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  • @clarissahughes6200
    @clarissahughes6200 Жыл бұрын

    You know you got a good hairstylist when they recommend not getting braids right now. I love those kind of people because it’s not always about just getting the money for them; they actually care about the health of your hair

  • @BlackGirlLovesAnime6

    @BlackGirlLovesAnime6

    Жыл бұрын

    Those types of hair stylists are hard to come by nowadays

  • @FruitIsLove2
    @FruitIsLove22 жыл бұрын

    GMA just did a story on covid hairloss. They said it's happening to alot of people and can last around two months or more but your hair will grow back. Keep your stress as low as you can and know that you are beautiful and we all love and appreciate you Jess. Hang in there girl. ❤

  • @sherrellpatterson418

    @sherrellpatterson418

    2 жыл бұрын

    This explains so much, I thought I was losing my mind along with my hair. Like my hair has never acted like this, I was so sad. Its good to know the reason

  • @lejo281

    @lejo281

    2 жыл бұрын

    Losing my hair too had covid 2xs

  • @angelalewis9927

    @angelalewis9927

    2 жыл бұрын

    We should start a support group.... I'm in the same boat. It's depressing 😞

  • @quanajohnson9

    @quanajohnson9

    2 жыл бұрын

    Def losing my hair from covid ...I've been natural for for 4 yrs and my hair was so thick and shoulder length... Even with getting my hair dyed, my hair was flourishing...kept.up.with my hair appts for trims and treatments and I was loving it... Got covid right b4 Christmas and I promise you, my hair fell our so.bad....like badly broken off... the left side is what broke off badly and the middle of my hair and it's weak, too much breakage, and just not right...I told my stylist I just need to come and get most of it chopped so that I can start over fresh and healthy ... it has to be done...I thought I was the only one losing hair because of covid🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ its DAMAGED

  • @neya292

    @neya292

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes- I saw this as well!

  • @mrsbrownLove
    @mrsbrownLove2 жыл бұрын

    Stress issues: Buying a home, Covid, your stair railings, your wedding, your reception dress,…..need I say more? You’ve done ALOT in the last year. It’s a wonder that you even have hair AT ALL!😩 It’ll grow back once everything tapers off and you get use to your new life. Keep your ends trimmed, take your vitamins, drink some aloe juice and lots of water. You’ve always had a great head of hair. Make sure you’re not low on iron too. You’ve got this lil sis!

  • @taijhaie02

    @taijhaie02

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is 💯 correct!!! You are so right and I agree that she should just do exactly what you said.

  • @dandnclaxton

    @dandnclaxton

    Жыл бұрын

    This! Until you have kids and it’s luxe and luxurious for a year and all falls out 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @pinkaddiction13

    @pinkaddiction13

    Жыл бұрын

    Dang. You know her whole life 0_o

  • @d.nichole4753

    @d.nichole4753

    Жыл бұрын

    Facts... that's what happens when people rush through life instead of taking their time

  • @michelled.2112

    @michelled.2112

    Жыл бұрын

    I think it’s Covid and the vaccine. I have thick hair and mine started thinning and edges snatch

  • @zariahantoinette1329
    @zariahantoinette13292 жыл бұрын

    I almost went through this because i was obsessed with stretching my wash n gos with a blow dryer. The natural hair girlies never talk about the damage it does.

  • @iaintoncrack

    @iaintoncrack

    Жыл бұрын

    Literally. Ever since I started just sitting under a dryer or air drying shrunk and then banding overnight, my hair has been so much healthier. And the effect is literally the same

  • @gentlestormwyatt

    @gentlestormwyatt

    Жыл бұрын

    I’ve been blow drying my hair every wash day. Never had an issue with my hair either. I never used a heat protectants or any of that. I did hot oil treatments, deep conditioned every wash, and only washed my hair once very month and a half or so depending on the style. When I washed I blew my hair out using the tension method on low heat and then used a comb attachment OR a paddle brush. My hair was perfect until Covid hit me in December.

  • @paradoxavakin3420

    @paradoxavakin3420

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg me too

  • @vivid5203

    @vivid5203

    Жыл бұрын

    Ohhh yeah, that’s a lot

  • @CrystalRose1111

    @CrystalRose1111

    Жыл бұрын

    The mere concept of blow drying my hair on a regular basis …. My hair is breaking off just thinking about that lmao

  • @curlyana6138
    @curlyana61382 жыл бұрын

    When Covid made its debut album took me out. Happy to see you optimistic about your hair changing

  • @dionenewman9031

    @dionenewman9031

    Жыл бұрын

    That had me 💀 😂!

  • @blessingsforbes7238

    @blessingsforbes7238

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too the Covid debut album I’m done

  • @rcarson19679602
    @rcarson196796022 жыл бұрын

    Looks like heat damage, color damage, and stress! Stress is the variable that can change your body's response to everything.

  • @shelbymcdandan4431

    @shelbymcdandan4431

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Tye710 I believe she did in another video.

