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@jamiesomervilleedits Жыл бұрын
I've seen a lot of comments about the music being too loud so I just wanted to come on here and apologize. The clip has background music already in it so I was trying to find a good balance between the added music so it would mask over the background music without ruining the audio. I appreciate all your comments with your feedback
@friendlyreptile9931
Жыл бұрын
That sounds reasonable but you know what? The F ing music is to loud mate :D
@OrniasDMF
Жыл бұрын
Better to have no music so people can feel natural feelings rather than what the music invokes
@friendlyreptile9931
Жыл бұрын
@@OrniasDMF Jo brain, rread what he wrote and process it before writeing :D
@christaylor86
Жыл бұрын
Why not make something original instead of just uploading a random clip and trying to avoid copyright?
@SpeedUp898
Жыл бұрын
Ignore the replies of ignorant people. You did your best!
@geraintthomas4136 Жыл бұрын
My dad hung himself 3 years ago and I found him. I will never forget the ambulance woman I spoke to on the phone, she was absolutely amazing. I wish I could say thank you Edit: thank you all for your messages. Obviously it was very traumatic, and still is very traumatic and I’m still learning to live with it going through therapy etc. I have my down days but I’m doing much better. I’ve just qualified as a nurse and vow to help those in the situation similar to mine or my fathers. His legacy will live on. Thank you again
@jamiesomervilleedits
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear that, it must of been so traumatic. I hope your doing okay
@strykerwolf4348
Жыл бұрын
Stay strong soldier. I will keep you in my prayers
@champagnegirl3093
Жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss Sending you some grandma love 💝💝💝
@hmull4882
Жыл бұрын
Sorry you had to go through this. If you call non emergency line they may be able to assist you in meeting that special person. X good luck
@bambiesdoomsday
Жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear that. Hope he is still alive x
@mommajay911 Жыл бұрын
I've been there. Big hugs to that dispatcher. It is the most helpless feeling wanting to jump through the phone and do more. We are the first first responders. We are the thin gold line. We are dispatchers.
@coover65
Жыл бұрын
I have the greatest respect for dispatchers. It's easy for us road crew as you just give us one job at a time, with the odd redirect. You and your colleagues though have multiple jobs on the screen waiting for an available crew. Best wishes from an Australian paramedic.
@mommajay911
Жыл бұрын
@@coover65 Thank you 😊
@marksmadhousemetaphysicalm2938
Жыл бұрын
As a paramedic it was easier for us, I always empathized with the dispatchers on the phone speaking with families (not the ones who gave us another assignment at the end of shift ;-D (kidding of course)) but these folks had to deal with not know and hope families did it right...
@asbisi
Жыл бұрын
Important job. You probably helped save loads of people.
@jessH090
Жыл бұрын
I’ve spoken to great ones, and I’ve spoken to useless ones. Some, I am very grateful to, others, like the one who didn’t put in the right data so my grandad had to wait over an hour for an ambulance when he was having a heart attack, not so much. I kept telling her over and over and he had a second one that could have been prevented if things were done better.
@andiscott8470 Жыл бұрын
I was an EMD for the LAS. One of my worst calls when I was on the 9's was a hanging. A mum, on Christmas Eve, found by her son. I was absolutely broken after that call. I had to go home. Won't ever forget the dad sobbing to me down the phone. Haunts me to this day.
@mollyrice1578
Жыл бұрын
Oh bless you! I still work at my service so I’m not gunna say where I am but I get your emotions I really do! It’s the toughest call I’m had and not long after Christmas too for me so it’s so much harder! Especially since we work the Christmas period meaning we are often quite isolated then too if we live alone since travel home isn’t possible, at least for me it wasn’t 😔 But bless you! You’ve got a unique perspective and it’s a tool in your belt to use for the future 😌
@Wodenson
Жыл бұрын
Thankyou for your compassion Andy, we are blessed to have people like you on this Earth 🙏🏻💗
@zcharged8294
Жыл бұрын
why u leave
@andiscott8470
Жыл бұрын
@@zcharged8294 I was working when we had the bombings on the underground in 2005, and that had an effect on me, and after struggling for a while after that I decided to move to something else.
@andiscott8470
Жыл бұрын
@@mollyrice1578 Oh indeed. Dealing with stuff like that, and everything else you see and hear set me up well for the rest of my working life.
@Cerebalpaulsys Жыл бұрын
Been having some very dark thoughts recently, things like this make me realise how much it would affect my gf and mum.
@AnimalsNotIncluded
Жыл бұрын
Please never feel like that is your only option. It sounds like you have people who love and care for you - reach out to someone. The world is better with you in it always!
@tom4412
Жыл бұрын
Memo please don’t end you. I’ve been very close 3 times over the years. I’m 40 now. I’ve recently made some drastic changes in my life. Now I don’t feel trapped in a situation I don’t like. I believe you are a good person.
@Squirrelbear5950
Жыл бұрын
Please stay, we don’t want you to go.
@attentionlabel
Жыл бұрын
Hey hang in there, Memo. Things can be rough. Hang in there, you got this.
@icypenguinparty
Жыл бұрын
i also have those thoughts but i’m still here and fighting them every day. you’ve got this
@izzyadam1145 Жыл бұрын
My fiancé hung himself in 2015; he was 24, I was 21 at the time. I found him when I came home from work one day. I was a 911 dispatcher at the time, but you can never prepare yourself for these things happening to you. I wasn't able to turn him over on his back from how he was positioned, so I couldn't perform CPR, but I remember the dispatcher being incredible and keeping me calm until the ambulance arrived. Thank you so much, dispatchers, for being on the front line of every emergency. We need you!! ❤️❤️
@emmaVTEC
Жыл бұрын
All my love ❤
@dor4376
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for what you've been through😢 ❤
@onderguler8879
Жыл бұрын
Is he still with us?
@izzyadam1145
Жыл бұрын
@@onderguler8879 unfortunately, he didn't make it. The paramedics were on scene within minutes and did CPR on him for 26 minutes...the longest they've ever done, apparently. They really tried to bring him back. The hardest part was having to tell his mother. That's the only thing that has really stayed with me 7 years later - the rest I can cope with. RIP Josh. ❤️
@onderguler8879
Жыл бұрын
@@izzyadam1145 I am sorry for your loss and all that you have been through. ❤️❤️
@sazparker8849 Жыл бұрын
Tearing up just watching this and if the roles were reversed I certainly wouldn't have the strength to take calls like this. Thank you to all these dispatchers, the unsung heroes who help to save lives.
@RikologyGaming
Жыл бұрын
you think you wouldn't but I bet you would... we somehow find it in these situations
@sheevamirshahi8820
Жыл бұрын
@@RikologyGaming i totally agree
@justkeepbreathing9766 Жыл бұрын
The dispatcher who was on the phone with me whiel I was trying to revive my father when I was 21. I don’t know who she is, or how she’s doing, but she was there with me on the worst night of my life, and I never knew her name. These people do incredible work and never get enough credit. So much love to our EMTs, dispatchers and ambulance crews. They’re there for us no matter what.
@the.seagull.35
Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear 😔 how are you doing?
@NotoriousBroadcasts Жыл бұрын
This clip is very personal to me. My mother committed suicide when I was a child. My father had to perform cpr. This was years before cell phones. He was running back and forth between the house phone and the front yard. When he was outside I put my ear on the phone and listened to the 911 operators talking. The girl was so overwhelmed that she had her supervisor take over. These brave folks may not be paramedics but they are the very first responders and they are some of the bravest people in the world for doing what they do. Bless them all. Peace and love.
@petekdemircioglu
Жыл бұрын
Not to be a cruel person but did he emotionally abuse your mother to the point that she committed suicide? Becasue mine is doing it.
