helpful!

  • @missfroggie909
    @missfroggie909 Жыл бұрын

    Yay, Budgets are my favorite.

  • @moniquechelius7460
    @moniquechelius74606 ай бұрын

    I really love watching these. These help me out so much

  • @workingmomonabudget2381
    @workingmomonabudget2381 Жыл бұрын

    Great budget except I would split the rent and some of the sinking funds, especially groceries, between the 2 paychecks. It’s very easy to spend cash in the beginning of the month and be left with zero in a few weeks.

  • @brianneholmes6547
    @brianneholmes6547 Жыл бұрын

    I love it! I agree about the coding course!

  • @yolandavazquez5766
    @yolandavazquez57665 ай бұрын

    Just wonderful the way your able to breakdown something that looks complex to a very comfortable step by step process.

  • @freelightdaisythomasina9565
    @freelightdaisythomasina9565 Жыл бұрын

    I would love to see the live rich planner and the budget by paycheck digital versions in a GoodNotes digital planner with a landscape and portrait layout.

  • @laurasperry6825
    @laurasperry6825 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. Another great idea to implement. Thank you

  • @elainerensink3811
    @elainerensink3811 Жыл бұрын

    I really appreciated this video and would love to see more on the same topic. Thank you!

  • @elainhayter9144
    @elainhayter9144 Жыл бұрын

    Greetings from England 🇬🇧 looking forward to watching this 🤩

  • @glittergirly8
    @glittergirly8 Жыл бұрын

    Yay!! I love these videos! Thanks for making them for us 💛

  • @carriebelcher8644
    @carriebelcher8644 Жыл бұрын

    Love these videos!

  • @MimaHope
    @MimaHope Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the post!

  • @michaelswami
    @michaelswami Жыл бұрын

    You are awesome. Keep up the good work.

  • @adlpaz44
    @adlpaz44Ай бұрын

    Thank you for this series 💝🌺 👌

  • @Shellydawn69
    @Shellydawn69 Жыл бұрын

    I am in the negative. I have a mortgage, i know i need 2nd income. I want to find another. I work full time , sometimes i am required to be on call, plus i have coughing fits. I want to improve no more struggles. I am looking for simple budget ideas, but I am the deer caught in the headlights when I think about budget, jobs etc.

  • @DsVs
    @DsVs Жыл бұрын

    You can ask any internet provider if they carry a package through affordable connectivity program. It's not just spectrum so I suggest asking!

  • @katja6228
    @katja6228 Жыл бұрын

    Great budget!

  • @cherish8821
    @cherish8821 Жыл бұрын

    Love it 🥰🌺🤙🏼💜

  • @normidwest1316
    @normidwest1316 Жыл бұрын

    helpful planning

  • @Linaaaa8923
    @Linaaaa8923 Жыл бұрын

    Awesome🙂

  • @lekeshahill2477
    @lekeshahill2477 Жыл бұрын

    How do you catch up when you are behind on bills? Which ones do you focus on? Gas, electric, water, internet

  • @lynettemillhouse8452

    @lynettemillhouse8452

    Жыл бұрын

    Electric, water, and gas in that order. Unless the internet is necessary for school/work, drop it for now. Set up fixed monthly payment plans. That saved me plenty of times when my electric skyrocketed. Then pay a little more on the highest till they are all caught up.

  • @BugsyB1979

    @BugsyB1979

    Жыл бұрын

    Can you contact the companies and see if they can help you get a better rate and/or some payment assistance or plan? You can also check with other companies and see if they can offer you a better rate. I need to do this too.

  • @yellowdressbookstore6602

    @yellowdressbookstore6602

    Жыл бұрын

    211 will offer you assistance and maybe go on food stamps for 2 months to shift $300 from food to utilities.

  • @lekeshahill2477

    @lekeshahill2477

    Жыл бұрын

    @@yellowdressbookstore6602 I make too much money for food stamps 😢

  • @yellowdressbookstore6602

    @yellowdressbookstore6602

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lekeshahill2477 If you have Late on a bill 211 will pay it for you

  • @vidahappy-frugalspanglishv1528
    @vidahappy-frugalspanglishv1528 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video Miko:)! I'm not sure if I missed it or you didn't mention whether to pay the student loan while there is no interest or to wait for the forgiveness to be approved?? If anyone knows please comment, thank you😊💛

  • @erinbond6030

    @erinbond6030

    Жыл бұрын

    Great question - I’m wondering the same. For my personal situation, I’m holding off on paying. Though it’s in my budget for July. Since there is no back pay interest, I’m deciding to put my income to better use - savings! And that way the money is there to tackle the loan debt if it comes time.

  • @jodystrnad
    @jodystrnad Жыл бұрын

    Does she have an Emergency Fund?

  • @amyversprille4687
    @amyversprille4687 Жыл бұрын

    I would love to hear more on debt forgiveness- I want to apply but I am worried because I don’t want to be scammed.

