"Unhappy people are dangerous" Words to live by

@BishounenLuvr

Жыл бұрын

Personally, I'm a very unhappy person. I think a lot of us are...but I am working on building my happiness. That quote hurt a bit to me.... It's kind of like when people say "watch out for the quiet ones" so everyone has to talk often and appear happy to be deemed good and safe? Sigh, I think that is a cause for so many people putting on masks, and faking it 😔 Unhappy and hateful are different

I, unfortunately, heard about Tate before all this because I did a paper about red pills and incels for a class. It's bleak, and I recommend for the sake of your own peace not going further into it more than you have to other than this small warning- if he talks about biological determinism (particularly in relation to gender roles) and/or alphas, betas, and sigmas- run, ghost, block, and don't look back. Anyway, my favorite thing that I did this week was finishing up and wearing a cardigan I crocheted.

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

Completely agree! Any male who refers to himself as an "alpha" is cut tf off, full stop. I was talking to a guy last year who said he was reading a Jordan Peterson book, and immediately I headed for zee hills. 🏃🏾‍♀️💨

@louisachalarca6494

Жыл бұрын

I’d love to read ur paper is it public?! Tough research time. I’d leave just livid at my family abuser putting it allll on him. Enjoy your peace after all that research!

@VxNihili

Жыл бұрын

That's awesome that you crocheted a whole cardigan!

You NEVER fail to serve a look 😍💜

@LifeOfKells

Жыл бұрын

Yesss!! She always looks tf good!!!

@welliminitnowso

Жыл бұрын

Right… top details! Details!

I’ve been a hermit lately, but I went to the park with a guy, the sun was nice and we were by water. We journaled alongside eachother. Favorite part of the week.

@Jazzerbean

Жыл бұрын

This sounds so peaceful ☺️

@mischr13

Жыл бұрын

that sounds lovely, what a good idea

@BishounenLuvr

Жыл бұрын

❤️ That sounds lovely

@Karlenenicole

Жыл бұрын

That’s beautiful 🤩

$25K but free shipping... Sounds like a very reasonable buy to me 🤔😂 and you're wearing my favorite shade of purple Ti, it looks so good on you! 😍

I legit aspire to be as intelligent, succinct, genuine, and educated about everything as much as you. I wish I could be so clear when I’m at work and meeting new people. Grateful for slowly realizing that I can be better for myself. We absolutely gonna get there.

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much. And, just so you know, I absolutely write down my thoughts before I film (learned to do this the hard way), and it makes a world of difference in helping me to communicate ideas as clearly as I am able.

@chelseaap

Жыл бұрын

You and Joulzy are my educated aspirations! Who i wish to be; to string my consciousness together and then deliver like this would be magic to me.

This ensemble is absolutely stunning 😍 I had some tasty Haitian mangoes 🥭 this week. Delish!

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

Okay, I thought my week was pretty great, but you're giving me serious mango FOMO. 😭🥭😋

I uh...literally no one wants a c-ring that expensive. Also and most importantly, you look phenomenal 😍 this week, I've enjoyed cuddling with my one and only Bo Bear🖤

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

Thanks, fren! And 💯 -- cuddles with the doggos are a *forever* favorite, every single week. 🐶🤗

@janelle7778

Жыл бұрын

Hi Audra and Bo! 🐾🖤

I wasn’t sure that “male” could be said with the same disdain that assholes use the word “female”… but you pulled it off beautifully. Also, my favorite thing about this week was relaxing by going to drinks coffee in a cat cafe 🖤

Favorite thing I did this week is finally unpack my kitchen and bedroom and also finding my "Never Trust Anyone With A Morphe Code" mug in the midst of the kitchen unpacking chaos.

"The failure of imagination" This is such a accurate term for so many instances especially in the celebrity realms of merchandising spheres of reality. One of my favorite things I've done this week is organize my kitchen after finally obtaining an apartment in this crazy Miami housing market.

What is WILD and VERY telling to me is that Tate dude was spewing misogyny mostly aimed at yte women and the yte community (the men) 86'ed him and that rhetoric. 🚨 Yet, when it's done in the Blk community, goofy women heighten that toxic platform, and other Blk men flock - which only further deteriorates Blk families and interpersonal relationships 🤷🏽‍♀

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

Listennnnn -- a lot of folks aren't ready to have _that_ conversation! 👀💯

@shedaone9620

Жыл бұрын

Hey girl heyyyy👋🏽 …we follow some of the same people. Your comments are always worth reading! I agree with your statement 💯

@terracottakim8234

Жыл бұрын

@@shedaone9620 ....aw, girl thank you, I'm silly, silly & serious 💖🙌🏽Side note, your pic is so F'ing cool 🗣did you do that makeup look? Amazing 💫

@terracottakim8234

Жыл бұрын

@@nappyheadedjojoba Pure FACTS 🗣 Ti dip ya toe in sis - ppl need to think about that and the men, I mean males don't move unless we start ... but heck with them, this is needed for US 🙌🏽💯

@yougotgamesonyourphone6947

Жыл бұрын

FACTS!!!!!

