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@alwaystired2261

6 жыл бұрын

The Aspie World helping to understand my 6 year old son that little bit better xxx

@steinistein8611

6 жыл бұрын

The Aspie World my first appointment to get a diagnosis is in less than a month, I'm here to reassure myself that it's justified, and this just confirms it once again. Thank you for doing this, I learned so much from you and it helped me to build up enough corage to act on my suspicion :) ❤️

@krystaldixon3070

6 жыл бұрын

Another awesome video Dan 😁 I have an 8 year old son with ASD specifically Asperges. Sensory processing disorder and dyspraxia. Your videos are very helpful for myself and for my friends and family trying to understand ASD

@neutralqueen1084

6 жыл бұрын

I watch to get a better understanding of aspergers syndrome and to see if I am an "aspie" because I relate to many of your videos

@carloshochuli2068

6 жыл бұрын

Because I think I have Autism

1. Standing too close to people 2. Unable to initiate conversation 3. Unable to pick up social cues/expressions 4. Difficulty to understand joke/sarcasm 5. Spontaneous comment outburst 6. Honest but inappropriate observation (have no filter) 7. Talking obsessively about specific interest 8. Unable to understand the rule of conversation 9. Unable to understand body language/gestures 10. Randomly laughing out loud 11. Detached from reality (like being in their own world) Might edit later, I'm on my phone.

@buzzsawenthusiast1756

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!! It's really hard for me to watch long videos like this!!

@yuanfeng7266

5 жыл бұрын

I have 8 out of 11 of these

@yuanfeng7266

5 жыл бұрын

Apart from 4,7 and 9

@animalstv9864

4 жыл бұрын

I'm scared of those symptoms yikes

@davigurgel2040

4 жыл бұрын

@@yuanfeng7266 same thing, actually. i'm not pretty sure if i have aspergers because i'm able to understand people fairly easily, and i can pick up jokes and sarcasm even better than most people, but i have all the other symptoms.

I relate to the laughing out loud trait so much. I busted out laughing yesterday because of a vine I saw 3 years ago. my family just looked at me weird.

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah.

@desireemccallum7229

6 жыл бұрын

Im the same. Lol :)

@Nostalgicguy2242

5 жыл бұрын

Anyone would look weird at people who explodes in bursts of laughter while watching the Saw movies..

@vice2versa

5 жыл бұрын

@@TheAspieWorld i was diagnosed twice as having aspergers but im still not totally convinced. I still feel like my issue is entirely social anxiety.

@Slackster75

5 жыл бұрын

Been there, done that. Learned to tamp it down to a silly grin. Which still looks super weird when walking down the street on my own.

In middle school someone had to explain the "how are you? Fine, how are you?" exchange. I had no clue you had to ask them back 😂😂😂

@nefertitimontoya

6 жыл бұрын

I also didn't understand why people just said fine instead of the actual answer

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

That’s ok, it can be super difficult to figure these things out.

@nefertitimontoya

6 жыл бұрын

Hey thanks for all the replies 💛 for context, I have anxiety, and recently, have been thinking that I may have ASD

@OverlyDankName

5 жыл бұрын

Sorry, but all I thought of reading this was the spongebob clip

@autumnakins7640

5 жыл бұрын

I get tired of asking back because sometimes I really dont care. I mean they're a person so I hope they're good but I dont care for boring niceties. Sometimes that's all I can think of to say though. Boring niceties.

I've spent 65+ years trying to figure myself out, why I do what I do, why I don't seem to like most people, but I've made huge strides toward becoming accepting of myself and others. I force myself to confront people, performingifor audiences, when I started memorizing and reciting sonnets, I began to talk more, without having to use a 'script'.

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Oh that is awesome.

@nathanielpeton516

5 жыл бұрын

Memorizing and reciting sonnets, I haven't thought of that technique before, but I'm excited to try it out. Thanks

@autumnakins7640

5 жыл бұрын

I like to sing but it's a lot more comfortable in front of a large crowd than a small group of people or 1 person. Too personal.

My husband is on the spectrum, and he never knows when to leave a social event. I noticed it right away when I met him. He just lingers and keeps talking, and I'm like okaaaay lets goo. Hahaha. He doesn't get the social cues of people being like " OK my party is over now". It makes me laugh.

@HarrietFitzgerald580

5 жыл бұрын

Alex Miller haha! Literally me, like ok girl you're getting kicked out, get a clue. 😅

@roguespearsf

5 жыл бұрын

Maybe he just likes to talk, not everything needs a label

@bowelrupture

5 жыл бұрын

I don't know how to leave a party without giving the feeling that i am bored. (And sometimes i am)

@autumnakins7640

5 жыл бұрын

@@bowelrupture I think that's why I stick around longer. So I dont seem rude. But then, I'm probably not talking to anyone (especially if I dont know but 1 or 2 people there-i'll just be their shadow).

@Reyiskillingit

5 жыл бұрын

Million Dollar Extreme for real. I’ve been misdiagnosed my whole life. I’m around a bunch of idiots who think I’m autistic because a doctor say a playful energetic kid (me when I was 4) and decided I was too “hyper” and stunt me with medications but that hasn’t stopped me from communicating to people with my soul essence. Read my comment I posted here as well.

Good news I'm not autistic Bad news I don't know what's wrong with me

@TheAspieWorld

5 жыл бұрын

Hey well best of luck with your diagnosing :). Please subscribe to my channel to see more videos from me :).

@Yz85rider338

5 жыл бұрын

My friend, regardless of what you think may be "wrong" don't think of it as what's wrong, think of it as what's different💙

@krisweaver8939

4 жыл бұрын

Good news? Best news I've ever received.