@Crystalquartz964
Жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear this, love coming to you
@NotoriousBroadcasts
Жыл бұрын
@@petekdemircioglu She had her own issues and was extremely young, but partly, yes.
@AviatorPanels Жыл бұрын
as a frontline crew I’ve always said I could never work in the call centre, being on scene is easy, you feel like you can get stuck in and hands on, being at the end of the phone you can feel helpless. Dispatchers and call handlers don’t realise just how much difference they make and just how much they truly do help. They manage horrendous scenes without physically being there, they really are heroes
@praetorxian
Жыл бұрын
I feel the same way. Going on my 12th year as a Paramedic in Canada. I feel for our communications officers. They can only hear. We smell, taste, touch, etc. I squabble with them over the radio from time to time, but I respect their work. Angels in our eardrums.
@fervent2896
11 ай бұрын
Heros in headsets we call them.
@One_and_Justice_4_All Жыл бұрын
I did this job for 7 years, for the Welsh Ambulance Service. This nature of call was one of the very worst and I’ve never forgotten any of the calls I’ve taken in regards to this subject. One in particular was for a member of my own family 💔❣️ I left 8 years ago and they haunt me every single day and night. It affected my own MH so much that I know I can never return, especially since one of my closest colleagues took her own life this way leaving her husband and three children under the age of 5. The job does have its wonderful moments too ….especially when assisting a family bring their newborn into the World before the ambulance crews or midwife arrived on scene. These calls in particular are devastating for all involved and my heart goes out to this Emergency Medical Dispatcher that she gets the correct support to help heal her own emotional trauma. These people are heroes too, just as much as the actual Crews on the road or in the air responding. 🙏🏼🏴❣️
@winykittygirl
Жыл бұрын
Beautiful ❤❤
@jl5749
Жыл бұрын
thank you so much for doing this job; you're a true hero. I hope you're recovering alright❤🩹
@One_and_Justice_4_All
Жыл бұрын
Wow I didn’t expect a reply. Thank you for such kindness and compassion. I still struggle everyday, some days are good, some not so good. The sad reality is that I don’t think anyone can fully recover from being involved in some way dealing with this nature of call. Along with so many others. I truly appreciate your kind words and support. Thank you from the bottom of my heart ♥️ 🏴♥️
@TheHulksMistress
Жыл бұрын
Yep, what the other person said, you’re amazing. I worked the Covid helpline nearly two years ago and obviously that’s nothing whatsoever compared to what you did, but even that could be upsetting when talking to an older person who was barely hanging on. So I can’t imagine the emotional toll of what you had to deal with. I mean it sincerely when I say people like you and your colleague (rest in peace to her) are guardian angels, literally. Saving lives all day every day.
@jl5749
Жыл бұрын
@@One_and_Justice_4_All I hope you know that there are many people out here indebted to your work who are rooting for you. it takes so much bravery to do that sort of job, even just for a single day
@Iconology Жыл бұрын
Absolute hero. She should be incredibly proud. Even in such an awful moment she knew she had to keep going.
@kayleet8370 Жыл бұрын
I rem this episode like it was yesterday. This girl was amazing. She said at the end she had been accepted onto her paramedic training. 🎉 I wish her all the luck in the world she'll do great. X
@weatherstationlytovchenko4794
Жыл бұрын
did the person live who was trying to be resuscitated on the clip?
@kayleet8370
Жыл бұрын
@@weatherstationlytovchenko4794 sadly not I don't think
@weatherstationlytovchenko4794
Жыл бұрын
@@kayleet8370 oh dear, thank you for replying
@KAITHEINVADER56
Жыл бұрын
@@weatherstationlytovchenko4794 I think it was young boy
@TisTheDamnStickSeason Жыл бұрын
I'm 48. Back in 1998, my 21yr gf at the time hung herself. No amount of counseling can ever fully take that pain away. I will always carry the pain of losing her with me to some degree, but I know I have to keep going. If you know, you know. If you don't know, you can't possibly begin to imagine.
@didsthecat1503
Жыл бұрын
I understand, and it’s so hard at times to want to continue, especially when the rest of the world just keeps moving while yours feels like it’s crumbling to pieces. Nobody understands heartbreak and grief until they go through it.
@daliborashadowheart2111
Жыл бұрын
I have that guilt with my brother
@PrincessTazmin
Жыл бұрын
I know...and I hear you. Sending so much love
@the.seagull.35
Жыл бұрын
Anyone who sees this: it is *not your fault* ❤❤❤ everyone makes their own life decisions. You didn't make the final decision. It is not your fault. ❤
@Katie.Morris
Жыл бұрын
@@the.seagull.35 I lost my boyfriend this way in January. I’m glad I just found your comment. Thank you ❤️
@sahraskellington1065 Жыл бұрын
I survived a hanging attempt in late 2018 😅 No one in my family knows to this day. Watching this didn’t feel good. I’m glad I didn’t end up putting anyone through this. Really really glad
@jkm8741
Жыл бұрын
Hope life has improved for you.
@jkm8741
Жыл бұрын
Ignore her
@JayTheLane Жыл бұрын
Amazing young woman with great empathy. Employ more people like this.
@kingarthur5110 Жыл бұрын
Canadian Paramedic here. I can't imagine how hard it is to be a dispatcher. Working the call over the phone, not being physically there to help. Respect.
@isobel8796 Жыл бұрын
I can’t even imagine the pressure that these dispatchers face. They’re the only lifeline for these frantic callers. 💔💔💔
@Teapot300 Жыл бұрын
You are much more important than any politician on the Planet because you care and feel. Bless you.
@joski9030 Жыл бұрын
Made me tear up unfortunately found my Nan dead, and a couple of years later my dad. 😢the 999 staff were excellent as were the paramedics. RIP both. x
@jamiesomervilleedits
Жыл бұрын
I'm really sorry to hear that. sending all my love
@the.seagull.35
Жыл бұрын
💔💔💔 God bless you and your family
@exex93789 ай бұрын
Makes a bad day at work for me seem so insignificant
@kizzie916 Жыл бұрын
As a Fire/EMS Dispatcher I've been in that same seat having to hear someone's cries for help. You can never forget them! Dispatchers/Call Takers are often heard but never seen or recognized.
@the.seagull.35
Жыл бұрын
You're the best Kizzie ❤ God sees what you're doing. “Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me." Matthew 25:40
@idealjohn Жыл бұрын
And to think there are people out there who scream and shout abuse at these wonderful human beings, who are passionate about the job they do and their only goal is to help the people on the other end in the phone. I openly cry every time I see this clip, I don’t mind admitting. To see this kind, compassionate young lady break down trying to help the person on the phone is heartbreaking. You are all absolute angels and I thank the lord there are people on this planet like you. x x x
@JessNaomiWard Жыл бұрын
I lost my dad in this way when I was 18 and it’s breaks my heart everytime I hear anything like this 😞 so much love to our dispatchers, we need to protect them at all costs! They are the ones there for us in such difficult situations and have to deal with this on a day to day basis xx
@pauldriscoll6319 Жыл бұрын
Man this was moving, the girls emotional touched my soul and bless her for being what we all need to be - feeling - compassionate - a beautiful spirit in a wonderful woman.
@jack1d1XB Жыл бұрын
There is so little humanity left in the world, too preoccupied by their worries and fears, anger, dispare, frustration, ego, greed and loathing that this lady and her colleagues remind us that there are still humans in the mix, that without them we would fall, with them so many can become so much better. My life has been saved so many times by these humans who regardless of their difficulties are willing to step forward and bring us to the light, my deep respects to them and anyone whose chooses to make a difference, ❤😊
@blue_0.0
Жыл бұрын
There's nothing wrong with having worries and fears. That's something you need in this cruel world.
