“Not only are you doing everything wrong but also everything is your fault” - I felt that!

@systemofadown945

8 ай бұрын

Tf women get life on easy mode, literally nothing is ever girls fault, in fact when they do something wrong, they actually manage to blame us

@brionnathomas1264

8 ай бұрын

@@systemofadown945 are you being serious right now? women are seen as the weaker gender, we are sexualized (99% victims of rape are women). women have to get permission to get their tubes tied or have 2 kids while men can just get snipped. men can go outside without shirts while women get calls 304s for showing their stomach. men are praised for sex while women are judged and criticized. women are afraid to walk by themselves at night. men literally made laws stopping women from getting an education or a job, women fought for their rights and got them but are still told they dont have to get a career just find a husband, be his servant and take care of his kids. there is still a pay gap, women are still held to impossible standards while men complain about women wanting someone thats tall and financially stable. Women are still seen as less than and treated as such

@kaveenasingsandcosplays3441

8 ай бұрын

​@@systemofadown945that's not true. Men are allowed to walk around shirtless in schools and show it off on social media and get praised for it, while if us women were to show even a little bit of skin, ppl will say that we're asking for it. Instead of altering the dress code and saying that we dress inappropriately just for wearing a spaghetti strap tank top, maybe teach boys to keep their hands to themselves. Oh, and there has never been a US female president. And it was a long and hard fight before we finally got the right to vote. And men have had this stereotype abt women saying that they are just to cook and clean, well guess what. We're ppl who deserve to have jobs/careers too.not saying men have it perfect, but women do have it hard and have had it hard for years.

@TheOneManWhoBeatYou

8 ай бұрын

*Victimhood activated

@Itslily.vlogsss

8 ай бұрын

@@systemofadown945 we don’t people like you commenting this is a really emotional monologue in a movie fighting for women rights! The fact that 99% of women relate to this and the only people commenting bad stuff about this speech is men says a lot of your understanding to womens daily stuggles

People don’t know how hard other people try to fit in, screw being what people want you to be, be the person you know you are.

@NeverSaySandwich1

8 ай бұрын

So we can be racists?

@ikhlaqkhan3261

8 ай бұрын

If you want to hate others for their culture, might as well start with yourself.@@NeverSaySandwich1

@kcoose5356

8 ай бұрын

Nobody asked u girls to lol

@carmengogeidnas9670

5 ай бұрын

This is very good advice. It's really hard to be yourself, and no one can command you to be the way that you are, but once you finally do it, it's so powerful that it overwhelms everything else you've ever been told, the truth of it sears and damns you as much as it sets you free. It hurts and empowers you into a force that others cannot ignore, cannot begin to stand against. This year I finally set myself free, and nothing has ever felt so good, so right, and it terrified me as much as it awed me. Who I am is a fearful and powerful creature that I've only just come to terms with, I'm so much more than I ever let myself believe, and I hope that everyone, both men and women, are able to do the same, so that we all might be free.

@ikhlaqkhan3261

5 ай бұрын

Freedom comes from your choice and the responsibility you take to them, you carve your own path as much as you shape your fate.@@carmengogeidnas9670

I think that each gender has its own problem, and the hate the Barbie movie gets is based off the fact that the movie is a female point of view- hence the speech. If it were a Ken giving the speech, it would be the problems that men face, and that would be fine too. Both sexes have their own problems and unrealistic expectations and grievances, Barbie just talks about the woman’s side of things. Chill out y’all. 😂

@madelynabeyta7205

8 ай бұрын

It would be perfectly fine for Ken to give a speech just like this but I really think all the feminist women would flip their crap, let’s just be honest with ourselves.

@hanatemonstas4485

8 ай бұрын

@@madelynabeyta7205Yeah let’s be honest. Feminists probably wouldn’t have a problem with it. Conservatives are just projecting their vitriol.

@sugandhabandyopadhyay5472

8 ай бұрын

We have had 1000 years of Ken's world speaking about their problems. And one movie that talks about the pain of being a woman, and the Kens get their briefs into a bunch. 😂

@mo.ka.9661

8 ай бұрын

​@@sugandhabandyopadhyay5472men have never been able to be open about their problems

@sugandhabandyopadhyay5472

8 ай бұрын

@@mo.ka.9661 and yet I have seen plenty of films like Joker, American Psycho, Taxi Driver, Heat, Requim for a Dream, Trainspotting, A Single Man, My Left Foot, The Wolf of Wall Street, Phantom Thread, The Whale, The Pursuit of Happyness etc etc that have spoken a huge ton about men's issues. So yeah, they sure did open up about their problems, and made it someone else's problem too.

My cinema went dead silent during this scene; like you could *feel* just how hard this was hitting people. It's a powerful and raw monologue and America Ferrera delivered it perfectly.

@JiggyMcCue

6 ай бұрын

When are cinemas not silent you complete dummy

@BuzzingGoober

6 ай бұрын

It went dead silent because the theater was empty

@pappico

6 ай бұрын

imagine actually being moved and inspired by such horrendously-written monologue

@raven_bard

6 ай бұрын

@@pappico what a pity that such hard hitting truths are difficult for you to swallow. I'm sure your tastes lie more in the toilet humor department and thus can't quite appreciate the message Barbie was trying to convey.

@pappico

6 ай бұрын

@@raven_bard none of it is hard hitting truths, just a giant monologue of a woman complaining. Also lol toilet humor, what is that even supposed to mean

This speech is meant for Barbie to felt seen. For someone to know they aren't alone and that things are hard and that's how it is right now. Yes men and women both struggle, this is simply representing a feminine perspective because it's coming from a woman to another woman. It doesn't mean that men don't struggle, it is simply acknowledging the pressure people from a feminine perspective face because Barbie isn't aware of that in this movie.

@gaymer5697

7 ай бұрын

The problem is that many of the things she said werent woman problems they were people problems.

@insignific_nt

7 ай бұрын

@@gaymer5697 100% it is phrased as if men don't have these problems. I'd say, these are the problems, that if men complain about them, society goes boo-hoo. Because these are the lesser problems of men, that we can solve easily, if we man up! I mean, when she says, you're not allowed to ask for money... Women get money thrown at them without even asking! People work for money, and after payment arrives, there's no other income for men. None! If we get a free beer, that is from our buddy, too. Well, women get free stuff. If they are not ugly, they can leech on men with no end. The only thing, that feminism changed on that, that they feel used, when they give something in return, because they shouldn't. But when men don't give free stuff, then they are cheap, and if they don't make enough to not care about money for two, then they are losers. Frankly, women can't complain about that, so they complain like every people's struggles would be just theirs. I can see the Barbie movie as a satire to highlight that for women, but they missed the mark on that. Sadly.