@user-jy9lk5jw7s

4 жыл бұрын

Why would you say that on a autism awareness channel

@Pokarface7

4 жыл бұрын

Did you find out what you have? I'm also trying to figure out

My best friend who is 65 and an undiagnosed Aspie won't let me talk to him about this. But the more I learn, the more I realize I am an Aspie also. I'm almost 71. 😊😊😊

The 3 things I have issues with: 1) I don't know how to socialize with people of the opposite sex without looking like a weirdo or creep. 2) people who I have arranged something with (ex. Band practice) and they don't respond back for 3 days, and it's usually "sorry, I was busy lol". 3) I cannot stop talking about guitars, music, and difficult video games. Like the fact that I'm obsessed with Gibson guitars, the band's Tool and Chevelle, and that I enjoy Dark Souls and BoTW.

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah I totally get these!!!

@i.d.c9414

3 жыл бұрын

Want to be friends? I like those things

OMG the spontaneous comment outburst is SOO relatable!

@arrandavid

6 жыл бұрын

The Joker its good to know as i say my parts of conversations ive been thinking of.

@Tei_022

6 жыл бұрын

XDD Ikr

@rebeccasmith5384

5 жыл бұрын

SAME!! I swear to god I was always embarrassed cause I always bursted out loud what was on my mind and I feel embarrassed later.

@rebeccasmith5384

5 жыл бұрын

Ikr???

@sittingturtleduck

5 жыл бұрын

can someone explain this? i dont understand

My nephew and boyfriend both have aspergers.. My nephew is aware of it and has been properly diagnosed. my boyfriend refuses to believe he has it and takes it as an insult when I say he does, even though he has pretty much every symptom, some of them are extreme. (I dont think I've gotten to finish a sentence in 5 years..he's *always* talking, and never knows how to end it, I hear about *everything* on his mind). My nephew has learned how to adapt and does very well but he's still autistic, so he still blurts out rude things (not with the intent of being rude, that's just how he is), and still doesn't pick up on sarcasm every time (he's pretty good at it though) .. he is thin and in shape, I'm not., one day he said to me "I only jogged 8 miles today, I need to work out more" .. I said (sarcastically) "wow, only 8 miles? you're so lazy" ..He gave me a look and I realized, he didnt pick up on that sarcasm, so I added - "I jogged 50 miles today", then he started laughing. He can get sarcasm when it's SUPER sarcastic, but it has to be obviously so.

@TheAspieWorld

5 жыл бұрын

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@ThePatrick42044

3 жыл бұрын

Well I talk about every thing that comes to my mind to. I could be talking to someone and we could be talking about something specific and from left field I come out with a whole new topic at times that has nothing to do with what's being discussed. My mother and I were talking the other night about a fight at the county fair a night or two before talking about it. My mother tried telling a joke, saying there was a fire at the county fair and tried to explain it but I totally didn't understand...

I found out I'm autistic because my 2 year old son was diagnosed last December and, like everything that interests me, I became impossibly obsessed and started realizing that almost everything described me. I'm 36 and am struggling to wrap my head around it. Your videos have been the most clarifying and descriptive as far as explaining what it all means and I truly appreciate you for this channel. 🖒✊🖖👌

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Hey that is awesome I am so happy you gain from my videos.

My 6 yr old son was recently diagnosed with aspergers is what brought me here. I’m educating myself so I can understand him better & help him better.

@TheAspieWorld

5 жыл бұрын

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And I don't get flirting at all I cant tell if she's just standing close to me or wants me to talk to her Even then I have no idea how to start a fun conversation If we arent talking about politics, history, or philosophy (and some sports) I am totally clueless

@TheAspieWorld

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah.

my daughter is mild asd 3.9 years old. i am depressed but watching you i am happy because she will be smart like you. god bless you

This reminded me of my almost 4 year old. It made me smile. Thank you for letting me understand his beautiful little world.

I met a homeless kid with autism and am trying to get him out the streets forgive my shortness but must study while he is with another trusted friend thankyou for doing ur video so I can research learn and hopefully understand god bless u

@wayfarercotons

5 жыл бұрын

Me too. He's become one of my favorite friends. Learning all I can to understand.

I get jokes but most of the time, I do not find it funny as most of them do.

@jessicaolson490

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah it seems like dissecting the joke to understand it removes the funny. or sometimes it'll seem funny a minute or two too late.

@holisticlove6631

5 жыл бұрын

@@jessicaolson490 All the time 😅

@Jesusmysavior234

5 жыл бұрын

Me too. I guess I'm autistic too.

@zoomer8367

5 жыл бұрын

That happens to everyone though?

@metbear3

5 жыл бұрын

That's it, off to the padded cell with you!

I’ve been looking up the difference between people with autism and normal people sensory problems. Someone with autism gets distracted really easily. (Just like ADHD, my brother has it) And how we cover our ears, or squint because it is too bright. Or not focus on something because, again it’s too loud or something is distracting. I’ve also been trying to find out ways girls have autism and guys do. I don’t know about anyone else.. but a I tend to get more silent melt downs when I shut down and ignore everything, my brain is too focused on the problem. I try my best not to scream or throw things. I know it hurts people, but sometimes I can’t control it. Err... and then I saw this video so I clicked on it :)

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Haha cool 😬⚡️.

