Are you troubled by Aisha's (R) marriage?

What happened when a non-Muslim learned about 'Aisha (R), beyond just the age when she married the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ? Sh. Omar Suleiman shares this heartening story.
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  • @Ahmed-ns2fr
    @Ahmed-ns2fr2 жыл бұрын

    "Hazrat Aisha(RA) said: The Messenger of Allah gave us CHOICE and we CHOSE him, so there was no divorce." [Sunan Nisai 3203]

  • @Random.Adventures.
    @Random.Adventures.3 жыл бұрын

    Jazakallah Omar, this was a hard thing for me to grasp and you have made it easy for me to understand. May Allah make this life and the here after easy for you :) Jazakallah for Yaqeen Insitute your information helps for reverts like myself and born muslims/ non muslims

  • @Diamondraw4Real

    @Diamondraw4Real

    3 жыл бұрын

    Maesha Allah

  • @al7422
    @al74225 жыл бұрын

    My dad used to tell us stories about the prophet Muhammad (pbuh) and Aisha (Ra.) And their love for each other. And wallahi I want a marriage as beautiful as theirs. It really hearts my soul when people portrait this beautiful relationship of the prophet (pbuh)and Aisha (Ra.) as something wrong. May Allah guide us all.

  • @KarimIsKimo

    @KarimIsKimo

    5 жыл бұрын

    @al-Haifawi even if it is hit, it is not like he continued furthermore and started beating her, anyone with common sense would know it was to teach her. Islamphobes just desperatly try to search for anything aganist Islam...

  • @nathannoel4948

    @nathannoel4948

    5 жыл бұрын

    Muhammad and aisha is political married who plany by abu bakar, soo he can get the Mohammad influce.

  • @learyhaywood9147

    @learyhaywood9147

    5 жыл бұрын

    I am a Christian. I am compelled by Jesus Christ to say in all truth that i love muslims. However when i look at the evidence of islam i see nowhere how one can atone for their sins. In the Judeo-Christian worldview there is a sacrifice. God in the form of a man, died on the cross, raised on the 3rd day. The evidence is clear. Secular sources are there. Read! 'Allah' is not eternal, because 'love' is eternal. For allah to be love, then it would open up the following; the subject(allah) loves( the object). However we never find this object eternally. Allah could not have been loving himself eternally. Where is the object? This shows that allah is not who he claims to be. In the alternative worldview we have God the Father(subject), God the Son(object). This shows that The father eternally was loving the Son. I could go on here, but it would be pointless, if you cant get past this alone. God bless. John 3:16

  • @FikiFirmansyah

    @FikiFirmansyah

    5 жыл бұрын

    Pathetic

  • @yasirkhan-lc9co

    @yasirkhan-lc9co

    5 жыл бұрын

    @b king 🤣🤣🤣 lol people

  • @AbdullahZaman-tj7hp
    @AbdullahZaman-tj7hp5 жыл бұрын

    May Allah bless all the wifes of the Prophet (saw), especially Khadija(ra) and Aisha(ra).

  • @rockedwow7217

    @rockedwow7217

    5 жыл бұрын

    @b king show me the proof, if you're to be truthful?

  • @MVPA-io5ee

    @MVPA-io5ee

    5 жыл бұрын

    @b king Imam Ali? Spotted SHIA CULT...

  • @qaddumi8582

    @qaddumi8582

    5 жыл бұрын

    Guys this b king is a shia also abu bakr omar othman ali (ra) are from the mubashireen which means will go to jannah and you know whoever says vulgar words towards the sahabah he is cursed by Allah (swt) his angels and people so you are the loser you shia

  • @qaddumi8582

    @qaddumi8582

    5 жыл бұрын

    @b king just stop talking your hurting your self

  • @fardowdo30yaayamaxammed6

    @fardowdo30yaayamaxammed6

    5 жыл бұрын

    @b king greatest female. leader. in. JANNAH 1. and. only. FATIMA ♡AS♡ BINT. RASOOL. (SAW) the. Queen. of. heaven peace. and. bleesing. be. with her. ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡ 2 maryam. (as ) 3 asiya. (as) 4 khadija ra ( AISHA.) RA. ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡ PEACE. AND. BLESSING. BE. WITH. THEM. ALL. ♡♡♡♡♡

  • @TheSaramontano
    @TheSaramontanoАй бұрын

    "The Messenger of Allah [ﷺ] married me when I was six years old, and consummated the marriage with me when I was nine, and I used to play with dolls." Aisha [RA], in Sunan an-Nasa'i 3378; Vol. 4, Book 26, Hadith 3380. Don't put flowers in dry land because the land doesn't bloom, but the flowers die: Not even the physiology of a girl who still played with dolls (an immature girl, because human figures are not allowed to mature/adult Muslims) is prepared to receive the physiology of an adult man. This is disturbing....but the most disturbing thing is to see apparently worthy people defending obvious barbarities. And I imagine how many children suffered because of this deviated example...

  • @ambitiousmuslimrecordings3451

    @ambitiousmuslimrecordings3451

    Ай бұрын

    You watch men in women’s makeup read cards that some human made to sell for profit that are somehow supposed to dictate any sort of possible future in your life. You are not mentally capable to comment on this topic. Continue entertaining yourself and distracting your mind from reality. Good luck with your severe anxiety and depression.

  • @luy0op860

    @luy0op860

    3 күн бұрын

    but he didnt put anything in a dry land, did you even watch atleast 0.1 second of the video ?

  • @Nymph562

    @Nymph562

    22 сағат бұрын

    Arab counted their wife ages after puberty

  • @shahdtarik9051
    @shahdtarik90513 жыл бұрын

    The comments are so hard to read. It’s depressing to see all these ignorant people attacking Islam and our beloved prophet without freakin educating themselves more. Stand strong brothers and sisters, one day this will be over. Stand strong. Hasbeya allahu wa ne’ma al wakeel.

  • @iMan-610

    @iMan-610

    Жыл бұрын

    Aisha was 19 years old. In Bukhari 476 we can see that when her father Abu Bakr accepted Islam in 610,Aisha attained the age of puberty. The marriage with the Prophet a.s happened in 624, 2 year after Migration(Hijrah) to Medina. This would make Aisha about 19-20 years of age when she consummated the Marriage with Prophet Muhammad a.s. Aisha r.a was 19 years old, when she consummated the marriage with Prophet Muhammad a.s! Islamic scholar Ibn Kathir (1301-1373) wrote in his book "Al-bidayya wal-nihaya": "Asma died in 73 A.H (After Hijrah) at the age of one hundred (100) years. She was ten (10) years older than her sister Aisha." This would make Asma 28 years of age in 1 A.H, thus making Aisha 18 years old in 1 A.H and 19 years old when she consummated the marriage with Muhammed a.s, because the consummation of marriage happened 2 years after Hijrah (Migration) to Medina

  • @Saif_Iamgreat

    @Saif_Iamgreat

    Жыл бұрын

    As salamu Alaikum my dear brother. May Allah preserve brothers like you.

  • @katsoq3506

    @katsoq3506

    Жыл бұрын

    @@iMan-610 that’s actually not true but I respect you .Keep in mind Prophet Muhammad PHUH died when Aisha was 18 years old when he died .

  • @RobenArjen

    @RobenArjen

    Жыл бұрын

    It also because of our Sunni Hadith defames our prophet

  • @muhammadhashir2042

    @muhammadhashir2042

    7 ай бұрын

    ​​@@iMan-610agree. But if hazrat ayesha was 9 year old there is nothing wrong in it. Because in that time age does not matter. Puberty matters. In jews rebbeca 3 when she married issac. In christan Mary was 13 and Joseph was 90 and in Hinduism karishna married 8 year old rukhmani before puberty.

  • @snowflake1458
    @snowflake1458 Жыл бұрын

    How beautiful that this woman named her daughter after our mother Aisha (RA)

  • @vaishamarohombsar1252
    @vaishamarohombsar12523 жыл бұрын

    Maa Shaa Allah 💕

  • @427skies
    @427skies5 жыл бұрын

    Hello, I am looking to do more research on the Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) and his life. Can anyone direct me to books about that?

  • @rosannag9098

    @rosannag9098

    5 жыл бұрын

    427IndigenousSkies there is an Oxford college textbook, “a very Short Introduction:Islam” it’s a short read on amazon for less than 5 dollars with shipping.

  • @moeezawan2329

    @moeezawan2329

    5 жыл бұрын

    'Muhammad: Man and Prophet' by Adil Salahi

  • @mohammadhaseeb122

    @mohammadhaseeb122

    5 жыл бұрын

    Muhammad by Martin Lings

  • @zohamuslimah

    @zohamuslimah

    5 жыл бұрын

    One of the most authentic biographies of the Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) is the book sealed nectar also known as Ar-Raheeq Al-Makhtub

  • @sheikhheisen

    @sheikhheisen

    5 жыл бұрын

    Try "When the moon split" and "The Sealed Nectar"

  • @flastnm5551
    @flastnm55515 жыл бұрын

    Maa shaa Allah! Well said, brother.

  • @aspiritfromallaahtheomnisc3245
    @aspiritfromallaahtheomnisc32453 жыл бұрын

    Chapter: In defense of Imam Al-Bukhaari (رحمه الله), and Abu Bakr As-Saddeeq (رضي الله عنه) Laws of England by Sir William Blackstone, says that the law of England allowed, at the age of 7, a girl can be betrothed and married with the consent of her parents. This was a book that was written about the jurisprudence of English people in the 19th century. The cultural aspects of marriages between cultures have similar aspects in maintaining modesty and chastity before the 19th century. Aisha (رضي الله عنها) was betrothed (engaged) to the Messenger of Allaah (اللهم صل على محمد وأزواجه) at the age of 6. The Messenger consummated the marriage WITHOUT having sexual intercourse at the age of 9, by bring her to his living quarters. She didn't see his (صلى الله عليه وسلم) private parts UNTIL a day after Ghazwa At-Tabuk, which means she was about 14 years of age or older. I believe this is a hadith in the Sahih Sitta which I read more than twenty years ago (possibly this hadith is in the Sunan of Abi Daud or Jami' At-Tirmidhee).

  • @infernobeastz5991

    @infernobeastz5991

    2 жыл бұрын

    share the hadith on 'She didn't see his (صلى الله عليه وسلم) private parts UNTIL a day after Ghazwa At-Tabuk' please.

  • @toraayesha

    @toraayesha

    2 жыл бұрын

    do you have the source for this hadith?

  • @raisul_raj

    @raisul_raj

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@toraayesha he literally gave the source look at the bottom of his comment. 😐

  • @mhdhashaam973

    @mhdhashaam973

    2 жыл бұрын

    don't u think it's sooo silly? and you u don't address this issue objectively??? why are you making morality relative to culture???

  • @pyrovania

    @pyrovania

    2 жыл бұрын

    based on the definition of "consummate a marriage" it is actually impossible that be done without using ones genitals. Catholics do not expect popes and priests to never sin. Mohammed did some good things and he did some bad things.

