Been married for 50 yrs. Please pick your battles carefully. It's not worth being right all the time. ❤ The older we get the more mellow we become.

@MissFancyClancy

11 ай бұрын

Great advise … if we only knew then what we know now. ❤️

@frannieb5203

11 ай бұрын

Exactly...46 yrs here and I always was happy when my hubs got to do a fish or hunt trip even if it was our anniversary.

@renewillner5061

11 ай бұрын

Yes pick the battles.. lovelovelove ❤️🌈🌸✌🏻

@CallieFigueroa76

11 ай бұрын

I agree

@rrr441

11 ай бұрын

Yes, if growing up with parents who passive-agressively fought all the time taught me one thing it's this.

Any relationship requires work. You are a sweet couple. You obviously both adore your children. Derrick has an inner child and is a fun daddy.

A date night every week saved our marriage. No excuses, have a back up sitter, make reservations and have rules. No talk about kids, the house, or money. That focuses on the two of you. The kids understand that’s your priority.

@jayannakelley9051

10 ай бұрын

They have a nanny & sitter!

@flowersflowers5070

8 ай бұрын

And no cells.... And should you adopt .. please adopt an American child... I love watching you guys. Something that tore my marriage apart was letting the children play us against each other .. please don't allow the children to see that they can... that's my only advice.. now go love on one another😅

The fact that Derek was awkward on his first date with Sarah is very endearing because there’s something very innocent about it and that he’s definitely not a player. Beautiful story, guys. Love the Q&A.

@PricklePrice

7 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤

You never know things are going to turn out. I honestly got married kind of by accident. But it lasted for almost 42 years. Marriage can be difficult, but oh so rewarding.

@conniebendick9293

9 ай бұрын

How do you get married by accident?🤔😊

I love how open the two of you are. Marriage is a life long commitment and you two are committed

I lived with a couple who would have once a week couch dates when they were in the trenches of having little kids. They would schedule it ahead of time on their calendar and just spend time talking on the couch and considered it a real date. I always thought that was such a sweet and practical idea

My husband and I just celebrated our 18th anniversary and one thing we decided a long time ago is when we are on a date we can talk about all the problems with kids and family struggles. But when we get to our date place all the changes and we can only talk about us. It has been amazing. We still continue to learn about each other every day. Praying for your next 7 years. God bless

I L❤VE how Sunny always looks like she rubbed a balloon 💕💕💕

@LauraHenderson-wx6xy

11 ай бұрын

So true. That girl has some wild hair, go Sunny ! 🧡🌞🧡

@elliedhehshhxdhjf

11 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣FR IT'S ADORABLE 💗

@MsLizzibaby

11 ай бұрын

😂

@shortyp1000

11 ай бұрын

IKR! 🤣😂🤣🥰🥰🥰

@sheriyando8039

11 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂❤❤❤But she could wear mud and still look so Beautiful. ❤😂❤

It’s alright if you weren’t home. Important thing is you recognize it today and you celebrate it today ❤

@whipchick90

11 ай бұрын

Absolutely!

Look at Jack and his language explosion! So cool to watch him grow up, thanks for sharing him with us. Congratulations you two

Love to watch you guys. Piece of unsolicited advice. Dont make the same mistake I did. I wanted to raise my kids different than the way I was raised so didnt really discipline. And constantly bought gifts because my parents always said no. But after having a little monster on my hands, with my son (from the age of 3. He wouldnt share, threw a fit when told no and even acted worse when people were around if that was even possible. I bribed, just to get a minute of good behavior, worse thing, dont do it. I finally thought screw this. I turned out to be a great person BECAUSE of my parents. Kind and compasionate, always serving God and others. Sooo consistant discipline is the best gift you can give your children (whew, and yourself.) If there is not a hard line, they will ALWAYS PUSH THE BOUNDRIES. AND kids are happier when there is structure. I promise, you all will be much happier. Start NOW with Jack (I see the signs)😢 or you will have an out of control, crazy kid like I did. Its hard because we love them and want to give them everything, but then they grow up expecting everything, demanding everything and havent learned compassion because there are no consequences. Let them know what behavior you wont accept and then stick to it. Be consistent. Put the work in now and things will get much easier. The old saying "say what you mean, and mean what you say" has never been truer! This comment is left with the utmost love and respect. You are good people and yes your son can be good because of that but without discipline, genetics are not enough. Take care.

