I can’t understand how any parent would film their child in distress rather than comfort them. I hate family vloggers. They are disgusting.

@candyluna2929

4 жыл бұрын

Not all do that.

@Elkycreates

4 жыл бұрын

There is no shortage of narcissistic parents on KZread. The funny part is they don’t know who they are.

@LoXena

4 жыл бұрын

@@candyluna2929 the fact that they made a business out their own kids. All of them are quite narcissistic at some points. Imagine pointing a camera everyday at you kids to spread that on social medias.

@celtydullah

4 жыл бұрын

Problem is, people keep watching and supporting these kinds of idiots. They don't care about parenting, they care about money.

@neshapruitt4756

4 жыл бұрын

*SOME KZreadRS

I can't imagine crying and being upset and having my mom turn on a camera and putting it in my face. That's horrifying.

@jessicah3450

4 жыл бұрын

That must have been so embarrassing for the little girl, I can feel her pain looking in her eyes.

@nicolejeffries740

4 жыл бұрын

While laughing too. Her daughter seemed to get even more upset as she filmed. Put the camera down and talk to your daughter, one on one. Sheesh. You’re not that interesting lady. 🤦‍♀️

@brandimccarty2588

4 жыл бұрын

So true. Nothing at all interesting about her.

@eleanoraquitaine2966

4 жыл бұрын

She's very cruel. I'm concerned about all her "fans" who can't tell.

@redlilwitchy6088

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly

Narcisistic mothers are the worst. I wish I had had a normal mother.

@platinumemories

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@tomsheppard378

3 жыл бұрын

Isnt nice but hopefully we can do better if we have kids or relationship. I really hope my daughter can be confident and an independent adult. Just feel loved for who she is

@NatureXXLover

3 жыл бұрын

She sure didnt chose to be narcissistisk.

@WintersGold94

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@PajamaManor

3 жыл бұрын

I love my mom so much but I wish things were different.

9:48 she is literally getting off from her daughter's distress. She needs to feel needed and that means putting her daughter through more trauma My trauma is internally screaming

@soapybagle

3 жыл бұрын

Not to mention narcissism makes the victim dependent

@divapanthas

3 жыл бұрын

@@soapybagle yes!! I remember having full on anxiety attacks when I was 9 when my narcissistic mother would be mad at me and not speak to me. It's sad the incredibly unhealthy and dependent relationship I had with her as a child and that i'm still trying to heal.

@SirDeanYawl

3 жыл бұрын

@@divapanthas that’s so harsh- I feel for you❤️ The silent treatment is so traumatic for an *adult* to deal with- I can’t think of anything that feels worse. Best wishes on your journey:)

@divapanthas

3 жыл бұрын

@@SirDeanYawl thank you so much, you as well❤️

@psychicrenegade

3 жыл бұрын

My narcissistic mother was exactly the same!

Myka is the type that wears an eye catching white gown to her own daughters wedding to try and look better.

@LittlePaperCircles

4 жыл бұрын

Omg no she's gonna be the worst mother in law I didn't even think about that 😂💀

@_sunchildd

4 жыл бұрын

ugh my mom at my sisters wedding 🙄 except it wasn’t white, or was bright yellow and her tits were basically FALLING out 😒😒

@aimeekelly9794

4 жыл бұрын

Yep. My mom had a boob job and lipo a month after I became engaged.

@StilettoCutsQuick.

4 жыл бұрын

Totally

@smurfylee

4 жыл бұрын

Who is she?

There is something so satisfying about narcissists being called out for being narcissists.

@vanessak7069

4 жыл бұрын

Soooo true

@Maya220100

4 жыл бұрын

Soooooooo true!!!!

@linnaeamarieandelman4432

4 жыл бұрын

So satisfying.....except that in the disastrous experiences I've had, it STILL doesn't have the desired effect. I am a broken empath who is trying desperately to iron out all the awful wrinkles ...one narcissist I dated for 4 years & became engaged to...was secretly seeing an acquaintance of mine behind my back. We discovered his infidelity and when we confronted him together in person, he literally would NOT ackniwledge what he'd done, and just backed into a corner, sank down, and refused to speak. Another ex was so angry that I stopped going round in narcissistic cycles/circles with him....that he attempted to burn my house down while I was asleep inside TWICE.

@user-zf2zm8zh8x

4 жыл бұрын

someone call out my mom plz. oh wait, that was before technology took off. lucky her

@monisolaelliott9346

4 жыл бұрын

Linnaea Marie Andelman My best friend since I was 13 years old married a narcissist. He now takes care of his 2 young sons by himself because she just can’t be bothered being a mother. It’s so sad. She’s absolutely horrible and he looks so tired and beat down. They are legally separated because she won’t give him the divorce he desperately needs for his and the children’s sanity.

She is so impressed by herself.

@tanyapeavoy5885

3 жыл бұрын

Many people are.

@aterryadg

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@Saltysarah32

3 жыл бұрын

🙄🙄🙄 she is

@kellijones8138

3 жыл бұрын

Ding ding!!

@maureentrentadue288

3 жыл бұрын

Oh my gosh yes she so is.

Kova at times looks in these videos as if she were well on her way to developing depression. Happens often in children of self-absorbed parental units even in the absence of blatant abuse.

@fuzbugg

3 жыл бұрын

Rockit Science Kova also sounds like a dogs name sad

@MsBhappy

3 жыл бұрын

It happened to, there was no abuse just a bipolar mother who was either narcissistic when manic or too ill when depressed. I'm only realizing this and working to heal in the nearly mid twenties! These poor kids or the social media generation have it worse. I'd hate to be able to see myself and my parent who caused me attachment issues and trauma and obsess over the behaviour and psychological dynamics at play :(

@Melisit83

3 жыл бұрын

Yes you can see it in min 15

@geral096

3 жыл бұрын

That's horrible poor little girl, where are children protection services?!!, that woman shloudn't have children

@fannymar6703

2 жыл бұрын

@@MsBhappy mid 20s is early. Your generation is getting this info while u r young, which is awesome

I was homeschooled by a narcisisstic mother, and I didn't have any friends. I would beg and plead with my mother to enroll me in a real school so I could make friends, but my mother would always say angrily "I'm your friend!" She didn't want me to have a relationship with anyone besides herself. Myka Stauffer reminds me of my mom.

@LiveAbuseFree

4 жыл бұрын

Wow! 😔

@caseyw.6550

4 жыл бұрын

I wasn't homeschooled or anything but my dad has always been very jealous of my friends and boyfriends. He would always tell me that the only people I could count on was my family and not to get too wrapped up in my "friends" because they will always let me down. It was even worse with any guys I dated. So bad that he refused to come to my wedding....for NO legitimate reason other than he just didn't like my husband. He definitely has major issues.

@natapy

4 жыл бұрын

Well, in the Stauffer's case, it was a bad fit... Seeing all those clips where she is just demanding the attention "sage on the stage" and ALSO fueling the sibling rivalry... Oof. Thank GOODNESS it was short-lived. Again, I know lots of wonderful home-schooled adults and current families, but, like adoption, they misrepresented it and gave it a bad name... Everything they touch!