@NickyDunn Жыл бұрын
Not all heroes wear capes.
@DecSteele Жыл бұрын
Annoys me how we admire actors so much yet people in these professions go unnoticed
@Chelloowie Жыл бұрын
I'm a nurse. When I did my first stint in a cardiac critical care unit a patient I was discharging suddenly had a heart attack while we were giggling at a joke together, standing right in front of me. obviously I went into emergency mode and called the crash team and got him onto a bed so we could perform on him, but inside my head was screaming and I wanted to yell and cry but couldn't. My team was great and we all said a prayer for him and hugged each other after we couldn't get any life back and we were allowed to talk about our feelings together before we went home from shift, but I just felt really weird. As soon as I left my shift that day I bawled my eyes out for him and his family while walking to my car and felt like I should have done more CPR or should have told him not to be standing up sooner. You never forget it. This was 10 years ago and I still remember his face and the colour of the walls and the people who came to help. I can't imagine having to take these emergency calls all day every day and not knowing the outcome. It's so hard. This girl is wonderful, I feel blessed our country has compassionate people like her in it 💜 I just hope her soul is ok too
@gabbylauren
Жыл бұрын
You did everything you possibly could to try and save him, please don't ever doubt that. I hope & pray that you know that ❤
@JodieCoulson Жыл бұрын
I've been there - spent so much time crying on the phones - I'll never forget the years I worked for the ambulance service - she handled the call so well!
@LooselyGrope Жыл бұрын
I work for London Underground and the first one under I had as a station assistant was completely traumatising. Even the big burly men I worked with were in tears that day. I don't think I could work for the emergency services, it's absolutely amazing what they do. She handled that really well.
@ryanstout8634 Жыл бұрын
Respect and love to all the emergency response staff worldwide. Doesn't matter if you are a dispatcher, boots on ground or a phone operator, you see some of the worst things in this world and still serve your communities through thick and thin.
@teefarox92 Жыл бұрын
Emergency operators don’t get anywhere near enough credit for what they have to do. Not all heroes wear capes. This Woman, these people, need to be some of the highest paid in their countries.
@MamiTT237 Жыл бұрын
I didn’t expect to burst into tears! I had to stop the video and collect myself
@JunjiDorito Жыл бұрын
I had to give CPR to a man i found in the street the other day. The woman on the phone was incredible, encouraging and kept everyone calm on loudspeaker. They are angels 💖
@heather5540 Жыл бұрын
It's such an incredibly difficult job to work emergency services dispatch. I could never do it and I am forever grateful for the people who can. They are heroes
@crimmycrimmy47286 ай бұрын
Every time I thought about ending I just had to come back to this video and I cant explain why
@ben6993 Жыл бұрын
Suicide doesn’t take the pain away. It just passes it onto someone else
@JesusChristOfficial2
Жыл бұрын
@@zypxier Lol Fam is more selfish if they think i'm gonna live till 70 just so they can be happy. Are you slow?
@JesusChristOfficial2
Жыл бұрын
@Blob B Huh? When did I say that I want respect from people? Are you slow?
@violetlucy Жыл бұрын
This video really made me realise how much it would affect others around me if I followed through. Not saying I would now but only a few years ago, I was on the verge. Life is worth living, even if it’s just to stick around a little longer so your loved ones don’t suffer too :(
@abcdefg-wn5qb
Жыл бұрын
Hey if you want to u can message me on here whenever. I’ll be here to listen. You are worth so much.
@Zombie101
Жыл бұрын
pretty much only reason that i am still here too.
@the.seagull.35
Жыл бұрын
@@Zombie101 do you have anybody to talk to about it?
@Wodenson Жыл бұрын
As someone who lives with severe mental illness I could easily be the person that is found, but seeing this video and knowing that a simple act of kindness can save my life I am eternally grateful for those that put their hearts on the line to be there for me, I will never stop believing in hope 💙💗
@jkm8741
Жыл бұрын
I think the fact you have written this comment, shows us you don't really want to go down that road. To see the ripple effect on the people who have never even met this person, is harrowing. Keep going and ASK for help, when you need it. I have suffered from bad depression and I think if most people are honest, they have issues too. They just hide it. You got this.
@denisedaly2307
Жыл бұрын
I'm also the same but have no family to turn to.
@Gooniessss
Жыл бұрын
@@denisedaly2307 They're are some charities to reach out to. Nobody is ever truly alone. We're all connected somehow. The fact that I replied to you shows there's someone out there thinking of you and wishing you happiness.
@jkm8741
Жыл бұрын
@@denisedaly2307 I'm sorry to hear this Denis. Even having a family can be no safety net. There are charities you can turn to, although i know it might be hard as they are so busy. However even a workmate etc might provide some support. I once told my boss, I was seriously concerned about him. He isnt a pleasant man but I could see something was going on. He sort of ridiculed me, then left. He later phoned me and said he was in a bad place and thank you. I spoke to his wife a few days later. She said after I had spoken to him, he had called and bawled his eyes out. They knew he was in a bad way but did nothing about it. After talking to me, he actually realised something had to change. My point is, it wasnt easy confronting him as he was my boss but I have been there and recognised the signs. Sometimes the people around you, do actually know the feelings you have experienced. Even reach out to forums online. I have a chronic illness and am a member of Health unlocked. It has so many different subject matters and there are some great people there. Strangers to me but people who have given me great emotional and practical support. You are stronger than you think. Stay safe my friend.
@daquaviousbingleton9763
Жыл бұрын
Bro chill out it’s not that deep if you feel depressed find something you wanna do and put your life and soul into it
@Keevusthefoetus Жыл бұрын
such an amazing young woman - flooding empathy.
@AbacusAxolotyl Жыл бұрын
I can’t fathom how people do this for a job every day. Incredible strength. I have endless respect ❤
@GuadalupeGuacamole Жыл бұрын
Unsung heroes 🙌
@lennydicko
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely 🙏
@thatsdebatable1361 Жыл бұрын
Such a big heart. Happy to have dispatchers like you ❤
@Charlotte-fn6xv Жыл бұрын
To anyone who is considering this, you are enough, and you are so loved ♥
@Charlotte-fn6xv
Жыл бұрын
@d a r l i n g J o Sorry what?
@Charlotte-fn6xv
Жыл бұрын
Can you explain how it is pathetic? It’s better than what you’re doing.@d a r l i n g J o
@Charlotte-fn6xv
Жыл бұрын
@d a r l i n g J o I guess we have different value systems then. You are right, maybe this won’t help anyone. But maybe it will help just one person. That’s what matters to me, not the fact that it supposedly makes me feel better. A little kindness can go a long way and I stand by that :). I hope you can understand that one day too.
@sc1788 Жыл бұрын
When my Dad passed the lady on the phone to me was amazing too. As were the paramedics. Its a horrible situation and at the time my brain was too all over the place to fully appreciate the amazing job they do. They are the real heroes, not footballers, not musicians, our first responders ❤
@miamiglia Жыл бұрын
These people are incredible. Not the same situation but when I had my second child their was a few complications and I needed an ambulance, the man on the phone was incredible and kept me calm the whole time. They are true heroes.
@MadeInGreatBritain Жыл бұрын
What a girl. I couldn’t do that job. Respect to all of them
@jduff7036 Жыл бұрын
What an amazing young woman. Very few people would be able to do that. Cudos to her.
@lunakorayner Жыл бұрын
I met someone who does these late night help lines and am so grateful for people like her but at the same time I could tell how much it pained her. Really good on her for doing such a valuable job. Sending my love to all who work in such a rough environment ❤
@the.seagull.35
Жыл бұрын
I agree... its amazing that she's doing that. I'm just curious, what was it that pained her? has she lost people? Or is it more just the emotional demand of the job
@jasminelee1234 Жыл бұрын
Gosh this was just heartbreaking on so many levels 💔 Some of the comments of people having been through a similar experience are so terribly sad.
