You can’t help a narcissist. They don’t think they need help. Great song ❤

Can we take a second and notice she does not have tons of make up on and she isn’t showing off her body… This is pure talent, singing a raw song and a beautiful display of what many of us have gone through. This video was very well done, her performance raw and real. Anymore most music videos there is a lot going on that takes away from the actual message of the song. Keep being a great example for women. God Bless You ❤

@aaronchandler152

Жыл бұрын

Wifey material right there

@alemjacobson9180

Жыл бұрын

@@aaronchandler152 facts bro

@lucaswright2794

Жыл бұрын

Good point that is natural beauty!

@rakshita888

Жыл бұрын

Yes agreed

@lucy.1989.

Жыл бұрын

“good example for women” wtf??? kinda misogynist of you to say this but ok

18 years. 2 kids. All the money, trips, clothes I wanted. I’m OUT, free & w/ someone who adores me. We struggle financially but I’m happy

I was with a narcissist for 10 years. I feel this song deep in my soul. Thank you for this song because they do exist and awareness is needed. ❤

@jessicafallen9778

Жыл бұрын

Was with one 2 years

@sarahlowe8310

Жыл бұрын

I spent 14 years with one and when I finally left I ended up with another one for 3 more years. It really does serious damage to you when you spend that much time with someone like that :(

fvck have we all been here? Im just now learning that I been stuck with a narcissist for 9 years...its always felt very CONFUSING and knowing he is a narcissist has gave me so much clarity and has helped me start this healing self love journey. its scary but kind of nice to see how many people been here and how relatable and familiar this is for so many of us and that we were not the crazy ones after all. We will get through this, we are healing through this I love you all 💙

@tanmay_6363

6 ай бұрын

😿⚘🐇

@garethbeaton8414

4 ай бұрын

Nasty people gas lighting you not cool let them know you know thay hayt it

@JessLa-ty6cy

3 ай бұрын

14 years open up my eyes onace my kid was born

@laurenwatson5748

11 күн бұрын

Yes it’s very confusing until someone can point it out. ❤best wishes on your journey of self love!

As someone who dated a Narcissist, Thank you for this song, and for the awareness of what they do to you... So many people don't know How someone like that is because They are reputable in public, but Behind the scenes super abusive where you feel like you are in Hell. I am still healing from my Past Traumas, but I am thankful I have God to lean on through this. God Bless! This is such a powerful song!

@lillianlerdo8986

Жыл бұрын

I am in this situation now and trapped 😭😭😭

@PoIeklaws

Жыл бұрын

@@lillianlerdo8986 I pray you can get out of this relationship, seek help or put a restraining order towards them if you have too! Your safety is first. You are worth it! You deserve so much more than to be treated like that!

@lillianlerdo8986

Жыл бұрын

I married him I’m so crazy for him but when I ask question or tell him things I don’t like he gets so mad 😭😭😭 always says I’m crazy or imagining things and finding out it’s true

@PoIeklaws

Жыл бұрын

@@lillianlerdo8986 I am sorry... I had an ex husband who neglected me for a year before divorcing. I feel you... Again your safety is important. You need to get some help somehow, therapy or something... I'll pray for you.

How is this song not blowing up on all platforms?!

@ianspier5437

Жыл бұрын

because many of the platforms are owned / run by these monsters. They hate having their flaws exposed. And even worse, the more of us that walk away from them for good, means their tricks don't work on us the way they want them to.

@abbz23

3 ай бұрын

I know alot of people don't belive that npd is real sad when obv it is

This song makes me feel so understood and much less alone. Thank you

Such a rough but relatable song. I needed a restraining order from my narcissist. He couldn’t grasp how I could not want to be with him anymore. It’s been a year now and I’m still working through a lot. Thank you for this song ❤

@lindasorrow5763

Жыл бұрын

I feel ya! I’m just leaving one after 24 yrs!!

