I really enjoyed this case. The plaintiff spoke so much truth at the end about breaking cycles and being there for his son. There needs to be more fathers like him!

@jasoncunningham8061

Жыл бұрын

Yes, he has a preaching anointing on him as well.

@phillybonewilliams2560

Жыл бұрын

I truly respect him! So real , honest and mature young man! I really hope all issues are resolved with themselves for the sake of their son.

@michelleclemons7933

Жыл бұрын

You couldn't have said it any better than that. Very well spoken and Concerned father that doesn't want to see his son become a statistic.

@jessiesanders2670

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, this man don't want his son to walk down the wrong street, I can understand that.

@BlaqueMamba52

Жыл бұрын

I agree ❤

I love how she tried to act high and mighty, yet was fast to throw him under the bus and keep his money lol

@nowyukno7981

Жыл бұрын

Exactly she’s trifling, she smiled about moving that baby around

@dreadxplayzs7849

Жыл бұрын

Trifling

@dennissmith7214

Жыл бұрын

@Steve Or men😳, you don’t have to move around that much for a career……….like you said probably either dodging debt or chasing dudes! 🤷🏽‍♂️

@brackenrobertson799

Жыл бұрын

He literally threw her about infront of their child. He deserved thrown under the bus and more, especially considering she brought their child up for 14 years also.

@brackenrobertson799

Жыл бұрын

@Steve “chasing a career instead of being a mother” you mean like men? So apparently it’s wrong for mothers to want a career to better them and their children lives but perfectly okay for fathers? Your sexism is screaming

She cannot be too afraid of him after 11 years and the nerve to take her child's support money when she know longer has custody of the child. Imwhen the courts grant custody of a child to the noncustodial parent, especially a father, you know there is a huge problem when the child was situated with his/her mother.

@jefferyhartwell9102

Жыл бұрын

Bingo

@maxxpopp2373

Жыл бұрын

and u can bet she always got some lame broke dude she laying up with that ain’t worth a quarter and has no interest in helping raising her son

almost shed a tear listening to the plaintiffs words at the end of the clip. he may not be perfect but he’s doing well for his son.

@yadaddysugarbaby

Жыл бұрын

amen

@Bobbysokkatua

Жыл бұрын

I actually shed tears

She tried to paint this man as a woman beater but she was telling half the story that she was violent with him.

@heathab...._-_

Жыл бұрын

Yup I could tell it was more to the story

@gabrielleelliott500

Жыл бұрын

@@heathab...._-_ same she was quick to make em look bad

@badseedent4827

Жыл бұрын

And u notice judge male feminist believed her off top fast asf

@rodericksears638

Жыл бұрын

@@badseedent4827 he did and she didn't take accountability for shit

@darrenbennett9132

Жыл бұрын

@@badseedent4827 well said because I was gonna say the thing I know he's sick 🤢 now You could see all over his face hush mouth 🤬 💁🏾‍♂️

Pops is all right with me, he speaking straight facts in the end💯

She smiled and smirk through out the whole case, I didn't believe anything she said... Great Guy need more like him

@tammccleary3489

Жыл бұрын

yes indeed

@tom11zz884

Жыл бұрын

She's a DUSTY WOMAN

@TaxProGirl

Жыл бұрын

He admitted he didn't treat her the way he should've & that he "got his life together" It's sad that we automatically believe his story of why he threw her to the ground. He can criticize Mom all he wants to but he didn't try to get custody until HE was ready, which is 14 years after the child was born. I guess better late than never. I hope their son is doing well. He's the most important person in this mess.

@thetruth-zb7cj

Жыл бұрын

Of course you don't. You're blk and this is a child support case.