@kristaw2686

4 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry you lived that! In my experience, most homeschooling families are loving, normal families who are intentional about making sure the kids have plenty of social interaction outside the home. I'm so sorry your mom used it as an avenue to control, isolate, and manipulate you. That's terrible and you didn't deserve that.

@fishalope5

4 жыл бұрын

@Thora Friganza I was homeschooled, most of the people I know had wonderful, safe experiences with it. Abuse is awful, but it doesn't exist only in homeschooling, nor is it always detected in public schooling. If anything, I would be more concerned about educational neglect as a reason to not homeschool, but again that varies from family to family and the child wouldn't necessarily do better in a different educational environment.

This woman is in for a rude shock when these kids hit their teens...

@lowrider81hd

4 жыл бұрын

Dr. Phil is ready and waiting... 😂😂😂

@m.h.7494

4 жыл бұрын

Nash Montana Can’t wait for the episode 😂

@HollyOak

4 жыл бұрын

Not necessarily. By their teens, some narc's kids have become narcs themselves, some do rebel but some also have basically a broken spirit and pretty much just hang around like a shadow. And that doesn't include the amount of mental health disorders the neurotypical child of a narc parent experiences, precisely because of the parent.

@t_ylr

4 жыл бұрын

Feel bad for them. Kids are gonna make fun of them once they inevitably find the KZread channel

@NatalieMarie917

4 жыл бұрын

Michelle Abrahmz I agree. There’s a good chance that they will develop internalizing disorders like anxiety and depression, and there’s a strong likelihood that at least a few of her children will be overly-compliant and perfectionistic, desperately trying to meet her expectations and avoid conflict or disapproval

She talks like a 14 year old highschool girl. Oh my goddd likeee

@XxRosexX96

3 жыл бұрын

I hate grown woman who talk like that. Annoys the hell out of me... 🙄🙄

@reallyrho1101

3 жыл бұрын

If you only listened to the voice, and weren’t watching the video, you could totally believe it was a tween or teen speaking.

@stormtrailer4146

3 жыл бұрын

This woman has a nursing degree and was licensed at one point. Yet she talks like she’s cognitively impaired.

@amasad4915

3 жыл бұрын

@@stormtrailer4146 i know right? How did she even pass? Im trying to go down the same route and its really hard. She seems too braindead to have done all that o.0

@wannabe1me927

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr

She escalates the children’s feeling of sadness instead of connecting with them to calm them down.

It’s awful to record your kids vulnerable moments. Where is her respect for them?

@LizbetPCB

4 жыл бұрын

I agree. She doesn’t care. It’s all about Mommy.

@littlekitsune1

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, her poor kid is clinging to her and crying, and she just happily chirping out all the emotional details to the camera instead of interacting with Kova herself.

@62roxana

4 жыл бұрын

She's extremely happy her daughter is upset! It's cringeworthy ... Myka thinks this makes her look special.. It must have fooled her followers.. Guessing many of her followers are narcissists too..

@its_her8525

4 жыл бұрын

Yes Tania, first thing I thought was why would someone film their crying child.

@rougestarlight4308

4 жыл бұрын

It's non-existent

"Are you going to miss mama??" *looks straight into the camera* This woman is soo in love with herself...

@mlee40738

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly. And it makes me feel like vomiting

@milliet1227

4 жыл бұрын

@@mlee40738 same here...

@kahlospirit24

4 жыл бұрын

Such damaging parenting... Amounts to a abuse

@Star-dj1kw

4 жыл бұрын

This scene: so disturbing. She seemed to ENJOY her daughter’s pain. 😡

@24kstar

4 жыл бұрын

@@Star-dj1kw It probably made her feel powerful and significant. She's quite disturbed.

5’8” 138 lbs...and she’s trying to lose 21 lbs...that seems like ED levels...

@Miadontforgetthisone

3 жыл бұрын

It is. I’m the same height. 117 is underweight for that height. I know cause I was obsessed with it when I had an ED.

@PajamaManor

3 жыл бұрын

She's skinny enough. Wow, she's also vain! How can you focus on your family when you're so full of yourself?!

@meegankainady6136

3 жыл бұрын

It's all for the attention and folks to shower her with compliments and insist she doesn't need it etc.

@mrsMOmiles

3 жыл бұрын

Thats what I was thinking! I'm 5 '3 and weigh 175 and im trying to lose 30 pounds of baby weight i gained!

I am so happy to hear someone else say that it's a red flag when you hear a parent say their child is their best friend. I have thought that for many years. My red flag radar would go up whenever I would hear someone say their child is their best friend. It never seemed right to me. Your children have enough friends they need parents.

@marzipanmango

2 жыл бұрын

I agree. I'm 29, and now I consider my mom one of my best friends. But growing up she was definitely my parent, not my friend! As a teenager I butted heads with her quite a bit :P A girl I knew in middle and highschool said her mom was her best friend, and though her mother clearly loved her, I felt bad that she didn't have the same kind of protective, stable, responsible parent I did. Her mom was very irresponsible and let her get away with too much. To be fair, her mom had her as a teenager, so it's not surprising that she had less maturity compared to my mom (who was 30 when she had my sister and I).

@Thefreckledfacedghost

3 ай бұрын

My daughters and I are extremely close, almost like besties, but I still remain dominant and a parent. I'm always here for support, but I'm also not your little friend.

The knowledge you teach us about narcissists is going to save many of us from so much suffering.

@LiveAbuseFree

4 жыл бұрын

good! I very much hope so! 😀

@brinabeans80

4 жыл бұрын

@@LiveAbuseFree You need to do an opinion on Aaron Carter who is the biggest narcissist. He does lives all the time and has a fiancee who is in an abusive relationship. They call it off daily.

@Thats-a-fact-jack

4 жыл бұрын

I agree

@Alexandraincognito

4 жыл бұрын

@@brinabeans80 I second this!

@Treezp1

4 жыл бұрын

That would be really really good 🙂 I will try to continue to be hopeful. T

Children of narcissistic parents should be able to sue them for the emotional trauma and other PTSD related issues they have to live with.

@Spooknie

4 жыл бұрын

Yea... Unfortunately all we really want is a sorry and that's almost harder to come by

@taft7877

4 жыл бұрын

Money doesn’t repair the long term emotional damage caused by dysfunctional parents.

@iLoveTheBamx

3 жыл бұрын

Taft yep

@iLoveTheBamx

3 жыл бұрын

Sydnie Smith yep. Exactly. My mother never apologized for the screaming and yelling and crap she did to me on a constant daily basis. All I wanted was a sorry. To validate all the hurt. Never got it. Just got a comment she made, one time. But she said it in front of my father and apologized in front of him too. I wasn’t perfect, I definitely wasn’t and didn’t wrong things and made mistakes. But to get screamed at and have someone angry at your nearly every.single.day? That’s not normal.

@iLoveTheBamx

3 жыл бұрын

She needed therapy. Never went and got it; despite pushing others to. They say we go to therapy for the ones who won’t. Lol.