@brokenbeautifuly21

Жыл бұрын

It's been 3 almost for me and my narcissist but he took my baby boy from me and he did it when I was at my grandfather's funeral due to me being there he took advantage of the fact I was grieving and I couldn't make it to court because he didn't tell me the day it was and he gave Me the wrong number and he said a bunch of shit but I had a stand by and the cops didn't say anything about it before they took my baby. Anyway I loved my narcissist so much we were in the 4th grade together and went to prom together and I will never forget about him and my child bro it hurts forever 💔

@chariseparkin2276

8 ай бұрын

❤

One of the best songs that's come out recently. You're incredibly talented, moving and beautiful. I cannot for the life of me understand how your songs are not in the top 10 of the billboard charts week after week.

I really should have heard this 20 years ago. My eyes are open now. Thank you for the validation 😢

Im just a ten year old girl and have a hard life and i so get it ! love the song 💓

You should be exceptionally proud of this song. It speaks to everyone of us who have been there too .

You seriously do write the most relatable songs

@AveryAnna

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!!

@heidiwest533

Жыл бұрын

@@AveryAnna Fr you do. Love your music sm.

The first time I heard this song I thought you nailed how millions of women felt like but never knew how to put it into words.

My mom heard this on the radio and said "Oooh that's good, save it, like it, add it to my favorites. " 😅 Love your music ❤

I can relate to this song, I was in a narcissistic abuse relationship, and it's the most painful relationship I have ever been in, and this song hit the spot. I would scream, crying to the lyrics. This song needs to win a Grammy

This song is so powerful, happy and also sad at the same time!! Such a good song and love this video!! You’re amazing and talented!❤

The fact that we finally have a video after a year and it still hits the same as it did on day one. ❤

In tears at work listening to this. This is my kids dad to a T. He broke me. Trying to build myself back.

This song speaks to me in so many ways..💔💔💔

This is not normally my type of music but it’s well written and a perfect brief description of dealing with a spouse that has NPD or traits of. I’m glad I found it! Keep healing by writing about your experiences!

My new top 5 artist list has changed. You made the top 5. Fantastic music/writing.

Thank you so much for putting this into a beautiful song. I love the video and I felt every word. You depicted what it is like to be in a relationship with a narcissist and frankly, you think you are losing your mind. This brings awareness and sanity to those that have suffered narcissistic abuse.

Great lyrics 🎼 Great voice🎤 Awesome job😍 Thank you so much for sharing ❣️

@sandyr4656

Жыл бұрын

Also hope you had a Happy Thanksgiving 🦃

@AveryAnna

Жыл бұрын

You too!

You are an artist worth supporting. Your songs have so much actual depth, they’re a joy to listen to, even if it’s a bittersweet song. Thank you for making music like this.

You're doing Flagstaff proud, Avery! Panther Pride!

I hate seeing you cry Avery for such a young talented kid it's awful to see you in pain. Keep focused your definitely one of the nicest song writers I've heard in a long time and that's coming from a man who's writing all his life. I never sang them though only to myself 🙂 you have got it all young lady keep writing keep using that beautiful voice because I wanna see you on TV 💯❤️❤️

Love this gurrl. Her voice is a melody I'm smitten to constantly

Wow. What a lovely song. Everytime I listen to you its so hard for me to hold my tears. As a victim dealing with mother and sister are Narcissist that treating me like an enermy. Does not matter how much I pour my love and show how much I care. I feel empty. If I say something Its become my fault that I hurt their feeling so I cant't say anything and willing to bite and suffer. Sadly They will never care because they only see themselves perfect and powerful and if you ask them to seek help. That will never happen. As a victim. we only can recognize that's how they are and either work around it or stay away. They are very good to lour you back into their game so they can feel more superior cause they know that you love them. We must live and learn to love ourselves first. Its no use to beat your head against the brick wall. I only can wish whoever suffer from dealing with person with Narcissist personality. Get help. You are not a bad person. You are good and you deserve more. Trust your self and don't let other BS to bring you down. XO

Narcissist won't apologize they'll turn it around and make you believe it's your fault. It's call deflecting and their good at it.

This video is an exact replica of what I was going through this year. I would literally take baths and turn music up so loud so she couldn’t hear me cry cause I didn’t want to be yelled at for crying 😔 this song has helped me so much and realize that I’m not alone like I thought I was

I was with one, still working on myself. They don't see themselves as the problem

I can relate to this song more than I could ever at any time in my 50 years.

