seeing a skirt in an androgynous outfit gives me so much euphoria, I like skirts so much bc their so cute but they make me dysphoric, so being able to look as androgynous as you in a skirt is goals

@leah8894

2 жыл бұрын

I also love skirts cuz they mask my pancake bottom😏

@myname.1602

2 жыл бұрын

So you feel both euphoria and dysphoria from skirts...? Those are two polar opposites lol

@user-xs2gf

2 жыл бұрын

@@myname.1602 you feel euphoria when you’re able to wear something you like without changing the perception you want to have of yourself, you feel disforia when it makes you feel like smth you don’t relate to or feel like

@myname.1602

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-xs2gf Yes but they feel both of those things...

@myname.1602

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-xs2gf Also no, dysphoria isn't that. It's when your body mismatches your brain perception of oneself.

THE COW SWEATER PLEASE IM OBSESSED

@irisolympia

3 жыл бұрын

🐄🐄🐄

@bumblebeetlebee5187

2 жыл бұрын

✨moo✨

@SweetTooth1102

2 жыл бұрын

I love it qwq

@angelogarcia2843

2 жыл бұрын

i literally can’t find it on asos😭😭

POV: you're having gender envy and you dont know whether you wanna be fem or masc so u search up how to look both and realize you dont have to pick and can be both but you're still panicking. same. edit 2021: I'm gender fluid :) edit 2022: I'm a cis woman now...help💀

@TBNREllaXx

2 жыл бұрын

stop exposing me

@ch6rista

2 жыл бұрын

lmao same

@ananyasrikari

2 жыл бұрын

me.

@Jade.prxncess

2 жыл бұрын

My situation exactly 💀

@mikacarlson1814

2 жыл бұрын

lmao yea

I love how your video is kind of a serious lookbook thing and then Grayson's is just so chaotic haha

@kirbysthiccthighs

3 жыл бұрын

omg yeah😂 i love it

@cecilia9625

3 жыл бұрын

it’s grayson were u expecting anything else 😝

@tragicandstatic

3 жыл бұрын

@@cecilia9625 no not really haha

I'm so jealous of tall nb ppl how can I not be perceived when I'm 5"4 😫

@bee.ok666

3 жыл бұрын

I'm 4'11 homie 😭😭

@korettopun1203

3 жыл бұрын

Sameee I’m like 5’1

@hangezoe1266

3 жыл бұрын

Im 5’2 🥲, i wanna be 5’6 😩, but gosh can i be at least 5’4 😭

@hangezoe1266

3 жыл бұрын

@@korettopun1203 samee

@irisolympia

3 жыл бұрын

lol y’all shorties 🤧😜 (ily💛)

2:39 I’m a boy and I high key wanna wear this 😭 but I can’t cuz I’ll get dragged by my Christian parents-

@irisolympia

3 жыл бұрын

NOOO ❤️ i send love and can’t wait for you to be able to wear it freely!!

@slothmaster101

3 жыл бұрын

Just wear a kilt. Those are meant for men anyway.

@TBNREllaXx

2 жыл бұрын

@@slothmaster101 HAHAH true

@micaelaingram8289

2 жыл бұрын

SAME BUT FEMALE!

@jlbeeen

2 жыл бұрын

I'm Christian and so is my family and I'm surprised at how accepting everyone is. Then again, when I was little, I'd often wear boy's pants and girl's shirts. Something that I've been loving mostly since they're the easiest thing to sew, are culottes. Basically shorts that are a thin fabric, and wide enough that they kind of look like a skirt. I made two and bought one at Walmart two years ago, and I wear them to church with button up shirts. It's a great look that can be pulled off by so many people. They also come in longer lengths if you don't want to show leg. I usually wear knee high socks because while I'm female, I stopped shaving my legs and just feel more comfy in socks. Then again, my church community has a diverse group of people and they're more used to different stuff. I think my more conservative family members are just glad to see me using my late grandmother's sewing equipment.