When the little girl was crying and then she asked the other kid if they were upset and they started acting upset, that got me. The kids know that they need to make mommy feel good by acting upset.

@CristinaF210

3 жыл бұрын

and that's exactly how I saw it too

its so hard to watch how much she enjoys kova bawling her eyes out because shes going to miss her. god. i was a daycare teacher for years and every time a child cried it broke my heart a little. and those weren't my kids.

@kathymc234

3 жыл бұрын

You are a nice person. If we cried my mom sang, "Cry baby cry. Stick your finger in your eye. Run & tell your momma a big fat lie." As a small child I didn't understand thewords. But I understand the mocking tone & would go elsewhere to cry. A hateful vicious woman.

Myka doesn't understand that having children is to GIVE love rather than demand and expect it.

Poor Kova. She is a very pretty girl and I am almost sure that, when she will be old enough, Myka will get jealous of her beauty and start competing with her. Unfortunately, I know many people like her.

@24kstar

4 жыл бұрын

That's a great point. Myka is selfish, cold, and ruthless, so I wouldn't put it past her to compete with her own daughter. She may even try to sabotage Kova.

@colleenc.9900

4 жыл бұрын

Yes! Ditto! You nailed it, my friend

@user-jy1bc3gw2q

4 жыл бұрын

Maybe she'll bootstrap her eating disorder onto her. I've seen that one happen too. Mother competing with her 13 yr old daughter to lose weight.

@taylors5981

4 жыл бұрын

Or she will use Kova's beauty as a way to use her to get even more views/money

@KaylaMarie-ij4kb

4 жыл бұрын

I really hope if it comes to this kovas dad steps up and gets her out of the situation at least flop it, more time with dad then mom, because I can completely see her trying to compete against her when she's older I pray kovas dad is there to support and give her the real love she needs the older she gets.

Family Vloggers seem like they neglect their children, or they use their kids for social boosting.

@liannislam9006

3 жыл бұрын

It is all about money fame and fortune until the children and animals they raised grow to hate them and turn against them sad reality but true

@joy-115

3 жыл бұрын

Most

@krysivory493

3 жыл бұрын

Not Living Rosa, no.

@isabelladisney

3 жыл бұрын

Not all of them. Don’t stereotype them all.

I can't help feeling glad that Huxley is no longer a part of that poison, and now I hope he has a family that want him for him!

@courtneycoley8487

2 жыл бұрын

I certainly am

Imagine growing up and realising every moment of your childhood was staged for KZread mummy videos. Huxley is the lucky one.

@Wolagio

3 жыл бұрын

That kid is gonna be so fucked up and it's so damn sad to see . Damn

@retrochickt7947

3 жыл бұрын

I wonder how Huxley is doing? Hope all is well with all the babies.

@assiend

3 жыл бұрын

Right now it’s fucked up, but it’s definitely for the better. Any family is better than that woman.

@soapybagle

3 жыл бұрын

It’s sad what they did to Huxley, as he was so happy- even smiling at one point,- but maybe it was for the better.

@queenlegitimate5015

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! Thank God he got out of that situation and isn't forced to "perform" for KZread like her biological child will have to. Theres quite a few of these parents out there. Vlogging to indulge in their need for attention.

I'm instantly suspicious of anyone with all white furniture.

@DianaDodson

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@jenster29

4 жыл бұрын

I know too many people who have that style at home and ALL turned out to be narcissistic. No personality.

@jmo53214.

4 жыл бұрын

🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

@3NSII

4 жыл бұрын

Hey now

@iionnapassey3984

4 жыл бұрын

especially if they have young children, like kids get dirt on everything

'The purpose of her children is to make her feel good about herself' - that's my mother. I never knew how to put it into words before. I think she loves me only in the context of herself. Thank God I have a wonderful therapist these days. Thanks for the video.

Her children are more emotionally mature than she is. This analysis is SPOT ON!

Some people shouldn’t have children

@bshays21

4 жыл бұрын

Imo most people

@chook3307

4 жыл бұрын

Brandon Schneider AMEN

@jabbersart6218

4 жыл бұрын

As society we need to stop expecting all women to have children or else this is what happens

@The_Whimsical_Stenographer

4 жыл бұрын

Most people shouldn't have children.

@mamimamii6855

3 жыл бұрын

And she has not 1 not 2 not 3 ,FIVEEE!!!!

When she walks in talking about Kova drawing, the child looks happy for the attention and realizes in a second that it’s just for the camera.

@jacksters19

4 жыл бұрын

Kristina Ringo oh my goodness that’s sad 😔

@notwerkinginthishouse8634

4 жыл бұрын

@@jacksters19 I remember when we talked to our professor, she said how kids get sad when they see how parents film them on their shows at school or some presentation instead of putting that mobile away

@jacksters19

4 жыл бұрын

artistic persona @artsitc persona I now find it disturbing to watch family vlogs. I notice the new generation of kids are born into having their faces seen on Facebook and on the internet at an early age. To some degree it’s dysfunctional and disturbing. I am afraid to see how those kids will end up in 20 years from now.

@its_her8525

4 жыл бұрын

Interesting, at my daughters kinder Christmas show, I was one of the only parents not filming and had set an intention to be as present as possible (I had her two younger brothers with me) and enjoy her moment. She was cross afterwards wondering why I wasn’t taking photos and filming.

@corneliabender-dantoni787

4 жыл бұрын

Yes you can see the dissapointment directly ! How her Laughing freezes....😢 very sad

Wait...she adopted a son and then gave him back???? WTF?? Ill be watching more but I can not even imagine.

@aurora8749

3 жыл бұрын

Thats. Pretty common i hear. Scary

@sheenaalexis8710

3 жыл бұрын

They adopted a child with autism and were shocked when they found out he had autism.

@sheenaalexis8710

3 жыл бұрын

@Chelsea O Chelsea it was sarcasm.

@Jessica-xz7cu

3 жыл бұрын

@Chelsea O I thought the same when she said 'happy gotcha day!' to him which is a term I've only heard before when people refer to the day they brought home their puppy for the first time

@PajamaManor

3 жыл бұрын

You didn't know that? This is the only reason she is relevant.

I found out my mother is a covert narcissist, 5 years ago. And it was the biggest shock to realise everything wasn't my fault but that my mother had done it to me. Your videos helped me enormously

@vanessajones9524

Күн бұрын

My mum recently died, and as predicted, with the help of the golden child daughter, she took me out of the will. It's fine, I've had a peaceful few years without the two of them in my life.

4 minutes in and she hasnt mentioned how her daughter has coped with any of it

@half-pintasmr1075

4 жыл бұрын

I know right!? It's all about how hard it was for HER. ONLY HER.

@melindac3368

4 жыл бұрын

I noticed that.

@VioletJoy

4 жыл бұрын

She never did.

@babyyvie

4 жыл бұрын

8 minutes in.....

@littlekitsune1

4 жыл бұрын

@@babyyvie 15:47 minutes in...