  • @miscellaneouslife2778

    @miscellaneouslife2778

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Tye710 shes been saying that the wedding planning was stressful

  • @abbiecd16

    @abbiecd16

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree, I think it’s a combination of things. But especially after she straightened it My hair still hasn’t gone back to normal since my once a year silk press

  • @Sisima13

    @Sisima13

    2 жыл бұрын

    The last time she straightened her hair she did a reverting back to curly video and her hair was fine…unless she straightened it again at some point

  • @v.sing.7407

    @v.sing.7407

    2 жыл бұрын

    I noticed a change after she put that black rinse/semi permanent color in it.

  • @royalrayne8948
    @royalrayne89482 жыл бұрын

    Perhaps the ONLY thing that I know about U Jess, is that your hair grows SO FAST & U STILL LOOK GOOD!!!🎆😊🎆

  • @Tabetha.

    @Tabetha.

    2 жыл бұрын

    👍

  • @Vonda618

    @Vonda618

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes! And she has beautiful hair!! All she had to do is cut off bad hair and stop COLORING. We can be so impulsive and hard-headed.

  • @chubbi44
    @chubbi442 жыл бұрын

    My hair looked exactly like yours when i was experiencing severe Iron Deficiency.

  • @KittKat_G

    @KittKat_G

    2 жыл бұрын

    My hair did that as well and I went to the doctors and I was diagnosed with severe anemia had to be referred to a specialist. It's been a year since that ordeal, now its at a normal level, my hair has bounced back literally. Lol

  • @francenegayle3866

    @francenegayle3866

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yup...this happened to me...iron deficiency and Vit D deficiency

  • @rwilliams_

    @rwilliams_

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is what I was going to say too as it’s something in going through also - but I’ve also now had covid 2 times!! After the first time I started noticing changes in my hair. Just had covid again but I’ve started upping my iron intake and starting to notice a difference in my hair which I’m happy about - but then I am actually going to cut it today 😅

  • @NayDay718

    @NayDay718

    2 жыл бұрын

    Going through that right now

  • @rosasellers1813

    @rosasellers1813

    Жыл бұрын

    @@francenegayle3866 same

  • @agirlthatgetsit
    @agirlthatgetsit2 жыл бұрын

    Cut it cut it! Your hair will grow back and be beautiful at every stage. You’re not new to this, you’re true to this 💕

  • @deshaabernathy482

    @deshaabernathy482

    2 жыл бұрын

    I want her to get professional trims!

  • @misterae6430

    @misterae6430

    2 жыл бұрын

    no stupid , the awnser is nt always to cut it,,, there are other solutions relatively simple and cheap to recover your hair's health... Protein treatment in this case.. . You almost caus this lady to give up years of hair growth

  • @jayd524

    @jayd524

    2 жыл бұрын

    Not good advice

  • @gentlestormwyatt

    @gentlestormwyatt

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jayd524 that’s amazing advice. The fact is that her hair will grow back. There’s nothing she or anyone can do to bring back the hair that has thinned out. I’m in her exact same boat. Right after Covid my hair started falling out so much. It looks just like hers. My mom’s did the same and we live in the same house. I got 2-3 inches cut and will slowly allow my hair to grow and cut what I need to. As well as keep my stress low, it’s a wonderful idea to let the dead ends go. 🥰🫶🏽

  • @Acatalepsyyy

    @Acatalepsyyy

    Жыл бұрын

    @@gentlestormwyatt You make a good point but not everyone would want to start all over again when they cab can still just jeep growing it then cut it later. You can even see it now so it's best to leave it.

  • @LotusFlowerLife
    @LotusFlowerLife2 жыл бұрын

    😫 Even though some of your curls got a bit damaged, you still look beautiful! You might want to try fenugreek masks for thickening your curls. It's all natural and works AMAZING and it also safe if it gets on your skin. It moisturizes the scalp & gets rid of itchiness & dryness as well.

  • @kimberlyb9509
    @kimberlyb95092 жыл бұрын

    Jess, mama, this is definitely a clean slate - and that’s an amazing thing to be aware of. It’s ALL about the journey, girl. The beautiful thing about it all, is that no matter what, hair grows BACK. ❤️ Will be staying tuned for sure. Love you!

  • @lilliebrown4779
    @lilliebrown47792 жыл бұрын

    You are so funny regardless of the hair situation. You are still blessed.

  • @Tabetha.

    @Tabetha.

    2 жыл бұрын

    👍😁 yes

  • @monicahill750
    @monicahill7502 жыл бұрын

    I love your attitude, regardless of what you are going through with your hair, you still your happy jolly self. COVID is no joke, my husband had it twice. I had it once over a year and a half ago and my sense of smell is all jacked up. Praying that you get the results you are looking for with your hair. Stay safe ❤️

  • @shieasepuryear7038

    @shieasepuryear7038

    2 жыл бұрын

    I can relate to the smell/taste being altered by covid. So bizarre and isolating.

  • @penelopek6559

    @penelopek6559

    2 жыл бұрын

    May GOD HEAL YOU

  • @CrystalM1917

    @CrystalM1917

    Жыл бұрын

    You should not still be having issues with smell. Get essentials oils and do smell training. Get plenty of zinc and vitamin d.

