Are You Sabotaging Your Happiness? The Key Habits That Drive Success in Love & Life

Today, Jay welcomes back his good friend Lisa Bilyeu. Join them as they dive deep into the themes of building radical confidence and mastering emotional maturity. Lisa shares transformative insights on navigating relationships, redefining personal value systems, and the surprising impact of toxic gratitude.
In this interview, we discuss:
00:00 Intro
00:59 How Do You Define Confidence?
04:21 Believe You’re Capable
07:21 Admitting You’re Unhappy
13:40 The Frame of Reference
17:03 Everything Is A Risk
25:09 Non-Negotiables in A Relationship
32:08 Conversations That Don’t Break Relationships
38:57 Who Leads? Who Follows?
46:53 Conflicting Value System
52:24 Don’t Assume, Find a Compromise
56:48 Growth Mindset With Your Partner
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  • @JayShettyPodcast.
    @JayShettyPodcast.14 күн бұрын

    Share something you learned from Lisa! I’d like to invite you to join this community and subscribe to the channel. By hitting the 'Subscribe' button, you're not just becoming a subscriber - you're choosing to make a positive difference in your life.

  • @jeetensubba712

    @jeetensubba712

    6 күн бұрын

    0:40 😅

  • @junecarter9330
    @junecarter933014 күн бұрын

    Omg. As a single woman. It has been wild crossing paths with men who wants me to lead EVERYTHING! Conversations, date planning, the pace, the place, literally everything!!! I refuse to submit and lead a man!! I’m also experiencing the male perspective of women being a “helpmate” for a man’s stability!!! Like dude no, your stability is your individual responsibility, as well as my own. I’m not interested in raising my mate. I would rather he be emotionally, physically and financially stable, prior to the relationship. When I share my values, beliefs and perspectives on healthy, reciprocal relationships, I notice they’re being challenged, misunderstood and suppressed!! Omg I just ranted. 😅Thanks for this conversation. Pray for me! 😅

  • @Alexlittle9

    @Alexlittle9

    13 күн бұрын

    Girl sending a big high five ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️rant heard, accepted, supported and recognized

  • @arndtlange9573

    @arndtlange9573

    2 күн бұрын

    So obviously you ran into the same trap every time you chose your partner - perhaps you should check your mental patterns and look for a grown up male 🙋‍♂️👍

  • @user-sl3ow5ul8v
    @user-sl3ow5ul8v14 күн бұрын

    It’s so easy to feel how genuine she is and how she lived every experience and advice she’s giving

  • @cathycurtis1218
    @cathycurtis121814 күн бұрын

    The toxic gratitude is a new concept to me and makes a lot of sense

  • @user-oo7vr8qq1v
    @user-oo7vr8qq1v3 күн бұрын

    ❤Lisa Bilyeu is the smart, witt, open and brave to tell the truth from being without in the common circle, i agree. One need to love oneself and also being at home with one's own weakness and limitation before i can love others

  • @frunzevaleria8167
    @frunzevaleria816714 күн бұрын

    This woman is my row model... I am watching her husbands podcasts for the last 2 years. He mentioned several times that he is success thanks to his wife... It was so inspirational as I said to myself, wow I would like to know more and learn how can I be my partners muse. She is amazing.

  • @Ravengal101

    @Ravengal101

    13 күн бұрын

    What's the name of his podcast?

  • @user-wj3bn1yi8f

    @user-wj3bn1yi8f

    13 күн бұрын

    @@Ravengal101 Impact Theory.

  • @joanne808
    @joanne80814 күн бұрын

    Adore Lisa ❤ we need women like her in our lives! Fantastic to see channel growth, it’ll hit over 3M this year 🎉

  • @ChrisNavarro323
    @ChrisNavarro3238 күн бұрын

    Thank you Lord Jesus for the gift of life and blessings to me and my family $14,120.47 weekly profit Our lord Jesus have lifted up my Life!!!🙏❤❤❤

  • @jeremyramoshabaad782

    @jeremyramoshabaad782

    8 күн бұрын

    I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??

  • @LaurenHopkins992

    @LaurenHopkins992

    8 күн бұрын

    What a testimony!!! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Luislense453

    @Luislense453

    8 күн бұрын

    Isaiah 45:3 speaks of a transference of riches from the heathen to the righteous... I will give you the treasures of darkness and the riches hidden in secret... I receive this for my household in Jesus' name. Amen!

  • @RobG-K

    @RobG-K

    8 күн бұрын

    I'm genuinely curious to know how you earn that much monthly

  • @ChrisNavarro323

    @ChrisNavarro323

    8 күн бұрын

    Well, the investment-advisor that guides me is..

  • @robingraham7618
    @robingraham761814 күн бұрын

    The tennis analogy is brilliant! The goal is to keep the ball in play.

  • @pamotorsports763
    @pamotorsports76314 күн бұрын

    These ppl are not doctors. They are ppl that made it in business and talk about what's worked for them. Period.