I loved the halter top! Never heard of that douchebag so I'm glad you took one for the online team and found out because I didn't want to muck up my algorithm. One thing I enjoyed this week was having some time to myself, catching up on some Hulu eating a bodega hero sub and some delicious carrot cake. Gotta bring it back to the fundamentals every now and again! 😊

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

ZOMG bodega sub + carrot cake sounds like absolute perfection right now! 😩

@amberpratt5078

Жыл бұрын

Love the halter also💜

@v.m.4453

Жыл бұрын

The halter top really looks good

There's too much to love here! I don't know where to start. Wait, can we start with a full body shot of this outfit? I feel cheated.

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

I def felt cute in this dress, though I wish I had worn some nip covers to film. Guess I had my A/C on a bit high, yesterday! 😳😅

Rolling Ray familiarized me and a lot of others with “It’s Giving…”. It’s just extra disappointing knowing Doja cried so much about Dr.Luke stealing credit for her art and how he is eating off her work. It’s also gross how she really tried to call it “Stan words”. Oop, I should’ve waited to hear you say that.

@OriginalMaster16

Жыл бұрын

Who is rolling ray? The gays been using that term since before he was born. He didn’t come up with 💩

@smarti1144

Жыл бұрын

@@OriginalMaster16 you better let us know. If it's that old... Idk how to feel about that. I don't think it's the same as fleek. That was not a word in use.

@OriginalMaster16

Жыл бұрын

@@smarti1144 Doja has given phobic teas so many times so i feel like her using it to me is giving obsessed with the gay gworls. Similar to miss azaliea banks. I personally don’t care as long as people know that its a gay term thats been used for ages amongst eachother before women like Doja knew what that ever was. She is around a lot of gay men and gay is so acceptable now so its more access to the lingo. They have high jacked the gay rosetta stone and done gave away all the lingo. Lol

@brib6046

Жыл бұрын

@@OriginalMaster16 thank you for the correction. I’ll definitely edit my comment, because most people were familiarized by it (like myself) through Rolling Ray.

@OriginalMaster16

Жыл бұрын

@@brib6046 its no worries. You don’t have to change it. I’m not familiar with rolling ray. He absolutely did not come up with that phrase. I don’t know who did but it definitely wasn’t him. I think gay black ballroom culture that spans many decades is a better candidate and the probable originator for most if not all gay lingo.

I appreciate you referring to Tate as a "male", just an itty bitty taste of his own medicine. This week I got out of my comfort zone and did a little paid interview gig for a TV show my partner is associated with. I have really bad self esteem issues and can't bear to look at myself or hear my voice so it was really difficult, but I pushed through and got it done. I hope what I said will be helpful to someone. You're looking gorgeous as always, stay safe out there

@astoldbynickgerr

Жыл бұрын

Hey, I struggle with those same self-esteem issues. It’s awesome you were able to pull through with the interview regardless! Shows your strength! 💙

Doja yt side really jumped out by reducing it’s giving to “stan words” yikes. Her ignorance and arrogance will be her downfall 😵‍💫

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

💯

@DMcKoy7

Жыл бұрын

We can only hope

@Treize132

Жыл бұрын

She isn't even FBA her black side is South African via her father who was absent

@Alecexo

Жыл бұрын

Yeah the fact she called it Stan terms is like wtf…

@pe7e

Жыл бұрын

I try to tell ppl all the time DC is a white woman with a Black sperm donor.

I found a Buddhist Perspective book on trauma this week which was a balm on my soul. And your beautiful face dropped a video!

I attend an HBCU and one thing thats made me happy is being back on campus and seeing how progressive and forward thinking our new class of freshmen are.

Hmmm... Favorite thing I did was to abandon the idea of Hello Fresh for Hello Mama. That is to say that I can pre-measure all of my ingredients for the week, cut everything up, put it in baggies, containers, etc., si that when it's time for me to cook all I need to do is grab a box out of the fridge and make it. I do cost/benefit analysis for EVERYTHING and decided that the benefits of having someone else prepare portion sizes and ship it to my door is outweighed by the cost of $10 per plate! If I make it myself, it's going to cost far less. It just requires a little self discipline and I've got that.