  • @m.abrarsikandar4869
    @m.abrarsikandar48693 жыл бұрын

    what a beautiful message

  • @afifashaukat4335
    @afifashaukat43355 жыл бұрын

    A COMMENT TO CONSIDER~~~ SubhanAllah. The disbelievers at the time of prophet Muhammad (PBUH) would try to find everything they could to make him look bad. They called him crazy, a magician. But something to think about is, NOBODY, not even the disbelievers who hated him, said anything about his marriage to Aisha. Why? Because it was the norm, as girls often matured faster than those of today, and often became married and mothers at “young”, ages, though they were well mature::: whereas today, girls are becoming pregnant with their boyfriends at ages as young as 12. I’m not saying all girls. But, is not giving birth at such a young age a norm in our western, modern societies too? Also, no man can force a woman into marriage... an act committed before Islam, and also prevails today. Aisha was, under the Islamic law, protected under this right (that no man can force marry her without her consent) in fact, she was engaged previously to a man of Mecca, but she broke it because he was a bad and a disbeliever. So when the proposal arrived to her, she was thrilled and accepted. And, if you’re sincere while reading this, you’ll consider that pedophiles are disgusting human beings nobody likes to be around, let alone follow. A pedophile can never gain so many followers world wide, for centuries... nobody, man and woman, would want to follow him. The word pedophile was first originated in the west, in the 1940’s. So it is unfair to judge people of the past, with different societies, culture, context: it is unfair to judge them by our standards. We have to be considerate to every detail, in order to fully understand. Prophet Muhammad (PBUH)... the blessed prophet, not pedophile. And if you disagree, then please go do your research instead of replying hate comments to this. That would just show you’re not reading to understand, but rather to fuel the hatred in your heart. Is it not time for those with excessive hate and misunderstanding in their hearts to consider and learn, so that they may not be among those who refrain from all goodness? If still linger doubts in your heart, then learn about Aisha. If you hate the prophet Muhammad, then I challenge you. I challenge you to read about him. Because when if you have hate or grudges in your heart against someone, you will, mark my word, never go far. Salam.

  • @_ABDUL-RAHIM.

    @_ABDUL-RAHIM.

    5 жыл бұрын

    Haters gonna hates, those bunch don't have anything better to do, living a meaningless, wasting time just like this guy ☝️

  • @mansorkadir6419

    @mansorkadir6419

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@rissikesthiyagarajah2205 hahaha..have u ever read anything about 'Aisha'.....hahahaha

  • @mansorkadir6419

    @mansorkadir6419

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@indocoral hahaha..penetrate...really dude...hahaha...where u get that info my frenn...hahaha..

  • @mohamadahmed8403

    @mohamadahmed8403

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@indocoral your Mouth is full of filth , and i'm pretty sure you know the truth already you are not worthy of those people attention , You are a Sick Disgusting person who wants Corruption to spread Only GOD knows what have you Done and how much more corruption u want into the land , in time GOD will give you what you Deserve so Don't Rush your doom.

  • @_ABDUL-RAHIM.

    @_ABDUL-RAHIM.

    5 жыл бұрын

    gss ltd you should be ashamed that you unable to differentiate between lies written in those fake websites and real teaches written in our holy Qur'an, obviously you've been watching way too many porn, get a life please Verse 3.32. You must be so shocked from this verse right, it's the truth, God does not love the disbelievers because He does not follow your lust and ill desires, just look at your people, committing adultery, incest, so many sins that your country especially usa got hit by natural disasters almost every year Verse 9.5,9.29, 9.111 this when Muslims and non Muslims were at war, Muslims were not allowed to war in the sacred months. Verse 9.29 this meant once you wage war against us, we will fight until we defeat you people just like in the past Verse 9.111, this say that we shouldn't be afraid just because it's war, because if you wish to live you shouldn't threaten us cause of our religion because we will retaliate against you people and God will not waste the soul of those who fight for God's sake And lastly you meant this right, obviously you didn't even read so it kinda pointless to argue about it when you don't even understand this, simply quoting won't do you know, it's like copying essay from your friend and you got caught resulting in zero grade, this is exactly what you were doing 47.35 So do not weaken and call for peace while you are superior; and Allah is with you and will never deprive you of [the reward of] your deeds. 47.36 This] worldly life is only amusement and diversion. And if you believe and fear Allah, He will give you your rewards and not ask you for your properties. 47:37 If He should ask you for them and press you, you would withhold, and He would expose your unwillingness. 47:38 Here you are - those invited to spend in the cause of Allah - but among you are those who withhold [out of greed]. And whoever withholds only withholds [benefit] from himself; and Allah is the Free of need, while you are the needy. And if you turn away, He will replace you with another people; then they will not be the likes of you

  • @TheReptileHun
    @TheReptileHun25 күн бұрын

    I as a Muslim myself also have big trouble with this and so far no one could take that off of me… and it doesn’t matter, if it was normal for that time or if people in other religions did it also (eg rebecca etc) for me it’s still not graspable and I can’t make peace with that! And also just imagine if a 54 yo man comes to you and asks you about your daughter no matter if 6 or 16 or 26, if you really say, that you’d be okay with that, then either you’re liar or there’s something wrong with you 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @blindntiredanonmus3544

    @blindntiredanonmus3544

    13 күн бұрын

    Me too bro what to do now?

  • @Euro.Patriot

    @Euro.Patriot

    12 күн бұрын

    ​@@blindntiredanonmus3544Leave.

  • @starfish1936

    @starfish1936

    10 күн бұрын

    ​@@blindntiredanonmus3544 start reading the gospels. There are four. GOD BLESS.

  • @layanferas4408

    @layanferas4408

    5 күн бұрын

    the prophet told us to teach our kids according to their culture and norms not ours ex : people not so long ago used to get married at 18 and have kids but now people marry in their late twenties and if they what to get Married at 18 people will find it wired

  • @Euro.Patriot

    @Euro.Patriot

    5 күн бұрын

    @@layanferas4408 Muhammad is the role model, the role model married and abused a child therefore all followers have justification to do the same. Not hard to understand.

  • @terrybarnhill9037
    @terrybarnhill90374 ай бұрын

    Reading the comments, I am surprised that they are not written in braille.

  • @corpuscallosum9355
    @corpuscallosum93555 жыл бұрын

    ‏ما شاء الله ‏جزاك الله خيرا

  • @nezoelwa7sh786
    @nezoelwa7sh7863 жыл бұрын

    Hitting puberty means your not a child any more , and its better to get married than watching pornography , and the guy talks about what was normal at that time and by that definition she was not forced and it wasn't creepy , the whole idea is that the action itself wasn't wrong because she hit puberty but it's weird by today's standards

  • @russ8156

    @russ8156

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Kiss My AXE pajeet spotted

  • @adem1829

    @adem1829

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Kiss My AXE bruh, no wonder you’re hating on Islam.

  • @adem1829

    @adem1829

    3 жыл бұрын

    You know that forced marriage is not allowed in Islam, so Aisha willingly married the prophet because she wanted to . He also didn’t force her to do anything but waited for 3 years until she became an adult (9 years) which is about about 14~18 yrs old in our current age. And why you all start bringing this problem only now ? Because the norms changed since then... Aisha was a leader and a scholar, if she was abused and raped by the prophet then she shouldn’t be such a great woman...

  • @ohcool8314

    @ohcool8314

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Sdb903 no, rasulullah shallallahu'alaihiwasallam would never married after khadija radhiyallahu'anhu except if Allah commands. Aisha radiyallahu'anhu getting married to prophet peace be upon him so she can see his daily life and narrates it into hadith. There are many hadith that was narrated by Aisha radiyallahu'anhu right? Like thousands or more. Aisha radiyallahu'anhu is really smart you know

  • @johnlyjoshy4897

    @johnlyjoshy4897

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@adem1829 it was her father who gave permission ,not her..

  • @senpai8065
    @senpai80653 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful brother i got teased by this child marriage but your answer is great

  • @Prince-fi4ur

    @Prince-fi4ur

    3 жыл бұрын

    Brother plz change your username

  • @senpai8065

    @senpai8065

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol that is just an account name made by my nephew

  • @Sui_Generis0
    @Sui_Generis04 жыл бұрын

    How does the attributes of her take away from the fact that she was 9 years old? Does it make it moral?

  • @brandonmma

    @brandonmma

    4 жыл бұрын

    D1 how do you decide what’s morally wrong or right

  • @fakechloe207

    @fakechloe207

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@brandonmma are you serious! The dude in touch with god committing pedophilia! Are serious bro?! The sinless dude that you look up to. You guys make no sense really

  • @FCTouhou

    @FCTouhou

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Pourya She was 6 bruh

  • @FCTouhou

    @FCTouhou

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Pourya Al-Tabari says she was nine at the time her marriage was consummated. Sahih al-Bukhari's hadith says "that the Prophet married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old." Various ahadith states that Aisha was either nine or ten at the time of her consummation come from collections with sahih status, meaning they are regarded as reputable by most Sunni Muslims.

  • @FCTouhou

    @FCTouhou

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Pourya Those books also tells you how to pray. So you don't trust that? Also it was a fact and it wasn't even discussed Aisha's age. And it is sahih so what are you talking about. Muhammad was a pedo

  • @yousraadly7341
    @yousraadly73413 жыл бұрын

    Aiysha is the best woman and mother of believers

  • @yousraadly7341

    @yousraadly7341

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Aikkk yes she is & she is called the mothers of believers.

  • @basheermuhammad7757
    @basheermuhammad77575 жыл бұрын

    Thank you brother. Al Hamdullilah Rabbiyal Aameen. Praises and thanks to our great Creator, Lord of all systems.

  • @cobbsta88
    @cobbsta883 жыл бұрын

    An anecdote of converting someone doesn't really address the concern. Many exploitative relationships with minors and captives develop genuine bonds, it's a survival mechanism that today we recognise as stockholm syndrome. While I agree it was normal at the time, no psychologists today would sanction this relationship as healthy. Depraved actions don't need depraved intentions, and while I don't believe this marriage came from evil intentions perse, it must be looked at objectively.

  • @AppleCinnamonPie

    @AppleCinnamonPie

    3 жыл бұрын

    Remember that the anecdote isn't the point, rather the facts: The relationship between Aisha and Muhammad was what we would consider a very healthy and nurturing relationship. And of course, no psychologist _today_ would tell you that marrying a girl is a healthy relationship. Because times are different. Today we tell our youth that they become "responsible adults" at the age of 18. So their maturity is different. And yet, 1400 years ago, there were teenagers that led armies. That says something about the mentality and responsibility of youth back in those days, and how it has changed over time.