@michcamaro71

11 ай бұрын

I couldn’t have said it better myself!!!

@darionclub2158

11 ай бұрын

True.

@britzel71

11 ай бұрын

100% facts. Kids actually thrive in homes with boundaries and constancy 🙏

@candaceroberts3238

11 ай бұрын

If you spoil kids and don’t discipline then they think the world owes them everything and be disrespectful. Donna’s right and has experience the result of those mistakes. She figured it out fortunately.

@sandyhatfield1801

11 ай бұрын

Agree!!!!! My 2 were in the age group of yours. I needed help with energy. My house was messy and no energy to be consistent with kids training. Weight training will help with listlessness , or even being lazy with housework. Write out a plan, daily routine,you will bloom with structure. You can take this as being told what to do and miss out lol

Sunny is growing so fast. She is so sweet.

The kids have grown up so much, healthy happy and wiser everyday 😂

Communication is key in relationships. I see a therapist, my husband does not, but he doesn’t struggle with the things I do. 31 years together, so we work, but yes it TAKES work.

Love this family! So loving and kind to each other and such good parents to their children. You-all make my day!

I am thankful that you are going to raise your children in church. I raised my girls in a Christian home and they went to Christian schools from preschool to graduating high school. My eldest daughter wanted to go to a Christian college but I also knew that she needed to be around other people and those who weren’t raised in the same way as she was. She’s a teacher and has her foundation. The twin daughters went to BYU and they decided to be a part of the LDS Church. They thought that I would be mad at them for doing that however, I let them know that they have a foundation at that their walk is where they feel fulfilled. It doesn’t matter what religion they choose to go to, just that they are happy in their relationship with Christ. So, good for you for choosing the best path for your family.

My husband and I will celebrate our 45th anniversary on July 27th and I'm here to tell you it takes a lot of work. With that said if you put in the work it just gets better and better! #HesStillTheOne💞

@cindyfitzgerald4500

5 ай бұрын

Congratulations! My husband and I just celebrated our 30 year anniversary and you are absolutely right it takes alot of work but it is so worth it. My husband is truly my best friend

Happy Anniversary Beastons!! May you have many more to come!

Hi! Just want to tell you how very much I am enjoying all your videos. You are such a good example of young married people with great values and morals. I love your sense of humour (Canadian spelling) and how open you are with each other! The video on how you first met was just so darn sweet! Seeing Derik now it's fun to hear how shy he was at first. You don't find that much these days. I found it delightful. As to your parenting!! Every child should grow up in such a loving fun environment. I get it that it is not all rosy. I was a single Mom for all but 8 months of my sons life and met all the challenges and he is great. But gosh how he would have benefited to have two loving parents! I love to watch you staying positive. Thank you for sharing!

Y'all are wonderful together. Do whatever works for you both. May God bless you with many more Anniversaries!❤🎉

Congrats for your anniversary and keeping on communicating and respecting each other. I loves watching Sunny, she's a doll and ever so adorable. Thanks for sharing her and her new developments 🎉😅

@LauraHenderson-wx6xy

11 ай бұрын

Too right. Miss Sunny is coming into her own. 🧡👶🏻🧡

You guys are awesome! What wonderful parents and partners you are. So very impressed with how dedicated you are to improving and honoring each other and your children❤❤❤ And honestly, im sure Sarah was sad to have been alone with the kids on your anniversary, but it wasn’t like that was the plan! I think Derik should get a pass. Especially because you both really encourage each other to take time out for friends regularly. That is so darn healthy, even though it is tough when the kids are young. Bravo all!!!