@shayg.1012

Жыл бұрын

@@TaxProGirl you have NO idea WHEN he started FIGHTING for his son. ALSO, he COULD have been giving his son's mother a REAL chance to get HERSELF together! He COULD'VE been understanding of the BOND and RELATIONSHIP that a mother and child have with each other! He could have been WAITING until HE got HIMSELF financially, emotionally, AND mentally ready and stabled BEFORE taking on such a HUUUUUGE responsibility! He COULD'VE been WAITING until HE knew that HE'D be a BETTER role model AND father for HIS son! ALSO, It issssss POSSIBLE that they (the parents) had JOINT custody of their son at FIRST and his SON could've asked his dad HIMSELF if he could stay with him PERMANENTLY! I'm pretty sure that his son DIDN'T enjoy switching schools THAT many times. I'm willing to BET that his son DIDN'T want to KEEP making new friends and then having to up and go to ANOTHER school every few months! It's definitely plausible that his son could've ASKED himself, after all, their son issss FOURTEEN 🤷🏾‍♀️ It's just soooooooo many different reasons WHY it could've happened when it happened that it makes NO sense for you to be THIS judgemental of the GREAT LOVING father that he's being NOW!!! smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

She didnt want him to go because she wanted to keep collecting........smh

JM said "I know u thought u had some extra money"🤣🤣 he took me out wit dat one

Since the plaintiff’s Child Support was all paid up, technically, the defendant was taking food out of her own child’s mouth, clothes off his back, etc., by continuing to collect and spend that money. The plaintiff sounds like an awesome father, and a good man who can acknowledge the mistakes of his past, and have enough wisdom and foresight to help his son avoid making the same mistakes in his future. I wish every father could see things the way he does.

This was a wonderful case and this father is absolutely amazing. Exceptional. ❤

@billyjohnson9166

Жыл бұрын

No he isn’t. He’s a lier

@sheilae.9670

Жыл бұрын

@@billyjohnson9166 it's spelled "liar" not lier with your smart mouth 🙄

@sereneamani1713

Жыл бұрын

@@billyjohnson9166 About what?

@shayg.1012

Жыл бұрын

@@billyjohnson9166 what EXACTLY did he lie about, BILLY🙄

@billyjohnson9166

Жыл бұрын

@@shayg.1012 His mother

That father gonna make the audience 😢

We need more father's like him 💯

@nightfireband2017

Жыл бұрын

I wish I had a dad like this

@meekashabazz6135

Жыл бұрын

@@nightfireband2017 I wish my kids father was a better father to my kids especially my son.

@rodericksears638

Жыл бұрын

@@meekashabazz6135 there is a lot of fathers out there like him. They're not allowed to see the kids the majority of the time because they're doing what some mother's want them to do making it hard for them to see his kids.

Thank God this MAN got his child....from that terrible lying girl

The defendant is trifling 😂😂😂 she knew that she didn’t deserve that money especially when he’s raising the child

This touched my heart. A great father. Im in tears watching him stand up for his kid.

This was one of the best cases I've watch on his show. Need more father's like that

Dad spoke with such passion. All of that was from his heart.

She just need to go on with her life and stop living in the past. This man is doing what he’s supposed to

People can sit right in your face and lie so much it’s ridiculous. That’s exactly why I trust no one. She ought to be ashamed of her self. Smh

She immediately jumped into being so “fearful” of him and the one and only incident she mentioned was something that happened 11 years ago. Not saying she doesn’t have a reason to be afraid if it happened how she said but I felt she emphasized that one moment to attack his growth and development.

@yadaddysugarbaby

Жыл бұрын

​@Smushy You're obviously the trick in the video. She's an emotional and manipulative. She's a narcissist who's greedy, and taking money out of her son's pocket. She a broke Ahole and she shakes like she's an addict.

@piinkam0r

Жыл бұрын

Because violence is violence

Best case ever he spoke nothing but the truth and absolutely took responsibility and accountability for his wrong doings. Laid it out completely. Men and women please take notes, better yourself.

@LadyDi-mg2bo

Жыл бұрын

@Latreece Hall - Well said.

@godslittleprincess5454

Жыл бұрын

@Smushy Go away

Such a commendable dad!!! Thank you for been excellent!!

Whew that man gave a word at the end. I say all the time as a father myself, yes children need to understand kindness as well as how to conduct themselves appropriately and furthermore, as a black father, if we don’t teach them at home first, the streets will teach them and the streets are a lot less forgiving. I believe had they stayed together, being a 2-parent household, that Bible/Street influence from both would have been very effective.