Daughter: sobbing and upset Mom: 😁 📱

@HappiiWheels

3 жыл бұрын

This cracked me up 😂

@babasheeny2617

3 жыл бұрын

Skyprincess 1995: I really dislike saying this but it was the same between Shanann Watts and daughter bella. (May their souls rest in peace).

@irishcountrygirl78

3 жыл бұрын

@@babasheeny2617 ya know, it's horrific what he did, but l saw that too.

@hamster9747

3 жыл бұрын

@@babasheeny2617 what happened

@babasheeny2617

3 жыл бұрын

@@hamster9747most fun activities ended up with Bella crying......not fun at all.

A kid clinging to the leg of a parent who’s leaving for an hour has attachment issues, when my mom would drop my sister and I off, she told us we would wave by and go play, we never questioned that she would be right back because she was always there

@Sarablueunicorn

3 жыл бұрын

already developed an anxious insecure attachment style

@Ash.Crow.Goddess

3 жыл бұрын

I'd say the parent has taught this child to have issues.

@assiend

3 жыл бұрын

True that 👉🏼

@jazwhoaskedforthis

3 жыл бұрын

This is a really good point.

@Elemenohpea440

3 жыл бұрын

It depends on the age. It’s totally normal for a toddler to do that. Older kids, no

I grew up with 2 abusive parents, one of which was narcissist. It has taken me years of counseling to undo all the damage. Some people should not have children period.

There is such a stark contrast in Myka's expressions when she is sitting down in front of the camera acting- her mask of being a loving, caring, sweet mother, firmly in place. And when she is being filmed in the home at the end when she gave Huxley the new toy, it's like we are seeing behind her mask, and it's frightening. I can't imagine her without the camera on at all, those poor kids.

@mrozonka82MSz

4 жыл бұрын

I absolutely agree. Shocking.

@coleengoodell3550

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Her mouth is showing complete distane.

@whiteshadow59

4 жыл бұрын

and even in the acting you can tell it's not real.

@s0lastsummer7

4 жыл бұрын

That was seriously creepy.... she was looking at him like "TAKE IT. JUST EFFING TAKE IT. like you take everything from me!" 🙄

@sandrabrooks3373

4 жыл бұрын

I saw her shove H out of the cameras view.

Poor kid. She's crying and really upset looking for comfort and her mom is putting a toothbrush in her face and being annoying. What a weirdo

@missscousemouth82

4 жыл бұрын

A toothbrush and a camera. God forbid her daughter be upset and her not catch it for her socials.

@annaf3915

4 жыл бұрын

And immediately starts nagging her other daughter to express grief about Mummy dearest leaving as well - which she tries to fake

@eliannalinde228

4 жыл бұрын

What bothers me is how she shoves a camera in this kid's face. Like no privacy whatsoever abd then she's so focused on telling the camera how much she's gonna miss her mom that she completely neglects her needs. If my mom ever filmed me in moments like that I would have left home and never return

@dustin628

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah it was super cringe and gross to watch. I literally said Yuck out loud.

@gordonroxanne1294

4 жыл бұрын

I'm wondering if Kovas real father is looking at all this and thinking maybe she needs to be with him full-time.

I just want to say how thankful I am for this video. It has helped me to see warning signs in myself that I need to change immediately.. I love my girls so much and I don't want to emotionally damage them in any way 💔

@LiveAbuseFree

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for sharing this inspiring comment! 💕

@fannymar6703

2 жыл бұрын

Kuddos momma

@jenniferlee6955

2 жыл бұрын

I am impressed with your self awareness and your willingness to make changes to grow in positive ways. Well done!

It feels like she doesn’t want her mum to go because she’s never had her mum to begin with

@natashamann5455

3 жыл бұрын

Ouch. That struck a chord with me. Great observation.

@kelseycoca

3 жыл бұрын

I feel like this hit the nail on the head

@chocolatebudgie

3 жыл бұрын

Most children love their parent even if the parent is rubbish. Among even normal children some will be more attached than others, based on the personality of the child as well as the parent.

@sbqntlyawake3813

3 жыл бұрын

Such an empty feeling. I know.

@LD-ju7ge

3 жыл бұрын

Yep just put my thoughts into words

Her micro-expressions when she interacts with her children are SO revealing.

@littlekitsune1

4 жыл бұрын

She looked so annoyed by a reaction Huxley hadn't even given yet over the toy... No wonder the poor boy feels like he can't relate or bond with her. She's mad at him before he does anything and then she's made herself a self-fulfilling prophecy of him crying or having a "meltdown."

@tinap3532

4 жыл бұрын

@@littlekitsune1 she's so obviously disappointed in him, or rather that he isn't what she expected and wanted. it's utterly heartbreaking. i feel so sorry for all of her children, this must be so hard on all of them.

@vsusanmoon

4 жыл бұрын

@littlekitsune1 My mom used to have same expression. As soon as she approached for anything good or bad my heart always sank or was full of anxiety. She called me selfish for attempting suicide, gaslit my mental health issues and told me that I don’t have friends because I’m constantly angry. As soon as I left, I got therapy, made a lot of friends and do a healthy hobby with an many more friends. I also have a long term bf.

@MabelJ47

3 жыл бұрын

She is highly annoyed with her children.

Wow, she only thought what will men think about her when she's a single mother. She didn't thought about her daughter at all.

@carlesteel6838

4 жыл бұрын

Luckily she didn't pull a Susan Smith on her.

@ainz2000

4 жыл бұрын

My narcissistic mother told me that *I* should be grateful that she was able to find a man who would date a single mom...

@Classic_courtney

4 жыл бұрын

And then she got james 😂. I’m sure she feels like she settled with him. She deserves it.

@TheIncredibleWarriorFamily

4 жыл бұрын

I noticed that too. That was really gross.

"We LITERALLY planned our future together" ...Ok, I already can't stand this woman. Her affected voice is really grating on my nerves too.

When I say I’m triggeredddd, just personally speaking growing up w a narcissistic mother. May spirit watch over those kids, Asé. May we all have the self awareness to break toxic generational cycles

@kreekree5

3 жыл бұрын

🙏

@devonsiadavis2111

3 жыл бұрын

Ase! 💜

@fabisobe

3 жыл бұрын

Amem, Amanda!

@laurencampbell2169

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! I desperately want to break that cycle and show love with no conditions to my children

@principlemethods5281

3 жыл бұрын

Did she convince u to hate your dad?

Its horrendous that she has to film these intimate parts of family life. I've never seen family Vlogs before, they seem horrendous and exploitative. I cant believe they're a thing

@roydullman6952

4 жыл бұрын

I personally have never put any pictures videos of my daughter on any social media. I dont think it's fair until she can have informed consent, maybe I'm overprotective. When I was younger it was embarrassing enough if my mom showed a friend without having for the world to see. It's really easy to lose control of a video or picture once its online

@samphazm

4 жыл бұрын

I also thought videoing aspect was horrendous. I’ve become aware that it is out there, but good grief ..it’s hideous to know people actually do this with their families!

@kathyt3959

4 жыл бұрын

브렉시트과학 I often think what are those kids going to think of having been exploited so intimately when they are older.