@Gmoviesmoothie Жыл бұрын
She did so well, her composure....it helped, by some modicum, to aleviate panic to the caller from the otherside 🙏🏻
@JonathanRodriguez-nz9nw Жыл бұрын
God bless that woman, heart of gold 🙏🏻
@mollyrice1578 Жыл бұрын
Gosh this is so so so hard!!! I’m a call handler in the UK too (but a different location) and I just had my first hanging recently and the friend did CPR for so long god bless her and it was just the toughest call 🥺 I’m so grateful to have been able to help that friend in some way to know she did absolutely everything she could for both the patient and her partner in that moment and it honestly makes me so emotional how proud I am of her! It still doesn’t quite register in my brain sometimes though that the patient died, you know? And other times it’s so real it hurts! Anyway I know how hard it is to not get overwhelmed by emotions in those calls, especially once you’ve got them going on CPR and all you can do is encourage this person who you can’t see or take over compressions for or really do much except wait and listen and that’s when not crying becomes hardest for me because it’s quieter and you’ve don’t all your jobs except keeping CPR going so your brain has time to think for the first time! 😔🥺 Anyway my prayers to anyone who has to deal with this whether a family member or friend who finds them or knows them, the call handler who’s the first to hear their heartbreak, fear and pain, or the paramedics who work so hard to do what they can and who have to see and do what none of us can imagine! It’s the one blessing of a difficult job like this, that I never have a face to haunt me, only the sounds (which are hard but so much better I imagine that images) 😔❤️❤️❤️
@emmaxtina3678
Жыл бұрын
I'm a nurse, but just wanted to say thank you for everything you do as a call handler, you do a job that I wouldn't have the guts to do after many years of being in my profession. Make sure you always look after yourself after those tough calls and debrief where necessary x
@WavyWatson
Жыл бұрын
Thank goodness for people like you. Thank you for everything you do :)
@mollyrice1578
Жыл бұрын
Aw bless you both! I love my job I’ll be honest! I’ve had to cut my hours a bit to allow me to finish my undergraduate degree (in a related field) but I’m excited to get back to more hours again once I pass my endless assignment to do list and exams 😴📚 And yeah the ambulance service is great and it’s honestly like a family! 🥰
@hm27200
Жыл бұрын
Your a hero kid. Empathetic loving and a great person be proud of who you are.
@emmaxtina3678
Жыл бұрын
@@mollyrice1578 best of luck finishing your qualification!
@michaelmoran2059 Жыл бұрын
This one caught me!! Heartbreaking! Keep doing what you are doing, one of the most overlooked jobs there is! From a firefighter - stay strong girl.
@gistus123 Жыл бұрын
My sister is a paramedic and the NHS don’t offer enough psychological support, I had to help her process a situation that had an immense impact in her, these organisations really need to think about the human side of these situations and not the numbers.
@tobyb1018
Жыл бұрын
The government need to put more money into the nhs instead of constantly cutting it..they’re deliberately, systematically, destroying it-people like this girl don’t get paid enough for literally saving lives while the Tories actions over the last few years have literally killed people…she should get paid more, she should have access to counselling 24/7
@JasonT850 Жыл бұрын
I could not imagine having to be on the other end of the phone during someone's worse time in their life. How can you not cry? She held her composure though!
@bevygerritsen1322 Жыл бұрын
This is a great example to why EVERYONE in the medical/ police/ fire/ paramedic field NEEDS counselling
@catika505 Жыл бұрын
I will never forget my friends dad description of what her face looked like when he found her. 12 years ago and it still haunts me but those words have kept me from doing the same thing more times than I care to count. I am glad I am still here. I just wish she was too. Don't stay quiet. Get help.
@stewartgrindlay9760 Жыл бұрын
You are amazing the people who guide you through the scariest moments ever. Thank you all from bottom of all our Hearts
@rosasosa8485 Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy there are people in this work that can handle this type of work. Lord knows I couldn’t
@EmbedGolf Жыл бұрын
To have to watch that gives a whole different perspective on how this affects so many many people. Well done young lady.
@novapixel162 ай бұрын
How can you detach yourself in that situation? I don't believe that I'm emotionally and physically built for this job. Damn.. what a great human beings there..
@rybackracing8075 Жыл бұрын
Tough job so under appreciated. Big respect ❤
@superbadgirl82 Жыл бұрын
About not long ago I started having chest pains and a pain down my left arm. I called 999 and they said they would send an ambulance out but unfortunately it was on the day of a paramedic strike and the was a reduced service. They very kindly paid for a taxi for me because I had no money which came almost instantly. They're wonderful people. Luckily it wasn't a heart attack but I do have to be seen by a specialist.
@chrisbroadhurst3039 Жыл бұрын
Just shows how much of an incredible job the call handlers and paramedics who work for our NHS do and what they go through every day doing their job to help us.
@pt4005 Жыл бұрын
The work these guys do is beyond amazing. I work for the nhs in treating mental health problems. So pretty much the barrier between them being ok and taking their own lives… I’ve heard people at their lowest and it’s heartbreaking knowing that someone is going to take their life. But to be at the otherside when it’s happened n the aftermath.. could break me
@billiebuffalo Жыл бұрын
How beautiful. I don' know how emergency line workers do it day after day...
@Marigolded Жыл бұрын
That young woman was truly amazing, and she will never know exactly how much help she was in that situation. Shows how fragile we are as humans and how we all need to stop the hate and the destruction of others because ultimately we are destroying ourselves.
@yvonnescholey8972 Жыл бұрын
God bless all you guys for the work you do, you are heroes 👏❤️😊
@RazzamaKaz Жыл бұрын
These dispatchers are angels. I found my MIL deceased in her home and it was the 000(Australia) emergency operator that kept me grounded and from losing my shit. God bless them all!…..
@janyceparks8326 Жыл бұрын
I felt so very sorry for her. What a compassionate heart.
@Nancetha Жыл бұрын
Bless her heart ❤ I’m a CSI and have to attend all suicides. It’s truly heartbreaking and I only wish people were more comfortable in expressing their sadness in this profession. We aren’t robots.
@benstedall9864 Жыл бұрын
dude this is powerful to watch
@Spice_flake Жыл бұрын
This is probably one of the hardest jobs
@TheLibTearMaker Жыл бұрын
Damn that gave me the chills…
@janicegordon3705 Жыл бұрын
God bless you. You are doing a great job. You have such compassion. I am a RN of 44 years and hope never to lose compassion. Every life is a gift❤
@conorg4461 Жыл бұрын
Life can be so Fking hard so much love for anyone that has gone through anything like this you truly are amazing
@sandralloyd838 Жыл бұрын
So proud of her !
@BebeSu77 Жыл бұрын
My Dad died this way when I was a kid, anyone feeling in a dark place, learn about how you are neurodivergent, understanding yourself makes things much better. I knew I had mental health problems and problems coping, I never thought I'd most likely be autistic and adhd, not until I had my Autistic kid late in life. Take care.
@fazertace6837 Жыл бұрын
Well done flower. Were all proud of you.
@sarahquink1356
Жыл бұрын
Flower? Don’t be daft
@fazertace6837
Жыл бұрын
@@sarahquink1356be quiet you virtue signalling non-entity.
@DanDanCOYS Жыл бұрын
Oh bless this woman’s heart man.
@BradyRanger Жыл бұрын
She did so well, allowing herself to cry in the off moments but then still sounding professional and encouraging when the caller needed her to speak.