  • @monicahill750

    @monicahill750

    Жыл бұрын

    @@CrystalM1917 That's what my ENT had me to do, it didn't work for me or maybe I didn't stick with it long enough, have you had to try this,if so, how did you do it ❤️

  • @CrystalM1917

    @CrystalM1917

    Жыл бұрын

    @@monicahill750 yes. I had covid in April of 2021 and lost my smell completely and taste loss was around 40% i did sinus rinses with distilled water and saline 1-2x day for a couple weeks. I immediately began smell training and it took some time but with consistent supplementation and smell training it started coming back in a couple weeks. Peppermint was the first smell I started to sense. I was rotating that, eucalyptus, orange, lemongrass, tea tree, cedarwood, and lavendar. It came back completely after a few months. I will say there are a couple of things that don't smell exactly the same as they used to but not anything signifcant enough to be bothered by. I also ate a lot of oranges (vitamin c) and I think that helped with taste, though it was never gone completely like my smell was. Do the smell training atleast 3 x/day. Wishing you 100% recovery 🙏🏽 ❤️ .

  • @shevewelch306
    @shevewelch3062 жыл бұрын

    Transition from single hair to married hair :-)

  • @Thatonegirl989

    @Thatonegirl989

    2 жыл бұрын

    I hope she sees this because it’s hilarious 😂

  • @claudialachelle4852

    @claudialachelle4852

    2 жыл бұрын

    I sent her a similar message on IG lol I wanna see a new “I’s married now!” look/transformation

  • @jneezypv

    @jneezypv

    Жыл бұрын

    I had single to married to pregnant. And now a baby pulling out my edges. Back to back to back.

  • @shevewelch306

    @shevewelch306

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jneezypv what you doing for it?

  • @jneezypv

    @jneezypv

    Жыл бұрын

    @@shevewelch306 I tried to rest my hair. No braids. I did a keratin treatment to have some long-term low maintenance straight hair. Castor oil on my edges. Try to keep my baby from pulling my hair. We are still working it out.

  • @celesteperry4929
    @celesteperry49292 жыл бұрын

    Hey Jess, your hair has definitely changed. However, your new growth looks thicker. So, I think you are on track for healthy hair again. You had to plan a wedding, had COVID, and had to move into a new home. Stress mixed COVID might have did your hair like that. Take it easy, and take care. ❤

  • @iamtorichanel444xoxo
    @iamtorichanel444xoxo2 жыл бұрын

    omg watching this video seriously made me feel like I’m not alone and finally have a few answers/suggestions on why tf my hair is going through this thank you Jesssssss!

  • @sydstride1
    @sydstride12 жыл бұрын

    Rogaine make the hair fall out after you stop using it so you’re gonna have to continue to use it if you start, so you might wanna rethink that one

  • @alanvilleskeete2061
    @alanvilleskeete2061 Жыл бұрын

    Girl my hair did that and I chopped it off last November. I had covid back in February and I had no hair issues. It's beautiful, thick and healthy now

  • @beautyfulldrey
    @beautyfulldrey Жыл бұрын

    Girl you are naturally too funny . I love it . I’m kinda going thru this hair phase as well . Pray it gets better

  • @nakiaakbarx3042
    @nakiaakbarx30422 жыл бұрын

    This is a great video! Jess is positive - even when giving disappointing hair updates. Never afraid to experiment, nor is Jess ever afraid to cut her hair. Most of the time when I dye or straighten my hair, I experience hair loss too. Jess, keep the videos coming! & thank you

  • @Ethi___
    @Ethi___2 жыл бұрын

    Love you JESS !!!! I literally just texturized my natural hair of 4 years & BEST decision I made lol natural im over it right now

  • @tabithathewholistic

    @tabithathewholistic

    2 жыл бұрын

    Which brand of texturizer did you use, and did you diy it or had it professionally done? Thanks!

  • @michelled.2112

    @michelled.2112

    Жыл бұрын

    I’ve done it once, It relaxed my cuts and made it more wavy. Ms Jessie’s is a good restoring curly product line

  • @michelled.2112

    @michelled.2112

    Жыл бұрын

    @@tabithathewholistic motions professional line is good

  • @Ms88keys1
    @Ms88keys12 жыл бұрын

    Yep, I went thru the same thing. I did it by pressing my hair 3 times and I lost my curl pattern. I held on for a while, tried everything you did, got 30% curl patter back but that it. Once my new growth got almost armpit length, I had my girl cut off the raggedy ends (she’s a licensed beautician) and been in braids ever since to not shed tears looking at armpit length instead of mid back. I’m glad I did it, no regrets, hair is growing mad crazy, will be mid back again by the end of 2022 with only one texture. My Advice……..Once you know how to retain length and keep hair moisturized and healthy it’s ok to cut and start over. Go ahead and cut, IT WILL grow back fast.

  • @wenemnemew1580
    @wenemnemew1580 Жыл бұрын

    It's the bobble head moment for me 🤣😂🤣 I love your new bob Jess!!! You make me want to book my appointment because You make it look so good!