I have been married over 40 years. One thing I always tell newlyweds. Date Night is so important. Make it a priority kiddos!! ❤❤❤❤

@gorillarod

11 ай бұрын

We started it on my suggestion years ago per therapists direction and that hubby would pay, I would plan and then hubby didn’t want to pay for it anymore! It stopped and things have gone downhill ever since.😢

@gorillarod

11 ай бұрын

Married 40 years too!

@laurasmith2958

11 ай бұрын

We couldn't afford date nights. And now we like to cook and stay home.

@JuditaHoffman.

10 ай бұрын

​@@laurasmith2958 That's also a good date.

@Chelle8847

8 ай бұрын

​@@gorillarodohhh, I'm sorry :( could you not try to switch it up a bit maybe, and/or talk to him n explain how important it is to you/your relationship?

I love watching your family. It warms my heart that you are so forward about your own mental health and encouraging others to address their own. Thank you.

I have to say I love the authentic and transparent nature of your relationship. You show it all and I love every minute of it! Love to all! 💖🥰👍

Therapy is amazing!! My husband & I did it for several years & it helped so much!! We also did therapy on our own!! I’m proud of you guys for recognizing the need & going for it!! Happy Anniversary, I don’t think missing your anniversary by a day is a big deal. I got married on June 2nd & told everyone forever we got married on June 3rd!!! I even set my husbands phone for June 3rd as a reminder!!! I felt so stupid & a little embarrassed but thankfully my husband still loves me & never lets me forget what I did…lol!!!! You guys are awesome!! Thank you for sharing!!!!!

“ We Both are stubborn… We Both don’t like being told what to do … and…We Both always wanna be right “ kudos to you for recognizing!! Most couple would just give up bcuz of those major indifferences . Glad ur honest about it and want to work on keeping marriage strong! ❤️

@lauraa744

11 ай бұрын

“”I still like you”” aweee sooo sweet! And the way he looks at her is true love

I just started therapy to deal with me before I can deal with my marital stuff. Glad you guys are helping take the stigma off!❤

The world needs more good people like you raising kind kids to spread love far and wide💜💜

I just love your honesty and wholesomeness!

To think I found the Beeston Bunch through Ozzys "EyeBoo" shorts and stumbled upon your page. Sarah, you remind me of my bestest bestie since 7th grade and Derrik is the like my younger brother. I absolutely enjoy both Beeston families and pray you all stay blessed today and always. My best marriage advice (And I'm on my 2nd marriage, so take from this what you will or don't. The second time is much more peaceful for me.) is to try not to hold onto anger. Disagreements are normal with couples. Just try to fight fair. (Remember, you're both human and evolving constantly. ) You will go to bed angry sometimes but cooler heads prevail. Sometimes a good nights sleep can help calm the vibe. And last but not least, laugh, keep laughing. Your sense of humor will get you through so much. You both seem like beautiful souls and I'm cheering you guys on. The love you have for your babies is palpable and obvious to anyone paying attention. You're gonna feel strained and distance at times. Marriage is hard.. And it isn't for the faint of heart but as long as you know the core of the other person and respect each other, everything will fall together as it should. Just always be kind even if you can't always be nice to one another. And again, laugh.. Love light and hugs.

Derrick the facial hair suits ya bro hope you all have a terrific weekend and Happy anniversary to you all ❤

@BeverleyMiller_

11 ай бұрын

Derick has lost his boyish look...nice beard guy😊 You deserve to compliment your marriage bc every struggle has brought your rewards...yes, every year has brought you to better🍃🕊🍃

@kalyowaglad7621

11 ай бұрын

He got nice looks with that facial hair

@amandalay9668

11 ай бұрын

I like the facial hair too! Really Handsome.. Jack is so adorable ❣️ Happy Anniversary 💐🎁

This was so great to watch I love you guys and your family ❤

You both seem so happy together and I love seeing your videos. My partner and I are trying for a baby now and there's so many people spouting how awful parenting is. I know it's not easy by any means, but I'd love to hear what you love most about your kids and/or parenting. 😊

You two seem like wonderful parents and great family values. I think y’all would be great to adopt a child. I’m adopted and more children need parents like y’all to give them all the love and adventures you can.

I love your attitude Sarah! I want to learn to be more resilient and go with the flow like you are!