@puppykitty69

7 ай бұрын

@@gaymer5697 They were peoples problems from a woman's perspective. That's it. That is all. A women's perspective is not inherently sexist or inherently discounting men, the same way it is vice versa. You are allowed to talk from the perspective of experience. Also her rant WAS PERSONAL. She was relating from one woman to another woman, aka, one person to another person.

@gaymer5697

7 ай бұрын

​@@puppykitty69 No. You need to keep in mind the context for this speech. It was literally in the middle of the "civil war" between men and women, and that this speech cured the hypnosis of patriarchy. On top of all that contest she literally says the system is rigged which implies that the world is harder on women than men, so no this wasn't just some rant about your personal experiences. it was an speech on social issues. Life isn't harder on either genders, both just have different problems. Now with all that being said I really liked the movie just not this particular part.

@danika9411

7 ай бұрын

​@@gaymer5697 I liked especially this part. I'm not from the US or any other English speaking country. And here this is a problem for many. In my immediate surroundings I know 3 women with burnout and depression from this do bad, that they needed therapeutic help. 2 in a mental hospital. They all broke down in their 50s from having to live like that. Also a grandmother who started to blossom after her husband died... That says everything about the marriage already. On the outside it looked fine, but he hit her. So while where you live you might not be able to relate, where I live many have these problems.

And this only scratches the surface. You're not allowed to be a career woman, because then people think you're neglecting your family. You're not allowed to be a homemaker, or a single mom, because people think you're a strain on society. If you have trouble being a mother, everyone thinks you're abusive or neglectful. We're not allowed to be feminine or tomboyish because the former is vilified and the other is exploited, and both are played against each other. You're always blamed if your marriages or families falls apart. No one listens to you when you are hurting. Instead, they blame you for your own misery. Sometimes they try to make you think you're the villain. You're judged for how you dress and present yourself. The system plays you and other women against each other. And even if one of us actually DOES do something bad, we're all blamed for it and it's used to make people think the patriarchy is good. So we can either accept responsibility for one bad woman, or we can defend ourselves, and be punished for it. I've even learned of some women who are so afraid of this, that they have defended bad women. Not because they care about her, but because they know it will lead to the patriarchy getting worse.

@eielle

7 ай бұрын

🥹🥹

@godzillavkk

7 ай бұрын

@@eielle I know. It is sad. And it's even sadder how many men take their privileges for granted and fail to notice that women are paying for them. I learned this firsthand, being a trans woman. But the more I came out and changed, the more things I lost.

@alvinousdrink1273

7 ай бұрын

What's funny is that these are pressures put on women by other women. Men would have absolutely no problem with you being a pretty woman who becomes a stay at home mom. Nor would we have a problem with you being a career woman, you'd probably just have fewer dating options. But men en masse aren't trying to stop you from doing either.

@godzillavkk

7 ай бұрын

@@alvinousdrink1273 Oh yes they are.

@alvinousdrink1273

7 ай бұрын

@@godzillavkk Men are trying to stop you from being too pretty and too thin, or a stay at home mom? Men are trying to stop you from being a career woman?

This speech is freakin true 😢 “You have to be extraordinary but somehow we’re always doing it wrong.” This speech is so true and iconic “No one ever gives you a metal or says thank you.”-Truly Heartbreaking 😢💔😭😔😞

@MK-nn7gm

5 ай бұрын

🙄

@paininmyfart9852

5 ай бұрын

🤡

@marcusclark1339

4 ай бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/qGSZm6SmYrnJe8o.html explains the flaw of the speech

@kant.68

4 ай бұрын

Maybe you’re setting your bar TOO HIGH. Not everyone is good at everything, in fact most women aren’t.

@theoneinthehoood-ii4om

4 ай бұрын

“it is so impossible to be a woman” meanwhile if a woman accuses me of something that is false and it is made public, I lose my job and find myself with my life ruined even if there was no trial. Yeah, This speech is so true 🙄🙄

I haven´t seen the movie but that speech sums it up what women face pretty much anywhere in the world, one way or another. And I´m sure there is a speech for men that has to be said as well. Sometimes, it is just frustrating and you want people to simply listen.

@TheOneManWhoBeatYou

8 ай бұрын

So you've been around the world and have taken a consensus? Or are you just playing the victim?

@saphi20

8 ай бұрын

everyone, men and women, "suffer" from what this monologue says, the only difference is the ones forcing others to behave like that are usually other women.

@josephine38482

8 ай бұрын

@@TheOneManWhoBeatYoui love how you comment under every positive comment about “playing the victim” when if anything, it’s you whining and playing the victim lol. Make it make sense at least

@hemig2869

8 ай бұрын

Thank you for saying that men also have a counter speech of their own People keep drawing lines in the sand when they should be building environments where more people can succeed at being who they are

@tkwcftw

7 ай бұрын

@@hemig2869 why is there a counter speech? It's not a contest. These issues are reality. Period. End of discussion. You want a discussion about men's issues? Those are their own discussion. Not a counter speech against women's problems.

"Never be rude, never be selfish, never show off..." the more i watch this scene turns out this is not just a monologue only for women, but also for almost every single human being on earth who desperately lives up to the expectations of others. Truly heartbreaking 😭

@algunoscuenticos

7 ай бұрын

Exactly! All of us feel the same.

@joshuakelly9390

6 ай бұрын

It's just a whiny rant about people being insecure.

@valentinpalombo4699

6 ай бұрын

@@joshuakelly9390 people feel insecure because that's an actual common part of all human beings. Most of them reach their breaking point and they can also be a lot more vulnerable than the rest, and just because they need to talk about how they feel, that's not "whiny"- it's called being COURAGEOUS.

@joshuakelly9390

6 ай бұрын

@@valentinpalombo4699 No. There's nothing courageous about this "hug me" session complaining about LITERALLY the most superfluous of problems. Courage is doing the right thing and standing up day after day despite what's being thrown at you. Courage isn't whining about how you have it so hard and how you're some uniquely oppressed little snowflake. This is the latter.

@lilib9645

6 ай бұрын

@@joshuakelly9390Blud forgot that standards exists

I don’t know why so many men and boys are denying this in the comments. This speech is very true. And men face similar problems but in different ways than women do. And this speech is talking about the way women struggle. I don’t see why people are denying it.