  • @joygabby64
    @joygabby642 жыл бұрын

    I think it’s Dreads!! Yes can’t wait to see! Our hair textures are similar and I’ve been back and forth with the idea so I’m excited to see them on you, hopefully.

  • @wizzy_2053
    @wizzy_20532 жыл бұрын

    Hi Jess, i barely comment on videos but i feel like i need to share this with you, YOU ARE NOT ALONE. March 2022 i had to do my fourth big chop reluntly due to color damamge and i felt so sad and insecure being back to the akward length. Sometimes i still regret it but my hair is growing back already at its healthy state which gives me the strength to continue my natural hair journey. I remember that when i had my third bigchop due to heat damage, my hair was the same length as yours, so i would always watch your hair videos to remind me of how long my hair would be if i didn't flat iron it and it would hurt so badly. I have had to many stepbacks due to heat, color damage, stress and negligence, that sometimes i feel like i will never reach my hair goal. But time,patience and consistency are the keys, we just need to stay focused and stay away from anything that can interrupt our journey again. Besides, many hair influencers (Isimeme, Mercy, faceovermatter, etc) are having setbacks and bigchops this year, so it is nice to know that there are others going through the same thing and they are also sharing tips on how they are recovering their hair. I will be here watching your hair recovery journey as i am also in the same journey. Cheers.

  • @raqibee
    @raqibee2 жыл бұрын

    The way the strands are, in that one area, it looks like it could be heat damage, cause the strands looked more "relaxed" in that one area and your hair has grown since you straightened it. Just a guess, based on the shot, but it doesn't look bad tho🤷🏽‍♀️ we only know because you showed us. You look good, girl! 🦋

  • @MsJay0913
    @MsJay09132 жыл бұрын

    Kudos to you for listening to your stylist.. And to her for not just saying okay to whatever you ask for knowing it would make things worse.

  • @charmainer.johnson3447
    @charmainer.johnson3447 Жыл бұрын

    I think the two of you are adorable. You are the reason I started watching your videos. People are going to hate on you even if you are perfect. I've been married 35yrs and my husband cooks for me even if I haven't done a damn thing all day but guess what it's no bodies business but ours. Continue to be who you are and please do not worry about what people say they are just jealous.

  • @tekoahcoriel5394
    @tekoahcoriel53942 жыл бұрын

    My hair also went thru a major transition some years ago that looked similar. I learned that I was super deficient in iron and it took a few cuts, supplements and slightly changing my diet to correct. My hair was literally thinning from the bottom up it was crazy

  • @Shapress7779

    @Shapress7779

    2 жыл бұрын

    Iron deficiency can definitely cause hair loss

  • @misschin99

    @misschin99

    2 жыл бұрын

    Low ferritin?

  • @FancyFallon

    @FancyFallon

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same here. I had breads to try to protect my hair and because o didn’t address my iron deficiency , vitamin B deficiency and low ferritin levels it broke off from the friction. I have 1-2 inch hairs throughout my head. But since I’ve been taking my supplements I see less shedding and the new growth is coming in. I cut it from mid back to shoulder length to hid it.

  • @prettylady818

    @prettylady818

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes the low iron and anemia wrecked my hair. I had no idea you could have hair loss and thinning from iron deficiency.

  • @kaystar3434

    @kaystar3434

    Жыл бұрын

    Just went to the doctor. I may be low in iron, as well. Waiting on the labs to come back!

  • @daniellehoward7161
    @daniellehoward7161 Жыл бұрын

    The struggle is real! I understand and feel you, little sis!

  • @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick

    @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick

    Жыл бұрын

    You will get it sorted out. You've got this!

  • @shayjohnson1114
    @shayjohnson11142 жыл бұрын

    I just ordered that Bask and Lather after seeing you post about it on IG. It's arriving Friday!! Can't wait to see the results!

  • @jeanineteel9034
    @jeanineteel90342 жыл бұрын

    Stay strong, the beauty of hair is… it’s a wonderful accessory that changes through time… good or bad enjoy the journey, we are here cheering you on 🎉🎉!

  • @yamziz
    @yamziz2 жыл бұрын

    I am facing similar frustrations with my hair. So this makes me feel like I am not alone. Thank you for sharing the highs and lows of your hair journey.

  • @Tabetha.

    @Tabetha.

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hoping you figure it out. I'm rooting for you.

  • @yamziz

    @yamziz

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Tabetha.thanks! 😊

  • @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick

    @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick

    Жыл бұрын

    You've got this sis 💪🏾 good luck 🙂

  • @Blackscubaqueen101
    @Blackscubaqueen1012 жыл бұрын

    Tea rinses helps with itching and shedding. Try green and cloves with neem teas. Also invest in an electric scalp massager. If you use as clarifying shampoo, use the scalp massager while the shampoo is still in. Three times a week, use an oil with rosemary and massage your scalp with the oil a minimum of 3 times a week. Also eliminate stress. You were stressed before the wedding. Don't cut just yet.