  • @flashtras107820

    @flashtras107820

    3 жыл бұрын

    here's an objective answer, see the historical accounts all point to a bunch of numbers and ages concerning events in aisha's life, those numbers are : Aisha's sister asma was 100 years old when she died at 695 CE (well documented due to her son's death and her death afterwards) and that she was 10 years older than aisha, and that she was 27-28 years old by Hijra, so with these numbers in mind either way you slice it, she was born at 595, either from her age of death or date of hijra, and her sister aisha was born 10 years later which is 605-6 NOT 613-14, which means aisha would've been 14 and 17-18 when she was married off and the marriage was consummated, now the counter argument is that the hadith is from bukhari which is a reliable source, well its a source that is reliable sometimes but isn't perfect at all, its from a human source a few hundred years after the fact, and hadiths are collected by word of mouth which if you know anything about Chinese whisprers game, you know will yield inaccurate results even if you fact check a 100 times, regardless, this is my way of viewing things, any hadith that directly goes against the Quran which is to muslims the Objecitve word of god, is automatically invalid, and any hadith that isn't contradictory to the word of god may or may not be true, there are a few examples of contradictions in interpertations of hadiths , so do'nt take the hadiths as words of god, anyhow there's another argument since the age of aisha is very vague outside of events surrounding her, and that hadith is the only one that mentions her age being that young , why did none of the critics of the prophet attack him based on that age if it was so wrong and taboo, its 2 things, she wasn't that young to begin with (which is probably the case) and also back then children matured much faster due to different circumstances, kids as young as 12 were going to war, WAR ffs , and from outside a divine or religious perspective, its is objectively wrong to vue historical figures through a post modern lens and judge them based on our morality today , many historical figures married youngs kids and the general basis for marriage was puberty which girls hit quite early even today, i hope this sheds some light into the issue you can look up these facts yourself to get a better understanding if my poor explanations wasn't up to par :)

  • @sabamarium8186

    @sabamarium8186

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@flashtras107820 agreed! To be honest either way you look at aisha’s age, it is not a matter of concern because we are comparing customs of 1400 years ago e with today’s. Islam taught us a lifestyles and brought solutions for humanity according to time and present norms at that time and now. Also you We cannot assume that just because hazrat Abu-bakr r.a requested prophet (pbuh) to marry aisha r.a because he believed that prophet (pbuh) was the best man for his daughter, (which is undoubtedly true) it means it automatically becomes law or sunnah, sunnah is the repeated actions of prophet (pbuh) so nikah is sunnah and not necessarily marrying a young aged girl. This example shows us that Prophet (pbuh) was the best man on earth and a desired man for any parents or any woman of any age. It tells us that when choosing a man for your girl or girl for your man, or if they choose someone for themselves, what qualities to look for. the examples of other age group i.e older women, widowed, who married prophet (pbuh) and the example of free will can be found when prophet (pbuh) went to fatimah r.a to ask her for her will for marriage. he knew she wont say no but he (SAWW) still inquired if she is willing. It teaches us that force marriage is not part of Islam. The funny thing for me in today world is all those 21st century’s hypocrites who yell at underage marriage (14s ,16s etc ) they would happily encourage the objective quotes of celebrities “Age is just a number” Contradiction! 🤷‍♀️

  • @flashtras107820

    @flashtras107820

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sabamarium8186 Very true, it is absurd for me that people wanna criticize aspects people who were there to witness didn't, and to enforce things upon the prophet (pbuh) they wouldn't any other important historical person, and also negate any evidence of the contrary such as the age discrepancy between the sisters, and oh the celeb age differences are funny since you'll find marriages of surrreal gaps, so they know the age gap doesn't matter as much but assume humans mature at the same rate at all times when its literally not true, even today females mature years before males do its why most relationships tend to be between an older male and younger female because females mature faster and to match the male need an older one who had a year or two to mature, eitherway they can criticize as much as they want as long as the truth is out there everything will be fine

  • @efdawahfan

    @efdawahfan

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@flashtras107820 So the hadith is weak or fake right ?? because it goes againts the rulings in the Quran where the age of marriage is puberty.

  • @teacher_jasur
    @teacher_jasur5 жыл бұрын

    Assalamu alaykum. It was another great speech by Omar Suleiman. Jazak Allahu Khauran! Can you provide the materials on Aisha ra. that he mentioned? Thank you so much Yaqeen!

  • @MrFinalfantasy7ftw
    @MrFinalfantasy7ftw4 жыл бұрын

    So youre telling us Its okay to marry underage girl because the girl is also okay with that? Sounds good to me! I will find one myself then ☺️

  • @sheikhaaliyatabassum6492

    @sheikhaaliyatabassum6492

    3 жыл бұрын

    No

  • @sheikhaaliyatabassum6492

    @sheikhaaliyatabassum6492

    3 жыл бұрын

    Listen to the whole lecture

  • @goatededits-sports4065

    @goatededits-sports4065

    2 жыл бұрын

    ayesha was special she was very knowledgable and intellectually mature Nowadays young people aren't mature or that intelligent so NO u cant just go marry a young girl

  • @somebodyig624

    @somebodyig624

    2 жыл бұрын

    Did u even listen to the video?

  • @getyaphinsup

    @getyaphinsup

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@goatededits-sports4065What a disgusting explanation.

  • @ayeshakunni4366
    @ayeshakunni43665 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this reminder

  • @shiney94
    @shiney943 жыл бұрын

    I love you brother, but even if Aisha had a good personality and was not destroyed by such a marriage (which I agree with you, except in one case which is she never had children. As a doctor, I know that if you sexually abuse a young child or someone who just enters puberty then that can damage their reproductive tract). As I was saying even if she was not destroyed by such a marriage, the implication it has is very worrisome. It gives the green light for others to marry children Because that is what Aisha was You read the hadiths she played with dolls and was short like a child in stature (the ethiopian hadith) whilst married to Muhammad. So you are a nice person and you see the beauty in islam (which there is a lot of). But any objective person can see that a marriage to a child is wrong I get it, i too was raised in a muslim household It's difficult to let go of beliefs especially when ur whole basis is made up by it. But that's the same argument one can make against quraish. They may have believed in islam, but acceptance of it would destroy their whole way of life (which was difficult for them). I like truth, and we should all be sincere in our knowledge, and not just have biased faith

  • @khaleelmaestro

    @khaleelmaestro

    3 жыл бұрын

    But like the Ulama said sir That time it was a normal thing So it didn’t really matter in society. These are all man made rules these days Remember when she’s menstruating she isn’t a child anymore logically I guess. Aysha RA was happy to some effect I heard . It makes sense that if the girl does not agree to what you doing to her then it shouldn’t be done so end of the day it comes on your Nafs and desire as a person . Allah and his prophet knows best .

  • @jeje4984

    @jeje4984

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@khaleelmaestro EXACTLY. The only reason people see it as weird is just because it isnt done anymore, for example lets say in the far future the average lifespan was 500 yrs old and the average age of marriage was 200 yrs old, it would be considered extremely weird to marry a 30 yr old. That means the only reason we see it as weird is because its not done anymore

  • @sidrashabbir2721

    @sidrashabbir2721

    3 жыл бұрын

    A) Many reproductive women of age who weren’t “sexually abused” as children can’t conceive so I don’t think that having children or not is limited to an age factor only. The youngest mother known in history is a 5 year old (Lina) whereas the oldest known mother is a 73 year old (Yeramatti). Again, I know that is a factor but it cannot be generalised to all of the population. B) The Prophet ﷺ had no other children from his other wives too except for Khadija RA and Maria RA. So again, it was Allah’s will. C) The part about her being short statured can be easily attributed to early puberty and early epiphyseal closure. But then again, you’re a doctor and you already knew that. D) Aisha RA did all kinds of stuff that children do. She was mature and witty for her age but she was also a child at heart. The Prophet ﷺ used to race with her. It is narrated in hadith that He ﷺ used to take her to see the Habashi Carnival (don’t know if it should be called a carnival though) and would stand there for long even at his ﷺ age, just so Aisha RA could see it from behind him. E) Personally I believe that there is must be an error in where her age is stated because marriage in Islam and Quran is a civil contract, meesaaq (4:21), and as such it can be finalised only between persons who are intellectually and physically mature enough to understand and fulfill the responsibilities of such a contract. This is the what the Quran says. Again Allah knows best.

  • @shiney94

    @shiney94

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sidrashabbir2721 It could be an error in the hadith thats true as the quran mentions in many parts were you have to be mature enough to get married The hadiths are known to contradict quran and each other, even if in sahih hadith However, being realistic all the hadiths hold up each other in regards to Aisha's marriage to Muhammad (i.e. that she was a young girl who was prematurely sexually intercoursed). And yeah, i think you are right, the rest of the prophets wives did not get pregnant. Mariah was a concubine, not a wife I thought.

  • @sidrashabbir2721

    @sidrashabbir2721

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@shiney94 actually they don’t. There’s a lot in the comment section contradicting that particular hadith. You should read some of the points. They’re very knowledgeable actually. Hadith were gathered by humans in books and may be prone to error, but Quran is the word of Allah, so no errors in it. And whenever it comes to a decision, Quran will always be above any collection of hadith. Also, what difference does it make if Maria RA was a wife or a concubine? Why bring it up? 🙄

  • @amor8996
    @amor89965 жыл бұрын

    My Mom name is Aisha.😊

  • @prizma45

    @prizma45

    5 жыл бұрын

    Samir Khan amazing name

  • @amor8996

    @amor8996

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@prizma45 Thank you😊

  • @gabrielabdul8372

    @gabrielabdul8372

    5 жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah beautiful name

  • @kushaansgosalia1685

    @kushaansgosalia1685

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ask her how's Muhammed you bastard

  • @humsafarofficialchannel

    @humsafarofficialchannel

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@kushaansgosalia1685 I will never know how jealous a bastard like you would feel to merely get to understand the joy of a lawful descendant. Pity on you. No really.

  • @ahmadarshad7439
    @ahmadarshad74394 жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah ❤️❤️❤️

  • @shan547896

    @shan547896

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aisha boobs were sucked by some strange men who entered her room? Have you read about this?

  • @tankeryy1566
    @tankeryy15663 жыл бұрын

    2:50 i want to read it to please!