@algunoscuenticos

7 ай бұрын

I don't deny it, but it's like the message implies men don't suffer the exact same things over and over, and some items even more.

@GigaChadh976

7 ай бұрын

You dont struggle. You live life on easy mode. Your problems are self made and self inflicted

@daveinrome

7 ай бұрын

The are not men. They are barely males

@juanchoresultay2704

7 ай бұрын

Even if men face the same problems as women, you can’t dismiss women’s issues at all !

@bapbirb

7 ай бұрын

Its because the world we're living in today is always 1 vs 2. Never meeting the common ground and never acknowledging each other's challenges. One does not minimize another's issue but idk what happened to normal communication.

I feel like the people calling her "whiney" are taking this speech out of context. I don't think this speech is perfect but it doesn't have to be. She's simply expressing herself and she doesn't have to come across as "likable" or pander to anyone (the point of her speech). The rest of the movie continues to explore these themes and themes that she didn't talk about (like male gender roles). As a dude, I found a lot of this speech relatable. I'm definitely not one to judge women that find this speech relatable (especially since I've had many loved ones say that they do).

@TheSouthamptonGirl

8 ай бұрын

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@jim52356

8 ай бұрын

and wouldn't the "whiney" comments from the peanut gallery be exactly what she's talking about in the speech?

@Jay-Zech

8 ай бұрын

@@jim52356EXACTLY. Yes they are.

@kdawg2027

8 ай бұрын

Only weak men intimated by strong women would say that this speech is whiny end of story

@saphi20

8 ай бұрын

@@kdawg2027 thanks for proving men also suffer from what this woman is crying in the monologue :) And just in case, the ones treating women (and men) the way this weak monologue says are usually other women. Oh and having plot shields and being 100% perfect without flaws in movies does not make a woman strong, quite the opposite.

Oh sweet America, I could feel her in my chest towards the end. It's raw and hopeless and overwhelming.

Why can't we discuss a woman's point of view without having to proclaim the man's? Some of you sound like that idiot that goes to somebody else's birthday party announcing It's my birthday in 3 weeks. Does it really always have to be all about you?

@Dr.A.MidlifeMentor

7 ай бұрын

Classic whataboutism.

@infernityable1369

6 ай бұрын

The projection in this comment is crazy. Female narcissism knows no bounds.

@pilvi6246

2 ай бұрын

This. It bothers me that men seem to be incapable of simply listening and showing some empathy, without making it about themselves and how they need empathy, too. If it's not about them, they'll find a way to make it about them. Not every man is like this, of course, but the majority seems to be and it's sad. Yes, men deserve empathy, too, but can you maybe give us a moment to acknowledge our pain first? It's annoying how impatient y'all are, how old are you? Women are naturally giving anyway so can you maybe shuddup for just one minute? Thanks.

@orangecrusader1177

Ай бұрын

​@@pilvi6246why do we need empathy exactly I don't want any

This scene shows the toxicity of modern feminism.

Everybody was cheering at this speech in the movie theater. You could barely hear the speech.😂😂🎉🎉🎉🎉

@NeverSaySandwich1

8 ай бұрын

Things that never happened

@cullenkircher6482

8 ай бұрын

Very happy I wasn’t in the theater for this and I could actually hear it when I watched it at home. People clapping in theaters for actors/writers/directors who will never hear them is so silly to me.

@ladymire

8 ай бұрын

I had such a dry theater audience bc no one reacted or said anything. I don’t think anyone cried either, it made me feel like a crybaby lmao

@adalfyre7937

8 ай бұрын

You are lying your ass off lol I saw this movie on opening night with my fiancée and no one so much as even clapped

@BlackWolf_3223

6 ай бұрын

Happened in my theater too after the speech it was cool to see everyone come together

I was complaining today how I am the only thing holding my family together and nobody said thank you

It's not a rant about patriarchy, capitalism or whatever, it's a rant about LIFE. Any value in life must be earned, it's not something that is growing on the trees. You want a good man? You will need to compete with other woman. You want a good job? You will need to work on it. You want to be a mother/don't want to be a mother? You WILL take the consequences of each decision. Same goes for man. That's just life. To anyone that is reading this - don't fall for the narcisstic insanity of modern feminism and just fight for your values.

By seeing how it turned out, I was like “Damn, that’s one of the best speeches to see on a silver screen.”, although the crowd cheered it on around me with my family being far from me.

“The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows, it’s a very mean and nasty place and I don’t care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard you hit, it’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward. THATS HOW WINNING IS DONE! Now if you know what you’re worth go out and get what you’re worth, but you gotta be willing to take the hits and not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you want to be because of him or her or anybody! Cowards do that and that ain’t you! You’re better than that!” - Rocky Balboa