You guys are so good for each other. Both are good people & are able to play off each other, God bless 🙏❤️

Happy Anniversary guys 💕. My kids are grown and have kids. Through time everything will go smoothly. Enjoy every minute with your babies. Time does really fly by, so don’t worry and let God guide each day. ❤️🙏❤️

I love you guys. For me its derick being such a great father and wants to be a dad. Loving parents are so important. God bless you guys.

The most important aspect of an anniversary is the fact that you're still very much together....and love and respect one another!! My husband and I have been married 56 yrs and when people ask what we did for our anniversary I tell them it really doesnt matter.....its the day to day life that matters....if day to day is not good than what good does it do to celebrate that one day! Everyday is I portant to us! Happy Anniversary to you two.....stay true ❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

You guys have a beautiful family. I love watching your videos, thank you for sharing! ❤

You two are so full of love and kindness, I just love to tune in.❤

I recently started to follow you guys and I have to say that I enjoy your videos. I admirer you as a individuals, as a couple and as parents. You guys are awesome and Jack and Sunny are the epitome of cuteness! They are just so cuuute! This was my first Q and A video so far and I like how you open up to your followers and that you talk about both the good things and the bad. We all have our ups and downs. I really love the videos where you're with Tanner, Lo and their kids. The joy you all have from seeing each other. Lol! Sorry about the rambling. I just wanted to say that you are awesome!

I’m just happy to see you and the kids! You are sunshine!🌞

It's best to remember & call or send flowers... But no one's perfect... Your allowed to make mistakes or forget things, especially that you weren't home & you were preoccupied with something... But the fact that you recognized that you missed it, & owned up to it, & are trying to make it up, gives you many loving points!🤗

@labab1048

11 ай бұрын

He didn’t forget it, he was away on a planned trip.

@brookstickney6177

11 ай бұрын

Love you guys!! Jack & Sunny are absolutely gorgeous children❤

I love that you two are doing therapy even when there is no bad issues going on, it is the best thing you can do for each other as well as having dates to have time for each other. Derik's beard is absolutely 💯 sexy and the fact that he is keeping it groomed nicely makes it even better.

Your videos are always heartwarming and the time just flies by. The kids just keep getting cuter.

I enjoy your wholesome, family centered videos. Watching how you strive to be good spouses, great parents, and honest people is heartwarming. I've been married for 28 years and widowed for 2 months, watching you brings amazing memories to mind. I think you're just wonderful. God bless you all.❤❤❤

@MamaJewels99

11 ай бұрын

My deepest condolences.❤

@kimwietsma6217

11 ай бұрын

My condolences, praying for you. 🙏🙏🙏

@perle13930

11 ай бұрын

Bless you 🌷

@denisevunk7063

11 ай бұрын

I know I don't know you but I wanted to extend my condolences to you. I hope you have good support around you. God bless.

Happy Anniversary! Enjoy these QnA!❤

Nice to see you all. Sunny is Adorable! Jack is having fun playing. It takes awhile for little ones to learn how to share. ❤😊

I'm glad y'all got through Derrick's awkwardness because y'all are an adorable couple and beautiful family.

A belated Anniversary 🎉to everyone!!! Also....Derrick looks 100%better with his facial hair!!!

@lisaquigley-moon9583

11 ай бұрын

It looks okay. I wouldn't say better

@clarakinlaw6545

11 ай бұрын

I love the beard

@JuditaHoffman.

10 ай бұрын

​@@lisaquigley-moon9583 I would also say absolutely better than before.

@bonnieplattner3094

9 ай бұрын

His beard was almost black. Did he bleach it?

Your brother is amazing Sarah. Love how you are so close to him.

@DarleneDeao-lx7sq

11 ай бұрын

That is the real way a DAD should be . His heavenly Man . I love you both and your babies !!!!!