@puttputt524

6 жыл бұрын

Gaming Potato if you are looking for a bit of reading on the topic you can study externalizing and internalizing behaviors with learning disabilities. There are two major presentations for both aspergers and ADHD. For example, being distracted can appear as either wall bouncing, or day dreaming which look totally opposite. Likewise, some people with AS are so socially awkward, they may keep to themselves because socializing is too intense, or from bad experiences. Others want to engage with people socially, but miss social cues and will upset people and not understand why. All presentations occur in both genders, but data clearly shows that more aspie boys are hyper active and disruptive. Most aspie girls tend to be on the quiet reserved side.

@connievasquez7971

6 жыл бұрын

puttputt524 can you please tell me how fluorescent lights affect Aspies my 13 year old grandson shuts down when he’s exposed to them!! Please explain!!💕💞

@puttputt524

6 жыл бұрын

Connie Vasquez it’s to my understanding, some people can see the lightbulb flickering from sensitivity in vision. I’ve also heard the dull humming sound we hear is entirely different for people with sensitive hearing. It’s also interesting how aspies can all experience the world differently. There are even people who only like fluorescent lighting.

@franciscabcardenas4427

5 жыл бұрын

Atypical Namjoon bias weirdo;)

I stand too far away not too close

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Ah that’s interesting.

@HarrietFitzgerald580

5 жыл бұрын

Same, although I've gotten better, but people being close to my "bubble" really used to throw me off; standing in cues is horrible.

@annetteandersen5762

5 жыл бұрын

Lauren M me to

@mayolafahira927

4 жыл бұрын

Me too!

I have been watching alot of your videos over the last few days. My 12 year old has been diagnosed with High Functioning Autism recently and I find your videos helpful in explaining the diagnosis to me. Thank you so much for being so helpful and open with everyone...

I relate to all of these. Especially saying things randomly.... and standing too far or too close to someone.

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah.

My husband was recently diagnosed aspi, you have helped us both cope so much. Thank you and please dont stop making them.

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Hey that is awesome! Thank you so much for the kind words and thank you for the comment.

I found your channel last year. I went to the hospital to finally talk to someone about my on going depression and during my session my therapist told I have sign of Asperger. After she told me that, I of course dove deep into KZread to find people who have this so I can learn more about Asperger. That's how I found your channel. Your channel has helped me understand what is Asperger. I am actually going in to get tested this Monday. I'm a little scared/nervous but I am glad I will finally have answers.

Hey Dan I just stumbled on your "10 basic points about autism" video because I recently found out that an old friend has a daughter with Autism. I wanted to tell you that your video was very informative and you are a very intelligent individual. I believe that it takes true intelligence and skill to take a complicated concept of which you may be an expert, and explain it in a manner that an uninformed person can truly understand. How've shown that you can do that. Your video presentation was well-conceived and organized, filled with lots of content, infused with personal observation and relatable examples and even blessed with the right amount of occasional humor and self-effacement. Helluva lot more effective than Wikipedia! Good work.

I am here because my son was diagnosed with autism, and I have found that I have a lot of the markers and characteristics, and your channel/feed has been extremely helpful. I spent most of my life cut off from people because i was so "different". Due to these videos I do not feel so lost or helpless anymore. Thank you so much for doing these videos!

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

That is so amazing to hear, thank you so much for all the kind words. Also thank you for the comment.

These videos help me take on some practicals to help me with everyday life, and also explain my issues to my loved ones. Thank you for your dedication to sharing our story on the spectrum. Thank you! ❤️

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Hey thank you so much for the kind words. I am so happy my videos help! Thank you for the comment.

I'm new to your channel and I love that you put the year/date in your title so that I know if I'm looking at something newer or older. Thank you!

For you putting yourself out there, people with aspergers can find their footing in the dark.. You are guiding us to find light in what appears to be our darkness. I appreciate you, you are incredible and amazing! And because of you we can recognize that we aren’t flawed but just uniquely incredible. And a lot of this worlds biggest advances and comprehensions come from people that are autistic. Because of you, we are able to appreciate what we were meant to be rather than striving to someday see in ourselves something that would have made sense to those who don’t have faith in us because they don’t know why we’re different. You wake us up to the fact we are born this way because we contribute to something that makes a DIFFERENCE! I just want you to know that you have lit a flame in many people that will make a difference in the world. I don’t know what value that may have to you but I would have liked to share such an inspiring feeling because most of the time people don’t get recognized for the differences they make until their time is over. And I think it just would have taken effort to change that, an effort that I make because you are worth knowing how much you mean. From Daniel to Dan

I really appreciate the way you addressed the traits you discussed in this video. You were very "matter of fact" about it and presented both positive and negative outcomes and it's really refreshing to see. I was diagnosed in January and one of the women in my Autistic Women's group on Facebook posted your video on autism in women. I'm now going back through all your videos so I'm caught up. :)

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Oh awesome! Thank you so much! I hope you enjoy my videos!!!

Good Afternoon, I am now the parent of an Aspie instead just having one in my charge. I am so glad I found your channel. It is so great to have someone to explain the overall HFA spectrum without having to give drudgingly lengthy bogged down wordy reports to family members which I believe they hardly read. Now, all I have to do is point them to your channel to understand a bit better. Thank you so much. :D I do remind them that if you have met one person with Autism, You have met one person with Autism. :)

@TheAspieWorld

5 жыл бұрын

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I found this channel quite recently, after a late diagnosis at 23. I am now educating myself, on how I actually work contra how I've been told to work. It's gonna be a long difficult journey, but I'll get there someday, so thank you for your part in that!

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Hey that is awesome. Welcome to the community. Thank you for the kind words and thank you for the comment 😬⚡️.