@angelphilbert

Жыл бұрын

She stole her child's support money from his father and accused the father of terrorizing her 11years ago. She is not a good example of bible knowledge to be passed on.

@Megaman8707

Жыл бұрын

@@angelphilbert I definitely said “had they stayed together.” Meaning she is obviously bitter at this point. Had they stayed together, there would have been no child support money to steal.

So this judge is just going to pretend like this woman didn’t just lie, about an assault that she committed.. This woman is pure evil, SMH…

@nmc1859

Жыл бұрын

Would go against the narrative. Judge mathis is not a sell out, yet smart

@Proverbspsalms

Жыл бұрын

@@nmc1859 oh he’s a sell out . He just held up that triangle

@andrejamal5438

Жыл бұрын

Lol

@nmc1859

Жыл бұрын

@@Proverbspsalms honestly i dont even understand what that means

@Proverbspsalms

Жыл бұрын

@@nmc1859 ok well then idk what to tell you

Kudos to dad👏🏽👏🏽 I love to hear a dad so passionate about his son/ kid♥️♥️ this was a great case!

This is probably one the best cases I've seen involving a great, knowledgeable father

Awesome, wonderful father. We need our black men to continue stepping up, taking lead and showing our young men the way. Despite the false narrative, that black men are deadbeats, many of our black men are truly stepping up today to do what's right. As mothers, we should be supporting them, put your emotions aside and support each other. Very pleased with this father, you can clearly see he has an outlook for his sons future to be bright, prosperous and great and does not mind doing the work necessary to mode his son into a man. People can like it or not, yes women can raise a boy to become a strong adult, but a woman cannot raise a boy to become a Man.

@nowyukno7981

Жыл бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@royalheritage9254

Жыл бұрын

Agreed.. Mother’s need to stop allowing their feelings to dictate the relationship for the child.

@royalheritage9254

Жыл бұрын

These young men especially need their Fathers. Mother’s need to support it…

@maryelaine-blinstrubchambe6083

Жыл бұрын

We need ALL MEN to set examples like this man.

@neisci

Жыл бұрын

Agree, however, time and time again most of them prove not to care about their children "she doesn't let me see my child ", Sr. file for visitation rights. This man got full custody that's how a man proves to care about his child.

I loved how the dad expressed his love for helping guide his son on the right path

He said a mouthful! Good father I must say.

Even at the end she is still talking like she is a victim smh!

@sereneamani1713

Жыл бұрын

@Steve It''s was already mentioned. You cannot honestly and truthfully use phrases like "all women", or "every other woman", or imply that all women follow the same "protocol". Thanks Adrian, oops, I meant Steve.

@tamikahunter140

Жыл бұрын

Just sick and entitled

This was a great case. And he seems like a great father 🙏🏽

"I would not lie to you" I would just steal from my child.

Father is on point 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Appreciate that JM didn't interrupt the plaintiff at the end. Bravo 👏👏

Something tells me she have used that same story in Family Court as well tearfully. 🤔

This made me cry I pay 400$ a month child support and can’t see my daughter smh

@kimberlyhampton5332

Жыл бұрын

💔

@jplaya2023

Жыл бұрын

Have you filed for joint custody/visitation

@laranini9660

Жыл бұрын

Liar

@VineDresser2013

Жыл бұрын

stop lying bro you Arn't paying anything

@geo745don

5 ай бұрын

I Suffer like that For years. Daughter got Brainwashed by mom, $400 a month payment. This was ny Case didn't stop paying Support until age 21, ny law. Still haven't seen my daughter.i have other children and They have never seen her.

She thought bringing that incident that happened years ago up that she was gone get some grace .

I'm glad he won. 1 for the team💪🏾

I totally agree with dude some Women raise their sons to be a little "soft". As a man, they have to know what's it like and not live in a "bubble" all naive to the HARSH realities of the world living as a man. Teach them the real. Not baby them all the way

@chevonaughwalker3826

Жыл бұрын

one thing sheś definitely teaching her son is how to deflect and not take accountability. My man has consistently stated he is not perfect and is willing to do counseling but the mother is like he has issues he needs to work on like she perfect knowing dam well shes a con and a theive

@islandgirlruby2750

Жыл бұрын

Exactly, women really can’t teach a boy how to be a man, that’s just facts.