@ChrizRockster Жыл бұрын
This is the image of the true burden of working for the health service. Every single one of them is essential and they all shoulder the good times and the bad. I'm a QA L3 First Aider and it would be very hard for me knowing that I could do so much more if I was there.
@superbananas77924 ай бұрын
Big reason I couldn't be a dispatcher, being on the ground I can deal with but id just feel so helpless trying to help as much as I can over the phone. Honestly solid work, none of us could do our jobs without you.
@rectify20032 ай бұрын
Brave dispatcher 🙏❤️ You did amazing
@angiemottershead1394 Жыл бұрын
Aw bless her. Kudos to that lady. I couldnt do that job. My ❤ goes out to you. ❤
@leighgilpin1021 Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful soul she is, I know if I was in that situation I would of been completely greatful of her compassion. She was still able to do her job professionally whilst been a Human at the same time
@Jewel-ju2qz Жыл бұрын
god bless you amazing people ❤
@MarkWilliamsRom Жыл бұрын
I fill for all of you who have to go through this.sending you much love nhs
@Stevehboy Жыл бұрын
My dad hanged himself when I was just 7, I’m 26 now but always think about him & why he done it, He had a good job aswell and didn’t even leave a note😢
@Finndrumm
Жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss
@sairamughal8336
Жыл бұрын
At my friend's service the pastor said she has all her answers now and we are the ones left with all the questions. Sending you hope and strength.
@KH-qj6er Жыл бұрын
Aww well done. She handled it really well. Must be hard in that kind of situation.
@cookie_dough_hangover Жыл бұрын
I just want to give her a hug.
@jessevonschreiber4652 Жыл бұрын
She is amazing
@meganjackson4640 Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry your strong and amazing all of you
@T-19- Жыл бұрын
Life is a crazy thing when you think about it.
@Crystalquartz964 Жыл бұрын
You did well, young lady, proud of you 🌸
@Favourites1988 Жыл бұрын
What a woman ❤. Bless her. Hope the person on the end of the phone with the patient had a hopeful outcome ❤
@marken8888 Жыл бұрын
people are really not aware of what these people go through, they hear the first reactions of the victims or the other ones.... hats of.
Пікірлер: 770
I've seen a lot of comments about the music being too loud so I just wanted to come on here and apologize. The clip has background music already in it so I was trying to find a good balance between the added music so it would mask over the background music without ruining the audio. I appreciate all your comments with your feedback
@friendlyreptile9931
Жыл бұрын
That sounds reasonable but you know what? The F ing music is to loud mate :D
@OrniasDMF
Жыл бұрын
Better to have no music so people can feel natural feelings rather than what the music invokes
@friendlyreptile9931
Жыл бұрын
@@OrniasDMF Jo brain, rread what he wrote and process it before writeing :D
@christaylor86
Жыл бұрын
Why not make something original instead of just uploading a random clip and trying to avoid copyright?
@SpeedUp898
Жыл бұрын
Ignore the replies of ignorant people. You did your best!
My dad hung himself 3 years ago and I found him. I will never forget the ambulance woman I spoke to on the phone, she was absolutely amazing. I wish I could say thank you Edit: thank you all for your messages. Obviously it was very traumatic, and still is very traumatic and I’m still learning to live with it going through therapy etc. I have my down days but I’m doing much better. I’ve just qualified as a nurse and vow to help those in the situation similar to mine or my fathers. His legacy will live on. Thank you again
@jamiesomervilleedits
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear that, it must of been so traumatic. I hope your doing okay
@strykerwolf4348
Жыл бұрын
Stay strong soldier. I will keep you in my prayers
@champagnegirl3093
Жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss Sending you some grandma love 💝💝💝
@hmull4882
Жыл бұрын
Sorry you had to go through this. If you call non emergency line they may be able to assist you in meeting that special person. X good luck
@bambiesdoomsday
Жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear that. Hope he is still alive x
I've been there. Big hugs to that dispatcher. It is the most helpless feeling wanting to jump through the phone and do more. We are the first first responders. We are the thin gold line. We are dispatchers.
@coover65
Жыл бұрын
I have the greatest respect for dispatchers. It's easy for us road crew as you just give us one job at a time, with the odd redirect. You and your colleagues though have multiple jobs on the screen waiting for an available crew. Best wishes from an Australian paramedic.
@mommajay911
Жыл бұрын
@@coover65 Thank you 😊
@marksmadhousemetaphysicalm2938
Жыл бұрын
As a paramedic it was easier for us, I always empathized with the dispatchers on the phone speaking with families (not the ones who gave us another assignment at the end of shift ;-D (kidding of course)) but these folks had to deal with not know and hope families did it right...
@asbisi
Жыл бұрын
Important job. You probably helped save loads of people.
@jessH090
Жыл бұрын
I’ve spoken to great ones, and I’ve spoken to useless ones. Some, I am very grateful to, others, like the one who didn’t put in the right data so my grandad had to wait over an hour for an ambulance when he was having a heart attack, not so much. I kept telling her over and over and he had a second one that could have been prevented if things were done better.
I was an EMD for the LAS. One of my worst calls when I was on the 9's was a hanging. A mum, on Christmas Eve, found by her son. I was absolutely broken after that call. I had to go home. Won't ever forget the dad sobbing to me down the phone. Haunts me to this day.
@mollyrice1578
Жыл бұрын
Oh bless you! I still work at my service so I’m not gunna say where I am but I get your emotions I really do! It’s the toughest call I’m had and not long after Christmas too for me so it’s so much harder! Especially since we work the Christmas period meaning we are often quite isolated then too if we live alone since travel home isn’t possible, at least for me it wasn’t 😔 But bless you! You’ve got a unique perspective and it’s a tool in your belt to use for the future 😌
@Wodenson
Жыл бұрын
Thankyou for your compassion Andy, we are blessed to have people like you on this Earth 🙏🏻💗
@zcharged8294
Жыл бұрын
why u leave
@andiscott8470
Жыл бұрын
@@zcharged8294 I was working when we had the bombings on the underground in 2005, and that had an effect on me, and after struggling for a while after that I decided to move to something else.
@andiscott8470
Жыл бұрын
@@mollyrice1578 Oh indeed. Dealing with stuff like that, and everything else you see and hear set me up well for the rest of my working life.
Been having some very dark thoughts recently, things like this make me realise how much it would affect my gf and mum.
@AnimalsNotIncluded
Жыл бұрын
Please never feel like that is your only option. It sounds like you have people who love and care for you - reach out to someone. The world is better with you in it always!
@tom4412
Жыл бұрын
Memo please don’t end you. I’ve been very close 3 times over the years. I’m 40 now. I’ve recently made some drastic changes in my life. Now I don’t feel trapped in a situation I don’t like. I believe you are a good person.
@Squirrelbear5950
Жыл бұрын
Please stay, we don’t want you to go.
@attentionlabel
Жыл бұрын
Hey hang in there, Memo. Things can be rough. Hang in there, you got this.
@icypenguinparty
Жыл бұрын
i also have those thoughts but i’m still here and fighting them every day. you’ve got this
My fiancé hung himself in 2015; he was 24, I was 21 at the time. I found him when I came home from work one day. I was a 911 dispatcher at the time, but you can never prepare yourself for these things happening to you. I wasn't able to turn him over on his back from how he was positioned, so I couldn't perform CPR, but I remember the dispatcher being incredible and keeping me calm until the ambulance arrived. Thank you so much, dispatchers, for being on the front line of every emergency. We need you!! ❤️❤️
@emmaVTEC
Жыл бұрын
All my love ❤
@dor4376
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for what you've been through😢 ❤
@onderguler8879
Жыл бұрын
Is he still with us?