  • @goodman5391
    @goodman53913 жыл бұрын

    👉Read the truth, defend the Messenger👈 🔸️ This's [Part 2 of 3] 👉 Was Aisha the mother of the believers 6 years old when The Messenger of Allah Almighty sermoned her (Engagement)! and was she 9 years old when got Married to the Prophet? (peace and blessings be upon him) 🔵 And Sadly we still find many muslims try to proof this Lie against the Messenger and the Mother of believers, snd give the Islamophobes and haters a reason to Attack the Messenger with falsehood. Let Stop this wrongdoing, and these are the truth. 🔴 4) Aisha's Islam before Omar Ibn al-Khattab: (This's a clear strong evidence) According to Ibn Hisham's summary of the Prophet's biography of Ibn Ishaq, Aisha (Abu bakr Al Sidiq Family) embrace Islam before Umar Ibn al-Khattab embraced it, which means that she was at least 14 years old at the time of her wedding to the Prophet, peace be upon him, thus dropping the age of 9 years completely. 🔴 5) And This's an ultimate proof: Knowing the Age of Aisha (MOB) by calculations, based on het older Sister Asma (may Allah be pleased with her): According to Abd al-Rahman ibn Abi al-Zinad: Asmaa was ten years older than Aisha (biography of the flags of the nobles, al-Dhahabi: Maj. 2, p. 289, Foundation for the Message, Beirut, 1992). Ibn Katheer also agrees with Ibn Abi al-Zinad’s narration and says that she is - Asma: Ten years older than her sister Aisha (The Beginning and the End, Ibn Katheer Maj. 8, p. 371, Dar Al-Fikr Al-Arabi - Giza 1933). Ibn Katheer agrees with what all historians affirm without disagreement that Asma "witnessed the killing of her son during that year (73 AH), as previously mentioned, and five days later she died. And like other accounts, she did not die after 5 days, but rather after 10 or 20 days, or a few days later, or even a hundred days after the accident, so that the most likely story remains that she died a hundred days later, when she is 100 years old. (Beginning and End Ibn Katheer, Mug 8, p. 372, Dar Al-Fikr Al-Arabi, Giza 1933). And bin Hajar Al-Asqalani narrates that “Asma bint Abi Bakr Al-Siddiq [That Al-Nitaqain], the wife of Al-Zubayr bin Al-Awam, one of the great companions, lived a hundred years and died in the year of seventy-three (Al-Tahdheeb, Ibn Hajar Al-Asqalani, p. 654, chapter on Women, Harf) a thousand). According to the opinion of most historians, Asma, Aisha's older sister were ten years older than the last, and if Asma 'reached the 100 years of Hijra, then her age at the time of the migration would necessarily be 27 years old, and therefore Aisha’s age at that time would be 17 years old, and she also began living Along with the Prophet and she was 19 or 20 years old. Based on the narrations of Ibn Hajar, Ibn Katheer and Abd al-Rahman bin Abi Al-Zinad, the age of Aisha at the time of her marriage to the Prophet was between 19 and 20 years at least. 🔴 6) The date of Aisha's death determines the date of her marriage: It is also mentioned in Al Maarif by Ibn Qutaybah that Aisha, the mother of the believers, died in 58 AH at the age of 77. Thus, the age of Aisha, the mother of the believers, immediately before the emigration, was 19 years (77-58), and since she married to the noble Messenger in the second year of the Hijra..so she was 21 years old at that time. Even if we take the minimum approach, the presence of other accounts in other historical sources that determine Aisha’s age at 66 years of age, assuming that her age was only 5 years + 12 years (from the fourth year before the mission until the second year of migration) = 17 years at least. 🔴 7) Sahih al-Bukhari prooves Aisha's age: This's another narration confirms for us Aisha's participation in the Battle of Uhud. “Anas narates that on Uhud: I saw Aisha bint Abi Bakr and Umm Salim, rolled their hands ready (Sleeves) - I witness the work of their arms - transport water containers on their bodies, empty them into the mouths of the people, then return and fill it, then come and empty it into the mouths of the people (Bukhari, Al-Fath. No. (2880). This is a clear evidence of their grown age. Her age and her ability to serve the army during the Battle of Uhud. (As it's well known fact the Messenger never allow young children to participate in battles). Thus, it is confirmed once again that Aisha witnessed the battles of Uhud and Badr. 🔴 8) Al-Bukhari narrates to us in another hadith: On the authority of Yahya bin Saeed, said that Nafeh said, on the authority of Ibn Omar, May Allah be pleased with them, that the Prophet, may God’s prayers and peace be upon him, he offered himself to the messenger on the day of Uhud when he was fourteen years old, and Messenger didn't allow him, and offered himself at the Ahzab, and he was allowed at the age of 15. (Kitab Al-Maghazi, Chapter of the Battle of Al-Khandaq, which is the Ahzab or Trench). This is a very strong evidence that the Prophet, peace be upon him, was not permitting to let someone under the age of fifteen in the Battles. 🌟This is evidence that the age of 9 years has no validity at all. 🔴 9) Participation in the battle of Badr: In Sahih Muslim, a narration confirms Aisha's participation in the battle of Badr and is attributed to Aisha in the course of her discussion of her trip to Badr and about an important accident that occurred while traveling: “... even if we were in the tree ....” Which is clear evidence that she was among the delegation Traveling towards Badr, and the Prophet does not take children with him. (The Book of fighting and travel). ▪︎Continue to part 3

  • @abdullahk8691
    @abdullahk86913 жыл бұрын

    Love you sheikh omar

  • @shohistaahmedova2413
    @shohistaahmedova24135 жыл бұрын

    Allahu Akbar made me cry...

  • @Prince-fi4ur

    @Prince-fi4ur

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@hexa1905 ok may Allah guide you to the right path brother

  • @Prince-fi4ur

    @Prince-fi4ur

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@hexa1905 allah is real, brother he is just testing your faith.

  • @jostasizzi818

    @jostasizzi818

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@hexa1905 first open your heart bro then you can speak about anything

  • @voiceforjusticeandproporti5543
    @voiceforjusticeandproporti55434 жыл бұрын

    Appreciate the video, buy I wish you guys would avoid the emotionally manipulative music in the background. Too many muslim channels do this.

  • @naziaatheist6575

    @naziaatheist6575

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes it is manipulative, especially to those extreme and radical Islamists. So what does that say about you(?) Music can be therapeutic. And don't give me "that's not allowed in Islam". As any humanist wouldn't care. You lot need a reality check.

  • @jiminici3351

    @jiminici3351

    4 жыл бұрын

    What the fuck? Every channel ever does this

  • @Prince-fi4ur

    @Prince-fi4ur

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Rabia musocis haram but not vocals and this is not music it's naasheed

  • @msabbasi01
    @msabbasi013 жыл бұрын

    Subhan Allah... Allah gives hidaya to those who really are in search of it.

  • @allahisthelord3715
    @allahisthelord37153 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah Ameen inshallah ya rab mashallah AlhmduAllah

  • @umar3378
    @umar3378 Жыл бұрын

    Ending of this video 😍❤️

  • @felipemarin1011
    @felipemarin10114 жыл бұрын

    Most people who condemn this should know that at that time it was culturally acceptable practice for a man and woman to enter into wedding YOUNG(For the man or the woman) if the woman had hit puberty, only then could PENETRATION occur, It cannot be so unless she had hit puberty-It is /was considered HARAM Also for the westerners that still condemn-5 centuries after the time of The Prophet Muhammad, king John of England married 12 YEAR OLD ISABELLA of Angoulême-so westerners ALREADY practiced the same way that Arabs did. It has to be taken into historical and cultural context-plus Aisha and the the Prophet Muhammad loved eachother dearly throughout their lives. If this is your primary concern to hate Islam then some of the same thought pattern you use to come to the conclusion that this is why you hate Islam then you should use the same thought pattern to look into your religion/but for scholarly sake use the historical context and not just for that part of the world but for all the world at that time(7th century). Also please take note that hadiths are teachings by the prophet whereas the Quran is the word of Allah-The Quran supercedes the Hadiths- Or if you use the old kill infidels if they dont convert or just kill them outright that is not true-When the Prophet spread Islam for the first 13 years there was to be no bloodshed or revenge against non muslims-the day mecca was conquered he said let there be peace and tolerance and no bloodshed- Also even after he was ousted and nearly assasinated he only defended himself-but he didnt oppress others from other religions-there are over 70 verses in the Quran that condem violence against non believers-he would sit and listen to all from different beliefs-ofcourse as it spread other regions had again other cultural practices and thus werent practiced by all muslims but the majority did not spread violence-retaliation or oppresion. It is only groups like isis who do these things and blacken the name of Islam- One must be thorough when condeming something and also make sure they know what it is they condem and for what reason.. I am a Christian, more in line with Abrahamic teachings and beliefs in my Adonai-yet i see past the propaganda against Muslims and Islam because i have friends that are muslim and see them and their friends and how they behave/react towards not only others but what other so called muslim groups do in the name of Islam and condemn it-a true Muslim is not a violent person because ALLAH prohibits it-he doesn’t prohibit defending yourself. Christians, muslims, jews follow the same God,you must not be blind and see where this belief stems from-the belief of these other religions stems back to the same bloodline- Peace love and blessings to all people

  • @littlepete6849

    @littlepete6849

    4 жыл бұрын

    54 yr old man having sex with a small child 6yrs old...is,this normal for you..seek help..

  • @muradsawalha3121

    @muradsawalha3121

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@littlepete6849 Can you Fucking Read

  • @littlepete6849

    @littlepete6849

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@muradsawalha3121 WHT HAS THAT GOT TO DO WITH ANYTHING..

  • @felipemarin1011

    @felipemarin1011

    4 жыл бұрын

    little pete no, he didnt, he MARRIED her at 6 and COULDNT TOUCH HER TILL SHE BECAME ABLE TO CONCIEVE( yes she propably was young, but you are bringing todays standards, not even western standards because again many many kings, princes etc would do the exact same thing, white kings, greeks, persians, it would be good if you actually had a look for yourself at the information, its really really easy to find, apart from it being in the Koran there are many many papers on it, peer reviewed papers, don’t fall into the trap of just hearing things and repeating them or someone showing you one or two articles without you doing a bit of reaserch first my guy, super important to recognize the time period, what was acceptable then, what the culture and practices were not just in the middle east but all around the world! You simply cannot use todays standards when looking at history, what was going on in society, all over the world, what were the practices, factor in that humans lived alot less than we do today, so as soon as a female could have children they would have children, now, morally is that correct to impregnate a young girl just because she can have children , absolutely not, IN TODAYS WORLD, there are so many factors but what is an absolute lie is that he laid with her when she was 6, absolutely not, he married her when she was 6

  • @felipemarin1011

    @felipemarin1011

    4 жыл бұрын

    im not trying to be rude towards you, im simply trying to educate those who have the wrong facts because Islam and the Prophet have been painted a certain way by the united states media, and their propaganda when its really easy to find the truth, now if you wish to keep denying this FACT is because you are too proud, are you too proud to admit that what youve heard , read , and have seen regarding the prophet like that straight out lie about him penetrating her while she was 6 is simply a lie? Question why youve been told this lie, the problem doesn’t lie with Islam, its your government and the excuses they use to make Muslims in the middle east seem like animals so any type of war could be waged on them, ask yourself why there has been so many wars waged in the middle east, and its not about freedom since the united states has been responsible for putting people like Saddam Hussein in power, or Osama bib Laden.. come on now champ, wake up, the information is freely available

  • @vegangainsisapos1529
    @vegangainsisapos15295 жыл бұрын

    "bUt iT wAs nOrMaL!!!!!" So was slavery, rape, war at certain points of history. Legality does not equal to morality

  • @ikramh9730

    @ikramh9730

    4 жыл бұрын

    Cool Basketball if you’re morality is really objective then you must believe it’s still okay for 53 yr olds to marry 6 year olds today. You would have to be okay with pedophilia, you would have to be okay with slavery (and innocent children of slaves being sold off into slavery with no right to seek freedom). You would have to be okay with men beating their wives as this is allowed and encouraged in the Quran. And it makes no sense that your morality is “objective” and you justify muhammads marriage to Aisha while she was 6 by bringing up other societies which also permitted child marriages as if you’re making a “if they did it it’s okay for muhammad to do it” excuse. If you’re morality is objective, why don’t you just say muhammads marriage to Aisha is okay because allah allowed 50 year olds to marry 6 year olds, period? Or is something in you uncomfortable with saying and acknowledging that reality?