  • @KyleVertoch

    @KyleVertoch

    14 күн бұрын

    Business influencer leader doctors LMAO

  • @nancysmith3400

    @nancysmith3400

    14 күн бұрын

    🤗Yes and that’s the beauty of it, ordinary people becoming extraordinary people by seeing what works for them to bring on a successful happy life. Thanks!!!

  • @MsCristina38

    @MsCristina38

    13 күн бұрын

    Exactly, all they do is share common sense. However we can still appreciate them as fellow human beings and enjoy listening to their lived experiences.

  • @user-xw2qp3rw1p

    @user-xw2qp3rw1p

    13 күн бұрын

    I agree with you🎉🎉🎉​@@nancysmith3400

  • @junecarter9330
    @junecarter933014 күн бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this!! We love Lisa!!! She’s so fly and inspirational!!! ✨💖✨

  • @nathanleung5592
    @nathanleung559213 күн бұрын

    Refreshing podcast episode going to this May 2024! So much to learn the confidence & to prioritize the right things. Keep up the good work Jay

  • @tiny.giant1
    @tiny.giant113 күн бұрын

    I haven’t watched the video yet but this woman is my absolute favorite

  • @bheehive4497
    @bheehive449714 күн бұрын

    I love her. Thank you darling!!

  • @VikiKudko
    @VikiKudko10 күн бұрын

    Thank you❤ this is so on time. I have similar story, religious upbringing, feeling that I’m not grateful etc. But luckily, I also started to hear MY voice that I’m not happy.

  • @antoniasachtleben
    @antoniasachtleben13 күн бұрын

    Thank you, Lisa, I learn so much from you today.

  • @brianatexeira
    @brianatexeira11 күн бұрын

    Love this!! This is not just for couple or potential couple, however for singles too. This expand’s one’s mindset and growth into further thinking and not always being emotional. Love you both! Can wait for the next one.

  • @eleonorarusso3481
    @eleonorarusso34818 күн бұрын

    If a man said to me my work is more important than my family, I would just leave him. He’s got his priorities all messed up.

  • @ilovekandii214
    @ilovekandii21414 күн бұрын

    This was soooo good!! Thank you!

  • @elizabethmami7223
    @elizabethmami722314 күн бұрын

    This interview is one of your best @Jay

  • @boipelomotshoge4957
    @boipelomotshoge495714 күн бұрын

    You are doing an amazing job.❤

  • @mohamedhassan6968
    @mohamedhassan696814 күн бұрын

    amazing podcast keep up the good work i am fan.

  • @SR-708
    @SR-7089 күн бұрын

    Thanks bro for sharing us valuable content ...i really enjoy your all podcast that are helpful for me ❤

  • @user-xw2qp3rw1p
    @user-xw2qp3rw1p13 күн бұрын

    We need part2 please ❤❤❤loved this episode

  • @kaitlynduong8940
    @kaitlynduong894014 күн бұрын

    I love this episode!

  • @yvngmotion8307
    @yvngmotion830712 күн бұрын

    What an insightful conversation. Definitely learnt a lot 🎉❤

  • @VikiKudko
    @VikiKudko7 күн бұрын

    ❤❤❤ I do love this episode, thank you for it

  • @chandankumarshaw2670
    @chandankumarshaw267014 күн бұрын

    She is really very strong 💪

  • @serratuzun9853
    @serratuzun985313 күн бұрын

    My favorite episode so far!

  • @4evaevolving
    @4evaevolving13 күн бұрын

    Ooouuu this collab is awesome!!!!

  • @leslyguevara5153
    @leslyguevara51539 күн бұрын

    This one hit different I love this perspective completely ❤it

  • @acarttech
    @acarttech14 күн бұрын

    Hello Jay Shetty thanks for this conversation... Thank you Lisa it's good to always risk 😂😂😂

  • @DominionAnako-bb7ry
    @DominionAnako-bb7ry4 күн бұрын

    Motivation

  • @rosemaryd284
    @rosemaryd28413 күн бұрын

    We’ll see where they are 5yrs..10 yrs. All the best.

  • @aas19205
    @aas1920513 күн бұрын

    Love Lisa

  • @cheetifamily
    @cheetifamily14 күн бұрын

    hi Hoomans it's me Cheeti with my two new born baby kittens and we want some love and support from you all ❤❤

  • @chandankumarshaw2670
    @chandankumarshaw267014 күн бұрын

    Nice conversation 👍👍👍👍👍. 💓

  • @KB-bx9ui
    @KB-bx9ui12 күн бұрын

    FINALLY 🙌

  • @Nddad7777
    @Nddad777714 күн бұрын

    TRUTH ❤

  • @macthartcher4293
    @macthartcher429314 күн бұрын

    What a combination. 😲 😱

  • @chandankumarshaw2670
    @chandankumarshaw267014 күн бұрын

    56:55 true

  • @gayleblake4482
    @gayleblake448214 күн бұрын

    When we ask our other half for help do we have to tell them it's not their fault even though the conversation and everything in world isn't about them?Really enjoyed this episode.