@izzyadam1145
Жыл бұрын
@@onderguler8879 unfortunately, he didn't make it. The paramedics were on scene within minutes and did CPR on him for 26 minutes...the longest they've ever done, apparently. They really tried to bring him back. The hardest part was having to tell his mother. That's the only thing that has really stayed with me 7 years later - the rest I can cope with. RIP Josh. ❤️
@onderguler8879
Жыл бұрын
@@izzyadam1145 I am sorry for your loss and all that you have been through. ❤️❤️
Tearing up just watching this and if the roles were reversed I certainly wouldn't have the strength to take calls like this. Thank you to all these dispatchers, the unsung heroes who help to save lives.
@RikologyGaming
Жыл бұрын
you think you wouldn't but I bet you would... we somehow find it in these situations
@sheevamirshahi8820
Жыл бұрын
@@RikologyGaming i totally agree
The dispatcher who was on the phone with me whiel I was trying to revive my father when I was 21. I don’t know who she is, or how she’s doing, but she was there with me on the worst night of my life, and I never knew her name. These people do incredible work and never get enough credit. So much love to our EMTs, dispatchers and ambulance crews. They’re there for us no matter what.
@the.seagull.35
Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear 😔 how are you doing?
This clip is very personal to me. My mother committed suicide when I was a child. My father had to perform cpr. This was years before cell phones. He was running back and forth between the house phone and the front yard. When he was outside I put my ear on the phone and listened to the 911 operators talking. The girl was so overwhelmed that she had her supervisor take over. These brave folks may not be paramedics but they are the very first responders and they are some of the bravest people in the world for doing what they do. Bless them all. Peace and love.
@petekdemircioglu
Жыл бұрын
Not to be a cruel person but did he emotionally abuse your mother to the point that she committed suicide? Becasue mine is doing it.
@Crystalquartz964
Жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear this, love coming to you
@NotoriousBroadcasts
Жыл бұрын
@@petekdemircioglu She had her own issues and was extremely young, but partly, yes.
as a frontline crew I’ve always said I could never work in the call centre, being on scene is easy, you feel like you can get stuck in and hands on, being at the end of the phone you can feel helpless. Dispatchers and call handlers don’t realise just how much difference they make and just how much they truly do help. They manage horrendous scenes without physically being there, they really are heroes
@praetorxian
Жыл бұрын
I feel the same way. Going on my 12th year as a Paramedic in Canada. I feel for our communications officers. They can only hear. We smell, taste, touch, etc. I squabble with them over the radio from time to time, but I respect their work. Angels in our eardrums.
@fervent2896
11 ай бұрын
Heros in headsets we call them.
I did this job for 7 years, for the Welsh Ambulance Service. This nature of call was one of the very worst and I’ve never forgotten any of the calls I’ve taken in regards to this subject. One in particular was for a member of my own family 💔❣️ I left 8 years ago and they haunt me every single day and night. It affected my own MH so much that I know I can never return, especially since one of my closest colleagues took her own life this way leaving her husband and three children under the age of 5. The job does have its wonderful moments too ….especially when assisting a family bring their newborn into the World before the ambulance crews or midwife arrived on scene. These calls in particular are devastating for all involved and my heart goes out to this Emergency Medical Dispatcher that she gets the correct support to help heal her own emotional trauma. These people are heroes too, just as much as the actual Crews on the road or in the air responding. 🙏🏼🏴❣️
@winykittygirl
Жыл бұрын
Beautiful ❤❤
@jl5749
Жыл бұрын
thank you so much for doing this job; you're a true hero. I hope you're recovering alright❤🩹
@One_and_Justice_4_All
Жыл бұрын
Wow I didn’t expect a reply. Thank you for such kindness and compassion. I still struggle everyday, some days are good, some not so good. The sad reality is that I don’t think anyone can fully recover from being involved in some way dealing with this nature of call. Along with so many others. I truly appreciate your kind words and support. Thank you from the bottom of my heart ♥️ 🏴♥️
@TheHulksMistress
Жыл бұрын
Yep, what the other person said, you’re amazing. I worked the Covid helpline nearly two years ago and obviously that’s nothing whatsoever compared to what you did, but even that could be upsetting when talking to an older person who was barely hanging on. So I can’t imagine the emotional toll of what you had to deal with. I mean it sincerely when I say people like you and your colleague (rest in peace to her) are guardian angels, literally. Saving lives all day every day.
@jl5749
Жыл бұрын
@@One_and_Justice_4_All I hope you know that there are many people out here indebted to your work who are rooting for you. it takes so much bravery to do that sort of job, even just for a single day
Absolute hero. She should be incredibly proud. Even in such an awful moment she knew she had to keep going.
I rem this episode like it was yesterday. This girl was amazing. She said at the end she had been accepted onto her paramedic training. 🎉 I wish her all the luck in the world she'll do great. X
@weatherstationlytovchenko4794
Жыл бұрын
did the person live who was trying to be resuscitated on the clip?
@kayleet8370
Жыл бұрын
@@weatherstationlytovchenko4794 sadly not I don't think
@weatherstationlytovchenko4794
Жыл бұрын
@@kayleet8370 oh dear, thank you for replying
@KAITHEINVADER56
Жыл бұрын
@@weatherstationlytovchenko4794 I think it was young boy
I'm 48. Back in 1998, my 21yr gf at the time hung herself. No amount of counseling can ever fully take that pain away. I will always carry the pain of losing her with me to some degree, but I know I have to keep going. If you know, you know. If you don't know, you can't possibly begin to imagine.
@didsthecat1503
Жыл бұрын
I understand, and it’s so hard at times to want to continue, especially when the rest of the world just keeps moving while yours feels like it’s crumbling to pieces. Nobody understands heartbreak and grief until they go through it.
@daliborashadowheart2111
Жыл бұрын
I have that guilt with my brother
@PrincessTazmin
Жыл бұрын
I know...and I hear you. Sending so much love
@the.seagull.35
Жыл бұрын
Anyone who sees this: it is *not your fault* ❤❤❤ everyone makes their own life decisions. You didn't make the final decision. It is not your fault. ❤
@Katie.Morris
Жыл бұрын
@@the.seagull.35 I lost my boyfriend this way in January. I’m glad I just found your comment. Thank you ❤️
I survived a hanging attempt in late 2018 😅 No one in my family knows to this day. Watching this didn’t feel good. I’m glad I didn’t end up putting anyone through this. Really really glad
@jkm8741
Жыл бұрын
Hope life has improved for you.
@jkm8741
Жыл бұрын
Ignore her
Amazing young woman with great empathy. Employ more people like this.
Canadian Paramedic here. I can't imagine how hard it is to be a dispatcher. Working the call over the phone, not being physically there to help. Respect.
I can’t even imagine the pressure that these dispatchers face. They’re the only lifeline for these frantic callers. 💔💔💔
You are much more important than any politician on the Planet because you care and feel. Bless you.
Made me tear up unfortunately found my Nan dead, and a couple of years later my dad. 😢the 999 staff were excellent as were the paramedics. RIP both. x
@jamiesomervilleedits
Жыл бұрын
I'm really sorry to hear that. sending all my love
@the.seagull.35
Жыл бұрын
💔💔💔 God bless you and your family
Makes a bad day at work for me seem so insignificant
As a Fire/EMS Dispatcher I've been in that same seat having to hear someone's cries for help. You can never forget them! Dispatchers/Call Takers are often heard but never seen or recognized.