  • @ikramh9730

    @ikramh9730

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Cool Basketball Riddle me this do you believe pedophilia is acceptable in general? You didn't address whether or not pedophilia is objectively moral as you said you believe in objective morality. So do you believe it is objectively moral for 50 year olds to marry 6 year olds even in this day and age? If you believe it was okay back then and not today then your morals are subject to time and place lmfao. You can't have it both ways

  • @ikramh9730

    @ikramh9730

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Cool Basketball Okay then ur morals are not objective lmfao ur legit saying rn that 'its ok because muhammad did it a long time ago' so ur morality is subject to the time and place a situation in question occurs...... if it was okay before and not okay today that means the rules changed overtime which makes them no longer objective........ and maam aisha was 6. He married her before she reached puberty (otherwise he wouldnt have waited until she was 9 to c̶o̶n̶s̶u̶m̶m̶a̶t̶e̶ ̶h̶i̶s̶ ̶m̶a̶r̶r̶i̶a̶g̶e̶ ̶w̶i̶t̶h̶ rape her...... as i am not convinced a 9 year old could have a legitimate voice and consent to a 53 year olds sexual advances towards her). Even if you truly believed muhammad wasn't a pedophile since aisha 'reached puberty earlier' he literally married her before she hit puberty so by your own words he is still a pedophile lmao.. :/

  • @ikramh9730

    @ikramh9730

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Cool Basketball And i just find it really strange how you i assume praise muhammad as a perfect man who has never committed any wrong yet would condemn others from following his footsteps in also marrying a 6 year old when they are 53. Isn't muhammad a role model for all mankind and all time? Why do you hold regular human beings to a higher standard than the man you genuinely believe spoke to god and who's entire role was to preach to humanity lmfao. Makes no sense

  • @ikramh9730

    @ikramh9730

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Cool Basketball he legit "consummated the marriage" with her as soon as she hit puberty. he legit waited 3 years since he married he before she hit puberty in the first place..... that's literally creepy and weird asf . you are telling me you think a 9 year old girl feels like she has a choice when a 53 year old man tells her he wants to have sex with her..............................? and not only she has a choice but says YES and isn't pressured at all ..? we are talking about a full. grown. man. and a girl who just hit puberty. That dynamic alone makes it extremely absurd and creepy even if you genuinely believe its ok cuz she hit puberty... gonna have to say no to that one bro

  • @anishasharar9272
    @anishasharar92723 жыл бұрын

    SubhanAllah the ending

  • @adnanmahbub3219
    @adnanmahbub32192 жыл бұрын

    Alhamdulillah

  • @bruhziz3503
    @bruhziz35032 жыл бұрын

    May Allah SWT guide and bless us all🤲🏻❤️

  • @nnoor4801
    @nnoor48014 жыл бұрын

    *ALHAMDULILLAH*

  • @shan547896

    @shan547896

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aishas boobs were sucked by strange men? Allahu akbar

  • @24sirosaydeacker57

    @24sirosaydeacker57

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@shan547896 you're weird

  • @bruhziz3503
    @bruhziz35032 жыл бұрын

    لا اله الا الله محمد رسول الله صل الله عليه وسلم

  • @musalmahmajid8595
    @musalmahmajid85952 жыл бұрын

    In Daleware,USA(1880) minimum age of marriage 👉 7 years old.

  • @mohammedazharuddin1069
    @mohammedazharuddin10693 жыл бұрын

    If someone questioned Reply then by asking :what was the factor previous people used to decide minor and major? Was it age or puberty?

  • @AppleCinnamonPie

    @AppleCinnamonPie

    3 жыл бұрын

    Puberty, I believe.

  • @missbizzy701

    @missbizzy701

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AppleCinnamonPie puberty, sound judgement, physically mentally ready etc. not an age, secularism is trash and western countries can’t even agree on one age

  • @novitekka

    @novitekka

    2 жыл бұрын

    Forget how previous people decided. We now know nine years is a not an age to get married. And if Muhammad was the PERFECT human being to ever walk on the face of the earth, he would have known that and abolish child marriage. And what he does, he marries a little girl instead and leaves people to defend him.

  • @nouharachoudi974

    @nouharachoudi974

    2 жыл бұрын

    true, but I have one question. Why did he even want to marry her, even if she was his age. He already got a bunch of wifes

  • @ilsegenora1822

    @ilsegenora1822

    Жыл бұрын

    @Suleiman it's only age though. There are factors whether a girl is ready or not for marriage.

  • @peterazif7278
    @peterazif72782 жыл бұрын

    Assalam O Alikum, Dear everyone, Allah wanted and wants all ages of women specially the all matters to to be educated and tought from early life to complete life by Hazrat Aisha Razia Allah Tahala Anha as she memorized the sayings of prophet Muhammad Sallalahu Alaihisalam and as she said when someone asked about the prophet Muhammad' life. She said that he is th practical form of the Quran All of your positive feedback are appreciated and looking for your feedback on this.

  • @gracewaryas8434
    @gracewaryas84342 ай бұрын

    I would love to learn more! What were the readings that you gave this sister to look into?

  • @Ozaiyah
    @OzaiyahАй бұрын

    The issue is not the treatment of Aisha or who she grew up to be the problem is Muhammad why did he need to marry Aisha unless he desired her

  • @yaqeeninstituteofficial
    @yaqeeninstituteofficial5 жыл бұрын

    The first of four papers in the collection "More Than Just a Number" Perspectives on the Age of Aisha (ra)" is available now: yaqeeninstitute.org/series/more-than-just-a-number-perspectives-on-the-age-of-aisha/ We will be releasing a paper every day of this week.

  • @abzmouse
    @abzmouse2 жыл бұрын

    all you Christians & muslims brothers & sisters,please do your research before you just blindly read of a screen or hear something,and believe it without knowing the truth about it.The hadiths about the marriage of Aisha(ra) to the holy prophet(saw) we accept them and don't deny or feel ashamed at all in anyway at all.Every sahih hadith we accept,now Aisha(ra) said I was married to the holy prophet(saw) when I was 9yrs old,but then in the other hadith she said 10yrs old then other 6-9yrs old.She said marriage was consummated at age 9yrs old,another 10yrs old,another 6yrs old and so on.Npw this shows Aisha(ra) didn't know her own age,also before Aisha(ra) was married to the holy prophet(saw),she was engaged to AZ-Zubair to get married.Then the revelation came from Allah(swt) that the holy prophet(saw) is to marry Aisha(ra).So the engagement was ended and Abu Bakr (ra) accepted the proposal from the holy prophet(saw).Hadith 3682 in bukhari tells of this and hadith 3607 in bukhari tells of this.Ibn kathir reports in Al bidaya wa nihaya reports Asma(ra) older sister was 10yrs older than Aisa(ra).Asma(ra) was 100yrs old when she died in year 73 hijra,she never lost her memory,not a tooth neither senile.Asma(ra) was 27yrs old when she did hijra.This proves Aisha(ra) was 16-17 when married to holy prophet(saw).Consummated at age 18-19yrs old.Ibn hajar askalani confirms ibn kathir in his book (al isaba tabir sahaba).Then theres multiple other scholars who confirmed these facts,check the sources I've provided plus hadiths,so you can stop comin with these pathetic arguments.Fellow muslims,if this question is out to you,if your not educated to answer,then don't engage in trying to answer that which you dont know,as you'll only make things look worse.

  • @HiddenAdamO
    @HiddenAdamO5 жыл бұрын

    Wow!!!!!

  • 3 жыл бұрын

    Thank You.

  • @ab-f427
    @ab-f4274 жыл бұрын

    what does it matter if it's only being brought up now? That is besides the point. I thought the prophet was supposed to be moral for all times. It was wrong then as it is wrong now.

  • @iplaygames896

    @iplaygames896

    4 жыл бұрын

    A B-F funny thing it wasn’t wrong then but that’s beside the point + it has been brought up now to TRY to reinforce a political point cause let’s be fair no one cared trust me. Second of all there is a shit ton of proof that she wasn’t 9 or 11 or what ever you guys say she was most likely between the age of 17 and her twenties most likely 19 years old there are a few comments here that explain all of that with basic math and logic. Hope this was helpful man have a good one 👍🏼😃

  • @josephcornally4797

    @josephcornally4797

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@iplaygames896 your shit ton of proof is wrong. She was 6 when she married and 10 or 11 when they consamated. Thsts the islam belief ,

  • @abuqatada2389

    @abuqatada2389

    4 жыл бұрын

    You’ll have to prove that it’s actually wrong you idiot. It was right then and it is right NOW.

  • @abuqatada2389

    @abuqatada2389

    4 жыл бұрын

    Joseph Cornally Yeah, it is, what’s wrong with that? Prove that it’s wrong.

  • @ms-zo3zb

    @ms-zo3zb

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@iplaygames896 mainstream muftis clealry openly admit she was 9 when she was married and they endorse it

  • @MeemKhaMeemDhal--khaYaRaWawNun
    @MeemKhaMeemDhal--khaYaRaWawNun Жыл бұрын

    ( Are you troubled by Aisha's (R) marriage ? ) As for me, I am ABSOLUTELY NOT TROUBLED by Aisha's marriage because this is like another GREAT MIRACLE of Allah too ! And also because, I myself have discovered so many countless miracles in the Quran !

  • @SusForces

    @SusForces

    2 ай бұрын

    you pedophile

  • @banndell
    @banndell11 ай бұрын

    As Muslim i'am not trouble by Aisyah RA marriage. It's a common thing in that era.

  • @bmujeeb
    @bmujeeb Жыл бұрын

    mashallah..

  • @MSA_madi
    @MSA_madi5 жыл бұрын

    people talks about Aisha, but there's also important woman besides her, which is also just amazing, I am amaze by how intellectual they where.

  • @narimenemokhtari8
    @narimenemokhtari85 жыл бұрын

    Can share with us the books about Aisha R please

  • @commonsense5872
    @commonsense58723 жыл бұрын

    imam Omar can answer on Aisha r.a easily. why other daie doesn't learn this from him? appreciate this video. although it is short video but at least gave us an idea on how to answer the missionaries or haters based on facts.

  • @hutao.h1258
    @hutao.h12582 ай бұрын

    My grandma married at 12 years old ,imagine if we went back more than 1000 years ago

  • @AJ_roadway

    @AJ_roadway

    Ай бұрын

    Can we really say that tho if we all from the same ummah

  • @charleslucas1784
    @charleslucas17845 жыл бұрын

    Alhamdulliah, great explanation! The problem is that people judge the values and customs that were normal in the past by the values and customs that were only adopted in recent decades. You can not do that. Thousands of years ago, there was no such thing as age of consent. Age of consent back then was when one reached puberty. When one reached puberty, they were considered adults. Not just in Arabia or Africa, but worldwide. I recalled as late as the 80's, the age of consent laws in many of the southern states were as young as 14. It is also possible that those who make fun of the Prophet Muhammad SAW had ancestors who were married as young as Aisha RAA. If you make mockery of the Prophet SAW, you are also making mockery of your ancestors.