  • @lindadobranetski6302
    @lindadobranetski6302 Жыл бұрын

    Miko I love these Real Life Budget series. I may have to send mine in, I am floundering. Thank you for doing these.

  • @cooker2laura
    @cooker2laura Жыл бұрын

    I’m in Canada 🇨🇦 I ordered your yearly budget books. I would love for you to take a look at my money. I’m struggling

  • @calydeiscope9043
    @calydeiscope9043 Жыл бұрын

    I’m assuming the emergency fund is fully funded since there was no mention of it

  • @Iah_goddess
    @Iah_goddess Жыл бұрын

    Hey are you selling the live rich planner as a pdf only? I’d like a physical copy

  • @Happylittlepup
    @Happylittlepup Жыл бұрын

    What about paying off school debt?

  • @cooker2laura
    @cooker2laura Жыл бұрын

    Hi! I still haven’t received your budget planner?

  • @wunderwriter1
    @wunderwriter1 Жыл бұрын

    The Chase payment on the budget of $57 is less than the minimum payment of $68

  • @vvvkelly2009vvv

    @vvvkelly2009vvv

    Жыл бұрын

    the $50 was under "Extra debt" (right column). The $68 was already taken cared of at the beginning (Expenses on the left column)

  • @wendyeroche343
    @wendyeroche343 Жыл бұрын

    She doesn't have an emergency fund?

  • @jomar9024
    @jomar9024 Жыл бұрын

    I also live in New York I live in the Bronx she can lower cell phone by more than 50% by switching to Boost Mobile. I am paying $40 a month and that includes unlimited talk, text and data

  • @jomar9024

    @jomar9024

    Жыл бұрын

    I would put the car goal on a longer time frame. Because it is more than just buying the car. Insurance is very high & off- street parking is very high. New York has one of the best public systems of Transportation. Right now I don't think that she would utilize her car enough to justify the added monthly expenses. It's better to wait til 12 months after she moves...imho

  • @savingwithsyndee5195
    @savingwithsyndee5195 Жыл бұрын

    How can I go about having you help me create a budget?

  • @lynettemillhouse8452
    @lynettemillhouse8452 Жыл бұрын

    OMG tell her that there are cheaper alternatives for a coding course then paying 10k!! If it's medical coding, I do that, and unless you want an associates degree, the total cost can be less then 4k!

  • @calydeiscope9043

    @calydeiscope9043

    Жыл бұрын

    I think someone else here noted that it may be for computer programming and not medical coding

  • @lynettemillhouse8452

    @lynettemillhouse8452

    Жыл бұрын

    @@calydeiscope9043 Ah, that would make more sense then. 😀

  • @robinlewis9221
    @robinlewis9221 Жыл бұрын

    Is their someplace I can’t print off those budget papers?

  • @michelew8313

    @michelew8313

    Жыл бұрын

    Check in the free resources section. I think that's where I got mine.

  • @randrews7198
    @randrews7198 Жыл бұрын

    Love your videos! I buy hair to make extensions if you ever decide to cut it. I pay according to length :)

  • @hyacinthhale7412
    @hyacinthhale7412 Жыл бұрын

    Does she have an emergency fund? That would be a good thing to have.

  • @Sarah-Katsandres
    @Sarah-Katsandres Жыл бұрын

    MIT has free coding courses (as do other schools I’m sure). Please don’t pay for the certificate! Nobody will ever ask you for it, and you’ll still have to prove your skills in an interview process anyways!

  • @colorsofavon934
    @colorsofavon934 Жыл бұрын

    😃😃😃

  • @latanyaneal4070
    @latanyaneal4070 Жыл бұрын

    😀💞

  • @Birdmom1823
    @Birdmom1823 Жыл бұрын

    💜💙💜💙💜

  • @tracyvoris7641
    @tracyvoris7641 Жыл бұрын

    So if she has $10k saved why not pay off chase immediately??

  • @foodmens
    @foodmens Жыл бұрын

    😢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 🥚🥚🥚🥚🤰 40 tho?🤢🤢

  • @Voorhell
    @Voorhell Жыл бұрын

    Diane with your skillset you might want to consider looking at getting skilled up in Salesforce using Trailhead which is free. You might be able to pick up more freelance work. Lots of opportunities (especially in higher ed).

  • @rebeccaweinstein6560
    @rebeccaweinstein6560 Жыл бұрын

    Why does the taxpayer have to subsidize her life in so many ways when she spends money frivolously?

  • @dezrisandoval246
    @dezrisandoval246 Жыл бұрын

    How would I go about requesting a real life budget series for my budget ??@thebudgetmom

  • @user-vh6te
    @user-vh6te Жыл бұрын

    Are you a single mom ??

  • @svmfreturns
    @svmfreturns Жыл бұрын

    Basic plan kzread.infojsq1dpUAcaU?feature=share