THIS SONG SO RELATABLE 😭😭😭😭😭

This song hits home in so many ways... Thanks 🙏

Wow. This is a great song & she’s got a beautiful voice. You can see her pain. Been there. Married/divorced one.

Thank you for this song. I struggle to find the words to express my thoughts. Validation is what comes to mind. It’s not abuse he didn’t hit you is the common perception but it is abuse mental and emotional. I still after 3 years away think it was me. This song help me realize it wasn’t me. Thank you for being vulnerable for all of us!

@karenkeeney773

Жыл бұрын

My ex used to say, "At least I don't beat you!" Emotional scars cut deeply, and last a long time. 😢

❤❤❤going through this for far too long, finally breaking away! Abuse and narcissism at its finest…

Such a beautiful tribute to the reality that is so , for many of us as survivors of narcissistic abuse!

This song hit me so hard this was my in a 15 year marriage. It got so bad, the abuse was really crazy. He cost me everything I even lost my children. So thank you for this beautiful and truthful song. You are an amazing person ❤

@Mommy2anAngelbaby

Жыл бұрын

😢 I can relate to this. I've been married 13 together 16 and we're legally separated, contact states we must try to work it out, I have almost two more years before a divorce can be granted. I'm having to be his roommate and if I don't he will get the kids. The turmoil it's causing me isn't healthy. He is manipulative and abusive, doesn't care about me. Doesn't want anyone else to have me though. Does whatever he wants but calls me despicable names, wants me isolated and acts in moments for others. It's hard, when no one really knows and thinks he is outstanding. I always keep quiet, the safest thing to do. At times I'm his wife when it's convenient to him, his family thinks I'm horrible, in reality I haven't done anything to make them think that. He left me, while pregnant 2 days before Valentines. I had no clue what I did wrong, no warning. To this day he will not tell me a real reason. I no longer care.

This hit hard. More of this needs to be talked about. I was made to believe I was crazy and just over sensitive. That it was just all in my head. I was married and felt with it for 20 years. God bless you❤

@deddysudoyo5064

Жыл бұрын

You’re not alone.. and I hope you are already free from The endless pain and sadness 🙏

@SaltstringMusic

7 ай бұрын

Me 18 years. for 18 years because I just wanted a normal relationship I was told do you think marriage is a fairytale? You are so dramatic sensitive and I was regularly told that I really needed ‘help’, oh the irony

You are not crazy, you are perfect! Please don't cry and you are not overthinking or anything that could hurt someone, you are not dramatic! Simply you are perfect! Best wishes for you :)

Simply beautiful. No other words for this. It's sad too. I love it ❤️💔

This has been my favorite song for 3 months now and your singing is just so beautiful.

As someone married to one for almost 10 years, and finally realizing it while everything collapses around me… this hit home 😭 The toxic cycles, I am ashamed I let it happen.

@teebee4782

Жыл бұрын

I’m in process of trying to get away from him now. I move from our home on 3-11. We have to be living separate for year before qualifying for divorce. It’s a stupid state law.

@bojangles713

Жыл бұрын

🙏🙏

@psychicbud

Жыл бұрын

Don't be ashamed. They're good at what they do. They make you doubt yourself. I went to therapy for a reality check, and found out I wasn't crazy. Neither are you. I think you'll do fine. Good Luck!

She never disappoints

I cried so much. I love your music. You're creating music on topics we tend to keep to ourselves. Thank you

@AveryAnna

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for listening

Came out at the right time before. Now when I needed it after going through this again, you came out with this. Thank you, to anyone who can relate so sorry- stay strong

Wow, 🥺 straight to the point . Glad she made this song.

Love, love, love this song. So happy I was able to hear and see you perform it live.

Singing and songwriting at its very best! Love it!!!💕💕💕

Powerful song, and the visuals illustrate the sentiments expressed in the lyrics. Hope you're enjoying the Thanksgiving weekend, Avery Anna.