@SoelPockychan

4 жыл бұрын

브렉시트과학 I used to watch vlogs but when all the people I watch started to her babies, I just unsubscribe. At this moment and time I’m not kin in the idea of having kids, so I don’t enjoy watching kids on my free time 😂😂 I would try to see what they are up to but it’s just so boring in my opinion, kids are cute but why would you want to see kids getting upset? 🤷🏻‍♀️

@MyMomo17

4 жыл бұрын

She made millions off her Channel and sponsors, the first video of Huxley has a Dreft commercial she made, a diaper commercial and KZread payed her too.

She looks absolutely extatic about her daughter crying, that feeling of knowing her daughter wants her looks almost like it's a drug making her high. There's no care for how her daughter is feeling.

@roxannestine4619

4 жыл бұрын

That is honestly a very good point

@mirsey93

4 жыл бұрын

She's like "I'm not laughing" ok but you're happy and smiling while your child is sad? It gets easier to leave your kids when you're used to it for work or whatever but the guilt never goes away. At least in my experience. When my kids are especially sad I have to leave like this, I'm sad too.

The children cling to the narc because their position with the narc is precarious

@lindamayer4697

3 жыл бұрын

This is hard to watch. A poor child desperately trying to not lose their security. 😟😟😟

@ArtandKitchen_

3 жыл бұрын

We dont have choice yet but inside we wish we are adult who can have a job so we can escape..

the part where shes talking about a juice diet thing and the poor baby just wants her attention reminds me of the Still Face Experiment. poor lil thing just wants her mommy's attention

Why would someone be filming themselves while their daughter is sad before a trip and then put it on the internet? Like, just give your kid your full attention and love.

@jbb8261

3 жыл бұрын

I know. If I were the mom I would’ve never filmed that. We would’ve gotten ice cream and done whatever my child wanted to do that day. I would’ve said goodbye in the morning and told them I can’t wait to see them again.

@irishcountrygirl78

3 жыл бұрын

She did it for Narc supply and loved every minute. So sad. Her daughter will cut her off as soon as she hits 18 l bet. Nothing worse than realising you are not actually loved for who you are by your mum.

@laceyu8580

3 жыл бұрын

No kidding!

She didn't want her daughter to see her dad because she didn't want to share her... What is wrong with her?? The child is BOTH of yours!!!

@courtney9546

4 жыл бұрын

A lot of people feel this way when a breakup is not amicable. It's normal and common. People often get over it with time as she apparently has.

@lissafinn4235

4 жыл бұрын

He cheated on her that was the deal breaker so she wanted revenge. When I split with my ex-husband I was mad but I never would’ve kept our kids from him. You’re not only hurting the ex, you’re also hurting your kids.

@lissafinn4235

4 жыл бұрын

Dehlilia_ 8thHouseMoonRabbit , Not unless my children were being abused or put in a dangerous environment would I keep them from their father. Her ego was bruised because god forbid he dared to cheat on her so she used the only ammunition she had against him.

@lisemartino1854

4 жыл бұрын

BaybeKAY9 I would phrase it slightly differently, the child doesn’t belong to both of you, you both belong to her!! She has a right to both of you.

@courtney9546

4 жыл бұрын

@@lissafinn4235 "god forbid he dared cheat on her" Are we serious right now

When Cova comes of age,and starts dating,Myka will surely be making a fool of herself,trying to compete. And I wonder if she will still think of Cova as her ’best friend’. Things will turn sour,somehow.

She gives her son a contemptuous look at the end when she's giving him a gift.... almost pissed off

@pamiam9017

3 жыл бұрын

Because he wasn't excited about it as e was already playing with something.

@AMcDub0708

3 жыл бұрын

And she snatched the other toy he had in hisnhand

@theyoungwolf9852

3 жыл бұрын

She literally looks like she hates him when she looks at him

The part with her daughter crying around 11 minutes made me uncomfortable. Such an inappropriate time to be filming. Thank you for your videos!

@ainz2000

4 жыл бұрын

Haley Beldin typical narcissistic parent being entertained by their child being upset..

@whitneyrich6525

4 жыл бұрын

That is what I was thinking. Who films that and then post it for y’all of us to see. Like your daughter needs you not a camera in her face.

@rustymertz

2 жыл бұрын

She loved it because it validated that someone loved/was going to miss her.

First thing I noticed is that she doesn't talk 'with' her children, she talks 'about' her children to an imaginary audience. And there's a huge difference between having your parent talk 'with' you, having a parent talk 'at' you, or having them talk 'about' you. For example, my NPD mother never talked 'with' me, it was always either 'at' or 'about'. When I turned 30 and got engaged, she literally refused to talk 'with' me even when I confronted her about her avoidance to communicate like adults. She chose to talk 'about' me to other family members and claim to be victimized by my sudden shift in personality.

@Ray.5446.

4 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry you had to deal with that

@peach8142

4 жыл бұрын

That sounds familiar. My mom is hard to pinpoint I’m not sure if she’s a narc or not.

@MichelleOsorio

4 жыл бұрын

Exact same thing happened to me. I’m sorry. Therapy can help you learn how to behave “normally” in a healthy relationship.

@ahridavis4910

4 жыл бұрын

You dont know what goes own behind the camera or when cameras arent around.

@AimeeFleck

4 жыл бұрын

Sounds like my mother in law

when i was a kid i knew i could tell my mom about anything but that she would still be my mom, but thanks to that open communication, as an adult, i do feel like we're friends. but as a child there was a distinct line between mom and friend and i think its why we have a healthy relationship still

Those poor kids are going to be so messed up when they get older. You can already see it in Kova's expression. The little boy was downright nasty to Huxley. It was obvious there was resentment there. The two boys were the same age. It's obvious not much thought was given to this adoption. Huxley was for video content. Lord on!y knows how that little boy was treated when the cameras were off.

@SatieSatie

2 жыл бұрын

I know!! Myka is capable of violent assaults against adult co-workers, so why would her sick narc mind spare a helpless, disabled child she and her entire family clearly hated? Good that Huxley was able to leave that poisonous nest.

Both of my parents were Narcissists Out of 4 children, I’m the only one who didn’t die of alcoholism, drug addiction and/or bulemia Accidentally married one, who left the month I was diagnosed with cancer Actually, the cancer and chemo was less toxic But, I’m alive, now 65 and doing well, and I MUST take 2 antidepressants every day-helps to mitigate the years of trauma Unless you have lived with a narcissist, it’s very, very difficult to understand both the real and potential danger to those around them Thankyou for your astute explanations of appropriate vs narcissistic mothering

@kikeninikisses7061

4 жыл бұрын

Im so sorry this happened to you 😫 so glad to hear youre happy and healthy now and taking your medication 💜 truly a strong woman and inspirational 😁 thank you for sharing your story

@fredmad4988

4 жыл бұрын

And the accusations people label you like unfilial, people are just dumb.