I will definitely be sharing this. Your video outlines a lot of things that can cause conflicts between me and neuraltypicals. I continue to struggle with them trying to explain this stuff, but they refuse to believe me and keep thinking that I am doing something wrong on purpose. I try to tell them "I have Aspergers" but they lash back at me with "don't make excuses" which frustrates me sometimes to having an involuntary meltdown. They don't realize that "they don't understand". I'm hoping this video will make it clear to some of them. "Some" because I cant do anything about people who stubbornly refuse to understand, even when I show them a link to this video. I am hoping some people will get it, and our clashes with neuraltypicals will be less. I love how you use the word "Condition" instead of "Disorder". I wish society would catch on to that. Even tho it is just a word, I would say "disorder" and people would object and think I am putting myself down, or they themselves would think of me as less. Good word. Much better. Thank you for this video!

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Hey thank you for the info and the kind words! Also thank you for the comment.

If I'm talking to my boyfriend, a lot of the time he doesn't acknowledge what I've said and starts talking about a different topic without commenting on what I've said lol. I've talked to him about it several times, he isn't being rude, he just doesn't understand. He'll have his thought about whatever I've said, and just not express it. He hasn't been diagnosed but I've suspected for years that he has Aspergers. He also has a bunch of other symptoms like he's obsessed with anything to do with music and he's generally precarious in the ways he does things. He also rarely picks up on my sarcasm.

@TheAspieWorld

5 жыл бұрын

Yes this is a common trait in ASD.

My son is high functioning and this interests me to see ways to understand him and help him and show him he’s lot alone.

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Yes, this is the aim of my channel to educate and help people.

Awesome video, Dan! Thanks so much for putting your heart and soul into this channel and educating others about Asperger's.

My teenage son was just diagnosed with Autism. I’m so grateful to learn more from your channel.

@TheAspieWorld

5 жыл бұрын

Hey that is awesome I love that my channel helps.

Going to see my doctor for an appointment next week. Kind of stressed about it, but relieved that I may finally be able to get diagnosed and understand myself and my struggles better

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Don’t stress, just ty and stay confident.

@thatisnonsense4509

6 жыл бұрын

The Aspie World thank’s I’ll try

I don't have much trouble with sarcasm, I get it in 2/3 cases.

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Oh that is interesting.

@user-eo8jx7jq4u

5 жыл бұрын

I think we learn to learn. With age comes wisdom. After all, we are adapting to their world not vice versa. My dad is a classic and was diagnosed at Cambridge uni because he's a twin but at 65 he's extremely capable of adapting to his environment now in comparison to himself twenty years ago.. big difference. He's still an isolating eccentric but I love my mad professor dad. He's super smart like off the chart. It makes me think that the signs and symptoms are more relevant to, say the under 35's. Anybody agree?

@abigails.9841

5 жыл бұрын

The thing with me and sarcasm is that I've become constantly on check for it. Whenever I am in a social situation, "Is this sarcasm?" is one of the first things that pops into mind. Sometimes I'll take something which should be taken seriously as something 'sarcastic' if I feel like there's the slightest chance it could be. Having difficulties detecting jokes and sarcasm was something people would really like to play around with me with when I was younger (personally, I now believe those people just couldn't believe anyone could be that bad at seeing between the lines, and thought I was just fooling around with them. Decided to give me a hard time, just like they thought I was), it did end up taking an effect on me. I believe I've gotten better at detecting it when it comes around, but I still do falter from time to time.

@abigails.9841

5 жыл бұрын

rachael m most definitely. I haven't reached 35 yet, but I do notice my improvements in social behavior and patterns as I reach it. If I were to guess, I am able to detect sarcasm 60-70 percent of the time. Individually, jokes are a little tricky, I usually just don't 'get them'. I still have a lot of social quirks and oddities to work on. I only see them improving with time.

@franciscabcardenas4427

5 жыл бұрын

That's a grand change for him. I wish I could accomplish the same with my diagnosis.

Saw u yesterday in Manchester...awesome talk..hugely motivational. Thank goodness for folk like u who r promoting autism awareness...thanks.

This is a great video, Dan. I totally agree on the trait on laughing out loud randomly. I do that all the time and I always get a lot of questions about why I'm laughing. It's a relief tbh because I thought I was the only one. Keep up with the great content and congrats on 30K. =)

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you Sez.

@autumnakins7640

5 жыл бұрын

Omg I just think of something randomly that's funny and I laugh and if its somewhere like on the city bus I get funny looks. Like, sorry, sometimes it's hilarious in here! Sometimes I'll get questioned about why I'm laughing or about a random comment (it's not random to me, but it is to everyone else apparently) and most of the time I wish I didnt explain it as requested because they look at me like I'm a weirdo alien. Or like i have a booger on my forehead.

Best videos I've seen about autism you explain everything really good Cool video😎👍

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Hey awesome! Thank you so much for the kind words and thank you for the comment.

Another great video. I wonder how tough this one was for you. You seemed to be working pretty hard. We don't want to see you burn out , Dan. I've been stuck in one over a year, take an extra rest if you can. To answer the question, I'm a subscriber and I came across your channel and you have been a great help.

Im soooo super blessed i found your video. I came here to get a better understanding about my daughter. She is 8 yrs old. Was 3 when she gotten diagnosed with autism mild to moderate. Thank you very much now i fully understand her😊.

My son was just diagnosed with ASD I always knew something but then he was diagnosed ADHD, depression, anxiety, OCD I’m a tough mom and I’m always correcting him and i thing this hurts his feelings I just want him to be the best he can be I can I’m learning that a lot of communication cannot be learned cuz his brain just is wired differently I don’t know how to parent And i also have a 12 year old son it’s been a long journey before this diagnosis

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

It is hard work and lots of learning and trying new things for everyone. Keep going you are doing awesome.