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! You are such a gift in my life. You’ve no idea how your loving persistence impacts others. I totally loved this video. ❤

You guys rock!❤️ I love your honesty and commitment to each other. Marriage is constantly evolving, it’s so important to recognise the changes and challenges you may face together. Well done recognising that you have room to grow and learn within your relationship. You talk honesty about your focus being on communication and how your stubbornness can be detrimental at times. I believe you are definitely on the right track guys. Give yourselves a pat on the back, you’re doing an amazing job!!🎉it’s tricky to fit it all in sometimes and that’s okay…you’re human❤ Keep doing you! You guys rock big time🎉

Happy Anniversary🎉many blessings & all the best to your entire family!

I Love your little family! You are a joy to watch!

Hey guys love from Perth Australia ... love watching your beautiful family ... married for 19 years in September and you are always working on your marriage and each other there are always new challenges ... therapy is amazing good on you both 💗 our daughter is about to turn 18 it feels like we blinked and here we are already! Enjoy the beautiful choas it goes so quickly 💗

You two are awesome. Love that you’re raising your kids in the church 🤗

Flowers to me are a hallmark moment. Family is sooo more important. Life just gets ya sometimes it’s okay in the end just being there for each other makes it work❤❤

Happy for you both. Therapy is great for relationships. The beard looks awesome! God bless you both!

It's good to see you guys again!! Hope Derek had fun on his surf trip!! Happy Anniversary to you guys!! Hope everyone is doing well!! Have a nice day!!

Love your family!! Thanks for sharing with us. ❤

Happy Blessed Belated 7th Anniversary & pray for many more special years ahead🙏🏻💕

Awwwww you truly are the most beautiful family x sunny is the double of her daddy and jack is so clever ❤❤❤❤❤

You guys are rly lovely to listen to. Ty for your honesty. I feel for you, with your knees Derik😵‍💫🥴I wish you a successful surgery & recovery, with a gt prognosis. And for Sarah, all strength, & good rest, to manage the children & a recovering hubby during this time to come!😉🤭🫶🙏 Every good wish for the therapy too, gt to have a discount link too- ty!🤩👍💞

I often wonder how people could have kids knowing that the world today is going down the toilet fast but your response to that question gave me pause. Your right the world does need good Godly people in it.

@LaylaOlsen

10 ай бұрын

I agree with what she said as well.

@annmariedobbin4369

10 ай бұрын

And people who dont exploit their children on youtube.

❤ love y’all!! Been here since Jack was born!!❤🎉

I can't believe Sunny is already 6 and a half months old. She was so vocal in this video. I love it. You have a beautiful family and I love your videos! Wishing you all the best! God bless! ❤

@dianah.9718

7 ай бұрын

4 mos later and she can't even say Mama..maybe vax injured or something.

Hey, so as a old lady in comparison to y’all. My best advice from a now single woman (parent) I was in a 13 yr relationship w/ my kids father. But the best advice that stuck w: me (but didn’t resonate so much with him) is that “do u want to right or do u want to be happy?” And when your simply right fighting to prove your “right” then you both end up wrong. Because for you to “win” your partner has to loose” - it’s so much more important to agree to disagree on a lot in a relationship and then from that point instead of focusing on who’s right focus on how to compromise and both win. Picking your battles carefully. Most in the grand scheme of things do not matter. My rule of thumb is “will this matter 3 yrs from now” - answer is usually no. Then it’s not worth the battle!

The most important thing in a relationship is trust. Talking to each other and making sure to listen . Happy 7th Anniversary wishing you 100 more💖💖💖

Sunny ‘s hair is getting lighter. Beautiful kids.I think you two are great parents and wonderful people. You believe in God and the after life as I do. You believe in being kind to others.

Soon glad to see you all. Love the haircut! I've been waiting so long it seems to see the kids again and how much they have grown. Love you both ❤

Congratulations on your anniversary! Hope your surgery goes well, Derik! I will be praying for the best outcome and for Sarah as well while she takes care of both children and you.

Amazing that as young as the two of you are, you recognize the importance of putting your marriage first and seek help for it! I ❤ that! So smart of the two of you.

Depression sucks. Glad you're tackling it.

You guys have such a nice life, you have a lot of family helping you with your children and take some wonderful trips.