@kumokundomo9705

4 жыл бұрын

Stay strong

@nikiluv6336

4 жыл бұрын

Bless u for making out! Some will some won’t! So sorry u had to go thru that but thank u for rising above and being true to u in a positive way!

@Eyefartconfetti

4 жыл бұрын

Wow! It's as if you ripped a page out my nightmare. I am so glad to hear you're doing well after cancer💜💜💜 I had emergency surgery after Dr's found my gall bladder was gangrened and guess who wasn't there when I woke up.... Instead he accused me of having mysterious "visitors" because I wasn't answering my cell or my room phone😏 That's what I came out of surgery to and it was so brutal. Next thing I know we're fighting in the parking lot after picking up my pain medication because I wouldn't give him any. I ended up throwing them away just to end the argument. This is just ONE incident of many. People can question how we allowed such abuse or put us down but these monsters know exactly what they are doing and prey upon the goodness of others. It's a sick way of getting from others what they lack in themselves. They can imitate but can NEVER really feel beautiful emotions. And they are good at mirroring behavior. I used to think I would never let some guy disrespect me and once I was hooked the mask fell off. Sometimes I feel I'll be traumatized forever and I'll never trust anyone again. That's where it's safest. I'm so sorry you went through the mud and have shared a little piece of your story. Thank you💐💐💐

She's supposed to be talking about her relationship with her daughter on her 'family channel' but the whole thing sounds like a gossip session with a girlfriend. All that's missing is the box of wine.

Damn the interlude of her juice fasts really shows her instability for proper judgement. How is a working mom supposed to sustain off of juice? 135 pounds?! My cat weighs more!

@StrawberryNinjaNibbles

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe time for your cat to start juicing then 😆

She's the type who would totally get in on an MLM scheme.

@derekweinerttv4163

3 жыл бұрын

Shan anne

@seawolfandsage

3 жыл бұрын

She is... the Young Living essential oil diffuser on her nightstand in the beginning...

@PajamaManor

3 жыл бұрын

@@derekweinerttv4163 Boi! Lmao

@nursedd6013

3 жыл бұрын

@@derekweinerttv4163 yep, that's who I thought of too!!!

@ishtarbabylon4869

2 жыл бұрын

@@derekweinerttv4163 don’t you dare!!!

The way that girl’s face fell when she looked up and didn’t just see her mother but also a camera. Oof. Edit: 9:12

@OneCatShortOfCrazy

4 жыл бұрын

:'(

@morganismayhem

4 жыл бұрын

Yuuuppp. Genuinely happy for her complement until she realizes the complement cuz the camera is rolling. 😒

@KatsPurr

4 жыл бұрын

Ooooohhhhh good catch! Heartbreaking!

@ongogablogean4920

4 жыл бұрын

I was just saying.. imagine being a child and having a camera in your face or rolling all the time. No real intimate moments. Really so sad. For all these KZread kids. Parents sacrificing their children’s childhood for money. Sick

@myssangela4872

4 жыл бұрын

I thought it was because she mentioned the homework

Imagine growing up in a home after your parents gave away your brother because he required extra care. Do you ever feel secure again? Every time you get in trouble or become sick do you get anxious you too have become too much like brother?

@nemesj7596

4 жыл бұрын

And, before Brother leaves, are you not afraid to associate with him, knowing Mother is disappointed? Will you get punished as well? Will you have *him* punished even more? Maybe it's not H. the unluckiest among these children...

@dqverify6797

4 жыл бұрын

They didn't give him away because he required extra care. They gave him away because he didn't feed Myka's ego enough.

@reiyalol

4 жыл бұрын

I know😭

@pjj9491

4 жыл бұрын

My "mother" gave me and my brother up for adoption at birth...grandparents took him, he was 4 yrs older, some of their friends took me, i remember it, i was loved, my "mother" was on her 3rd marriage and 3rd kid at age 25, when she took these lovely people to court and got me back🤕😵🥴...i was used till my escape at 2 weeks into 17 to be her nanny maid foul punching bag and sex toy to her 3rd husband and she physically mentally verbally financially abused till i was 60...whats really bad is when my older brother died unexpectedly at age 53, she was completely unaffected....i didnt know what all these mental terms meant in the 50s...wish i wouldve had yt and fb

@girlofthex

4 жыл бұрын

I wonder about that also.

My mom LOVED for me to cry when she left. She was called out by various family members and child care professionals for dragging it out.... It really made her feel validated and important to have me in tears for nearly an hour each morning.

Myka was actually laughing at her daughter when Kova was crying and how she felt inside.😡😡9:55

Its disgusting seeing how immature and obnoxiously self-centered she is. Dont give attention to this kind of people, please

I hate parents who say their young children are their best friends. That will come in time after they are grown but until then, be the parent!

@itsmedawn5323

4 жыл бұрын

I agree with you! I have 4 kids, 3 girls and a boy ages 23,21,19 and 14. My 2 oldest daughters are now my best friends! I’ve given them the tools to succeed in life, and now they are adults I can be their best friend! My 14 y/o I still need to be her mom and guide her, I can be her best friend when she becomes and adult! I’m getting my 1st grandbaby in October, so I’m excited for this next journey in life with a grandbaby!

@eleanoraquitaine2966

4 жыл бұрын

Those turn out to be very angry children. Children want their parents to teach them the rules, the boundaries, survival skills. They don't believe their parents love them when they fail to do that so they end up hating their parents for not caring enough.

@Hawaiianstyle65

4 жыл бұрын

Yep

@ingrid5443

4 жыл бұрын

Now I understand why my mother would always scold me when I call her my best friend 😂 i am your m o t h e r, not your friend, we've always had a great relationship

@GJsaysHai

4 жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree more. A parent needs to be a parent before anything else to their child. My mom was fairly strict when I was growing up and admittedly, it caused a lot of arguments between us and periods when I just didn't want to know her. But she always gave a reason as to why she said "no" to certain things and if I asked, she'd explain why she expected certain things of me and my brothers. Now, fast forward to being 24 I agree with my whole heart to the way that I was raised and understand why she didn't let me do everything my friends were doing, and we have a really close relationship. I hope that down the line when I have kids of my own I'm as good of a mother as she has been.

She personifies everything wrong with being human.

When she gave Huxley the toy, that’s what got me the most!!!

I have a narcissist mother. Im 33 and still have PTSD. Its hard to function with other adults. Courts need to look more at parents who re narcissist

@treehugger7916

4 жыл бұрын

My mother was too. I was 30 when I started to understand why I struggled. I agree with you, it needs more attention!

@beckyrooroo6104

4 жыл бұрын

Same here

@nancyflaugher4370

4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! My mother was very narcissistic and very jealous of me growing up because "I was able to have more than she ever did" as a teenager. I was always too fat, I had red hair that she hated, she'd hit me with whatever she could reach and went so far as to not let me shower but once a week....but i went to school and made something out of myself in the Army. She then turned to my children and treated them as badly as she did me. Took me until I turned 40 to quit seeking that "something" from my mother that I was never going to get. My father died in 2007 and I never saw my mother again.