Awesome video, Dan!

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the kind words and thank you for the comment 😬⚡️.

Literally relate to all of these, especially the laughing out loud one. I’ve been subbed to you for a super long time now, I’ve forgotten which one of your videos I’ve watched first. 😂 Your videos are really good at enlightening people to what autism and other disorders are, which is why I’m a huge supporter of yours. I’m gonna buy your book soon! Great video as always!

Hey Dan, Just came across your channel and have to say thank you for making these videos. As someone who also has autism and dyslexia it’s great to see a person in my position standing up for us and help others understand how we think and operate. Keep it up and thanks again 😊

@TheAspieWorld

5 жыл бұрын

Hey thank you so much for stopping by and booming part of the family (subscribers) here!!!

I'm here because my boyfriend has Aspbergers and I wanted to learn more and then I liked your videos so I subscribed.

The editing is on point, keep it up!

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Hahha thanks!

I´m an aspie with an extra serving of ADHD. Being very late diagnosed (at 60), I appreciate having a mirror to help me understand - and I like your very straight forward way. No mystery or drama there. Thank you.

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Hey thank you for the comment😬⚡️.

Dude I love you vids, I can literally identify with every single thing you’re talking about. You’re awesome keep crushing it

I found your video while researching adults on the spectrum. I took a job several months ago and have had an unusually difficult time connecting and working with a person (note: this is highly unusual for me). I was reading into the bizarre behaviors based on my previous experience interacting in the workplace. To say the least, my opinions I was forming toward this person’s intentions and motivations were not at all favorable. Then, he made a comment that changed everything. He said, “I’m on the spectrum. I think everyone is to some extent.” I assured him that not everyone is and moved on, determined to better understand his thinking and perspectives before coming back to try and find a way to work productively and possibly to have a direct conversation about this comment of his. My goal is to work well with this person and have our work product we create together be awesome. I don’t expect him to change, but I need to change how I perceive and interact because right now it is not at all a healthy working situation and it frustrates me to no end. To be clear, I won’t cater to his behaviors that are undermining our mission. But, if I can help steer him out of situations, tap into those areas where his special thinking is helpful, and learn to have honest discourse about what it happening in our interactions, I think it would have to help both of us. Anyway, you asked us to say why we are here. That is my reason. Thank you for putting these videos out there for those of us seeking to understand! (Note: I so wish I had known he was on the spectrum earlier. I’d be interested to know if the community suggests the person with autism telling people or trying to hide it. In my case, it did a lot of damage to our working relationship to have it concealed).

@TheAspieWorld

5 жыл бұрын

Oh cool! I am super happy you are getting useful from my videos :). Please subscribe to my channel to see more videos from me :).

@jessicaolson490

5 жыл бұрын

I bet you he finally started to notice you being uncomfortable and told you to help bridge that Gap. Not formally diagnosed with ASD, but I do have a language processing disorder so when I notice people going cross-eyed over my terrible grammar during a conversation, usually I will mention it it's just to help them be my Ally by giving me a little bit of extra time to form my sentences. If he's autistic he he probably won't understand subtle cues. Try being blunt, uncomfortably so, as your natural inclination to be polite will war with this. Ask him how you could approach it. I know for me if I start to ramble I want my friends to interrupt me or que me into it bluntly. If he's standing in your personal space let him know. Just a calm, "George you need to take a step back you're in my personal bubble again". Even letting him know the measurements of your bubble. There also might be some habits he has to help regulate himself, like maybe he uses noise cancelling headphones, or changes the lighting in his office, etc. If any of those things irritate you it'd probably be best to adapt yourself in those cases. But as far as what he's crossing your boundaries just let him know that when he crossed them. (Another example, "George, I'm going to interrupt you", when he is dominating the work conversation) Might have to give him a little help like that as he's probably having challenges reading your body language that would be normally telling a person that you're uncomfortable. I'm glad you're trying to learn about why he behaves the way he does, and again understanding why does it mean you have to put up with it, but it will give you insight into when you need to be more blunt with your language with him. GL 🙂

Hey Dan another fantastic video yes I talk all the time about my special interest such as politics and The Bill and Buffy

@mikelmontoya2965

6 жыл бұрын

Gemma Grace politics is my (main, I have a few actually) special interest too!! I mean, I study political sciences at college and even the people in my class get annoyed at me for talking too much about it

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@anascarlet

6 жыл бұрын

Buffy the Vampire Slayer is awesome! xD My favourite character is Spike

I find your voice very comforting. Thank you for making this channel. It makes me feel so much better about my challenges which comes along with aspergers. Your videos help me understand more about myself and I am very very grateful! 😊 Thank you thank you thank you so much! ❤

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Oh that is awesome!!! Thank you for the words.

the reason i looked this up was to help a friend .i had no idea you would help me .thank you.

I'm a girl with aspergers and when I was little my mom never seemed to understand things I did saying I was rude or something shouting at me for not says please and thank you or how are you or that so now I do it mechanically of habit because I didn't like being scolded. Of course my mom would say she never yelled at me for it. "I raised my voice" she'd say and get really defensive. Now I have basically the best manners in my my high school just because it became automatic out of fear of being scolded I wasn't diagnosed until an incident at school

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Hey thank you for the comment.

I would like to know more about the fact that many people with AS view the world and think it's only about them and no one else.