  • @vandetyson7626
    @vandetyson76262 жыл бұрын

    Jess the sistalocs was the best I could have ever done for my hair !!! I absolutely love them!!!!

  • @feleshafrancis3027
    @feleshafrancis30272 жыл бұрын

    The fastest I’ve ever been! Love you Jess!

  • @emeth1455
    @emeth14552 жыл бұрын

    It looks like signs of heat damage, or your curl pattern has loosened a lot. My hair is like that in the front. I haven't dyed my hair, but I have blown dry, and straightened it several times. I also had Covid and it really went crazy after that. I had so much inflammation in my body from Covid including on my scalp. It was so bad I went to a Dermatologist. She put me on antibiotics and I have to wash my hair 3 times a week with this prescription shampoo. It itching on my scalp was crazy also. The treatment is working.

  • @aishamoore7599
    @aishamoore75992 жыл бұрын

    I have LITERALLY been dealing with the same problem with my hair. Although I have never colored it or had covid in 7 years of being natural. Locs are looking very near in the future for me

  • @MariaJ.Patterson

    @MariaJ.Patterson

    2 жыл бұрын

    I've been there. I'm iron deficient. I take my iron like I'm supposed to, but my hair never really thickened back up on that one side. I went natural and that helped some, but I also realized that I'm getting older and sometimes your hair thins when you get older. My Mom's hair did. I just got sisterlocks installed in June and it really, really helped in hiding the thin side. You really can't tell cause of how my loctician did my hair. Don't worry, you'll figure out what to do for your hair.

  • @Barnes247
    @Barnes247 Жыл бұрын

    I mentioned it in one of your other videos that I went through the exact same thing. I loss about 40-50% of my hair after having COVID (2020). I got it a 2nd time this year but didn’t experience any hair loss thank goodness! My hair was bra strap length and I cut it to the demarcation line which was similar to yours. Lastly, this is also my 3rd time having to cut my hair. It’s been so damn frustrating! 🥴 Your hair is clearly on its come back and will start thriving again! 💯🙌🏽

  • @cocodream_3785
    @cocodream_37852 жыл бұрын

    Girrrrl you crack me up!! I needed the laugh 😆 you’re so real! Funny thing is, I’m in the same boat. So over it!!

  • @Kimillions
    @Kimillions2 жыл бұрын

    Hi! My hair went through something similar. I clarified weekly and changed my showerhead (added a filter). When I tell you night and day difference!! My hair was more healthy than even before the issues started. I hope things get better for you soon ❤

  • @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick

    @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick

    Жыл бұрын

    What's a shower head with a filter supposed to do ?

  • @nowthatimlocd4459
    @nowthatimlocd44592 жыл бұрын

    I loc’d my hair in january because I just got to the point where it was time I don’t regret my decision and it’s a lot easier do what is best for you but if you decide to come over to the loc side and loc up we’ll be waiting for you and it’s a beautiful experience 🥰👸🏾✨🦋💎

  • @ejacques1157

    @ejacques1157

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes it is! I got Microlocs and am loving it!

  • @nowthatimlocd4459

    @nowthatimlocd4459

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ejacques1157 yes Locs are the real mvp I always regret not Locing my hair sooner I have thick traditional Locs and I love them 🥰👸🏾💎✨🦋

  • @pri_shay_dior

    @pri_shay_dior

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is the point I'm at. My hair thinned out from thyroid disease. It started growing back thicker, but now it's super uneven and causing knots and major split ends. I don't think I even want to bother with getting a shape up and starting over AGAIN. Locs are looking promising.

  • @nai1042
    @nai1042 Жыл бұрын

    Hey Jess I'm so glad you uploaded this, my hair has been going through the same thing in terms of it being supper itchy. My mom is a natural hair chemist and she said my hair is growing so it could definitely be that for you too.

  • @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick

    @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh yeah? Well, thanks for sharing 👍🏾

  • @missfitfortrucking2738
    @missfitfortrucking27382 жыл бұрын

    Hey Jess I did the last Big Chop with you. My hair is still flourishing. I keep it in protective styles. Thx you for keeping us posted on your life's journey.

  • @crystallake5825
    @crystallake58252 жыл бұрын

    If you are itching that bad and you hair is thinning a lot than it's iron deficiency. Have your iron level checked.

  • @GinaJopay
    @GinaJopay2 жыл бұрын

    Sorry you’re having problems with your hair hopefully you get it back growing thicker again it’s probably going to take time my hair is way different because it’s gray black so you may wonder why I’m liking your videos it’s because you being you and having good laughs on your journey 🙏🏻

  • @Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers
    @Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers2 жыл бұрын

    I'm excited for the journey though. I officially joined the channel when you cut your color out and the journey was great.

  • @ashleycollins3653
    @ashleycollins36532 жыл бұрын

    I honestly believe it's the covid. My hair was fine prior to contracting the virus. One to 2 months later, I noticed severe shedding, edges started thinning, bald spots in few places of my head. My stress level has been high too so that's another thing. Presently, I'm using my zinc, iron , B and D vitamins; and I'll work on managing my stress. Perhaps that should help ease the telogen effluvium ( severe shedding). But I'm definitely not shaving my head.