I had never heard of this Tate buffoon till yesterday, and it's pretty horrifying that millions of people are following him. Anyway, I had a delightful vegan taco dinner last night with my partner. We topped it off with vegan carrot cake that was absolutely delicious 😊

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

That dinner sounds 🤌🏾😋! I do have to be careful at vegan restaurants because I have a tree nut allergy, but we went to one a couple of weeks ago that had allllllll the possible allergens indicated next to every dish on the menu. It was so dope (and delicious)!

@DH-uw3us

Жыл бұрын

That's my kind of meal lol.

@alexnuffsaid1

Жыл бұрын

Such luck

@justdanie7613

Жыл бұрын

Same, never knew who he was

@leedonaldson9448

Жыл бұрын

@@nappyheadedjojoba I gave up trying to come up with words to describe the delight and range of emotions I feel when listening to you. Here's one, You ARE BRILLANT❣ oh... (AND stunning 😍)

One thing I loved: I had a great time finishing a puzzle with a big group of people over wine. Very granny, very me. Also, that. DRESS.

My fave thing this week is I've actually begun waking up early to walk for 45 mins before the kids wake up... rather than just talking about doing it!

My favorite thing I’m about to do in a few days is leave my job! (I did put in my 2 week notice so my last day is coming up). I’m excited to control all 24 hours of my day so I can work on growing my business. I loved your commentary in this video (as I always do because you are so witty, sharp, and your deadpan tone keeps me in stitches!!!🤣🤣🤣). But I must also say you looked particularly stunning in your head wrap and purple outfit! Keep shining, Queen!!!👑

My favorite thing I did this week was attend a wedding in a museum! I felt beautiful and loved seeing how much love was experienced between the happy couple and their family.

First, you look stunning and that purple is perfect on you! That C-ring.... ha! I'm a jeweler, it's a somewhat common practice for some demographics to get custom rings, but that's even over the top for my clients. Favorite thing this week, sent my partner off to their first day of their masters program, long live the childfree!

I'm Romanian and sadly I can confirm that r**e culture is still very much alive here. There was a mass questionaire a few years ago that asked if r**e can ever be justified and nearly half of the people who were asked said yes. Don't get me wrong, we have a few feminist NGOs that push for changes in these atitutdes and we even had a little #metoo movement going on in the arts sphere but it's a very slow process that is barely taking form in these past years. So yes, Taint movinge here so he can abuse women without consequences was absolutely a calculated move on his part, which clearly shows he's not as stupid as he may seem.

Andrew Taint sent me 😭 but he’s literally such a terrible person I just heard of him today and was like ehhhhhhhh I’m glad I managed to avoid this nutcase. Very scary he’s influencing these young boys like 🤢

"Too little, too late" is a very relevant statement in this day and age, but deplatforming still works, as his reach has been limited, and everyone who followed him wind up behaving like lost puppies. Regardless, we still have more work to do, to eliminate these reactionary gruppies.

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

THISSS.

I don't think I'll ever be able to not side eye Doja Cat, she's got some personality issues that she seems to constantly get a pass for. I can see it, even if no one else wants to. That purple is 🔥 by the way.

@vihx17

Жыл бұрын

I concur

@thehuney56

Жыл бұрын

Giving the same vibe my bipolar friends do...but makes for dynamic music I guess 🤷🏾‍♀️

@NatalieTheRican

Жыл бұрын

@@thehuney56 She does seem bipolar.

@thehuney56

Жыл бұрын

@@NatalieTheRican Right? Maybe struggles with not wanting to be medicated because it blocks her creative flow or personality? I hear that a lot.

@NatalieTheRican

Жыл бұрын

@@thehuney56 I took meds for depression and meds definitely blocked my creativity. ( I write and paint) so that may be her reason. Plus so many side effects, it's almost not worth it. But in her case....she might need something.

I feel sorry for women in Romania. Also, the price of the c-ring is reminding me of the Nieman-Marcus Christmas catalog.

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

I thought _the same_ thing, re the women in Romania.

@terracottakim8234

Жыл бұрын

🗣🗣 right, the most expensive issh #BringBackCatalogs 💖

My favorite thing this week: I found a hidden lake deep in the mountains and settled on a beautiful remote sandy beach. Spent the day swimming, just me, the herons and the fishies.

Thank you for the TiTalk! Many excellent points made in this one. I came home and my mom had some swiss steak cooking so I ate that. She is battling cancer yet was still out in the kitchen trying to do entirely too much. Stay safe y'all and remember to love your tribe and love them hard.