❤❤❤❤❤ Love this song❤❤❤❤❤

This beautiful song is a gift to anyone going through or who has gone through this type of relationship. I found out about this song from one of my BFFs while she works through processing her emotions around being with a narcissist for 20 years. Music can be so powerful and healing, and your song is evidence of that 🪄

this one is most appropriate for my situation. beautiful song, it works therapeutically, thank you

She has a beautiful voice. Beautiful so natural. Words are so true. ❤❤

I love you so much Avery 😘. Your songs are very powerful and full of genuine intentions ♥️ I listen to them every now and then. Love all the way from Africa, Namibia 🇳🇦

Love the song ❤❤❤

I don't think I've replayed a song so much in a long time 💔

If this not my life !!! Just found this song like a few days ago been on repeat since then !!

this song resinates with me so much!! you’re lyricals are beautiful and make me feel like i wasn’t the only one going thru that situation. you make me remember why i love music so much ❤️

I can relate so much to this song! 14 years with a narcissist!! Im so happy I'm finally free

I related to this so much from what my ex put me through. I love all your songs they are so relatable. Keep making music you are truly amazing

I absolutely love this song Thank you so much for this song it means so much ❤

This hits home 😢 so sad… three years later I’m still completely destroyed and no change in sight…. “Forever Hurt”. Beautiful song, I can’t even think of giving my heart again

such a special song! going to hit repeat for a long time on this one. 🥲🥰

This song needs to be everywhere.

Every lyric hits. But this reminds me of an ex friend of mine, I tell her about stress and she said she's going through worst and handling it better then me. We fought over my own emotions

When I listen to you I feel Like it’s me singing, you are so amazing. This song is my life.

This song go hard 🔥🔥🎯

I'm in an Awe Speechless.... You have no IDEA HOW MANY YOU ARE GOING TO HELP.. I KNOW BECAUSE it's helped ME!!

as someone who dated a narcissist for not that long but did a lot of damage, it takes a long time to heal from something like that. thank you for this song:)

This song is really touched me emotionally. I can relate to this song I live my life as a narcissist every day I can really relate to this song.

I don’t typically listen to Woman singers, call me what ever. But this song hits hard! Blessings and much love from Texas😇

From Morocco ♥️

This song is so spot on!

Y'all is a great one and words are very in touch with your song and just so much view heart ❤️ in the mix of it all every direction of being positive and amazing with the video to the fullest

Avery thank you sm for this song I love it sm and being able to scream it every time it comes on. I have never been able to relate to a song like I do this one. Love you Avery❤️

I cut off contact with somebody I believe to be narcissistic recently due to her ill-treatment. This song is both beautiful and haunting, and I'm not ashamed to admit it has made me cry a few times... 🤗 😥

3 years and he nearly broke me. So relatable ❤

What a voice! What a voice!😳👍

Your so natural and beautiful you just yourself your music express how l feel and l find it hard to express myself this song l lived that life time and time again but NEVER AGAiN thankyou god l was meant to find you and your music because l going threw a bit of hard time my daughter is in jail because of toxic people l will be telling her about you will keep her strong and back on right track she is stronger then ever now she will relate to your music to thankyou you came into our lifes 🖤🙌🤟💙🎵😇👍😘😍✌️

Your words ring so true…God bless you for what you must have gone through.

@harmonyhunt9201

Жыл бұрын

I guess shes just trying to relate with ppl bc I seen her interview and she said she's never gone through it- but she does have an amazing heart and voice😃

this is typical avery anna, way too excellent

Avery is the real thing...and on her way to becoming a 🤗 🌟✌😏

You and your song are just perfect and I hope you know that! ❤️‍🔥 Keep on doing your art bc It’s beautiful! New fan from Guatemala✨🫶🏽😋

You're amazing Avery thank you soo much for making this 😢😊 and may God bless you and everyone else

Thank you for this song! It’s getting me through the lose of my narcissistic soul mate. Onward and upward!

This song song speaks so many volumes to my story that all I can do is cry.

This is Riveting. 👏👏👏👏

You are incredibly talented. Great song. ❤👏👏👏

Almost 11 years for me. He almost killed me on Christmas Eve.

This is absolutely amazing omg!!!

It's not fair for the ones that aren't, 20+ years, SHE'S Still doing it... After separated 2 yr.

I love this song. I can relate to it.

Love it!!! Can’t wait for more episodes! 😊

This is one of the best songs ever

This is so amazing, thank you for sharing your music & incredible voice with the world

Thank you for this song! I dated a narcissist for a year! So relatable