i love the skirt look, because often we take androginous as "masculine", like masculine is neutral and feminine is the "difference mark", but this isn't and we should fight for it. androginy can be (and is) being able to bring altogether femme and masc features

@irisolympia

2 жыл бұрын

so true bestie

@metra8604

2 жыл бұрын

^^^^^ if skirts weren't perceived as feminine or revealing i would wear them every single day. they're actually really fun to be in

@cachacinha1378

2 жыл бұрын

@@metra8604 it is perceived, but the point is not about wether or not (and there are skirts of multiple lengths, so revealing is relative). The point is androginy isn't about looking masc or hiding feminine features. Androginy can be either having altogether feminine and masculine traits or having none. We just gotta question if what we (as society and as counterculture and gender nonconforming specially) aren't just naming masculine features as neutral and dismissing feminine marks. In my native language, there are two genders in grammar. Some theorises that there is the feminine and the masculine grammar genders, others says that what we call masculine is actually neutral and there is only gender flexing for feminine. That's actually one example, but it's just patriarchy in one way or another. But yeah, I'm 100% onto "assigned feminine traits are within the androginy group". That's just me though

I’m a cis 17 year old who’s just now discovered a love for androgynous/masculine clothes, love this vid!

@jvb2279

2 жыл бұрын

OMG SAME!!!!

@theslotherin1831

2 жыл бұрын

lol same

@sendenkorkum

2 жыл бұрын

SAME PLSSS im crying where do i find the noisy may jumpsuit

@nobodywashere1234

2 жыл бұрын

DUDE SAMEEE

@historian3844

2 жыл бұрын

Same but a cis guy with androgynous/feminine clothes but I’ll never get the confidence to wear any of it so I can just watch these videos and dream

Not me pausing the video and buying the cow sweater

@irisolympia

3 жыл бұрын

omg yes i support this decision

Me who wants to dress like this but lives in a hot tropical country: ( T ^ T)

@irisolympia

3 жыл бұрын

thoughts and prayers

@frootiloops7711

2 жыл бұрын

Same 😀😭

@khinkyinuuetheint2590

2 жыл бұрын

Same.TwT.

@jae4006

2 жыл бұрын

DAMN CAN RELATE

@carlw5360

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah can't relate I live in fucking Canada it's only hot in the summer here on the west coast

i want to dress like this but i feel like my body type is just so "womenly" like i cant hide my features unless i drown in clothing but then I end up looking huge and dont want that either.....

@Amanda-hd2bd

2 жыл бұрын

this is exactly how I feel omg

@Itztherealev

2 жыл бұрын

Tight sports bras under oversized sweaters are amazing for it! Oversized meaning past the hip, to keep it from looking too feminine

@ammercedes3591

2 жыл бұрын

I have the same issue. Big hips and small shoulders make androgyny pretty much impossible.

@Kiwikick238

2 жыл бұрын

@@Itztherealev tyy but it’s not really the chest I have narrow shoulders, a small waist then big hips/bum which is a lot harder to hide there’s nothing you can really do 😭

@DesiDeslei

2 жыл бұрын

@@Itztherealev my mom bought me a compressive sports bra and it didnt work even though im a sice 32c :(

POV: you get extreme gender envy every time u see a tall lanky cis guy with hair covering his eyes POV: youre me

@bunniegutz2875

2 жыл бұрын

Fucking same dude I’m super feminine until I see these guys- like do I wanna be you or date you T_T (I’m a cis girl but I really vibe with ‘gender envy’ is that ok oof)

@samsamthetrashcan6198

2 жыл бұрын

im you.

@zerolocalfruitbat5562

2 жыл бұрын

SHUT UP THIS IS SO LOUD

@samsamthetrashcan6198

2 жыл бұрын

@@zerolocalfruitbat5562 IKR

@eitasemi6030

2 жыл бұрын

I want to be them so bad. I’m proud of my gender but when i see those guys I second guess lol.