@PrincessJewels08

Жыл бұрын

Wishing the best for your mom!

@kaykay8100

Жыл бұрын

@@PrincessJewels08 thank you so much!

“ the Venn diagram of tusk and taint stans is a circle ⭕️” 👏

I loved rearranging my bedroom this week! I moved back to the Caribbean ! I made breadfruit fritters and saltfish cucumber salad 😋

@belizegal29

Жыл бұрын

That sounds delicious.💜🙏🏽🇧🇿🇧🇿

Got a tramp stamp tattoo on Saturday. Trying to reclaim that for myself. I want to join a book club, but I'll probably just go see bookclub the musical instead.

Your arms are popping in that purple. 💪🏾Keep up the hard work!!

I love getting more active/being more consistent with health & fitness. I have so much more energy!

I am here for it. To many young children picking up on his words

You and Joulzy are my educated aspirations! Who i wish to be; to string my consciousness together and then deliver like this would be magic to me.

@tenamimms1929

Жыл бұрын

Yes

From one child-free, crazy dog lady to another, GREAT VIDEO! The entire segment about the c*ck ring had me dying! :) Best thing I ate this week was a very ripe, juicy mango!

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

You are the second person to give me mango FOMO in these comment streets! 🥭😭

I loved sleeping in this week. I’m back in the classroom next week, so lazy mornings with coffee are over.

Your top is FLY and the color LOVE it! I closed on a home that brought a very AMAZING return to me!! I would leave this place if I could leave now, but family stuff got me tied down......for now 2024 window!

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

Love this! 2024 sounds like a plan!

Kept seeing the Taint name but didn't investigate so thank you for the tea. A caprese salad - simple and enjoyable af

My favorite thing this week was sitting down and painting my nails. It’s a good way for me to relax

My favorite thing this week was I get to see a beautiful view of Atlanta from my morning walk up Stone Mountain

I found a jazz hole in the wall in my community that doesn’t have a cover charge, there is no two drink minimum, and the jam session was phenomenal

Best thing I did was help my best friend this past weekend with moving... She's my spiritual twin ... Also... I enjoy your videos because you keep it real and inform. Thank you for this channel! ✊🏾

My favorite thing about this week was I finally felt enough energy to go out into my garden today and enjoy the morning. 🙂

I enjoyed a very much needed rain storm dallas, tx. these luke warm teas are always GIVING!!1

I spent hours yesterday creating a 6-week calisthenic/light dumbbell workout program to build back some functional strength and fitness before I move on to a full gym program. Was very excited and felt productive yesterday... not so much today. However your arms are sooooo on point and its encouraging me to actually workout today

I deplatformed myself. I cant stand what social media has turned into. I have watched the computer turn from a dinosaur back to something that could fit into the palm of my hands. My favorite part of my day is when I get to be outside for work

I finally got to organize my makeup and I really enjoyed looking at it

Since I've been focusing on what gets into my spirit and affects my mental. Your "luck warm" keep me informed. I love the purple on you and that dress is giving. Seriously stunning

You lewk sensational as per use 😌🤩 One thing I enjoyed this week was my 12 year old little doggo pulling thru a particularly rough case of pancreatitis which had him hospitalized for three days. This week he finally has his appetite and is looking like himself again. The last few weeks my heart was so heavy at the thought of losing my best friend, but I'm filled with gratitude that he's healthy again 😊🐶

Never heard of AT and I am thankful. This weekend was relaxing and stormy so i chilled and fasted most of the weekend.

My favourite thing was setting up a map for my next D&D session

The best thing I watched this week was you! I absolutely love your commentary. Keep up the videos!

Hi Ti! I enjoyed getting some kayaking in this weekend. Still here for your takes as always! 💜

LOVE the outfit!! And I always enjoy your content...your dry humor is HILARIOUS...as well as thought provoking. Keep up the good work!

The way I hollered at 🗣I SAY I SAY I SAY 😂🤣😂🤣

Cmon melanin! You look great! I Doja trademarking ‘it’s giving’ is her leaning into the privilege her mother has afforded her.

School is back in session and the fun thing I did was go out to lunch with the new teachers. I am generally a positive person so I always try to influence how the team will work together to have the best outcomes for our students. Because like you quoted "Unhappy people are dangerous". Be well and be easy.

Appreciate the news update and love the top you're wearing. This week, I stayed disciplined and hit the gym, met with my craft group, and make the effort to read a chapter of my novel every night at bedtime. Great to have hobbies that get you away from the toxic social media and unwind the mind.