@jessicaolson490

5 жыл бұрын

That's not a symptom of Asperger's, viewing the world as about them and no one else is typically a symptom associated with someone with NPD, a sociopath, or psychopath. These are the types that view the world more as we would view a video game world in that the people around us are NPCs made to prop up our own story. Sometimes people with ASD or Asperger's are considered as having low empathy, but this is more related to a disconnect from being able to read somebody's body language (understand their emotional state) and also a disconnect on how to act appropriately when we do realize what their emotional state is. Also it is almost just as difficult for neurotypical to understand somebody with Asperger's point of view. The way the mind works is different enough that it's hard to comprehend how the other person views the world. There is a subtle distinction though in believing that other people are nonentities and that the world is only you. Some also feel that people with Asperger's also have too much empathy and not enough ability to express it properly, this being one of the reasons leading to meltdowns. Anyway I'm just a nurse not a psychologist, but I do have enough experience to know the difference between not viewing the world is full of other people versus just having trouble expressing exchanging empathy.

Came across your video after searching “how to better understand my child with mild autism” Bc my now 3 year old son has been officially diagnosed recently and since I personally have no experience or knowledge on this I am desperately wanting/looking for any helpful information from people who share same condition for insight on how and what my son physically and emotionally experiencing..thank you so much for your easy to understand/blunt but VERY helpful tips and things to look out for. Since he’s not yet fully talking it’s makes such a big difference hearing from your personal experiences. I am also very interested and needing to understand/learn more about why sometimes will be stemming (physically/mentally) and how to possibly help him substitute one action for possibly another one that’s more “socially acceptable” if you could shed as much light and understanding on that topic it would be SO appreciated! Thanks again

Thank you so much for producing these video they really help me understand my condition and what I can do to improve myself.

@TheAspieWorld

5 жыл бұрын

Hey no problem!!! Thank you for the kind words!

I haven't been formerly diagnosed. I'm 30 years old, and my therapist says that despite having a lot of the symptoms, in New York State, there's a cut off point of diagnosis of age 10 I think? It was either 10 or 17, I can't remember. But your videos help me feel less alone, at the very least, and less like an alien.

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Hey, there shouldn’t be a cut of time for you to be diagnosed. Thank you for the kind words and the comment 😬⚡️.

@BradPwnsU

6 жыл бұрын

Jess Stone Asperger’s is a life long disorder, there isn’t any reason for there to be a cutoff point for diagnosis. You should probably seek another therapist or psychologist.

@sirenswake9768

5 жыл бұрын

NY is garbage. Keep trying

For me with the understanding people’s facial expressions or tones or voices or emotions I actually have the opposite to the norm. I’m paranoid about it and am constantly scanning and assuming about how they’re feeling based on auditory and physical cues . I feel like that’s where my autism therapy growing up sorta backfired because I used to be the norm and now I went wayyyy to the other side

@TheAspieWorld

4 жыл бұрын

Facial expressions are so hard!! Thank you so much for the comment! Please subscribe to my channel to see more videos from me :).

@turtleanton6539

Жыл бұрын

Agreed❤❤❤

So I’m 49 yrs old a known about 8yrs I was on the spectrum. My nephew was diagnosed at 3 yrs old and my sister and I really dove into it! This video and others are amazing , informative , and confirming . Thank you for helping realize that I am not just a spaz daydreamer who just needs to learn to focus. When I do focus it’s for life! My topic I talk about consistently (to the point of clearing a room) is mysticism! You can only imagain as you love liens. Thanks again for giving this enlightening video.

@TheAspieWorld

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for the comment! Please subscribe to my channel to see more videos from me :).

I love your videos and share them often!

Was just diagnosed two weeks ago at age 38 and so many of these ‘quirks’ I have. My psychiatrist considers me high functioning I’m curious if I am high function because I had to adapt so much with no help.

I'm about to turn 40 and I think I'm an aspie. I've been hearing and reading about asd and a lot of things make sense now. I also have ADHD, depression, and general anxiety. But by putting a label on it, at least I know where to start.

@AILINX

4 жыл бұрын

My mom just told me I may have aspie. I'm 39 now. It wow makes a lot of sense why I am the way I am. But doesn't obsession = perfection? I've been taking CBD and noticed a lot of differences with my social awkwardness I had before. More eye contact now as well ect.

First of all thank you very much for your excellent video. I am a practitioner and I must admit that I learn huge from your video.

Every time I watch your videos it makes me so 😊 HAPPY. You give me HOPE for my 5 year old son. My son has ASD(HF), ADHD and OCD. I love him so much. I wouldn't change a thing. He also understands joking. He jokes with us, I find it interesting. I hope he turns out as awesome as you 👍.

I am smirking like crazy because of how funny it is that I can relate to these... I don't know why, lol.

Nice video! I can certainly relate. Out of curiously have you heard of the use of Autism service dogs?

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Hey thank you, no I have not 🧐.

@OakCroftFilms

6 жыл бұрын

That's one thing that I talk a lot about on my channel. I have one. They help with sensory relief and deep pressure therapy.

@AusticHardOfHearingSinger

6 жыл бұрын

Nathan Selove How to get one for myself cus I have ASD?

@OakCroftFilms

6 жыл бұрын

I have a video about it on my channel but the short version is that you apply to a service dog agency. It's a long process and you will likely be put on a waiting list but a service dog is a major commitment. If you live anywhere near Pennsylvanian I would recommend looking at Susquehanna Service Dogs.

@AusticHardOfHearingSinger

6 жыл бұрын

Nathan Selove Okay. :) I will. It is worth the wait to get one.

