Barry Switzer: Overcoming Personal Trauma

Barry Switzer, OU's former football coach, reflects on the trauma and family turmoil he experienced as a young man.

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  • @Floppyearsmomma
    @Floppyearsmomma9 ай бұрын

    I can barely remember my life without Barry Switzer. Dad raised me on Sooner football from the time I was a toddler. My first dog as an adult was a cocker spaniel I named Switzer. I knew about the boot legging, but never about his mom's mental illness. That experience would have destroyed many people. I'm so glad he broke the family tragedy.

  • @Rubin4749

    @Rubin4749

    3 ай бұрын

    Switzer ALMOST was like a father figure to me, my Dad took care fo me, but he would just mumble from behind a newspaper. That was my Dad's version of taking care of his son. Food, roof over your head, mumble words from behind a newspaper. I gravitated to watching Switzer on TV. But Switzer taught us values from his LOVE of his players. That love for his players came through on the TV, and the newspaper.

  • @miker8854
    @miker88543 жыл бұрын

    "Bootleggers Boy" is what changed my opinion of Switzer. Everyone should read that book. Switzer should be celebrated as a role model for overcoming what he grew up in

  • @baymaxc1647

    @baymaxc1647

    2 жыл бұрын

    Totally agree, what a tough Guy

  • @uxpo

    @uxpo

    2 жыл бұрын

    Great Book...Great Guy.

  • @roadrules3671
    @roadrules36714 жыл бұрын

    Mr. Switzer; much respect from Pennsylvania. YOU are one Good; tough man.

  • @DavidWilliams-lw2hq
    @DavidWilliams-lw2hq3 жыл бұрын

    Being an Alabama fan, I did not like Switzer then but I have really grown to appreciate and like him very much especially when I learned of his life story. He is a remarkable man.

  • @deanarmstrong9183
    @deanarmstrong91832 жыл бұрын

    The King! Mr Switzer Love ya coach! Thanks for the birthday wishes!

  • @franklinbolander1916
    @franklinbolander19163 жыл бұрын

    AS I HAVE STATED BEFORE COACH SWITZER IS AN ICONIC FOOTBALL GOD!!...THANKS SO MUCH FOR THE GREAT MEMORIES WHILE I WAS GROWING UP DOWN IN OKLAHOMA!

  • @conrice9040
    @conrice90406 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing Coach. I hope you know how loved you are by a lot of folks.

  • @TimmieTennis
    @TimmieTennis3 жыл бұрын

    A great man, I lived in Oklahoma in the early 80's, and enjoyed watching him as Sooner football coach.

  • @timtebowsleftarm5368
    @timtebowsleftarm53684 жыл бұрын

    I can never speak to having the kind of tragedy Barry has gone through. No one deserves that, or the guilt he felt. I’ll disagree with him, but with genuine respect, in the sense that trauma rewires the brain in ways that we often are not conscious of, and that therapy can help someone like that as much as someone in addiction. So don’t judge yourself if you need therapy. It is absolutely ok to accept it and get the help you need. Credit to Barry for finding a way.

  • @Clarence2Worley

    @Clarence2Worley

    2 жыл бұрын

    100%

  • @Rubin4749
    @Rubin47499 ай бұрын

    Coach Switzer, we love you. My Mom was an RN (registered nurse) who took care of MANY of your football players. Coach Switzer, I live at 624 Parkhurst Terrace in Edmond, Oklahoma I'd love to shake your hand and say "hello" PLease come and see me.

  • @mattheffner6831
    @mattheffner68314 жыл бұрын

    I'm a buckeye fan but I love that man. College football misses him

  • @Terence-cn6qg
    @Terence-cn6qg Жыл бұрын

    Wow Barry, u had me sobbing like a baby hearing this story😢

  • @ZFKATNBADGER40
    @ZFKATNBADGER402 жыл бұрын

    That must of been devastating for him, couldn’t imagine having to live with that for 30 years.

  • @briangreif9796
    @briangreif97962 жыл бұрын

    His Mom raised a very very very strong boy that would survive the trials & tribulations of early life of guilt which turns out would be false, thanks to a great brother telling the truth, then to become the highest paid Coach in the Country a Leader of Leaders, Where are the Barry Switzers of today? There are a few, not many, Steve Spurrier, Mike Tomlin, John Madden , Mike Gundy they all come close lettin' it all hang out, Thank You God for Barry Switzer

  • @odwanifh
    @odwanifh6 жыл бұрын

    Coach Barry Switzer , you are truly I great man , with al that you have gone through in your family , you came out such a legend to impact the lives of hundreds if not thousands of people , is not only magnificent but totally incredible ,, I attended UNL in the mid seventies and I was not aware of your greatness until recently when I stumbled onto these videos ,, I sincerely wish the best for you and your family ,,,

  • @charliebabbitt3314
    @charliebabbitt3314 Жыл бұрын

    I really have grown to like Coach Switzer very much....He's a helluva coach and seems like a helluva guy who is the kind of guy you'd like to be in a foxhole with.