This scene changed my life. And I’m a guy. It messed me up… I’m a good way. Not only did I realize how unfair the world is to women, and I mean I always loved women. I’m a bisexual Autistic guy, and most of my friends are women. With that said, this even as a “dude” I felt/identified with this scene tremendously. The patriarchy doesn’t only affect women, it even affects other men. As someone who is Autistic, I am always judged for my special interests, stimming, and hyperfixations, and always told I’m “too much” or “weird”. Because with Autism there are a lot of double standards. Where for example people are okay with violent BPD/bipolar outbursts but shame autism meltdowns, or if you have both the devil incarnate. Or how neurotypicals (non autistic and adhd people) can talk about sex jokes and when we do, we’re profiled as creeps. Or how being lgbt, well I identify as a demiguy, but dress and talk masc but some times I’m fem, and I’m told “you aren’t NB because you don’t act it” or “not bi because you don’t act it” and don’t even get me started on the “you don’t look autistic”. Another thing people don’t know about is inspiration porn. It’s those things like “the only disability in life is a bad attitude” and things like that actually are objectifying Autistic people in the same way many men objectify women for sex, ND or NT. Autistic women are often expected to act “prim and proper” and calm, and when they get upset are always vilified. I know bc I’ve seen it happen with one of my best friends whos a female Autistic. They also try to make us conform with this f*cked up therapy called ABA therapy, which is conversion therapy for Autistics, and it was invented by the same dude too. Hell even the Ken story arc is relatable … for not the reason you’d think. I may have a crush on gosling in it, but if there’s anyone relatable for me, it’s weird Barbie and Allan. Who I both think are absolutely autism-coded. Even ken too, but for a reason that may confuse you all. Well, because when he discovered the patriarchy, I often relate it to how many Autistic men discover extremist groups like the redpill or incel forums, and how many become misogynistic, and because of people like Chris Chan, the Sandy hook guy, Jeffrey Dahmer and the Toronto van attack guy, autism is unfortunately over represented in incel groups, which is why many women (nd and nt) and even NT gay men tend to pigeonhole Autistic men and profile them as some form of criminal or predator. Ken then making Barbie land patriarchal reminds me a lot of internet cults, or following popular opinions. Allan I related to because well. He felt like an outsider to the kens, and cared about the Barbie’s. I never agreed with many things my guy friends did, in fact I was always repulsed by their obsession with sex (especially given I’m demisexual), and how even in both lgbt and autism communities I feel like an outsider, and how some Autistic and neurotypical dudes when I came out became homophobic, but when it was my Autistic guy friends being homophobic, it really stung. Or same thing with fellow lgbt people being ableist. At the end barbie and Ken acknowledge each other, and while they aren’t together, still respect each other. Hot take too: I think BOTH sides of politics are completely misunderstanding this movie. It’s criticizing both extreme feminism AND extreme masculinity. Everyone saw this film and Oppenheimer on the same day. But the better double feature in my opinion is this and ninja Turtles mutant mayhem, since that’s about boys being accepted, and it shows the sensitive and “teenage” side of the teenage mutant ninja turtles, where all have different personalities, with Raphael having anger issues. They also meet other mutant who turn out to be evil, because superfly wanted to fear revenge on humans, and he basically turned the other mutant into his cult, again reminding me of those extremist groups, on top of their dad, master splinter being overprotective because of his disgust for humans, and his character development where he fights superfly, despite initially liking each other due to hating humans, but in all, his sons mattered to him. At one point too superfly wanted the turtles powers for evil, kind of like inspiration porn or even ABA. Him and the Mattel CEO when you think about it, have similar intentions. And in the end the turtles are accepted into society, and it’s a very powerful story of acceptance at that. Not to mention it’s velma done right, since they use the references in that to expand the story, and Ferris Bueller in particular being used as motivation for them, which I loved due to that being one of my favourite films and a film nerd. Anyways, part of the reason I think this and TMNT mutant mayhem would make the perfect double feature: they’re both about growing up. Ones about girls growing up and how their role in society is important. Whereas the ninja turtles feels like what goes on underground near the Mattel building, and about boys puberty, how they also want to be understood, and not like other guys (or humans, or mutants), and how who influences you can take a toll on you. I saw both on the same day, and I cannot tell you how empowered I felt when I left the theatre, like these were films I needed when I was a kid/teen, and I know often due to pressure im afraid of telling people movies like those, as well as across the spider verse and Nimona are all some of my new all time favourite movies, like they moved me big time (except across the spider verse, which is a new favourite by almost everyone), with miles and expectations people have on him, and where they try to tell him how to live his life, like me with autism where NTs often tell me I’m rigid in my views on autism, or I miss social cues or get mixed messages. Movies are freaking magical lemme tell ya.

@NK-ch1cj

5 ай бұрын

Freak

This speech made me realize how unfair the world is to women, not because that I didn't know that already, but it just proved it to me more; slapped me more. I have 2 sisters and I love them so very much, but sometimes I wonder if my sisters ever think of how unfair the world is; of how hard they get it. I wonder if they every think that I get thing easy just because I am a man.

@user-gs1lb4gt8h

6 ай бұрын

Don't all impressed 99% of speech is just projection.n't it men who have money but ask for money. And it was feminism who pushed career woman. Men have put rewriting history to cast themselves as victims. Like just now. Also being a leader that's was femininism . Much of speech the Barbies should have related to before the Ken's took all responsibility. And pointing out woman's bad behaviors accused woman . Even though we flat more Judgement to not blame first it dad walking out men no excuse abandon their families no how it heart ego but then it when looking at statistics that 70% of divorces were filed by women. Then every homeless divorced dad was an abuser &or should have made his wife appreciated. And justifying Abandoning your kids when more do it . You have to anti conspiracy theory when actuall laws and to point to yet Believe massive conspiracies like patriarchy or systemic racism. Based fact those lose on

@marie-evetremblay2526

5 ай бұрын

@user-gs1lb4gt8h dude, I can't even decipher what you wrote. Punctuation would be a good place to start.

@dbdisworsethanmeth5971

3 ай бұрын

I hope she sees this bro

They need to turn this into a musical number

Best part of the movie for me. Props to whoever wrote this part of the script. It was brilliant!

@swimdownx6365

8 ай бұрын

It's called Balance. Like in health a lot women's problems at least this woman might have internal causes

@bigstar66

8 ай бұрын

@@swimdownx6365yeah do women not know what moderation is?

@mattcollins3591

8 ай бұрын

@@YoUtUbEOFFICIALrealnotrick The movie made over one billion dollars.

@jovanolague3161

8 ай бұрын

Apparently America wrote it, and asked Greta and team should we do this and then asked for feedback on it and put it in.

@hanatemonstas4485

8 ай бұрын

@@YoUtUbEOFFICIALrealnotrickCalm down

Women face double standards but men face them too.

Do you think she gets an Oscar nomination for this? EDIT: She actually did it!!

@superjackster0165

5 ай бұрын

Probably not

I tell you, I was the only dude in a pretty packed theater and I could feel quite a few eyes looking my way during this scene. Kind of made me sink down in my chair a little.

@AmieMorley-st6tz

6 ай бұрын

Awwww :( what did you think of it?

@TheDrawfeeBraincell

6 ай бұрын

aw, I’m sorry, that can’t have felt good. that’s definitely not the purpose of the speech - it’s meant to bring problems to light, but these problems are systemic and not your personal fault. no one in that theater could’ve known what kind of person you are, so no one should’ve been judging based on you just being a guy. I hope that didn’t dampen your experience of seeing the movie too much!!

@carmengogeidnas9670

5 ай бұрын

Please know that the women were only looking at you to gauge your reaction. They wanted your approval but they were afraid of your reprimand, because we have always been afraid of feeling powerful before the gaze of men. Such things usually mean trouble for us, a challenge that we often cow to. They looked at you for love, and by the sound of it, they got some approval with great relief. We don't want to fight you, we just want to be accepted and acknowledged as equals. I know sometimes that must feel like an attack on you personally, but please know that we all understand that no single man is responsible for how we feel. We don't want to fight you, we just want not to be judged, just like everyone else, man or woman.

@psychoticmortacarn

5 ай бұрын

@@carmengogeidnas9670You can’t know any of that lmao

@psychoticmortacarn

5 ай бұрын

Don’t let that shitty corporate pandering make you feel bad about yourself. You’re better than that.