Definitely have been enjoying reading this book for work book club

This week I loved just researching everything I could about how to expat to Colombia. Really following your advice on liberation being a change in lifestyle and geography.

Enjoying being back in the gym after many many years ! Love from the UK

I read the book Essentialism this week. Loved it! I also ate a Big Mac and that will forever be my favorite.

It's expensive because it's a ceremonial burial cockring, like those worn by the pharaohs. It has to last an eternity in the afterlife

Great to see your videos Ti! Awesome takes on all the mess out there :)

Why did she need to name the thing "It's Giving?" She should never have named it that. There are a million names you could give to your new brand. She has a whole persona around being a Cat. Couldn't she have came up with something original? It's corny af

@Kay-kg6ny

Жыл бұрын

Right like even with the culture vulturing aside....it's also just a shitty name for a brand

@br33anoia4321

Жыл бұрын

She claims that she started it first according to twitter.

@strawberrie6491

Жыл бұрын

well i mean it is kind of marketing genius. it's causing a bit of a stir which i think was the point.

Great vid and great to see you!!😊

Your commentary is always on point! On another note the body, face and head wrap are serving today!!! I need my girls to get in line like that, okay then!!! 😂😂

I really need to get back to reading on a regular basis. Grad school has me so occupied!!

🤣 I was not ready for the Frank Ocean segment 🤭 Hilarious

Girl. You are are serving comedic GOLD today. From the sound effects, to the graphics, to the abundant zingers. Bravo!

Never heard of him before a couple days ago, thx for the quick video and the one thing I loved this week was horseback riding, gotta get my skills back up. Take care!

I loved finishing crocheting my thigh-high socks this week

Watched all the way to the end. Love your videos.

It’s so nice to see your smile Ti! I spent the last week house hunting. I’ve never tried to buy a house before and didn’t realize how hard it is. Agents, brokers, bankers, attorneys, who knew so many people are involved! And I get to do it all again next week. Wish me luck, or maybe strength would be better!

Good score on some classic albums on vinyl got to pick up some books again and get my brain working again.

I saw the Fictions of Emancipation exhibit at the Met with a friend and had a real soul-nourishing conversation about it. Also met up with my book club and had brunch for the first time in a minute. It was a nice weekend. :)

Love this dress! Who’s it by? The Ocean ___ ring is WILD! Btw my favorite thing I ate this week was a paella that my husband made. OH My gawd it was Amazing. Thank you for doing these videos. Life’s exhausting and it just keeps getting worse but you at least make it entertaining.

My favorite thing was going to a park around sunrise to look at the trees & animals

My fav was watching this video. Thanks for sharing.

This lady literally spits fire and facts in every video. 👏🏾♥️✌🏾

My FAVORITE thing that happened this week was Monday and Tuesday because i requested those days off. What makes it better is that it's paid time off. What tops the PTO is that i am also off on Wednesday. Wednesday is my usual one and ONLY day off from work. So i am on cloud nine, doing abso-fucking-lutely NOTHING! What makes this week even more special is that some of my favorite KZreadrs all uploaded videos around the same time. Thank you, Ti, for being on of those KZreadrs! i was going to save this video for Thursday night, but . .. 🤷🏾‍♂️

“Unhappy people are dangerous.” - Mwaagghhhh! So choice. I’ve been on a homemade bfast burrito tip lately.

I always love your commentary but the lewks, your skin, the glow!!! I'm here for it all!!!!

"And by clams I of course mean bones" had me full on witch cackling 😂 sooo good

@sunnyday_lemonbars

Жыл бұрын

I played that back several times...

loved the nap i took yesterday!

Here we go with another awesome intro It’s like precious based on the novel push by sapphire you’ve got to say the whole thing love it!❤️

My favorite thing to do this week was take a nap. Its was so nice ive been working to hard lately ❤

Love the color of your top - really suits you! And the melanin is popping - your skin looks amazing! xxx

I'm new to your channel and highly enjoying it. I haven't wanted to look up this Taint person, so I'm glad you gave me the cliff notes.

Lmao! Omg too many hilarious quotables within the first 2 minutes of this video. 😭🤣🤣😭

I crossed over to the other side and came back to life after your Foghorn Leghorn impression🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@nappyheadedjojoba

Жыл бұрын

😆🙌🏾

YES. the daytime birthday party fit!

You went in no intro 🤣🤣🤣🤣!

My favorite thing I did this week was move home after traveling for 6 months for work. Brooklyn and the San Joaquin Valley of California are different worlds! Loved this video, love all your videos 🤎