@sereneamani1713

Жыл бұрын

I agree for the most part, but what about the man (or woman) who has not lived the street life? Are they not qualified to educate their children about the HARSH realities of life? I DEFINITELY agree that it takes a man and a woman to create a child, therefore it definitely takes both to raise them. If more men would realize how crucial they are to the success of a family.

“Tell her to give me a call” flexed on his ex like that 😂

Powerful speech from the father.

She really tried it in the beginning with that story.. terrified of this man after all these years? She ended up looking real shady and sorry in the end. Good episode!

We need more men like him. He almost made me 🥲 Beautiful

I don’t think he needs counselling for a fabricated one off incident which occurred 11 years ago besides he comes across as a fantastic gentleman / father . She strikes me as a pathological liar and a deceitful woman who took money that belonged to her son.

@patsajak7809

Жыл бұрын

I did want JM to dig a little deeper into her life as to how many times had he been physical (since you're still frighten) dud you ever call police at anytime, did he go to jail, why did you move so much, why did you not want your son to be with his father? If you are so frighten of him and he's extremely violent why would you keep his money? The plaintiff is a good man after the break up he never questioned whether he was the father he just took responsibility. Heck JM has had ppl who live together questioning paternity 🤦🏾‍♀️😆😆

Goodness this man got me tearing up over here..got mad respect for him

We need more fathers like this. That take responsibility and honor what it means to be a father.

What a great father! The son is blessed with good parents.

I have a habit of googling these people.

@andrecoleman4791

Жыл бұрын

Good idea 😂😂

@scottrogue946

Жыл бұрын

Well what’s the scoop?

@JellyJelly86

Жыл бұрын

@@scottrogue946 he passed away in 2018 and it was a comment next to his "obituary" that says he was abusive to his one and only son..

@JellyJelly86

Жыл бұрын

It seem like on all these episodes posted tonight... Someone has passed away in almost each case.

@TheSupreme6249

Жыл бұрын

@@JellyJelly86 wow, that's pitiful

So we are going to sit here and pretend she wasn’t trying to stiff him out of that money? She knew she was not entitled to the overpayment of money and hoped he would just let her get away with it. Mathis let her off easy.

@tom11zz884

Жыл бұрын

Of course he didn't hold her accountable. Do women ever get held accountable for anything in America?

@sereneamani1713

Жыл бұрын

@@tom11zz884 Yes they do. What's happened to you to think that they don't?

@POFs_Tuxedomask

Жыл бұрын

@@sereneamani1713 living life long enough

I loved this cases and at the end she had her head down bc I think he touched on some things she needed to hear from him I hope they are able to co parent together & get counseling they are still good parents overall they just have to communicate without anger

@owelle700

Жыл бұрын

I agree with you EXCEPT for the suggestion of counseling. This good man NEEDS NO COUNSELING with this trifling, lying, self deluded woman. What he needs is possibly a good woman and move on with his life. Sadly, there are many like her that destroy the lives of good men who are not as lucky, patient and eloquent as this guy. Who does any woman with a conscience stand in court and before millions of viewers and falsely accuse the father of her own son, a wife beater, beat her in front of her 3 year old son, claim she w as deathly afraid of him for his "violence" and yet steal money out of the mouth of her own son ??? What a despicable human being she is. Look at how calm the man was even during the false claims and even initially when the judge appeared to be taking sides with the woman until he had a chance to speak.. Is that the conduct of a violent man ?? Society and the laws must change to hold people making such frivolous claims accountable. He is lucky that she did not get a chance to completely turn the son against his father and destroy the son as a majority have been doing .