I think most of y’all missed the point 💀

@ihatelensflare

8 ай бұрын

Y'all

@GigaChadh976

7 ай бұрын

No i understood the point perfectly. Its an idiotic point

@grass2895

7 ай бұрын

@@GigaChadh976 No, I don’t think you did 😭

@jrgrimm6091

Ай бұрын

​@@GigaChadh976go be offended somewhere else baby girl

The Father - Little Women (2019) monologue The Son - Marriage Story (2019) monologue The Holy Spirit- Barbie (2023) monologue

@rexymaximoff

8 ай бұрын

PERFECT SUMMARY OMG

@NeverSaySandwich1

8 ай бұрын

God will not be mocked, blessed be the Almighty

@ignisfabulis7587

8 ай бұрын

True. And I watched all the three movies.

@eevieee

8 ай бұрын

Where does the cool girl monologue fit in

@-ayay-97

6 ай бұрын

​@@NeverSaySandwich1Amen!!

I feel like she took the words right out of my mouth . Like it’s all so true and it’s exactly what many of us women feel and go through every day

I think it's great grown women need to confirm their own worldview with a movie about Barbie dolls.

“It is letteraly impossibile to be a Woman” it's so impossible that meanwhile if I divorce my wife takes my house, my money and my shit. While I end up living in the car, in an abbandoned building or worse on the streets, and i get to see my son an hour a month

Delivered by an actress who became famous playing a character literally called ugly.

I am a woman who has never felt like this and it didn't resonate with me. Is it because of how I was raised? My personal life experiences? I don't know.

@prissiananda1047

4 ай бұрын

Somehow me too. I never have problem being feminine or accommodating to others or downplay some of my superiority or ego for the sake of smoothing things out (what I wrote may sound like sarcasm, but it’s not. This is what I experienced). The problem for me is for certain people, being too accommodating or submissive would cause them to try ignoring, dismiss or even disrespecting my opinion.. I still trying how to maintain some image of dignity, but not offending other people, but I guess the one who respects you regardless is the kind of people that’s meant to be with you..

@annabennett1514

4 ай бұрын

I barely identify with it either. The majority of the points raised seem rather trivial too. Eg, If someone called me crass for asking to borrow money, I couldn't care less. And what's that got to do with being a woman?!

@victoriajonesang7728

3 ай бұрын

I pretty much feel like this everyday I literally got judge for how I laughed

This hits so deep!

@user-gs1lb4gt8h

6 ай бұрын

Its projection. Sense wee judge having not having abd Asking for. And women also rewrite history like saying career woman or women leaders are product of patriarchy . Projection of gaslighting. And pointing out women's bad behavior is mysonygy. Woman blaming even though. We Chang more standards to not blame. First it was dad walking out their kid men no excuse even they didn't boost his fragile male ego . But after looking at statistics that 70% of divorces were filed by women. Then every homeless divorced dad was an abuser and Should have made his wife feel appreciated. And those same are relating women want abandon their families 😮 And your supposed to be anti conspiracy theory when it comes actual laws and even illegal actions. Hense theory meaning you base your model on evidence. But your also supposed to believe STORIES of massive conspiracies of patriarchy and systemic racism. Inspite all evidence. Because some certain people lose.

@NK-ch1cj

5 ай бұрын

Chad deep or Tyrone deep?

When I left the Theater after I saw this Film. I was completely and mentally destroyed. This Movie is so powerful and good. Just got it yesterday for Christmas and watching it a second time. Same emotions Good Movie🎥✨👱🏻‍♀️💖

Fun fact: America Ferrera was the voice of Astrid in How to Train Your Dragon

@michaeldelgado6740

27 күн бұрын

Will Ferrell (Mattel CEO) also played Megamind, making this the 2nd live action DreamWorks crossover in a year after the Oscars slap.

@matiaspereira9382

27 күн бұрын

@@michaeldelgado6740 yeah

I can't explain how much I love this movie. I cried like a little bitch through the whole thing.

@MK-nn7gm

5 ай бұрын

Why call yourself a little bitch I’ll never understand

@carmengogeidnas9670

5 ай бұрын

You're not a little bitch for crying. Never apologize for feeling deeply, for feeling sympathy, compassion or fear. Those things make you strong, make you yourself. Embrace who you are and be free. It's terrifying and beautiful, but accepting who you are makes you powerful. Don't ever apologize for it.

It's almost like; different people, get this, have different opinions, and "pleasing everyone" is impossible for well, everyone.

@joewhitehead3

Ай бұрын

I think people not agreeing on anything is part of the problem

@AnthonyLeachman-sc6es

Ай бұрын

​@@joewhitehead3🙂👍🏾

She still sounds just like she did in Ugly Betty ❤ I love her personality

As a man I can sympathize with what she is saying, but think she took it a bit too far! Being selfish or rude part from 1:06 forward… those attributes are never Ok regardless of who you are.

She's always delivered well in her performances.

@marcusclark1339

4 ай бұрын

not really

@candles6103

4 ай бұрын

Who

@candles6103

4 ай бұрын

Cares

thanks for speaking about the suffering of humanity, regardless of men or women

@jonwwillis

2 ай бұрын

Because, she should be able to contribute to the problem by being a toxic leader.

Personally I found this scene is forced cuz this movie didn’t really do a deep storytelling on the mother to make us know more about her and feel related so that when this speech dropped, I just felt it’s forced. It’s like forcefully planting these ideas to the audience and make us swallow them.

I got chills running down my spine watching this scene at the cinema, it reminded me of all the stress, pain and bullying I went through whilst I was still living in London. I used to live in a small town almost 36 minutes away from London City and it wasn't always a pleasant place be, I was catcalled in the streets, assaulted and manipulated by so many men and I never had the courage to speak for myself because I was 17 years old and I was distracted by all the male attention I got and I just wanted to fit in.

@marcusclark1339

4 ай бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/qGSZm6SmYrnJe8o.html its not a good speech and explains it better than i will here its one note and propagandist, if u think its deep it just shows what indoctrination does - its a LECTURE to the audience about feel bad for them with nothing really to say

Job well done America! I love it your monologue! how you delivered it & the message were so true 💕

@user-gs1lb4gt8h

6 ай бұрын

Isn't men have have money but ask for money and wasn't it femininist who pushed career woman.