THAT FARM BOY GOES TO A BARN PARTY OUTFIT IS 10/10 😚 AND THAT COW SWEATER I NEEEEEED

@irisolympia

3 жыл бұрын

🙆🏻💛

I’m currently daily pulling off the “gay 80s bowler” look and I’m fucjing killing it. I gotta take some reference from these tho!

I identify myself as a woman who's more into feminine clothes. Recently I've been thinking "girl, I wanna look more androgynous or masculine but I have more skirts that money" and you, my dear besties helped me, saying that skirts can be a part of an androgynous look too!!

So fun story when I was younger like 2 years younger I got in really into a style that I like to call the homeless person style you know because it involved baggy clothes but now I realize I was just non-binary and just really trying to look more androgynous without realizing

@metra8604

2 жыл бұрын

hey, currently i have to stick with the homeless person style. however, this makes me feel a lot better because my parents usually say i look like a homeless person when im trying to be androgynous so yay, now i can't be insulted by that because that's the whole point >:D

@nartin9

2 жыл бұрын

Did you say kayne fashion aka homeless look

@xoxoshaneandmexoxo

4 ай бұрын

Maybe not homeless as a style bc unhoused people are real

All I want in life is for people not to know if I’m a girl or a boy even when I wear a skirt

@ink_puke_

2 жыл бұрын

same, i love skirts but i hate being perceived as female

@jawsplayz

Жыл бұрын

Me to

Thank you so much for including a skirt! I prefer to dress in an androgynous way but the climate where I live is stupid hot and humid- like too hot for pants. I've always struggled with "androgynous fashion" meaning dressing is a masc way with the heat here.

Can't wait to get some of these once I grow out of my wardrobe! I think I like things with certain themes, like a starry outfit, and a more grungy/e-boy (I’m not a cringe TikTok eboy, don’t worry) outfit, and a yellow, lemon themed one. Cuffing all my trousers and jeans as well, also some skirts (that I hide from my parents) and overalls and hoodies and coats and HATS (god I love hats). I love androgynous clothing, as a cis male it’s how I show my style, I love this kind of clothing!

@irisolympia

2 жыл бұрын

yessss boy thematic clothing is where it’s at

@Hollieanaaa

Жыл бұрын

Exquisite taste 👌

I’m just happy that half my clothes are too small (And I still identified as female back then) SO now I can but clothes that look more masculine or androgynous :D

@irisolympia

3 жыл бұрын

omg excited 4 u bestie

i have never made a timestamp comment thing before, so here it goes. 1:26 - monochromatic bro-outfit (featuring graphic tee and nikes) 1:47 - jumpsuit (specialty: T a l l & sidenote: layering necklaces which is truly brilliant) 2:17 - skirt & sweatshirt pairing (don't forget the platform boots, they complete it) 2:46 - farmboy goes to a barn party (again, the platform boots :D) 3:18 - cat shirt!! (i.e. that one art boy at a house show, and those platform boots :))) 3:50 - cow-outfit (the button up collar, thematic clothing/accessories, and those boots, wonderful) 4:28 - big pants w big button-up shirt (addition of fleece: mwah, fantastic) and that's it! the next time i go to a thrift shop, i'm gonna keep these looks in mind. thank you for sharing these lovely ideas.

this video is everything....the style, your hair, the instruments!!!