@lissafinn4235

4 жыл бұрын

Abuse is abuse whether it’s physical, mental, sexual, or verbal. The problem is the courts can’t do anything if they don’t know. I think a lot of the problem is some people don’t consider it abuse unless the child is being beaten or molested. People don’t realize how damaging verbal and mental abuse really is and the long term effects of it especially when it’s ignored.

@lissafinn4235

4 жыл бұрын

Deplorable Cat , Courts do recognize it because it’s abuse but they can’t know about it unless someone reports it. The courts are to blame if they’re made aware and do nothing but they are not mind readers. It’s the people who are aware of this abuse (spouse, relative, teacher, coach) whether it’s witnessing it firsthand or the child confides in them and they choose to not get involved are partially to blame.

She’s definitely a narcissist. When my ex and I broke up, the thought of “not sharing “ my son never even came to mind. My son loves his dad and I could never imagine keeping him from him, no way.

@cherryjuice2777

4 жыл бұрын

It's just so egocentric! My daugthers father leaved us before she was even born, but if he will may come back and wanna be a part of her life, even than, I will give him the chance that she can get to know him. How a mother can take a child the father, she knows from the start, will i never understand.

@ashleyjane6868

4 жыл бұрын

That’s because you are a normal loving human

@crystalelrod6817

4 жыл бұрын

That’s what a good mother feels. I couldn’t imagine hurting my kids like that and as a decent person, I couldn’t hurt their father like that.

The way she pushes Huxley away is heartbreaking 💔 9:23

Any psychologists watching this woman? Isnt there a law overseas which legally binds you guys to report any child abuse you witness? Cant any action be taken against this "mother"? The hateful look on her face while giving Huxley that toy was chilling. Her eyes were piercing. Shocking! Just shocking!

@fuzbugg

3 жыл бұрын

Shani Marais i found that moment very creepy

@jamesprovost2602

3 жыл бұрын

Time stamp I can’t sit through this entire Thing lmao

@Bar_Bar27

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. The Psychopathic Stare.

@kathymc234

3 жыл бұрын

That look chilled you? I could tell you stories.

@tayloranderson7547

2 жыл бұрын

Guys to report any child abuse you witness cannot attention against this mother hateful on her face while giving Hudson that toy car chilling eyes were piercing shock just shock

Yep, I felt the same way when my ex husband I divorced. I was very narcissistic. I'm in behavioral therapy now for over 5 years and I'm doing a lot better as a person and a mom. I'm also autistic along with a few other things that make it even harder but I'll never give up trying to be better

@The_Whimsical_Stenographer

4 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you realized you needed help and pray for you. Realizing you have a problem and seeking help us huge. You should be very proud of yourself. I hope this lady does the same before it's too late.

@amee1357

3 жыл бұрын

Amazing ! You are becoming the best version of yourself and I wish you the best in your journey

@Juliedixe97

3 жыл бұрын

You’re amazing, keep working on yourself, you will succeed!

@nomemeshere4807

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! Congrats and good luck on your journey with yourself and your family ♡

@luanaboavista2635

3 жыл бұрын

Yes queen!!

Myka's face looking at Huxley like that broke my heart. I can't imagine what he went through when cameras were off💔

She's pulling the emotional puppet strings of the children for her own self interest. It's so gross and just cold.

These days social medias literally ruin authentic bonds between human beings. Everyone everywhere nowadays is trying rather hard to becoming the next Kardashians, documenting their every moves to gain public validation. How sad.

@Mels0103

3 жыл бұрын

I think it's more the human beings that were already awful are now on social media. Let's not blame websites for ruining bonds.

@hgks12

3 жыл бұрын

Social media didn't do anything. The responsibility is only on the people who use it.

@saeranchoi3343

3 жыл бұрын

Narcissistic and abusive parents have always existed. Having them constantly in front of camera just makes it easier to spot the abuse. Narcissists love attention, so no wonder the idea of becoming a social media influencer attracts them.

"My kids are super attached to me" that's probably due to trauma bonding lol

@sandras2624

3 жыл бұрын

:'(

@icebergrose8955

3 жыл бұрын

Yes she might give them away like Huxley or the dogs. I'll bet they're attached.

Myka Stauffer is going to kill you, LOLOLOLOL. You're really dissecting her under an electron microscope at this point. A great learning opportunity nonetheless. Great work as always.

@willowmoonstone6746

4 жыл бұрын

MazBringsby and I hope she keeps going! I find it absolutely fascinating. It actually teaches me so much about my life experiences too. It explains SO much for me.

@laurenmay2098

4 жыл бұрын

We learn a lot with cases like her, a lot, I love to watched the analysis, always great!!!

@Ragdollcatlover

4 жыл бұрын

The thing is, her children are going to be so damaged by this. Narcissists often wreck sibling relationships and play their kids off against each other which is awful. I guess Huxley has a lucky escape - I do hope he’s ok though. X

@corantinadias3945

4 жыл бұрын

You nail it . Thanks

@shrinkmesilly

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, Helen, that’s so true. It’s called triangulation and it’s pretty devastating. I was the ‘black sheep’ or ‘scapegoat’ of my family (because I spoke up against the mad dynamic, I was punished by being cast in the role of the ‘villain’), and until I realized in my older age what the dynamic actually was - I had many painful years of confusion and frustration and hurt upon hurt. Even now, hip to it all and having done much healing inside, I still struggle with the understanding that all of my siblings and I can’t be genuinely close. I’m free of the madness of the ‘clique’, but in doing so I’ve sacrificed almost all familial relationships, except on the most surface level. Though their closeness isn’t authentic either. Basically, nobody wins. I have more of myself though, authentically. I wish that for them. However, I’m realistic 🌼

Everyone is labelled as a narc lately. But let's see this one if she makes the cut! Edit:Few seconds in and so shocked 🤮 at this woman. It is like she almost taking pleasure in her childs pain and distress...like that annoying shit she did with the toothbrush instead of just comforting her with some affirmations.

@rexrad9735

3 жыл бұрын

I think this label is used so often these days because prior generations really didn't have a name for it. I think every generation is soaked with narcissist...but now people are calling it out for what it is.

I cried when Kova cried. Myka would rather put a camera in her crying daughter’s face then comfort her 😢 That moment hit me hard for some reason.

@blondegiraffe2023

3 жыл бұрын

It looks like she just loved the feeling of being wanted and if that wasn't enough.... Filmed it so the world could give her more attention

imagine her kids getting older and finding these kinds of videos about her.... i feel so bad for them growing up with these parents.

“I’m not sharing her.” It’s not about you!

@manichairdo6346

4 жыл бұрын

That was 2 years ago and she did relent.

@SarahBevElizabeth

4 жыл бұрын

I do think this is a common and normal thing for mothers to feel, especially if a separation happens early in the child’s life. BUT, it’s a feeling. Fighting in court when the child’s not at risk is too far.

@brookedobson7298

4 жыл бұрын

The worst thing was watching the little girl cry into the camera lens because she knows her mother only sees her there.