@mumsylydz

6 ай бұрын

@@user-gs1lb4gt8h yeah your right on , but some men not so generous I knew few, women really need to work hard so they can buy their wants too

@robyyyne

6 ай бұрын

​@@user-gs1lb4gt8hThey never said patriarchy caused harm to women. Theyre saying a patriarchial or matriarchial society are inherently bad because the pressures are affecting women AND men. Women in other ways than Men. Thing is, this movie is centered on what women go through. So if you dont agree that women are opressed, youre very much part of the problem and really need to educate yourself

Excellent example of waiting to exhale. I love America Ferrara even more now for doing this movie.

Watching this at the cinema it was like straight homelander face lmao

This scene helped me so much in life cause I am always crying for not being perfect

This speech here is like, the very definition of overthinking everything.

This is your own head telling you this No man ever forced this on you…

Interesting. Every comment is sucking off this speech, but yet the likes to dislike ratio is would say otherwise. Gosh, wont it be so funny if a video promoting a free speech movie was silencing negative opinions?

A painful and very accurate depiction of what life would be if you lived you life for someone other than yourself... but YOU don't, right?

@casdeanwinchester483

7 ай бұрын

Missed the point 😂😂😂😂

Health is full of contractions.

Why can everyone just settle down? Just because there’s something supporting that women shouldn’t have to be perfect it’s not saying that men have to be perfect and that there’s not things that men have to go through. There’s things that ever has to go through regardless of the gender.

@marijastankovic3780

2 ай бұрын

And no one ever said that

She's just saying what everyone's been thinking for decades

*the way ‘weird barbie’ is just in the corner like: 🤸*

A lot of these realizations or complaints she talks about in society are imposed by other women.

Many of you are missing the point of this monologue. Everything Gloria says is just the reality of being a woman under the patriarchy. Every time we want to work to be thin we're called anorexic and told that real men love curves. But the second we gain weight we're called fat. When we want to be assertive at work or school we're called bitches or too bossy to work with. When we get raped or harassed or anything by a man, it's somehow OUR FAULT and we're considered responsible for their behavior. And when we try to follow beauty standards we somehow get criticized for it. I know this because in the early 2000s I thought I was fat despite being in 3rd grade at the time. If the patriarchy can do that to the self image of a 3rd grade girl, just imagine being called bossy for trying to take charge, or being called a liar after being sexually assaulted despite having receipts and being told it's your fault it happened.

@madelynabeyta7205

8 ай бұрын

So when she says patriarchy is she referring to the movie only, or is she (the directors and producers) implying that the patriarchy is a parallel to the real world we live in? I don’t deny that those contradicting expectations exist-I think many people deal with trying to find balance in their life while trying not to listen to “society.” I think many of those who have both negative and positive things to say about this monologue understood it in a similar way as you did. The problem is she’s just whining and complaining about it instead of saying something encouraging and productive.

@hanatemonstas4485

8 ай бұрын

@@madelynabeyta7205Does answers need to be spoon fed though? Do you expect answers to be given to you on a test? Are you not able to think for yourself? Or were you never taught abstract thinking and philosophy?

@madelynabeyta7205

8 ай бұрын

@@hanatemonstas4485 what does this have to do with any part of what I said?

@lunarsensitive1

8 ай бұрын

@@madelynabeyta7205 Aren't you doing exactly what she's complaining about? She said you aren't allowed to complain and you're proving her right.

@allisonday893

8 ай бұрын

Who is telling women these things? No one is telling me that if I lose weight I’m anorexic for example. Just own your own life. Ignore the crap. You are who you are. Why care what others think.

As a women I genuinely do not feel the need to be anything to conform with anybody. Whether it be fat, thin, rich, poor, a ceo or a cleaner (which I am btw😊), married, single, whatever….I genuinely don’t care what people think. I just try to be nice to people. Maybe this comes with age? I’m sad if women worry about all this crap. Just live your life. Time is short.

@izoneateeztxtforever369

8 ай бұрын

Me too. I'm a woman who just lives my life the way I want to. I don't try to change for society no matter how many people think I'm weird or how lonely it makes me. I genuinely believe it's THEIR problem, not mine. But I can understand the issues explained in the speech as well :)

@Yasmine-mm1yc

4 ай бұрын

Exactly

Ironic that most of the men leaving negative comments are actually inadvertently validating the monologue 💀 Anyways America Ferrera is great. Love her. Glad she’s gotten more recognition because of Barbie.

@saphi20

8 ай бұрын

Ironic that most of the people leaving negative or mocking comments to the comments that are trying to debunk that this is a "women only issue" are validating said comments 💀 Anyways, are you assuming the gender of the people posting the comments? i saw many women calling out how out of touch this monologue is. Feminism.

@Jay-Zech

8 ай бұрын

@@saphi20 Yes, I’m absolutely assuming that most, if not nearly all, of those comments are from men. Because it takes either being a man or choosing to be blind to never actually see these issues (and several of the comments claiming to be women are almost certainly just men who are lying to try to prove that this isn’t an issue). I’ve actively seen countless women have to deal with the things being talked about in this monologue. It’s true whether some dudes get offended or not.

@Jay-Zech

8 ай бұрын

@@saphi20 Also, the movie isn’t saying that men never have to deal with these issues, of course they do, but it’s much more systematic for women, wherein it’s usually just situational for men. Men have systemic issues that we have to deal with as well (some of which the movie DOES cover, it has a whole B plot-line about it), but it’s literally a BARBIE movie so of women’s issues would be the main focus.

@roxassora2706

8 ай бұрын

​@@saphi20But women have to deal with it more than men.

@kant.68

4 ай бұрын

How? 😂

As a woman, am I the only one who feels like most of this can also apply to... men? Like, I get the part about the body standards. But what about asking for money? People look down on men for asking for money too. Men also are pressured to be the boss without being mean. They also have to be leaders while including others' ideas. That's not just a women thing. These days, men experience more societal (emphasis on SOCIETAL) pressure to be good fathers than women do to be good mothers. Men are supposed to have successful careers, and still have to look out for others too. But men aren't allowed to complain either! They have to be careful with how they treat women, or else they're accused of being flirtatious. Men aren't supposed to be rude, or show off or be selfish, just like women. They can't fail or show fear, or else they're weak. And no one thanks them for what they do either. They're also always doing everything wrong. Whatever happens is ALSO their fault. Even male characters are held to these standards, just like Barbie was held to women's real life standards. Even if they're not the exact same issues, they're equivalent. Please don't take this personally. Women have these struggles too, and I'm not denying it. Idk, it's just my opinion 💕

@jump23kid

8 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for saying that. You're a breath of fresh air to the world at the minute because not many people see it the way you do or openly say what you have.

