My teacher showed this to our psychology class in Australia , for our exams found it really helpful , thankyou :)

Having, worked with perpetrators of abuse , I have heard all the excuses under the sun from distorted perceptions of faith ( and I am talking all faith here ) to "she didn't iron my shirt properly".I know of no faith that prescribes abuse in contemporary society, however I have met lots of individuals who use any excuse to justify partner violence. Religions don't perpetrate abuse , individuals do , and they have a choice it's called free will!!

@DrB81

Жыл бұрын

I don’t think you are taking into account a sociological aspect where socio-economic factors such as poverty can indeed engender addiction issues-which in turn influence abusive or violent relationships. Good video nonetheless. 👍.

Thank you very much for this greatly structured and informative presentation about the attachment theory!

You get right to the heart of the matter. Great job! Thank you!!!

Thank you for sharing your information and making it so accessible, xx

This was done so well, thank you.

Congratulations, its a magnificent explanation.

You are a god and have saved my academic life!!! Thank you

Thanks for creating the content. Easy language and great explaining of theories.

Great explanation! Thank-you🙏🏼

The avoidant/ambivalent caregiver behaviours are switched here I think, good to be wary of that. Otherwise, this video is helpful!

@serfanful

Ай бұрын

Fully agreed. I think he confused them

Great content, easy to understand. Thank you for providing this great resource.

Thanks alot this came in handy❤

Amazing. Very helpful. Thank you!

Thank you for sharing. It is helpful as I am preparing for my presentation about this theory next week.

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The key feature of ambivalent attachment is that the parent figure is INCONSISTENT - sometimes available and other times not. This is what creates the ambivalence. The child does not know how the adult is going to react - so they crave the attention but they resent it at the same time.

@Counsellingtutor1

8 жыл бұрын

+Martin Goodwin Pretty much what I alluded to in the video

@mickeycuf

8 жыл бұрын

+CounsellingResource I think you mixed up caregiver behavior for ambivalent attachment and avoidant attachment.

Well done, good teaching!

Great exam revision thanks!

super duper....helpful to my assignment:)

That's awesome. Thank you sir !

Really helpful when reading notes on children's panel hearings and being able to relate the information to what I have just watched here, Will be looking into this some more for sure. Thank you.

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Doing an essay on attachment for uni... U just saved me a lot of time! Thank you!

@dhankumarikarki3629

5 жыл бұрын

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Thank you

Very enlightening, I'm the proponent of this theory myself...

Thanks a lot!!

Very good!

Thank you so much for this. I have watched a number of your videos in perpetration for my exams and they have helped greatly. Keep up the good work and thank you

Very good.

Lovely video, extremely helpful, do you do private lessons? cheers buddy ;) xoxoxox

Merci pour ces présentations en anglais...Je suis étudiante en psycho et cela va m'aider...

My second video on attachment expands on the theory and indeed credits Ainsworh for developing attachment styles.

@eddietrases1018

2 жыл бұрын

Where can be relate the attachment theory into the learnered center principles?

Nice explanation

I thought the attachment types stemmed from Mary Ainsworth and her 'Strange situation'.

@RuthHawcroft

5 жыл бұрын

Ainsworth was a student and then colleage of John Bowlby :) There's a great journal I'm using for my assessment called "The origins of Attachment Theory: John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth" by Inge Bretherton (1992) if you're interested, it would be worth a read

Interesting.

The slide in time 5:37 is not consistent with Wikipedia Attachment theory. Ambivalent/Resistant Caregiver: Inconsistent between appropriate and neglectful responses. Generally will only respond after increased attachment behavior from the infant.

this helped so much with my first assignment. thank you!

@dhankumarikarki3629

5 жыл бұрын

can you help me coz had assignments to submit this week 😢😢😢

Thankyou for your reply. My concern was more to do with the nature of Islamic spousal abuse, or any abuse that occurs in a marriage with the apparent permission of religions. I am hoping the future shapes healthier human attachment in marriage and indeed healthier detachment during divorce. :)

Slightly disappointed that the author of the video credited Bowlby with the attachment styles and not Mary Ainsworth who termed the first three (secure, ambivalent, and resistant), or Mary Main, who later identified the disorganized type.

Thanks heaps! Really helpful for my psych studies. :) p dot s - where are you from? I couldn't quite place the accent!

think you got Ambivalent and Avoident mixed up here?

Can you please provide the resources ?

@nicinacnoo

5 жыл бұрын

Hamda Ahmd tap the triangle on the right below the video, then click on counsellingtutor.com. Scroll down and there is a link there that mentions references /resources...

Correct me if i'm wrong, but isn't the attachment theory undertaken by Mary Ainsworth?

@Counsellingtutor1

9 жыл бұрын

Bowlby 69 - Ainsworth 73 watch the other videos to find out more

@Puccalisious

9 жыл бұрын

Ainsworth was Bowlby's pupil. Therefore their theory is relatively the same and hard to separate, hence why most teachers tend to teach both together as Bowlby's and Ainsworth's attachment theory

on the caregiver behaviour

Some mix up between ambivalent and avoidant here

I think the info on Avoidant and Ambivalent was incorrect. Avoidant attachment is when a caregiver has little or no response to a child’s needs; Ambivalent attachment is when a caregiver responds inconsistently to a child’s needs, the caregiver is sometimes sensitive, sometimes neglectful.

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How does our society explain when the 'sense of self-entitlement' of abuse of power - when occurs in marriage. In terms of domestic violence, is the violent partner suffering an 'attachment disorder'?

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having disorganized attachment is TUFF sometimes you gotta be daddy

you forgot one thing, its not a BOND! a bond is a one way relationship, this si TWO WAY

That conspiracy loses much of its ‘weight’ when one factors in Mary Ainsworth

@Counsellingtutor1

3 жыл бұрын

Ainsworth's research came to prominence in the 1970s, 20 years after post-war governments had leveraged Bowlby's Thieves study,(1944) to allow returning Soldiers to go back to employment, they also removed nursery provision.

Yes you are correct , have you seen this presentation kzread.info/dash/bejne/qqOok6RudZjVf9I.html

To refute some obsolete pseudo-feminist critique. Primary caregiver does not have to be female. It can be male too. Also, primary caregiver does not have to be biological parent. Male are well equppied to provide sustainable child care as long as they have been brought up and educated in how to do it (not talking about physiological abilities like breast feeding etc) . No one is born with such knowledge, neither males nor females. You learn it on the way. Sadly, in our culture, males are not brought up to have capacity to express and learn such behaviour as it is delusionary considered as unmanly.

The caregiver behaviour in this video is the wrong way round. Children with Ambivalent attachment had parents who were inconsistent. Children with Avoidant attachment had parents who were unavailable and encouraged independence.

As a counselor I understand the goal with this theory - however....as a Christian, we know this is not our home and our primary relationship is with Jesus Christ. When we walk in his ways, you would be amazed at how well he heals our troubled hearts and our troubled relationships.

I just wish that all these presenters will use a better talking to explain theory rather than reading than out. The contents are good. But I get nothing out of your reading.

@Counsellingtutor1

6 жыл бұрын

"A better talking" I come from Manchester - we all pretty much talk like this, and there is only one presenter.

Thank you