@the.seagull.35
Жыл бұрын
You're the best Kizzie ❤ God sees what you're doing. “Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me." Matthew 25:40
And to think there are people out there who scream and shout abuse at these wonderful human beings, who are passionate about the job they do and their only goal is to help the people on the other end in the phone. I openly cry every time I see this clip, I don’t mind admitting. To see this kind, compassionate young lady break down trying to help the person on the phone is heartbreaking. You are all absolute angels and I thank the lord there are people on this planet like you. x x x
I lost my dad in this way when I was 18 and it’s breaks my heart everytime I hear anything like this 😞 so much love to our dispatchers, we need to protect them at all costs! They are the ones there for us in such difficult situations and have to deal with this on a day to day basis xx
Man this was moving, the girls emotional touched my soul and bless her for being what we all need to be - feeling - compassionate - a beautiful spirit in a wonderful woman.
There is so little humanity left in the world, too preoccupied by their worries and fears, anger, dispare, frustration, ego, greed and loathing that this lady and her colleagues remind us that there are still humans in the mix, that without them we would fall, with them so many can become so much better. My life has been saved so many times by these humans who regardless of their difficulties are willing to step forward and bring us to the light, my deep respects to them and anyone whose chooses to make a difference, ❤😊
@blue_0.0
Жыл бұрын
There's nothing wrong with having worries and fears. That's something you need in this cruel world.
Not all heroes wear capes.
Annoys me how we admire actors so much yet people in these professions go unnoticed
I'm a nurse. When I did my first stint in a cardiac critical care unit a patient I was discharging suddenly had a heart attack while we were giggling at a joke together, standing right in front of me. obviously I went into emergency mode and called the crash team and got him onto a bed so we could perform on him, but inside my head was screaming and I wanted to yell and cry but couldn't. My team was great and we all said a prayer for him and hugged each other after we couldn't get any life back and we were allowed to talk about our feelings together before we went home from shift, but I just felt really weird. As soon as I left my shift that day I bawled my eyes out for him and his family while walking to my car and felt like I should have done more CPR or should have told him not to be standing up sooner. You never forget it. This was 10 years ago and I still remember his face and the colour of the walls and the people who came to help. I can't imagine having to take these emergency calls all day every day and not knowing the outcome. It's so hard. This girl is wonderful, I feel blessed our country has compassionate people like her in it 💜 I just hope her soul is ok too
@gabbylauren
Жыл бұрын
You did everything you possibly could to try and save him, please don't ever doubt that. I hope & pray that you know that ❤
I've been there - spent so much time crying on the phones - I'll never forget the years I worked for the ambulance service - she handled the call so well!
I work for London Underground and the first one under I had as a station assistant was completely traumatising. Even the big burly men I worked with were in tears that day. I don't think I could work for the emergency services, it's absolutely amazing what they do. She handled that really well.
Respect and love to all the emergency response staff worldwide. Doesn't matter if you are a dispatcher, boots on ground or a phone operator, you see some of the worst things in this world and still serve your communities through thick and thin.
Emergency operators don’t get anywhere near enough credit for what they have to do. Not all heroes wear capes. This Woman, these people, need to be some of the highest paid in their countries.
I didn’t expect to burst into tears! I had to stop the video and collect myself
I had to give CPR to a man i found in the street the other day. The woman on the phone was incredible, encouraging and kept everyone calm on loudspeaker. They are angels 💖
It's such an incredibly difficult job to work emergency services dispatch. I could never do it and I am forever grateful for the people who can. They are heroes
Every time I thought about ending I just had to come back to this video and I cant explain why
Suicide doesn’t take the pain away. It just passes it onto someone else
@JesusChristOfficial2
Жыл бұрын
@@zypxier Lol Fam is more selfish if they think i'm gonna live till 70 just so they can be happy. Are you slow?
@JesusChristOfficial2
Жыл бұрын
@Blob B Huh? When did I say that I want respect from people? Are you slow?
This video really made me realise how much it would affect others around me if I followed through. Not saying I would now but only a few years ago, I was on the verge. Life is worth living, even if it’s just to stick around a little longer so your loved ones don’t suffer too :(
@abcdefg-wn5qb
Жыл бұрын
Hey if you want to u can message me on here whenever. I’ll be here to listen. You are worth so much.
@Zombie101
Жыл бұрын
pretty much only reason that i am still here too.
@the.seagull.35
Жыл бұрын
@@Zombie101 do you have anybody to talk to about it?
As someone who lives with severe mental illness I could easily be the person that is found, but seeing this video and knowing that a simple act of kindness can save my life I am eternally grateful for those that put their hearts on the line to be there for me, I will never stop believing in hope 💙💗
@jkm8741
Жыл бұрын
I think the fact you have written this comment, shows us you don't really want to go down that road. To see the ripple effect on the people who have never even met this person, is harrowing. Keep going and ASK for help, when you need it. I have suffered from bad depression and I think if most people are honest, they have issues too. They just hide it. You got this.
@denisedaly2307
Жыл бұрын
I'm also the same but have no family to turn to.
@Gooniessss
Жыл бұрын
@@denisedaly2307 They're are some charities to reach out to. Nobody is ever truly alone. We're all connected somehow. The fact that I replied to you shows there's someone out there thinking of you and wishing you happiness.
@jkm8741
Жыл бұрын
@@denisedaly2307 I'm sorry to hear this Denis. Even having a family can be no safety net. There are charities you can turn to, although i know it might be hard as they are so busy. However even a workmate etc might provide some support. I once told my boss, I was seriously concerned about him. He isnt a pleasant man but I could see something was going on. He sort of ridiculed me, then left. He later phoned me and said he was in a bad place and thank you. I spoke to his wife a few days later. She said after I had spoken to him, he had called and bawled his eyes out. They knew he was in a bad way but did nothing about it. After talking to me, he actually realised something had to change. My point is, it wasnt easy confronting him as he was my boss but I have been there and recognised the signs. Sometimes the people around you, do actually know the feelings you have experienced. Even reach out to forums online. I have a chronic illness and am a member of Health unlocked. It has so many different subject matters and there are some great people there. Strangers to me but people who have given me great emotional and practical support. You are stronger than you think. Stay safe my friend.
@daquaviousbingleton9763
Жыл бұрын
Bro chill out it’s not that deep if you feel depressed find something you wanna do and put your life and soul into it
such an amazing young woman - flooding empathy.
I can’t fathom how people do this for a job every day. Incredible strength. I have endless respect ❤
Unsung heroes 🙌
@lennydicko
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely 🙏
Such a big heart. Happy to have dispatchers like you ❤
To anyone who is considering this, you are enough, and you are so loved ♥
@Charlotte-fn6xv
Жыл бұрын
@d a r l i n g J o Sorry what?
@Charlotte-fn6xv
Жыл бұрын
Can you explain how it is pathetic? It’s better than what you’re doing.@d a r l i n g J o
@Charlotte-fn6xv
Жыл бұрын
@d a r l i n g J o I guess we have different value systems then. You are right, maybe this won’t help anyone. But maybe it will help just one person. That’s what matters to me, not the fact that it supposedly makes me feel better. A little kindness can go a long way and I stand by that :). I hope you can understand that one day too.
When my Dad passed the lady on the phone to me was amazing too. As were the paramedics. Its a horrible situation and at the time my brain was too all over the place to fully appreciate the amazing job they do. They are the real heroes, not footballers, not musicians, our first responders ❤
These people are incredible. Not the same situation but when I had my second child their was a few complications and I needed an ambulance, the man on the phone was incredible and kept me calm the whole time. They are true heroes.
What a girl. I couldn’t do that job. Respect to all of them
What an amazing young woman. Very few people would be able to do that. Cudos to her.
I met someone who does these late night help lines and am so grateful for people like her but at the same time I could tell how much it pained her. Really good on her for doing such a valuable job. Sending my love to all who work in such a rough environment ❤
@the.seagull.35
Жыл бұрын
I agree... its amazing that she's doing that. I'm just curious, what was it that pained her? has she lost people? Or is it more just the emotional demand of the job
Gosh this was just heartbreaking on so many levels 💔 Some of the comments of people having been through a similar experience are so terribly sad.