  • @djaelanid1923

    @djaelanid1923

    5 жыл бұрын

    Charles Lucas . Yes the ones that brought up the issue were from the anti-Islamic groups. They come with evil agendas. It seems that they are so desperate using this issue to insult and attack the prophet PBUH without realizing that it backfires at them if only they're not that ignorant to look at the mirror before pointing finger blindly in disgusting manners.

  • @liannapfister8255

    @liannapfister8255

    5 жыл бұрын

    A 9-year-old girl is still prepubescent. Even if she was a teenager, I still wouldn’t trust anything written about a genuine, loving relationship between a girl & someone that could easily be her grandfather. _Maybe_ I could understand the context of why those people would get married, but I wouldn’t trust ‘true love’. Never would there be a good reason to consummate a marriage with a prepubescent child.

  • @charleslucas1784

    @charleslucas1784

    Жыл бұрын

    @@shafiq7175 the most dangerous you are doing is that you are judging the values over 1400 years ago from a 21st century standpoint. This is incorrect. If Aisha RA was so damaged by your observations, then why wasn't she angry at the Prophet SAW? Because she wasn't, sir and loved and missed him very much. The Prophet SAW died in her arms. In fact, even the Prophet's worst enemies didn't even use the large age gap between the Prophet SAW and Aisha as a weapon against him because it wasn't a big deal back then. It was normal. As the Imam mentioned in the video, it wasn't until recent decades that the age gap between the Prophet and Aisha was criticized by Islamophobes. Also she was one of the foremost scholars in Islamic history. Many of the hadiths were written by her. Please show proof that she was emotionally and physically damaged by her husband. Please show proof that he did all of these evil and nasty things to her.

  • @shafiq7175

    @shafiq7175

    Жыл бұрын

    @@charleslucas1784 Wether aisha ra was affected positively or negatively is COMPLETELY besides the point. As u mentioned back then people had no issue with it. But PEOPLE NOW do very much because it has been proven as harmfull. allah swt ofcourse knows all of this so why did he not make sure to instruct the prophet to consumate her at a later age so that people from EVERY ERA can take example to him, do u understand? The age gap is not critizised by islamophobes, (maybe by some) but the majority of people have an issue with this because how can islam be for every time period if the prophet did something that is harmfull to the people of this era?

  • @muhammadhashir2042

    @muhammadhashir2042

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@liannapfister8255agree. But if hazrat ayesha was 9 year old there is nothing wrong in it. Because in that time age does not matter. Puberty matters. In jews rebbeca 3 when she married issac. In christan Mary was 13 and Joseph was 90 and in Hinduism karishna married 8 year old rukhmani before puberty.

  • @sadiajehan8404
    @sadiajehan84044 жыл бұрын

    Why do you give so much background music?? Can’t hear a thing!

  • @cucumberishealthy9661

    @cucumberishealthy9661

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @fmjjjjn7510

    @fmjjjjn7510

    3 жыл бұрын

    Are you deaf?

  • @sadiajehan8404

    @sadiajehan8404

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@fmjjjjn7510 No I am just not dumb like you that's all

  • @fmjjjjn7510

    @fmjjjjn7510

    3 жыл бұрын

    sadia jehan that doesn’t make any sense whatsoever. Just turn the captions on or something

  • @sadiajehan8404

    @sadiajehan8404

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@fmjjjjn7510 Sorry, didn't mean to be rude.

  • @faizanhaider2006
    @faizanhaider20063 жыл бұрын

    Subhanallah

  • @Vibestr
    @Vibestr5 жыл бұрын

    Her age was clearly an issue otherwise why would the narrations have to specify her age? The Quran speaks about reaching physical and mental maturity for a marriage to be valid, so any hadith that says otherwise is to be disregarded.

  • @mikk3150

    @mikk3150

    5 жыл бұрын

    No. It wasn't an issue. She was merely stating for the record how old she was when she got married to the Prophet. She was a prolific narrator of hadith, she was of the greatest scholars of the sahaba. it wasn't an issue then, it wasnt an issue a few 100 years ago, and its only become an issue in very recent times due to the massive onslaught against Islam by the enmies of Islam who want to make Muslims doubt their own religion.

  • @Vibestr

    @Vibestr

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@mikk3150 Yes because we all know people just randomly cite their age in regular conversation. It seems obvious to me that the narrator is trying to create an impression of her youth and virginity. The Syrian hadithist al-Idlini has written an extensive piece showing the weakness of these hadiths (pls see the paper on yaqeens website). More importantly, the Quran mentions physical maturity through menstruation and mental maturity which doesn't make sense for a child.

  • @010aria_mzk2
    @010aria_mzk25 жыл бұрын

    The most beautiful thing about this is that even after Aisha (RA) is not with us anymore she continues to make people embrace islam today after so many years 💓

  • @norahmed4574
    @norahmed45745 жыл бұрын

    I'm very excited for the papers to be published regarding this. They usually publish papers in their official website. Btw, it seems like some people have a lot of time trolling in the comment section. Why don't we all block/report them? Hahaha

  • @norahmed4574

    @norahmed4574

    5 жыл бұрын

    Please read the published paper about this topic. It's up on their website.

  • @fideledefer4283

    @fideledefer4283

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@norahmed4574 can you give me the link please?

  • @allee3476
    @allee34765 ай бұрын

    How can I obtain the literature that you sent to that lady? This is one topic that's used as a rebuttal when I talk about the authenticity of prophet Muhammad (PBUH).

  • @lucygraves42
    @lucygraves425 жыл бұрын

    Could someone please send me that material please

  • @shameemnassiree2780
    @shameemnassiree27805 жыл бұрын

    Where is the publication paper on this topic?

  • @shameemnassiree2780

    @shameemnassiree2780

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Bilal Khan Eagerly waiting for that

  • @yaqeeninstituteofficial

    @yaqeeninstituteofficial

    5 жыл бұрын

    Salaams! The first of four papers in the collection "More Than Just a Number" Perspectives on the Age of Aisha (ra)" is available now: yaqeeninstitute.org/series/more-than-just-a-number-perspectives-on-the-age-of-aisha/ We will be releasing a paper every day of this week.

  • @rizwanahmadchat
    @rizwanahmadchat5 жыл бұрын

    Actually I'm so amazed by the story words can't get out of my mouth... So my heart 💓 is saying....Mashaallah.... Mashaallah Mashaallah 💓

  • @PreetiNigam07

    @PreetiNigam07

    5 жыл бұрын

    All pedophiles have very lovely relationships with their victims. The play around, fondle, fall in love.......Make them great scholars, good money and fame........

  • @zizla3830

    @zizla3830

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sahih Bukhari (6:301) - "[Muhammad] said, 'Is not the evidence of two women equal to the witness of one man?' They replied in the affirmative. He said, 'This is the deficiency in her intelligence

  • @adityavelagapudi7301
    @adityavelagapudi7301 Жыл бұрын

    It's all cause she understood the situation

  • @someone-mp5jz
    @someone-mp5jz2 ай бұрын

    For those who have issues! The prophet Muhammad Peace be upon him married Aisha peace be upon her and lived an amazing life, cared for her, and loved her. Nowadays less than 9 years old girls are raped and harassed and nobody makes an issue. Early-age marriage is not an issue but insulting someone is a sin. Please study his life then say something. You will be amazed at how they spent life.

  • @DeTroutSpinnaz

    @DeTroutSpinnaz

    Ай бұрын

    Stockholm syndrome

  • @matthewlopez8521
    @matthewlopez85214 жыл бұрын

    He did not answer the question

  • @ClydeAlb

    @ClydeAlb

    3 жыл бұрын

    U dont understand the question, this is how it was back than shorter life peoples used to get marry at young ,Mary the mother of Jesus pbuh was 12 when she was pregnant with Jesus pbuh

  • @matthewlopez8521

    @matthewlopez8521

    3 жыл бұрын

    Clyde ALB what evidence do u have to support Mary was 12? I have your own book that says Aisha was 7

  • @ClydeAlb

    @ClydeAlb

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@matthewlopez8521 just search it in google and u will see How old was Mary

  • @ClydeAlb

    @ClydeAlb

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@matthewlopez8521 and yes Aisha was 7 this was how it worked back than dude the life was shorter and peoples used to grow faster so at 10 peoples was like 20 now ,peoples used to live at 50 now they live at 90

  • @seansean2545

    @seansean2545

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ClydeAlb Mohammed was a creepy old pervert 😂 call the fucking police 🚔🚨🚔🚨🚔

  • @EmptyD0ll
    @EmptyD0ll2 жыл бұрын

    moral relativism doesnt justify the immorality of the marriage

  • @alyzak.8997

    @alyzak.8997

    2 жыл бұрын

    I feel the same way.

  • @alyzak.8997

    @alyzak.8997

    2 жыл бұрын

    I've researched this more. He might respond to your comment by saying that you're looking at it from the fallacy of presentism. He might say that at that time, given the circumstances and different factors, it was not only normal to marry younger girls but it was moral to do so. I'm just playing the devil's advocate here bro/sis. :)

  • @EmptyD0ll

    @EmptyD0ll

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@alyzak.8997 yes and they would be wrong regardless

  • @alyzak.8997

    @alyzak.8997

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@EmptyD0ll Perhaps. Perhaps not.

  • @EmptyD0ll

    @EmptyD0ll

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@alyzak.8997 my comment is a response of what he would say, "at that time" is relativism, wrongness is timeless

  • @curtabele6982
    @curtabele698210 ай бұрын

    I still struggle with it I’ve always believed a good man would feel the instinct of protection. I understand it was a different time when women were traded but still I would say it’s not something that should be ignored like that. We should be able to learn from the good and the bad of someone’s life no one is perfect

  • @muhammadhashir2042

    @muhammadhashir2042

    7 ай бұрын

    if hazrat ayesha was 9 year old there is nothing wrong in it. Because in that time age does not matter. Puberty matters. In jews rebbeca 3 when she married issac. In christan Mary was 13 and Joseph was 90 and in Hinduism karishna married 8 year old rukhmani before puberty

  • @muhammadhashir2042

    @muhammadhashir2042

    7 ай бұрын

    Why do you think is enemy never mock him about his marriage . Even with enemy never mocked him about Hazrat Asha age. And please don't compare that time of age to current time. No scripture tell us you must be 18 19 to start a relationship not even the Bible the Bible also have same you as a Quran it is puberty. Do you know what is the age of Mary when she give birth to Jesus she was was 12 do you think god is the pedo because he choose a 12 year old to impregnant instead of 20 or 18 . How old the Mary when she married she was 13 to 15 year old and Joseph was 90 year old do you think Jesoph was pedo.even in sanatan religion karishna God married to rukhmani when she was 8 year old. In jews rebeeca was 3 and issac was 37 when they married

  • @Naimedclaiming

    @Naimedclaiming

    3 ай бұрын

    She was pubescent Literally

  • @curtabele6982

    @curtabele6982

    3 ай бұрын

    @@muhammadhashir2042 yes sir I know and I’m aware of it and I think that was also wrong, but don’t get that confused with lack of understanding. In my opinion I think it’s sad people talk about this aspect of the Quran because its done wonders for my friends life.