@irisolympia

3 жыл бұрын

As a dude who wants to start wearing feminine clothing mixed with masculine clothes I was honestly not convinced that this video was for me. However, I loved the outfits and got some good ideas for them so you definitely gained a new sub :)

this makes me want docs 10x more... they're just so expensive... also came here from grayson :)

After scoliosis surgery I’ll l be 5’3-5’5 and if I wear shoe inserts with combat boots I’ll be 5’7-5’10 so then I can truly experience gender euphoria

the cow sweater is the coolest piece of clothing i’ve ever seen in my entire life

How tall are you ?? I honestly feel intimidated in the best way possible 🛐🛐

@irisolympia

3 жыл бұрын

5’9” but taller with my tall shoes 😈

@irisolympia

2 жыл бұрын

@Jae the Fae i can 😎

@unknownwillofd2541

2 жыл бұрын

@Jae the Fae well bro im 160 cm so we're together. 😭

@triksteey

2 жыл бұрын

@@irisolympia not fairr im 5 inches shorter 😩

@CharlieIsOnline_

2 жыл бұрын

Pssst hey guys, don't worry, If you want to feel tall I'll tell you my height : I am five feet tall, that's it

Ahh trying to be androgynous as a fat person is so difficult

@lucyhtml

2 жыл бұрын

well, I think we all have an idea of what we look like. maybe just because I don't think I look androgynous doesn't mean others won't think I do?

@insomniacraccoon

2 жыл бұрын

Overalls!!! Overalls are the best androgynous clothes for people who are plus sized!!! and they're cute as HELL!

@ten.549

2 жыл бұрын

Same except I'm a trans guy, Its almost like i cant wear anything without still being procieved as a female😭

@dumbnoodleman

Жыл бұрын

Oof yea as a person i also fat tiddies that dont help with the shirt problem

Thrifting is the BEST. I went thrifting for a whole summer closet and it all ( wich was 2 big bags of clothes ) only costed 55 dollars. Its really cheap and you can find really good shit!

I'm so happy I found this cuz I have been really kind of afraid to wear both but I love them both and seeing someone else doing it makes me really happy ❤ thank you you're amazing

@irisolympia

2 ай бұрын

that's what I'm here for!! thanks for watching ❤️

yes, i will be wearing these in 90 degree weather that sounds wonderful

I love this!! I recently started dressing more androgynous and this is great inspiration. Also the Harry styles song break gave me so much serotonin

Woah this collab totally surprised me! (a pleasant surprise, Grayson also got good content I like to watch once in a while).

this was amazing!!! you guys are amazing

„I think it makes me look mean and I like it“ same

The confidence is immaculate-- i cant ohmygod you look amazing

ur fashion style is everything

everything about this is perfection

Omg your outfits look so good!! I'm in love

@irisolympia

3 жыл бұрын

🥰🥰🥰

How do you manage to look amazing in literally EVERYTHING, I can’t- 😭🤚

OMG I SO agree with you about the poetry of thematic clothing. I've always loved it, but never heard anyone else express it. It's so fun to link together pieces and accessories while thinking about themes.

your voice is amazing 🥺 loved every single outfit.

im a girl and have mainly feminine clothes (florals, cute lacy tanks and dresses) but i love love love more masculine outfits and this video rlly helped thanks !!

i’m obsessed with all of these!! i really love the second one

This is so inspirational, the fits are AMAZING!

this was such a well done video!! definitely taking inspiration xx

i love love love your hair!!! :’) i’m cutting mine a similar length soon so i’ve been trying to find people with this clothing style and haircut for inspo lol thanks for the video!

The euphoria I get from this video. So good!

UH so glad I found you through grayson’s vid!! hardcore subscribe 💜

@irisolympia

3 жыл бұрын

🥰🥰🥰🥰

BYE I LOVE THIS SO MUCH and your voice is so soothing!

@irisolympia

3 жыл бұрын

🥺💛

Your outfits are great!

oh my god ur editing style and fashion r both [chef’s kiss]

@irisolympia

3 жыл бұрын

🥰

I like all the outfits and your personality as well thank you sooo much💖💖

I loved each and every one of the outfits xD

Omg thank you for labeling where you got the clothes! Also your very pretty/handsome.

omg i love ur style sm

one of my favorite channels now

Subscribed! I love these! As one myself, I appreciate this! So thank you so SO much!!