Oh, so how much I can relate to this. Angry, envious, evil woman. I didn't even have to go to court to take care of my child. Left signed cheques with her and made her fill in an amount every month until I had gotten her up to $600 per month. During this time, providing groceries, paid for his school, bought his books, took him on trips at least six times yearly. She was a "Bible Thumper" but was only hiding behind that Bible. Took her to court for custody and she lied her ass off and made some serious allegations. Even said I wasn't taking care of my child. I took out those cancelled cheques over the years and she was busted. Judge reprimanded her. She couldn't even take care of the basic stuff like helping with my son's schoolwork and had him in a mentality where he was supposed to be satisfied with mediocrity. Envious because I had my son at one time and had him in a private Catholic school due to the higher level of education and discipline. Even went up to someone whom I was dating and told her that she doesn't know me and wait, she will see who I really am. Anytime she wasn't dating I knew, because she tried to antagonize me. Son just turned twenty-five years last month. Not where I want him to be just yet; have to get some of those negative thoughts out his mind and motivate him. Reminded him that if he were still with me, he'd have gotten his Master's degree at twenty-two to twenty-three years old. She's now married. I guess she's so-called happy. Did my homework and doesn't know that I know that her husband, who's also a "Bible Thumper" has spent time in jail for several DUI and a couple times for domestic violence in a previous relationship. He can beat on her all she wants, if it gets to that, as long as my son isn't involved in anyway. My job is to protect him.

@sereneamani1713

Жыл бұрын

I'm always interested in how and/or why did you choose this type of woman to have your child. Was she a Dr. Jekyll/Mrs. Hyde type personality? Angry, envious, and evil. When did those traits start to show?

@robertmoody1615

Жыл бұрын

@@sereneamani1713 I like when people develop this trend of thought. I oftentimes hear people say, where do you go look for men/women, or what type of women/men are you attracted to, when they comment on someone's relationship. My response to anyone, even when my friends and I are speaking in general, "you never know the true essence of a person until quarrel day comes." That's when folks show their real colors. When the relationship is satisfactory to both parties, everything is okay. The minute one gets upset; you see the Tasmanian devil come out of that person. I found this out quickly by the time my child was three years old, and I decided she wasn't for me. Let her tell it, I still wanted her. I tolerated her for the sake of my child and by the time I thought he was old enough at the age of seven years to give him a cell phone, my only conversation with her was to check on his well-being and his education.

@ladymacan7874

Жыл бұрын

@@sereneamani1713 My thoughts exactly. I wish more of our people would scrutinize potential coparents in the same way that they scrutinize potential spouses. It never ceases to amaze me that a person won’t be good enough to marry but somehow good enough to procreate with.

That was 11 years ago. Tf ... if that's all she got, stop the cap.

@nowyukno7981

Жыл бұрын

Exactly she is trifling

I'm proud of his father that he's taking his initiative with his son and is not easy to be a parent because I you know I raise my sons at the single parent mother so you know at the same time it was really hard people think it's easy it's not easy and you know some mothers they have a lot of kids and think it's easy it's not easy so I'm glad the father is there for his son that's the right thing and the mother and you know I hope they get along and get the counseling and they need help God bless

Something about the mother is critically unstable, my heart sincerely goes out to her, I am a single mother and I #KNOW the trials but we also need help when we need it. I know I did. Shout OUT to POPS 💯👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

She’s a classic con artist. Told a half azz story like he ran outside acting crazy.

She tried to throw him under the bus as a woman beater from 10 yrs ago..she's pitiful and that's why she doesn't have custody of her son living of his child support 🙄

I am very Proud of that man for turning himself around and acknowledging what he did and made a better life for Himself and his son. I love positive outcome, Only god knows we need more Of them and fathers stepping up To the plate!

Ive been to a lot of schools growing up......bouncing around like that, losing friends, starting over, etc.....created social issues for me as an adult. Im quick to walk away from relationships of any kind 😔

@thetotalpackage2005

Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry that was your past. You canfix that now...you have the power to do so

@patsajak7809

Жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, my family was rather is like that. I realized it and stayed planted for 14yrs in one spot (normally 4yrs the move) I'm always in flight mode in relationships so I understand. You should try to connect with one person it doesn't necessarily have to be a dating type of relationship but someone that no matter what you are going to see this thru and make a commitment. I had to because I had no real friends at all.....just a few associates. Hope you can break the cycle 😊

She moved the son around way too many times, reminds me of how many times my parents moved my brothers and I around because of their crack addiction. Wonder why the JM didn't try calling her out on that...