The last video broke my heart. You can see the annoyance and even hatred she feels. It reminded me of a time with my own father when I realized I didn't matter as much as his new wife and their kids. I was always second class to them. I feel so bad that Kova has to experience something like this and have it all documented online for the world to see.

She sounds like someone who would “run their own business” aka multi level marketing.

Wow. Myka looked at Huxley with disgust and contempt when giving him that toy. She is pure evil and she hated that child.

@nowirehangers2815

4 жыл бұрын

Yes that was absolute resentment.

@missscousemouth82

4 жыл бұрын

That upset me so much, little man Hux never asked for that life, he never needed toys and fawning over and parading in front of a camera. All he needed was 100% real genuine love and warmth. It breaks my heart what has happened to him but I'm so glad he's out of there. I can't imagine the level of resentment that would have built up towards him from her and the other kids (because of her) over more time.

@salem1281

4 жыл бұрын

@@emmt1256 the police report came out and said his new mommy and older siblings are great and love him a lot already. He's talking now! And getting the help, supervision, and love he deserves!

@s0lastsummer7

4 жыл бұрын

I still can't even fathom how she could feel that way about such a sweetheart. But I guess that's what sets her apart from "normal people".... no wonder he thought it was hilarious to refuse to kiss her when she asked. 😛

@jacyannc7381

4 жыл бұрын

Yes!!! Any normal mother smiles while giving a their child a gift! I know I do! So the look she gave him really said a lot ! She looked angry to be giving him anything!!!

9:13 killed me. Look at the excitement fade away from her face when she realized her mom was only giving her attention because she was recording. That had wanting to give her such a big hug 🥺

@kimmywimmy7305

3 жыл бұрын

It really did. Sweet little girl needs to be unconditionally loved 😔

@moirakizito4828

3 жыл бұрын

Waka 😂😂

@violettah878

3 жыл бұрын

Wow, you’re a great observer!

@alyssameshechek8298

3 жыл бұрын

Or the way she pushes Huxley out of camera view😡

@aterryadg

3 жыл бұрын

And only giving her a duty, nothing loving. And she never told her she will miss her when she leaves only her missing her mom.

From the outside, she seems to be such an amazing mom and has her life together. The total opposite of me as a mom. But looking closer I realize that the way I am with my kids emotionally is more important than anything else, and that gives me hope. Maybe I‘m not such a desaster after all. 🙏🏻

@icebergrose8955

2 жыл бұрын

The fact you even look at your parenting shows you're a good mum. Dont be so hard on yourself, all mums have doubts. I bet you're a great parent. It's not easy.

This video just made me realise I grew up with a narcissistic mother. I always thought of her as the best mom and she was great... she did the best she could. But seeing her now though adult-eyes and thinking back to my childhood, I think I only thought she was the best because she would keep saying it to me (how great of a mom she was and everything she did for her kids). She always did need praising and validation all the time and would often say that I was always “looking for attention” when I was younger. She also treated me like I was a friend when many times I needed her to be my mom. She’s old now so I can’t ask her to change, no point hurting her now... Just gets embarrassing when she talks to people and go “Aren’t my kids great? It’s because of me!”

The ‘friends’ thing from a mother really resonates. It’s been a situation that I’ve sensed my entire life. My mother treated me as a stranger as our relationship was breaking down. Good feelings from my teenage years, regarding mum, always felt like a good friendship, but also very precarious. I had to agree with her always, or else she wouldn’t be my ‘friend’. Thank you for uploading another super video on this subject. I’ll never stop trying to understand what makes these people tick.

@LiveAbuseFree

4 жыл бұрын

That would have been really stressful! My pleasure, I'm glad it's helpful to you 🤗

@freckleKaren

4 жыл бұрын

Gloria Vargo haha, I went through the same shit but with my REAL supposed best friend (at the time). one ostracized session too many and I was outta there, thankfully

@coleengoodell3550

4 жыл бұрын

My adult daughter does this to me. If I don't agree with everything she's saying or doing and praise her, she'll later describe the conversation or interaction as a fight. Going so far as to add to what was actually said or change what actually occurred. If not for my grandchildren, I'd have nothing to do with her.

@kathlenesmith830

4 жыл бұрын

Me too. I am now 48 and just now able to make the break. Super hard to watch but probably good for me to see.

Put the phone down and give your daughter a hug!! It's painful

I am so sad for these children. My heart is breaking.

I was raised by a narcissistic mother who lived as the world's most put upon martyr, and an alcoholic father. I just got free from a family full of dysfunction and gas lighting. I went full on no contact with the lot of them. I'm 63 and starting to heal. Problem is I've never been so isolated in my entire life. Making friends isn't anything like it was when I was young.

She talks about her daughter like her daughter is a purse....

She’s egging on the other daughter as well to get upset..... are you going to miss me as well, your not going to see me for 5 days.... is that a real miss you??? I wonder what Myka said to the eldest daughter before she got upset... she appeared to be enjoying it.

@EvanKashvi

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah that was BIZARRE. "was that a real miss you" uhhhh

@Fightbot01

4 жыл бұрын

I guarantee she was. I have step kids and their mom does this ALL the time ... she likes to escalate situations rather than deescalate and nurture and then she relishes in it all

@59snitt

4 жыл бұрын

Dee ,

@Fightbot01

4 жыл бұрын

59snitt yes?

@mimictt

3 жыл бұрын

This is how my narcissistic mother talked to me..

One of my friends is a narcissist. This behaviour is so spot on. The way she plays and strokes her hair is creepy.

This may sound odd but here goes. Any adult who gives a gift to a child that's in a box would try to remove the toy from the box. Weird lady who doesn't need any more children adoptive or biological.

@os2841

3 жыл бұрын

I also noticed this, it was weird that she did that. I guess she wanted to record on camera that she was giving him a NEW toy? Rather than handing him something off the floor of the room or something. To fake show what a great mother she is.

One of the positives of the Stauffer debacle was finding your channel. Your content is really insightful. Keep up the amazing work ☺️

@LiveAbuseFree

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much! 🤗

@bricy6437

4 жыл бұрын

Samantha Baines` if you haven’t seen her videos about her own experience with a narcissist hotel manager while on vacation, you have to see them. I still think about that story from time to time.

@AkuZeku

4 жыл бұрын

@@bricy6437 Do you know the title of that video? Thank you!

@bricy6437

4 жыл бұрын

Julia_Tara I don’t know them (there’s a few) off the top of my head but let me look 😁 kzread.info/dash/bejne/p3xqqbWRYaacYcY.html “how I responded to an angry narcissist”

@samanthabaines3578

4 жыл бұрын

@@bricy6437 thanks for letting me know, I'll take a look ☺️

It’s annoying that she goes for the camera for every single private moment especially ones that are supposedly showing proof she’s a good mom 🙄

Seeing how sad that sweet little girl was broke my heart

@AbbaZabbaOlyFrn

2 жыл бұрын

Holy crap! A child should not have that kind of look in their eyes, it's so heartbreaking 💔

If I could sit and talk with this woman about my problems for even thirty minutes I feel like I would walk away refreshed and relieved. Even if all she did was listen. Love your videos!