@saphi20

8 ай бұрын

I mean, is common sense thinking the way you do... the main issue is common sense is rare these days.

@traviselrod7803

8 ай бұрын

I agree. It’s myopic to think otherwise.

@caffemocca8855

7 ай бұрын

Stupid social norms are the problems. You either be fake and people will like you, or be real and people would hate you because they hate the fact that you don't submit to the system. Something they aren't strong enough to be.

@algunoscuenticos

7 ай бұрын

I think most of the things said are felt the same and even much more by men.

This powerful monologue is so iconic in Barbie!

@TheOneManWhoBeatYou

8 ай бұрын

And this comment is so bot!

@saphi20

8 ай бұрын

powerful? is literaly the weakest monologue i've ever heard. Oh and spoiler alert, the ones asking women (and men) to behave the way this woman is crying in the monologue, are other women.

@successfulbaddie

8 ай бұрын

@@saphi20we get it, ur depressed, no go off yourself we don’t need ur negative energy

@Yummycheezes

7 ай бұрын

@@saphi20You’re wrong. It’s both men and women.

@marie-evetremblay2526

5 ай бұрын

​@saphi20 "literally the weakest" sure lol you got me convinced... 😂😂😂

Everything she says is true...but I can't help but think that it is true about most of us, not just women, though women have a more decidely true grip on what is expected of them because they have been torn down, or tried to be torn down since time immemorial. Saying that, it is true for most of us, always seeking to be better and not achieving that because someone will always be better....more attractive, more attentive, more loving, more loved, better than what we can ever be. All we can do is try our bests to achieve a comfortable place where we know we've done our bests and give the love we offer and hope for it to be given back. It all does come down to love, in the end. Being wanted, cherished, appreciated. Perhaps if we were simply more vocal in appreciating those in our lives, and they were more vocal in their appreciation of us, we would all be content. "Content" isn't fabulously happy but maybe fabulously happy is too grand a goal. No one is and those who say they are, are lying. Yes, we have fabulous moments, days, maybe even weeks...but it won't last, until the next time we have occasion to be fabulous, and there is allways a next time, if we are willing to be watchful for those times. I don't think anyone shold settle, for lack of a better term, but be more aware of when that magic is there, right in front of us, and grasp it. A little magic goes a long way, for all of us.

Every day in life I am stuck between work vs personal life, and every day, I am punished for "being too much", too passionate about my work, too emotional about my expectations, too much of a career woman who lacks empathy but also too much of hysteria because I cannot be the sweet diplomat in my personal life. Too much, and not enough. And always, always wrong. This speech is the balm that in some place in the world, there is a similar woman like me who is sitting with the same pain I feel every day - a kindred spirit who refuses to apologize for who she is. When this speech first came, every woman in the movie theatre was clapping and I was still crying, crying in relief that I am not so incredibly alone.

@infernityable1369

6 ай бұрын

There's literally no such thing as a good reason not to punish you for "being too much." Especially if the "punishment" takes the form of rejection.

This was the only scene that I actually liked about this whole film. It is so real and powerful.

@Smartass012

6 ай бұрын

The one gave False opposite reality and rewrite history like always do. Claiming career woman and woman leader came from patriarchy

The arguements in these comments are the problem. Both men and woman should be able to feel validated when discussing emotional issues. Problem with men is they don't want to be held accountable for having apathy and having no emotional understanding of woman. Woman see their feelings being squandered and feel like we should not care how the men feel because they can not be compassionate towards us. Then it becomes a my problems are bigger than yours. Main issue stressed in the movie. Men have more power than woman. Are paid more in jobs still that men and women can do. Have more opportunities than women do. Only care how they look "sometimes" in front of women. Women for years have to look good for everyone, themselves, men, PTA meetings, etc. Movies have thin twig good body woman have set high expectations and you are supposed to look good or you do not get anywhere if you are a female. You are a nerd, a geek, get picked on by men and women both. Some jobs deny woman because they aren't pretty enough. The list goes on and on and on for both. Arguing who has the most issues isn't going to solve it. Both sides need to take accountability and have empathy for each other and then instead of being a competetion, things can go down a productive road and change.

Trying to please everybody makes you unhappy, trying to please nobody makes you unhappy. I guess that's a concept that's very hard to understand.

This is what Nicki Minaj said over a decade ago

Why is she talking about what it's like to be a man?

@beethovensfidelio

4 ай бұрын

Because Gloria is the only woman in a male dominated workplace, so she’s faced pressure to act more masculine in order to be taken more seriously.

As a woman who loves films, I thought this movie was poorly directed and the script throughout the film could be written much better. They spelled out everything leaving the audience nothing to think about for themselves. This monologue just did not feel natural or organic at all, it could have been conveyed more effectively without sounding too forced or preachy. The character development and arcs in generally were also not resolved properly in this film, Greta made poor use of plot devices that felt like an afterthought. Anyone who thinks this film is a masterpiece or 10/10 should really watch more movies. The set pieces were incredible in this film and the casting as well as the concept was on point, I just think it could have been executed much better.

I was living with a guy who didn't want to be in a relationship but wanted relationship benefits. I was done being treated like a doorstep so I kicked him out. He threw out my tv, put a hole in my wall, and just degraded me in every sense of the word. And he got arrested for harassing two women in my apartment complex. He's in jail now but I still feel bad because I made the call that got him arrested. A little after this scene there was one where Barbie said she didn't want to hurt Ken's feelings even though he did so much to hurt her. And she was like, it's like I'm a woman already. After being totally toyed with. And it snapped me out of my depression. Cuz f#@k that man.

After hearing this for the first time, all I wanna do is hug my mother

This speech confirms my theory: the people who made this movie are the same people who still support Amber Heard

I sob everytime is hear this.

women written by greta gerwig >>>

This is honestly one of the best-acted monologues I’ve ever seen on film

@no1sawfan

Ай бұрын

Christ almighty. Watch more films

@keeranchang6485

Ай бұрын

@@no1sawfan I watch quite a few homie

@no1sawfan

Ай бұрын

@@keeranchang6485 so you're telling me this beats any monologue from something like...Lord of the Rings? Get the fuck outa here 🤣🤣

@keeranchang6485

Ай бұрын

@@no1sawfan call of duty detected, opinion rejected

@no1sawfan

Ай бұрын

@@keeranchang6485 how is that relevant 🤣🤣🤣

I thought America Ferraras acting was pretty bad

felt quite a reaction when i saw it the first time didnt expect this to be in the barbie movie quite interesting

Astrid from HTTYD inspired Hiccup with her awesome speech, now she's doing the same to Barbie. YOU GO GIRL!