  • @Simplypat87

    @Simplypat87

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same mine was falling out in clumps so sad black tea rinse help me alot

  • @Tabetha.

    @Tabetha.

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes make sure you're not stressing too much. I'm rooting for you.

  • @Tabetha.

    @Tabetha.

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Simplypat87 I'm rooting for you. And yes black tea is good. The caffeine in black tea is not drying your hair out is it?

  • @ashleycollins3653

    @ashleycollins3653

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you both for the encouragement and advice. Will try the black tea rinse.

  • @Simplypat87

    @Simplypat87

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ashleycollins3653 also try the mielle rosemary oil

  • @michellegabrielleee
    @michellegabrielleee2 жыл бұрын

    The same exact thing happened to me, I just did a curly cut because I couldn’t take it anymore 😭. I did my big chop a couple months after yours and now all that hair I grew is gone

  • @cheyannegrimes4513
    @cheyannegrimes45132 жыл бұрын

    Girl it's all the stress getting to you, you went through a lot this year and it shows in your hair.

  • @ivymerritt7577
    @ivymerritt75772 жыл бұрын

    I'm glad you've found products that are helping you with your hair loss!! 🤗♥️🤗♥️🤗♥️🤗♥️

  • @Tabetha.

    @Tabetha.

    2 жыл бұрын

    👍

  • @oneflyladismith9761
    @oneflyladismith97612 жыл бұрын

    It could be a mixture of stress of the wedding planning, birth control, covid and emotions. Keep up the great work on keeping the hair & life updates coming despite the uncertainty of your hair.

  • @Tabetha.

    @Tabetha.

    2 жыл бұрын

    👍

  • @BlackBeauty2023

    @BlackBeauty2023

    2 жыл бұрын

    I agree 💯. I also think that she should really be careful when combing her hair, while it's wet. That is when it's most fragile and most likely to break off. I know personally that this is easier said than done though lol.

  • @kerry6689
    @kerry66892 жыл бұрын

    Try the Aphogee treatment to correct the damaged strands it will take a few months but it certainly works. An alternative to cutting it.

  • @aria6187
    @aria61872 жыл бұрын

    Girl your skin looks GREAT

  • @olubebe
    @olubebe2 жыл бұрын

    Chillllsss. The vocals, the harmonizations!! They just eat and eat and EATTT!! We have no choice but to Stan 😩

  • @GILDAONLINEE
    @GILDAONLINEE2 жыл бұрын

    The same thing has happened to my hair and the one thing we have in common is the straightening ... It's giving heat damage

  • @Tellylove12
    @Tellylove12 Жыл бұрын

    Grey hair and some types of hair loss/thinning are also related to low iron, vitamin d, zinc or thyroid issues. This is true for me based on my lab results. Sharing this information in case it can help someone.

  • @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick

    @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick

    Жыл бұрын

    😮 interesting now. I have had all of the above but mine was more high stress related than vitamins deficiency

  • @allyciajohnson278
    @allyciajohnson2782 жыл бұрын

    You will get through it love try not to stress, my hair did it’s own thing by breaking/ having two textures etc which had me so stressed out, so I end of locking mines earlier in the year.. I have micro locs now.. still have some breakage but not as much.. Good luck with your next journey , I’m here for it…

  • @ninarobertson3901
    @ninarobertson39012 жыл бұрын

    I had pretty bad postpartum shedding and just did a big chop, my second one and it’s been hard! My hair was pretty long and healthy but pregnancy completely changed my hair. Getting used to short hair but the shedding stopped and my hair is getting back to normal 🥰

  • @nickys6656

    @nickys6656

    2 жыл бұрын

    My Postpartum shedding with my son was horrible. While pregnant with him I had enough hair for 2 1/2 people. Then I lost softball sized hair balls after I had him. Thankfully I did not have bald spots, but I’m still recovering nearly 3yrs later 😫. I have tons of new growth now, but I’m working on getting my length back. I had two kids back to back so I’m sure that had a lot to do with my massive hair loss.

  • @EDM254
    @EDM254 Жыл бұрын

    Two years of back to back stressors,traumas, and deaths has resulted in vey thin hair. I also found out my Vitamin D is low and that could cause the hair loss. We have to take care of ourselves as much as we can.

  • @jaysspot8141
    @jaysspot81412 жыл бұрын

    Omg girl where you been…why am I not getting my notifications now I gotta go catch up so I’ll be back to watch this one! Miss you 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

  • @Spring_of_Smiles
    @Spring_of_Smiles2 жыл бұрын

    Girl I looove the theme song 😍🦄🥂 Your vibe is kinda growing on me!🥺 Sister!