Moving is expensive and she did it every year.... my goodness

They both are in a bitter custody battle like playing Russian roulette with their son.

@twill1007

Жыл бұрын

That man should have fought to get his son if she can’t keep her behind still and provide stability

@nowyukno7981

Жыл бұрын

@@twill1007 what show are y’all watching?? He got custody of his son, he overpaid in child support, he’s trying to lead him and raise him right! Pay attention

@twill1007

Жыл бұрын

@@nowyukno7981 wow you’re upset 😆

@mielissa100ify

Жыл бұрын

@@nowyukno7981 right lol

@thetotalpackage2005

Жыл бұрын

Finally a man in the comments see that.

How is she afraid of him but not to afraid that she kept his money 🤔

Good guy... I see the pain in her because their relationship didn't work. But she has to understand in spite of their differences the kid needs his father. 🙏🏾

Time stamp 9:35 - 12:19 and on is REAL TALK ‼️ We NEED more STRONG Black Men like this Brotha‼️💪🏾✊🏾🫡

This was a wonderful case! This father is a good example as a role model for his son!! God bless him❤

Not only is you keeping money that belongs to the father but shouldn't she be paying him

Plaintiff said some great things.. I only wish we had more cases or fathers like this 👍🏾👌🏾🤙🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Definitely need more dads like him

I feel you brother!! take your son! show him the way.

Both of them have pain and hurt from one another. I hope they heal and love each other and leave the past behind.

She really tried it lol 😆 😂 🤣 😅 pay it up ma'am

I just hate how she was trying to paint that man as a monster. Thank god when he spoke all of that was just nonsense. That’s a good brother and I wish the best for him and his son.

@mozartbabe

6 ай бұрын

Well..he was a monster at one time..

@traderhines76

6 ай бұрын

@@mozartbabeAccording to who? Her? Yea ok. She seems like the monster as the police threaten to lock her up.

The mother acted as if she was perfect as if the father had all the problems while she’s bringing up a incident that happened when their son was 3 Yrs old & he was14 during this case. 🤦🏾‍♀️ She seems difficult & very one sided.

tell her to give me a call! that was hilarious 😀😀

I hope he put her on child support since he has the kid

After the plaintiff’s account regarding their altercation, when their Sun (son) was 3, she smirked, as if to say, “okay, I did that…so”. From that point, she lost all credibility. She went to court in a attempt to deceive the judge. And if she was to get away with it, just like with receiving the overpayments of child support, she would have certainly taken advantage of those deceptions.

Shelton just crest the greatest moment in judge Mathis history

That’s a word!! Great Job dad!

How quick the judge was to believe her b.s story of abuse ... It's judges like him why men lose so much through court..

Finally A Man With A Voice!

13 schools within 14 years?????!!!! WOAH!

Wow his speech at the end was so heartfelt

That dude speaking truth. But as always judge Mathis made it about himself.

I didn’t go through the courts with my kids dad we just agreed on a set amount and he paid it with no problems.

such an awesome example of a father.

This was a great co parenting situation. Keep going on the positive path for yall legacy.

Never seen or heard a men speak 🗣 that well on this show . Salute king 🤴.

its not about you JM !!

Amazing father

as much as they may not get along, he sounds like my daddy. I’m a 53 yr old bf and my daddy was hard on us or what we thought was hard. But i’m so glad he was. We bypassed a many relationship problems by following his advice. I hear all these young men n women today talking bout what doesn’t matter when choosing a person in a relationship. Lots of these people reasoning is trash.

Don’t let this show program you to think that this is some type of rarity…. Most black men love and take care of the children.

@drayuh192

Жыл бұрын

All the black men I know take care of their child/children even if they aren't with the mother.

Great job dad! Fellas be careful who you give seed to.

God bless this family ❤

The judge should've asked her if she now pays child support

I hope she knows her son is gonna see how she lied on his father. That’s very damaging to a young man

His speech made me say yessuh, as a young man these are the men we listen to

Absolutely we need more fathers like you bro. I love you man

I am here for this vibe. Go dad go! He is right. Speaking BIG FACTS

I’m curious. Is she expecting for the wife to be with them in these counseling sessions!! 🤨