  • @wanderingsoul2758
    @wanderingsoul27582 жыл бұрын

    What was the material?

  • @aisham.5088
    @aisham.50885 жыл бұрын

    If it was such a normal thing back then to marry girls at the age of 6/9 why dont you then name examples of contemporary muslim who practiced it? If you believe it was a pre-islamic practice in Arabia I would still like some names on the table. So the logic is that is was "normal" back then.. then prove it. Furthermore, lets just say for the sake of argument is was practiced (which you need to prove), so was the klling of infant girls.. that does not make it less of a transgression against girls. The riwayat in which Aisha says she was 6/9 years old are fabricated and conflict with many historical facts that identify her as approximately 18 years old. So instead of "defending" paedofilia - I would recomend taking into consideration aspects such as ; 1)Aisha was 10 years younger than her sister Asmaa. 2) we know alot about Asmaa's age -27years during the hijrah -making Aisha 17 years at that point. (one year before her marriage). 3 )All of Abu Bakr's children were born before the revelation -also Aisha. If she was 6/9 she would'nt fall under that catagory. This we know from our own historical sources and other narrations. You are not defending our prophet - you are in fact attacking his character. After almost 20 years with Khadija who was his companion and partner and mother of his children he marries a 9 year old who was younger than his old children?? Really? So instead of finding a compatible woman who can help him raise his children he marrries a child to add yet another one to foster??

  • @raedhussein4

    @raedhussein4

    5 жыл бұрын

    Well said. Thank you

  • @jig270

    @jig270

    5 жыл бұрын

    @moist faucet she was 16 and when married 19 . but if you dont want to believe you will never.

  • @mnshahab3857

    @mnshahab3857

    5 жыл бұрын

    Wallahi the most sane comment I have read on Mother Ayesha

  • @rezarahman5

    @rezarahman5

    5 жыл бұрын

    @moist faucet not so many lol, I found much pedhopiles video and lot of them are white people who fuck with 5-10 yo girls. It's very disgusting, were they inspired from Muhammad's marriage?😂

  • @zamlahani

    @zamlahani

    5 жыл бұрын

    What is your source? Stronger than sahih bukhari muslim?

  • @johney3105
    @johney31054 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this explanation brother. You are not only logical, but you talk always with a smile and in a manner that allows me to comprehend well and ignore any hate from islamophobes. May Allah (SAW) give you jannah.

  • @nakkadu

    @nakkadu

    3 жыл бұрын

    So if someone criticizes an old man marrying a little girl they're an islamophobe? Lol ok.

  • @baderabduallah3311

    @baderabduallah3311

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@nakkadu Yes they're dirty Islamophobic because they use the Hadiths to insulting the greatest man ever. And since you are Western guy are you OK with incest?

  • @crzahmed9707

    @crzahmed9707

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nakkadu yes if someone criticizes someone without even knowing anything related and only have heard from the west are bound to be islamophobia.this is one of the most common statements of those people. People marrying young was common at that time and people aged differently at that time. The only reference to her age comes from herself and if nobody else looked at it like a issue for centuries idk why you should

  • @crzahmed9707

    @crzahmed9707

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nakkadu it's only recently that people have said that 19 is the least age to marry but it doesn't apply to previous millenniums where people aged differently and had different traditions. Get a life

  • @crzahmed9707

    @crzahmed9707

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nakkadu Wasn't the messenger(S.A.W) at his age 25 was married to a woman of 40 when she proposed? Did anyone at that time found it odd? Get proper education about history bruh

  • @DrWoofOfficial
    @DrWoofOfficial4 ай бұрын

    What's the bunch of material we can read?

  • @honey-suckle3228
    @honey-suckle32282 жыл бұрын

    Omg so true like different tiems consider diff ages as an adult and 18 is a minor to me but ppl dont care do they? Ppl domt understand things were diff back then

  • @bithiahamariah9139

    @bithiahamariah9139

    Жыл бұрын

    It is still Sharia law today for a minor to be wed and to consummate the marriage in Islam. Because of Aisha's marriage. This has nothing to do with what was normal back then. ALLAH condoned marriage and sex with pre-pubescent girls - a god who is supposed to be all knowing. How could a GOD condone marriage with a child that is the question here. Didn't he know the problems it would cause in 2022?

  • @Naimedclaiming

    @Naimedclaiming

    3 ай бұрын

    @@bithiahamariah9139that’s not true Allah said that a woman has to be pubescent and mature mentally And he knew this was going to cause all of this in “2022” because it’s a test from him to see who are arrogant and don’t check every Hadith and who does Seems like you didn’t

  • @Naimedclaiming

    @Naimedclaiming

    3 ай бұрын

    @@bithiahamariah9139 TERRIBLE try to blame ALLAH for this But this wasn’t wrong to begin with if she’s pubescent so shut it

  • @RM-fs4dj
    @RM-fs4dj3 жыл бұрын

    It was a norm back then for men to marry children, but here's the problem, Muhammad supposedly wasn't a normal man, he was a prophet who supposedly spoke to God, yet it took "normal" men hundreds of years later to realise that having sex with children is despicable. Would a Prophet be so wrong about something?

  • @raindrop6041
    @raindrop60413 жыл бұрын

  • @gamesandme8336
    @gamesandme8336 Жыл бұрын

    اللهم صلي وسلم وبارك على سيدنا وحبيبنا ونبينا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم وعلي أصحابه و ازواجه الطيبين الطاهرين الاخيار

  • @faisr366
    @faisr3663 жыл бұрын

    Chills

  • @soa1945
    @soa19454 жыл бұрын

    My mother Aisha (ra) ❣️

  • @hggfhh4449
    @hggfhh44495 жыл бұрын

    Notice how he doesn't awnser the question about her age

  • @anoosha3920

    @anoosha3920

    3 жыл бұрын

    it's because there's nothing clearly written or told about Hazrat Aisha's age so he just can't make up something by himself

  • @annyulain4320

    @annyulain4320

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aisha's age is literally still a debate,the hadith written about her claims she is 6 but many people do not believe this because... Imam Wali-ud-Din Muhammad ibn Abdullah Al-Khatib, who died 700 years ago, has also written brief biographical notes on the narrators of Hadith reports. He writes under Asma, the older daughter of Abu Bakr: “She was the sister of Aisha Siddiqa, wife of the Holy Prophet, and was ten years older than her. … In 73 A.H. … Asma died at the age of one hundred years.” [6] So it would make Asma a 28 years of age in I A.H the year of the Hijra, thus making Aisha 18 yrs old in I A.H. Making Aisha 19 when her marriage was consumated,and 14 or 15 years old at the time of her nikah. Not only that,Aisha's birth was a little bit before call is consisent when with the opening words of a statement by her which is recorded four times in Bukhari. Those words are as follows: “Ever since I can remember (or understand things) my parents were following the religion of Islam.” [8] This is tantamount to say she was born ater her parents accepted islam,but Aisha can only seem to remember then always following the religion of Islam. . No doubt she and her parents knew well whether she was born before or after they accepted Islam, as their acceptance of Islam was such a landmark event in their life which took place just after the Holy Prophet received his mission from Allah (swt) If she was born after her parents accepted islam,why would Aisha say she remembered her parents always following Islam. Not only is this consisent with her being born before the call, and being perhaps four or five years old at the time of the Call, which was also almost the time when her parents accepted Islam. But then theres other reasons why people think that Aisha was 9. Which im not getting into lol

  • @hggfhh4449

    @hggfhh4449

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@annyulain4320 what can you trust in the Islamic sources? It seems to me there is no defined awnser.

  • @annyulain4320

    @annyulain4320

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@hggfhh4449 that's why aishas age is still a debate

  • @Karima_Maghribia
    @Karima_Maghribia4 жыл бұрын

    Where can I find the full video?

  • @sheikhaaliyatabassum6492

    @sheikhaaliyatabassum6492

    3 жыл бұрын

    Here it is

  • @Karima_Maghribia

    @Karima_Maghribia

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@sheikhaaliyatabassum6492 I don’t see any link

  • @sheikhaaliyatabassum6492

    @sheikhaaliyatabassum6492

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Karima_Maghribia are you sure?

  • @jasjas3642
    @jasjas36423 жыл бұрын

    the hadith is sahih 100% no doubt. but I still think she was young, definitely not 18-20. more like10-11 when married, 13-14 at time of consummation. The reason is because it is a well known fact arabs at the time of the prophet before hijra didn't record dates but remembered based on events. check this video in youtube by drew binsky "THEY DON'T HAVE BIRTHDAYS (seriously)". it shows people in yemen don't know their age. so in my opinion Aisha was estimating her age when she narrated the hadith. Furthermore, events at bukhari indeed puts her somewhere between 13-14-15 at time of consummation, and Allah knows best

  • @SerajEmad
    @SerajEmad3 жыл бұрын

    She was between 17 and 19, search and you'll find the answer

  • @SerajEmad

    @SerajEmad

    3 жыл бұрын

    @SIM MIM don't say "we" you are not all muslims...

  • @SerajEmad

    @SerajEmad

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Mo Mo Bukhari is your god not mine.

  • @baderabduallah3311

    @baderabduallah3311

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@SerajEmad absolutely true Bukhari isn't holy book. Child marriage is forbidden even in Quran

  • @shevandaalfaridzi4167

    @shevandaalfaridzi4167

    2 жыл бұрын

    Where's the hadith sources? I want to learn.

  • @kasparov6471

    @kasparov6471

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@baderabduallah3311 Lair

  • @muhamadhamdy6576
    @muhamadhamdy65765 жыл бұрын

    All evidence mounts up that Aisha was from 18 to 22 when the Prophet married her. The thing is, the ONLY evidence is a hadith from bukhary, one hadith which might very well be mistaken. There are other hadiths that contradict it. So obviously there's much more to this issue. Dr. Adnan Ibrahim (famous Palestinian scholar living in Vienna now) did an entire Masters Thesis on the age of Aisha at her marriage, and he completely refuted the claim that she was 9 years old. How utterly and completely stupid one has to be to think that a girl can be engaged at 6 and married at 9!!! There's a video of him on youtube completely destroying this. Had that been the case, it would be common Arab practice to marry girls at this age since the prophet himself did it, but one cannot find any single source that would claim this was ever Arab tradition before or after Islam. Absolute minimum age at which girls were married was when they completed puberty which is 12-15 at the very minimum (this still happens in some Bedouin Arab societies), but 9 is UNHEARD of, which is quite a strong proof the whole thing is baseless. The WHOLE PROBLEM, and believe me that's the entire problem, is that Salafists think Sahih Bukhary is Quran, which it isn't, it can very well have mistakes and it does, a lot. It's just a bunch of things people heard other people saying. Not only that, Salafists believe a text should only be understood by its "outer" or "shallow" meaning, no "thinking" about it(!!), apparently using their brain hurts!! Yes Imam Bukhary and other Hadith scholars tried their best to get hadith only from truthful people, but some hadiths might be misheard, some might be misunderstood (since lots of them are conveyed by meaning, not literally), some might be blunt lies. There are measures for the validity of the CONTENT of a Hadith, not only the people who tell it. Sadly, Salafists would go to great lengths to prove EVERY Bukhary and Muslim Hadith is sacred, even if it would mean making the prophet look like an indecent person (contradicting basic Quran statements and thousands of other hadiths). It's unprecedented stupidity. So here I am, telling you Muslims around the world, don't follow Salafists. Sahih Al Bukhary and Muslim are not sacred texts, not everything in them is to believed, they contain thousands of Hadiths, lots of them are bound to have mistakes and sometimes deliberate lies on the great Prophet peace be upon him. There is SO MUCH to this issue of Hadiths that I would advise not to focus on Hadiths especially if you aren't Arab and moreover if you aren't a scholar, and focus more on the Quran, since its validity is not to be disputed by any Muslim. Believe me there's so much more to it, even politics, a scholar would be "paid" to only tell Hadiths that rulers want or like. Hadiths about certain subjects rulers didn't like were omitted from books, etc. etc. So yeah, its a big issue, don't get yourself into it unless you really want to dig deep.