  • @makaylaaddisyn3387
    @makaylaaddisyn33872 жыл бұрын

    Hey Jess you are so pretty.❤️

  • @carbonwildflower
    @carbonwildflower Жыл бұрын

    If it makes you feel any better.. you cant tell when your hair is dry. I know alot of people (including myself from post partum) going through similar things! X

  • @ceciliaparker6291
    @ceciliaparker62912 жыл бұрын

    Hey mama, I feel you! I’m almost at the two year mark after my 3rd big chop. Be gentle and Love on your hair🥰🙏🏽💋

  • @carlagatson7889
    @carlagatson78892 жыл бұрын

    You will be fine no matter what you decide, you have beautiful hair. I’ve been with you through your big chops and your hair grows super fast. Also your hair is beautiful short or long💕💕💕

  • @litebohopekeche8648
    @litebohopekeche86482 жыл бұрын

    When I saw "Another SAD hair update" on my notification bar I found myself thinking "not another big chop🤧"

  • @bjnaturalz6819
    @bjnaturalz6819 Жыл бұрын

    Seborrheic dermatitis is probably what you going through with the itching because I am experiencing the same itch I can’t keep in styles lost my edges. My hair is thinning from the roots. That’s what my dermatologist told me for me. I’m leaving all alcohol products alone to see if it will reconstruct my hair. Everything DIY products I will let you know the results ❤️❤️❤️

  • @olamideaina86
    @olamideaina86 Жыл бұрын

    Lmboooooooooo not the troll doll!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that got me lol.

  • @christineowori750
    @christineowori7502 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your transparency ❤️

  • @sparkleboea
    @sparkleboea2 жыл бұрын

    Jess, I’m sorry about what happened to your hair! I can relate completely. This same thing happened to my hair and I had to do a big chop #2 about 6 months ago. It happened right after I dyed my hair black and straightened it the next week. I wouldn’t count the black box dye out and combo of straightening natural hair especially if it’s not used to that kind of stress. My problems started about 2 months later I could notice the thinning. Better days are ahead though ♥️

  • @BreunaShynece
    @BreunaShynece2 жыл бұрын

    The same thing happened to me after covid. My hair is thin all over but the front… the front really exited stage left 😩 I don’t want to big cup because my hair is the longest it’s been since childhood 😢

  • @biggangie
    @biggangie Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing! Your blog is AWESOME!

  • @Leah-rv7zy
    @Leah-rv7zy Жыл бұрын

    This video is not for my hair type but I enjoyed watching you style it & listening to you, it felt like I was hanging with a friend in her bathroom & I caught myself laughing a few times lol❤️

  • @simplyteyana1047
    @simplyteyana10472 жыл бұрын

    Girl loc it up I know you want to. Love your vids 💗

  • @tay9sdaughter121
    @tay9sdaughter1212 жыл бұрын

    Wow Jess my hair is going through the same thing. I never had covid tho. I think my hair is suffering from the way the shampoo girl blow dry my hair.

  • @kezialasha
    @kezialasha Жыл бұрын

    You are hilarious 😂 I send good energy your way on your new journey 💜

  • @OnlyOneJess

    @OnlyOneJess

    Жыл бұрын

    lol thank you sisss!!

  • @brittnibenjamin5404
    @brittnibenjamin5404 Жыл бұрын

    I haven’t made it through the whole video yet, but I was going through that but due to postpartum shedding. Anyhow, I started doing hot oil treatments once a week and when I tell you my hair sheds less and my hair feels so good!!! I 1000% recommend it!

  • @smharris6732

    @smharris6732

    Жыл бұрын

    Same exact thing for me. Post partum snatched my edges and then some. I too started doing wkly treatments and also included rosemary oil and my protective styles is just me two strand twisting and letting it be. To add, upped on the vitamins intake. Oh to be a woman 😄

  • @kekelopez6256
    @kekelopez62562 жыл бұрын

    It may be you stretching out your hair with the blow dryer, the damage parts looks like it’s the same area where you apply heat when stretching

  • @apara2005
    @apara20052 жыл бұрын

    I know you don't want to cut it because it will be so short, but it's going to break off at the line anyway. Save yourself the stress and heartache of seeing the large amount of hair loss at wash day/styling, and just cut it all off, and work with the twa.

  • @Tabetha.

    @Tabetha.

    2 жыл бұрын

    👍

  • @cherellegerma8263
    @cherellegerma82632 жыл бұрын

    Yess was waiting on this♥️

  • @nicole79804
    @nicole798042 жыл бұрын

    Jesssss sis love the video💜💙

  • @soriyazz
    @soriyazz2 жыл бұрын

    It's the Wild Growth Hair Oil Jess. I promise you. Mine did the exact thing. I cut it 3x before I realized this was it. 6-7 months before It started to fill in again w/o it literally falling out in the shower. Touching it. Anything It was the oil.

  • @demi5378

    @demi5378

    2 жыл бұрын

    I know, I tried one of these oils & it was too strong for me. It touch my face (my hair after applying) made it irritated & swollen.

  • @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick

    @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick

    Жыл бұрын

    😲 so sorry to hear that has happened to you lot, thanks for sharing ladies

  • @ariellotusflowervlog4727
    @ariellotusflowervlog47272 жыл бұрын

    My hair did the same thing after covid, and a few people I know also. Your hair looks exactly like mine, and I did a bunch of research on the topic. It has to do with a high temp, but also the body pulls from everywhere to fight off the virus. And that includes hair for both women and men. But it's more noticeable for women obviously. So my bet is definitely Covid, I'm sorry hunni.