  • @randyrichardson5441
    @randyrichardson54412 жыл бұрын

    This interview explains alot why he is who he is...

  • @johnmanning4097
    @johnmanning40977 жыл бұрын

    cannot believe there has not been a movie done about Switzer yet.

  • @Clarence2Worley

    @Clarence2Worley

    2 жыл бұрын

    Pretty damn good idea. Who would play him?

  • @rjhyden

    @rjhyden

    2 жыл бұрын

    Already been done, scarface....

  • @LARRYCAL

    @LARRYCAL

    2 жыл бұрын

    That would be awesome

  • @LARRYCAL

    @LARRYCAL

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@rjhyden lol

  • @ronniebishop2496

    @ronniebishop2496

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well I’m thinking the same thing.

  • @markswain365
    @markswain3652 жыл бұрын

    A great Man who exemplifies what America was and should be , to overcome

  • @sam7748
    @sam77486 жыл бұрын

    Wow--Coach Switzer really went thru some tough times...

  • @Clarence2Worley
    @Clarence2Worley2 жыл бұрын

    Coach, you are one of my favorite people on this planet. ❤ God bless you.

  • @kennytesta9312
    @kennytesta93122 жыл бұрын

    That was gut wrenching

  • @brucefranklin1317
    @brucefranklin13172 жыл бұрын

    So sorry about his moms sadness and his guilt over that night she killed herself. Barrys a good guy and he was a good coach...

  • @TheNathanScot
    @TheNathanScot6 жыл бұрын

    How can you not like Barry Switzer? I went to Tulsa for college and always had a soft spot for Barry. He's the only reason I don't completely despise OU for being a joke of a "so called" academic institution, at least they had football.

  • @quintinreynolds1786

    @quintinreynolds1786

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah you really went to the Harvard of the Great Plains

  • @jordansanders4854
    @jordansanders48542 жыл бұрын

    Switzer's lived an interesting life. No doubt about it.

  • @carlesmauricio2909
    @carlesmauricio29093 жыл бұрын

    Love Coach Switzer!!

  • @charlessnyder912
    @charlessnyder9124 жыл бұрын

    Coach, she has those Drew Berrimores eyes. Absolutely gorgeous.

  • @marktorres8114
    @marktorres8114 Жыл бұрын

    Wow i wish i could have known a man such as barry i know it would have made me a better man

  • @mikeokcmedia
    @mikeokcmedia4 жыл бұрын

    Read 'Bootlegger's Boy' -- what a story. What a life!

  • @fernandomartinezjr7290

    @fernandomartinezjr7290

    4 жыл бұрын

    One of my favorite books... So much history and passion

  • @fernandomartinezjr7290

    @fernandomartinezjr7290

    4 жыл бұрын

    Coach Switzer such a pure soul

  • @Bigfishfun333
    @Bigfishfun3332 жыл бұрын

    FOUR rings.....only a select handful of legends have more.

  • @kevinpantera4429
    @kevinpantera442910 ай бұрын

    Great!

  • @ronniebishop2496
    @ronniebishop24962 жыл бұрын

    If there isn’t a movie in this then Hollywood is blind deaf and insane.

  • @Bigfishfun333
    @Bigfishfun3332 жыл бұрын

    Only two other coaches in history have won the title in college AND in the NFL.

  • @ronniebishop2496

    @ronniebishop2496

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes Jimmy Johnson, And was it Chuck Knoll or Don Shula I cant remember.

  • @Bigfishfun333

    @Bigfishfun333

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ronniebishop2496 USC Trojans and then Seattle Seahawks: coach Pete Carrol.

  • @ronniebishop2496

    @ronniebishop2496

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Bigfishfun333 That’s right.

  • @ozzieray
    @ozzieray7 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, I think the movie would be good, in some ways my boyhood was like Switzers.

  • @jimstover5725
    @jimstover57256 ай бұрын

    The recipe for that whiskey probably worth millions

  • @justin343wh
    @justin343wh7 жыл бұрын

    Switzer is hands down the best Dallas cowboys head coach

  • @JJensen9

    @JJensen9

    5 жыл бұрын

    Better than Tom Landry or Jimmy Johnson?

  • @justin343wh

    @justin343wh

    4 жыл бұрын

    Shut up. Hes better end of story

  • @johnmanning4097

    @johnmanning4097

    2 жыл бұрын

    I love Switzer but NO Jimmy Johnson was the best Dallas Cowboys Coach.

  • @dogpd3

    @dogpd3

    10 ай бұрын

    He’s a great coach and was under great pressure to produce another Super Bowl for the cowboys.