@ignisfabulis7587

8 ай бұрын

Wow. It's epic!

@user-mu9vi7qd3g

8 ай бұрын

I literally only picture Astrid when I hear her speak ❤

@jcrews8582

8 ай бұрын

@@user-mu9vi7qd3gIKR? HTTYD was my first exposure to America Ferrera!

@nyw4861

7 ай бұрын

​@@user-mu9vi7qd3gghost 1990 Molly idle hands 1999 Molly Cruel intentions 1999 2004 Annette first Kathryn The final destination 4 2009 lori Final destination 5 2011 Molly

I swear my entire life no matter who the woman was this is a conversation I’ve had wether it was my mother, sister, teacher, best friend, trusted adult, manger or whatever this is something every woman can relate to and it hurts seeing men downplay this in the comments because think about the women in your life your mother, sister, daughter, wife, girlfriend, aunt, grandmother most likely at somepoint in their life they’ve had a conversation like this or felt like this

The pregnant Barbie was more weird than weird Barbie but got to stay in Barbie land... I want to hear her speech.

This hit so hard for me even tho I’m transmasc. Seriously, I was SOBBING in my friend’s arms.

@Smartass012

6 ай бұрын

Much what femininist complain about is really projection. And rewrite of history. . Its men have asked have money and ask for money. And women leaders and Career woman are not products of patriarchy. Infact the Barbies should have related to the speech before the Ken's took all responsibilities. And your called mysonygist for Calling out women's bad behavior objectively analyzing their claim before just believing them. We flat shift more standards to not blame women. First it was Dad's walking out on kids . They have no excuse no matter how much the wife and damaged their fragile male egos. But after looking at statistics that 70% of divorces were filed by women. Now every homeless divorced dad was an abuser and Should have made his wife feel appreciated.. And no those same feminist are sympathizing with women's desire abandon their families. . Your supposed to be anti conspiracy theory when actual examples lows corruption is pointed out . Theory witch means your model was actually based on evidence. but also believe STORIES of massive conspiracies like patriarchy or systemic racism. Because some people lose despite all real world favors to receive the stuff conspiracy fables. Based on the fact they lost. Its noticable pattern . Anita Hill OJ Simpson Decades of court cases on policy brutality and Kyle Rittenhouse. Kavagh investigations and 2016 they the system is fundimementally corrupt based on fact they lost . But when their actually corruption to point to. My conviction because they bared information on my accusers to protect their credibility. And 2020 because they forced out poll watchers. They say it's over get over it.

When I watched this movie in the theater, everybody was having a good time enjoying the movie and whatnot But when it got to THIS scene, the whole theater got deathly quiet. Everybody was stunned into silence by the 180 turn of the mood ...except me, who said _"Damn"_ at the end of the whole speech (cause that was a really good speech) and caused a few bursts of laughter

@MK-nn7gm

5 ай бұрын

It’s mediocre at best

First world problems The speech

Thank you

This will be the clip they show before she accepts her Oscar.

@MK-nn7gm

5 ай бұрын

Lol this is not Oscar worthy

I was today years old when I connected 24yr old Betty Suarez to this clip. Ugly Betty must’ve been trending on Netflix because of her role in Barbie and honestly wow 🥹😭

@lilianl2921

8 ай бұрын

Watched the movie first, then watched Ugly Betty, and my boyfriend pointed out to me that Betty and "the mom in Barbie" were the same. Now I'm here. 🤣

OMG, women need to stop complaining about how hard they have it. Very few people have an easy life, stop embarrassing yourselves by playing the victim all the time

I had no idea what to expect when I went to this movie for the first time. I certainly didn't expect to cry two or three times or to want to just shout "hell yeah" at the screen. But I did. I could care less about negative comments from men or boys. Just look at all movies, TV shows, political races, and history books, and tell me the percentage of females you see in any of that. You can get back to me later.

@TheOneManWhoBeatYou

5 ай бұрын

Yeah, keep being a victim, I'm sure it will work out great...

The new Barbie movie is about girl-hood. and being a girl is so amazing and everyone is so pretty but no matter how tough you are comments and exceptions will tear you down faster then you think it’s so hard to be woman like woman has the word man in it they have high expectations for woman then we do for them they think abt looks but girls look for a good personality and nice we don’t care for looks and why don’t men have expectations that they should meet like that doesn’t make sense

Watched Barbie at home last night and I applauded this. 👏🏽

@ignisfabulis7587

8 ай бұрын

Me too. That was awesome.

Most of what she says is absolutely relevant to both genders. It's more about being human.

This applies to autistic people as well. It’s even harder as an autistic woman 😢

0:55 She was part of the sisterhood. This one involved traveling pants

@regina_filange2.0

8 ай бұрын

Different multiverse lol

To everyone saying that this monologue is so upfront and thrown-at-your-face, that’s pretty much the point, since the Barbies never dealt with the struggles of womanhood this is their introduction to the idea of feminism

Just imagining Astrid giving this speech, while specifically eyeing Snotlout, and Hiccup's just looking confused

@craigledger4645

8 ай бұрын

As a “How to Train Your Dragon” fan, I totally understand this…

@gmoleta1662

8 ай бұрын

@@craigledger4645America voices Astrid

If you, thought this monologue was insightful, you've likely never read a book in your life.

It is heartbreaking to watch this while being in Kazakhstan 💔

Period girl❤

the people in the comment section missed the point entirely.

@madelynabeyta7205

8 ай бұрын

Really? Then what is the point? People keep repeating that phrase but it’s meaningless until you elaborate.

@misshellyconner78

8 ай бұрын

basically the point is the both genders have it hard. Just it was from a womans point of view, (i think)@@madelynabeyta7205

@systemofadown945

8 ай бұрын

​@@madelynabeyta7205cause they dont even know what theyre talking about

@saphi20

8 ай бұрын

@@systemofadown945 your comment proved that men also suffer from the same stuff this monologue cries about. Thanks.

@LordSusaga

6 ай бұрын

​@@madelynabeyta7205 This is a speech where a woman points out the unfair and contradictory requirements imposed on her by society. She is expected to do things, but also criticised if she does them in a number of ways. It's not a targeted speech, and she even notes a number of these issues are caused by the expectations of women, but they are keenly felt to her and her experiences as a woman. People in the comments are digging for reasons why she's wrong, trying to paint her as a hypocrite. They're doing exactly what she's talking about.