My 8 year old son is diagnosed with showing signs of autism and sensory processing disorder along with OCD. I find your videos helpful in me understanding certain traits he possesses along with how he thinks. Thanks

i don’t really have any of these symptoms but i’m so freaking self conscious about everything i do that i automatically jump to extremes such as being autistic, but in reality i’m just worrying about it too much. regardless, this was super helpful and i love your videos!

I actually do get a lot of jokes but some I don’t 😂😂

@TheAspieWorld

5 жыл бұрын

👍🏼

I can't communicate right and I feel like I talk too loud and talk too much and am very emotional very quickly.

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

It’s ok dude hang in there.

@thedtw_

5 жыл бұрын

Same

I watched your video because my 3 almost 4 year old son has been diagnosed with high functioning autism. So I have been really curious about how adults or older people with the same diagnoses go about their day and experiences. I must say that you are very interesting and explain things in a way that I understand. I hope I can watch more videos and learn more about how my son's future might be. Thank you very much for putting your insight up for a better understanding of Autism. My son is not yet able to communicate or answer questions. He does not give hints as to what he may be feeling really. I keep track of when he should be hungry or thirsty. He is super smart and brilliant at things he obsesses over

I have 3 of the traits you are taking about. Thanks for describing all of them and understanding that they are common.

Does this apply to all ASD? My doctor speculates that I am high functioning, but I’m not sure what this means. I have some of these characteristics, but I will generally recognize the issue and correct it. Like speaking out of turn or standing too close. I definitely space out and live on my own uniworld. He did diagnose me with ADHD and I have 99% of those characteristics. Being an older adult, getting such a diagnosis late in life has been difficult. Thank you for sharing!

@jessicaolson490

5 жыл бұрын

ADHD diagnosis helps you with all of your challenges as your doctor gives you the tools needed, I'd say the distinctions probably subtle enough not to matter. However I do think if you have a s d rather than ADHD, as you go through treatment for that condition you will notice it failing to help in the realm of socializing. I definitely talk to your doctor about it too, sometimes these conditions can be very subtly different, so the true diagnosis comes forth as you eliminate other diagnosis. also as to your original question the reason they named it autism spectrum disorder, is due to the fact that it's such a broad range of differences between individuals falling under the umbrella. Look on your journey!

@jaeshasway

5 жыл бұрын

Jessica Olson Thank you!

I was wondering if difficulty concentrating is also one of the common traits? Like everytime I'm doing a math question and suddenly someone asks me something irrelevant or simply point at something they don't understand then my entire glass of water (aka concentrating mind) is sort of infused with black tea and I had to throw away the water and refill it again to concentrate on the math question... I know it doesn't make sense but I always compare my state of mind to random images in my head(?) btw love your videos and the improving quality

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Yes it is a trait. Thank you for the kind words and thank you for the comment.

You are editing is just awesome, really well done!

@aquamarine0023

6 жыл бұрын

*Your

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks dude!!!

My daughter has Asperger/autism and it’s wearing me out. I am trying so hard but I’m a single mom and deal with her alone. Alllllll the time. She’s 7 and I thank you for your videos. They really help me🙏🏼

I've got all of these besides some kinds of literal interpretation. I actually use and understand sarcasm a lot but sometimes it's difficult for me to tell if someone is joking or not. This year for my school picture after it was taken I told the guy I thought I blinked and he jokingly said he would photoshop eyes onto it and all I needed to do was choose the eye color. I was just like "blue is fine, thanks" and when I told my parents about it they had to explain he was joking lmao. Also I like your dog, what's his name?? ^_^

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the comment. My dog is called Randell 😬⚡️.

Hey Dan, I have commented on your video's before and I have been on your channel for a while that also the reason how I came to this video. The reason why I came to your channel is that I was wondering what autism is because many family members including my parents have told me that I probably have autism. Even though my parents have told me on several occasions that I probably have autism and am probably gifted, so I most likely have aspergers. But they have not tested me for any of those things, could you give me some reasons on why I should get myself tested? Bye from Ariana, 16yo from the Netherlands

Hi Dan, I started following you because I suspect my husband has Aspergers. We’re not seeking a diagnosis as he is 63, but your videos describe him to a tee for the most part. Thanks for sharing! Debbie

@TheAspieWorld

5 жыл бұрын

Oh best of luck with everything! I hope I help :)! Please subscribe to my channel to see more videos from me :).

These videos helped lead me to believe i was autistic and get a diagnosis. So much helpful information and life hacks that make my life easier

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

That is awesome! Thank you for the comment 😬⚡️.

Cheeky shoutout there ta, I need to still explain that joke then haha

@williamromero-auila7129

6 жыл бұрын

Connor Ward. I don't get it...

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Haha 🔥.

I have a male friend, 51, who is frustrating to interact with for all the reasons you mention, but will not acknowledge any of the behaviors, or rather justifies them. I'm constantly thinking how to help him, especially as he is stuck in life. This is useful.

I'm over here nodding because I never realized until I started watching youtube videos about people that have autism, more specifically adults and I'm over here nodding cos I realize I have a lot of these traits. I mean, I know I'm high functioning but I never realized I had these many traits.

@TheAspieWorld

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah.

I love your dog 🐕 Is it a Jack Russel terrier? I have a Jack Russel terrier they are really smart dogs

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Yes it is a Jack! His name is Randell and he’s awesome (sometimes) 😬⚡️.

@autumnakins7640

5 жыл бұрын

What's the story, Wishbone?