  • @apatheticme7030
    @apatheticme703014 күн бұрын

    Who’s podcast is this

  • @chandankumarshaw2670
    @chandankumarshaw267014 күн бұрын

    58:01yes

  • @micaely880
    @micaely88013 күн бұрын

    Where are the 5 questions at the end of the last videos?

  • @Fotballhome
    @Fotballhome14 күн бұрын

    Thanks ❤️ A single man pepper him self 😁

  • @beanburrito8903
    @beanburrito890314 күн бұрын

  • @Gaitini
    @Gaitini4 күн бұрын

    Working 120h a week 😅😅😅😅 that leves you 7h a day for sleep eat shower is you work everyday day of the week 🤟

  • @dietante494
    @dietante49413 күн бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @DaennaFilms
    @DaennaFilms6 күн бұрын

    ❤❤🔥🔥

  • @evaormandyova
    @evaormandyova11 күн бұрын

    Western world. 120 hours worked in a week. People are willing to give up everything for money. That's called greediness. On the other hand I have to admit that loosing yourself is the most unhappy thing we can do. But the balance is very important.

  • @JB89_
    @JB89_14 күн бұрын

    It’s one thing in being a housewife, it’s another thing to be someone’s Butler. I feel like she took it to the max when there was no need to go quite that far! He can fetch his own clothes.Mothering is never healthy.

  • @rachidaoumalek6425

    @rachidaoumalek6425

    14 күн бұрын

    She's giving an extreme image of the housewife while reasonably helping your family to have a stable calm life is a success

  • @chandankumarshaw2670
    @chandankumarshaw267014 күн бұрын

    32:21 what is going on!

  • @chandankumarshaw2670
    @chandankumarshaw267014 күн бұрын

    55:32 👍🤍

  • @Alexlittle9

    @Alexlittle9

    13 күн бұрын

    Loved and respected 🫡❤️

  • @muffindolphindaphnee
    @muffindolphindaphnee14 күн бұрын

    In all these conversations, it sounds to me like the woman had to adjust for the man. I think that's kind of the life this lady wanted, to be led by her man. But is there a good relationship we can look up to where the woman didnt have to adjust or let go of her dream, of having children like for this lady for example, and instead both partners found a midpoint?

  • @MsCristina38

    @MsCristina38

    13 күн бұрын

    Did she say she wanted kids? Some women have kids and really regret having the kids.

  • @vickil.1388
    @vickil.138813 күн бұрын

    I had the most delicious bacon, lettuce, and tomato sandwich that I couldn't swallow because it was burned, dry, shattered glass that turned saw dust in my mouth.😅

  • @user-lf1yi8tl5f
    @user-lf1yi8tl5f14 күн бұрын

    Free 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 ❤❤❤ till kingdom come

  • @myhandle321
    @myhandle32111 күн бұрын

    who is she?

  • @user-hi1ke5gp6n
    @user-hi1ke5gp6n13 күн бұрын

    Я то счастлив это моя стихия со здоровьем проблемы и доставить меня надо именно в США

  • @sinistros6666
    @sinistros666614 күн бұрын

    Didn't she find a larger watch?

  • @Fidgettoys-dj3gf

    @Fidgettoys-dj3gf

    14 күн бұрын

    Brilliant. She's a queen ❤️

  • @tedwilson1477
    @tedwilson147713 күн бұрын

    The reason why she is happy to let Tom lead, is because he would be just as happy to let her lead. In most relationships, this is not the case.

  • @gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489
    @gracejasinthpriyadarsini248914 күн бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @user-lf1yi8tl5f
    @user-lf1yi8tl5f14 күн бұрын

    Free 🇵🇸 🇵🇸 till kingdom come

  • @user-wj3bn1yi8f
    @user-wj3bn1yi8f13 күн бұрын

    I guarantee that Tom does not want Postmates. He wants you to cook for him.

  • @salyol7
    @salyol714 күн бұрын

    Please let your viewers chose to subscribe or not to your channel !

  • @Gaitini
    @Gaitini4 күн бұрын

    Are we really making a big deal of a man that is not upset because his partner is not he’s maid anymore?! 😅

  • @henrikelanschuetzer4261
    @henrikelanschuetzer426114 күн бұрын

    Both of them pronouncing " needs" of Lost Generation. Luckily other examples out there.

  • @estherhamalka1669
    @estherhamalka166912 күн бұрын

    I get the feeling she has given up of new life, bb, because her husband is selfish and lazy. She wont be a single mom m-f, she is a single woman i guess. Dont give up your dreams, life bc of a man. 😮😢 i would rather stay and live single strong and honest😮😇

  • @mrsweet4955
    @mrsweet49557 күн бұрын

    Good for her but this episode was a waste of time.

  • @TheDarkerAges
    @TheDarkerAges12 күн бұрын

    People still listen to this fraud?

  • @UmidaMamadiyorova-mj3tn
    @UmidaMamadiyorova-mj3tn13 күн бұрын

    ❤️‍🔥

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