I really loved this, it’s super helpful so thank u!!

The skirt tip helped so much i struggle with dysphoria w skirts and dresses and only feel comfortable wearing them sometimes will definetly take this into account

oma I love this pls make a part two I resonate so much with everything you say and its so hard to find vids like these

@irisolympia

2 жыл бұрын

there is a part 2 already! part 3 coming this week :)

need to go sweater thrifting and also the barb wire chain necklace omg

i adore your style omg 🥺 thanks to grayson for introducing me to you, i subscribed!

@irisolympia

3 жыл бұрын

🥺💛

I love your voice it is so calming

FUNNY, KIND AND TALENTED 🤯

Nice outfits !!

Finally fashion that isn't that revealing. I can't find cute outfit ideas that aren't revealing anywhere.

Ack I love this video!!! As a female that doesn’t feel super comfortable in revealing/feminine clothes, I take a lot of inspo from more masculine and androgynous fashion. Basically, I love that cow sweater and the jumpsuit, and thank you for making this :)

Hi, I was wondering if you could put the links to all the outfits in the description. It would help because I really love the fits Thank You.

I want to try these fits so much they're beautiful but it's too hot from where I'm at right now and probably die from overheating for wearing this 🥲 these are great though! Would love to see more outfits that suits for a warmer season.

TYYYY AHHHHH

Love this style

Omg your style is totally my style 💖💫

Finally, a KZreadr I enjoy

WOAH THE RANDOM CHERRY little ccover was so unexpectred and actually awsome. never seen ur channel before and im a massive harry styles fan and it made me so happy haha

I'm so glad I've found your channel

These outfits are incredible omg literally marry me 😳💗

OMG THX SO MUCH FOR THIS

I love it here. Sending EVERYONE lots of love and positive energy 💖✨

@irisolympia

3 жыл бұрын

hell yeah

Wow these are fantastic

@irisolympia

Жыл бұрын

thanks for watching! hehe

obsessed w your necklaces, thx also the cow sweater? hand it over

I LOVE THIS

How beautiful u are!!! So awesome. I also got some cute vibes ♥

I’m literally in love you are very handsome and cute wtf anyways love ur channel ❤️❤️

thank you so much for making this, i opened youtube literal seconds after getting off of asos and pinterest not knowing what i wanted and feeling overwhelmed. and then i see this video! as someone who doesn't want to be bounded by gender restrictions, this was a perfect video for me. even if it is somewhat associated with my biological gender i still generally like the style that is considered androgynous on tik tok and stuff nowadays. thank you so so much

i love this video

Loved it. I personally just use my moms, dads, uncles, cousins, boyfriends and brothers closets as a second hand job. All those things they don't want anymore are basically my own personal fashion heaven

You have a very nice voice and Pog style, my fellow tall Iris!

i need that cat shirt and cow sweater in my life ngl

when they just started singing casually???? edit: i'm dumb and didn't realize they are a singer and will no proceed to binge watch all of these videos

@irisolympia

3 жыл бұрын

😁🥰❤️

I do not know what is it about skirt but i just love to see them

I LOST it when you said "OmG tHIs iS My COWtfit!!!"

Thank you !! :D

thanks KZread for hooking up the recommendation!! :) great vid

Thank you for making this video! Sometimes I prefer wearing more feminine clothes and sometimes I prefer wearing androgynous.

I'm a cis guy wanting to highlight my "masculine" curves lol and I'm really struggling to find a look. I'm not a huge fan of baggy clothes, and since I'm tall, I have no idea how to find a "cute" look. That's basically my end goal: fun, cute, and a bit outgoing, but also a still a little masculine, maybe. I actually take a bit of inspiration from James Dean because of the simple and timeless look some of his outfits had.

Wow, you look gorgeous in all those outfits.

thank you

Omg i want all of them

Cisgender INFJ so very in love with androgynous fashion!