This is my daughter 100% lol love that girl

Hi Dan, I watch your videos to help me better understand my 6 year old Granddaughters autism. She is very high functioning but has difficulty understanding everything you discussed. I am constantly evaluating my knowledge and daily interactions with her. She is an amazing little girl. She is brutally honest, never lies, has no concept of social niceties/rules. She doesn’t understand jokes but got a joke book and practices 😂 and whatever you do, unless you have an hour spare, don’t mention the characters from in the night garden or the teletubbies! I am in awe of her, she is amazing. I hope you realise how valuable the information, you take time to pass on,in your videos is. Xxxx

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Hey thank you for the kind words, and thank you for the comment 😬⚡️.

Peace!:) I watched this video because I am a subscriber and it came up recomended by youtube because i have Aspergers AND ADHD and my life is SO dificult and I am SO stressed out and I the topic of autism is on my mind because it is my only Way to make sense of my allmost unsolvable issues. So Thank you for this. I actually consider making videos myself if I can work myself through the practical steps. Thank you again. My main interest is astrophysics and all kinds of physics and evolutions of things

I find that I can see things in people before they even know themselves. It might be their body language, micro expressions or energy, I totally freak people out with this ASD super power. I did enjoy the TV series Lie to Me, I sometimes see a thousand words in a person's glance but my other spectrum friends are completely oblivious. Knowing when it's time to go, stay out of trouble and who is the one that really should not be trusted.

My son is really into aliens right now. He even thinks he is one and has a name for the planet he comes from and what language he speaks on that planet. He really makes me laugh, such an amazing imagination he has x

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Haha aw that’s super funny 😬⚡️.

@alwaystired2261

6 жыл бұрын

The Aspie World he has even said today he came from a capsule....if only he really knew where he did come from lol x

@palomas9559

5 жыл бұрын

Awww he sounds so cool!

@Reyiskillingit

5 жыл бұрын

xrach wellsx can you record and post his stories

@blueknew

4 жыл бұрын

xranch wellsx Your son might as well be something they refer as a starseed.

i watched this video 'cause of the Netflix show Atypical. Made me realize I didn't know much about autism and I wanted to see how accurate the show was representing people on the spectrum.

thank you for making these videos. My son who is 16 has every single one of these characteristics..

Im actually crying right now I am feeling sad and stressed because no one will diagnose me. All the councillors and physiatrists put me down because I am apparently “moody teenage girl” I can very relate to all of these, i have a question, what difference will it make to get diagnosed? Will somehow my meltdowns will lessen? No. So what’s the point now?

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Hey do not worry. The official diagnosis will come and you will find s way to get there. In the mean time, know that not everyone in the spectrum has a diagnosis. I run a fan / Suppoet Page on Facebook where you can talk to others in the same position if that may help? The link is in the description 😬.

@jessicaolson490

5 жыл бұрын

Having official diagnosis can help with school in that they modify school for your needs depending on what they are. For example I can't remember something that's told to me for more than about 30 seconds, and I can't write notes while listening to the teacher. So one of the things that happened after I got my IEP, was that teachers always had my assignments written down on a paper to hand to me, and they would give me a printout of their lecture notes etc. So a diagnosis can get you special services like to help with some of your roadblocks and if your school has a specialist they can begin teaching you life skills that will help with some of the harder aspects of your condition (asd or other condition like ADHD, ect). However if nobody will diagnose you you can still proceed on your own to seek out ways to overcome some of your personal challenges. I would recommend looking for books written by aspies for aspies, there are also guides on how to live with ASD, so while your school might not provide the tools you need there are other sources like like books these type of KZread videos and the community of other people with Asperger's or ASD. I recently listened to one audiobook that was awesome, the author had Asperger's and she went over in detail a lot of social do's and don'ts and why, as well as life skills that that girls with Asperger's tend to need more help with. it was very eye-opening and it's something I wish I had been able to read well in middle School. I believe it was Asperger's and Girls, and it's labeled as having excerpts from Tony attwood Temple grandin. You can check to see if you can get it for free from your library. I liked it so much I actually ended up buying it on audible so I can listen to it again. It's something I would give my own daughter if she was struggling like I did when I was younger.

I need help. How do I tell my mom that I have Autism/Aspergers? As a girl too. I tried telling her and she does not believe it. I started realizing I was bad at making friends in 1st grade.. OH AND I JUST STARTED MIDDLE SCHOOL! ITS EVEN WORSE NOW. Can anyone help me?

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

You have to just have confidence and be honest.

@puttputt524

6 жыл бұрын

Gaming Potato talk to your school counselor. This is the exact situation they help students think about.

@jessicaolson490

5 жыл бұрын

You likely can't convince your parents that's in denial outside of having a professional diagnose you. Because you're a minor you can't simply make the appointment yourself however, like somebody else suggested speak with your school counselor. Schools are set up to test and diagnose learning differences including autism, they're also required to pay for the services and the testing. getting a teacher or two on your side will also help because they can push for you to be tested by the school. Unfortunately they might still need your mother's permission to do any of this. If she keeps pushing it off and preventing the school from testing you, as you approach 16-18 try to see if you can do it yourself through school system. I was 19 when I graduated high school, and in that last year I was the one that was in charge of my IEP (which is what they call your learning plan when you're not neurotypical).

@Jesusmysavior234

5 жыл бұрын

Try juicing the flower of the cannabis plant. It will balance your whole body.

I came here because of a post I read on a child having autism and meltdowns. I'm 33 and also have these little meltdowns, have very hard time making eye contact, and can be distant from people, I can go a whole day without talking, I see people interacting with others and the world while I just observe.

Love your videos. Very informative & inspiring. I wish you so much success and happiness. Have subscribed.

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so mound for the kind words and thank you for the comment and subscribing 😬⚡️.

Upload videos on alien lifefoorms.

@TheAspieWorld

6 жыл бұрын

I may do!!!