  • @muhamadhamdy6576

    @muhamadhamdy6576

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@billybilly3570 I do not disregard Bukhari, merely stating not all of its Hadiths are authentic. And Shia are not "filthy". This is again Wahabist and Salafist thought, sadly taken over the brains of most non Arab Muslims because of the petrodollar power. But in reality there's MUCH MORE to this Shia and Sunni issue too.

  • @aaminahbeg7561

    @aaminahbeg7561

    5 жыл бұрын

    Muhamad Hamdy isn't there a reason we call it Sahih bukhari? Agree on Shias not being filthy. But, i don't understand why Muslims are openly falling prey to western propaganda, by using terms such as wahabi/salafi or any other term for that matter. Its just them trying to divide us. If you don't like something someone is doing correct them in the best way possible and hate the act not the person or community. It just divides the Ummah.

  • @playstation9435

    @playstation9435

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@aaminahbeg7561 I am pretty sure any sane mind will find many contradictions in Bukhari, Book compiled after 200 yrs of Prophet pbuh. Much during the time when every Tom dick and harry was trying to grab power. I hate to say this but its not Western propaganda thats divding the muslims but the Muslims themselves. Wahhabis want Shias to be killed, and you can find numerous propaganda channels just for this purpose. Wahhabis also want Muslim Brotherhood to be banned. Sufis are also kafir for Wahhabis. And no one but they preach about all other sects being kâfir. I think we should stop blaming west for all our problems.

  • @miqbalcassim

    @miqbalcassim

    5 жыл бұрын

    General principle is that Hadith should be interpreted in the Light of Quran. Quran is 1st source of reference and if any Hadhees contradicting Quran should be disregarded. Imam Bukhari took great care and effort to compile but after all he is a Human so mistake bound to happen. In this case, Hadhees stating Hasrath Aisha RAW age flatly wring in all count. Better we don’t fall prey to the plot of shaithan and slandering each other. May Allah guide and unite us.

  • @muhamadhamdy6576

    @muhamadhamdy6576

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@aaminahbeg7561 My friend, western propaganda is the one trying to divide Muslims into Sunni and Shia. Shia are Muslims, and are good Muslims too. Saudi Wahhabism has spread lots of rumors and lies about them. Yes some of them are extreme and say indecent things about Aisha and prophet companions, but the majority are good Muslims. Wahhabism and Salafism (in the light Saudi Wahhabism) on the other hand, is a completely mutilated version of Islam very similar to Khawarij thought, they are very easy in declaring MOST IF NOY ALL Muslims to be Kufar (infidels), read their books. Read Abdul Wahab's books himself (their leader). Anyone who study Islam knows this. And all of a sudden this backwards and violent Islam has lots of dollars from oil and they can spread their stupid shit everywhere. Islam is very different than the violent and very rigid Islam they follow. Scholars in Al Azhar in Egypt and Levant were leading way for a very enlightened age in Islamic thought (Imam Mohamad Abdo and Gamal Aldin Al Afghani and many others) in the beginning of 20th century. Can you believe these Imams themselves were calling for more freedom to women? Until these idiots came with their petrodollar and stone age thinking and greatly influenced everything. The problem is with non Arab Muslims who only get Islam from Saudi funded institutions and think this rigid violent Islam is the only thing that was ever there.

  • @miran592
    @miran5923 жыл бұрын

    2:12 bro where did thid argumet come from? Is it a valid statement or just the reasoning? As what i know the saabiqoon al-awwaloon were regarded so high

  • @MuhammadYousuf-pl9on

    @MuhammadYousuf-pl9on

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yep what about the prophet cousin ali ibn abi talib a.s

  • @aimsteadygaming5919
    @aimsteadygaming59195 жыл бұрын

    ALLAHU AKBAR

  • @amanihobson6187
    @amanihobson6187Ай бұрын

    I don’t see how a 53 year old man and 6 year old girl is anything normal

  • @ajalahupfront
    @ajalahupfront4 жыл бұрын

    I'm not troubled about her marriage. I am ashamed of it. I am ashamed of the prophet.

  • @ajalahupfront

    @ajalahupfront

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Pourya take that proof of yours to the Saudis

  • @ajalahupfront

    @ajalahupfront

    3 жыл бұрын

    They are the custodians of your religion, aren't they?

  • @LucifersPride6
    @LucifersPride64 жыл бұрын

    I love Allah (SWT) and Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him)

  • @shabirahmad2931
    @shabirahmad29315 жыл бұрын

    SubhannAllah Allah Hu Akber....

  • @liliasyarif3865
    @liliasyarif38652 жыл бұрын

    For those who accused Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him doing something immoral by marrying the very young Aisyah, please ponder about these points: 1. During the lifetime of Prophet Muhammad there were many enemies and haters of Islam but they never attacked or insulted the prophet in regards of his marital conditions. Why now some modern people feel they are wiser, holier and more knowledgeable in this matter? 2. Allah subhana wata ala praises the character of Prophet Muhammad and it is written in the Al Qur'an. Allah is the One who decides morality, the right or the wrong. So those who tried to find fault upon Prophet Muhammad are those who have problems with their hearts and their mind. 3. The character and life of Prophet Muhammad was reflected in Al Qur'an, in every sentences of the Al Qur'an, because Allah will not allow His Holy words uttered and conveyed by an immoral person. Al Qur'an as the revelations of Allah and the prophethood of Muhammad are integral and inseparable facts. So if you really admit that the Al Qur'an is the truth then Prophet Muhammad is indeed a noble person. If you think that Prophet Muhammad is an immoral person then all the sentences in the Al Qur'an are fake and bullshit. Make your decision! 4. Allah Himself said that He will test His servants in regards of their faith and their souls, therefore there are many of His wisdoms and decrees that look bad for those who do not want to reflect wisely and intelligently. May Allah guide and forgive us all.

  • @bithiahamariah9139

    @bithiahamariah9139

    Жыл бұрын

    How do you account for the fact that the god you worship is the one who condoned sex with a child? Not the cultural norms - they have nothing to do with this equation. Allah decreed that a child under puberty can be married and have sex. This is the God you worship. He decreed it for Mohammed meeting his desires for Aisha, AND he decreed it for all girls for all time. Think about that next time you bow down to him.

  • @ismailali3250

    @ismailali3250

    Жыл бұрын

    @@bithiahamariah9139 She had intercourse after puberty.

  • @bithiahamariah9139

    @bithiahamariah9139

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ismailali3250 BEFORE Puberty. IF it was after Puberty - then Puberty would be the standard age for consummation of marriage in Islam based on Aisha and Mohammed's marriage. It is NOT. It has nothing to do with Puberty. It DOES have to do with age 9 years. Under age 9 - the girl does not have to submit to sex with her husband but after 9 yrs of age she MUST SUBMIT to sex with her husband...because Aisha did. That is why Isis took 9 yr old brides. Tell me - what do the Tasfirs explain about Surah 65:4? Do you know? Have you EVER bothered to read them? What is the real meaning of Surah 65:4. Will you continue to worship Allah knowing the Truth?

  • @ismailali3250

    @ismailali3250

    Жыл бұрын

    @@bithiahamariah9139 who said she had intercourse before puberty? Stop making shit up woman, yeah i’ve read the tafsirs.

  • @mnshahab3857
    @mnshahab38575 жыл бұрын

    MAHATMA GANDHI married a 13 year old 100 years ago which is like a taboo now, right?. It is stupid to determine the society 1400 years back based on today. Incest is being made legal in Denmark. What you think about that? First of all, our Muslim speakers should state facts i.e. she was an adult and people matured faster 1400 years ago and not try to defend paedophilia because some Islamophobe says so.. Being a Muslim speaker and being a Sheikh is totally different.

  • @samuelvimes7686

    @samuelvimes7686

    5 жыл бұрын

    "It is stupid to determine the society 1400 years back based on today." Which just shows that the morality of the Quran is obsolete and barbaric by todays standards

  • @sharoozasghar4956

    @sharoozasghar4956

    5 жыл бұрын

    Samuel Vimes do you need some braincells donated? Its just a historical context. Nothing to do with the quran or anything. Muslims have a certain set of morals. The society today is pretty filthy, just look at your pornography statistics and in todays society sex sells the most and you tell us how backwards islam is? Give me a break. Soon just like society condemned homosexuality and now yöu re a „martyr“ for defending, soon you guys will accept incest and pedhophila under the same reason you approved homosexuality for. „Oh you cant stop love“. „We dont choose who we love“ BS. You think your society is all advance but look at the raw facts and see how messed up it is

  • @samuelvimes7686

    @samuelvimes7686

    5 жыл бұрын

    ​@@sharoozasghar4956 Hypocrite. You speak about pedophilia and incest when Islam justifies it? Child marriage and having sex with children (like your prophet) is way worse than adults having consuensual sex with each other. And incest? If you believe in the Adam & Eve myth you logically you must believe humanity is a product of incest. Or how do you think their children got children? Stupid idiot.

  • @_truthful_q_

    @_truthful_q_

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@samuelvimes7686 steady on. You are just some random occurrence, as is this whole universe. No Adam and eve. So, your moral outrage is of no use. Although, this man Muhammad (SAW), in 23 years, he achieved more than you or anyone else since ever will or in the future ever will. If you are logic and scientific, and you start off with probability, you will soon give up.

  • @aninfinitelyvixxedvip6

    @aninfinitelyvixxedvip6

    5 жыл бұрын

    Samuel Vimes actually no, because it was not the Qur´an, he married her as a man of his time. It doesn´t say anywhere in teh Qur´an taht girls shoudl be maried at that age with older men. No it was custom, adn teh world changed. BUt the other things in the Qur´an are not backwards. Name one, we can discuss it.

  • @nonothing5803
    @nonothing58035 жыл бұрын

    Subhanallah....

  • @Hauwraa
    @Hauwraa Жыл бұрын

    Allahu Akbar kabeera