  • @racheloshaksmusic
    @racheloshaksmusic Жыл бұрын

    I know you said you're not ready but I think you should do the big chop and keep the new growth than holding on to the hair that is no longer serving you for another 6 months, as it might start to go up the hair shaft to your new growth. Btw you are beautifullll. Congratulations to your new season, marriage and so on, maybe your hair is reflecting the new changes and a new hair cut could be part of the new start. There's nothing wrong with starting again, your a champ and your hair grows very fast and healthy and luscious and this time next year, your hair will be grown back to shoulder length and better.

  • @apg311
    @apg3112 жыл бұрын

    Gurl…. I feel your struggle …. We have the same hair texture … my hair started thinning just like yours …so I loc’d my hair and it has been the best thing… hair thick and healthy !

  • @VenezuelanPapiQueenB
    @VenezuelanPapiQueenB2 жыл бұрын

    You know before you big chop, try a protein treatment and see how that helps. Your hair can bounce back, hang in there!

  • @brittanytiera3299
    @brittanytiera32992 жыл бұрын

    Covid hair loss is real. I got like 3 inches of my hair cut in May and I’m so happy I did. It’s growing back healthy again.

  • @gentlestormwyatt

    @gentlestormwyatt

    Жыл бұрын

    Same. Me too. I’m so happy I had it cut. They made the biggest difference in the world 🥰🫶🏽

  • @monisha8939
    @monisha89392 жыл бұрын

    I remember being in this position in 2019 and I needed to big chop but was so afraid of having short hair. I was fed up and just did it and it was the best decision I ever made. It’s 2022 and I keep it short still. Always do what works best for you and what you feel most comfortable with but I promise, short hair is not as bad as you think it will be. Best of luck on your healthy hair journey. My hair loss was related to severe anemia. I remember in earlier videos you mentioned having low iron. Check that out as well because anemia can cause hair loss/thinning of the hair.

  • @Dancingbyfaith3
    @Dancingbyfaith32 жыл бұрын

    Hey ! I’m sorry you are going through this. I pray God gives you wisdom and will return the glory to your hair ! Pray for your hair it works 😇🥰

  • @arianabyrd8322
    @arianabyrd83222 жыл бұрын

    Hey Jess! What happened to your edges? I must’ve missed you talking about it. I’m also growing my edges out! Good luck girl

  • @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick

    @lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick

    Жыл бұрын

    Her edges were missing at some point. She's growing it back now

  • @chanelbriggs9501
    @chanelbriggs95012 жыл бұрын

    I’ve never been so fast lol !

  • @panda22518

    @panda22518

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same!!

  • @sassys1240
    @sassys12402 жыл бұрын

    You could big chop now and wear you hair blown out. Short straight hair is so cute 🥰. I miss my short styles sometimes. I'm still on my journey, but I'll cut it again for the short look. I love the style at the end. Will be doing that under my wig next month. Thanks for sharing.

  • @prieryals4945
    @prieryals49452 жыл бұрын

    It's giving needing a texture release. Love ❤ u Jess, keep pushing through.

  • @saraiibokette7111
    @saraiibokette71112 жыл бұрын

    That’s heat damage babe. It’s happened to me every single time I flat ironed my hair. I notice it months later. Flat ironing my hair literally means I have to start over.

  • @denyshadials5702
    @denyshadials57022 жыл бұрын

    Looks a lot like heat damage. The covid hair loss I’ve seen looks more similar to postpartum. But I mean if you want to cut there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that.

  • @bobatearoar

    @bobatearoar

    Жыл бұрын

    I know it's been two weeks but what would you recommend for someone who has heat damage? I also need to strip my hair strands and I'm not sure what to use. I have thick 4c hair :) And I already trimmed the damaged ends.

  • @cookiemonster8184

    @cookiemonster8184

    Жыл бұрын

    @@bobatearoar If you need a stripping shampoo, I recommend Come Clean by Kinky Curly and for the heat damage, try to add more protein products in your regimen

  • @marissagordon106
    @marissagordon106 Жыл бұрын

    Omg girl!!!!!! Everything you’re saying is exactly what I’m going through but I got breakage in the front and the back smh. I do also think it’s Covid plus the stress I’ve had. I’ve been doing braids myself for less tension but it’s still feels like my hair is fragile. Def thought about chopping it all off but I’m scared lol. I’ll def be taking this journey with you so please post more lol

  • @bernadetteaverywaterhouse8542
    @bernadetteaverywaterhouse85422 жыл бұрын

    I love your hair!

  • @asia91070
    @asia910702 жыл бұрын

    I literally just went through the same thing. After 10 years of beautiful healthy hair I ended up having to do a big chop. I just decided to keep it short and now its super healthy.

  • @spacetimecontinuum
    @spacetimecontinuum2 жыл бұрын

    Girl you better pop some gel on that hair put it in a bun and call it a day, it will give all that it needs to give, until you decide to big chop or not.

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