I wish I could meet you guys. You are my kind of people! Sounds very crazy,but I love the realism that comes with your videos and the fact that you are not sugarcoating anything! Love the vids.

It was cool to hear that you’re still actively practising your faith 🙏🏼😊

@laurar9474

11 ай бұрын

I’m wondering why they don’t just say that they are Mormon? It almost seems like they’re hiding it..? Idk it’s just odd to me.

@jesnajose5619

11 ай бұрын

@@laurar9474 yeah

@whatisloveanyway

11 ай бұрын

⁠@@laurar9474because they know if people know they’ll lose followers and they don’t want to. They are hiding it on purpose…

@Holdeenio

11 ай бұрын

@@laurar9474 they have mentioned multiple times they are members of the LDS church, it’s just not the focus of their channel. A lot of the popular couple/family channels are Christian (varying denominations) and don’t often talk about it, most like to keep the viewer appeal to members of other faiths. I watch these guys because they’re lovely, if their faith helps them be that way, I respect that too.

@nancyfarkas3592

11 ай бұрын

@@whatisloveanywaythey do not hide it!

I just realized I haven't watched this channel in 2 months. Baby Sunny has gotten so big with longer hair. Jack is adorable. God bless your fam

Love how honest y'all are -- such a cute family, thanks for sharing so much with us

Love that you guys are real! Like, you are honest and down to earth! No couples are perfect and it's so good that you actually put it out there. But it has to be said, no matter how "imperfect" you are - it's no doubt that the two of you genuinely love eachother🫶🏻

Best of luck with your new home and Derick’s knee. The kids are growing so fast. ❤

The world definitely needs more kids like those you two would raise. Tanner and Lo as well. Thank you! 😘

Awww I love you guys!!! Sunny just keeps growing and Jack is so cute ❤❤❤

Happy Anniversary!! Ours is the 16th and we celebrated 15 years! We decided to celebrate the big ones as their more important. Like ones that end in 0 or 5. The other ones are more mellow. This year, we forgot our anniversary until the 9th, we forgot it was June, we had a lot going on. 1st time ever, so it does happen. Since Derek was traveling, he had a lot going on. Sarah seems to understand, that's all that matters. Happy Anniversary!!

Sunny looks so much like Derik wow thanks for the q&a it rocks getting to learn more about KZreadrs and their life 😊

Love your family, you're all looking good and healthy, Jack is getting big and husband's hair and beard are cool looking ❤❤❤

You two are so adorable. Love you both and your children are beautiful! Keep your private side private - it is no one’s business but yours. Love your videos. Thank you for allowing us to share your beautiful life. 🥰

Thank You guys for being so open and honest..

No hard feelings Mom she just knew the family wasn’t together. Your such awesome parents ❤

It’s perfectly ok. We have missed several anniversaries together because I travel ti see my family during the summer. We celebrate either before or afterwards 😊

Love watching you interact so much fun.❤

You guys are so adorable I love watching your day to day activities you guys make me smile and remember the days my kids were little but the only difference is I have been a single Mom all of their lives but the kids were so fun to watch grow thank you guys much love to you and your little family

sara is GLOWING!

Jack was so proud of his mom when she put the track together ❤

There is absolutely no such thing as a perfect relationship!you have to work on it every day,I feel like you're under so much pressure to be perfect because you're seen as perfect online but people love honesty more than perfection,you both seem like lovely people so sending you so much love and positivity ❤

Be forgiving from little things to big things. Happy anniversary. Love your hair, DEREK.

They’re just like every other couple. Everyone has their arguments, everyone has up and down days. Not every couple will agree to therapy. I think what they’re doing for themselves to keep their relationship strong and healthy has a positive outlook for them and their kids. The kiddos look so happy and healthy. Well taken care of. ❤ Now I have a question. 😂 Do you ever do anything with Sunny’s hair? Tiny barrettes, bows, comb it back etc…? Many Blessings to you all. ❤

@pennyluongo8001

11 ай бұрын

I wanted to know about her hair as well. She is So ADORABLE ~💜

@Juls716

11 ай бұрын

@@pennyluongo8001 she is. 😊