  • @BradleyJuby
    @BradleyJuby5 жыл бұрын

    So sad that Barry's mom killed herself.

  • @SoonerBear

    @SoonerBear

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes. I've read about it in Barry's book. I think it's truly remarkable that he overcame so much to become one of the greatest football coaches in OU history, if not the greatest. You find out what you're made of in life when your back's against the wall. May God continue to Bless Barry & his family.

  • @rjhyden

    @rjhyden

    2 жыл бұрын

    probably after she saw what she birthed....

  • @BradleyJuby

    @BradleyJuby

    Жыл бұрын

    @@rjhyden Disgusting.

  • @BradleyJuby

    @BradleyJuby

    2 ай бұрын

    @@rjhydenGarbage incel.

  • @America-jy9hz
    @America-jy9hz4 жыл бұрын

    Some people don’t like Barry, I don’t know why. 🤷‍♂️

  • @christhornton1785

    @christhornton1785

    3 жыл бұрын

    America 1776 - Do some research into all the violations and other crap that happened while he was at Oklahoma and you will know why I and a lot of other people can't stand him. Cheat, Liar and Crook.

  • @acesoonerfan1563

    @acesoonerfan1563

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@christhornton1785 You have no idea what you are talking about. He will always be the greatest and most beloved coach Oklahoma will ever have. You are letting the newspapers and the haters influence your perception of this great man.

  • @christhornton1785

    @christhornton1785

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@acesoonerfan1563 Actually not influenced by media. I was around this guy quite a lot and knew him for the jerk he was. My own, and other people I knew that were around him, opinion. Have you read any accounts of what the program went through while he was at OU? It may surprise you.

  • @ronniebishop2496

    @ronniebishop2496

    2 жыл бұрын

    Some people hate themselves.

  • @ronniebishop2496

    @ronniebishop2496

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@christhornton1785 No it didn’t surprise me I’ve watched Oklahoma since Bud Wilkinson and Switzer didn’t do anything Bear Bryant didn’t do in spades. Or a lot of very successful people in any field. You must not have been around successful people, except to wait on them, or pick up after them, you have that jealous hate attitude.

  • @anandabaruah2262
    @anandabaruah22623 жыл бұрын

    Boom 💥

  • @Ma007rk
    @Ma007rk7 жыл бұрын

    Am I reading things into what he is saying, or is my mind in the gutter when he said that his mother wanted him to "kiss her". The way he said it implies to me something far worse than just a "kiss". I don't want to hear what Mr. Switzer is not saying but many, many things happened during that era that wasn't spoken about that was kept "hush-hush" or that would have been characterized as a "family secret". I feel badly for him. You can hear the pain in his voice recalling those years.

  • @cody4335

    @cody4335

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ma007rk I think your mind is in the gutter.

  • @brianapennington6867

    @brianapennington6867

    7 жыл бұрын

    Most def your mind is in the gutter. The pain is living with it for 30 years and his father never telling him about the letter, and he thought it was all his fault. She was kissing him good night, just like any southern mom does, no matter how old you are. He turned away from her because she was drunk and he was tired of seeing her that way.

  • @ronniebishop2496

    @ronniebishop2496

    2 жыл бұрын

    Kiss his mother goodnight and to her good bye. What’s the matter with you, you never kissed your mom. Hahahahaha

  • @cynthiaanngarmanwade6413
    @cynthiaanngarmanwade64132 жыл бұрын

    My sweetheart, my husband, accidentally spilled a microwaved boiling hot cup of fresh coffee, 10 minutes old, onto the lap of failed OU coach Barry Switzer, at the taping of book to tape of Bootlegger Boy. Allison Mack, Switzer's sqeeze, an old truckstop sweetheart, just can't let it go. Why? They were taping the football players and the cheerleaders in the locker rooms, and we the spectators, out in the stands, and the parking lots, to get our identifications, and cash and cards and car tags, thus our addresses, bank accounts, our names, our assets, for identity theft reasons. Let us go ticket counters, the GMA and Fox News. You lose, losers. We love President George W Bush, and Donald J Trump. The Union. "Aye. Fools!" And "Ha!" Says Mom. I just saw Barry Switzer's face, it is one of a preacher aka, Jimmy Swaggert, like Tammy Faye Baker. "G" rules, '77 Braves of Burr Oak, Kansas. Toilet Bang, and "Drain the Swamp!" We win. Kansas is God's Country!

  • @BradleyJuby

    @BradleyJuby

    Жыл бұрын

    Step away from the meth missy.

  • @charlesmorrell2338
    @charlesmorrell23382 жыл бұрын

    If it wasn’t for Switzerland Dallas would have had the 4 peat

  • @deanarmstrong9183
    @deanarmstrong91832 жыл бұрын

    The King! Mr Switzer Love ya coach! Thanks for the birthday wishes!