She did so well, her composure....it helped, by some modicum, to aleviate panic to the caller from the otherside 🙏🏻
God bless that woman, heart of gold 🙏🏻
Gosh this is so so so hard!!! I’m a call handler in the UK too (but a different location) and I just had my first hanging recently and the friend did CPR for so long god bless her and it was just the toughest call 🥺 I’m so grateful to have been able to help that friend in some way to know she did absolutely everything she could for both the patient and her partner in that moment and it honestly makes me so emotional how proud I am of her! It still doesn’t quite register in my brain sometimes though that the patient died, you know? And other times it’s so real it hurts! Anyway I know how hard it is to not get overwhelmed by emotions in those calls, especially once you’ve got them going on CPR and all you can do is encourage this person who you can’t see or take over compressions for or really do much except wait and listen and that’s when not crying becomes hardest for me because it’s quieter and you’ve don’t all your jobs except keeping CPR going so your brain has time to think for the first time! 😔🥺 Anyway my prayers to anyone who has to deal with this whether a family member or friend who finds them or knows them, the call handler who’s the first to hear their heartbreak, fear and pain, or the paramedics who work so hard to do what they can and who have to see and do what none of us can imagine! It’s the one blessing of a difficult job like this, that I never have a face to haunt me, only the sounds (which are hard but so much better I imagine that images) 😔❤️❤️❤️
@emmaxtina3678
Жыл бұрын
I'm a nurse, but just wanted to say thank you for everything you do as a call handler, you do a job that I wouldn't have the guts to do after many years of being in my profession. Make sure you always look after yourself after those tough calls and debrief where necessary x
@WavyWatson
Жыл бұрын
Thank goodness for people like you. Thank you for everything you do :)
@mollyrice1578
Жыл бұрын
Aw bless you both! I love my job I’ll be honest! I’ve had to cut my hours a bit to allow me to finish my undergraduate degree (in a related field) but I’m excited to get back to more hours again once I pass my endless assignment to do list and exams 😴📚 And yeah the ambulance service is great and it’s honestly like a family! 🥰
@hm27200
Жыл бұрын
Your a hero kid. Empathetic loving and a great person be proud of who you are.
@emmaxtina3678
Жыл бұрын
@@mollyrice1578 best of luck finishing your qualification!
This one caught me!! Heartbreaking! Keep doing what you are doing, one of the most overlooked jobs there is! From a firefighter - stay strong girl.
My sister is a paramedic and the NHS don’t offer enough psychological support, I had to help her process a situation that had an immense impact in her, these organisations really need to think about the human side of these situations and not the numbers.
@tobyb1018
Жыл бұрын
The government need to put more money into the nhs instead of constantly cutting it..they’re deliberately, systematically, destroying it-people like this girl don’t get paid enough for literally saving lives while the Tories actions over the last few years have literally killed people…she should get paid more, she should have access to counselling 24/7
I could not imagine having to be on the other end of the phone during someone's worse time in their life. How can you not cry? She held her composure though!
This is a great example to why EVERYONE in the medical/ police/ fire/ paramedic field NEEDS counselling
I will never forget my friends dad description of what her face looked like when he found her. 12 years ago and it still haunts me but those words have kept me from doing the same thing more times than I care to count. I am glad I am still here. I just wish she was too. Don't stay quiet. Get help.
You are amazing the people who guide you through the scariest moments ever. Thank you all from bottom of all our Hearts
I’m so happy there are people in this work that can handle this type of work. Lord knows I couldn’t
To have to watch that gives a whole different perspective on how this affects so many many people. Well done young lady.
How can you detach yourself in that situation? I don't believe that I'm emotionally and physically built for this job. Damn.. what a great human beings there..
Tough job so under appreciated. Big respect ❤
About not long ago I started having chest pains and a pain down my left arm. I called 999 and they said they would send an ambulance out but unfortunately it was on the day of a paramedic strike and the was a reduced service. They very kindly paid for a taxi for me because I had no money which came almost instantly. They're wonderful people. Luckily it wasn't a heart attack but I do have to be seen by a specialist.
Just shows how much of an incredible job the call handlers and paramedics who work for our NHS do and what they go through every day doing their job to help us.
The work these guys do is beyond amazing. I work for the nhs in treating mental health problems. So pretty much the barrier between them being ok and taking their own lives… I’ve heard people at their lowest and it’s heartbreaking knowing that someone is going to take their life. But to be at the otherside when it’s happened n the aftermath.. could break me
How beautiful. I don' know how emergency line workers do it day after day...
That young woman was truly amazing, and she will never know exactly how much help she was in that situation. Shows how fragile we are as humans and how we all need to stop the hate and the destruction of others because ultimately we are destroying ourselves.
God bless all you guys for the work you do, you are heroes 👏❤️😊
These dispatchers are angels. I found my MIL deceased in her home and it was the 000(Australia) emergency operator that kept me grounded and from losing my shit. God bless them all!…..
I felt so very sorry for her. What a compassionate heart.
Bless her heart ❤ I’m a CSI and have to attend all suicides. It’s truly heartbreaking and I only wish people were more comfortable in expressing their sadness in this profession. We aren’t robots.
dude this is powerful to watch
This is probably one of the hardest jobs
Damn that gave me the chills…
God bless you. You are doing a great job. You have such compassion. I am a RN of 44 years and hope never to lose compassion. Every life is a gift❤
Life can be so Fking hard so much love for anyone that has gone through anything like this you truly are amazing
So proud of her !
My Dad died this way when I was a kid, anyone feeling in a dark place, learn about how you are neurodivergent, understanding yourself makes things much better. I knew I had mental health problems and problems coping, I never thought I'd most likely be autistic and adhd, not until I had my Autistic kid late in life. Take care.
Well done flower. Were all proud of you.
@sarahquink1356
Жыл бұрын
Flower? Don’t be daft
@fazertace6837
Жыл бұрын
@@sarahquink1356be quiet you virtue signalling non-entity.
Oh bless this woman’s heart man.
She did so well, allowing herself to cry in the off moments but then still sounding professional and encouraging when the caller needed her to speak.
This is the image of the true burden of working for the health service. Every single one of them is essential and they all shoulder the good times and the bad. I'm a QA L3 First Aider and it would be very hard for me knowing that I could do so much more if I was there.
Big reason I couldn't be a dispatcher, being on the ground I can deal with but id just feel so helpless trying to help as much as I can over the phone. Honestly solid work, none of us could do our jobs without you.
Brave dispatcher 🙏❤️ You did amazing
Aw bless her. Kudos to that lady. I couldnt do that job. My ❤ goes out to you. ❤
What a beautiful soul she is, I know if I was in that situation I would of been completely greatful of her compassion. She was still able to do her job professionally whilst been a Human at the same time
god bless you amazing people ❤
I fill for all of you who have to go through this.sending you much love nhs
My dad hanged himself when I was just 7, I’m 26 now but always think about him & why he done it, He had a good job aswell and didn’t even leave a note😢
@Finndrumm
Жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss
@sairamughal8336
Жыл бұрын
At my friend's service the pastor said she has all her answers now and we are the ones left with all the questions. Sending you hope and strength.
Aww well done. She handled it really well. Must be hard in that kind of situation.
I just want to give her a hug.
She is amazing
I am so sorry your strong and amazing all of you
Life is a crazy thing when you think about it.
You did well, young lady, proud of you 🌸
What a woman ❤. Bless her. Hope the person on the end of the phone with the patient had a hopeful outcome ❤
people are really not aware of what these people go through, they hear the first reactions of the victims or the other ones.... hats of.
bless her